Planting the Seeds of Success in Your Kids (Part 1) - Dr. Kevin Leman

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Focus on the Family

Focus on the Family

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@BillyWright-xg6ig
@BillyWright-xg6ig 3 ай бұрын
What helped me the most with raising my children was the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. It is honestly a game changer
@Trizah.Gl.Chiwale
@Trizah.Gl.Chiwale 2 ай бұрын
Where can I find the book,,is it soft copy or hard copy
@BillyWright-xg6ig
@BillyWright-xg6ig 2 ай бұрын
Just google te name😃
@elviravriesema6636
@elviravriesema6636 11 ай бұрын
The 8 strategies: 1. Start with the end in mind 2. Expect the best & get the best. Have high expectations. Kids want to please you. 3. Give and you shall receive. 4. Rolemodel. 5. Discipline, don’t punish. 6. Stay in the course. You’re the captain of life. Know where you are going. Kids are tending to follow leaders. 7. Failure is important. 8. Minimize friction. 9. Keep the relationship first.
@assefameshesha1388
@assefameshesha1388 Жыл бұрын
America needs this kinda shows/programs
@willian050590
@willian050590 10 ай бұрын
Fantastic broadcast to keep our family in God's presence!
@intherockies
@intherockies 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this segment. I'm a single grandma who has raised a grandchild since he was 2 years old and he is now 13 years old. Prayers please 🤪
@christyweepinglim4466
@christyweepinglim4466 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy 😊😊😊
@Dannys.channel
@Dannys.channel Жыл бұрын
How is he doing
@waynepierce7305
@waynepierce7305 Жыл бұрын
U got it mom.
@TheTruthfulDozen48
@TheTruthfulDozen48 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@janeh5949
@janeh5949 Жыл бұрын
Intherockies, I ALSO RAISED A GRANDSON FROM 9yo to 18! Widowed!
@peteraduma1607
@peteraduma1607 Жыл бұрын
Rules without relationship leads to rebellion.
@margaretmuchemi9802
@margaretmuchemi9802 Жыл бұрын
🎉
@fify2012
@fify2012 3 ай бұрын
I am the authoritative parent and I choose to change that bse of this podcast! Thanks to you 😢
@rockystrider
@rockystrider Ай бұрын
I need that book so desperately
@davidkinkaide1467
@davidkinkaide1467 Жыл бұрын
I am going to say a majority of kids stray because the parents preached do as I say and not as I do. Add on to that parents have not rid themselves of their sin, addictions and dysfunction and pass their junk into their kids. The way you fix kids is by fixing the parents. NO MATTER THE AGE!!!!
@hallothere7112
@hallothere7112 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am a young mom. 2 boys 2 girls and a baby boy on the way!! (All under the age of 7!) This is so helpful. I have been praying and asking the Lord for guidance with rearing my children and staying on the same page with my husband. Our parenting styles are opposite and we're trying to bring them to the middle. I tend to be more permissive and he is more authoritarian. The gentle and understanding way is so important while holding firm boundaries. The power struggles were a big problem and this advice has helped me immensely!
@lizapaalan3714
@lizapaalan3714 Жыл бұрын
It
@briarheke7773
@briarheke7773 Жыл бұрын
5 under 7? Geez
@hallothere7112
@hallothere7112 Жыл бұрын
@@briarheke7773 that's how I felt when I found out about our 2 surprise babies. Both conceived on BC. 😅
@Renewed85
@Renewed85 2 жыл бұрын
I have been binging these Christian parenting videos. I want to be better for my children
@dairms
@dairms Жыл бұрын
😌 🩷
@ErA-el1je
@ErA-el1je 3 жыл бұрын
Follow the Lord is the number 1 goal!!
@Goodliving22
@Goodliving22 Жыл бұрын
That’s where it would start.
@vivianamcdonald1910
@vivianamcdonald1910 5 ай бұрын
Great advice! However, asking questions to teenagers is the best to have a relationship with them. The trick is when to ask the question
@tatiede9618
@tatiede9618 2 ай бұрын
Do you have a video on video games and teens?
