"Perfect husbands" can end up losing it all when wives follow this advice

[@akt1982]

You’re allowed to walk in front of a bus. You’re allowed to kiss a rattlesnake. You’re allowed to put your keys into a power outlet. Doesn’t mean it’s a good idea or there won’t be consequences.

[@GregO0oo]

😆😅🤣

[@random19911004]

I have no problem with them leaving, but they shouldn't be able to take half the guys stuff on the way out. If you are not happy, leave. But you don't get to financially benefit from it.

[@Treadstone1986]

The problem is we have legally removed the consequences. She leaves, gets half along with alimony and child support

[@dlx7844]

Right on point!

[@DMSProduktions]

Actually it's an offence here to step into the path of a moving vehicle!

[@toddr2961]

I still want to know why a woman's happiness is in the hands of the man she chooses, while the man has to take care of his own happiness.

[@alanclarke4646]

Because men are happier than women.

[@kanadianbacon7733]

*"Excellent Point!!!!!"*)

[@musothreads9069]

I know right..... and they have THE AUDACITY to spee this bs about "men just want a mummy".... Pffft not atall. I just want a loyal woman who enjoys being intimate with me. Thats SO FAR away from the way any sane man thinks about his mother. 😂

[@matthewtate5581]

This is part of the toxic feminism that is going around. Men are supposed to be all things to all people while being villainized for it.

[@GodhandPlusOne]

i can explain that it's because they are selfish and manipulative and try to make you say or do things for her, without her havng to do anything. you also don't matter to her as a human being, you're merely a slave to her.

[@TerryBell-l4p]

I like that phrase, "The grass is green where it is watered.' I am going to remember that one.

[@kennethjames9999]

Truck loads of fertilizer seems to help at least in modern women's case.

[@gavinwarwick4098]

And fertilised with bullshit. Or, it's synthetic.

[@donaldcarey114]

Far to many will pi$$ on you and tell you it is raining.

[@inkgeek4706]

I have also heard it as " the grass on the other side seems greener, only because it is fertilized with B.S. " as in it might look like the better deal, but in the end it will probably not be as it would seem from the outside looking in.

[@cheesecrackers3928]

And sometimes the grass IS greener.

[@jeffskidmore4840]

This happened to me. Wife and I had it all. A beautiful home, the cars, the vacations and her resentment just built up and it ended. We even tried therapy and she still didn’t love me anymore. A year after divorce she wants to get back together. After this mess, I just have no desire to even date. Thankfully no kids were involved. Men, if this happened to you, a single life is not bad life. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy.

[@Stephen-p5l]

Forgive ur wife and get back together. she most likely learnt her lesson. Wouldn't you want a second chance in life also

[@richardmeyer418]

@@Stephen-p5l Good one. Please put the sarcasm emoji up, I almost thought you were serious. 😁😁

[@MikeBarbarossa]

They just get way into ther heads and ruin a good thing, one they likely will be replacing with a lesser life

[@sonycans]

Never@@Stephen-p5land the reason is that a divorce is a treasonable offence against the relationship/family. To me a divorce is high treason and we all know what happens to people who are charged for treason against their country therefore it is total unforgiven exile. Removed from any contacts what so ever.

[@NotMik33]

@@Stephen-p5l wtf... worst advice in the world. Never take back a woman. She isn't coming back because she suddenly likes you, she's coming back because she couldn't replace you.

[@kws5354]

My first wife dumped me because she thought the grass was greener elsewhere. The person she left me for was a an academy graduate military officer. I was a former enlisted person a technician. Fast forward about a year to year and a half later. The guy she left me for is now the assistant manager on the night shift at a convenience store / gas station. I am an engineer with a Fortune 50 Corporation doing extensive travel in Europe. The point being is so many women only look at things in the short-term and they don't play the long game.

[@jbullforg]

They want to sit at the finish line, and pick the winner; rather than play on the team to enable maximum winning.

[@tonyp.bahama9368]

Thats why checkers was invented

[@GerhardMack]

There is a particular kind of woman attracted to the military type but then can't handle the hours, or the postings. They are often very angry when they leave.

[@leotudio]

You don´t understand the problem. The problem is not that women dont have the patience for their partners to be successful. The problem is that many of them have not love for their partners. Their boyfriend or husband are not human being who deserve to be loved and respected for who they are. Their relationships are not based on a romantic-sexual plane, but on business. And what is worse... they try to make that business as unbalanced as possible in their favor. The problem with your first wife, as with many other women, was that she has not love, therefore she could never love you. Even if she was smarter and had the perspective to stay with you thinking that you would reach a better position on the economic-status scale... in the end everything would have fall apart... because there were not love for her part. Remember men... There is not reason to be in a relationship in which you know you are not loved and she is with you simple because you are the best deal she was able to get. Dont allow yourself to be used for a shadow that true love.

[@user-jr2yt2nz2d]

Congratulations on your success!!

[@That1SupportiveFriend]

Ron Swanson from parks and recreation once said “live your life how you want, but don’t confuse drama with happiness.”

[@EmperorSeramir]

"Alright, who broke it?"

[@That1SupportiveFriend]

@@EmperorSeramir “I broke. It bit me, so I punched it.”

[@faymTX]

Ron Swanson is my spirit animal.

[@That1SupportiveFriend]

@@EmperorSeramir “I broke it. It bit me, so I punched it.”

[@Brookspirit]

Some women seem unable to move past the early exciting "tingle" phase and unable to move into the comfortable life partner stage. They are addicted to the exciting early stage, they aren't serious people, they should be avoided.

[@seventhson27]

NEVER wife a 304. They are ADICTED to the thrill. Just a surely as drug junkies are addicted to the high. They may be ok for a year or two, and maybe a kid or two, but what happens when the next "chad" comes along to "flip her switch."

[@miamihurricaner5911]

That’s because of widespread promiscuity.

[@warrioroflight6872]

I agree, but I don't think that there's any reason why that phase has to be necessarily moved past. Take my paternal grandparents for example, they don't seem to have ever really moved past that stage of puppy love-it merely accompanies the deep mutual commitment they have now that is characteristic of old marriages. So basically, don't trust anyone-man or woman-who seems to only care about the early young love stage, but don't assume that that stage needs to end by necessity either.

[@s0nnyburnett]

@@warrioroflight6872 Those are one in 10 million types of relationships and those people are very, VERY lucky to have each other.

[@im1who84u]

Many women like getting married, but they don't like being married.

[@WoodnetRonnie]

Watching this mesmerizing video dredges up painful memories of the recent dissolution of my 4 year relationship. The departure of my beloved, the one I adore deeply, has left me in a perpetual state of longing. Despite my tireless attempts at reconciliation, I find myself mired in frustration, unable to shake the persistent thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I'm compelled to share my inner turmoil and the overwhelming sense of missing her here.

