Please don't freak out when I tell you this...

[@shadowkat9143]

Having someone who includes you in his plans about the future is heart warming ❤

[@bbghoul_x]

I agree.

[@EliseBuch]

yayy it is. it's lovely.

[@mala890]

@shadowkat9143 yes, if it's genuine. She's only known him for a few months.

[@oranjmusemeyer968]

​@mala890 I met my husband and we married a month later. Don't judge by time!

[@mala890]

@oranjmusemeyer968 I'm judging by her past relationships. A quick jump into living together or marrying quickly usually doesn't work for most couples. You don't even know one another yet. You were lucky.

[@savannahd1457]

When I got married I decided to keep my condo and rent it out. I'm so glad I did. Not only is it perfect for us to settle when we"re older. Also, the rent is a nice source of income. Property ownership can also be a good way to save for retirement as well.

[@FrogeniusW.G.]

Exactly. 😊

[@katalinriese2374]

Und einer Zufluchtsort zu sein in schlimmsten Falle! Die Sicherheit sollte nie aufgegeben werden!

[@kellyj817]

That's great for you but unfortunately the housing market has drastically changed in the recent years. It now takes two full-time incomes to pay for one modest home. Keeping an extra home as a rental property isn't a possibility most people have anymore. People can't even afford groceries anymore. Maybe you live in a very low cost of living area where houses are cheap. I'm sure we all would love to have investment properties for rental potential, but most of the middle class can't afford this. Things aren't how they used to be.

[@savannahd1457]

@kellyj817 LOL! I live in California! EVERYTHING is expensive here! We're averaging $4.88 per gallon for gas! It was $6.32 per gallon last year! Thank goodness it went down! Let's not get into the price of everyday necessities! $6.50 for a dozen eggs! If you prefer organic, you're looking at $9 for a dozen! I bought my condo in 2004. I got married and found renters for my condo in 2014. My husband and I bought a home together that same year. I'm very much aware times are harder than they were 10-20 years ago. No matter where you live, everyone's situation and financial well-being are different. I think it's wonderful Elise was able to buy her 1st home one her own. It's a wonderful feeling I can relate to. There's no harm in people making suggestions as long as they are respectful.

[@Brianiboo2]

Wishing you and your boyfriend the best in whatever you choose to do that’s best for you both. A huge fan of you and your channel 💛😊🌿

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@lindalou7344]

Not all couples turn into horror stories. My husband and I have been together 20 years (married 17) and it was a second time for both of us. We were pretty much inseparable from day one and I moved into his house but later got out together home. Every story can go either way but we all go into it with the hope it’s going to work…that how life works. Of course it’s not a bad idea to be a bit guarded but after awhile you have to trust your heart and go where it leads you. I’m happy that you and your boyfriend found each other. Don’t give anyone the power to take your joy away!

[@little_blue_cloud_nehiyawuk]

I like your story and glad you posted. I have a similar story with my wonderful husband. It happened fast between us in 2013, and we have been together ever since. We got married last year after 10 years together, and I have never regretted us moving fast. He was the one and I knew it. Like every relationships, there have been times when it was not all bliss and happiness but I would not want to live my life without him in it, and I know he feels the same. We just celebrated our First Anniversary and we are looking forward to many more years together.

[@Kasia237]

My boyfriend moved in with me after a week of us getting together (we had known each other a little while before hand) we have been together over 15 years.

[@MimiMalone]

Married 30 years, took things slow. Dated for one full year before engagement. Was teaching at a university and working on two books. When books were done, I was engaged. We married and bought a house together 6 months later. Two years later baby1, and two years after baby1, baby2 came.

[@EliseBuch]

THANK YOU, why isn't this comment at the top. We can't go through life making every heartbreak or difficult thing we go through keep us from trying again or believing in love and good things. I don't want to live like that, ever.

[@katie8325]

No one is trying to take anyone’s joy away. It’s just realistic cautionary advice based on what can happen. You can share anecdotal story and so can others. I’m happy for you that you’ve never been through the destruction and devastation of a being in a relationship with a narcissist.

[@naomifrakes6474]

Is so hard to share your life online. Every tell is a risk. Thanks for being so brave and sharing yourself with others… you are a bright light and an inspiration. I support whatever choices you make because I believe you are an intelligent and determined woman and you will find your way no matter what. Keep being true to you!!

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@Lsmc7]

I agree, and will share with you, beautiful Elise, what I share with my two beautiful daughters, no matter who you fall in love with, they must add and enhance the lives you should build first for yourself. You have done that Elise, so if he enhances your beautifully crafted life, then my heart is full for you. Just remember you were born an individual and God meant for each of us to fulfill our true purpose. Don’t lose yourself in another human. Be who he fell in love with, always!❤

[@Jacqueline-ts1wd]

What ever you do do not leave your house it's your security, men come and go , keep a roof over your head.

[@AnneSmith-mu2ph]

If you move don’t sell your house rent it .That way if anything happens you still have somewhere you call home 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dissidentfairy4264]

Maybe she would need to sell it to buy another home. I see it like this, whatever $$$ she puts into it he needs to do the same, and/or they need to draw up a legal contract specifying what her contribution is versus his. If she puts up 75% of the money then that is what she needs to get out of it before any profits can be made should they sell the home. It needs to be an equitable iron clad contract where she is protected.

[@minarose3193]

@@dissidentfairy4264 men do this on purpose happened to all my friend they " need you to sell your house so the new house will be legally his.

