"Pick Me" Guys On TikTok | Sad Boyz

[@wrask]

the ways men romanticize their own emotional repression is just really unsettling when you zoom out to the bigger picture

[@SafavidAfsharid3197]

Women in my country protested against criminalisation of male rape vack in 2013 in india by calling that anti women.

[@tinniesealjiji]

​@@SafavidAfsharid3197 sorry thar happened

[@1WEareBUFO1]

​@@SafavidAfsharid3197.... what? That's like convicted sex offenders petitioning for less strict punishment. Biggest red flag.

[@BurntL]

I think they should have Jordan be the focus of the thumbnails and then have a shrunken down tiny Jarvis sitting on his shoulder. I believe that this will spike viewer engagement by 1,000,000,000,000,000%

[@1WEareBUFO1]

A shiny Jarvis reflected in his glasses lens

[@ScoutSilico]

Then we can play find the Jarvis!

[@karipinks]

I agree

[@blueninjakick5387]

I did the math, they're right.

[@K.D.3.14]

This comment is awful. If you ACTUALLY do the math, that value of percentage isn’t anywhere near accurate. How you could comment this is beyond me. I don’t know how but you’re 1,000,000,000,000 percentage points shy of the actual value. Next time, make sure you input enough zeros. Gross miscalculations should be illegal.

[@sweetest-of-memes]

As a woman, the “man written by a woman” guy made me laugh so gd hard and caused me genuine discomfort 😭 whenever the internet says a dude is the “female gaze” or “written by a woman” it’s almost always some guy exploiting basic levels of empathy for women and expecting applause for it.

[@Elleroo]

Ok but. Collin Firth as Mr. Darcy 😋

[@Corarii]

its almost like they shouldnt co-opt women using that trend, it feels slimy, like when they right wingers misuse the term woke

[@ellamaymcc5173]

But Hozier....

[@codybishop7526]

the try hard "nice guy" effect

[@SafavidAfsharid3197]

Guys says same towards pickeme girls lol. That how having empathy towards men makes them pickeme girls.

[@optimism4603]

My favorite part of Sad Boyz is Jordan saying whatever he wants and Jarvis going I’m not commenting on this.

[@lynnazor]

110% gets me every time

[@1WEareBUFO1]

I liked the little flip of Jarvis "believing in flat Earth" this time. Refreshing subversion of the normal sarcasm.

[@sillyyyyyybillyyyyyy]

he was written by a woman: colleen hoover

[@thequeenof14]

oh this comment hit

[@iantox2931]

In trying to "fit in" with guys as a trans guy, it's difficult to not fall into the toxic, anti-emotion culture. I do really appreciate the example you two have added to the online world

[@brookejon3695]

From what my trans friends and trans content creators have shared, I think over-correcting and adopting some of the more toxic or stereotyped traits of your gender is very common. You'll weed them out with time and self-reflection, man.

[@Khronogi]

These guys are great role models for men. I hope male culture adapts their thought processes.

[@obrien92]

+

[@sharklover365]

Literally perfectly worded comment

[@OpposumParty87]

Massively agree

[@leonliptak]

jarvis breaking down in laughter at the MENTION of the jojo siwa scary dance made me laugh so hard

[@andrwhopkns]

Nothing like a 2+ hour episode to make my night shift as a guard at the Ugly Museum a little more bearable

[@arithmomania1237]

The museum that you also own and live at of course.

[@ecliiipsssse]

the museum that we've also never heard of

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

do they hire lovely charismatic guards to make the guest experience of the ugly museum more immersive by comparison? (shoehorning in a positive spin)

[@shaunna23]

What? I’ve never heard of that place.

[@alinab.5852]

@@arithmomania1237 i read this comment before i got to the part in the episode and i was thinking "why is this comment kinda mean and has so many likes :("

[@ragingdevi]

I'm so sad you used the original of "guys raised by their dad/mom" tiktok, because I saw one that had the stitch "guys raised by flies" and it made sitting through the original worth it lol

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

is that the one with the guy rubbing his hands together and squatting a bit as he walks 😂

[@ragingdevi]

@@RealElongatedMuskrat YES 🤣 he rubs his hands like a fly and then smooths them down his face and does it again. I didn't expect it at all so I was crying laughing when it started lolol

