Picking out a Crypt for my Dead Husband - Mom of 8 Kids

After visiting the mausoleum (July 22, 2023) we had a snack at a neat outside diner on the way home...
The younger kids still do not know yet (at the time of this recording) about their father having passed away at the hospital. I was waiting for them to get clues at the mausoleum and start asking questions, but they didn't. The oldest three boys already know, and now all the kids know.
Recently my husband of 20 years and biological father of our 8 children suddenly passed away (on July 16, 2023). Adjusting to the sudden trauma and shock has been the hardest thing we have had to go through in our entire lives! Our 8 children spent their whole lives having their father by their side at home, guiding them. Now this grave loss has caused a ripple affect not only in our daily lives, but financially, as well as emotionally, and a great looming uncertainty.
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[@Momof8kids]

I am expressing my grief through KZbin. Some people don't understand (and that is fine, everyone is different.) this is how I deal with it. I have already talked to the older boys 2 months ago about it and they understand and are now fine. Thank you so much to those for your understanding. These trolls are bullies. Sometimes it gets me down, I don't have a heart made of stone. That is why kind people like you mean so much to me, it balances all the hate I get. They love to hate, so they will always find something to hate me for.

[@tanyat4779]

You’re a beautiful soul. You certainly don’t deserve it. People are miserable in their own lives and it makes them feel better to lash out. They tell everyone else they need “help” when they’re the ones who need it most. The saddest part is they’re likely teaching their kids to be bullies. You are a terrific mom. Sending you lots of love and support, sweetie❤❤❤

[@ds2265]

Many people just want to see you and your kids flourishing, or getting help you/they may need to navigate their grief. Rosalie, trust me on this, KZbin may be an outlet, but don’t count on it making you feel better overall after reading all the comments. People can be harsh, that’s why I hope you and your older kids get professional help to navigate through this difficult time too. Online hate on its own can make a lot of people need to seek therapy or outside help, but coupled with the tragedy you and your family are facing, that’s a lot.. a lot for anyone, but maybe quadrupled adding the opinions of others to dwell upon before going to sleep.

[@ds2265]

We aren’t all heartless. Some of us just care and see people who truly are suffering through something some of us can only imagine.. I know it’s all very real for all of you. Put your mental health first, please. If you need to step away from KZbin, I promise people will still be here when you come back.

[@firefly6027]

There are actually videos by other creators that explain how to deal with trolls. You're smart enough to be able to tell the difference between well-meaning advice and criticism from people who truly care about you and your children, and the hateful people who take pleasure from critizing every little aspect of your videos and try to demean you and make you feel like the most horrible mother and person that ever lived. Every KZbin creator has to deal with trolls, but you've been giving them free rein and if you don't take control of your channel soon they're going to destroy it. You have every right to delete comments and block anyone you choose. A lot of the comments are legitimate concerns and people with good intentions trying to give well-meaning advice, but you also have more truly hateful trolls than I've ever seen on a channel before. May God Bless you and your children. If you decide to continue with your channel I would advise you to discuss with your older children how they feel about being on camera and respect their wishes if they choose not to be in your videos. Be aware that no matter how hard you try there are going to be those who are just looking for something to pounce on. Do your editing carefully because these heartless, miserable souls are going to expect you to be Supermom. Stay strong, Rosalie. It's obvious how much you love your children and I, and I'm sure many others are wishing you nothing but the best.❤🙏💕

[@firefly6027]

@@Beverly502 you've made over a hundred comments on her channel. How many of them do you think have been positive, supportive, or encouraging? Not too many that I've noticed. You love to remind her how "deceived " you felt. If I was her you would be one of the first people I would block. Hopefully your passive-aggressiveness isn't fooling her.

[@rebeccaschanlaub2863]

Please respect your older children. They don't want to be on camera, this is a very hard time for them.

[@lisakemp7352]

Absolutely! This is not the time to be filming and putting their faces all over KZbin. Grieving a parent is very traumatic

[@naia-gl2nf]

did they say they didnt?

[@BetzBecker-qq2pu]

I've never heard the boys suggest that... when they're in Rosalie's videos all I see are typical teenagers who are a bit camera-shy & probably have their own personal interests on their minds.

[@lisakemp7352]

@@naia-gl2nfThey’re faces and comments say it all ! Not cool at all

[@junebuchholtz287]

​@@lisakemp7352They are her kids...she knows them best

[@kitandsons173]

I can see the burden and sadness on the faces of the older kids. I really hope that they can have time for themselves to have fun. I am the oldest in a big family and I was always co-parenting. I hope they know it is not their responsibility to help raise the family. (However, of course they should help) I think the mausoleum was a beautiful choice and will provide nice, memorial outings for the children to remember their Dad.🙏🙏

[@1jaballs]

Your children appear to be so sheltered especially the older ones.

[@Momof8kids]

The older ones go to high school.

[@msssky]

and you appear to be judgy

[@lindsayb1329]

So what if they are? So what if they aren't. You seem a little rude and outspoken.

[@1jaballs]

@@lindsayb1329 it’s my opinion

[@Mrs-Loc]

@@Momof8kids yeah, they go to high school but they’re still don’t communicate with other kids they’re like homebodies or something and they’re dirty

[@lanimetcalfe370]

The baby is clearly hungry, he doesn’t need another ride around the park!!!!!!

[@tanyat4779]

Do you have telepathy and he told you he was hungry through the video?

