People Being REALLY INSECURE

[@quietworld2267]

"at least they know i'm a rich bitch" god I love her energy 😂. We stan a queen who stands up to jerks 😌😌

[@chloeeng6811]

i hate her boyfriend for feeling inferior because she make more money

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: Shame on his friends for jumping to conclusions like that. And shame on her boyfriend for not coming to her defense. The true colors of him and his friends came out on that one. 5:21: If he didn't contribute to the finances on the house, his name shouldn't be on the title. She was wise to not put his name on the title. Conclusion: This is also a perfect example of the double standards on how men and women are treated on issues such as finances.

[@LL-zw2qb]

Even if he did contribute to the finances of the house, his name should not be on it if they are not married. If he weren't living with her he would have to pay rent to live somewhere so him contributing to the finances doesn't entitle him to half of her house and the fact that he told his parents that is a big red flag.

[@Kayenne54]

Anyone said anything like that to me, in those circumstances, and I'd turn it back on them, instantly. "so if it was BF who got the house, I could expect him to put my name on the title deed, without me contributing even one red cent to it all? Wouldn't that make me a gold digger??".

[@Kyutie.]

Hii! Just realized it might be confusing since the story cuts to a new one fast, so here are the timestamps! Two different separate stories! (Story 1 0:05 - Boyfriend gets mad his girlfriend says the truth) (Story 2 5:21 - Boyfriend gets mad he doesn't get half the house) What are your thoughts on these?! What would you do?

[@aaaaaaaaaaaaaa2374]

Dump them. They aren’t worth my time

[@js8303]

Story 1: Good on the girl for sticking up for herself! Those friends brought it on themselves for being misogynistic and commenting on her wealth. I don’t get why the boyfriend was more concerned about himself then his friends saying that stuff about his girlfriend? OP girl is def NTA! Story 2: He didn’t even contribute so why would she include him? He should be grateful she’s even letting him live with her. Also- what is it with these people and calling their GFs a bitch??? All because they don’t get their way? OP is NTA!

[@booklover1298]

@@js8303 The women in both stories should dump their boyfriends. The boyfriend in the first story should've said something to his friends. I agree that the boyfriend in the 2nd story should be grateful that the woman is letting him live with her. The boyfriend, his parents, and his family are all in the wrong for saying that his name should be on the title for the house and they shouldn't have said the other things they said.

[@markcollins2666]

@@js8303, this is by no means over, as long as she allows him to stay there. the problem here is he is putting her property, over his honest commitment to marrying her. HE should be in a position to giving HER a home!!! His half of her property, and not marriage, is what he wants. Ditch him NOW!!!!

[@notsofunnyjokes1040]

@@markcollins2666 especially of him not even committing after three years if she's not the one after 18 months then stop

[@ruejanea]

Both of these are the epitome of "throw the whole boyfriend away"

[@not.so.social]

Exactly

[@booklover1298]

1st Story: OP did the right thing when she defended/stuck up for herself. Her boyfriend's friends were making misogynstic/disrespectful/rude comments. Her boyfriend should've said something to his friends. OP should dump her boyfriend. 2nd Story: OP did the right thing when she didn't put her boyfriend's name on the house title. The boyfriend didn't help pay the tax. He also doesn't pay any rent. He doesn't deserve to have his name on the title of the house. The boyfriend should be grateful/appreciative that she is allowing him to live with her. The boyfriend, his parents, and his family members are in the wrong. OP should dump her boyfriend, make him move out, and then change the locks. The changing the locks would be so the boyfriend wouldn't be able to get back in the house if OP dumps him and makes him move out.

[@deannal.newton9772]

I would also add that in the second story the girl's own family should be involved as well considering how her boyfriend and his family are basically harassing her for having something that they're not even entitled to in the first place. At least when her family is involved in the mix, they would back off on her.

[@qbbi]

The girl in the first story had the *best* comebacks lol. I’m writing these down

[@melindadube5199]

"ain't no gold to dig not with him or anyone'" what a come back

[@JesusKreist]

Story 1: It *DEFINITELY* is time to go dating again and search a boyfriend. That one OP has is not even close to adequate. Story 2: The main difference why the *HUSBAND* of one sister is on the title and the *BOYFRIEND* of the other sister is not mainly is contribution to costs. The husband of the sister with the bigger house does pay half, the boyfriend of the sister with the smaller house does not, but expects her to just give her half the house for absolutely nothing in return? You do not get legally stuff for free. Especially you are not gifted half a house worth multiple tens of thousands of dollars. He and his family have shown their true faces. They are not interested in OP at all, all they care about is the gold they can dig. It is honestly not a bullet, but an artillery shell she dodged. Same advice as in story #1.

