Pay Attention to the Women Who Want You

[@XxhadoukenxX]

There's a pimp that once said, "mess with the chick that like you, not the one you like." Changed my life, right away.

[@RomWills]

Pimps know the game the best.

[@gus9163]

Johnny Dollar

[@XxhadoukenxX]

@@gus9163 forgot his name, thanks brotha

[@afogbonjaiyewisdom9628]

I advise every man to have that short video on his phone and put it on repeat everyday, it helps reset the brain

[@jordyr1859]

​@@afogbonjaiyewisdom9628Can you share the name of that short video? I'd appreciate it

[@Dru2maBoii]

Never deal with a woman who isn't already crazy about you. That's an uphill battle.

[@fourthhokage8446]

Can you elaborate please?

[@Dru2maBoii]

@fourthhokage8446 When women like you, they make things easy for you. Especially when it comes to interacting with them. If you're trying to convince a woman to like you or make her interested, you're doing yourself a disservice. Attraction can't be negotiated.

[@afogbonjaiyewisdom9628]

if a woman choose you ,no matter how to do stupid stuff ,she will never get pissed off , if you sneeze and spit on her shoes, she will see it as fun ..

[@garthyahudahandrews8504]

@@fourthhokage8446a woman always wants your attention makes it clear and wants to FaceTime with you daily and know what you are doing there is no games or mystery

[@peezhead]

Yea man, it is a dangerous game to play...

[@paulcolin-fj9ns]

Always be dealing with women who are mad for you. Life is hard enough and they'll have your back and go to massive lengths for you which is priceless

[@zezeti2246]

So true,too many guys chase girls that aren't into them to start with and then wonder why it ends horrible

[@claytonmurray5004]

I wouldn't touch some women who are mad for me. Sorry, it's gotta be a two-way street but point is taken

[@Ihavehadmanynames7779]

Nothing but Tumbleweeds we’re im from. They’re all brainwashed and ignorant to most things. Id settle for fiona at this point if she would relate to me but they’re all little princesses that are too good for everyone around them

[@williamlevy6964]

Good advice but also flawed advice. A large portion of men especially young and old don't have any women interested in them. It's cruel to lead them on but it is still good advice.

[@reesexxzcg8554]

Some of them

[@gyozop]

Makes me remember this guy who chased my little sister increasingly uninvited and getting somewhat aggressive. So I went down to the gate to talk to him. Apart from intimidation I told him the same advice. Do not chase women that don't want you. Find those that will like you. If not, we will meet again.

[@lifestylemood]

u a good man bro, wouldve done the same for my own sister as well

[@Thadon33]

You did him a favor too. Hopefully, he learned from that because that will serve him all through life.

[@JuanRamónSilva-Piano]

This sounds good until you realize some women may want you because they have hidden interests.

[@KIDSOUL777]

You did bro a favor actually. You got him to see the error of his ways and invited him to see the light. So he can go off to women that really dig him. I've been through this very same thing with one of my nieces by keeping guys away from her that she doesn't like. But peep this... It's weird though that you can sometimes find your sister or nieces rejecting quality dudes and she ends up choosing one that did her dirty lol 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@manager4409]

she mightve teased him a bit and gave him the idea and his imagination took over. I know because I did that once lol. If they don't like a guy they need to completely ignore him. They will absolutely toy with you to get a reaction sometimes.

[@JustinGamana]

If the girl is not crazy for you, if she doesn’t reach a point where even people think she is foolish, if she doesn’t admire you like a superstar, you’ll go through unnecessary drama. The hard RED PILL isn’t even needed when you deal with women who really love you.

[@Woody2Times]

Truth only need red pill to deal with narcissists

[@Bluewildangel]

Agreed , jus can’t lose her

[@chrisc4507]

Cringe

[@evb2065]

Bro I had a girl act like she was crazy about me calling me 24/7, pulling up unannounced and wanted to see me everyday and pursued me when we first met ………. She ended up getting pregnant by someone else while we were f***** moral of the story Is when u find a good girl cherish her cause these hoes ain’t nun

[@kelsoriche3637]

Women don’t really love anyone but themselves

[@rich.chief0303]

All facts. My best relationships are always the ones where the woman chooses me first without me trying too hard. If i try too hard to get a woman it just doesnt feel right 😂

[@brettmedina8]

fr

[@hoottasshell]

Yeah because you're not a predator, you actually want a romantic relationship.