[@crystaljones4589]

I see so much i could talk about but i at this moment want to talk about two things. #1: You have such beautiful and precious kids PLEASE even though you may not understand fully how to do this parenting on your own ,YOU DO need to allow these children to Bath/shower Hygiene is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT ESPECIALLY FOR THESE GIRLS. #2: Im sorry but there is nothing nutritional about just having fries for dinner, Such a tiny amount for children that clearly are hungry 😔. Even though you feel life is too hard right now you MUST properly provide them with whats absolutely needed and IMPORTANT! this is a hard time for you all but there is no excuse in the world to neglect your children from being (healthy) and you being a MOTHER! IT IS YOUR JOB for life . I pray you do better because i know you can.

[@naia-gl2nf]

#1- 100% #2- There was no indication that they were only having fries for dinner. They intended on having dinner there but then probably saw those outrageous prices. It would be foolish to buy everyone food from there. And even then, fries for dinner for one night isnt going to kill them. smh

[@lisas7890]

Why would you feel the need to give such an opinion!? Did you birth these beautiful children? Walk and judge your own shoes and leave hers alone! Seriously, we need more kindness in this word. Take a very good look in your mirror and secondly. You may want to open your Bible.

[@judgejenny2251]

How can we all be perfect, just like you? 🙄🙄🙄

[@michelehewitt9678]

I feel for the children they did want to be filmed they kept walking away , please put the camera down and let them grieve for their dad away from the camera. 🙏

[@michelehewitt9678]

I should have said they did not want to be filmed

[@isearcheduwin3132]

The children need a nutritional dinner not greasy fries. Also agree with others everyone needs a bath. You need to get your priority’s straight.

[@tanyat4779]

Omg!!! Call children’s services!!! The kids ate fries!!! The kids ate fries!!!!! The horror of it all!!! I can’t watch!!! This must be stopped!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 Ps omg what….if….they… had…GASP…. Ketchup ..with the fries?????? Call The authorities!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@isearcheduwin3132]

Tanya great act!

[@tanyat4779]

@@isearcheduwin3132 Yeah, I’m proud of that one 😂. Need the comic relief aspect interjected amongst the BS😊

[@isearcheduwin3132]

@@tanyat4779 lol you got that right

[@jessicakatz9278]

At 3:50 the oldest whispers “I don’t think you should put this on KZbin”. He is correct. You should listen to your children. Something isn’t right here.

[@2frenchies777]

The fact that he is grieving and she has the camera in their face. Why doesn't she put her own face?? He clearly didn't want this put on youtube. I feel so bad for all of those kids.

[@crystalnicole1287]

Tell your kids, let them grieve and keep the damn camera out of their faces

[@Rnnurse2023]

She’s a tragedy pimp that’s why the camera is in their faces. They need professional help not a camera from a very disturbed individual.

[@chloexelyse]

I think your older kids are very uncomfortable being on KZbin and one tried to communicate that and you invalidated him. All kids deserve the right to privacy, especially at such a devastating time. You owe it to them to stop. The very public filming is deeply uncomfortable for them and it’s also not fair to get strangers on camera.

[@fay8687]

I agree. They get teased at school because of her content (old man's disgusting foot fungus toes etc)

[@lisakemp7352]

Very much so ! I think the mother should of went back and filmed what she needed by herself. Poor kids 🥲

[@starsrgood]

I also agree. The son with the moustache looks very uncomfortable on videos. The other"older children look uncomfortable also.

[@naia-gl2nf]

is that what he said? couldnt understand him

[@BetzBecker-qq2pu]

Please let Rosalie make her own decisions. She didn't raise 8 children by needing the constant advice of strangers. If any of her kids don't want to be filmed I trust that they'll share that with her. Try giving her support & encouragement during what has to still be the most difficult time of her life.

[@janicepaisley6799]

The more I wstch your videos the more I can easily see that you are such a kind and patient mom . Your kids both young and older are very good kids . One can easily see that they are loved .

[@Momof8kids]

That warms my heart Janice. Especially when so many here on KZbin think I am nuts. Thank you and sending you love.

[@allheartandsong]

Its nice you are being so patient with your kids. Poor older boys look distraught. ❤sending love ❤️

[@leesadoe2440]

theyre probably just HUNGRY

[@lifeofamil-wife]

You are all in my prayers. That day must have been so difficult.

[@meganfitzsimmons7607]

Feel so sorry for them kids

[@robinwagner3293]

Again, I am very sorry for your loss Rosalie.

[@MargDegraaf]

So beautiful.. The music is so gentle. Your children are the sweetest..

[@melodyturner7463]

Am I missing something? One large order of fries for 7 kids plus her?!?! That’s their “eating out”? Why would you take your children where they can see and smell food but they can’t have anything but a couple fries. That’s cruel and mean!!

[@tanyat4779]

If you bothered to read up, mom said it was a snack in her comments.

[@tanyat4779]

@@Beverly502in the video, she says dinner but in her comments she said it turned out to be a snack. The place was super expensive. Regardless, it was huge, the kids loved it, and considering this is a week after her husband’s death, I commend her for taking them for a treat and a nice outing. But you’ll pick apart anything you see, troll. Try to have a good day. Good luck.

[@tanyat4779]

@@theresaschmidt1183ok well she didn’t. Are you gonna be ok?

[@tanyat4779]

@@Beverly502ya. I’m the troll 😂😂😂😂😂

[@takeitorleaveit.6333]

Bless her heart. I've done that many times. Go to a place, only to find it's way more than I want to spend. Sometimes I walk away. She chose to stay and feed her kids what she could. I'm proud of her for keeping her family together. God bless her.❤

[@arferret]

The way you talk about your husband dying, the way you video your kids when they are uncomfortable says a lot about you.

[@tanyat4779]

The way you attack a mother who recently lost her partner and is struggling with grief and raising her children alone suddenly says a lot about you.

[@CharleneOrtizTraining]

I completely agree. She let her husband lay on the kitchen floor while he was dying and her kids witnessed this. Instead of calling 911 she filmed it. Something is not right with this woman.