[@valeriebrathwaite8541]

He never said he wouldn't help pay, she just refused and paid herself. If he's willing to pay i think she should let him help out and put both their names on it. If he doesn't pay than leave in her name.

[@notsofunnyjokes1040]

@@valeriebrathwaite8541 okay even still they're boyfriend and girlfriend of three years he hasn't made the commitment to want to marry her. If he was her fiance that's another story but I'm not giving some guy a title to the house if we break up because he now owns part of it. That's a huge commitment to want to give someone title to a house if you're just boyfriend and girlfriend and for his parents to gaslight her and for him to call her a bitch and being manipulative, I'd drop him in a heartbeat it's be a waste of three years together but I'm not letting someone disrespectful over a goddamn house that wasn't meant for him

[@JesusKreist]

@@valeriebrathwaite8541 Listen to the story once more. His parents celebrate that she *GIFTED* their son half her house. After telling them she did not because he only is a boyfriend and not contributing, he accuses her of blackmailing him into marriage. He never specifically said he wouldn't help to pay, but he specifically got mad that he was expected to help to pay.

[@spookymoo5832]

Free-rent needs the boot. I'd get out of that relationship ASAP that's such a huge red flag

[@Aerodil]

Kyutie, the earrings and hat are super adorable. I love that you change it up when making these videos. It shows you care about the video making.

[@bsouthmama3010]

#1 You go girl 👏👏 #2 Who cares what HIS family says. It’s her house, plain and simple. And how exactly is she blackmailing him into marriage? She’s NOT

[@urfavclairebear08]

I’ve literally been binge watching your videos over the summer, your videos are just so comforting

[@jacquelinesoto5447]

I like the first story so far “at least I’m a rich b*tch”😂😂

[@rishiii8t814]

2:13 & 3:07 If someone I was dating said that, even if it was about me, I’d be so freaking proud of them! That attitude is so cool, so if I was in love with that person, I’d be swooning big time

[@umitsaysnocallerid]

i’m in love with ur earrings. where did u get them, if u don’t mind me asking :)

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

I second needing to know!

[@simplysummer_]

@*flower boy*xx yeah shein

[@awkwardrainbowpotato5620]

I have a pair like that, I got them from Target it was part of a pack for I think $8

[@lowbudgetadvice95]

I want to know too.

[@ia3241]

She liked the comment but didn't reply lol

[@spinasoul]

The first story screams everyone's insecurity, if you present yourself to new people by how much money you make then you are insecure about your life so much that you need to flex

[@chloeeng6811]

Yeah

[@lynnlooi5346]

It seems that the first story boyfriend have a big alpha male ego or whatever they are called these days. Not just him, his entire friend circle seems to also have that kind of male ego mindset. They speak as if all girls are gold diggers, probably because they think girls are useless and only relies on man. They disrespects OP in front of her, it was a party and it wasn't just only one person who does this. The others who didn't spoke just watch and do nothing (especially the boyfriend)? Another sign that they look down on girls, they think it is okay to shame girls in public??? Lastly, after the incident all the boyfriend could think off is how the girl embarrassed him by telling his friends how much she earned. Probably because it ruins his whatever 'alpha male ego' image in front of his friends. OP should straight away break up with him because that's a huge red flag. These people have no respect for woman

[@gaxalee7392]

Clearly, the parents and boyfriend weren’t expecting the relationship to last and wanted some guarantee that they could trap Op in with him or put her in financial ruin trying to get the house out his name because there is no other logical reason for why a rent-free adult would be on the title of a house.

[@lovewritteninah]

ELLENNNN! I've been watching you since I was 7/8 years old. You've always been my comfort KZbinr 💘💘

[@DJ_Wolfy]

OMG OMG ME TOO

[@markcollins2666]

OK, #2: Dr. Ramini, (check her out!!!) a psychiatrist who specializes in narcissistic behavior, posted on this story yesterday. A classic, classic case of a narcissist, who gets his marching orders from his parents, with major manipulation and gaslighting. Huge red flags. If you're interested in hearing more about this, check her out, she explains this in a clear, professional way, in down to earth English, and TBH, the Doc is worried about this woman.

