Please Please Please

[@flapper27]

This gave me the chills. The narcissist tells his girlfriend/ wife that she needs to work harder at pleasing him, just to receive a simple or passionate kiss or a warm, secure hug from him.

[@ihdtdd]

Yes, my thoughts went to the ethos of a certain Florida location. 🙃

[@heyo-faerie]

The push and pull behavior does a number on the empath. Literally how my empath sis stays attached to her narc. 😢 And her narc is fugly, brutish, and gross idk why she wants to kiss him when he's disgusting - in the beginning he used his looks 🤮 (his “charm” was very obviously fake) and “bad boy” image to lure her with s3x/affection push and pull dynamic bullsh1t.

[@CaFe73100]

🎼Please, Please, Please, Don't bring me to tears when I just did my makeup so nice....🎶

[@helenhoward5346]

Seems like an ode to the codependent carrier, particularly, but relatable to all empaths in the narcissistic dynamic. Reminds me of that movie 'the brave little toaster' too.

[@bruji2001]

Pmsl Helen🤣 Ace comment bless the little shelved/discarded darlings🤪🙈🤣

[@lauracox3856]

In many ways the narcissist seems doomed to re enact their own past on a never ending loop. The characters change position, victim becomes victimiser in a seeming attempt to reconcile the past and let go of it. It never quite works though. The narcissist can never become the child again, the past can never be re written so the narcissism can never be dismantled.

[@Thekingdomof0z]

Deep.

[@lauracox3856]

Haha, I imagined you dressed like a hippie and holding a spliff when I read that!

[@danistark781]

Beautifully told, sir.

[@Joa5588]

I'm stuck in this constantly. Only in professional relationships. I prove, I leap, I amaze and I admire myself. Negative fuel, triangulation and mutual silence affect me more strongly, than the old positive "friendship". I have more time now (how much of it you used to take from me!), and the mixture of pride, resentment and contempt has become a huge driving force in my professional duties and increased my creativity. This mixture is stronger than friendship. Stronger than love. I'm pushing like a storm and developing at a crazy pace. I absorb technological innovations like a sponge and use them in practice, always being the first, always faster. Now I like the taste of reluctant praise and reluctant admiration, expressed rarely, with a tight throat, only in public - never directly. When will I say STOP? I don't know yet. I can't do it yet. It gives me too much pleasure, too much satisfaction, too much energy flow, despite complete silence. I balance between calm and turbocharging. Despite the costs I incur. ----- Look at me. Don't try to get close or you'll burn. Even 1 millimeter closer is too much. Don't be pathetic, continue on your chosen path, the old it's gone with the wind and turned to dust. Now, only one thing - LOOK AT ME. Just as I am still watching from behind the curtain of my own life. I am no longer interested in your affairs and whining details, but I can still see you through the shaded pergola with green ivy and purple clematis, as if we were walking in parallel, albeit from a distance. You are moving forward too. All right.

[@TruthSeekingElf]

Spine chilling, insidious, horrid and heartbreaking. Surely the narcissists feels SOMETHING when kissing? 🥺

[@MargaretM-vd7bb]

My first thought was you are being a Seductive Tease. On second thoughts it chilled me to the bone. Such purposeful Manipulation for the Prime Aims. That was my evaluation. Thankyou HG.❤️🌻

[@kiibo5862]

Please, pLeAsE, PLEASE!! 😘🥰 Fleas, fLeAs, FLEAS!! *🐩💋❤️ Flee!! fLeE!! 🚩 FLEE!!! 🚩❣️👣 🖤 Thank You HG Tudor. 👣 !!!

[@CaFe73100]

100%

[@ContagionEmpath]

I don’t understand why people are commenting like that after this episode I needed to take a cold shower😂😂

[@lavenderrose786]

Ohhhhh HG you do it so well.....

[@patriciaduarte7039]

Wonderful...!? Perhaps...? Perhaps not...!

[@IreneBeauville]

Just terrible.

[@ironDsteele]

It sounds like the manipulations of the walnut-balled midranger.

[@NifftyMelinoë]

no. no. no. in your voice. not mine.

[@ihdtdd]

I don't know what that means, but I'm spreading the likes out today.

[@NifftyMelinoë]

​​​​​@@ihdtdd to clarify. in HGs voice. to himself. probably because I listened to this one immediately after the chasm and this is the voice I heard emerging from the chasm. please please please chants there as well. no. no. no. to that judgemental voice. likes back atcha.

[@Babee56]

Isn’t this a Sabrina carpenter song 😂