[@nenyeo6090]

That’s human nature. It’s easier dealing with men who want you too. Also, since when did y’all start being pathetic that you don’t want to take the steps necessary to pursue a relationship.

[@hoottasshell]

@@nenyeo6090 * trying too hard

[@theblackmonk3153]

@@nenyeo6090we are done with chasing women play to many games it’s better to date women who chase you first

[@lucianom.5855]

I rejected every woman that wanted me because I thought they weren’t my “type “. I then married the woman I chased. 17 years later she took me for 80% after treating me like a fan. I finally went for the woman that chased me. 4 years later she still chases me and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever had. And she’s half my age.

[@Andrew-hf7kj]

Half your age?🤨😬

[@lucianom.5855]

@@Andrew-hf7kj oh yes. Half my age. Would never date a woman my age or over 30. Not interested in being an emotional tampon.

[@v1mir36]

@@lucianom.5855please enlighten me on this, wouldn’t a older women be more beneficial maturity wise?

[@rcheese3094]

@@lucianom.5855erm bro how old are you and how old is she?

[@Mr.GothicDoctorDARK]

smart man

[@Calmstuff]

The game is easy when your dealing with a women that wants you

[@oliverchizz8148]

Str8 facts G...the game is supposed to be easy...if your trying too hard move on....

[@GreatTaiwan]

@@A_R_B_Gthere’s no game or appropriates it should be easy Have some self respect and don’t chase as a man it’s pathetic and disgusting to do

[@easypeasy8535]

To easy that I make em pay

[@K-xb2qz]

Facts. Almost every female I had was the one who wanted me. Everything was easy breezy. The woman I chased left me frustrated and confused 😅. 💯

[@RONDOUG]

This applies to life. You are what you attract and the effort/energy that you give to the world is what you also receive. When you work on yourself and hold yourself to a certain standard you also attract people who are on the same wavelength

[@E_GIBSON]

You also need to be able to discern and be conscious in your decision making. If you have focus, purpose and vision in life then you will not waste time or your energy on people or things that are not beneficial or productive. Ultimately I do agree with your comment, if you exude positive energy you will also be able to notice and attract the same in to your life.

[@RONDOUG]

@@E_GIBSON I agree 100000%

[@briangomez4496]

​@@E_GIBSONvery true when your purpose and your own life fufills you you won't need others validation/presence

[@BLACKMASKSOUL491]

@@RONDOUG Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy....?????

[@stevemaiden21]

"That's why you wanna develop yourself. And women are just the feedback." That's a good one I hadn't heard before, brother.

[@Joshugamesz]

Either accept the woman that wants you or level up and get the women you want

[@ChurlzVA]

Exactly

[@apeiron885]

I call it Urkels mistake. Going aftrer Laura and Myrah trying to holla the whole time 😂

[@quincyyoungbloodakajudah4-486]

100

[@jeromecastro3051]

And whole time Myrah raw af🔥

[@DG-qe2kw]

Facts !!

[@Thereisnomole-di7rt]

That is a great analogy ! I'm officially calling it the " Urkel Principal."

[@josephortiz9837]

This is biblical, there’s a part in the Bible where Jacob (I think) is looking for a wife for one of his sons. He sends a slave to go find a wife and tells him to go beg for water by a well. He tells him to bring back the one that offers water. Most reject him until finally one offers him water.

[@TheSamuraiGoomba]

Real character shines through.

[@adamp.8571]

This is real game OG. A lot of men mess themselves up by chasing women. We get caught up in the idea of a trophy wife. To where getting the “baddest woman” as a life achievement. Often we miss the bigger picture because we often chase after women that may not like us, but they will accept us because of what we can provide. Also by chasing women we miss out on the women who really like us like you said. That women that was feeling you before you established yourself is the one to hold on to. However, we say we can do better in our heads once we get a little change.

[@meyonmastermind7497]

That’s why I rarely discuss anything financial with a woman. Let her try to figure it out herself.

[@Sw1sher95]

My girl is crazy about me. And it honestly makes me feel lucky and I love her so much

[@1whospeaks]

This brother described all of life in 9 minutes what a G.

[@KT-gm1no]

Treat the sweet geeky girl right. She will show you love like never before. But know that if you leave you won’t be able to come back

[@quincyyoungbloodakajudah4-486]

She a always let me back..

[@KT-gm1no]

@@quincyyoungbloodakajudah4-486 she must really love you!

[@Boohooooo]

I’m glad younger people get to hear this.. I had to learn it on my own and I didn’t get it until I was between 25-27.