[@riel4553]

Yes, there's also some comments in Dr. Ramini's video from realtors and lawyers.

[@Maya47222]

I love watching your videos! You're such an amazing person! You make my day every time I watch your videos. ❤

[@parrotee7933]

I love your channel! I look forward to your videos every morning and watch them after school

[@gamergirlmimi263]

Ellen your videos are just adorable and positive And your style cute 😌😌😌😌

[@js8303]

I love these stories so much!

[@shadowboxer1]

Another silver finish for J S! ====> 🥈

[@Anna36-h5h]

Kyutie is so cute I love your videos they always make my day 😁

[@lianoid918]

With the last story, he's clearly projecting his mistrust. He's also the one pressuring her, not the other way around. And she wasn't even blackmailing him because she clearly explained why she wouldn't add someone to the title of the house just because they were dating. Ugh, this one made me mad. Such a toxic man. Get rid of him ASAP.

[@aubs_2034]

ur absolutely gorgeous gurl!

[@livviebug]

early! thank you kyutie, you posted right when i needed!

[@JustineOnufrijcuka]

Ohh love your earrings! So cute!🥰

[@RaidenMeii]

I love these so much

[@kazuhasgloves]

perfect timing. lmao. I hope you're doing well, ellen!

[@adatoczynska3491]

I love your videos and you💗. They make my day/ night, they relax me, plus i love your voiceI hah. I have a question tho, idk if you talked about it somewhere, but how do you make your videos?? Like you rewrite the stories and put them for us on the screen and where do you take them fromm. Its just very interesting for me :D

[@robinmichaelrath]

The house title story is not a gender thing ... it is an entitled family thing. They probably convinced him he deserves halve the house too. Maybe even the women in his family 😲

[@Yoshi563]

My ex would call me a cheater for crouching down at the grocery store to grab something on the bottom shelf for my mother; who had back problems. He had convinced me that I had cheated on him at least 100 times throughout our relationship. But now that I look back on it, I never cheated on him, not once. Instead of making me suffer, he should have fixed his insecurities instead.

[@WittyRoseKoi]

I love your videos kyutie

[@ellorasg4525]

Story 1 has an update, OP dumped the guy. lol

[@lowbudgetadvice95]

Me (psychology) and my boyfriend (astrophysics [Computational models are his thing]) are studying fields that can make a lot if you are good and smart about it. Yet we both grew up mid and lower middle class so money isn't the important thing. I love him for many reasons and one of them is he appreciates the gesture of me paying for things for him. Most of my exes either complained that I paid for anything or didn't pay for everything. With my current boyfriend, I pay for tickets and he buys the food. With how expensive activities are, its almost half and half.

[@Catharsis770]

In a romantic relationship, both sides are equal. Comparing yourself in a relationship leads to toxicity and worsening mental health

[@karasanchez9720]

Ahhh so very sorry that I'm late ellen but the video was awesome and I wish the best for you and coco BTW coco is adorable 💜💜💜

[@ashlismith8596]

Awesome!!✨💖

[@leegibbs9913]

As you all can now see it's not just women who are gold diggers:)

[@gimme3378]

Someone already liked

[@Seniorsof2011rule]

These girls just need to throw the whole boyfriend away and find someone better!

[@JadeCaro]

I'd be dropping those bfs soooo fast

[@MissYurikoSenpai]

The first story: YASSS POP TF OFF QUEEENNN!!!

[@Rats_N_Roses]

i’m so insecure i wear a pony tail every day to school… i’m also insecure abt wearing a pony tail to school every day

[@morijin6994]

Don't be. I'm sure you look very pretty with or without ponytail.

[@keithwilson4493]

should not matter either way

[@-Orchideous-]

Both of you, just throw the whole boyfriend away. It's not worth it

[@SecretlyTwoFrogsInATrenchCoat]

I was expecting to see a story about me on here, after this I feel a bit better

[@wrestlingwithjay3770]

Awesome

[@athena6227]

Welcome back everyone to another episode of “would this be okay if the situation was reversed?” On today’s episode, we are looking at a woman who pays for and owns her own house. Her boyfriend is not on the title at all and pays nothing. He calls her selfish and untrusting in response. His whole family is calling her names and trying to manipulate her! Let’s reverse the situation! “Golddigger” and that is all we needed to see folks! The answer is NO! The situation would not okay BUT would it be more accepted? Probably. Tune in later for another episode of “would it be okay if the situation was reversed?” I’m your host, Athena, checking out!