[@Carolina57685]

i saw the one that was "guy raised by racoons" where the guy dips a slice of pizza in a bowl of water and eats it LMAO

[@candyh4284]

@@ragingdevi Kind of sad fact, that's actually a nervous tick that flies do, it's a self-soothing behavior, and in really high-stress situations, some flies have been observed rubbing their hands together so aggressively that they can injure themselves

[@candyh4284]

@@Carolina57685 the cotton candy raccoon

[@virtualprimatologist]

Laughing so hard at them curled up on the couch trying to squeeze the name Brian K Vaughan from their brains

[@ryanhatesgirls]

I'm just sitting here screaming Brian K Vaughan at my screen

[@fahrenheit2101]

"I GOT THE K!" - Jarvis, showing up to a party with ketamine.

[@zerothebear]

I was yelling at the screen like I was watching a trivia show lol

[@HaydenLucke]

You're lookin so happy Jarvis. I'm so glad you can find happiness from something.

[@emschlef]

I'm a trans guy who really appreciates the space y'all have created here. I've always struggled to discuss my feelings, but the openly emotional and empathetic conversations you have are a good model for what I can have with my own friends.

[@apolloscorner6011]

jordan doesn't even know that there is a 3rd supernatural brother

[@demetriam2408]

I have no context for this, what does this mean? Is this a reference to the show? Who are the supernatural brothers? Are they similar to the property brothers? Does the video even talk about this? Will I be paying attention when they talk about it? Find out more at seven.

[@resulavsardesigns]

@@demetriam2408 his name is adam

[@cynicismIncarnate]

To be fair, the showrunners forgot there was a 3rd Supernatural Brother

[@oops6876]

Jordan doesn’t know that there’s a third sad boy

[@demetriam2408]

@@oops6876 Anastasia or Austin?

[@Jax_isaViewer]

You said “the average listener who’s like… doing their art homework” as I’m drawing digitally while listening to sad boys after MONTHS of no drawing. And my heart dropped to my ass and I had to comment because HOW DID YOU KNOW JARVIS

[@lulu.Spagette]

I laughed so hard at jarvis and jordan carefully listening with their mics out to Anastasia when she said "as a woman" immediately followed up with "Shut up dude! we're- we're- this is for the boys!" from Jordan

[@akindlingofsorts]

i’ve been calling myself the [blank] bastard constantly lately, thanks for infiltrating my vocabulary jordan

[@aj7058]

Stopping framing specific food as bad and wrong is actually like the first real step to breaking the cycle of "indulging" in the habit. It's honestly amazing how your perception of food can change when you put in the work to treat it more neutrally or better still to honour the cravings you're having. It's like, when its bad and youre seeing it that way you kinda push yourself to have it cause this'll be the last time or whatever. When you see that eating an entire pizza is in fact a neutral act your desire for it wanes. You can have it whenever and knowing that makes you want it less. Bingeing is born from restriction - physical or mental. Im not explaining it the best but i do sincerely hope the best for you in your relationship with food.

[@MrGoldfish8]

You did a pretty good job of explaining, actually.

[@aj7058]

@@MrGoldfish8 that's sweet thank you

[@BubblegumSocialClub]

This is a great explanation!

[@mahyuhhh]

this mindset, specifically reminding myself that i will get to have yummy food again and this isn’t the last time i’m going to eat, has really helped me. plus approaching healthy eating by ‘adding’ rather than subtracting, such as ‘i can have this muffin with some strawberries which will fill me better and make me feel more satisfied’ rather than just not having the muffin because it’s ‘bad’

[@aj7058]

@@mahyuhhh yeah it's such a good way to adjust!! And if you really struggle with getting your fruit/veggies the Internet shaquille method of just making a big brown smoothie to chug can be a first step to this addition.

