Physical attraction: how important is it in a relationship?

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[@summernight7587]

Couldnt have said it any better! People try act like your being Shallow when u want a partner that is physically attractive. Like the video said: its not all that matters but it definitely is a factor

[@BlackCulturalPreservation2023]

Starts 1:37

[@donniestewart893]

Heart of Gold lol

[@rockinout4990]

Heart of Gold Thank you!

[@begrateful9836]

Heart of Gold ty

[@sarwi0]

Hahaha Thank youuuuuu , 👏

[@raymundofantastico]

You sound like a great teacher and I admire such messages delivered in the manner that you did. Physical attraction does keep us bound together (man & woman) with the person but it doesn't tell you all of his/her story. Thanks for the message and I've just subscribed to your channel!

[@annaabudapest9058]

My husband is not objectively good looking. But we have an amazing chemistry and an amazing relationship. It started slowly as I was not attracted at first, then I got to know him at work and ....wow..my angel

[@Autumn_Forest_]

Your voice is soooo relaxing! I also like it that you quote scripture. Great info!

[@heavymetarismyway9741]

That's a nice little acoustic piece there in the beginning of the video. Very pretty.

[@user-nd6fx8sk1p]

OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH. THIS VIDEO GAVE ME SO MUCH CONFIDENCE. IM REALLY INSECURE WITH MY BODY AND FACE... CAUSE I HAVE VARICOSE VEINS IN MY LEGS AND STRETCH MARKS ON MY WAIST. AT THE AGE OF 15.

[@lamonkincade7152]

What you see is what you get, and you deserve every ounce of the results.

[@MAMP]

This was a good assessment :)

[@sofiaramirez3072]

That's a great advise but what do the person do when the other person wants to get physical and you don't like the idea?

[@TomiToluhi]

Sofia Ramirez Great question. You've got to be clear about your convictions and what you really want. A person who respects your boundaries is worth spending time with. A person who doesn't cares only about themselves and really doesn't deserve your time. You have a right to own your space.

[@Bmoregaydude]

Alot of you guys that are in the comments are extremely defensive and don't understand what she was talking about stop interpreting what shes saying is wrong or superficial that's not what she meant she meant if you want to be In a happy relationship you should still have physical attraction because it will play a big huge role in a relationship stop being dumb and neive and pity dating so you won't hurt their feelings because that doesn't make you a better person it makes you a liar and God hates a liar and I'm not coming here judging because I'm a liar too but don't lie to yourself thinking you are atrracted to the person and you are truly not

[@msprettykawaii950]

Actually Science studies show that if the person loves you, you will be the most attractive person for him/her. Attraction is Very important as sex is one of the main core of marriage.

[@RoboRocker69]

It's one of how many main components? You don't need a science study to realize that intimacy (sex) plays an important role in a unity between two people. Married or not married.

[@begrateful9836]

What to do in one sided attraction?

[@TomiToluhi]

A relationship can only thrive where the attraction is mutual. If it's one sided it's best to move on before you get too emotionally involved and get hurt by their indifference.

[@begrateful9836]

Tomi Toluhi but that girl is being forced into the relationship by fam pressure and everyone advices to wait till the attraction grow 😭

[@TomiToluhi]

Humna No one should ever feel forced to marry someone. Marriage should be a freewill choice. She should find someone she can trust to talk to.

[@yeseniasplace]

Tomi Toluhi good advice

[@rmiller2741]

Very important. Its more than flesh.

[@atenchongsilva3043]

Is it advisable for a woman to marry a man younger than her

[@TomiToluhi]

Ndungayaw Yvette Please watch this video where I answered that question. . kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKS5hItooKp6fLc

[@chrisrees7054]

A person eyes are a window to their soul, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@tipoftheiceberg7034]

As soon as someone puts god over science with these things then Im like "Yeah you're gonna bring god into a lot more than just this"

[@RoboRocker69]

You lost me at God. Why can't humans behave like humans without having to reference God as the source. I'm out of here

[@anmariee5560]

Because without God, humans won't know the basis of love. I'll pray that you will one day realize. Please accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior today because He loves you ultimately.

[@zeerie7521]

Without God people are lost souls. God is love that's why he gave his son Jesus to die for us on the cross. You have to understand that Jesus is love and if you would just take time out to read the word you would understand. I am suggesting John the whole chapter, he is able to give you anything, but you have to have faith.

[@tinuolaolarewaju5057]

Humans cannot 'behave like humans' without God!

[@RoboRocker69]

@@tinuolaolarewaju5057 Which God is responsible for our behavior? There's so many!

[@MommaChaela]

God is the creator