[@ava1513]

Is your real name Athena? I love it!

[@Feathered_Crow]

I actually really like this 😂

[@kellycowley3535]

+Athena It's a bit suspicious that you are only comment on 'if the situation was reversed' on the second story but not the first. That situation also wouldn't be ok but is more accepted in the first story as well.

[@athena6227]

@@kellycowley3535 I didn’t wanna write out both… not everything’s a conspiracy theory :)

[@kellycowley3535]

@@athena6227 I have seen too many people bring up 'if the situations were reversed' so they can make up a hypothetical conclusion which pushes their (political) viewpoint about a subject or group of people. So nothing personal, but the cynical part of me is finding it a but weird that you wrote a paragraph about 'if it was reversed' for one story but didn't even spare a word for the other.

[@queerdeificeeli985]

5:21 Her grandma passed and gave her one of the houses, therefore it's inheritance- he isn't entitled to it at all(unless specifically stated in the will). Inheritance can't be touched during divorces, or after marriage(if the late person died before you married your spouse) and why would he be on the title if he contributed *nothing.* Her brother-in-law did contribute so it makes sense to add him to the title and another thing Why do some people think their children are just automatically entitled to anything belonging to their child's partner, because you're not if you didn't buy it, weren't given it, or just generally haven't done anything that would substitute you as a 'co-owner' (in a way)-you're not entitled to owning it. If you can't pay for the commitment of half the house, don't say you deserve to own half of it. If you're not paying for anything in the house, you don't deserve to own the house, let alone say you should be given half of it- that's not saying your partner doesn't trust you, it's them being responsible and sensible people.

[@bingus8622]

Hey Ellen, i don't usually comment but Could you please make a video on ''Urban legends'' or something like that. It's been a long time.

[@linus3961]

I love your earrings (:

[@nemo227]

Story #1: those weren't friends and she could find a better boyfriend.

[@Vida7354]

The guy in second story is definitely an gold digger hoping for free house

[@Yipyipyay]

It has nothing to do with gender. It's just awful people being awful.

[@mamaunicorn546]

Hi Kyutie 👋😄🖤

[@shaleahwimby2352]

1st and 2nd story break up with those guys do something about the red flags you have found

[@clairefromouterspace]

Good morning, Ellen! Have a great day today, everyone! ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧

[@feliciagoodwin1955]

I love your chanel

[@beachgirl9304]

Story #2: I wouldn't put his name on the house even if we were married. It was a house she inherited; not something they bought together. If they split up, he would get half of her inheritance. No Way!

[@user-cb2jz9mt2r]

her hair reminds me of nezuko tbh

[@Alixdrawsstuff]

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii I love youuu

[@Alixdrawsstuff]

omg she noticed meee thank you I miss love you so much and you've grown into such a beautiful person over the years

[@aaaaaaaaaaaaaa2374]

Hallo

[@asleeponclouds]

Hi 👋

[@summerisaac4513]

What the heck

[@solargomez2490]

I'm so insecure. Even with my name. My real name is solara it's pernounced sol_ara but solar to me is just so much better. I'm insecure about My body too.

[@isabellaobrien1404]

If it means anything your names really pretty and unique to me

[@rals5120]

Your name is actually very pretty!

[@livviebug]

your name is gorgeous ☀️ your weight/body type doesn’t matter as long as it’s not unhealthy 🍋

[@js8303]

Your name is so pretty! You’re beautiful just the way you are and don’t let anyone tell you different

[@mysweetheonie]

I'M SO EARLY

[@voyagerNO]

Women does that all the time. But it's wrong when a man does it?

[@aaaaaaaaaaaaaa2374]

Hiii! Y’all I was the first view and like for the 4th time in a row.

[@shadowboxer1]

Third! Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

[@padmashri535]

First

[@js8303]

Congrats you’re first!

[@padmashri535]

@@js8303 Thanks man

[@padmashri535]

@@js8303 Here's your silver medal ==>🥈

[@js8303]

@@padmashri535 Thank you! And here is your gold medal===> 🥇

[@shadowboxer1]

Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

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