People Who Received UNEXPECTED INSULTS

[@car17yn71]

This happened in high school. It was November and the girl sitting behind me in French class tapped me on the shoulder to tell me that my dye job was really bad. I had NEVER dyed my hair. I actually had a natural ombré look going on, but it was the 1980s so that wasn't a thing yet.

[@quietworld2267]

I'm pretty sure that ombre hair looked beautiful

[@amateurflor13]

jealous

[@paniniprincess5211]

She's just mad she had plain potato hair HMPH 😤

[@RedK5]

@@quietworld2267 agreed

[@nemo227]

Throughout our whole lives people will make wrong assumptions about all of us; our intelligence, our home life, our income level, our . . . everything.

[@Yourfavpaloma]

4:05 elderly people these days are odd, my friends mom was twirling her daughter around while shopping and a older women came and asked her to stop abusing her daughter or else she would call the police

[@DoingDrawing]

*cough, cough "karen"*

[@ellasummers9671]

This was year 6 school captain speeches. I gave my speech. Thought i did ok. This girl comes up to me. We knew of each other. As in we shared classes, but never were friends or shared friendship circles. She wasn't known as a mean girl but was considered relatively popular. She comes up and says " Wow, your speech was waaaaay better than I thought it was gonna be." Still can't tell to this day if it was an insult or a compliment.

[@deannal.newton9772]

It's probably one of those backhanded compliments. They don't want to make it seem like they're insulting you, but do it in a thinly veiled way to make it clear that they don't like you. It most stems from how envious she might be of you.

[@amateurflor13]

both

[@LonelyWriter26]

Okay, but the first story is something I would do. I always say stuff then think "Dear gods, that came out WRONG". Or my brother, seems like he'd do that as well. (Gotta love ADHD.) And actually, I remember saying something kinda like this. A teacher told me to talk to a new girl in my class when I was in third grade. I had to ask her who she was because I was never good with names. I openly admitted that the teacher told me to talk to her, but we did become friends. (Then she stopped speaking to me lmao)

[@izukutodoroki9573]

One time I was over at a friend's house, and we had been sitting in comfortable silence for a while. Suddenly, she pipes up with "I like it better when you don't talk". I looked at her, feeling upset at what she said. She blinked and then jumped up in alarm. "No, no, no! What I meant to say was, I like it when we're quiet! Its more comfy!" I brushed it off, but i still wonder if that was just a cover up.

[@sameerakhan7455]

Well,I do actually think that your friend didn't mean it in a bad way and actually meant to say that she genuinely liked your quietness as comfort.

[@amateurflor13]

tbh i don't think it was malicious. i was used to being alone as a kid, so i still prefer quiet or music playing in the background. fast forward to college and my closest friend is loud AF. i enjoy her loudness (most of the time) and appreciate her, but it's also rlly nice when you can be so comfortable w/ someone that you don't have to keep talking. there's no space to be filled, just blissful peace amongst friends. it's nice.

[@autisticdancer]

Okay about the last story, people like me who have autism tend to have a difficult time understanding social cues so we are more likely to accidentally say something offensive to someone when we don’t realize it and then become confused and embarrassed when someone explains that what we just said was offensive. I have autism and I feel like there have been plenty of times where I have accidentally said something to someone thinking I was being nice (or even as a neutral comment) only for that person to get angry at me.

[@retro3188]

I’m also autistic, and shit’s just confusing.

[@KellyTheReiss]

I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

[@Frovael]

I'm a pretty shy and introverted kid with social anxiety too, and in caretaker school I got literal angels sent from heaven as classmates. They always tried to include me cuz they realized I liked talking to them i just had trouble going up and starting the convo myself. This year, my panic attacks became so bad I hyperventilated in school, when I was alone in the dresser where we take our shoes off, and they all just took turns to look after me and calm me down. I never felt so loved in my family, the only best thing happening in that school was my class honestly.

[@car17yn71]

Lol, there was a guy that DMed me. He wanted me to set him up with my sister. I said he wasn't her type. And he suggested, "Well, you're not that bad, I could do you instead." OMFG!!

[@mazieglick563]

That pick up line..... red flag, especially if he is talking about attractiveness.

[@nyxrose1270]

No shit sherlock

[@monstermcboo7282]

A lot of insecure guys try to undercut a woman’s confidence to convince her to go out with them. Gross.

[@that1nerd44]

In the false pregnancy situation the guy working the ride should have made an announcement to the whole line about not being able to ride if pregnant instead of singling out her. His heart was in the right place though.

