One day woke up said never going to watch porn again, didn't watch porn for 3 months, relapsed forgave my self and decided not to do it again after 6 months of no porn relapsed again forgave myself. now its been 2 year's since i watched porn never felt better. feels like i am the king eveything is on track Porn destroys lives brothers please stop it❤
@joaotome405 ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment, I did 1 year of nofap and after relapsing to nothing, the release sensation brought me to porn again, slower but it did. What I found in your comment is that your forgive yourself, something that I wasn't doing until I read this, thanks brother! I have to get back to the track!
@void145695 ай бұрын
@@joaotome40 dont you get nightfall following no fap for so long
@jellekoopmans98225 ай бұрын
@@joaotome40Hey man, you should be damn proud of how much progress you have made!! Such a long streak is extremely difficult when it comes to porn. I used to have a strong addiction, and was part of several forums of online communities. Several people in that chat were addicted to physical drugs, and said that porn was much harder to break free from than any of the drugs they did. You were able to, from pure mental will power, abstain from it that long. BECAUSE YOU ARE A BEAST! Also, it is only a slight set back, you are not going back to point zero, even if may feel like that. Think about it this way, if you are driving from New York to Los Angeles, and you take a wrong turn when you are almost past the California border, you don't drive all the back to New York because you took one wrong turn. You maybe watched for 60 minutes total (the number does not matter), even though there are 525,600 minutes in a year. So that means for 525,540/525,600 minutes you stayed strong. Another tip I have is to always stay humble, and remember it starts with the eyes. It's much harder to turn off porn when you are already on the site. Making the active decision to not watch girls on social media, or even go on there in the first place, is much easier to do. Also, have an identity shift.You are not a porn watcher, it's as simple as that. Saying this to yourself gives much more power than trying to have a streak. Streaks get broken, but you are not a porn watcher so why would you even need a streak? These are some things that helped me along the way. You may have relapsed, but it made you stronger and you will break free from this evil addiction. Great job and I am damn proud of you!!
@MuhammedLaith5 ай бұрын
bro pls help me
@EasyDreamBody5 ай бұрын
Congrats 🥳
@giodude925 ай бұрын
Porn is DEMONIC! I'm so glad I overcame my addiction years ago. I'm never turning back!
@yournewfarther5 ай бұрын
Damn bro your youtube account is as old as mine
@HalimaKayPakwaan5 ай бұрын
@@yournewfarther bruhhh you guys some old ass niggas ngl 😂😂
@RawDogTV5 ай бұрын
@@yournewfartherwhat does that have to do with what he said???
@yournewfarther5 ай бұрын
@@RawDogTV what has your comment to do with mine?
@yournewfarther5 ай бұрын
@@RawDogTV So are you.
@BigmobyD5 ай бұрын
I read this once… “You don’t know you’re addicted until you try to quit”.
@CarlBland-l8l4 ай бұрын
Thank god its just weed a porn 😂
@ElohimOgun14 күн бұрын
@@CarlBland-l8ldon’t thank God for your weaknesses tf
@Booafk2 ай бұрын
Porn addiction can ruin any person's life. It is very dangerous. I will pray to God that no one suffers from porn addiction.
@thebestone11-r9y5 ай бұрын
The fact that nobody talks about the book NoFap Rebirth Project, speaks volumes about how people are stuck in life.
@JewTube0015 ай бұрын
You're talking about it. 1k likes the top comment.
@gregthesplintercell5 ай бұрын
What's special about this book? Legit question.
@amur_5 ай бұрын
Is this a bot comment?
@deadaccount420695 ай бұрын
@@amur_yes
@LeroyPeterson5 ай бұрын
@@amur_ this whole channel is bots
@UzairFeeroze5 ай бұрын
"If you want to destroy any nation without war, make adultry and nudity common among the younger generation." ~ Salahudin Ayubi in 11th century AC. A thousand years ago.
Mind Begs the Question: ▪︎Islam forbids Usury/Interest Banking ▪︎Those who practice,impose Usury ▪︎To view Islam as Threat to Demonize/Eliminate,no?