[@CharleyBlumer17]

I'm also 25 and finally fully understanding how dating/relationships truly work. Should be teaching us this shit in school how to build and maintain relationships (both friends and beyond friends)

[@Enlightened_Healings]

​@@CharleyBlumer17what about it didn't you get? Just curious exactly what you felt clicked that you didn't catch your whole life

[@CharleyBlumer17]

@@Enlightened_Healings I'm gonna completely honest, i have no idea. This must've came on suggested while i was really baked and half falling asleep lol apparently something clicked enough for me to comment though. I never had anyone to teach me about women so i learned a lot of things the hard way if that answers your question though.

[@killbill95100]

What helped you to keep relationships, i'm struggling with this?@@CharleyBlumer17

[@GreatTaiwan]

@@CharleyBlumer17as far as u still say we should have learned this at X u still didn’t fully get life yet Things takes time and place School is not place for that rather u have mental capacity for that

[@SickWithAbundance]

Appreciate every women that shows interest in you (don't exploit, use, or mistreat them). Instead, be supportive, loving, kind, and generous toward them, then God will surely bless you: with a beautiful, loyal, and loving partner.

[@hoottasshell]

Remember: The "uglier" you become, the more attractive more people become, the more attractive you become, the more "ugly" most people become. Be wise and humble.

[@GreatTaiwan]

And remember ugly and attractive is 90% looks everything else afterwards

[@lamelobowling5552]

A good woman can lift you to heaven, filling your days and nights with music. On the other hand, a bad woman can hurl you down to hell. Have to be careful, think accurately, and stay above your emotions as a man.

[@schophi]

Great video Unc. Your main relationship is with yourself. The people you attract are a reflection of who you are. That's just basic psychology and physics. If you want to get the best, you gotta be the best.

[@RomWills]

💯💯💯

[@righteousmasculine]

Exactly I learned this in the book csll the way of the superior man

[@pumitriii6160]

physics? how?

[@voorhees3340]

@@pumitriii6160 i would guess it is useful if you use it as a metaphor to do with energy or something

[@maximumpotential3796]

All throughout my life, I have turned down women who shows interest. At the same time getting rejected by the ones i show interest to. Realised the women who like me were showing what my level is.

[@SpeedsGamer]

"Realised the women who like me were showing what my level is" Dang.... That actually clicked something in my mind

[@RVmaestro24]

The women who like you are showing you what your mind believes your level is. Work on yourself brother it will get better

[@maximumpotential3796]

@@SpeedsGamer it certainly will

[@maximumpotential3796]

@@RVmaestro24 sometimes it's not just the mind, it's the reality. The reality in which the other person sees us, irrespective of how we feel like.

[@RVmaestro24]

@@maximumpotential3796 what we call reality is based on our emotions so if you feel you don't deserve good women you wont attract them, it's all about our subconscious beliefs, but yeah of course it's impossible to attract every single woman that's delusional

[@SongmanKK]

True facts Rom. I used to go to a bakery before the pandemic, and there was this quiet, pretty Caribbean woman who worked there, who I rarely talked to, unlike the small talk I frequently made with her extrovert, female boss. One day I caught her slyly checking me out though. After the pandemic, the shop closed down, and one day when I was walking out of a train station (wearing a mask) I was totally surprised when she confidently approached me, introducing herself, as she now worked there. Basically, when a woman is really into you, her feelings will eventually come out when she gets a chance. And if you like her also, go for it 100%, like I did with her.

[@KlancyP]

I’m definitely not the best looking man out here. Maybe average or a little below but had the opportunity to feel what it’s like to have a cute woman want me really bad and honestly, there’s no going back

[@theblackmonk3153]

Exactly it’s hard to settle once you have been chased by a baddie

[@dhmtube4454]

That’s when it works best to be honest! But as men we always chase those that don’t want us and ignore the ones that want us 😂

[@senglomein5766]

Yessir. Someone told me awhile back _the people we find attractive, their level of attractiveness is equal to what we believe our own level of attractiveness is_ if you think about it too much you'll just complicate the concept. Its crazy how much of life, is all based on what you think and focus on, and changing ones inner monologue opens your eyes to totally different worlds, and its never too late to try on another.

[@IEdjumacate]

This is very false information.

[@senglomein5766]

@@IEdjumacate thank you for your contribution.