[@Roselinekendris]

Letting go of someone you love deeply presents a formidable challenge. I faced a comparable ordeal when my 6 year relationship ended. Refusing to succumb to despair, I relentlessly pursued avenues to reconcile with him. Ultimately, I sought solace and guidance from a spiritual counselor, whose intervention proved instrumental in restoring our connection.

[@WoodnetRonnie]

How did you discover a spiritual counselor, and what's the procedure for me to get in contact with her?

[@Roselinekendris]

Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for her talent in bringing back ex-partners.

[@WoodnetRonnie]

Thank you for this invaluable information; I've just checked her out online.

[@johnkochen7264]

You should be writing the cheating wife stories here instead of some bot the rehashes the same plot time and time again.

[@Billtwiggmeister]

My ex of twenty years thought the grass was greener over the septic tank. She left me thinking single life would be fun and great. She found out, 60 yo men w/money don’t want a 60 something yo woman.

[@paulscottrobson]

Women think sex and relationships are the same thing if they've been in an LTR because often they were. They seem unable to grasp that while they can always get sex, pretty much, getting any sort of commitment from anyone is very difficult.

[@richardpellis]

Bingo...

[@AdvantureRoad]

Been happily married for 13 years now and have no idea why, but I’ve been watching a lot of your videos. Let me tell ya miss, whether you intended it or not, every video makes me value and appreciate my wife more and more.

[@TheOriginalBrent]

The biggest take-away from this woman’s video about leaving a good man is summed up as this: women willingly and knowingly sabotage other women. She’s miserable. She sees another woman thriving in her relationship. She becomes envious. Then she attempts sabotage the other woman to bring her down so she doesn’t feel like a lone loser. Women like this always approach the women they target for sabotage as a caring friend, a confidant, or as an advocate pushing through male dominance to alert poor women of the evils of men. Ladies stay vigilant. The devil disguises himself as an angel of light and you are under attack.

[@jaypeterson7637]

👍🎯

[@kevincharlesmcmahon]

@@TheOriginalBrent Holy Phuck. How could this be ? How could this not be promulgated, shouted from the highest mountain ? How could we let a thing like this have power ? How could we give them a chance ? We had them in their place, since the beginning of human time. What in hell is missing ? Who will stand up and be a Phucking Man. “What the Hell is going on here ? What the Phuck”. ¿ “ What Do Men and Women Have in Common “ ? “They Both Distrust Women”

[@waiwai5233]

Modern bad women have the innate ability to be the serpent in the garden of eden.

[@Jack908r]

This just happened to a friend of mine. Wife got a divorced friend who then convinced her my friend was a narcissist, she could de better, be single, etc. Now he's going through divorce. Crazy.

[@DrWhite006]

Single women keep women single.

[@garry358]

Oh Emily, I'm so glad you exist and have chosen to speak up over and over.

[@JustMe-vn5pq]

Yes, this is true. But sadly, I cannot imagine that the women who need to hear this message (the ones thinking about leaving a decent marriage) will ever hear it, much less act on it. We hear Emily, and we appreciate her message. But those who most need to hear it are the crazy ones, and they're the ones who would never listen, not in a million years.

[@Crosshair84]

Too many women mistake contentment for boredom.

[@Julesacu]

I think that is very true. I also think some women don't like contentment because they are addicted to drama and attention.

[@Patson20]

It's really just that women are incapable of feeling contentment at all

[@kellygreenii]

When there is no drama on the outside there is nowhere to hide from your own demons.

[@Patson20]

@kellygreenii and women's chose methods for dealing with demons are running, drinking, and drugs

[@Jack908r]

I haven't met a women yet who cannot find the bad in any situation. They just can't be content.

[@royberry7585]

My first wife was out cheating often, then eventually wanted a divorce because she "wasn't happy anymore" - whatever that meant. Then I got to defend myself in court as she attempted to claim I was abusing her and out children. Eventually the judge saw through it, but I swear I was at the point of having a heart attack. I lost nearly everything - AT FIRST. Now my net worth has exploded, my happiness has went off the chart, and I finally met a woman who not only is compatible with me, but actually WANTS to spend time with me. If a woman like this (not you Emily...) wants to leave - help her pack her shit - return her to the streets! She deserves different like she craves, and you deserve better. Never stay with someone that isn't committed to you and shared goals.

[@waiwai5233]

Still be careful and protect yourself at all times. Women only treat you as nice as her options.

[@abbynormalz]

Yeah the "im not happy" complaint but then never being able to say why shes not happy.

[@waiwai5233]

@@abbynormalz Easy to feel but hard to articulate.

[@bobnankervis9722]

Be prepared, I bet you felt the same way you feel now about your first wife when you first met her. Wait for a few years, and you may be back in that same boat with the hole in the bottom again

[@jimwilberforce2612]

Emily's are the worst.

[@Archonbuster]

This woman talking about feeling “dead inside” is pure evil. If you ever hear a woman say this run for your life.

[@abbasgirl8153]

As a woman, I agree! No one should ever feel this way or someone else being your happiness.

[@michaelweaver6733]

Boy, do I know this! But the problem is, I just froze and was stunned wondering why! I does always come down to their heart!

[@nickthompson1812]

But I can change her. I’m the type of guy that all her friends and family love, of course I’m the right guy for her!

[@checkfactschecking]

This happened to my sister, and it was the guy who left because he didn't feel the pitter-patter in his heart any more. What an a-hole.

[@bieragaino440]

Bad company corrupts good character

[@wmolders8160]

It is happening to me right now. Wife is divorcing me because she says she is unhappy. Will not give an answer to what should be changed and is unwilling to work on anything. Thinks she is entitled to happiness, and other people outside the marriage will do this, shower her with compliments about how she is so great. But she has treated me and the children pretty badly, leaving every single day in the past year from 6-11PM. Sadly, the legal expenses are so much, and she doesn't work, that I have to pay them all up front. I feel like I'm getting utterly hosed and that marriage in America is really screwed up, one that it is super easy to leave and take as much as you can as a woman, and 2 that there seems to be no repercussions for doing so.

[@JAMZ1960]

22 solid years and my 60yr old wife drops; “I’m not happy BYE!” Tried to burn me down…she miscalculated and now is like WTF? I’m “GONE NOW” & HAPPY AS A MOAW FACKA 🤣

[@k.chriscaldwell4141]

Yup. I’v3 paid attention to this issue for over 30-years. Divorce for the vast majority of men is tantamount to serfdom. Despair follows closely behind.