[@inkheart151]

In all fairness to the autism question, when you ask something that generic, unless you’ve helped us train our brain to understand that “GENERIC QUESTION” actually means “What specific flavors do you think go together on this cake” as an example, we can come up with all kinds of interpretations. I personally do not roast people, (at least not intentionally), but this kind of stuff does tend to happen by accident. All I can say is please be VERY specific. Go into detail! I need a lot of that!

[@leaflet1686]

AYYYYYYYYYYYY Autism squad! :D

[@eleksitia]

as someone who is on the higher functioning end of the Autistic Spectrum (i have what was formerly known as Aspergers), i agree that being specific helps a lot.

[@inkheart151]

@@eleksitia Same. I still call it that. I don't care what they call it now....

[@draalttom844]

@@eleksitia there is no functioning labels it's just insults.

[@apersonwhoisverylikelyaliv2176]

When I was little there was an ad for a product about losing weight and having less fat. I said to my dad in the most cheery and happy tone that he should use that product. I still remember that face he had when I said that. I feel bad because I thought I was actually being helpful by saying that.

[@DinosaurNick]

I've had moments like that ... people say something and I go "Thanks ... wait, what?" lol

[@harryboyes2812]

When John Wick 3 came out I went to see it - and was given a seniors discount ticket. I lmao. Oh, and being autistic myself, I can say is that sometimes when you ask us something you have to be specific as to what you mean or as was demonstrated we might interpret it the wrong way.

[@gamergirlmimi263]

The fact some of these insults come from your own Kids WOW 😭😭❤️

[@sadhourstwentyfourseven9578]

Kids are pretty honest 😂

[@ashlismith8596]

When your own kid insults you, OUCH!!!

[@StrawberryGalaxy3817]

"You can't ride this ride if you're pregnant!" No I'm just having my food baby

[@monstermcboo7282]

Gluten sensitivity is real LOL

[@StrawberryGalaxy3817]

Really though lmao

[@faez222]

Hi! You are one of my favorite KZbinrs and I love all of your reaction videos! Thank you so much for posting again I can’t wait to see the rest of the video

[@CookieLover-pq1qd]

2:24 is so true and it do be painful sometimes. When I was a kid, everytime I looked at the mirror I always adore my eyes and just focus on how I love my eyes. But when I was in 6th grade, a classmate jokingly told me that we should have a 'competition' of who has the biggest nose. At first I didn't understand but then I came to realize that they were saying I have a big nose. It became an insecurity for me ever since then and everytime I look at the mirror, I just look at my nose and wish it was smaller and pointed like everybody else's... Worst part is that classmate of mine probably has no idea that their joke became my biggest insecurity in life🤷‍♂️ Just want to remind everyone about the 10 second rule. If you know a person can't change something within 10 second then don't point it out. They might or might not know about it but always be careful if you ever want to point it out because you probably won't remember what you said that time, but the other party will have that stuck in their mind. :)

[@monstermcboo7282]

A big nose is an evolutionary advantage. My nose is small and has given me trouble all my life.

[@sadhourstwentyfourseven9578]

@@monstermcboo7282 Mfs with them small noses almost always have some kind of breathing issue 🤣 -Someone who lives in a town with the whitest of the white people with them pinched noses

[@mythicsb5170]

When I was a teenager I was an assistant leader for a scouts group and one time I asked a group of kids to guess how old I was. They said 30. I brushed it off because they usually teased the leaders with these sorts of things. I went on a camp with completely different kids and asked the same question... And got the same answer! I was sixteen! 😭😭😭

[@cupidvallie]

Hi all! Sorry, I forgot to do a daily check in yesterday! How's all? I'm excited, just ate a good meal and am gonna spend time with close friends tomorrow!

[@AliceDeBois]

Some of these are an examples of backhanded compliments.

[@VIXXlight_VIXXComeBack]

One person asked me if I styled my hair, according to them it looked like anime hair (to which I lowkey agree with). For context, it looks like the typical anime hair where the ends of each strand curl outward. I didn't style my hair tho, it's always been like this.

[@VIXXlight_VIXXComeBack]

@› 𐌼vint-ʍint ‹ not at all, atleast from my experience it wasn't a bother.

[@Aubrie_]

I’m an introvert and don’t really talk much but when I do I usually talk really quietly. When I was in kindergarten through second grade it hurt me the most. People would say straight up to my face that I talk so low. I got this comment all of the time. I would eventually go home and when I got to me room I would cry myself to sleep sometimes. I always thought it was a flaw or that there was something wrong with me because I couldn’t speak loud enough to where people could hear me. I always held back tears when I got that comment multiple times a day. Now, I still do that unless I’m talking with someone I’m really close and comfortable with, but every time I get that comment I hold back tears

[@ellenhannon5298]

I was never asked if I qualified for senior discounts. They just gave it to me. At first it annoyed me. Then I thought screw it I'm saving money.