[@texoo4463]

women are dating up not down so women who reaaallly want you are less attractive than you are

[@hrinn]

so youre saying if i'm attracted to a model, i believe that my own level of attractiveness is that of a model? this is just backwards thinking lol

[@senglomein5766]

@@hrinn experiencing a person in the flesh is different than looking through a fashion magazine and lusting over photos of someone who you know that you will never meet. If you met that model in person, you may not even find them all that attractive, and theres many reasons for that: their prescence, maybe their energy isnt compatible with yours, they dont seem to like you whatsoever, you find their voice offputting, etc etc. Attraction is sooo many things that arent what we see directly infront of us, ya know?

[@dearquan]

I’ve noticed girls from all ethnicities checking me out but since I grew up with very low self-esteem due to child hood trauma it’s like I can’t even get over that hurdle but believe me I’m working on the confidence thing every day, even seeked therapy for it so I’m doing the work. However, I’ll see some beautiful Caucasian fit chick staring at me and I’ll just think like “damn, okay she’s checking me out … this is awkward” because of how backwards my mind is especially when I used to only get attention from Latina women because I’m Latino. I’d also like to include that these past few years my relationship with God grew tremendously and I feel that that has also caused my energy to be more inviting - I just feel it. I’m a better person now

[@exodia_2299]

Another Latino . I thought I was the only one waz up man

[@CHRISTIAN_ROCK]

🔥🔥🔥

[@texasstar5]

💯💯

[@isiahstubbs]

Sweet!.I'm happy for you!.may God bless u!!.

[@shh711]

Women cant be your future, over your future. It will always be awkward because they are their own being. You let them check you out & do you unless your life is set up to accomodate a woman

[@dcuthbertson5778]

This is probably the best advice a grown man could give a younger male. It will save a lot of heartaches. I wish I would’ve did this when I was younger

[@melissachartres3219]

1. The police are not your friends. 2. Consent to sex is consent to fatherhood, so be careful. 3. Start to save for old age early- those spinning rims will not vest when you retire. 4. No to drugs. 5. Take care of your health... emotional and otherwise.

[@moonguy30]

Damn. This is your most popular video!! I can see why! Life is easier when you holla at the women who want you. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!

[@zb2747]

Facts. After this I’d add you gotta figure out if she’s genuinely interested in you or interested in what you can provide and do for her ONLY

[@lisheltonanderson8645]

Yessir, this is the comment here fellas.

[@Virgoflower-h2w]

Most women really want you. The other stuff is a plus but she may show you by small gestures "gifts" first that says, I'm interested in you sir not your money, I have my own. If she says, let's go on a trip she's not asking you pay; she's saying, she's going anyway would you like to pay your way and join her? Now if you choose to add in on her part cool but she is already prepared with hers. (Just thought I'd let you know there are some really good women down for you out here not looking for a come up they're up already).

[@jasonwilliams9307]

​@@Virgoflower-h2whappy early birthday

[@Virgoflower-h2w]

@@jasonwilliams9307 Thank You, I appreciate that🥰

[@sandman1347]

As the pimps used to say back in the day, deal with the woman who wants you, not the woman you want.

[@conchitasnacks]

When I was stationed in Germany i kept getting turned down on dances, and the German girls would tell you like there not attracted to you, how dare you talk to them, but i just love to go out, next thing you know, i notice a lot of German checking me out, made me realize to stop going after the girls that i just thought looked amazing, and start having fun and dance with girls who wanted to get to know you. Only thing i can tell you is , it made me realize, there is a huge difference how a women treats you when she like you, compared to a women you were chasing and really she never was really interested in you.

[@osikanii]

How I wish I knew this in my 20s. They should be teaching all of this in high schools.

[@jaws2003]

I've always liked this message and the one you've done a few years ago about "different cites and results, and different cities have different energies".

[@babyluvjr]

My moms told me that very thing when I started dating back in my high school days..." u mess up because you don't choose the girls that want YOU, u pick and chase the ones YOU want!"

[@kostaspapas3202]

Thats just straight up bad advice

[@juliandavis9711]

@@kostaspapas3202Isn't it the same thing this man is saying?

[@babyluvjr]

@juliandavis9711 indeed it is bro....Indeed it is...facts

[@babyluvjr]

@kostaspapas3202 far from bad advice

[@babyluvjr]

@kostaspapas3202 when u LOOK at it deeper, the advice is basically give the ones that want YOU a chance and u may find that what they have to OFFER u may be a WAY better situation than what YOU are UNSUCCESSFULLY chasing after.