[@christinarodriguez7843]

​@tanyat4779 KZbin content makers comes with comments, it's part of the territory. And EVERYONE knows that means you're going to get criticism like it or not. When you are making money, especially exploiting your children people are going to have an opinion. What's worse is her kids are old enough to read the comments and she would be totally in la la land if she didn't know there would be critical even mean comments and yet she posts the videos anyway. She said the older kids go to high school, can you imagine the amount of teasing they're going to endure at school? Nasty feet videos and the mothers odd behavior? And she posts it anyway all for $$$. So excuse me if you don't see why so many people are critical. Those poor kids, she needs to get a clue and stop being so selfish

[@tanyat4779]

@@christinarodriguez7843There is NEVER an excuse to be so nasty, degrading, disrespectful and disgusting as these comments have been. One troll went so far as to post identifying information. The fact you can’t see the harm that comes with that says a lot more about you than it does about a grieving widow with 8 children. Sad.

[@christinarodriguez7843]

@tanyat4779 I'm not excusing anyone's behavior, what I'm saying is this isn't new, people criticize and some get really nasty. The fact she chooses to post these videos anyway is what's disturbing. There's no way she doesn't know the backlash, and if she didn't in the beginning she does now after having subscribers call the police and CPS on her. And yet she's still filming! Can you imagine the kids that go to school what things get said to them? Right or wrong she opened herself and her children to it and continues to film and exploit those kids for money. Sorry no sympathy from me, not for her anyway. And that poor baby who has to grow up with the name Aryan as in Aryan nation. Did she think for 2 minutes how that affect him? Spare me the dramatics, she's doing this to herself and others. Not to mention how ignorant it is to film strangers in public without their permission, just selfish

[@67countrygirl]

Can I just say how sweet and well behaved your kids are ❤

[@keenacummings2017]

I agree very well behaved

[@rachelr.n.3563]

You really need to get a drivers license so you can become more independent and you don't have to depend on your teenage son to get you around. The kids need you !

[@tanyat4779]

You really need to mind your own business.

[@daveshoemaker7137]

@@tanyat4779 You are something else! What I'm not sure! Nasty B!

[@tanyat4779]

@@daveshoemaker7137I’m crushed. An internet troll has come for me. Whatever shall I do? 😂😂

[@rachelr.n.3563]

@@tanyat4779 we could say the same to you 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@leesadoe2440]

@@tanyat4779 if we minded our own business, she would have no youtube subscribers. use some common sense for one minute. Also youtubers know what they are getting into and are inviting the public into their business. If she did not want peoples comments she would disable the comments.

[@maddiemjovig5201]

Bless your heart and whole family, wishing you nothing but the best to come ❤

[@inkedmomblu1510]

Your children are so well behaved and kind spirited.

[@Kiymee]

Aren’t they all so kind! I’ve never seen them fight or be mean! So nice to see kids not stuck to phones!

[@crazydiamond4565]

And dirty and disheveled. They don't look taken care of at all!

[@junebuchholtz287]

What an amazing place...your husband is smiling down on his beautiful family...❤

[@junebuchholtz287]

The two little girls are just precious taking over the stroller job lol You are certainly blessed ❤❤

[@tammykriskie2233]

You're in my thoughts and Prayers 🙏🙏🙏

[@RinasAMaker]

At least you were able to turn a “not so fun” event into something with a better memory for them. I truly believe everything is settling back for all of you and you’re finding your “new normal”.. 🙏🏼❤️

[@tyeishaleisure]

She filmed them while they are grieving, and the oldest kids expressed discomfort about being filmed and she invalidated their feelings. That’s not turning it into a better memory for them . That’s called, making money on their grief and exploiting them in a very vulnerable state. If a child expresses discomfort while being filmed, the right thing to do is to turn the camera off. That’s what a good parent would do. Actually a good parent wouldn’t film this at all, nor would they post it on the Internet. Grief is a private thing not to be shared with strangers on the Internet for clicks, views, subscribers, and $$$. Those of you defending her and protecting her have a serious issue because you can’t see how wrong, disgusting, disturbing, gross, and violating this is. Stick up for the kids not the mother. These kids don’t have a chance. The kids are the real victims, because they didn’t have to be born into this type of lifestyle. They didn’t ask to have to deal with this sort of stuff, and they certainly didn’t ask for their lives to be shared on the Internet. She needs to get off KZbin and raise her children. This is not it. The kids are the innocent ones not her. This isn’t hate, bullying, or anything of the sort. This is the truth. The kids deserve to be in homes were they are the priority and where they won’t be exploited.

[@bubsy2u]

Sending you all so much love! I can’t imagine how heartbreaking this is for you 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

[@keekee75]

I agree that your older children looked VERY uncomfortable. You all need grief counseling and perhaps social services. I will not say more bc it would be mean.

[@suez5468]

Nice to see a new video ❤ that diner was cool! & I’m so glad you got to fulfill your late husbands wishes. Sending you big warm hugs

[@loisroberts2216]

The place you picked was very nice. Kids are hanging in there am sure there hearts are sad but you did great today with the family. Glad you all are to gather.

[@charlottemiller961]

I know how hard this is for you and the kids too! You are doing such a good job!

[@loisroberts2216]

My prayers are with your family.

[@Natalie-ym8pj]

This is so beautiful Rosealee, I'm so proud of you. I check back everyday to see how you are. Much love from your new friend in Missouri. Natalie

[@beckyslaughter2299]

I lost my husband 5 yrs ago so I know what your going through. Stay strong ❤

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

I lost my husband April 4th 2018.... Prayers for some peace and comfort for you sweetheart 🙏💜

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Becky. It feels like a dark storm cloud following you around even when things are good and your children are happy and having fun.