[@EliseBuch]

If that's how I feel if we eventually buy a house, I don't think we should be together :)

[@minarose3193]

@@EliseBuch you don’t even know him, it takes years to know a man. If you find something out about him it will devastate you. Men are really great at hiding their true self. They only show you what you want to see and it takes time to fully know him. When they disrespect you it’s shocking, but that’s because they are showing you who they are. At this point you don’t even know him. He can be addicted to porn, prescriptions, his ex girlfriend or other women online. Girl ... keeping your home is smart be smart!

[@patriciamarrion6802]

@@minarose3193 Give it a rest, will ye. All this doom and gloom. She hasn't sold her house yet, she hasn't bought another one yet. Life is for living, take it from this old bat.

[@cheskydivision]

I learned after my first relationship at 18 that any home I’m in would be mine and no one can kick me out or take it away. All this less then a year in. No no no.

[@maresahrogers6896]

You are just a rockstar! Making time for all the things❤managing your storefront and online store, designing and putting into production your designs, painting, doing home projects and still making time to dream of the future with your partner❤ you are always an inspiration to me and I’m always sending you the all the best! It’s been amazing growing up with you over the years here😊 keep it up lovely!

[@oranjmusemeyer968]

I can not believe the negative comments. She has the right to be happy and she can define that for herself! You all act as if your say will have anything to do with her decisions. She's a very capable adult! Just because one man hurts you it doesn't mean all men will hurt you! That's like men saying all women are gold diggers, it's simply not true. She is smart enough to know how to handle things! Is it that hard to be happy for someone who is clearly happy! I have subscribed for a long time and she is happier in these videos lately than she has been for a while now. Just a Congrats and good luck is all you need say. If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. If the relationship doesn't last, well so be it. She will learn and grow! Just because a relationship ends, even if it ends badly you can still learn more about yourself, your wants and needs, and that is still valuable as well. It must be so hard to go around being so negative to someone you don't even know. We don't know her, we get the glimpses she chooses to share. Unless you truly know her how can you have so much negativity about a decision that doesn't effect you. Life is short, be happy if you can be!❤

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so so much for having my back. I still feel speechless and have no idea how to address how uncomfortable the comments section has been on this video ❤️

[@oranjmusemeyer968]

It's so absurd! I know I don't comment often, I don't comment often on any channel, but I just don't understand these people in the comments. I totally have your back! Go do your life and don't worry about what these people think. Life is truly short and there are no promises that anything we do will turn out great or long lasting... so when it does it is true joy! If this brings you joy, then follow your heart! Even decisions that don't work out still are great teaching moments! Everything has value if you look at it the right way. ❤Love is everything after all and only you know your heart!

[@AngelaHarris-m2e]

Dear sweet, gorgeous and SMART Elise. You are an accomplished business woman. You are not at all impulsive. You always think things through. The only thing you asked for advise on in this video was how to mount your open sign so it doesn’t blow down. My two cents worth is to attach it to a sandwich board….hopefully portable enough and not too heavy for you to take in and out. Sending you light, love and positive energy as you continue to navigate through your beautiful life.💕Angie.

[@theMermaidRhonda]

All I'm going to say is just be careful and take things SLOWLY...and don't sell your house any time soon, if at all. I know it's fun to check out houses, and you should enjoy it! Just don't jump into anything too quickly. Have a great weekend!

[@EliseBuch]

I am not, don't worry. I'm actually not as impulsive as this comment section make it look like.

[@smartnaturals3988]

@@EliseBuchSorry, but you actually are Elise. Let’s be FR.

[@LouiseBridget-s5g]

@@EliseBuch yes you are like when you wanted a rabbit then didn't want a rabbit remember??

[@setmylifetomusic]

Hello Elise! That cabinet is a beautiful edition to your bedroom. I love the color of sage. Please whatever you do, do not sell your house. Give this relationship more time. I would not consider buying a house with a man unless you are married or engaged to him. You have put a lot of time and given a lot of yourself into turning your house into a home. Lots of love! ❤️😊🌻

[@lindadodd3829]

She is young. She won't listen. And trying to wake her up will only be met with negative comments, as our sage advice will be considered as such. Been there done that. SHE WILL MAKE A MISTAKE. WATCHING IS PAINFUL.

[@rikkemeek1506]

She is not selling her house. They are allowed to look at houses. That way they might be on the same page as to what they want in the future.

[@elizabethsad8023]

Does He have his own home to sell. Dear Elise or are you the one with. The. Property? Your relationship is new a few months. Please Think what you were put through last time not to suffer, but to learn. You’ve turned your life round & worked so hard on your beautiful house made it a wonderful home. Please don’t act in haste again darling. We love you & don’t want your heart to be broken again.

[@Nature-Body-and-Soul]

​@@lindadodd3829I would suggest watching the video and listening to what she shares ❤

[@Nature-Body-and-Soul]

​@@elizabethsad8023please maybe watch it and listen to what she says ❤

[@wakefulwitch]

Wow you're so good at making a set for your photos. It was so layered and beautiful but didn't take away from the center piece.

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much!

[@AngelaHarris-m2e]

Agree. That shoot is gorgeous!

[@GoWithDaFlowMo]

I look at you and all I can say is, you truly look happy Elise... You're shining... And that's all that matters... Enjoy it honey, you're life your rules..... 😊❤

[@jansrusticlife]

I can see why you were interested in the house. There's so much space, but also so much to maintain, clean and make your own. Enjoy your house now. You haven't been there long and you've worked so hard to get it the way you like it. Enjoy it for a little time without taking on a huge project, you're busy enough! Plus the most important thing is that it's all yours!