@hopeactivate
@hopeactivate Жыл бұрын
I love Pastor Daly and what he's doing for Christian families ❤️❤️
@donaldskosaan3330
@donaldskosaan3330 Жыл бұрын
It really was a great small segment. I so wish there could have been more time to get more from Dr Kevin Leman.
@SyncKrazee
@SyncKrazee Жыл бұрын
I will admit that I was very impressed! I was skeptical that being of a more mature age that there would not be much insight on children today. However, I LOVE the insight and advice. This helped me identify areas in which I need to take new approaches and practice more patience.
@janegolson237
@janegolson237 Жыл бұрын
I like the question, “What finish line are you running toward?” Money, things, stuff? Happy, Godly marriage? Etc..
@esthrraw1731
@esthrraw1731 Жыл бұрын
🎉
@Ahmedvaly-ix6xe
@Ahmedvaly-ix6xe 11 ай бұрын
Amazing Broad cast and i love that❤❤❤
@ChigozieuchennaOkafor-qy5yp
@ChigozieuchennaOkafor-qy5yp Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lord
@papasangles
@papasangles Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@TF-pb4og
@TF-pb4og 3 жыл бұрын
How can I hit that like button a hundred times!? I FAILED SO MUCH IN SO MANY AREAS. Listen up parents of littles 🥰🤗🙌🏻✝️
@LW-wg4ny
@LW-wg4ny 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way, but has there ever been a parent that thinks they did an absolutely fabulous job raising their kids? I must beat myself up at least once a day, but I have been trying to cut myself some slack and say where was the manual, did you have one? I did the best I could and I’m learning everyday. I have turned my daughter over to her Heavenly Father, and asked Him to please take control and use me as He will.
@4tgarden989
@4tgarden989 Жыл бұрын
🖐.. Always 😳..👂.. 🥰
@trudysiameja8886
@trudysiameja8886 Жыл бұрын
This is great. Thank you for this insight on raising children.
@everlymcogg4030
@everlymcogg4030 Жыл бұрын
This is a very interesting and insightful discussion
@chelseaperkins2948
@chelseaperkins2948 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing advice! Can't wait to get the book!!!
@georginascourboutis3587
@georginascourboutis3587 Жыл бұрын
Excellent thank you
@philr9407
@philr9407 Жыл бұрын
YES!
@estherbrana7903
@estherbrana7903 Жыл бұрын
Como lo puedo escuchar en español ?
@nurgul_for_Jesus
@nurgul_for_Jesus 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@STARTMobile-u5c
@STARTMobile-u5c Жыл бұрын
Waww I am very bleesed. May the Lord bless you all more
@dorcasmugo5224
@dorcasmugo5224 Жыл бұрын
Is the book available online
@maritsavangraan8362
@maritsavangraan8362 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the segment. Always finding these helpful. How do you get a 5/6 year old not yet understanding their own emotions and how to voice them to understand and tell me what is wrong and how I can help them? My daughter is not really a complain,tattletail type child. She'll rather keep it to herself.
@pandaisfine__5727
@pandaisfine__5727 Жыл бұрын
I would say, go on a walk or car ride with her. Dont make it about wanting to know her emotions, compliment nature or her favorite song, sing together if you must. My mom got more from me during our car rides than any other time. We'd talk about other ppo/things and eventually I'll find myself opening up here and there. It's not easy but with intention you'll be able to connect with her
@LucyOgego
@LucyOgego Жыл бұрын
Single mom of 1... she's turning 15 December. Dealing with teenagers is the real deal. Have stayed away from her for the last 8 years. How can I go back and unite with her so she can feel like a child again, loved and cared for 😢
@DavidVictoriaReyes-xd9fj
@DavidVictoriaReyes-xd9fj 6 ай бұрын
Apologize for not acting like a parent and abandoning her. Then, give her time.
@ngahuruharawira4134
@ngahuruharawira4134 Жыл бұрын
❤AMEN🙏
@UntangledMind_CPM
@UntangledMind_CPM Жыл бұрын
The sheep will only follow the authentic shepherd.