[@deannal.newton9772]

It was the opposite for me, I would be mistaken for a high schooler because of my baby face and one time a woman told me that I need a parent with me but I told her I was 28.

[@connorj7120]

My sister got me a cat for my birthday. It was the great girft I've ever received. Fast forward 2 years, she said she gave the cat to me because I have no friends. True but it ruined my relationship with my cat.

[@draalttom844]

How much of a bitch do you have to do for that?

[@staticlegend354]

The thumbnail doesn’t seem like an insult, more like a confused child xD.

[@elal7929]

At 15, during a vacation with my dad, 66 at the time, I was called "Mrs" by the waiter. He thought I was my dad's wife...age-wise I could have been my dad's granddaughter, but the man thought I was his wife

[@deannal.newton9772]

I mistaken the opposite, I would think that one person would be the person's child but they're actually spouses. It's pretty embarassing for me when I think that.

[@wisteria3032]

the opposite happend to my parents. A few years ago we all went on vacation together. The landlady comes in to say hello and my dad is the first one to answer cause we were tidying up. Me and mon went over and the lady told my dad "oh, I see you brought your daughters with you" mom and dad have less than 1 year of difference. He corrected her but by then we were rolling on the floor laughing.

[@elal7929]

@@wisteria3032 I am happy to know it brought joy at the end!

[@HannahsMusicAndNovels]

The senior discount one is pretty funny/relatable. Since I was tall for my age when I turned 13 (5'4") people constantly thought I was much, much older. There have been a few times where people have mistaken me for the mother of my younger siblings (my sister is 5 years younger than me & my brother 3 years younger).

[@bell7847]

I was wondering if u would ever make merch in the future I would totally buy it!

[@Taco609]

When I was a kid I used to always tell my grandma that she would die soon

[@tinapay6208]

There's no recovering from all of those stories.....🥺😭

[@karasanchez9720]

Ahhh sorry I'm late but just know that I truly appreciate you and coco and the video was amazing love yall 💜💜💜

[@hi3h_mo3es60]

Underrated youtuber

[@ellorasg4525]

I was once called Chinese and that I should return to China.... I'm an Indian and my whole family is Indian....... I was like 'Are you high lady?'

[@Yoshi76257]

I read the title as RESULTS, and then I read the thumbnail…

[@KIeinEen]

The last story would totally be something my brother would do as he has autism so I can definitely relate to that one LMAO

[@cloverenbeerin137]

Me seeing the thumbnail: EMOTIONAL DAMAGE-

[@cloudedfreedom6286]

Once my cousin told my mom she was fat, she had a baby about a year prior

[@lesyeuxofrory]

i have a similar story as the kid who's dad smoked when i was 3 i saw one of those anti cigarette commercials and my mom still smoked at the time and i asked her if she was gonna die so she quit after that 😭

[@monstermcboo7282]

First guy I dated after I dumped my narcissistic ex, was a longtime friend. He told me on our second date that I’m not his type but I’m interesting so he decided to go for it. I really didn’t know what to say, so I was kind of quiet the rest of the night. We’ve been married for 16 years now. 😂 He still doesn’t understand what he said wrong that time. Thanks to school and work, I’ve known people from all over the world and can say with confidence that the people most likely to call someone fat are the Brits and the Chinese. The Brits do it maliciously and the Chinese just as a matter of conversation. Either way, don’t take it personally.

[@SirBoopsALot013]

So there was a field trip in fifth grade and I look liked a boy( i am not ) and I was in the girls line and there’s this one kid that said” you need to go the boys line” and I said” no I’m a girl” and he turned into the juiciest tomato you have ever seen and walked away

[@maryfinau1901]

I can relate to you on that one but it happened when I was a junior in high school running some errands (giving papers to students who need to go to the office and stuff, we all take turns apparently and I dreaded it throughout the day) I walked into a senior class that was about to take their test because they sat single file. I gave the paper to their teacher and waited in front of the class in awkward silence, I could feel their eyes on me. I heard a dude whistle at me and a girl said "that's a boy" man my heart broke and I dashed out after that. There was a reason why I didn't want to walk into random class rooms running irrelevant errands. That stuck to me till now. When you're young you wouldn't really care what you look like till someone points out about something of you and it turns into a insecurity. It's sad having to focus on your looks then your education when you're around 13-15, well mostly in my school🙄

[@rocky.rocks1445]

She gets prettier everyday

[@liathecow7874]

I love that you post daily!