[@lesleypoore]

Some of these comments are weird. We haven't seen your boyfriend, and we know nothing about him, except that he makes you happy. One bad relationship doesn't mean that all your relationships are doomed. You're a smart young woman who is moving on with her life and not allowing the past to ruin the future.xx

[@EliseBuch]

Thaaank you ❤️ exactly!

[@FrogeniusW.G.]

It's not about the "bad relationship" but about legal security. That's all.

[@angelinashuman5384]

@@FrogeniusW.G.do y’all really think she’s too dense to protect her assets?

[@tartariadreaming]

Pattern… same pattern

[@mala890]

He's homeless with no job.

[@A6ugslife]

DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT give up something you love for someone you love. The heart has many chambers and you can love both without giving up on the other. Keep the things you love to yourself so you can be whole.

[@oranjmusemeyer968]

Or look at it like this, she is gaining a partnership. It's a gain if that is what she wants! Love!

[@aproverbshome173]

Love is sacrafice! If God is first in your marriage and life. Jesus gave it all for us! Yes she needs to wait however in general this is bad advice.

[@alteredcatscyprus]

@@aproverbshome173 It can be, but sacrifice can also be a way to try to indebt someone to you, to try to make them feel obligated, so they can’t leave you without feeling guilt, and it never works. It just makes the other person resentful. People can sense when they are being manipulated.

[@aproverbshome173]

@@alteredcatscyprus I totally understand that! That is why we need wisdom and wait on the Lord. Should never move in with anyone without being married and making sure it's God's will for the person's life. I agree with you too.

[@tess1176]

Live your life-you only get one! You can’t keep putting the brakes on moving forward just because of something that happened in the past or you’ll never get anywhere!❤

[@luludust]

Did anyone actually watch the video and listen to what Elise said before giving unwarranted advice? It sure doesn't seem like it ... ELISE! The darker kimono is GORGEOUS. The pattern is everything - I want a bed set with that pattern on it! Maybe bedding is in your future?? A girl can wish! lol Enjoy your weekend girl!

[@rikkemeek1506]

No People don't listen or watch till the end before commenting.

[@EliseBuch]

THAANK YOU! please let this comment pop above this madness

[@heatherburrill]

That exactly what I was wondering- there seems to be a lot of conclusion jumping.

[@annwarner4040]

So lovely to know you have someone special in your life Elise,and wow you looked stunning in your new wardrobe shoot,simply dazzling.❤

[@paulakenney9599]

Beautiful Elise, first of all I am happy that you found someone who you feel happy to be with. You deserve the best. Do what makes you happy. Enjoy your life. You are strong, and talented. Nothing has knocked you down. You know what is best for you, and you know yourself better than anybody else. I have faith in you, and I admire you. Blessings be yours. Paula Mae

[@elizabethwidlund3859]

I don't know how you paint things so neatly, I'm always impressed...I have to wear old clothes when I paint, and I still get it all over me. Dreaming and imagination are gifts not everyone has. Enjoy them, and live your life. I enjoy your videos so much.

[@tymisshajackson3308]

Could you keep your house and rent it to a tenant? In this way you still own it.

[@EliseBuch]

We're not buying anything right now, don't worry so much.

[@therosestudiobybarbaraandi9899]

We love you we want you to be happy and ok. ​@@EliseBuch

[@tymisshajackson3308]

​@EliseBuch I'm sorry that you may be feeling attacked and/or judged in this comments section. I merely asked a question. A question that I would ask to anyone who owns a house as a single person. My comment was about setting yourself up for financial prosperity. I like your content and I wish you all the best.

[@LCLand]

Offering sound advice does not mean someone is worrying too much. You are acting defensive. Why.

[@minarose3193]

@@LCLand she does it on purpose for attention .. look at her title of the video.. she wants you to worry for her she likes it

[@MaryBeth1965]

I wish you all the best, Elise. You're a bright young woman who doesn't need our advice. It is your life, enjoy!

[@ritaranee4787]

Just a word of caution 😂😂😂😂........ be careful

[@dorisbarker3273]

If you love your home just add an upstairs to your existing home. Your garden is beautiful.

[@EliseBuch]

Not possible hehe, and I still don't wish to live in the city.

[@dorisbarker3273]

@@EliseBuch i understand . It was just a suggestion do what you feel is best and don’t let me or anyone else influence that .

[@ellenrawls7557]

Oh my gosh Elise, of course its your life and you have to do what makes you happy but your house is perfect. You have done so much to make it so lovely. It speaks Elise. I hope you and your boyfriend a happy, successful relationship but please do not rush to give up your home. You are such a independent, talented, beautiful young Woman and Im sure your boyfriend loves everything about you, but please please never give up your own for a man at least in the early stages of a relationship. I am all about Love and finding someone meant for me but I also know do not count on a man. Sadly, things can change without a moments notice.

[@darlenechandler2403]

My friend moved her boyfriend 6 mos ago into her place, all going well. I ran into her in the grocery store two nights ago and she said she had kicked him out, did not work out, but she had kept her place and moved him in. Lucky

[@lir9875]

I'm about 30 years older than you, so this is said with a lit it life experience and with a living heart. I'm not sure what the common property laws are in your country, but if you buy property with someone without marriage, PLEASE have a contract drawn up so that you are both protected in the event it doesn't work out. I've made this mistake and left the relationship with nothing. I hope the best for you both but always protect your interests.

