Why Respect Is so Important in Marriage (Nick Freitas)

[@hielinarodriguez725]

"Marrying for values, marrying for shared faith is absolutely critical"

[@TheTradDadShow]

Wives must submit to their husbands and Husbands must love their wives as Christ loved the church. The latter seems to be the harder. We men must die daily to ourselves and sacrifice everything for our brides.

[@TheYoungCatholics]

They break down to the same thing. Humility and servitude.

[@jilldomschot]

Love is intangible and submission isn't. It's a lot easier to claim love than submission.

[@nannygirlkc]

The most important thing a woman can do for her man is to respect him.

[@jackieo8693]

Wives will respect a godly, loving, responsible man, for the most part

[@AppalachianLumberjack]

IF SHE RESPECTS CHRIST MANY DO NOT✝️☝🏼🔥

[@jackieo8693]

@AppalachianLumberjack many men don't either

[@anniamarie3809]

I agree. These "husbands" want respect, are they kidding me? They run their wife like a work horse and still expect more and wonder whats wrong? ! They dont communicate, they dont take care of themselves, they dont help consistently with the home that they live in. They drain their energy on porn and are not happy with the gift they choose to marry. Women be very selective...vet carefully and for a long time. Best thing, no sex till marriage, you'll scare off the losers quick.

[@SleeveHeart]

Good people respect good people. There, I fixed your comment for you.

[@jackieo8693]

@SleeveHeart can't argue with that! I don't like videos that seem to "women need to do this or that. " isn't the man the leader?

[@hummingbirdee9389]

Yes, unless the husband thinks it's okay to act out his anger, aggression, intimidation, arrogance, psychological, character damage on his wife and children!! Walked out during 10 yr wedding anniversary with baby 1yr 7mth in arms because his constant abuse weakened me and I felt like I was dying physically and spiritually inside. Needed to get some space to rejuvenate and drink deeply of God's living waters to restore my soul. A few years later during COVID, he wanted to try again so I re-entered the marriage and marital home, older and wiser. Having tried everything, I'm now convinced, I will leave my marriage permanently separated because he was much more intense with his abuse. It is obvious to me that he doesn't want to follow the narrow pathway which I am destined to go.

[@Tom_McMurtry]

Can you get the marriage annulled? It sounds like he never intended to truly commit to in sickness and in health even if he said so.

[@Just.arandom1]

When you say abuse is it physical ? Women make up a lot of abuse to be mental when it’s just her husband not agreeing to her whimps. If you walk out be ready to lead a life as a single person.

[@joejackson6205]

Would love to see Nick as Commander In Chief, perhaps sometime after he serves as Governor of The Commonwealth of Virginia.

[@ill_steal_your_pbj7363]

Matt, the title has a typo

[@sophiagomez5619]

wive

[@michaelcallisto]

My wife recently told me she lost respect for me after I was diagnosed with cancer. How tf am I supposed to respond to that?

[@mdg6117]

I'm so sorry. Thats very immature on her part. Being ill is not something you can control nor does it speak to your character as a man. Marriage is "in sickness and in health".

[@Just.arandom1]

There is nothing wrong with you. She is a 304 if she said that. Stay strong brother.

[@SleeveHeart]

Need more context than that.

[@SheriffofYouTube]

Jesus is happy with this father

[@lt9790]

MATT, TYPO IN THE TITLE!!

[@alexanderaleman9251]

What a great man! I need to love Jesus more.

[@MsGiraffe15]

Husbands must be respectable.

[@ZKEUS]

I imagine PWA will take this down as the video does not premier until later today. Seems like someone messed up the auto-publish on this interview, as this is the 2nd video to be published?

[@theJHeykid]

no, they have been doing this for awhile, they'll put a couple clips out ahead of the full interview

[@VinceMaggieNess]

What does it mean on the daily to respect someone? Sometimes that’s buttoning your lips and bowing your head in prayer. Other times, it’s calling him on. Going to war with him (against him) for the sake of his soul. How to do this is so unique to each marriage and each person. One of THE BEST things my mother did for us was leave my dad. Never for a second did we think she was divorcing him. She should have left much sooner. Only then did he wake up. This of course was done with much counsel and prayer. 8 years of marriage has taught me that there is not one way to be married

[@MisMariaRosee]

I highly recommend to everyone the book: Your Life Your Game by keezano📕📚 I read it and it changed my life, it shows how connecting with God and your inner self can lead to spiritual growth and success. A must read, It helped me a lot in my marriage too...🙏💟💕

[@James.NewYork]

Thanks miss

[@Tom_McMurtry]

This would be a scary person to date the daughter of. Which is a good thing as he is also a good man! It truly means you must have the highest intentions.

[@LenaCabana]

Yes, unless he is abusing his wife and the children. Then she needs to run away with children. Abuse must be stopped.

[@jorgepenaloza6834]

@@LenaCabana there are canonized women who endured even that. Christianity is about carrying your cross.