@omartamer46295 ай бұрын
@@HumanBeingsRThinkingBeings hello my friend I'm sorry if I don't understands the first phrase very well (English is my second language) But if you aren't Muslim and just asking about the reason why Islam forbids the bank interests OR "Usury" in general then I suggest you search for this subject and educate urself and see how this thing harms the economic and the society(and a lot of other problems as well) knowing that ALLAH (the only truly GOD) doesn't forbid anything without it being harmful on the (Individual,society,...etc) even if we don't know the reason thank you and sorry for taking much of your time
@Civilian-k8s5 ай бұрын
Go do with camel then
@hoanglinhdao89245 ай бұрын
I pray to our father most high to help all the men young and old to have the strength to fight off this addiction 🙏
@bekabeka715 ай бұрын
Yes me too I’m 29 🙏🏼✝️
@Crimzon_Nova2 ай бұрын
@@bekabeka71same age, same boat, also in need. Let’s all fight to end this evil habit of our and depend on the lord. 🙏🙏🙏
@austinfairbanks91425 ай бұрын
I was addicted to Heroin and alcohol and porn. Out of all 3 of these Porn was the hardest to quit. We need more of this Thank you PBD
@jcbbb5 ай бұрын
Then you definitely wasn't addicted to heroin but go on w ya bad self
@kevinlucas99055 ай бұрын
That speaks volumes!
@BrettW-py1ct5 ай бұрын
God bless you bro
@bradleyjohnson61075 ай бұрын
Pretending the porn consumption is equal to and is as detrimental and destructive as heroin and alcohol abuse is hilarious. I’ve never heard of anyone dying of a porn overdose, and I’ve never heard of anyone accidentally killing a family by running their car into them because they were under the influence of porn.
@Ryang19875 ай бұрын
I was having a conversation with an in-law. I was telling them how I'm going to teach my son to stay away from porn and teach him why. The Response I got was you need to let them experiment and figure out these things themselves. My response was would you let your son figure out for themselves and experiment with heroin. They looked at me like i was crazy. I had to take it back to chemistry. I said the dopamine Spike and crash are not dissimilar. Except with heroin you can isolate yourself from supply. With porn or masturbation it not only on us but it's in us 24/7/52
@apatheticexistence5 ай бұрын
im day 25 of nofap. last streak was 183 days. im feeling great.
@nope67615 ай бұрын
You went on "nofap" for 183 days. You're not on nofap, you're already not a fapper. Nofap is attempting to succeed, you've already succeeded. Stop counting your days, it will only make you more aware of porn. For example, you don't count the day you last murdered somebody because you've never killed somebody and have no desire to. If you're still getting urges, it's not physical it's brainwashing.
@MrinmayChakravarty-jf4nr5 ай бұрын
Great growing bro blessings
@ultimatom98345 ай бұрын
Why do you do it? What did you gain so far?
@marvinheemeyer66605 ай бұрын
@@ultimatom9834 + Chronic blue balls....
@WAFIsarwar5 ай бұрын
Don't count the days . It's even better that way.
@solha57515 ай бұрын
The fact that no generation has seen this kind of spiritual and mental weapon against it is crazy. Lord protect us.
@wstm33994 ай бұрын
What I always think
@danielaudacious5 ай бұрын
I haven't seen it in over 7-8 years and I'm thankful. I have to Thank God for that.
@CJW00565 ай бұрын
How can you possibly not "see" it after being addicted? You can't get away from the shit. Constant triggers everywhere. It feels absolutely inescapable.
@andressliftss5 ай бұрын
You look like a G so makes sense
@kiritokun-20785 ай бұрын
@Todor7what are you on about? Does your words have any basis 🤦🏻♀️
@BrayWsАй бұрын
@@CJW0056just don’t watch 😂it not that complex
@MilitaryBase-wt8jr5 ай бұрын
I started doing drugs since my teenage. Got addicted to heroin for over 16 years. Heroin addiction actually destroyed my life. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
@AmadaBlack5 ай бұрын
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
@ThomasBurlson5 ай бұрын
@@AmadaBlackCan you help me with the reliable source A. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in France. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
@WooodTh5 ай бұрын
@@ThomasBurlsonYes he's Dr.jeffshroom. Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used
@BrieflyCarmel-vw1zn5 ай бұрын
@@AmadaBlackI'm really happy for you that your mom decided to help you...I hear about alot of family members or so called friends shutting an addict out of their life, which since most addicts do it to mask emotions to me is the worse thing someone can do to an addict.