[@lindadodd3829]

Wisdom.

[@EliseBuch]

But we didn't buy a house, we just viewed one :)

[@malindawoodring982]

@@EliseBuch I am super excited for you and your new boyfriend Elise! I think that house is super cool! Rock on!

[@Amacott99]

How exciting Elise……I’m so happy that you and your boyfriend are happy and looking towards your future together. Who says that you need to be together for a certain amount of time to look at a future together? That’s what 52 years on this planet has taught me. Enjoy the journey❤️

[@EliseBuch]

Aww thanks. We're in no rush, but if the perfect house comes up we'd be ready to take some important chats and move on it 🥰

[@Amacott99]

@@EliseBuchthat’s awesome. Take care of you❤

[@catherinerhyno9581]

Sometimes you do have to see and experience other places just so you can really appreciate what a gift your own space truly is! Here's to new beginnings!!

[@KH-dt5or]

I love it Elise that you keep your heart open, and chase your dreams. Wishing you all the happiness 🌷

[@KH-dt5or]

Oh, and that you wear leopard print with green -- one of my all-time favourite combos!

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@sandrashires5770]

Please don't rush into anything, as people have said rent your house out. So if anything did go wrong you have your house to move back into x

[@rikkemeek1506]

She is not moving.

[@rikkemeek1506]

​@@cathyridley3005 They are talking about the future and what they both would like in a house. Nothing wrong with planning for the future which is what a relationship is all about.

[@bettinaparris8769]

@@rikkemeek1506 How the fk. you know?? She needs to protect her home and her life in general.

[@angelasmith1072]

If it's now or later rent your home out you always have a home if it did not work out or if it does rent your home out get an income from it that is a win win

[@rikkemeek1506]

@@bettinaparris8769 I watched the video and listen to what she actually said.

[@stillfedup1758]

I thought we had established that many of us will absolutely freak out at just the mention of this guy and any plans with him! 😂 I wouldn't worry about some of us freaking out or not freaking out. Just enjoy yourself and keep yourself safe, and we'll have to put on our big girl pants and let you be an adult and run your life! xoxoxo

[@catbialcovsky6489]

Brilliantly put 😂😅

[@lalewilan]

I read the title, knew immediately what it is about and freaked out.....

[@jennifercaskie9751]

I did also

[@YayaBolender]

I think we all freaked out, we all knew what it was about.

[@SonetLandman]

😂😂

[@heatherburrill]

You knew she would realize that she needed to buy a lamp for her walk-in-closet room? You knew that she was going to have fun looking at a house she had no intention of buying just for fun? You knew she was going to say it is too early to look for a house with her boyfriend and that she didn’t want you to take it as a serious house hunt and freak out? 😂

[@LouiseBridget-s5g]

I read the title and thought BORING

[@christinaheesakacowden-wut3809]

Wow, this is brave. But it is life. It has to go forward. I know, some think of all the work you put into this house now, and some think of the last boyfriend/house situation, but in the end it is your life. Go for it and never regret anything. Believe me, I have been there in my life and I have succeeded, failed, morned, fallen down, gotten up again and kept going. This is life. It is a constant movement and it has it`s ups and downs. I am wishing you all the best with your future. Tipps for old house purchases: Check the pipes/plumbing, check the heating system, check the roof and check the energy/athmosphere. I lived in haunted places before. No kidding. But I know you will be able to feel it. You are a sensitive person. Lot`s of love from me and my 121 year old house in Germany.

[@EliseBuch]

We'll be staying in my lil' house for now, but I don't plan to stay still in my life. I like growth and new challenges, and luckily I found a guy who see himself in an old house too 🥰

[@BebeDaull]

@@EliseBuch onward and upward, Babe! Life is short.

[@stj971]

​@@EliseBuch so was this all click bait then ???

[@01poppyblue]

@@stj971 No, it wasn’t click bait, it was directed to all the people who overly think it’s their right to tell her what to do with her life (loudly and not nicely). Just read the comment section and you’ll see why she titled the video this way.

[@TheSaBohemian]

​@@stj971In part, she lowkey is wanting to move and do a project with the new guy, but she also wants to capitalise on the number of views by posting something controversial 😂 and of course the grannies will buy into it 🤑

[@astraspidastra7195]

As always Elise, your videos are beautiful - you've captured the gorgeous autumn light in Denmark perfectly 🍂🍁 That country home looks amazing - going to open homes on a Sunday is actually a hobby for some people where I come from! No harm in seeing what's out there, even if you're not in the market to buy right now 😊 Keep dreaming big and living your life with an open heart - it is a privilege to be brought along, as you navigate your way xxx

[@edward3dofficial]

It’s nice to have someone to dream with. Be happy!

[@cathyridley3005]

Yeah, until you wake up and realise it was a dream that has turned into a nightmare.

[@majuni]

Not sure why ppl are freaking out, it is good to start searching now bc you never know when something will pop up!! My bf and I took more than a year to find our space. And anyways it's just a fun to look at cute historical houses and imagine what life would be like together there. Btw the staged house photos look amazing!! I can't imagine what needs to be done to it?!

[@sjerzgrl]

Wow Elise! The display you styled in your home to photograph is outstanding! So beautiful!

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you !

[@ivonnevermeer3600]

Dear Elise, do as you please, there is nothing wrong with thinking and dreaming of the future ❤️ You are a grown woman, who just met a guy she’s in love with, enjoy this romantic time. The future will bring what it’s gonna bring, have a nice week 🥰

[@jodic7760]

Elise, it is nice to see you happy! Hope you both have a wonderful weekend.