@hannahwilliams2472
@hannahwilliams2472 Жыл бұрын
Awesome
@mofimTV
@mofimTV Жыл бұрын
8 strategies: End in mind Expect the best Giving Modelling discipline Minimize friction, lighten up Stay the course, be consistent Give room to fail/non-judgmental/ Share own past mistakes Optimize solutions Prioritize the Relationship Ask: interesting, tell me more VS what/why Qs. Hon, seems like something happened earlier, u seem frustrated, I'm all ears.// If u wanna talk, I'm all ears. Sharing feelings open things up. Judgmental shuts everything down.
@rinainlondon8
@rinainlondon8 Жыл бұрын
great
@geetuchanchlani6787
@geetuchanchlani6787 Жыл бұрын
Captions pls
@dinatusunday9644
@dinatusunday9644 Жыл бұрын
How to get it
@charitymuchindu4725
@charitymuchindu4725 Жыл бұрын
At what age do you start training a kid?
@Lava474
@Lava474 Жыл бұрын
9 months!! They understand so much more than we give them credit for!
@joanneclarke4226
@joanneclarke4226 Жыл бұрын
I'm I an example of who my child or children should be like 🤔
@cheyenneherrera2629
@cheyenneherrera2629 Жыл бұрын
Is this on a podcast???
@MavutoJames-m5n
@MavutoJames-m5n Жыл бұрын
I think failure is important if you try. But not when you’re very lazy, inconsiderate and don’t care, then in that case, failure is doom
@shiromuita-saisi3554
@shiromuita-saisi3554 Жыл бұрын
Wow am challenged as a parent
@MuchLove2ya
@MuchLove2ya Жыл бұрын
How do we make our teenage grandson understand that his schooling is important so we don't always have to argue with him
@themodernSAHMco
@themodernSAHMco Жыл бұрын
Maybe traditional schooling is not for him 😬
@Iblongtohim
@Iblongtohim Жыл бұрын
Hi. That's because He thinks or knows there is another option. You should make it very clear to him that He HAS no other option. The bible says in Proverbs 22:15 that Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline drives it far from him. It is important to be strict with children. They don't know much but pretend to know more than adults because of pride.
@veemaliz5949
@veemaliz5949 Жыл бұрын
You could take time to show them practical examples of where education get them to. Also another thing is to get to know what they are not interested and what interest them more. The. See it there is any way you can build this into their lifestyle. Get to know their interests and build them into their routine. And most importantly, pray for them. It also helps to tell them about how going to school helped you, and what you are still studying now. We are always learning. School is just the initial formal version
@ClarisNdoroRealEstate
@ClarisNdoroRealEstate Жыл бұрын
But in America, if you raise a kind kid, they see it as a weakness. I don't know how to raise my boys in trying to tell them to be strong.
@esthrraw1731
@esthrraw1731 Жыл бұрын
Kindness is tough. But to remain kind and for boys to be kind, is still possible. Just that he ( or a girl ) as boy growing up need to be able to stand firm when people throw him sarcasms and LEARN to go deep - have his substance... Whichever skill or skills.
@crystalaldrich
@crystalaldrich Жыл бұрын
Worried that you might give someone a young person a plowed driveway because you had to plow your own driveway.
@russellake6818
@russellake6818 Жыл бұрын
I hate if my husband ask questions on me
@sylviatrachuk4364
@sylviatrachuk4364 Жыл бұрын
Where can I buy this book for my daughter?
@joanneclarke4226
@joanneclarke4226 Жыл бұрын
Kids don't need things
@bethany9816
@bethany9816 Жыл бұрын
Eyebrow advice from Dwayne Johnson I see
@didemkilinc
@didemkilinc Жыл бұрын
Christian homes? Bye!
@imelda4jesus
@imelda4jesus Жыл бұрын
Bye. Keep running and kidding yourself till judgement day. Your not doing any one a favor by having common sense. Your the one that will cry bitterly on judgement day.
@mkleng
@mkleng Жыл бұрын
Satanist?!
@didemkilinc
@didemkilinc Жыл бұрын
@@mkleng 😂
@mkleng
@mkleng Жыл бұрын
@@didemkilinc 😁
@lindabelt5773
@lindabelt5773 Жыл бұрын
Common sense advice.
@hasintaidechong2998
@hasintaidechong2998 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
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