[@j.o3014]

Cole is defo transphobic he also gives props to Dave Chappelle in his most recent project along with transphbic lines 🤷🏻

[@Ramberta]

would you mind sharing the song(s) or albums that those are on so I can do my own research? thank you in advance

[@mo_oment]

@@Ramberta Might delete L8r Track 9 Pi: "They plead the fifth, I'm seeing hints of a trans fella In cancel culture's vicinity, he's no killer, trust me Beneath his chosen identity, there is still a pussy, period" Might delete l8r Track 1 Pricey: "Just like the Vegas strip, blowin' through chips, I'm rich, bitch, I'm rich David Chapelle on his latest Netflix Go 'head, try to cancel my shit" Compares himself to Dave Chapelle like one of the best fighting against cancel culture (dave chapelle openly transphobic) You can try to be charitable because J Cole presents as a kind person. But it doesn't detract from how this directly invalidates trans people and places him against them

[@chadfromsleepingbeauty]

@@RambertaI found one song called ‘Pi’ that has transphobic lines, it was sort of shocking to read through the lyrics actually, especially after hearing Jarvis and Jordan say they thought it wasn’t meant to be malicious or purposefully transphobic

[@stephe1506]

The Buttker conversation missed the part where the CATHOLIC, BENEDICTINE NUNS from the college released an official statement that basically read "Nah. He doesnt speak for us."

[@negaprionaszr]

The way my feelings on the grave cleaner spiked after you mentioned it was in Puerto Rico... I went from like "Yeah kind of a weird vibe" to a "NO" that was from the heart. People just love to engage with the ~uwu tragedy and struggle~~ of PR without engaging with it as a place where human people live and deal with the effects of climate catastrophe and US colonization.

[@punkrckr6889]

Honestly I blame BookTok for this guy. Like they’re all _obsessed_ with the romance novels Anastasia mentioned, where the male romantic leads are always borderline if not overtly abusive and weird. I’ll never understand it

[@LimeZestti]

Also don't support obvs but if you ever want to try understanding why these women are like this, Contrapoint's video Twilight is a masterpiece of deconstruction.

[@punkrckr6889]

@@LimeZestti I actually watched that one recently, it was really good!

[@LimeZestti]

@@punkrckr6889 Oh awesome!! And right??? Contra is a goddess among men her videos are insane

[@itzcolder8852]

Just want to say as a dude in his late 20s, I love this podcast. The vulnerability you guys show makes me realize I'm not alone in having bad days or times and more importantly it reminds me that my life isn't falling apart or over just because I'm dealing with these things at this time. Thanks boyz, Sad or Happy :)

[@TylaStark]

Shout out to Jacob for making the ketamine joke 😂 I was practically shouting the same thing at my screen 😂😂😂

[@anardi7112]

Demographic check in: every week listener, old enough to be either of your dads. Please focus content on stuff I care about like "The difference between Foreigner and REO Speedwagon," "comfortable shoes," and "why the kids are the way they are these days it's probably Grand Theft Auto." Thank you for reading your comments.

[@anardi7112]

Also, Jordan you need a CPAP. I don't mean that diagnostically, more that you can hang eight or nine hour solid restful hours of sleep with one and yet here we are.

[@lookatdemijipers]

​@@anardi7112he already got surgery for his deviared septum iirc, I'm sure he knows about CPAPs lol

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

​@@anardi7112 old enough to be their dad!? Sir! You are glowing.

[@FirstNameBunchANumbers]

Kids are that way CUZ OF THAT PHONE 👵😡

[@Khronogi]

​@@FirstNameBunchANumbersgrand theft auto mobile

[@vurpo7080]

> Nobody wants to hear anyone out The newest Philosophy Tube video (the one about the most misunderstood philosopher) is about exactly this issue. The "anti-woke" kind of people are fully ideologically opposed to listening to other people. Highly recommend watching that video!

[@emisformaker]

The line, "Listening is a form of submission," was such a lightbulb moment.

[@elizabethpemberton8445]

Oh yes, that one is excellent. It also made me realize how much Philosophy Tube lore I know as I thought about how to recommend it to people. “So first, watch this video where Rhys Tees is playing “Oliver” and then Abby comes out at the end, but wait, they should watch an [Oliver] video first, but which one?”