[@TheTuesday11]

@@Momof8kidsyou can’t really believe feeding your kids French fries are dinner? 1 box for all those people. 🤦‍♀️

[@lililovee8240]

@@TheTuesday11 yes she does and so do half the weirdos in the comments apparently. I said something and her dirty neglectful warriors came at me like I was wrong. It's giving they are all the same and would except the same for their children. Jesus bless all the children in the world with parents or a parent like this. Apparently there's a couple in the comments. So so sad.

[@beverleymartin1881]

Please ask your older kids about being on here ,as they appear very uncomfortable,

[@callie6406]

And with a name like Aryan, you should be ASHAMED of burdening your son with such a horrible name! I hope that poor lad is not too brainwashed by his deceased father's racism to feel that he cannot change his name to one that he can be proud of! The father was definitely a nazi.

[@tiki70]

Your doing good Momma! Happy to see your video. Kids look great. Big hug to you. You are a strong woman and are doing a wonderful job raising your sweet kids. ❤

[@clare1971]

I completely understand that it must be so dreadfully difficult to get very young children to understand that their dad has died and ubderstand the importance and meaning, but also the longer you push off telling them, the harder it will become

[@california_grown_carissa216]

She has since told them . This was filmed in July

[@Lifewithpauly48]

Thanks for sharing the video glad to see u guys hope yotr all doing well keep the videos coming

[@Pink_143_6]

What a beautiful mausoleum 🕊️. I remember all too clearly when my husband suddenly died, having to tell my 6 year old daughter. It took me a day because I was struggling with how to tell her that her daddy is in heaven without feeling I’d be the one to break her heart. I realized that there’s no good time to break such a loss. The sooner you tell the younger children, the better. Small children are especially resilient. The initial reaction from my daughter was pure grief and crying and I’ll never erase that memory but she’s in her 20s now and throughout the years prior, we grieved as a family in order to move forward the best we could. We are forever bonded by a love we continue to share with each other from the loss of our loved one. It’s important and necessary for the little ones to process loss in order for them as well to move forward. 🕊️🍁🌿🍂🕊️

[@ChrisJohnson-lh9qb]

I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?

[@CEB731]

Wow! it's absolutely beautiful in there and very peaceful.

[@mimi-yt7gq]

Why are you filming this? This should be private with your kids not the world! This whole situation is crazy and should not be on YT! IMO

[@daveshoemaker7137]

For money!

[@junebuchholtz287]

​@@daveshoemaker7137 And I hope she makes a lot of it!!!

[@daveshoemaker7137]

@@junebuchholtz287 She will! She already has weeks of her lies on video! She's a good scammer! Don't forget to send her money! Christmas is coming!

[@SandNSurf]

What. Is. Wrong. With. You?!? This is a private matter, not for the entire world to see!!! And for gawd sake…..STOP videotaping your innocent children!!!! The very least you can do is let them have their privacy!! You. Need. Help!!!

[@cindycontreras8064]

God bless your family🙏🏻♥️

[@adventuresofhuckleberryfin3970]

Your kids are so helpful and well behaved. That’s a sign of a good momma ❤ it’s got to be incredibly tough losing your husband, hold your head up. You are doing a good job getting everyone back on track ❤ God will give you the strength you need if you seek Him out. Stay strong and carry on momma!

[@meanderingrain1854]

God bless you and your family. 💙💜💗🙏

[@l.t.8472]

God bless you and your children.

[@stephanieann622]

Once again, the kids make me so happy for you. It’s so incredibly rare for families that have more than 1 or 2 children be able to control them. Your kids don’t need to be told or reminded to stay with their family. They are just the cutest, well behaved, and respectful kids. Rosalie you have done an amazing job honey, someday you should take a day to yourself. Maybe a spa day or something😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sharonhoward884]

What a ridiculous throw away comment. "Incredibly rare for families that have more than one or two children to be able to control them?" Control them? Children are not wild animals nor do they need to be or should be controlled. They need love, nurture, guidance, safety and security and freedom to be themselves. Even if these kids ran around etc it doesn't make them out of control. It makes them kids and yes families with only one or two kids also have them run amok.

[@Momof8kids]

Stephanie's heart is in the right place. I understand what she meant. She didn't mean anything bad by her comment.@@sharonhoward884

[@outwardbound2241]

​@@sharonhoward884plus it's quite obvious that the children are dirty, malnourished and majorly lack proper education. I can't understand people supporting this, when the neglect is so obvious. Yes, this mother is in a very tough spot, but that doesn't mean one should turn a blind eye on child neglect which clearly existed even before the husband died.

[@user-kl6do7kn5c]

Sweet family...God Bless. ❤

[@Olive1234.]

I am sending ❤ and prayers to you and your family. ❤

[@PotawatomiProud]

Bless you and your family.💐🌷🌹🌺🌸🌼🌻🥀🌞

[@tanyat4779]

I’m glad you were able to give your husband what he wanted. It looks very beautiful and peaceful. The kids are beautiful. And I think I might just be the only Canadian who has never tried poutine😂 Sending love and support. I know you’re looking after your babes but you need to look out for you too. It’s ok to not feel ok. ❤❤❤

[@zaraengland4787]

It must have been so hard for all of you but especially yourself. You did so well. What a good mum you are managing it all at such a tragic time. I know this was some time ago and I hope your doing ok now as I know what a struggle lone parent family life is x

[@jenniferroy2493]

I am a mom of 6 and an early childhood teacher, with a psychology degree. I am not a troll. There is plenty to be concerned about here. The kids' comfort and emotions are being trampled all over. They are CLEARLY not happy being video'd. What a traumatic time to not respect their feelings when they've just lost dad. They all exhibit a flat affect which is very concerning and breaks my heart. It's not just a normal thing after a death for every single child in a family to exhibit this. The flat affect was likely developed pre-dad's-death and is often mistaken as " the kids are well behaved". The side talk of dad's death arrangements knowing the younger kids hadn't been openly told is not normal, almost a testing behavior. The kids are smarter than given credit for. Baby doesn't try to make eye contact. The older one walks quickly away when mom mentions being relieved. It appears he knows better than to openly express his feelings because clearly his feelings about being filmed (and who knows what else) have not been regarded. Please please get some family counseling or a child psychologist. I wish every single person shown here the highest degree of healing. This is a very complex situation. It makes me very sad for all of them.