[@WeedWitch1620]

Changes the locks while she is out. Pack her stuff and put it out front. She wants to leave she can leave.

[@JAMZ1960]

@@wmolders8160 STAY STRONG ✊

[@ryanharrison4058]

Leaving every day 6-11? Oh she is cheating.

[@didamnesia3575]

As a man, I'll just say that sometimes bedroom fun feels like a chore. But just like any relationship, it takes 2, and sometimes you do your best when you aren't really into it in the hopes that she does her best when she's not into it. That keeps a relationship going through the bad patches. If a woman uses sex as a reward, leave.

[@sheridangatley8648]

It's funny how it's OK for your female partner to not want to do it tonight - but when you do it to them ( sorry honey I'm really tired, I've got a headache, I'm not really in the mood etc.) then you are accused on not loving or fancying them ( even though you do) - it's Double Standards - it's OK for Me but not for Thee. It's seen as a females prerogative to be able to manipulate sex this way. It's so wrong avd 1 sided.

[@stanbartsch1984]

You can expect 20-30% of the time that you're just along for the ride - that's actually NORMAL based on research into sexually satisfying marriages. 10 to 15% of the time you can expect disaster [ON AVERAGE] less than 50% of the time do the heavens open and rainbows and unicorns appear equally for both of you! And you know what? That's OK!

[@didamnesia3575]

@stanbartsch1984 exactly.

[@cstuartdc]

I'm writing a book. I either wait for the mood and write. Or I write and then get in the mood. Either way this woman is neglectful

[@chrisbaker3132]

I went through this in 2021...i was completely blindsided and it nearly destroyed me in everyway possible. I had a complete mental breakdown and that turned out to be ammunition against me. Definitely the hardest thing I've gone through in my life. The time I dont have with my kids is criminal. Even though i get them every other week. The time away from them is an opportunity cost. To this day I struggle with depression a d anxiety. And I never saw it coming. Anyway, it's unfortunate that there are so many men going through this. I run into them everywhere. So sad. If you're struggling, hang in there and try and learn to be happy alone. It's the only advice I can give

[@gc4644]

I agree, it took me around 7 years to get back to my old self (after a 20 year marriage). I felt so broken, lost and abandoned for quite awhile after the divorce, but as they say, time heals all wounds. I found just focusing on ME, my hobbies, my kids and my work helped the most. I had a friend once tell me that once you get to the "I don't care nor give a shit about her anymore, only THEN will you be healed. He was right, took me 7 years but once I got to that point, life was great again!

[@danielruff4632]

I have been married for 32 1/2 years. My wife decided she didn’t want to be married anymore and left. Not really a shock. This is the fifth time and I’ve tried to keep the marriage together for 32 years. I’m tired of fighting and struggling to keep the marriage so I’m giving her what she thinks she wants, I’m actually finding that I’m OK being alone. I get to do whatever I want. I don’t get snarky comments or weird. Looks when I say I want to go do something. I wanna have some booze, I don’t get any answer back as to how I shouldn’t. My kids are all supportive of me. They know that they are mother is kind of nutty and as long as I don’t badmouth her everything’s cool. So I have a different outlook on my future and I think that it would help people to realize that they can control their future. They won’t be controlled by a spouse or girlfriend that doesn’t have your best interest in mind.

[@BenMaviyiSeverim]

Most I hate is being away from my kids too. I'll never forgive her for this.

[@SecretMarsupial]

Similar story, same year, no kids though. I hear you about the toll it takes on your mental health. A man in that state if often ignored and left to his fate. It’s really brutal glad you have the bright spot of your children though. The will carry you through to your new chapter.

[@BrianMolstad]

Men are slowly realizing that the vast majority of women offer only shit. The R.O.I. is not only low, but usually negative. Often incredibly negative.

[@northern_lights21]

It happened to me 17 years ago. I was blindsided. Her personal material and financial gratification through this whole thing took a toll on my son, who passed away, and that is what I am unable to recover from. I was serving in the forces at that time. I decided to remain single ever since.

[@jamesbickle4912]

Sorry for your loss man. Keep your head up. Stay on your grind. Join a community service club to meet good people.

[@derekcox6531]

I get it buddy.

[@TrevorRobertKelk-bq6zn]

Get your passport Brother!!!

[@Lefty248]

I'm so sorry for your loss, brother. Was in the service 17 years ago myself. Hang in there.

[@kevincharlesmcmahon]

@@northern_lights21 I’m with you my friend. You’re not alone for sure. There are millions all over. I just want you to know that you are with so many others but just don’t know it. In a way we are brothers. I pray for you. I wish for you. You’re in for better times, some are big some are smaller, but they will come . .God bless my friend. Be ok. God bless your dear son.

[@theresacreager9794]

Love is a choice. I've been married for 17 years and been together for 22. I choose to love him every single day. There was a time i bought into this kinda thing until i realized I was responsible for my happiness, not my husband. That changed everything for me and our relationship.

[@db7232]

“In charge of your happiness…” well said and so true.

[@tdrive398]

Smart woman. No one is responsible for your happiness but YOU. If you're miserable, no one else can fix that. Too bad 99.99% of womyn don't know this (or, more accurately, accept RESPONSIBILITY for it).

[@PatrickDuffy-u3s]

My wife's friends (who were in sexless marriages or divorced), gave her advice to abandon her marriage. I think it was 'misery loves company' that motivated them to give this advice.

[@waltermerchant8149]

Single women make/keep other women single. I dated a woman many years ago that had some of the most destructive friends I have ever met. They would tell her she could do better right in front of me. I told her this isn’t for me and I left. Last I heard, ALL of them were still single and in their 40’s.

[@STB-jh7od]

Oh, those women were having sex, just NOT with their husbands.

[@im1who84u]

@@STB-jh7od _Oh, those women were having sex, just NOT with their husbands._ Maybe not even with other men.

[@aussiewanderer6304]

Women are a communal group, and so they aren't comfortable being the only one who is doing something. This is why women will usually follow the trends like: - make up; - revealing clothing; - having s3x for the first time; - having boyfriends, babies, etc; and - dumping their partner. This is probably why the Church kicks out divorced women from the congregation: they start telling other married women in the congregation to leave their husband.

[@Sara-x6t3s]

And it worked because of her own sexless marriage...

[@awakennow5852]

My wife listened to other women... now im single🎉🎉

[@Terrivel119]

As is often said on the internet, “You are free to leave a relationship for any reason you want to.” Sure, and people are free to shame you as much as that reason justifies.