[@emisformaker]

@@elizabethpemberton8445 The Cosmonaut

[@candyh4284]

@@elizabethpemberton8445 I think this is sort of why Abby wrote the blackstar trilogy (Cosmonaut, men abuse trauma, and identity) the way she did, it's not "linear" per se, but it's all related

[@kev_whatev]

The episode where Jarvis takes any excuse to sing and Jordan takes any excuse to say “Hey bub”

[@Soon2BGhost]

When Jordan said “scary dance” after Jarvis talking about Olivia Rodrigo, I was so confused as to what scary dance Olivia was doing lol

[@tsj147]

same 😂

[@isobellemoxon1091]

jarvis is a man who loves phrases and idioms and I love him for it

[@aleak2385]

most tragic thing is my mom loves young sheldon and will at times excitedly mention something that happens on the show as reminding her of me (im autistic) and the most painful part about it is that when she describes what reminded her of me shes right its something i do T-T fucking roasted me while trying to be sincere so i cant even say anytihng

[@caorlimoes]

to be fair to your mom......young sheldon is so much more enjoyable and dare i say better written than tbbt 😭😭😭

[@The_Void_Between]

"I'm..a little teapot." XD and Olay & Lolo seem nice nice. Recently started watching them and it was nice to see them on. Also, I'm a woman, but I hope more guys find your channel as well. I have three nephews, with the oldest going to turn ten this year, and it'd be nice if your podcast also inspires more creators to be healthy examples of masculinity as well. Hope your channel will grow into what you imagine for it. It's been a good ride so far

[@The_Void_Between]

Also also, that guy has the same energy as Anakin Skywalker XD

[@Brunoxid0]

Jarvis I think you mixed "The 4400" with "The 100". It's from 2014, but that's one where a small group of people come back to earth.

[@RS-ik2my]

That moment where you're like "oh! They're gunna talk about the 4400. Love that show!" then they proceed to describe... not the 4400.

[@ND-nr6mx]

I heard such good things about The 100, then I watched the pilot and gave up in the first several minutes because of that guy and girl exposition-dumping why she hates him. It was so clunky and also if I'm mixing this up with an entirely different third show then the cycle will have continued.

[@2amazing101]

also the modern version of The 4400 that they essentially pitched is just Manifest lol. The writing and acting can be super corny, but the overall premise of large group being frozen in time and missing/presumed dead for years is fascinating.

[@ziggy___moon]

8:35 "you're 4 days late and it's a barmitzvah" fucking GOLD

[@smhivehadenough]

Jordan’s hair looks especially magnificent here

[@idknemore525]

Thank you Jordan for shouting out The Leftovers! It's one of my absolute favorite shows. Also I think Jarvis might have been thinking of The 100. That show is about 100 survivors in the post apocalypse. Although one of them dies like almost immediately.

[@ameliavelasco8602]

He was 101 😂

[@BrickInTheHead]

1:44:36 anastasia as the resident woman is the best sadboyz meme. get her a doctor's coat for this residency

[@ScootyTPuffSr]

kzbin.infoUgkxJxrTN-dm_gHjqXaXnfT3l5RUFN16zIFj?si=abEtpV_maqKvP_Ga This whole thing is so prophetic and hilarious

[@headintheclouds4571]

No for real she needs a degree lmaoo

[@jstarstudios7110]

OMG WAIT THAT'S WHY THEY SAY "RESIDENT __"

[@gentrum_6879]

the hoe math episode that heavily features her is one of my favorites!

[@lindensalter6713]

25:45 the best/worst example I have experienced is hatred towards asexual people. You know the people who don’t experience sexual attraction to ANYONE. The people who’s entire thing is not being sexually attracted to you somehow gets hate. Like they just want to enjoy their garlic bread and cake in peace 😭😭

[@Boycrush2000]

Yeah, as an ace person I think acephobia is an incredibly revealing prejudice. Lack of sexuality is still considered a deviation from the heterosexual norm in the same way homosexuality is. It’s such a, for lack of a better word, unobtrusive form of sexuality that the only explanation for acephobia is that you are uncomfortable with anyone who doesn’t fit the societal norm. This is obviously also the reason for any kind of homophobia, biphobia, etc, but it becomes more obvious when it comes to a sexuality that truly doesn’t affect anyone

[@TPNsBiggestFan]

lol i was just texting my friend abt being frustrated abt how much romance there is everywhere (as an aroace person) (im sensitive rn dont make fun) funny coincidence

[@Whonoo13]

Well we also want world domination but keep that on the dl yall

[@Quzga]

I'm pan and even many doesn't like that and think you're fake, and then some straights think you're gay in denial lol. In reality I just don't care about gender at all..