[@tanyat4779]

I have been a mom for 31 years, 4 kids. I too have a degree in psychology, another in human services and diploma in social work. Your assessment based on this one video is both misleading and unprofessional. Flat affect?? Sorry. Don’t see it. Of course some may not exhibit emotion--they’re grieving and processing. And you know nothing of their emotions nor of their behaviours prior to the passing of their father. I do not think you are a troll, however your comment is very unprofessional and CLEARLY you lack understanding and background. We all do. We do not know this family. We have seen snippets of their lives. How you came up with your pseudo assessment based on that is beyond me.

[@junebuchholtz287]

Your none of the things you claim...but you are a troll

[@MayimHastings]

@@tanyat4779With all due respect, it is glaringly obvious and i find it disturbing that you DON’T see it. Before I had read a single comment I was telling my mother that they are very flat, and the baby’s lack of animation, lack of trying to engage is most disturbing. No food or drinks for baby in all of that time, either. And just french fries for a meal? No one should ever be demonized for caring about and being concerned for the welfare of children. Too often red flags are overlooked, and there have been too many admitted lies and red flags from this mom. Lies about her husbands death, in an effort to manipulate us.

[@margiecasey9428]

​@@tanyat4779Thank you for speaking up. People have been hanging up on Rosalie and criticizing her about everything she does.

[@naia-gl2nf]

If you're so ''educated'' with your ''degree' then you would CLEARLY acknowledge that the whole ass family are just awkward people! ffs

[@ShaylaShaye]

Just sending you all so much care 🫂🙏 I couldn't imagine 💔 😢 how hard this is.... Thank you for sharing a glimpse into the days you share with us viewers on KZbin. You do have very well mannered, patient and kind children, teenagers and young adult. I love the diner and old skool music 🎙🎶 I think you all are trying the best during this extremely difficult time 😢and none of us have the right to pick & judge anything you kindly share like a glimpse into a small portion of your day. I see some comments and i honestly feel for you. As if things aren't hard enough. Kindness costs nothing 😌 Your older kids at this time as you had on video were dealing with their own thoughts and grief 😔 I saw a mother doing her best and all your children seem to help each other. Thinking of you Rosalie & family 🙏

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you so much, that is touching. I appreciate your understanding, it means a lot to me. Wish you the best always.

[@Gloria27420]

Well said 👏👏👏

[@notthesame8991]

The album cover pictured looking up at the next floor was uncanny. The image was so similar! To me, it was one of those moments where u know you're in the right place at the right time. I'd love to have a conversation with your older boys. I just feel like they might have a unique perspective on loads of things that I would love to hear. Sending love to the whole fam! 💙

[@heathersapp8885]

You need to tell all of the kids about their dad dying... they shouldn't have to ask you.... it will betray their trust in you the longer you wait...

[@johnnylawrence7232]

As we are in October now, do all your kids know their dad has passed away ?

[@SYWH-TruthisReal]

I would really like to know that too, but judging by what others are saying regarding those who don't express pleasantries, you are a troll. And I guess, I am as well for this reply.

[@V.I.C.]

She replied in other comments saying... Yes they all know now! Unless shes lying they all know! 🤷🏼

[@rosemarrypolack5708]

I wish you could afford more for supper. Your children are polite and waited nicely for the food.

[@Kiymee]

I think they are going to 7 eleven store? Maybe dinner food? This was a snack before heading home I believe.

[@Kiymee]

@@Beverly502ok thank you so much for the answer.

[@Felicity2121]

@@Kiymeeshe intended it to be their meal but judging by the prices she opted for fries. That’s not to say she didn’t give them something else when they got home.

[@leesadoe2440]

she can afford more. She has youtube subscribers and plenty of views, also she gets government welfare for the children that are under 18, some bananas and peanut butter sandwiches would have been easy and cheap to pack for their lunch. all I saw was coke everywhere. I pray for the kids that they will be ok

[@rosemarrypolack5708]

@leesadoe2440 The soda, Coke, is bad for the teeth. You can become addicted to it. My daughter got on that kick, and it cost her big dental bills. Now she has pretty teeth, once again.

[@dorothyglidewell3847]

God bless you and your family sending prayers 🙏

[@drethawelch2525]

❤❤❤Prayers going up for the family.

[@sharonhoward884]

Do all the kids know now? Thise older boys look very burdened and heavy hearted They might look big and grown but tbey are your kids and not your brothers or other relatives. If you get your licence then whoever it is that drives you can be free to do his own thing. The oldest 3 must want to pursue a life of tbeir own in some respects, get out with friends, have fun etc. You want to encourage them to spread tneir wings & achieve independence. Theyll thank you for it 😊

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

This video was taken a week after he passed away..

[@firefly6027]

Your children are so well behaved. Sending love and prayers for all of you. ❤🙏💕

[@lnewbury1]

The oldest child (man) seems so miserable. And they seem really really hungry. I’m worried about these kids. Praying for all.

[@bridgwll]

He is still grieving. They are not hungry. They have plenty of food at home.