[@nateh8796]

Also frequently said: "i DoN't OwE yOu SoMeThInG! sToP aCtInG eNtiTleD!" The guy who put his blood, sweat, and tears into everything he does for that person: 🗿🌉💥☢️💥🌉

[@ocacruises]

You certainly can, but keep in mind that they can do so to you as well. Many people don't understand that the situation is completely reversible. It's also important to understand that when you do leave, they aren't taking you back. No matter what Hallmark tells you, they aren't taking you back.

[@im1who84u]

@@ocacruises _No matter what Hallmark tells you, they aren't taking you back._ Truth.

[@nickthompson1812]

@@ocacruises it’s reversible as nearly all things are… but what angle are you taking to shame someone who shakes others for being a bad partner? You can try to shame me for shaming someone else, but if I feel my shaming is 100% justified, how will shaming me do anything whatsoever?

[@wilee.coyote5298]

We're all free to choose, but there are consequences for decisions.

[@JohnNewton-oo9um]

I totally agree with you Emily! When a woman thinks she can just up and leave for any reason without trying to work through something and somehow her life is just going to get magically better she's in for a big shock when that doesn't happen! This man 'was' the perfect man before in her eyes, so what changed? She doesn't value that relationship enough to put in a bit of effort to make it work? Then if she does get together with another man the relationship is already doomed from the start. A lot of women end up finding themselves alone and bitter. By the time they reach this point it's too late, they can't just go back to where they were before. The damage is done and that door is now closed!

[@im1who84u]

_By the time they reach this point it's too late, they can't just go back to where they were before. The damage is done and that door is now closed!_ There is no _reset_ button or restore button. Life was not a dress rehearsal. It's over.

[@jhosk]

I was told several years later "it was the worst decision i ever made". Now i have an amazing wife

[@abbasgirl8153]

There are good women out here!

[@richtrujillo-hl8bo]

about 30%out of 100​@@abbasgirl8153

[@tdrive398]

@@abbasgirl8153 They're either in the cemetery, the witness protection program, or overseas.

[@YeshuaIsTheTruth]

Did you and your ex wife reconcile?

[@byrondavison]

the grass is greener over the septic tank

[@brucebaum1458]

No it’s the septic field, tank area is dug up every few years to pump ou5.

[@tomratcliff3755]

@byrondavison I wish I still had that book!

[@peterpatton8736]

😅

[@evanvarga5655]

Erma Bombeck!

[@JAMZ1960]

@@byrondavison 🤣

[@mrgregw]

"He should just know." Women keep other women single. They give each other dog crap advice. They want to free themselves from all accountability for just following their feelings, misery loves company, and/or they want to destroy their dating market place competition.

[@jaguarwarrior866]

@mrgreww Emily said "Women better be ready to be the Villain" That has Never occurred in Human History. (Women Accepting Accountability/Taking Blame.) According to Every single woman who has ever filed for a Divorce, the Man is Responsible/at fault for That Divorce.

[@alexc4300]

I would love for any woman who agrees with the statement, “he should just know what I want,” to be asked to identify what their partner wants. And judged on how closely it matches what the partner actually wants. Because I’ll bet it’s really really not just, “bedroom things.”

[@nickthompson1812]

@@alexc4300 here’s where your logic falters: they aren’t expected to know what you want, but you ARE expected to know what she wants. Otherwise, you aren’t paying enough attention to her to pick up her likes/dislikes 😂

[@BattleFrog69420]

Your last statement doesn’t make sense “or they want to destroy their dating market place competition” If a girl/woman is already in a relationship with a perfect bf or man, that means they are already off the market 😅

[@ZeroNumerous]

@@BattleFrog69420 Tell me you don't know women without telling me you don't know enough women. Broken married women will look at their own GODDAMN DAUGHTERS as competition.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.

[@DianaJovita]

The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

[@DianaJovita]

Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.

[@andrewbedell9175]

Insane, had me going for sec, these damn bots

[@williammaxwell1919]

"The bedroom thing" is only part of a relationship, not all of it. As for resentment; my experience is that this is due to a woman overfocusing on what she expects from a partner but not expressing her expectations (a.k.a. "he should know what I expect without me having to tell him")

[@pattyb6003]

"I'm happy to help with whatever you need, just let me know." "I shouldn't HAVE to tell you."

[@robertdavenport5457]

If you really loved me you would know what I need/want

[@brucekeller8903]

Yes, apparently telepathy is mandatory for any man in a marriage.

[@GodhandPlusOne]

"I'm a useless human being because i have tits"

[@thathalfthaiguy]

I disagree, it’s not her over focusing over what “she expects” but being selfish and not focusing on what his needs and desires are. Her desires should be secondary… as men often do in relationships. These girls are spoiled brats that men choose to marry. Men need to use better filters and not get involved with these types of girls. Accountability on both sides

[@bruceporcaro3930]

This entire video is about me and my LAST relationship EXACTLY!! 😢 Moving forward ALONE is just fine with me! I'm done with the drama.

[@dagwood1327]

We’ve been married 50 years. Young lovers that never gave up at the same time. Love magic (passion) is nice. We have had love magic a lot of years. But having someone that has your back when the love magic has faded a bit is true love. Marriage is not a 50 / 50 relationship, it is 100% / 100%. I really like what you said, “the grass is greener where it is watered”.

[@missyd0g2]

Perfectly said

[@adrianlacey937]

I think I get more from reading these comments.

[@jacqueslee2592]

You are from a different era and generation. Women are no longer the same no less the concept of marriage, family, and love. All of this has changed.

[@dagwood1327]

@ no doubt.

[@RickD62]

Half of what you do is not noticed by your other half, so it needs to be at least 67%/67% to even feel like 50/50.

[@davidwilson537]

I'm 26yr old single man and I happened to come across one of your youtube shorts, and loved it. I love your videos they give me so much to think about that I never actually I would need to have a conversation like that.

[@verilyheld]

In Star Trek, the Kobayashi Maru test is used to teach StarFleet Academy applicants that they can do everything right yet still lose. They don't however go up to those about to graduate and tell them 'hey, you did everything right the past four years, but we're throwing you out anyway!'

[@lurkhive3352]

Brad Pitt was literally the model male and multi millionaire, famous, and generally well thought of: dumped. The richest women in the world achieved that position from divorcing men- think about Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk. If a man wins the lottery: how can I enrich and elevate my family and friends. If a women wins the lottery, it's statistically likely she will file for divorce. Not true for all women. If you have a good women, hold onto her.

[@hachi666roku]

Women want their Kirk- no exceptions 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lurkhive3352]

@hachi666roku Captain Pikard is a better character, because Kirk isn't a realistic character. He's a Mary Sue. Does everything better than every other crew member. Example: fights like Worf. If anyone think it's not relevant, remember that Star Trek was set for cancelation and only saved by suburban housewives.