[@KeionJones]

Best advice I’ve seen here in terms of dating. When you pay attention to women that want you, no games are being played and everything is going smoothly. Only pay attention to those who are interested. Sometimes the one you want isn’t necessarily the one you need. The wrong woman can be poisonous to a man and make him miserable. You don’t have to be the most drop dead gorgeous man to get a woman, so long as the presentation is on point.

[@RomWills]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@youngOG87]

I’ve realized this early in my 20s. You might be able to win a girl over just enough to get a few dates or even sleep with her. But as soon as that little bit of attraction is gone she’s gone. She could also be entertaining you while she’s pursuing the man she really wants. A woman who really likes you and is pursuing you is the much safer bet if you’re looking for real commitment.

[@Gary1q2]

VERY TRUE, THE WOMEN WHO ARE INTO YOU ARE A REFLECTION OF YOU!!!!

[@dans1454]

This is so true. I actually play a game when I walk down the street. I try to guess which women will make eye contact with me and see how accurate I am. There's certain types of women that have a high chance of making eye contact and there's other type of women that pretty much never do. Of course if she's in a relationship or busy on her phone then it's different usually, but I just find it interesting how women really do have preferences and if you fall into that category they will check you out. It's then your job as the man to either smile or at least say hey. Women will almost never initiate the conversation, even if they fancy you like crazy.

[@RPHRETAINGANG]

Women start convo..they go off the energy you exude

[@treestump621]

UUUHHH but thing is just because a female look at u dont mean she checking u out tho

[@joshuatravis4766]

You always find out who have high interest in you when you get in an official relationship...my Uncle always told me when a woman really wants you, she doesnt care who you with...even having thoughts of trying to convince your woman to share...and right after high school, couple years into college, met a young lady, we did our thing for a while and when i broke up with her , she said whenever you get another woman with tears falling down her eyes, she said can i talk with her about sharing you ...she said i dont care if it's 10 20 years from now...dead serious too

[@_noigbdot]

Throughout high school this very concept become crystal clear. The first time I chase a woman, she put me in the friend zone and i continuously flirted with her and gave her attention and on the phone every night but that was as far as that went. My older brother threw cold water on me and told me “The girl you like don’t want you and the girls you don’t like wants you”. I woke up and stop having “crushes” and start hitting the gym and start focusing on me. I drop that girl and she begged me to come back but didn’t fold and moved on. After I stop playing the race, Im now getting women who chasing me

[@fuhyou3223]

Some signals can be misread. You can THINK a woman might like you but if another man comes around and she’s smiling her face off at him, you might wanna rethink how she views you. That’s happened to me recently. Ultimately I think a man and woman should like each other. A woman can like me all day but who cares if I’m not interested in her. I don’t think it’s a good thing when you’re tolerating a woman simply because she “chose up” on you. I don’t want some super needy obsessed woman that’s only gonna make me look for the exit sign.

[@8040i]

Talk that talk unc, 4 years in watching your videos and you still ain’t wrong 🤌🏼🤷🏽‍♂️

[@RomWills]

🙏🏾

[@trickyok]

Ron Wills you are a man of wisdom. I watched this video a couple days before a party, and ended up with a girl asking for MY snap. Fellas, focus on building up your garden and butterflies will come to you.

[@polepino]

I took this as "Get in where you can fit in" AND something that a friend of mine told me a long time ago that doesn't make sense at first but the more you think about, it does ring true; "you are who you attract." I totally agree with Rom here, its about YOU not the women, its self reflection. Women aren't the 'problem,' YOU are and always, that's the only thing you can really change directly. Work on yourself always.

[@deejayjuicebox7623]

"Women don't want to win, they want a winner." - Patrice O'Neal

[@jlavoninfinite]

Facts Rom, paying attention can save you a lot of time and energy!

[@theherbpuffer]

3:53 is some of the best free game ive ever heard in my 35 years of life!!

[@PcYouJest1]

I'm at work and this beautiful girl is literally staring at me for over 10 minutes while she's getting her order taken. I look back and smile, then smile again; but she just kept staring without blinking. I then approached her afterwards when I went to the front and she kept staring, but my manager told me he'd fire me if I went up and got her number.. I'm noticing more attention from beautiful women and I'm really happy that the common denominator to that is me. Thanks for the video, unc!

[@Lorenzconnok]

40 years old here - this advice is 100% gold. Its simply thee correct way to live as a man, full stop.