[@SunShine-oq4bx]

Just stopped if the kids were still hungry they would have asked for more food

[@67countrygirl]

Just stop they are grieving

[@lnewbury1]

@@bridgwll are you personal friends where you know this as fact? I have to be honest with you that we have been watching this channel Since she first mentioned that her husband had died. I shared it with my brother, who is an adolescent psychiatrist and he is very concerned with what he has witnessed by observing the children. I realize she has a very different parenting style. I’m just concerned for the children. Something doesn’t feel right at all. I was one of 8 and things were so different for me personally.

[@rachelr.n.3563]

​​@@lnewbury1and not to mention they are sharing fries for dinner! Also inside the funeral home and the kids had no idea why!

[@rhondapardee4115]

I don't understand what you thought the little kids would ask you when you told them their daddy is sick in the hospital?

[@kellygulnick3960]

How are you holding up Rosalee? Im thinking of you often. I see how much you love your children and how much you loved your husband. I pray you are all holding up and learning to adapt to your new reality. There is a whole bunch of us out here rooting for you... if it wasnt for your husbands passing i probablywould never have seen your channel...i wish i had found your channel under happier circumstances but regardless i find you very real and very relatable....lots of love and prayers sent from a friend in maine.....❤

[@suzanneprice7332]

I was a widow in my 30's with 4 minor children . I'm sorry for your loss. It took a long time for me to get the paperwork sorted as I was in shock and wasn't prepared for what to to do after his death. Keep going you are doing amazing !

[@Momof8kids]

Yes, it is crazy the amount of paperwork they make you do. I just finished all the paperwork a week ago. I had to wait for government documents to come in the mail and run around. Sorry to hear that. Thank you for the encouragement Suzanne.

[@ChrisJohnson-lh9qb]

I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from ?

[@BetzBecker-qq2pu]

Rosalie... I had to laugh when you pointed out a "classic" car & then wondered if it was "just old!" I can relate to that with my ancient '05 Pontiac which, by the way, I call "Christine!" You managed this terribly difficult process with grace & dedication to your husband's wishes. We're all behind you.

[@Momof8kids]

That is beautiful Betz, thank you. Love your story about your car too.

[@Gloria27420]

@Momof8kids Thank you for sharing this, love the 50’s music. And you do you when it comes to telling the younger kids about their father. If you’re not ready to tell them then that’s your decision and not the naysayers. Hang in there! 🙏❤️

[@Momof8kids]

They all know now, but at the time this was recorded the younger ones didn't know yet. Thank you for your understanding, I know my children best.

[@Gloria27420]

@@Momof8kids Oh I didn’t know this 🤔 I’m sure it wasn’t easy. Thanks for letting me know.

[@shaunalea823]

Have you told the younger children yet? Are you still waiting for them to figure it out? With all due respect they need to know. You brought them to the place he will be and the fact they may still not know is so bizarre to me.

[@ginagina9720]

Watching from the uk 🇬🇧 thank you 🙏 for sharing your day, when you stopped for food, it looked like a 1950s diner but outdoors, which I think is brilliant, because it gave you chance to look at some vintage cars and listen to 50s music, under the circumstances it looks like a good day out for your kids, and the chips 🍟 looked yummy 😋, your oldest son who was sat on his own did he also have chips 🍟 (french fries), but I’m glad 😃 your kids enjoyed venturing outdoors for the day, do your kids go any other activities for example swimming 🏊‍♀️ or maybe gymnastics for the girls and football for the boys, I know activities are expensive but some kids love ❤️ being active, thank you 🙏 for your vlog

[@angieshepard9801]

One kid gets his own meal and the rest have to share one box of fries and that is their supper? They are starving.

[@cocobear7147]

Children just sense when something is wrong most of her children know unless it’s the baby, she still doesn’t tell the whole truth and she has money to take care of those children so why is she acting like she has no money whatsoever. Something is strange with her.

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

Praying for you babygirl 🙏🙏🙏 you are so blessed to have the funds to do this... I was not so lucky and so my husband had to be cremated, my mother-in-law, God rest her soul, paid for it and he is here at home with me.. I haven't been able to afford an urn either, so he's still in the metal box that the funeral home provided 😭 I just feel lucky to still have him since his kids stole everything just about it from me and Chucky after he passed away 😭

[@Momof8kids]

Oh, I am so sorry. Maybe you, or one of your friends could help start a gofundme project to raise enough for an urn. My husband went through something similar when his father passed away. So sorry again something like that happened to you. Sending love your way.

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

​@@Momof8kidsI don't have friends that would do that for me.. my lights are going to be turned off on the 3rd of November if I don't find help from charity.. I'd give anything if I could go back to work and didn't have these tumors in me... I wish you nothing but peace and happiness for all the rest of your days Hunny, and I will continue to defend you against these trolls...

[@paulamacdonald7070]

Abby container can be an urn, containers marketed as urns are over priced

[@rachelr.n.3563]

​@@MiMiDixon-np8wmI'm so sorry to hear that. A lot of people are going through a lot. Unfortunately, she had not been completely honest about when her husband passed. I still have my daddy in an urn.

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

@@rachelr.n.3563 how has she not been HONEST?? You you ASSUMED the time of his death.. she never gave you a date until people started talking.. she has said that was a video that was posted after his death that was made when he died!!

[@monalarsen6364]

Please,please stop with your kids. They are hating life right now and grieving.... Let the older ones be. Turn them loose and let them be. If you don't, mamma trust me they will hate you and resent you forever. Dr. Phil wouldn't even help you.

[@tanyat4779]

😂😂😂 Dr Phil is a sell out who exploits people for ratings. He doesn’t care about people. He cares about the almighty dollar. He’s a quack. The fact you guys take these “tv doctors” seriously explains much.