[@piegirl8263]

I say things that come out wrong ALL THE TIME

[@JiminyClarkson]

My crush introduced me to her friend and said: "This is my friend Richard... ...he's not my boyfriend btw... ...just to make that clear"

[@CultOfTheTriangle]

1:08 My mom is in her 39s and she is asked if she qualifies for a senior discount

[@CultOfTheTriangle]

30s*

[@heart_miffy_matzz]

I luv ur fit soooo much u look so cute! 😊

[@mermeow]

The lovemaking one...he wore her out with his prowess that she forgot her words. 😹

[@kurisuchiinu1206]

Why do society just assumed people with no family or partner are lonely? Can't we be happy just the way we are? We have pets and that's enough! T^T

[@rockyember]

0:56 i’d use that to my advantage, save a couple bucks!

[@LovelyLies16]

I was at a kid's party an older friend of mine was throwing for her granddaughter and friends. (Unrelated note: my friend was 53 but looked 40. I myself was around 21 at the time.) I was helping with the kids and party, who are around 6-10 years old. One of the girls (let's call her Amy) had learned I broke up with a guy a couple years earlier. She turned to me and said, "When are you gonna date again because it seems you can't keep a man!" Her aunt scolded her, "Amy!" and was clearly embarrassed. I honestly just thought it was funny and thought it was hilarious I got burned like that by a 9-year-old.

[@alexjohnson9877]

kids are so innocent. like they just see curiosity. but i felt that pregnant one. i have no hair, so people have thought that i was my sister's dad? and theyve thought im transgender? or im pregnant? the worst is cancer. that is the worst one because ive had people get pissed off when i say i dont. like a man today said that i shouldnt be eating chips and snacks with my cancer and that it would interfere with my chemo. i just responded i would be offended if i had cancer, and even though i dont im still offended that you find it okay to tell me what i can and cant do. and told him im a student and that i dont have cancer and that i have sugar issues. and that if he looked closely ouside of the chips, and cookies, i had a bag of apples, lunchmeat and other regular food.

[@afternoonsun564]

Off topic but i love ur hair!!

[@AwoooOga3503]

6:15 Gurl some girl did this to me and I knew bc she talked behind my back with my other friends in school. Those friends told me. She even said I was Boring and she only hung out with me bc she was bored sence her other friends couldn't hang out that time. I was pisst bc that girl always invited me to hang out in her place and was so casual with it. And I thought she was decent, but never fkn mind. I was salty about this, but didn't really took it to heart. But I took advantage of this when they invited me for a dinner party at their house. I always treated her nice and her family still after this. Now I don't have contact with her and I couldn't care less about it and the past.

[@moonlight3589]

3:41 maybe the child meant a simple life... mental peace is very important as an adult

[@RaidenMeii]

Aw man I’m late! At least I’ll enjoy my night watching this

[@illusionistcat]

here are a few that my crap anger issues can't take: "girl drink some milk for once" they were serious about drinking milk, they also knew I was lactose free. It's not super bad but I get offended easily "ooo she got anger issues, bet yo dad dead" that made me really mad, my dad wasn't dead but that could be really offensive. I'm sorry for people that get picked on for having dead parents/guardians. not mine but my friend had this said to her: "your blacker than the night" one word: racist. None of these are really bad (except for the last one)

[@Haileycolvin009]

One time I was being made fun of and this random guy stood up and said “she may be blonde but she’s smarter than all of you!”….

[@solargomez2490]

Hey I'm not trying to be a b but I need to vent. I'm struggling bad this week. Like I'm really depressed and oh crap I'm crying now. I'm just feeling like no one cares about me. I just wish my life was over. I'm sorry but I had to get this off my chest

[@achannel2916]

Hope things get better, stay strong

[@Godisgoodhonestly]

🥺 I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better.

[@ATM2306]

I’m sorry you are feeling bad. But just know that you are loved, strong, important, and valued. I know life can be really tough, just hang in there, everything will be alright

[@solargomez2490]

@@ATM2306 thanks boo

[@enza6656]

I feel that, Love- i hope things turn up for you 💐 things will get better and ur truly loved 🦋💖💖

[@wrestlingwithjay3770]

Amazing

[@kazuhasgloves]

I got called a dumbass for being emotional and trying to off myself about six months ago. 🙄

[@TokioHotelMeow12]

One Halloween in high school I got up early and put on this really cute Halloween themed outfit. Black skirt, pumpkin shirt, striped socks, pigtails with orange ribbons, etc. I thought I looked really cute. After school I went trick-or-treating with my friend who dressed as a bar wench. We knocked on a door and an older lady maybe in her 40’s came out. She was smiling and seemed really nice. She looked at my friends outfit and started excitedly saying, “oh honey you look so good. So sexy. Wow.”. Very creepy that this grown woman was telling a high schooler how sexy she looked, but anyway. She turns to me and says, “you didn’t even try”. Very rude, and so unnecessary. I worked hard on that outfit, my friends was store bought and she just threw it on over her clothes.