[@jjennings089]

I'm impressed on how well this comparison works.

[@reidmason2551]

@@lurkhive3352 Kirk is as far from a Mary Sue as it gets. The man, while unquestionably the Superman of the *Trek* universe, is a very flawed individual and gets called out on it nonstop by his closest friends. Spock and McCoy are always pointing out when Kirk's judgment is faulty or when he's acting up and making really stupid mistakes. The entire point of *Wrath of Khan* was that Kirk was handling middle age poorly, that he was letting his disgust with himself interfere with his ability to do his job well, and that his insistence on ignoring and denying his personal losses was going to blow up in his face (being forced to watch Spock die in front of him). Even his past as a womanizer bites him hard when his own adult son spends much of the movie mistrusting and hating him. And in *Undiscovered Country,* his grudge against the Klingons over the murder of his son led to him making a huge fool of himself, including lashing out in unthinking rage in front of a very disappointed Spock (his "let them die" outburst that he almost immediately realized was a stupid thing to say). A Mary Sue character DOESN'T have those setbacks and failings, nor do they ever get taken to task for the things they do or face consequences for their actions. By that metric alone, Kirk doesn't qualify in the least. His heroism and accomplishments are constantly undercut by his personal failings. That's why he's one of the franchise's signature characters.

[@thepainphantom]

Kids know to "don't talk to strangers." Adults these days need to know as well: "don't listen to strangers yapping."

[@ryancormack6934]

As a hysband, I've upped my communication game and it has helped me immeasurably to gently but firmly call out my wife's behavior when she acts on terrible advice.

[@gc4644]

But your lucky in that your wife must not be much of a Narcissist. Most women today are DEEPLY narcissistic and vehmously reject being told/shown/proven that they are wrong or out of line. Most also blatantly refuse to ever even apologize, so their men (and the rest of the family) are forced to walk on eggshells for eternity. Count your blessings dude, you got a unicorn..

[@brittneysmall1152]

From very early on in our relationship my husband has been very good at pointing out when I’m acting on bad advice, being immature, not thinking things through, etc. and I’m thankful to him for it. He’s also good at accepting my advice for him too. So it isn’t a one sided thing and I wanted to make that clear. But yeah I think that’s great. Couples should bring out the best in each other and one way they do so is by being another point of view and keeping each other on track.

[@kanadianbacon7733]

*"Effective Communication is THE KEY!"*

[@elwoodblues9613]

She'll divorce you anyway, you know. Protect yourself and your assets.

[@ejparker13]

Having negative feelings or doubt is normal. Getting through those thoughts takes time and appreciation

[@tlawhon]

The lack of accountability and self-awareness is appalling... my wife of 22 years and I still have our issues, but we are committed, and we know it. Each of us is aware of our own failings.

[@kurtvanluven9351]

Thank you for your example. Of course every time I hear of a success, I think maybe I will find someone.......................I mean more likely than being hit by lightning anyway. Happy New Year!

[@ocacruises]

Thank you. Married 23 years. I have security issues and she is amazing. She has her own issues but she is perfect for me.

[@candycottrell6469]

I think the key word here is committed, you are both committed to your relationship. When one no longer is, the marriage is over unfortunately.

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

Hey, I thought the exact same thing at 22 years of marriage. Fast forward and this year would have been our 25th! I was looking forward to that milestone. Unfortunately my wife filed for divorce two months before our 24th anniversary. I'm still in the depths of the divorce and she has shown how evil or messed up she is. I continue to try and be respectful and I'm trying really hard to survive this. Good luck not becoming me in the near future.

[@ocacruises]

@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor let's hope not. If it does go south I'll survive. I won't ever date again but will go back to life before the wife. DTA

[@richardjohnson4052]

I miss you sliding across the screen. My wife never left me. She loved what I did for her but she also loved the attention strangers gave her and she loved men who were hung-to-their-knees. She just thought that she could keep me taking care of her and still have her lovers on the side. She was wrong.

[@shaolinotter]

its not even just about leaving, it's that women cheat before they leave at least 99% of the time

[@dothedewinme]

If not already physically they have been lining things up behind the scenes. Even going back to high school I’ve never been broken up with where the woman wasn’t immediately already exclusively dating somebody else within the week.

[@im1who84u]

@@dothedewinme When I was younger I always wondered how they were able to find somebody so quick. Now I know that it wasn't as quick as it looked.

[@alextz2443]

@@dothedewinmehahahaha! Oh, if they cut you off, they’re getting it somewhere else.

[@StillNotCancelled]

@@dothedewinme Yeah, I don't think that 99% of women cheat, but a majority of women will start interviewing for the position before they fire you. For some, sex is part of the interview process, while others don't cheat so that they can maintain the fiction that they did nothing wrong during the relationship.

[@pbmpharmacist]

​@@StillNotCancelledhe didn't say they cheat 99% of the time. He said if they're going to leave you then they'll have cheated. If they leave, they've probably already cheated.

[@spikegds7]

Mrs Emily, I've been watching your content for a while and I really like your perspective that most people never see. Keep up the work with spreading this information for all to see. God bless you and your husband, he found the one!

[@SirYowdy]

Did Emily get married? 🤔

[@michaelayling8855]

Most women don't feel passion,the wedding cake seals this.

[@Jack908r]

Can't recall who said this. Most women are in love with the idea of being in love.

[@kanadianbacon7733]

*"X act lie"*

[@timb7328]

You are one of the 1st women who actually talks how women dont communicate and think they do. In many comment sections I have tried to explain men and women talk and perceive things differently what you might think he should know and understand he might not have a clue...same thing he might say to her. Some women now love buzz words whose meaning are different than the usually thought of definition. One talked about how she stuck around for months before leaving and didnt want sex because she was "mentally fearful" and that is why she didnt want to "open herself up, or let him inside her" I said if you are afraid of the guy then leave right away dont hang around where you are afraid of getting hurt... She says....that isnt what I meant, I wasnt afraid of him and you knew what I mean but were just being...inserts insults. I tried to tell her I actually didnt and so she posts some off the wall womans sight that uses slang and buzz words and their definition. SO I posted the webster definition and told her how she bragged about being such a great communicator and blamed everything on her husband but pointed out how she uses uncommon meanings and slang and couldnt even talk to someone on the internet for more than two responses without insults and getting upset, so I doubt her husband finds her a good communicator either.

[@jeremymilliren6350]

Wow, you nailed exactly what happened in my marriage and divorce. So much so my ex talked about me in such a way that my now grown adult sons want nothing to do with me. All because I didn't fight like her.

[@kingjbone1]

I feel bad for you and your sons. They're going to end up w/ women "just like mom" and end up "just like dad" in the end.