[@tanyat4779]

@@Beverly502it’s 2 in the afternoon, grandma Beverly. Maybe it’s time for your nap. I raked leaves, did laundry, cleaned my house and carved pumpkins with my kids. What are you doing today that is productive? Trolling doesn’t count.👿

[@naia-gl2nf]

Those glass cases are so awesome!

[@MitziJacks]

In this situation the older 2 may feel too overwhelmed and decide to head off on their own. The military may be an option.

[@tanyat4779]

Do you know the boys personally to be able to make that deduction? The military?? Canada doesn’t groom young men and women to die for their country or develop PTSD like the US, nor do we spend half our federal budget on defense. Plus that’s the most truly insensitive, unsolicited piece of “advice” I’ve heard yet.

[@junebuchholtz287]

How dare you!! Just because no one listens to you in real life doesn't mean you have to come over here and tell her what to do!!

[@naia-gl2nf]

Why would the military be an option? tf

[@daveshoemaker7137]

@@junebuchholtz287 No just send money! You need to be nicer! You are defending a scammer! Grow up!

[@dollymae3383]

​@@naia-gl2nf3 hots and a cot, you learn skills that'll change your life. If you're a miserable teen that can't wait to get away from home, it's one of the best options. (The army was the 1st place I went to get away from home) It's not for everyone but it'll change your life for the better.

[@vickyCA1643]

French fries are their dinner?

[@angiegonzalez939]

It's always good to blur out people's faces

[@kcob643]

I’m so confused how all your kids went there with you for that and didn’t know he was dead!?!? Also, that’s not a lot of food for 8 kids? Are you doing ok? Financial wise?You really need to start a gofundme. I agree with people saying that you should not make your children or strangers be on camera. As always my prayers are coming your way!

[@jnicole6266]

Or the adult children could get jobs? Mom could get an online job?

[@alyssalolos8524]

She needs to get a damn job. I can’t figure out why someone like her would purposely have 8 children. They we’re living off ssi only and now that’s gone.

[@user-pv1jv3ji4f]

@@alyssalolos8524I wonder if she gets survivor’s benefits & the kids under 18 will probably get benefits, plus food stamps & what ever free healthcare they receive for indigent people? When they did the 🎃carving I noticed they had new kitchen appliances, probably getting all kind of mail box gifts 🤷‍♀️

[@leowife9370]

She will get survival benefits for the minor children and I am sure she can get state help with food stamps and WIC.

[@leowife9370]

@beverlyvineyard9459 Her adult kids should, yes. BUT the cost of daycare would kill her, and she won't be able to work from home with screaming kids in the background. I do not think she has a college education where she would be able to get a job to be worth it.

[@devoncopley9296]

🙏🏽❤️

[@Dawn2727]

All the kids need a good hair washing day hair washed really well conditioner then combed out they all have really nice hair!

[@cindyjohnson5581]

💜🙏

[@elisabethshuk4302]

You do you it's fine. If this is what helps that great. I am amazed at how well your coping. When my husband died I could not do what your doing. We are all different. Good luck

[@emepleez]

Hugging all of you.

[@anneconover1925]

Please bathe those children and wash their hair! They'll all feel so much better.

[@babsflynn8245]

its crazy to me that she doesn't do that

[@babsflynn8245]

@deborahmoran2139 I fully agree something is not right here

[@tanyat4779]

I knew it was only a matter of time before the judgemental miserable trolls would be back to comment. They don’t look unclean AT ALL. You just enjoy trashing others to feel better about yourselves. Get a life.

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

​@deborahmoran2139well I imagine he is he just lost his father!!

[@Johnathonsmum]

@deborahmoran2139 She doesn’t wash herself, let alone her kids. The house is putrid. Don’t believe a word she says…..wants people to feel sorry for……for views. Fries for dinner, that speaks volumes

[@juanita_415]

Kids should not be dragged & filmed at adult places conducting adult business! The older boys watch over the little ones anyways, they can watch them at home. And yes they ARE uncomfortable being on video, their body language says it all.

[@alyssalolos8524]

Dinner is French fries? And at that one box of fries for all those kids??? That doesn’t seem like much of a dinner. I don’t think your children like being on camera either. And do you think your children are stupid! They need to know about there father. I would hate my mother if she kept that from me. There’s only two of them that are to young to understand. And the older one of the youngest two, would probably understand her dad is gone to heaven. You have no right holding that back from them.

[@143Chelley_Chelle]

Your children are very well behaved. That does not happen without truly loving parents that truly take care of the children. You have a veautiful family. I know this was a hard day for you and I pray God heals your heart. I love you friend.❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Chelley, that is so touching of you to say. It means a lot to me knowing that there are people like you that care and understand in the world. You are a beautiful person. Sending love back to you too.

[@giatasha2181]

Your children deserve privacy. The family vlogging grift comes with huge consequences. Understand them. Make an effort. They cannot consent. If you think this is a good solution to your immediate problems you are delusional. I would never do this to my children. Your children are already vulnerable. Grifting them on KZbin is not the solution you think it is. Be aware of the long term psychological dangers you are exposing them to by doing this, and the more immediate physical ones. Understand the audience for children of family vloggers. Anyone who understands this properly wouldn’t even consider using their kids in this way. You are going to alienate your children by doing this - it is already palpable in this video.

[@lisakemp7352]

KZbin need to change their rules about children being filmed. All to often the kids aren’t comfortable with it

[@daveshoemaker7137]

But it's all part of the scam! She filmed everything even her old man passed out on the floor!