[@davidgbemudu]

​@@jorgepenaloza6834 running away from an abusive man doesn't mean divorce

[@janetbolden597]

​@@jorgepenaloza6834really? Is there a saint who endured (by choice) her child's bones being broken by her husband? I've always understood the correct thing to do would be to get to a safe place with the children while getting help for the husband from a distance. You don't necessarily divorce, but I wouldn't think you leave your children in a physically hazardous relationship. Children have been killed by abusive parents.

[@LenaCabana]

@@jorgepenaloza6834 how you could "carry a cross" if the child is molested? It's not about this particular woman - it's about stopping the abuse of the child / children.

[@AShley-un1yi]

​​@@jorgepenaloza6834 I disagree with you; I think you get "carrying your cross" wrong As a woman who lives in an abusive relationship with a kid He is openly Anti Catholic (scary Anti Catholic) 18 years together I converted last year Being Holy means remaining single and dedicating myself to praying for him until my last breath on this earth, without sharing the same bed and same house again. THAT will speaks volume for my Son

[@Giorgosikonomou]

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[@SayHeyToRuthie]

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[@Tshering-g4nor4j]

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[@Yannick_Gregg]

That's amazing! I'm excited to start my journey with her. Do you have any advice for someone just starting out?

[@Giorgosikonomou]

​@@Yannick_Gregg Just be open-minded, and trust the process. Kate Elizabeth Becherer will guide you every step of the way. And don't forget to share your testimony with others when you see the results!

[@SharonPinckney-g1z]

Honestly, I think she's an angel sent by God to help the needy. I'd love to get in touch with her and learn more about her services.

[@freedomlovingmarine]

He meant *Wives lol

[@michaelrakestraw2252]

Someday' Nick is going be a great Catholic!

[@cachinnation448]

How about him being a great Christian man? C'mon, let's celebrate the message and value the man!

[@richyburnett]

When you’re Catholic - you’ll understand.

[@jamescastro2037]

The best advice a father could give a daughter is to not sign a contract to satisfy the man's need for commitment.

[@SleeveHeart]

And what about her need for commitment?

[@jamescastro2037]

@SleeveHeart commitment is shown in action, not written or spoken. The use of a contract is a false representation of being in love. You are in a (con)tract, not a committed relationship. The woman should expect to be looking to be loved. But most people today are looking to not be lonely.

[@CK-solutions]

It's mutual though. They both have a need for commitment which connects their future prosperity as shared. Whether it's financial or relational prosperity. Not signing a contract doesn't guarantee the woman will be loved either.

[@mdg6117]

Single people: Don't be afraid to set hard standards...if someone disrespects you before marriage, they will disrespect you in marriage. Make sure you hold yourself to the same standard. Be wise, let them go and hold out for someone who will. Conflict and disagreement is possible without disrespectful behavior, and it's often indicative of great immaturity.

[@karangRN]

SUBMIT = SUBMISSION; not respect. Go look at the greek.

[@miriba8608]

Respect is a reflection on you not the other.

[@bethaniacounseling]

In any case, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and the wife should respect her husband. - Ephesians 5:33

[@CK-solutions]

Are you referencing Ephesians 5:21-22...wives submit to your husbands? The Greek word used is hupotassomenoi, which simply translates - wives to your own husbands as to the Lord. Significant to raise, since you said it has no reference to respect. Well, it has no reference to submit either. The job of the translator is to find the most comparable reference in the language, but qualities will be lost if the two languages don't have a comparable reference. Simply put though - do you submit to God without respect?

[@andreassvensson895]

I luw my wive

[@thatsfunny2051]

Shout out to military wives --- I really don't think I could commit to a military marriage

[@CK-solutions]

Same. You need a really good community support network to cope, as well as faith in God to get you through it.

[@philip506]

2:06 For the children the warrior, who protected his family, in reality a mercenary for a small state in the Middle East on the east coast of the Mediterranean… (Jeffrey Sachs is not the only one to say this in the interview with Tucker Carlson.)

[@vincentfox4929]

Husbands have to EARN and be able to maintain their behaviour for respect.

[@brianhussey1317]

Where is that in the Bible? Women should be obedient to God by respecting their husbands and not making them have to earn it. Women are not responsible for the husband’s response or reaction. She is only responsible for her own.

[@SwordsmanRyan]

Not what Ephesians 5 says!

[@CK-solutions]

I would agree if trust and boundaries have been broken in the relationship after marriage, but not as a general rule. The woman can stop a lot of issues by simply choosing a man based on his character, before marriage though.

[@j.r.r5863]

Nope, respect is something I give my husband because of God and myself. You’d never say love is something to be earned.

[@brianhussey1317]

@ thank you so much for being a woman and wife speaking out about this. Since when did Christ tell us we had to earn anything?

[@Zoe-111]

Matt, get rid of the stash…. Its a no ❤