[@arithmomania1237]

​@@Whonoo13Shhhh

[@anegginthesetryingtimes7636]

Just realized today that I wasn't subbed. I have been an avid watcher for the past year and a half, the vids get recommended to me day of release. Glad to have rectified this

[@ezh117]

As a guy listener for the past year or so, even though I have good friendships and connections where I can be open about things, seeing it reflected in content is still very pleasant

[@TrooperSixtyFour]

it's so refreshing to hear how thoughtful and understanding you guys are in all of your conversations. very funny and entertaining but also demonstrate a level of empathy that not many other people express

[@flooffys]

this was the saddest boys ive ever seen

[@sagegreeeeeeen]

Loving the mini Afro, Jordan. Looks sick

[@AshChiCupcak]

It becomes more glorious with each episode. I hope he keeps growing it out.

[@deanpope2055]

Just got home from work, got a burger, a blunt, and I’m SO ready for this episode of sad boyz

[@deanpope2055]

Omg I almost forgot to mention my slushee, that’s the best part

[@mannysgeek9740]

I never comment but I want convey how much I appreciate you both and this podcast. I have Ehlers Danlos (hEDS) 🦓. The amount of comfort ive gotten from this episode is amazing. I have the exact same internal conversation about my sleep every night. I convince myself I have to “earn” my pain or sleep meds. Just watching Jordan’s many obtuse sitting positions makes me feel SO seen, haha! I’m always positioning myself in weird ways to just just stay in the chair or couch 😂 loosy-goosy EDS joints! Thank you Jordan & Jarvis for helping to make all these subjects safe and comfy to deal with. 💙

[@RealElongatedMuskrat]

is EDS considered a rare condition? I've met so many people just in the last few years who have it, I wonder do you think it's super underdiagnosed still and it's just a coincidence that I've met quite a few, or are people likely to only get a diagnosis in adulthood because of how hard it is to get doctors to listen, so I've just happened to meet a lot of folks recently getting a diagnosis in young adulthood and they're more likely to share it because they're excited to have a diagnosis at last? Sorry if that doesn't make sense, I'm trying to word this 😂

[@mannysgeek9740]

@@RealElongatedMuskrat yes to both! I think it is hugely under diagnosed. If it was properly funded/researched there would way more cases and much better options for care. It’s also very common for people to not get diagnosed until their 30/40’s; some even older.

[@cruztastrophe]

1:05:00 the kindergarten fart joke right after the intense conversation about intentions online killed me so unexpected, so seriously stated, so funny

[@franjkav]

It didn’t appear that the individual who was cleaning the gravestones had permission, which if true, is absolutely WRONG.

[@subliminalwitchvids]

That guy was written by a group of writers with one woman, they actively ignore.

[@AshChiCupcak]

Loved Jarvis and Jordan's reenactment of that tiktok. I too would have ragdolled out of the situation if a dude kept rubbing my face like a genie lamp while asking "Whats wrong" 😂 Plus why are they blocking the hallway of an apartment? Doesn't it kind of ruin the moment if you have people stepping over you?

[@Amy-yh8kf]

I agree with Anastasia(sorry if I spelled it wrong)….that is super scary for a man to act that intensely towards a woman…..it’s low-key possessive on his end

[@aila6814]

The guy learning what love is and immediately pivoting to being abusive about it is so real though.

[@jakedashnake]

I have also started new medication recently and its nice to hear Jordan is dealing with a similar experience. Thanks for calming me down fellas

[@princessofhell4639]

I love how at the end Jarvis just started doing impromptu karaoke at every opportunity

[@MalekWithoutFear]

Hey Jordan and Jarvis! I'm a male who loves your videos and listening to your perspectives on things. I don't know how you guys manage to balance charm, humor and intellectual conversation all at once but it's so great to watch. I really admire you guys and I really appreciate everything you do. ❤❤

[@TSIG09]

jordan's impressions were unbelievably good this ep

[@lookatdemijipers]

conversely, Jarvis' Hasan impression was so incredibly bad lol

[@Ceeby_is_sleepy]

Love the Sad Boyz. Found you all through Ludwig and have quickly started consuming your backlog and your Patreon content. Jarvis and Jordan speaking about treating yourself with empathy and compassion was a huge wake up call for me as an adult on the spectrum and as a trans woman who's closing in on 30. 💜

[@josephinetapp3340]

The lads talking about their audience demographic kinda made me sad knowing that women are drawn to this podcast because we are drawn to this type of human. Yet, the guys who (typically) feel disenfranchised in the heterosexual dating scene will likely be drawn to the manosphere instead of here.