[@itsfree2payattention465]

Me and my wife worked together before I knew her good I only saw her on shift change . Soon as I locked eyes with my wife I wanted her but assumed she was taken. Well I left that job and my cousin who still worked there said she kept asking about me so he told her call me 😂 she did 😊 i dropped all the women i had to be with her because she was who i was searching for. We been married a year now

[@poetsrear]

Inspiring 🤩

[@diligenceeke3023]

Luck you had a woman seek you out. Not many man are that lucky

[@itsfree2payattention465]

@@diligenceeke3023 facts

[@Woody2Times]

Real miracle cause I’d never date a woman I’m working with, then again you left the job and she was checking for you so green flag 👍🏾

[@Woody2Times]

@@diligenceeke3023he stayed mysterious enough

[@ZekeBrewer]

Also if you're chasing a woman who don't like you, you're doing so in hopes that she'll someday change her mind. That aint gonna happen. Make it easier on yourself, there are plenty of fine women who already are interested in you if you just look.

[@shadowgod7523]

Yea, mos definitely agree!! Salute!

[@KingJerbear]

This video is as real as it gets. When I was younger in my "wild" days, I was running around partying nonstop and always looking for trouble. I had a young lady expressing interest at work but I kept pushing her aside because she wasn't "exciting" enough for the lifestyle I thought I was looking for at the time. I finally wizened up and gave it a shot, and now I am happy to call that beautiful woman my wife and we've been together for just under 10 years now, with a beautiful home and a happy marriage. She helped me to drop that toxic lifestyle and become the man I was meant to be, she also softened me up and helped open up my more emotional side which I think is very important to truly becoming a man.

[@prod.kashkari3075]

Me, 22M right now, pushing a girl off to the side as well speak because I feel she isn’t “wild” enough for me. Yeah maybe I should just get a grip and focus on who wants me.

[@trapbois4573]

ngl it's hard to change habits though. I loved partying back in college and meeting new people all the time. But now that I'm cuffed, I feel like the change in my lifestyle had a negative affect on my happiness. My girl by far does not bring any drama or toxicity in my life and so its always refreshing to see her. However, I don't know not having fun friends is actually depressing me.

[@ellisjackson3355]

I will always love this message. Thanks

[@JMichael-e4y]

This will change your life. You change yourself and you go for what likes you.

[@90syungin51]

That’s why I rock with your content and you as a person and man Uncle Rom. I see so many men blaming women and complaining and not taking a look at themselves. If you keep attracting that, take a look in the mirror and work on yourself. I always respect the accountability and more men need to hold themselves accountable

[@zaykenne]

most important part “only thing they all have in common is you, you want to change yourself” 💯

[@marvindiaz8523]

Unc is right, Deal with women that like you! Why deal with a 8, 9, or that 10 when you have a 7 or adjustable 6 that will treat you like a king! Better experiences with women who show high interest.

[@MaroonTiger]

Dont buy a bugatti if you cant afford the upkeep.. get and keep the woman that you can actually afford and will give you love

[@NathanDarby-ke8dj]

adjustable 6 ? Hahaha

[@terranceburrs5832]

@marvindiaz I disagree with this. Never settle for less or it will come back to haunt you. I believe in dealing with 8,9, and 10s who also view you that way, and if no 8,9, or 10s show any interest, then I believe I have to put in the work and improve myself to qualify for what I want instead of settling for what I don't want.

[@marvindiaz8523]

@terranceburrs5832 I agree with you, if the 8,9, or 10 are showing high interest by all means engage them. My comment was geared towards those situations were men disregard the 6 or 7 who are showing high interest for the 8,9,10 who are displaying medium to low interest. I'd rather be treated like the King I am by a slightly less physically attractive women then be treated like a commener, or peasant by a slightly better looking women.

[@terranceburrs5832]

@@marvindiaz8523 I understood what you said. And I'm saying we shouldn't have to settle for the 6 or 7 because the 8, 9, or 10 is showing us no interest. Put in the work and develop ourselves until we get to the place where we are attracting the 8, 9, and 10s. That 6 or 7 may possibly treat you great, but the relationship will still suffer because the high attraction level is not there. And then when a 8, 9, or 10 come your way who has very high interest now you are tempting yourself to cheat because that 6 or 7 is not what you truly want, you just settled for that because you felt the 8, 9, and 10 wasn't showing interest.