[@fadeddescent]

I LOVE UR EARRINGS

[@Fluffy-Fluffy]

I have not dyed my gray hair at 44. It may get me discounts or whatever because I look older that way 👹 But more seriously I hated it with short hair, leave alone waist length hair. Forget it I'm too old. Luckily I am accepted for an elderly taxisystem because of my disabilities and they care more about the mobility than the age. It should be for 65+ but despite my gray hair I look young. If I dye it, I would pull of mid- end 30's.

[@shadowboxer1]

0:56: Here's hoping you get asked for your ID well into your 40s.

[@alicialusk1687]

5:19 I have a story . I was like 16 waiting for the bus and this man who is like I don’t know maybe in his 30s is like how far along are you . Didn’t understand him at first so had to repeat himself and he asked how far along I was I said in a angry tone I’m not pregnant cause I was angry cause it happened A few times before too but the other times were random people I didn’t know making comments and being rude . The man however I think didn’t know as he then said sorry .

[@Gwarmara]

I m 22 they all think i m 16

[@omarelmasri9939]

1:55 LMAO SOMEONE HAS SAID THAT TO ME THREE TIMES BEFORE

[@p.v7098]

This video is exactly 11 minutes and 11 seconds long.

[@marisolrubio6566]

I was once asked if i wanted a senior discount at a phramacy, I was 20, I was like yeah of course, the clerk laughed and said sorry Im just used to asking. I left there with a 25% off my purchase and a discount card 😁

[@rosannaburt3048]

Hey love you r stuff

[@Joetino]

Alternate Title: r/rareinsults

[@shadowboxer1]

7:21: Opposites attract!

[@WittyRoseKoi]

I love your videos kyutie

[@dolphinbanana3053]

7:38 It's like the opposite for me, I hate the same thing in myself that I like in other people Like being chubby, I don't want to be chubby, but I'm attracted to chubby people I don't like having a deep voice, but I like people with deep voices

[@connorj7120]

I'm not sugar coating or anything, or just trying to make your feel better, Ellen. But your seriously look like you're 17

[@ATM2306]

Hello everyone! I hope your week has been wonderful :)

[@crybaby_puppeteer]

6:30 This reminds me of how I met my best friend lol She was sitting alone at lunch while I was talking to some other people, I felt bad bc she seemed lonely so after lunch I went up to her and gave her a piece of candy. We still hang out to this day :>

[@param5234]

I thought you are 19-20? What's your age if people thought you were 25 when you were 17...I am confused 😕

[@deannal.newton9772]

She's in her mid-20s.

[@youneedtocalmdown.]

She's 23 I think

[@ZombieLeo94]

Which part of Asian though? That mcdonalds coffee story

[@P0txt9]

1:11 your not 17? 🤯

[@rosannaburt3048]

Well if you're big not the person fault

[@hillaryanaman7347]

Whoever you are, Jesus loves you

[@Hann3227]

Ik this is an old video but incase or someone might know anyone know where I can find her earrings at in this video they are so cute 🥺🤍

[@chrissyluvsuu5712]

Hi!!!

[@shadowboxer1]

Second! Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈

[@reyshaofficials]

HOLA

[@shadowboxer1]

First! Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

[@saimawasti9598]

10:10

[@aaaaaaaaaaaaaa2374]

First Edit: 3rd day in a row of my comment being liked by Ellen!!

[@shadowboxer1]

Fourth.

[@sylviekit10]

[@dohyun4787]

Why r u always wearing a hat👒

[@rachelle_243]

why not

[@vision8857]

Second comment ❤️

[@shadowboxer1]

Fifth.

[@itz__kaii]

haii

[@shadowboxer1]

Third! Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

[@iwatchyoutube5762]

I remember sitting in French class in 9th grade while we were answering our “daily check-in” on our laptops, and accidentally farting in the silent classroom...and I was in the middle of typing in my response to one of the questions and so I finished the sentence with “-oops I’m so sorry, I just farted” because I know every single person heard it...and I knew that my teacher always responded to our daily check-in answers after we submit them, and she had never once not responded to me, but that month, I checked my online classroom submission and gmail everyday. she never responded. 🥸✌️✨

[@calashkab7472]

I don't know how people could mistake you 25 at 17. Because to me you look like you're 17