[@MistahPaul]

B/c I haven't watched it in a long time, I legitimately paused and searched Snl papyrus hoping to see Ryan Gosling go, "Nya-ha-haaaaaaa!"

[@Upsetdino]

i just wanna say like. how much i love these podcasts, its let me slow down and kinda space out and feel like im just around a buncha friends, chatting. its like so welcoming

[@elliot2331]

The 4400 was rebooted a few years ago, it did in fact not get a second season.

[@Khronogi]

Third times the charm. The 13,200.

[@badger6882]

Loving the black white outfits

[@badger6882]

No… it can’t be…. I’ve made a mistake

[@ecliiipsssse]

don't you mean: black... white?

[@Shades.ofkoko]

Black white Italian

[@chuckmcluckin6082]

Please don't believe the hype

[@glamrockmike]

i was kind of self conscious about being an "emotional guy" but yeah i do think this podcast gives me a sense of comfort in part because youre two dudes showing this kind of friendship and vulnerability with each other and the internet. ive been watching sad boyz for years and i do feel like i have grown a lot as a person in that time (not like.. completely due to the show but its definitely a positive influence you know) and i do feel more in touch with my feelings and myself than i was when i was a teenager watching you guys. now im actually working on my mental health and myself... something i had barely begun to do when i first started watching. that isnt completely due to sad boyz, but i do think you guys helped me in considering that a lot of things i dealt with growing up were undiagnosed neurodiversity. im not sure how long it wouldve taken me to come to terms with that sort of thing and trauma and other stuff like that if i saw less people being open about it. i also feel like i have a better grasp of what i want from friendships now, and i think that i now have a circle of guy friends i can connect with in a similar way to the relationship you guys show on sad boyz, which im very grateful for

[@sterthedude]

lets go dude. 2 hour episode

[@naomiroes4818]

I just finished a quick watercolour painting for fun when I saw this got put up, gonna do a couple sketches now

[@anksters]

1:06:40 I always love hearing what Jarvis & Jordan wanted to reach with this podcast. While for me I love it for the opposite, kinda? When talking about more emotional things with friends, I find it very hard to switch back to lighter content. Having this podcast is a great way for me to learn this aspect.

[@noratsuki42]

14:37 I thought Jarvis was gonna say "as a Young Sheldon" because of the previous conversation 😭

[@emisformaker]

Circa 2000, there was a boy-band product called B4-4 (because there were 3 of them). I was working my first job at a multiplex movie theatre in Richmond Hill, Ontario the summer before college. Due to the nature of the job, we had a printed schedule of when each showing ended so we could figure out which theatres to clean in what order. So my co-worker and I are walking down the corridor, and I'm looking at the schedule when some rando with frosted tips yoinks it out of my hand while his two buddies erupt in laughter. I demand it back, and when they try to start a game of keep-away with it, I threaten to summon someone to expel them from the premises. They all got faux sad, then ran down the hall to 'sneak into' a showing of Chicken Run (didn't care, not my problem). Once they were gone, my friend leans over and says, "Don't you recognize those guys? They're B4-4." To which I replied, "Figures. They're twats." And that's how I met a boy band.

[@EsotericThoughts93]

Good thing they’re irrelevant bc they sound like a holes

[@emisformaker]

@@EsotericThoughts93 They were!

[@clegs8356]

yo thats WILD also shoutout RHill like half my friends from uni are from east end lol

[@toxicdotaep2890]

The Matrix Online was so fun. I was only a kid so I wasn't allowed to properly play it, but I remember playing it with my dad moderating me (mostly just sitting there and helping me remember what I was doing lol) and it was great. He also met 2 of his lifelong best friends in there!

[@kirrb-dot-exe]

Wait that’s so cute to bond with your dad while he makes sure that your time on the internet is fun but appropriate as a kid!

[@11namesknow6]

Jarvis need to drop an album where he just sings covers of his favorite songs cause holy shit can that man sing

[@tayloraugerwood8228]

Came for AI girlfriend stayed for grief counselling (that episode is my favorite by far and heal something in me, thank you u

[@emiliedudgeon]

genuinely love when the whole crew participates in the episode (anastasia and jacob) so the later half of this vid was very fun

[@ajlikestodraw2571]

1:51:57 the fact that this is a Vampire Diaries quote. I knew I remembered this from somewhere!!