[@hollyralph449]

Owning a really, really, REALLY old home is my dream!! I would love to own an old stone home in the country somewhere. ❤❤ I hope you're able to find the home of your dreams!

[@AM-bm2xw]

How you style things and put elements together is just incredible, I wish I had a small amount of that skill 😍❤️

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much !

[@pizzakrydder2515]

The old mill looks so lovely! I'm sure you could really work your magic on the interiors and make it into a wonderful home. Living together in your current home could be a great test though, to see how you guys work as a team before commiting to getting a place together. I'm sure you have your head full of things to consider at this point 🥰 weighing the pros and cons of it all. But how exciting!

[@alexmcginness8859]

Just here to say I wish you the best on any path you choose to take. I get people’s concern, but they need to chill. You got this babe, no matter what you decide to do!

[@clarissaflowers6200]

Looking at houses is so much fun! It is also a great way to discern what architectural style and life-style you desire. The various options fills one with exuberance, melding the ideas together and making it your own. I love a big yard with a lot of privacy for gardening and just relaxing in a peaceful edenic oasis. I hope you enjoy finding ideas that excite you for the future and expand your creative growth!

[@johannaenglund4745]

Can people in the comments please stop being so negative every time. Let her be and let her live. Looking at houses is fun it does not have to be that serious. I just looked at the house for fun as well, it was pretty cool and very big!

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you so much for having my back ❤️

[@LCLand]

@@EliseBuchmost of these people have your back. Why are you seeing concern and advice as not having your back? This is the definition of having your back! Just because you wanted nothing but support and no concerns and advice don’t make these people who love you out to be people who are against you. They are not! Try to take the advice and concern as love from friends. Because that’s what it is. You’re the one making this worse than it is. Your hackles rose up because people said hey be careful. Stand down. Embrace these comments too because they are the most loving. They dare to offend you because they care and they don’t want to see anything bad happen in your life. Please change your perspective you’re going to ruin these follower friendships or whatever they are. We are all also real people with real feelings and real love for you. Don’t write anyone off because they said hey be careful. Say thank you to them just like you say thank you to everyone who says yahoo live your life! Do whatever makes you happy! The other comments are just as loving. Probably more 😘

[@Diane-c3j]

Hi Elise , your wardrobe looks so lovely in green , it’s so beautiful🤩 I loved all the dresses you tried on and the wonderful fluffy jacket they all looked gorgeous on you . The old mill from the outside looked wonderful , but I do agree with you that it needs a lot of TLC . Have a wonderful weekend ❤🦋

[@isabellebillie]

I am happy that you met someone to make these wonderful plans with!!!

[@louisesusan]

What i love about you, Elise is your drive and ambition to always move forward. You display an important role model to us, in not only your personal life but your continued hard work and dedication to build a brand and share it with us. I say, go for whatever you desire. We are all on our own journey, and what is right for you, is right for you. There will always be na-sayers, but its generally because they want what you have, or feel they cant move on. My favourite saying is a chat between two people. "you have changed'? " Thats because we are supposed to". And yay to house viewing, its super exciting and its always good to send out the message, to the universe!! Louise xxxx

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you ❤️

[@maryeliason1504]

If you're unmarried & buy a house, a partnership agreement is a must to protect you both. I liked the blue armoire, but the green fits so much better. That skylight was such a great idea. It illuminates the whole area. I loved your placement for the photo shoot. You are so talented. ❤

[@purplelitta]

Everything is so beautifully bohemian and full of gorgeous patterns and it is so inspiritional 🧡 Take care Elise

[@mrspeabody3128]

take your time and take care . we all remember your heartache after you purchased your previous home with other people

[@EliseBuch]

I didn't buy a house with my ex who 🥰

[@mrspeabody3128]

@@EliseBuch sorry I must have misunderstood

[@laurensophia1246]

I looked at the comments first, but glad I watched the whole video through. I think you sound happy, comfortable, and excited about the future with your boyfriend and there's nothing wrong with that. Looking at a house is not a contract lol. I selfishly also hope you will hang onto your house for a while longer because your home looks like a dream, however this is your life and I have faith that there is room for both love and logic. Best of luck to you!

[@divinelymoowah6104]

hahaha, same 🙋🏻‍♀️ wishing you only the best on your journey Elise~ 💟✨

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you, I will hold onto my house for a while, but I don't work without dreaming or finding new dreams and adventures. I'll not be living here forever, it's never been a plan of mine.

[@cynthiadrake6696]

Elise, please don't rush into buying a house, yours is so nice. Be careful ok.❤

[@flowerlady-e5u]

It's your life and only you can make decisions for it. ❤

[@ml9508]

The mill house looks interesting. Certainly a lot of work but think of all the renovation videos you could produce! I really enjoyed your skylight videos. Hope your boyfriend is as handy as you are.

[@EliseBuch]

Yea, it would have been a great adventure, but wow... also a demanding one. We'll stay put and chill for now 🥰

[@KatherineMcG]

The wardrobe looks so good in your bedroom in the green.Also your new designs are beautiful!

[@rhondadeneen4287]

Be careful. Protect your self. Don't get caught like you did before. Just worry about you. ❤

[@EliseBuch]

Nothing to worry about at allll 🥰

[@Maria-fd7re]

Here we go with fear projecting!😂

[@julieryan1616]

I agree with the comment above nothing wrong with being cautious,❤

[@Lsmc7]

I believe when you invite people into your home and life, then the outpouring of love and concern for Elise shouldn’t be chastised. We are only reminding her of what we tend to forget in the beginning of a new, hopeful, wonderful love.