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

That's known as parental alienation. I'm going through that myself.

[@im1who84u]

Just stay single guys and avoid all of this.

[@lehisilver1191]

I wanted the same.I hired a lawyer to do my fibiting.And somehow I came out the bad guy they said I what did I win

[@SecretMarsupial]

James Sexton (divorce lawyer) talks about guys with this mindset. He says during proceedings you have to have the mindset that thatbis NOT your wife. That is now a different creature, an adversary that will hold nothing back and be vicious and you must match that. He gives real solid relationship advice too and i think he no longer recommends marriage for most.

[@Pittboss4127]

In my relationships I always found myself falling more in love with my spouse instead of the other ways around where people fall out of love. I've never felt that way and it's hard to relate. I guess I have always focused in on what I appreciate most instead of what I despise and I think that is the difference. Too many people focus on the negative and then become numb to the positive.

[@nikkisalazar6726]

My sister-in-law used to hate that I loved, served and appreciated my husband so much. She gossiped to my family that he was abusing me, which he was not. (We had inside jokes she couldn't grasp). Tried to tell me I could do better. Her marriage to my brother lasted 3 yrs, she got pregnant from a 1 night stand. I'm more in love with my husband now, going on four decades, big family and still growing. There are seasons to marriage, each with a higher love that overshadows the honeymoon phase making that look like a crush. God knew what He was doing in His design for marriage.

[@Aurea_mediocritas50]

This type of woman was already contaminated by bad boys. She's downright addicted to the thrill, the butterflies, the drama, which gives her the dopamine rush she needs. That's why she feels so empty, bored and dissatisfied with a solid provider. She definitively needs a detox cure. The problem are also those men who put a woman on a pedestal and read her every wish from her lips. This automatically leads to toxic relationship dynamics and cheating. PS: I know what it's like as a father to suddenly be faced with chaillt obb use allegations. My ex-wife and ex-mother-in-law tried to put me under pressure. But they didn't succeed.

[@johnblackhead2384]

Again, I’ll just stay single.

[@EFJoKeR]

Wise choice, my young padawan. 😂

[@johnblackhead2384]

@ I’m 60. I wish I were young.

[@adama1294]

You will miss out on the best things in life if you don't face that risk.

[@johnblackhead2384]

@ I’m 60. Been there, done that. She took the t-shirt.

[@louisenglish8069]

Yep, watch your six and keep your guard up gents

[@cfjohnson7369]

The grass is always greenest over the septic tank

[@GravitonSmith]

Wait a second, these women want someone that makes their body sing? Talk about a high bar. I think "The best move is not to play" is the appropriate response here.

[@custa73burner]

My ex wife left the first time I said "no" to her. She wouldn't talk about it or discuss it, just packed and left. Her father later pleaded with me to take her back, but the damage was done, and permanent. I have not married again but am in a settled, long term relationship, and very happy.

[@thisdyingsoul76]

While I recognize the source of the unhappiness is not necessarily the man when he is a "perfect husband " and she has to work on herself; if she's not willing to do that and in being miserable she's making me miserable... do me a favor and show yourself out. My ex told me I was the perfect husband but she felt she could do better... she did me a favor. I met a woman that appreciates me. Meanwhile, every time someone gives me unsolicited updates about her, she's with a different man. I'm guessing that finding "better than perfect " isn't as easy as she thought 😂😂😂

[@paulsengupta971]

But she's getting variety and newness all the time which is what most women seem to want. If it isn't new clothes, a new kitchen, a new bathroom, it's a new man. Continually changing is what keeps a woman entertained.

[@casualtruffle]

I wish I could tell you everything that has happened to me over the last year, but it's still on going, and the police are involved. So I can't. But this video pretty much nailed what's been going on with my ex. I've been told time and time again by friends, family and even solicitors that I have been abused in every way, but I still don't believe them. All I know is that I gave her everything and now I have nothing. Not even my reputation within my small community thanks to her and her social media. I'm drawing some small comfort that others might actually understand my situation. So, thank you for your videos. They have been a big source of comfort.

[@ZeroNumerous]

You definitely sound like you've been abused.

[@moibuspm]

They want drama...screaming and yelling and constantly having fights. The nice guy is "boring" to them. Thats all it is.

[@ericks6770]

Men want Mr. Rogers. Women want Jerry Springer.

[@arcanewyrm6295]

Let's not forget the irony of the ones who instigate most of the arguments and then use "all the fighting" as another reason to end it.

[@daddoo5268]

They drop a first nuclear strike by claiming abuse, either of themselves or the kids. That gets the law and courts on her side. Friends and family either have to side with her or remain neutral. The man is then isolated, usually locked out of his house and from his money.

[@PrairieWolf45-u5p]

That is exactly what happened to me. 💯

[@BasileusDudek]

+and constantly sending cops to test for alc.... test always showed 0... but then the gossip, rumors, neighbours, friends ...

[@paulscottrobson]

@@PrairieWolf45-u5p Sorry to hear that. This will die out, partly much more recording, but mainly because men are not getting married. I'm expending it to expand to "living together" (in some places it already is) RSN, and outward.

[@stephenslade2317]

I was married for 39 years then my wife died of cancer. We didn’t always have a great time and bedroom fun wasn’t always fun but we stayed the course and when we clicked it was magical 😍😁 I thought I was good in bed, but after she passed I realised I was good at following her subtle hints and direction 👍👍😁😁❤️

[@DerMatticusFink]

This is toxic bullcrap. If you’re unhappy, it’s your responsibility. Do not punish your partner for things it’s up to you to control.

[@daleal7250]

That woman is dead inside, period. There’s nothing any man can do to help her. Every man is better off without her. I feel sorry for the next one she fools.

[@thebatman8895]

The 90/10 rule is exactly what happened to me. My ex-wife actually said that to me that 90% of our relationship is perfect, but 10% needs a bit of work so she gives up instead of working on this 10%. She even said the 10% were such small things and were fixable, but she didn't want to tell me what this 10% was or work on this 10% at all. It was the most heartbreaking part of my marriage and family breakdown.

[@doobiedoo7623]

Batman, I believe that your ex did not want to work on that 10% with you because she was already involved with someone else. Sorry man but sometimes the simplest explanations are the right ones when we question why our lives are falling apart. Do not dwell on it for too long because she did you a big favor. Remember if you are looking back, you are not moving forward. Go live your life because I am sure that you will meet someone that will make you much happier than your ex. Stay strong brother.

[@thebatman8895]

@ I know my ex was not cheating, but your point on not dwelling on the past is a good one. I have focused on the past and the family which has been destroyed so much and it has prevented me from finding true happiness moving forward.