[@aycazeynepunal6586]

as a woman who is a fan of your podcast i am happy that you are trying to reach the boys😂 help is appreciated and welcomed at this point

[@Chunkmeister565]

Time to listen to this while I doodle for 2 hours 🙄🤚🏻

[@BananaTheLemon]

Can confirm lattice hashbrowns in burrito is the move , so crunchy 👏👏 I make them basically every weekend for breakfast

[@gwenzelle65]

jordan's deadpan "go bees" 24:15 has me crying ohhh my god

[@paigehansen8944]

49:29 yeah that’s rough, those sorts of comments put Jarvis on the defensive automatically. Like now he needs to prove that he values his friend & isn’t cutting him out. Obviously those commenters didn’t mean any harm but if I were Jarvis I’d get frustrated/sad too

[@OtterMunchy]

The 4400 was about 4400 people that had “gone missing” from the earth, pulled out of time. All 4400 are returned to earth at the same time. Edit: Oh…they just watched the intro.

[@AshFin-iu2ze]

Pausing just to say to Jordan that Hades hit me in exactly rhe same way at the same time in my life. Saving Hades 2 as well and trying to avoid knowing anything before 1.0 at least! its hard but i feel you on wanting to give it like, the best shot at impacting me emotionally like Hades 1 did. Supergiant is a rare studio and i'm hoping it hits with its first sequel

[@brookejon3695]

Big same, but I caved and started playing Hades 2 recently. Definitely wait for release.

[@PhoenixalaBall]

I’ve been watching all the old content catching up in no order just at the mercy of the algorithm; seeing a new episode I can comment on made me smile wtf is this parasocial satisfaction

[@maxxethan]

personally as a transmasc person, i find a lot of comfort in sad boyz in the sense that it feels like i'm hanging out with The Guys, which is gender affirming for me!!

[@Lara-lo5sx]

omg I was out in Lisbon the night the comet flew over. I stepped out to get some fresh air with a friend and we just fucking saw the comet WITH ZERO CONTEXT and kinda were like ...... is this a once in a life time moment or has someone just shot a missile lol.

[@jollygreenwhxre]

2:04:47 my dad’s a gastroenterologist so any time i hear someone talk about GI i feel like one of those “[insert city] mentioned!!” memes lmfao

[@Soulsbear]

wanted to say, as someone whos recently wanted to present more masculine, you guys have been a great example of healthy masculinity for me

[@Blue_Avatar]

Them pointing the mics at Anastacia cracked me up so hard 😂😂😂 1:44:47

[@frances9560]

1:09:58 listening on my way home from work in Vancouver and kind of got jump scared by the random Vancouver mention lol. Also the way Jarvis pronounces it is kind of sweet haha "VANcouver"

[@stargrump2403]

I was so happy when I found out my little brother started listening to yall!!! I love that yall are such positive role models and just cool guys

[@delaney3490]

tell me why I went to look for the new vid and it was uploaded 30 seconds ago….. I’m tapped into the mainframe

[@AlejandraC6669]

😂😂😂

[@Suh-Ree-Nuh]

Jarvis, i, too. Lately, I have been having the worst relationship with food. It's so bad i gained 30 lbs in 2 months. I dont have a support system, but ive been motivating myself to stop snacking and less soda. I've been working out (trying) Its so comforting to hear you talk about this.

[@phobos_irl]

re: the audience reaction to the different thumbnails, not sure if it helps cause i know questioning oneself is rarely cured by logic but y’ anyways. i find that as a part of the audience myself, tend to have a very “parent of a couple of children i want to make sure feel loved equally” type reaction, trying to make sure all of them are getting the very same size of piece of pie ? i.e., as a smosh viewer, when there’s a bunch of the cast in a video, and people mostly underline like. half of the cast’s moments, i go out if my way, even if it’s just tossing a coin in the void, to show that i noticed other members’ moments, just in case they check comment and all of that ? i’m not an active part of the sadboyz enjoyer community, but i’ve always felt the more simply taking the show as it is and enjoying it (the cool part of the community according to moi haha) enjoys your contribution and your presence online equally / take them as what they are. again, little coin in the void (both i. a sea of comments and in the depth of the irrationality of questioning oneself, but i kind of believe this is the same sentiment for the commenters you guys briefly mentionned, making sure you both feel appreciated wether you’re “”promoted”” more or not, and i don’t think this sentiment in the comments is truly motivated at any point by their enjoyment of the show, more like. an instinct to treat to equal parts of the project equally and ensure they feel it that way !