[@danidiaz2377]

We were all right last time hun

[@Kickrocksproductions]

@nestandthimble said it all. Keep your house. If he doesn't currently have a property... please keep your house. You deserve the best! Take your time. You bring a lot and your future partner should do the same.... Team Elise here!!!

[@LiveBeautySimply]

These videos always feel so cozy and warm, best thing to wake up to this morning ❤

[@EliseBuch]

Aww I'm glad, thanks 🥰

[@cynthialawlor2420]

Hi Elise, you said you’d like suggestions that could draw potential customers into your shop. I think they call it “curb appeal”, or something like that… So, I thought about what would draw me inside as someone just passing by. I probably wouldn’t want to spend a bunch of time trying on clothes. Shopping for clothes is very time consuming and usually requires trying on several pieces to see if they fit. Also, I would have to consider the price of the item and if I love the piece enough to spend that much. Basically, shopping for clothes requires a bigger commitment than things like jewelry, candles, novelty items and accessories. So, this is how I would dress up the shop window and maybe a small folding table outside. I would create a window of many, many items using jewelry, incense and incense burners, candles, hats, scarfs, purses, small tapestries, rugs, baskets, scented oils…. and maybe a couple of your kimonos, jackets and clothing I could try on without going into the dressing room. I would dress the window in a very Bohemian style, using the items I listed above and maybe a small Christmas tree with lights as the season grows closer. The tree could be used to display items you sell in the store. The outside table would be the reason for me to pause, then I would notice the window display and then I would come inside your shop. The beautiful trinkets on the table and in the window would be the reason I come into the store, but once inside I would most likely look at the clothes you sell. Just to clarify, I’m not a retail expert, but I do love a beautiful boutique. Also, I’m an older woman, with a thicker build, therefore I would most likely be shopping for clothes for my daughter and granddaughter. I might be wrong, but it seems the clothes you carry are all in smaller sizes, which may deter women, who no longer fit in a size 10. You need to draw the older, larger women inside your boutique, otherwise you are excluding some potential customers. I, myself wouldn’t come inside if all you were selling is vintage clothes for a specific (young and slender) customer. Hopefully my perspective is helpful, but you’ve been doing this for a long time and you know this business way more than me. ❤ Good luck sweetie, as always I wish the best for you.

[@divinelymoowah6104]

ohhh I like this suggestion ☺️ I also would suggest perhaps a game, like dress up with dolls like the vintage ones where its perforated clothes to dress a character up. In this case, the clothes would be ones you have in the boutique, ideally staple pieces or popular pieces + some hidden gems you adore + seasonal themes. This game could be for a prize or just to post up on how stylish and creative someone can be, which may involve the community more. How it would go, well you could do a simple print and laminate the “doll(s)” and clothes/accessories and use velcro stickies or its all printed and people have the option to take a print, play the game and pin it on a bulletin board in the shop, perhaps enjoy some tea snacks as they look at other entries or talk with you. This is simply an inspiration off the dome, so maybe it’ll inspire a better idea for you 🧐

[@penelopesparrow]

Looking at houses is exciting! But as lovely as it is, I agree that house is crazy huge and close to a busy road is a big no. Autumn/winter is the best time to view houses though, summer sunshine can make anything look promising. The countryside has been a goal of yours for quite some time, I always felt like where you are now isn't the forever place, just a stepping stone. I haven't even read the comments but I'm sure it's the usual doomsayers... Live your life baby, only you know what feels right! (ps that magenta coat you're wearing when you went shopping looks glorious on you!) 💝

[@dawn4224]

Happy you are taking your time and evaluating what is best for you. I always told my daughter to be happy but also to have a plan in her significant relationships. You have been burned badly before so I know you will do what is best for YOU! Most essentially, trust in yourself and what is best for your own life. You look radiant and happy!

[@oldwillowtree173]

If I were Elise, I might feel smothered by all the care--in the form of peoples' own anxieties, worries and warnings! After she requested no "freak out"! Can we rather just respect and support her right and freedom--and ability--to choose her own path and a full life? WHATEVER that may be? Personally, I loved the fascinating tour of the mill house, and also the thought of her and her boyfriend just exploring options and ideas (as she clearly said) and enjoying themselves together. Anything else, around buying, or their relationship, is surely none of my business! We all see through different lenses, and they both have a right to their own, themselves--without us assuming, presuming or trying to control . . . specially since we only see a FRACTION of Elise's life! Just saying

[@kylieholman3877]

Well said!

[@ChronicallyHopefulChar]

Exactly! People are trauma dumping and projecting, always worried about every little thing that could go wrong and never letting oneself fully love and trust somebody else, what a sad and stressful way to go through life. I’m happy Elise is happy.

[@mom4peace919]

Take it from people who have been there done that. KEEP YOUR HOUSE!!! Let him buy the other one. Some of my biggest mistakes were made by “just looking/checking it out”😮 In the end though, your life is your lessons to learn.

[@Nmbr1fan]

She has already been there done that, it's just a few videos ago.

[@rikkemeek1506]

​@@Nmbr1fanWhat? Her last relationship that ended was 2 years ago. Time you moved on because Elise has.

[@minarose3193]

that's how they play you

[@littletallon]

I have kept my house and it was my plan B. Now it gives me wonderful rental income. Still my plan B as well!