[@doobiedoo7623]

@@thebatman8895 Batman, I said the same thing about my wife (that she was not cheating) but I discovered by accident after separation a year later that she was. I too was in what I thought was a great marriage. All of sudden she wants out and uses a lame excuse to leave our marriage. Sometimes the signs that our spouses are cheating are right in front of us but we do not see them because we love and trust the person. And would never expect something like that from them. Lets say even if you are right and she was not cheating (IMO she was but you have not found out yet) I would still give you the same advice. Which is move on with your life and do not look back because you will eventually find someone that will make you happier than your ex. Even if you do not find someone else, you will still be happier in time. If what you stated about your marriage is true, your ex will soon realize that she made a big mistake bailing out on your marriage. But you will most likely never hear about it because the majority of women do not like to admit to their big mistakes. Women are selfish little creatures who do not think past their noses. Like I stated in my previous comment, move on with your life, do not look back. Take good care of yourself. Eat good and go to the gym. Exercise is a good stress reliever and its beneficial to your health. And you will look physically good. Also, whenever you start feeling sad or depressed, get the hell out of the house and do something to keep your mind busy.

[@longgone9869]

@@thebatman8895 I believe most women won’t let go of one man before they have a good grip on another

[@brentjohnson7044]

One peculiar cause of resentment is a transactional view of the relationship. When one partner pours a lot into the other, and the other does not reciprocate to the same degree, the less invested partner may start feeling guilty. This can lead to resentment: the less invested partner ends up feeling that the more invested partner (e.g. the "perfect husband") is *making* her feel guilty/bad.

[@GazzaJollyRoger8152]

Been watching your short clips, came across this video and boy did it hit home big time! I ended up getting divorced and what a mess it was! All the crazy lies, everything was my fault even though she was sleeping with other people. She attempted to destroy my career with her lies after being caught red handed with her cheating ! Brain washed our child against me with her lies! One word "Narcissistic "... There is no such thing as a so-called perfect person, we are human!!

[@0patience4flz]

Some women walk a path that leads to destruction but they plod on knowing their choices will destroy them and everyone around them. But a woman does what she wants.

[@titusp9280]

Emily, you are insightful and I enjoy your content. I find myself feeling less like a failure after 12 plus years being single after giving up on dating and a little jealous when you show videos of women praising their man. Don’t be scared to tell us what we are commonly doing wrong or advice on how to ask things. Like your ‘hints’ video, I’m terrible at noticing hints, which has caused me blow a ton of opportunities. That wasn’t the intent of your video but it definitely brought my ineptitude to the surface

[@hjagger]

10 years single and counting. Happy to not have to deal with bullshit.

[@mitchjohnson7672]

You’re spot on with your view. Marriage takes work and vows are sacred and not to be entered into lightly. Selfish decisions to end a marriage for no good reason have lasting impact for both parties and sadly, children as well. I pray my now grown children will not continue this destructive cycle with their own families.

[@georgedeluna855]

I could go on and on here. What if men took the attitude that women suggests? And some do to be fair but most don't. Men get swayed by attraction far more than women and we get angry and fed up with them too. But when most men make a commitment, they see it through. There should be no more no-fault divorces anymore and the villain should be the one who suffers the split. Shame needs to be a thing again too.

[@Dominic1962]

Very true. When men do leave for the younger woman-practically everyone thinks he’s garbage for doing it and have no problem saying it.

[@brandendebuhr2997]

I'm one of the higher ground men... So totally right Emily! You hit the nail right on the head!!!

[@willsatozlife4359]

Lost my wife after 28 years of marriage. Better off today.

[@nowiride]

This is exactly what happened to me and after 27 years of marriage. She disconnected from the family over a span of a few months then rented a house one day and sent me a text that she was leaving. My daughter lives with her and my sons stayed with me, so our family is broken.

[@roberthurt2199]

I just want a good women that doesn't cheat

[@alpha1481]

Ahahahahahahahaha good one. Wait you're serious?

[@roberthurt2199]

@alpha1481 yes I'm serious

[@tankiller9638]

Good luck, I'm 27 and I actively gave up 3 years ago, and any time I go back, it's only for maybe a week, get my rocks off and leave as most women are just frankly not worth it, at least I haven't found one yet. My best advice is to love yourself and be happy being single most your life. There is almost no women left that have an ounce of loyalty, there is a reason pumping and dumping has become such a favorite activity for men as it has for women *shrugs* they hate how we act but most are just matching energies

[@roberthurt2199]

@tankiller9638 Ive been cheated on 3 times but u can't give up on love

[@tankiller9638]

@roberthurt2199 pffft I have, I have yet to see it around me other than my family. All my friends have had their wives divorce them...good men with well off jobs, more than enough money, solid in the looks department, gentle firm and kind. Every last one of them had half of everything they made taken, their houses, and their kids. They struggle with why they even continue to exist on this planet...you can keep hoping man but I'd just be realistic about it. Most women only want a man because they know there is only upsides to it

[@DraQinn]

3:10 What she's describing has everything to do with her and little to do with him, unless he's a feminine male. Most women don't feel good about those relationships because they're dead inside from sleeping around too much. Their ability to pairbond is dead.

[@IMakeThingsFly]

This video is a woman confessing to divorcing her husband because of problems internal to her and responding to the guilt by trying to normalize it. He's better off without you.

[@crucifiddle]

Great video, Emily. I work in the health field and mostly with women. I wish I had a dollar for everytime I've heard a female say" oh, he's a great guy but I'm just bored and need MORE in my life". These ladies are addicted to the tingle. And probably still will be when they're 75.

[@1SevenFive]

A big problem is that so many women tend not to have hobbies like men do. They don’t know what to do with themselves. If they aren’t chatting, socializing, or gossiping, they’re bored, and think something is missing with him.

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

"Single women keep women single", Kevin Samuels, who is sitting at Lord's right hand.

[@polooksee7654]

The great sadness is that people are ranting to the social media void instead of communicating in an adult manner with a fellow human being who is also on a journey in a complex, confusing and confronting world. Thank you, Emily, for being a rational and caring voice in this fraught modern media environment. And to everyone out there; respect each other, we need each other more than ever. Peace. :)

[@Resist.Tyranny]

"Familiarity breeds contempt" She wants the exciting newness, the ""honeymoon phase" all the time. SMH immature.

[@gjuldzemalmilenko70]

It takes two to put effort. She excluded herself as responsible for the situation. What did she do or didn’t do to make life interesting and fun? This advice from women that themselves have horrible life, are so damaging that impacts society on multiple levels. Excellent video. Thank you

[@mikehammer2075]

Most young women just want to get married and have children because their girl friends are doing it and they don't like the feeling of being "left out". None of my friends got married for those reasons, they got married because they fell in love with the person and want to share a life together!