[@FirstNameBunchANumbers]

1:11:02 Wild to remember that Hank Green started Subbable before Patreon began, but he was just too early for people to adopt it

[@BeansFreak]

As someone who primarily listens to podcasts, but exclusively watches Sad Boyz, I have to watch because your set/living room just looks so damn comfy. It's relaxing to look at

[@justbeingmar2690]

1:30:12 i am in fact a nerd who has studied cryptography & do know the Caesar cipher! i particularly like the Hill cipher!

[@MrSenju-gr6bh]

As a boy who's almost 18 and has been listening for pretty much 2 years.... you're doing a good job with the demographic thing

[@ObiWanStromb0li]

The number one thing that is missing in breakfast burritos is hollandaise sauce. It's crazy the media never talks about it

[@SharkUsingaComputer]

25:15 mildly terrifying that jordan knows what homestuck is

[@missshai2005]

Speaking of overly intense guys: I had a guy take me on a date to White Castle, get mad that I didn't fall in love with him immediately and then abandon me when I went to the bathroom..... -_-

[@ayoitscat]

Jordan talking about the meds that help him get to sleep and compulsively never taking them on time really hit. It's something I've never seen discussed before but I've really struggled with that, and I relate a lot to the whole idea of just not wanting to not be at 100%, even when you know it's ultimately good. It almost feels instictual. Made me tear up to hear it honestly. Thanks for this show you guys.

[@StormlightArchives]

I’m currently living for Jarvis’s occasional singing breaks. This is a beautiful time to be alive

[@miayukino]

1:16:00 person with bipolar, here :). so validating to hear jordan speak about hypomania in a way that’s so normalized and a space that isn’t stigmatizing. i feel seen and happy. ty boys

[@bbpisc]

When I leave the house for a longer time I put the sad boys playlist on for my cat. Hope it helps with engagement.

[@MuppetLaboratories]

As a young man, I'm very glad to find this podcast, and am so glad to see opinions that I don't have access to without the internet. You guys are incredibly intelligent, funny, and role models, that I aspire to be like. Your insight has guided my life, decisions, morals, and am so grateful to watch these episodes. Thanks you guys, please keep up this truly wonderful work!

[@veraeroes]

Jordan talking about sleep has inspired me to put in the effort to fix my sleeping schedule, I have similar issues and I needed to hear this :’)

[@win_jayden]

Regarding Anastasia’s points on the intensity of “man written by a woman”, i think this is something I’ve noticed online more and more over the years. People yearning for this entirely intense, performative relationship… not knowing how a relationship actually is. We are very disconnected from one another. Time is constantly feeling like it’s running out. The world is not nearly as kind as we once thought it was. So, when we find someone we want to have in our lives, people tend to want this intense “all or nothing” attitude with people. Friends can’t just be people you see every once in a a while, they need to be there all the time and hangout every week. Romantic partnership can’t be an exploratory experience, it needs to be marriage “we loved happily ever after”. What I’m saying is people yearn for intense experiences because they don’t even get regular experiences. We want it all or none at all, it seems. And it’s sad that people don’t know what it’s like to be just okay with things as is. Adding on to this, the later conversations of what people “truly want” in the pod is exactly what I wish people online understood. Maybe they do understand. Maybe they can separate reality from the internet/fiction. But I’m not entirely sure if younger people get that nuance. That this is all simply fantasy and that the real people around you are cool and good (most of the time). Media literacy is at an all time low, and I wonder if we did it to ourselves… More Anastasia please!!

[@carysbebard3690]

Idk, I don't think it's necessarily a new or a more recent phenomenon to want heightened emotions in the romance genre. The 90s had The Notebook, the 80s had bodice rippers, the 1800s had Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights (gothic romances, sure, but romances with intense feelings all the same). Heightened intensity is part of the point of the genre. It's like how most people wouldn't want to shoot someone, but it's fun to watch an action movie.