[@junebuchholtz287]

​@@daveshoemaker7137jealous Dave strikes again

[@daveshoemaker7137]

@@junebuchholtz287 Jealous of what? If she were my daughter I'd gotten her help when she took off with Nazi man! My daughter has educated, well spoken, clean children! Eight kids on welfare she's a treasure! No wonder her family wants nothing to do with her!

[@CEB731]

You need to stop watching KZbin...

[@kimsorber9675]

Why are all 8 kids mentally challenged you should have quit when you seen this happening. You really should be in jail leaving your hubby to die no medical attention.

[@tanyat4779]

Did you give the children a psycho educational assessment or psychological evaluation of any kind? No. Police investigated. She’s not at fault. Hope your day gets better for you, Troll 👿

[@junebuchholtz287]

You really do need help..get off line and start looking for some

[@majlinnbeateandolivar1294]

❤️🙏

[@slay2483]

I think you are doing amazing job, all things considered. You should be proud of yourself.

[@UGH2500]

🕯💙🙏

[@TheTuesday11]

“We’re gonna have dinner here” buys 1 box of fries for that entire crowd of kids???? Not much of a dinner. Yet she has enough money to put her deceased husband in a mausoleum? 🤷‍♀️ I promise you the husband doesn’t care where his body ended up. She needs to focus on the living and FEED them DINNER, not 12 fries each, dinners done.

[@firefly6027]

It was a snack. There was plenty to go around. There is plenty of food at home for the children later. She can honor her deceased husband however she sees fit and unless you are paying for it , it's really none of your business how she chooses to do that. It's a decision she has to live with for the rest of her life, so your offensive opinion is irrelevant.

[@TheTuesday11]

@@firefly6027 um…. SHE SAID, it was dinner. If you can’t get that right then take a seat. You can’t make the video say “it’s a snack” , when the mom said, “dinner” You can’t get the simplest FACTS right, so don’t try and school me, again… take a seat🤦‍♀️

[@firefly6027]

@@TheTuesday11 she said over and over in the comments that it turned out to be a snack. And I'll take a seat when I'm damn well ready, not when some hateful, judgemental troll behind a keypad tells me to.

[@Rnnurse2023]

@@TheTuesday11one of the kids also asked for a drink , she told him they would go to 7-11 afterwards . Who eats without something to drink outside in the summer ? The baby in the stroller didn’t have anything. If the water bottles were being shared , that’s disgusting, only saw 2 . The mother is blabbing constantly about old vehicles yet not one child is paying attention or answering anything she is saying . The one child eats his own food alone . Just very bizarre behavior of each one . The little ones have bad speech skills. This woman is clearly a tragedy pimp only on YTUbe to make money by exploiting her children , even during the death of their father. What mother would do this to their children?

[@tyeishaleisure]

@@Rnnurse2023not a good mother. But yet we can’t criticize her because she’s grieving. Give me a break. All those kids have issues that need to be taken care of and the fact that she has people defending how she’s raising them or I should say not raising them because she isn’t raising them at all says quite a bit. 12 fries is not dinner, and the baby not getting anything it’s why he literally bites through plastic and why he grabs it any bit of food he can get us little hands on and why he cried when she took food away from him not in this video, but others. All that money on a stupid mausoleum for a body that no longer exists could’ve been used to buy nutritious meals for the kids. All the kids need to be put in Home for their needs will be prioritized. She’s not even doing the bare minimum.

[@leegregory3974]

That is a beautiful resting spot, my prayers 🙏

[@Patty-jj4en]

🌹 ❤

[@maryc7830]

It’s kind of funny that you take off the ends of the French fry for a kid, and I take off the ends for my cat. I don’t give her too many but it’s so funny. And I love your whole family. ❤🙏🏻🐾

[@Terrorific_tray]

That must have been so difficult for you all. I know how hard it can be. I'm so happy to see you doing well. I imagine 8 children keeps you busy. Now you should go get your license and regain your independence. Best wishes to you all. They used to have classic car show at the Seaway every Fiday night. Dont know if they still do. And dang, that poutine looked amazing!!! Nom,nom!

[@Momof8kids]

You made me laugh. Thank you, I do want to get my license. The problem I face is it takes years where I live to get a full license. I will need lots of practice and can only have the person teaching me in the vehicle. Best wishes to you too!

[@SunshineSparkle2000]

It does not take years in Ontario, Canada to get your license as an adult. Hogwash!!

[@Terrorific_tray]

@jackiehowell1453 it doesn't matter what age you are, you still have to go through the graduated program. You have your G1 for 1 yr then you can drive on your own with restrictions which is G2. And then within 5 yrs of getting your G1, you have to do your final road test to aquire your full license, so yes it does take years. Yes you can drive alone after 1 but if you know anything about booking your road test in Ontario, it can take months to get a date. I don't think this should deter anyone from getting one though.

[@SunshineSparkle2000]

@@Terrorific_tray I am referring to a drivers license. Are you referring to social work? In order to become a social worker in any pro ince of Canada, you require a Degree. I have a degree from Memorial University of Newfoundland. This Mom went to what she refers to as College. The term college in Canada is not the same as US. You receive diomas in College and they are most often (not akways) private institutions. In order to work in the social work field in Canada, you must do at least one year of university studies including specific electives and then apply to a social work program and get accepted. After acceptance into the program it takes 4 years to get your basic degree in social work. This Mom is located in Ontario and there are fantastic sw programs which she can avail. Meanwhile, she has 6 young children to raise making this very challenging.

[@SunshineSparkle2000]

@@Terrorific_tray Again, Where are you located? A drivers license is very easy to obtain in Canada. I have no idea what you are referring....driving in Canada???

[@annmarie2964]

Why do people in this comment section think that grieving means you will not have an appetite? Grieving people still need to eat and grief typically comes and goes. By the way, the older kids seem terribly depressed to me, and not just in a grieving sort of way.