[@francescacredali8338]

LET HIM BUY the other house ...........hummm maybe this guy doesnt have a DIME to scratch his ass....so cant buy the house......

[@AndreaSooHill429]

❤❤❤Dont do anything til you are married and he is held to the law to not screw you over❤❤❤ Let Him buy it.. not you.

[@marlenegura1161]

BEST ADVICE EVER!!!!

[@redroselace9545]

Absolutely 💯

[@lyndaplancarte4895]

Hate to say it but some men can still screw you even if you were married...

[@judithrussell9162]

Elise, I'm so pleased that you are comfortable enough to be thinking about a long term future with your boyfriend. He sounds lovely. Wishing you much happiness.

[@irishartn]

This may be silly for outside the showroom, but what about an old bike that you could decorate in some way for the winter months? Like you could hang two round wreaths on the tires or put something evergreen in the basket and you could pull it in and out easily...maybe an old bike wouldn't be eye-catching enough, but it's what popped in my head.

[@EliseBuch]

I think that's a fun idea. I'll just take that idea with me in my process, thanks 🥰

[@fatpicklestudiomagdalenatu8990]

That house is stunning, I can see you there!

[@lindagillies4939]

A house in the country sounds nice. I grew up in the country in Newfoundland and miss it!❤🇨🇦

[@AjniraBloom]

Don't give up your house and walk away from all the hard work you did making it just what you wanted in every detail. It's YOURS, and yes you can start all over again, I'm confident you can refurbish another one, sure you can, if that's what you want to spend years doing, over and over again. You've created a gorgeous little jewel. My heart is heavy watching how eager you are to toss it for a dream. Have your dream in your lovely home. I can't say more. Just please stay grounded in this relationship. Stay true to your self.

[@gabriellelee7119]

As an American, people don't realize that Denmark alike other (Scandinavian countries) are very different culturally compared to ours. I believe women over there are equally respected as men and are very independent. So we shouldn't compare or critique Elise for her own decisions. It is her own life experiences, and we must respect it even if she shares a small glimpse of her personal life to the world. By the way, the architecture of that old mill was beautiful inside & out. Take care. Have a great weekend! 😊

[@N-nannah]

Exactly, you're so right!

[@AndreaBenson-g5y]

Hi Elise. - I knew when you said don't freak out that people were going to freak out!! ❤ 😊

[@thebrookealyson]

a little click baity but ya gotta love her ..😂

[@stj971]

​@@thebrookealysonya, no, not really.

[@cathcarr4823]

Those dresses were absolutely stunning 🤩

[@cyndylivingston6586]

I love the green wardrobe. The color looks beautiful.

[@juliadonaldson6943]

I like your solution of working on the back of the painting. I don't mind painting over prints but I always kind of feel bad for the artist when an original artwork is lost. I look forward to seeing the art you create.

[@uli5000]

Everyone here is focusing so much on her relationship and the house. Meanwhile all i see is a woman who seems to have it all together. Always dresses in the most stunning beautiful way. Has a wonderfully styled home and don't get me started on her showroom!!! @EliseBuch you are such an inspiration! We are very different kind of women but i applaud you ❤ I wish you only the best and hope you continue to thrieve in everything you do 😘

[@FrogeniusW.G.]

Maybe those people just care about her and feel empathetic. That's actually a good thing.

[@okayheykae]

I don't leave comments often, but this comment section could use some normalcy. 😅 Blue is my favorite color but the green on that cabinet works so much better in that room! And the autumnal vibes in this video are amazing! It's still warm and mostly green where I live so I'm glad to get a little sneak peek! 🍂

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you for adding some normality, this blew up way bigger and crazier than viewing a house. Glad you enjoyed my video!

[@okayheykae]

@@EliseBuch Yeah there's been a bit of an overreaction!

[@Rhonda___]

I really enjoy how creative you are. Thx for sharing!! 🎉🎉

[@katieford473]

There is no single right timeline for every stage of life, decision, relationship, etc. As long as you are taking the steps that bring you joy, keep on keeping on! Life is too short to not to take the leaps sometimes, even if there is a risk, there’s always going to be risks no matter the timeline!

[@marthinarauhut1876]

Lovely video, loved all the outfits. Glad you are so happy. Life is about the here and now, enjoy it. Ask the universe to bring you the perfect house. If it doesn’t come then the time is not right, if it does then you will know. Have a nice week.

[@terrip8451]

I know a lot of people are inserting their opinions, but you're a smart woman with a good head on your shoulders, and I know you're considering the logical sides of everything while still allowing yourself and your bf to dream together. The length of a relationship doesn't determine its strength, and only you can know that, not strangers from the internet. I had a 4 year relationship that ended terribly and then a relationship where we moved in together within two months of dating and actively discussed/chose to start a family within 6 months. We have now been together for 12 years, married for 11, have a 10-year-old son and 8-year-old son, and we still love each other more than anything.

[@divinelymoowah6104]

💟👏🏼✨

[@sonya3772]

Elise,I'm an American married to a Dutchmen. We lived in the Nethlerlands for 10 years before moving back back to the states in 2017 and one of the places we vacationed was Denmark..such a beautiful country!! I knew my husband all of 3 months before we decided to get married. We will be celebrating our 20th anniversary in December. Live your life. Fall in love, buy the house when you want and live your life on your terms❤ I'm excited for you!!!