[@FabianMc-Law]

Rom Wills, your advice on," Pay Attention to the Women Who Want You" is greatly appreciated, Sir. Thanks for sharing. 👍🏾😊

[@heyPrince3]

Thank you about this advice sir. As a 21 year old man who’s been working on his fitness levels and studies this was more than needed as I never paid the attention that you told us to do in the video towards the women that liked me. I paid attention to the ones that were out of my circle or as you call it tribe and I never had the success I wanted. This advice was truly an eye opener especially for men who are busy working on themselves. You’ve earned a new sub!

[@RomWills]

💯

[@ofacid3439]

I've made those mistakes dozen times. Ignored the ones who loved me and chased the ones who didn't care. Looking back it's very hard to realise I've fuсked it all up

[@charlesor1023]

this! It's a concept that took me a while to understand, about the importance of accepting rejection and seeing it as something that is actually necessary and even beneficial. When I understood that there was no point in pursuing someone who didn't love me, that it wasn't personal, I started to see who did and I found a wonderful woman.

[@simonthebest4114]

This is so true looking back on my relationships and my fumbles in the past. And it's so refreshing to hear because there's so much "dating advice" out there that's teaching men to be predatory and not just their best selves

[@deadheadronin1392]

After talking to friends, family and watching people talk on youtube, this video is the best dating advice I have ever heard you make it so simple to understand this whole dating game. preach on !

[@guard4617]

Had this one job that hired hella supermodel looking women. I figured out that I’m a pretty attractive man to a lot of girls I would consider 9/10s. And ofc I start to realize it too late and I don’t work there anymore. That place definitely inflated my ego tho

[@LuFromThe041]

One of your most viewed & best videos Uncle Rom!!! 👍🏿

[@Teimo]

2:00 is the harsh truth. Just cause a woman looks at you and smiles, does not mean she's interested in getting to know you. I feel like a lotta guys need this advice.

[@omarvalenzuela3851]

Bro got me taking notes.

[@fitforfreelance]

Great point 💯 always take care of yourself!

[@ronaldblack-zb4yn]

Ol school gems dropping on this platform.

[@MMM1MM]

There's a lot of truth to what he's saying. In my experience I've gotten dates with girls who didn't really show much interest in me, but that first date was as far as it went. Then there's been girls who were practically throwing themselves at me, making it almost TOO EASY to get them in bed, 'cause I could tell almost immediately that they were into me. The women choose, as much as we like to pretend that us men have the power.

[@caryg4638]

Men control commitment and relationship. Women control access to them in the first place...

[@Genevasplaytime]

They choose but we men can say yes or no. All my life I rejected women beneath me who were trying to date up. I ain't playing around with hypergamy male ego is stronger if you are built of granite and patience

[@GreatTaiwan]

@@Genevasplaytimetrue u have self respect something sadly becoming rarer with time

[@aldoringo439]

The thing is it makes sense because if attractiveness is subjective, which I beleive it is, then every one will be attractive to someone. You just have to notice it, and respond to it.

[@beyondcalisthenics]

Thanks!

[@RomWills]

Thanks for your support.

[@BornaLoncaric3]

This is top notch advice right there. Everything starts from yourself - attracting women isn't an exception. You want a classy woman? Become the class first. High income? Earn a lot first. Hard working etc... You see what I'm getting at.

[@williamt9058]

I like the way he said that; when you chasing a woman that doesn’t want you that’s how you get played

[@jerzeeguy9093]

Bro! You So cool - YOU COLD! And you're preaching some good stuff. 👍🏽

[@jerzeeguy9093]

Just subscribed. ✌🏿

[@Robinson8491]

I had a woman disrespecting me once, and first i blamed her but then realized i needed to change and man up, and make up for the masculine traits i was lacking. You're spitting truth bombs right here my brother

[@melissachartres3219]

spouting... not spitting.

[@Robinson8491]

@@melissachartres3219 I was thinking like a rapper, but you are correct. Truth bombs are spouted

[@RoDaCreator]

Dang Rom, first impression and I'm blown away by the knowledge you just dropped on my noggin. Preciate the Gems, will apply!

[@billybrooks4956]

Bless up brother Rom This one was pure facts that we must utilizes to stay safe and healthy.

[@kalonjeebless]

One of the best advice to get as a young man from a senior man. Thank you Sir; ya Message carries so much wisdom.