[@johnhartsock1891]

An old guy said he never wanted to be a father because it's way too expensive to do so

[@paulsengupta971]

The strongest couples I know are childless.

[@JAY-wb2fv]

If you (women) cancel/disregard/remove/dislike/withhold sex, pick your word, it's done. It's that simple.

[@ninawilliams7701]

This is so much more nuanced than this video represents. There are all kinds of narcissists and cluster B disordered women out there who leave good men. Considder it lucky if they leave you. They need constant drama.

[@LordReginaldMeowmont]

"The grass is always greener where the dogs are shitting." -Soundgarden

[@johnromeo5145]

Good song! RIP Chris Cornell

[@williamk6605]

Lmao

[@dbird1356]

Once again, well done Emily! The “advice giving” video woman is a child… regardless of her age. The “Tingles” don’t last past a year or two. They don’t disappear, they evolve into a warmer more mature and stable love, a deeper affection based on many factors not just the superficial elements that first attracted you. Many Modern women have no idea about life because they remain immature and shallow way beyond women of even a few years ago. Men who invest time, emotion and money in a woman can no longer expect a relationship that returns appreciation, reciprocity or even simple acknowledgement. And that is just not good enough. Grow up ladies. The days of leisure are over. This is why good men are no longer interested in a modern woman.

[@timallen643]

This sounds like a woman that a psychologist described, she's not happy at all and she acts like it's your job to make her happy and magically fix her, like Disney stories. She also mentioned dead in the bedroom, then why are you with him in the first place.

[@peterhaeberlin7479]

„The grass is greener where it is watered!“ So true💪

[@ryanvilladsen727]

I always love those kind of videos where narcissists try to convince other narcissists that it's ok to be narcissists. As if they had any guilt or reservations in being a narcissist in the first place. Pretty funny. I love your advice though, I only hope women actually listen to it. NOT holding my breath.

[@gordduncan5859]

The 3 most important things in a relationship are 1)Communication 2)Communication 3)Communication. He can't fix something he doesn't know is broken.

[@Ed19601]

When women have a 99% perfect man, they go search for a man to give them that lacking 1%. And when they leave their husband for that, they might discover that 1% is all the other guy had to offer

[@tmedocianis]

"This is the advice we need to land on." Yes Maam! What great "Mom Advice" she delivered. This woman is "FIRE."

[@burblegobble]

wait so now I've got to worry that my significant other is secretly harboring resentment and feeling dead inside? no matter how much effort I put in and how much I care about her think about her, and do for her? nice.

[@tdrive398]

There are tens of thousands of stories of Men who thought their wife/GF was "amazing", that they were "lucky", and that everything was "perfect"... only to be "blind-sided" when she drops the nuke on him. Womyn are gullible, emotional creatures who primarily use Men and relationships to gain something (resources, status); if they listen to bitter harpies, they can change on a dime. That's why you have to pay close attention to their friends, coworkers and social media use. They can be easily p0isoned against you, even though they may have previously been devoted to you.

[@Dominic1962]

Oh, you don’t have to worry. Just know that she is.

[@paulsengupta971]

The fun in all this is that if you have a good one, putting in the effort reaps rewards. If you have a bad one, putting in the effort just turns her off over time, and is the sort who responds to "Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" sort of behaviour. The problem is you won't find out which is which until you've been married for 25 years.

[@FQuainton]

Emily, I really like what you have to say. I think it needs to be pointed out that men are starting to seriously go scorched earth in divorce scenarios. Some men now would rather go to jail instead of paying a dime after the divorce.

[@paulscottrobson]

And they're not getting married. What's the point ?

[@michaelweaver6733]

What will happen is if the husband makes ANY MISTAKE, no matter if it is not something that would normally be considered as grounds for divorce, the wife will run with it as a reason they need to end the marriage. The truth is, they WILL have to give an account before the Lord for committing a grave sin without being repentant. If they have ANY wisdom about them, they will know and understand this prior to the marriage and keep it in their heart and mind throughout it!

[@michaelrothfusz7099]

Thank you for all the good advice you share with everyone. Yes people have to communicate and work on things!

[@richb2229]

Marriage and being a “Provider” is a losing proposition for men. More and more men are figuring this out. 65% of men aren’t in a long term relationship and that percentage is growing.

[@SecretMarsupial]

2/3 pf women are dating 1/3 of the men. People pretend like they dont see whats happening and where this going. The trend will continue.

[@MonkeyMind69]

I saw a Study where it's within 2 to 2.5 years that the initial 'In Love' Hormones tend to wear off. This will happen in any relationship. You'll still feel love, but it won't have that 'butterfly's' kind of feeling. If a woman (or man) takes this as the relationship has lost its magic, they can make the mistake of thinking it's time to move on, but will only be condemning themselves to the loneliness that comes without having a committed partner later in life. Not having sparks is OK. Love, compatibility, trust, and dedication to each other is what people need to be looking for.

[@FinalManaTrigger]

Actually, dumping him is doing him a favor if she really feels that way inside. She deserves to be single and miserable alone. Let him be free to find true happiness elsewhere.

[@TrevorRobertKelk-bq6zn]

You're supposed to be a team, teammates talk through their game plan. Keep the pillow talks going!!! Much love to all from Trev in Yorkshire. P.s. always been an optimistic guy with fingers crossed!!Hahaha ❤😂😂😂😂😂❤

[@bonvoyage5377]

The grass is never greener, just a different shade of green

[@asherdevin]

Well why leave? Just cheat and then gaslight him into thinking he's the problem. It's happened to me 3 times now, maybe 4. I'm at the point where I genuinely don't understand the value of a relationship anymore. I can hurt myself just fine. What else does she bring to the table? Dismiss my feelings? Argue? I can give myself those things too.

[@gary1334]

I know I am childish and self centered at time. I fully admit it. My wife calls me out on my BS. I know I’m hard to deal with a lot but my wife is dedicated to me. I WANT to be better for her. She has proven to me that she’s not trying to fit me into a “box” of her choosing but she’s trying to get me to see what kind of man I can be. I have a QUEEN.

[@koolkevin2357]

You put out the best and most well spoken information. Thank you for doing what you do! And doing it with the right attitude. You Rock!

[@Crayfish-]

@ 9:00 .. I saw a T.V. show once where this lady said ( To the effect ), that there was; " a Right way to Argue " ! And that was That one side would say; When you do ( or say ) that, It Makes me feel [ This way or that ] . And the other side would respond in a respectful way ! And so on & so forth .

[@catmanx]

You are great, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability and stories you tell and teach. Thanks.