[@GraceGrantedBeliever]

I love your videos! You are so creative and have great taste and style. Very enjoyable, and I love your garden too- and that house, so lovely how you've decorated and painted and worked to make it your own. Blessings to you!

[@Enchantedbaublesandbits]

Love all the bits in the shop truly makes my ❤smile for all things vintage and new.. love … love your channel 🫶🏻 Best wishes from Texas

[@lauracooper1218]

I think you should be guided by how you feel. I don't think that one bad experience should necessarily stop you from making decisions together with your new love. Only you know if he is 'the one.' Live life to the fullest Elise, we only have one. Much love from England xx ❤

[@wendyreynolds8940]

Loving this week's collection--is there anything better than a cocktail dress to lift your mood? LOVE IT! 👗👗🥻🥻👗👗🥻🥻👗👗🥻🥻

[@christinecolson1221]

So here’s my opinion about house-hunting with a new boyfriend- you can dream big and look; if there is a house you take a second or third look at, have a list a house inspector would look for. If you buy a house, do two things: keep your house and rent out- passive income is good, as it’s a plan B in case plan A falls apart. And, put the house in one person’s name. If in his name, definitely keep your house. If in your name, use your current’s house profits to pay for house you buy. And if it doesn’t work out between you and him, you have a place to go to. Also, moving way too fast, but psychos and narcissists move fast and want their target to be completely dependent upon them, for control reasons.

[@ellenrawls7557]

@@christinecolson1221 completely agree on the narcissist part of this comment. It is exactly what they do especially if they see you are successful on your own.

[@danidiaz2377]

Definitely never recommend putting the house in the man’s name they almost always try to convince the woman to do exactly that though

[@tartariadreaming]

absolutley! also she does not have power tell his name here on vlog, psychos and narcissists do not want open his name

[@jessicawidmeier2862]

Make a dress shaped sign which can have pieces overlayed on it, not fabric, but something waterproof, that you can change out the dress design for each Season or Holiday. It would be creative, so something you could design, paint ect. Also eye catching and promotes what you sell.

[@Kitkatbreak3]

We've only got this one life -- and you'll do the right thing! How fun it would be to watch you redo an old house! ❤❤❤

[@reikicatz8679]

Shop sign ❤An old bicycle paint it all one colour including tyres and hang a wooden open sign on it❤ you can wheel it on and out and won't ruin if it gets wet❤

[@irenav5910]

Bravo!!!

[@emilym8040]

I've watched nearly all your videos, you put in a lot of effort in your current house, but who cares if a new one is calling! Do what you think is best for you!!!! Not what everyone else is telling you because of their own fears, heartbreaks, doubts! Believe you can have your dream life, house relationship! You deserve to have it all! No compromises!

[@Melissa-qt2zj]

I love the color of green you used on your desk project. It really turned out beautiful!

[@maryraymond8375]

We know how much work you have put into your house and we know how much you love the garden. So this man must be very special for you to even think about moving. I love how happy you are and that you have found that someone special. Glad you are not moving yet though. 🙂 But its your life and you will do the right thing. Happy for you!!

[@bonnieculp7957]

Elise, where do I Begin? I always look forward to Friday to see your new videos. From your old apartment, to your little yellow cottage, and now this beautiful home with luxurious grounds, has fascinated me, And your vintage shop, amazes me of how much a hard worker you are.I almost wanted to cry when I heard you might start all over, with so much hard work ahead, and leave behind your little paradise. Just focus on what you have, enjoy life, be happy and keep your beautiful home.

[@bettyjo2737]

All those dresses look GORGEOUS on you!! I am very happy for you Elise. I am glad you have happiness and love, you deserve it girl!! Don't listen to the nay sayers. You are an intelligent young woman and it is your life. Life is too short, live it to the fullest!! ❤

[@EliseBuch]

Thank you 🥰

[@helenecorbett7487]

I think you both made a wise choice to opt out of the old house - too much to take on, when you both have full-time jobs/businesses etc. I dont think anyone is being overly critical of your choices at the moment. Everyone means it from a place of love & doesnt want to see you get hurt again, BUT at the same timr, you are a grown woman who has learned a lot over recent years & Im pretty sure you wont let anyone hurt you ever again. I wish you & your boyfriend every happiness. You deserve it Elise. You only live once!

[@tammyroyal7547]

Hi Elise!! How fun to go & look at a cool house!! I love your house & style!! And your garden is just so beautiful!! Take care sweet girl ❤😊

[@mercurialpierrot7073]

If you move, lease the house you are in so you can receive personal income and have a place to go if things ever go south. I know it feels pessimistic to think of this stuff when you are in the honeymoon phase, but as someone who dated someone for 4 years before marriage I’ve learned that you can’t really know a person. I trusted him completely and he ran away with our teenage goddaughter. I was with him for 12 years and he is going for funds from the divorce he knows he doesn’t deserve so he can start a life with her out of state. In the beginning he was handy around the house and lovey. All my friends loved him, but some people wait to flip the switch once things get serious. It’s more common than you’d think. So, I hope things go well, but be sure to protect your assets and have a way out as an option if you need it. It’s not fun, but it is wise.

[@divinelymoowah6104]

beautifully said🥰 i’m sorry if this will sound weird but, I appreciate how respectful this is 😌💟✨

[@stj971]

So sorry bc I can totally relate. I found out after my husband of 22yrs passed that there were many lies he kept from me. Sometimes we never really do know them. Learned my lesson.

[@Norehaneben]

So lovely to see some people sharing their own stories to give us advices thank you so much for trusting us enough to do so