[@damonwade9476]

Peace to you brother rom ✌🏾

[@xxrkg8437]

I wish I followed this when I was in middle and high school

[@roystongibbs7189]

I'm heading to work about 4:28 am on the I-10. There was an accident in the two left lanes, and I myself almost caused a second accident. That moment, I put my hazards on, grabbed both flashlights, and directed traffic away from the two left lanes. Called the authorities and maintained order. Salute

[@ReveCodi69]

I often thought the same. It really dosent matter if you have mac or come off as a nice guy. They choose from the moment they see if you are a yay or nay.

[@jamessutton9874]

Rom I appreciate your down to earth information, what I like is you not giving advice on slick talking.

[@AlbertRodriguez991]

Good information King 💯

[@TheDylanSmith]

Man i appreciate it a lot. Given me a new outlook on life and its what i needed right now.

[@luud3715]

As an 18 year old guy I completely agree about everything you said. Thank you

[@Eric-rm4uu]

Only thing you can control is you, only thing you can change is you, look at yourself and work on yourself. Thanks for the advise Ron

[@maravilloso002]

Now that I'm in a relationship, it's a lot easier to spot women who have high or low interest in me. When I'm out w/ my lady either in public or at the few church events of hers I attend, I quickly pick up the room very fast. A lot of women at church be hella thirsty. When I'm by myself working, lifting, or shopping, seeing women go out of their way to get w/in an eyeshot of me just makes me laugh. These are things a few years ago I would've ignored or not payed attention to. If the women aren't my cuppa tea looks wise, I simply avert my attention elsewhere like they don't even exist. After all, you can't bribe your d*ck, so if a woman can't make you hard on site don't pursue anything and walk away. You'll be surprised how much harder they try to get attention when you ignore them, but that's a different story entirely. It's easier to walk away from any kind of resistance too, no matter who it is.

[@righteousmasculine]

This is facts

[@KIDSOUL777]

Facts. It's like a mans stock increases when in a relationship. If women know that a man can take care of and bring comfort to a woman in a relationship, it peaks the interest of other women. If a man have a good reputation for knowing how to treat women it follows... However, I learned it can be good or bad for other women having interest even if a man's already taken. Good in the sense that if it doesn't work out a mans other options are guaranteed. Bad because if a relationship is good, one can be easily tempted by those options. If a man don't have self-discipline and self control that man will cheat.

[@maravilloso002]

@@KIDSOUL777 facts

[@menacelast2796]

Hmm

[@HumbleTestimonies121]

❤❤

[@msorobia]

The common denominator is you. It all starts and ends with you. Can apply this to every area of life... Thank you for speaking the truth!

[@MaroonTiger]

It also pays to have women friends.. to help you point out the women who arent good for you.. and this might be hard if you dont know GAME that women have, cant read their energy/intentions, lack boundaries and if you have poor taste in women I think a major factor is that alot of men dont seek LOVE and dont know what it feels to be loved… if you dont seek love, alot of 🐍’s can crawl into your life If all she does is show up for a date, and doesnt check on you, doesnt compliment you, doesnt consider where you are in life, gives you short answers, gives you MAYBE for commitments, breaks commitments, gives you days late replies, why are you chasing her? Men need to understand what they qualify for and what each tier gets them and costs them with women

[@Deviitt11]

that 3rd paragraph is painful yet so true, best comment I've ever read, couldn't agree more, just facts 🙌🏼

[@GreatTaiwan]

How to trust that WOMEN friend ?

[@Ooooooommmmpph]

how do you increase tiers man@@bambinojas

[@Bigsuitez]

Where ever you go, there you are.

[@Khandomain]

Og went off with this one 🙌 💯 👏

[@raptorcheesus]

funny how this got recommended to me since i read a few incel forum posts out of a reddit discussion. i know all this stuff and have a good relationship with my gf but kudos to you keep teaching them boys x)

[@warrengomez67]

Agreed Uncle Rom. The women with high interest will always make it easy to facilitate getting together. They will be more open to sex. The only problem I’ve seen, is the average guy misses a lot of choosing signals or just flat out unaware of his surroundings. Reading non-verbal cues is important.

[@dawapenjordorji]

I think this video may have just opened my eyes mister. For the past month or so, I've stayed dismissive of two smart and sweet girls who've actively showed interest and instead spent my time thinking of someone who I'm certain isn't even interested. Thank you for the advice!

[@Takeoff10_]

I don’t do the 1-10 scale. I do the 1 or 0. I would or I wouldn’t. I also don’t have a type. My type is who ever wants me the most.

[@HectorPizarroOfficial]

Thank you for the classy suggestions