@PrincewillNwaegbe5 ай бұрын
@@BrieflyCarmel-vw1znmushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
@dippyfish5 ай бұрын
Of all the addictions, this is the most violent.😐
@antoniobabb45695 ай бұрын
Most dangerous
@issasd11725 ай бұрын
And hard to quit it bro I'm 10 years of addicted tell this day I'm trying 😢😢
@Theonbennett235 ай бұрын
@@issasd1172 Don't give up trying.. you surely will. More grace and strength. Always form healthy habits with momentum and pray for help ..by His mercies you'll not just count the days; but make the days count.
@Mr-ntanzi5 ай бұрын
@@issasd1172be a sperm donor man. Our dragons have to breathe from time to time it's just nature and we can't change that. The cave men survived by hunting, eating and also by releasing themselves downstairs by urinating and taking a dump and also fvckin. We fvcked so we can repopulate the earth
@isaacmwita25824 ай бұрын
Also don't forget masterbation as well. That is the big problem today
@StratManDan525 ай бұрын
Porn destroys us spiritually and ultimately our physical well being.
@CeeTee-123455 ай бұрын
Feminism and this woke nonsense hasn't helped.
@Dynasty195 ай бұрын
It’s all a byproduct of technology leading to a desire of excess deviance regardless if it was porn or anything else these desires would go unchecked and rear their head in some form. I don’t think guys like Epstein or any of these wealthy elites on Wall Street abusing people are watching that much porn but they’re definitely causing harm to society, so my point is it’s not as simple as one area of sedation to boost dopamine highs, there’s a multitude of factors that includes drugs, overeating, and addiction in general. I don’t think the gamer choking the chicken in the basement is any more or less spiritually corrupted than the rich guy who goes to the strip club with a briefcase full of drugs hoping to create his own live porn possibly filming it for the guy in the basement to watch. Tell me the difference please. I’m starting to think this campaign against something that’s been around for decades has more to do with major companies noticing marriage rates going down which hinders profits, less men spending money in nightclubs which hurts a variety of businesses, restaurants/hospitality dying because dating is waning, and men that have resources not feeling as rewarded for having their resources because they’re not competing with anybody but themselves now for women who they no longer want to marry that make their own money filming guess what with their phones? It’s not going anywhere so blame the technocratic society. 😏
@alexkane845 ай бұрын
I was shown that demons feed off of porn . Watching porn opens up a demonic portal and creates food for evil spirits. Just remember when you're indulging in porn, demons are attaching themselves to you.
@Johnbrown-politics..5 ай бұрын
56 here and still loving it. When exactly will it destroy my life?
@negochristian15 ай бұрын
If you re getting spiritually destroyed you might not be using the proper grip...
@cooperc88345 ай бұрын
If you are a young man reading this please stop watching porn and lusting over soft core porn on instagram all day, if your mind is over sexualised you will never succeed. I'm 21 and haven't watched porn since I was 17. Porn ruins your sexuality and spirit. On long periods of retention you begin to transmutate your sexual desires into other desires such as getting in shape, making money etc. Thank you Patrick for touching on a taboo topic, it's so important we talk about the monster that industry has become. I would like to Thank you for the rest of your content as well as you give me insight into this world.
@Leonidas-222 ай бұрын
Im 22 i understand you all the way bud. Im meber watching it ever i feel so demonic to the point i keep watching it cant go 2 days without it. I quite from today enough is enough. Stay Hard kings
@stephenwilson10125 ай бұрын
At 35 years old I was sexually abused at age 7, got addicted to porn by 10, and just the last couple years I've realized how much it's changed and destroyed my life. There are ZERO positives to pornography.
@Superdimensional5 ай бұрын
I could argue it saves millions of women from getting raped 🤷♂️
@kennywynn15135 ай бұрын
Don’t let that trauma define you bud. Keep your chins up 👍🏼
@dareal54015 ай бұрын
what does the abuse have to do with your addiction
@gymboy21195 ай бұрын
@@dareal5401are you serious…. Use your head. He was sexually abused, which caused him to be hyper sexual. Thus seeking out that dopamine online
@Doc5695 ай бұрын
Way more common than people would imagine.
@deepsear205 ай бұрын
I am so very happy that someone of your profile is addressing this sad reality. Thanks so much! Your kids are lucky to have you as a father ❤👋
@sarahpikus55135 ай бұрын
Thanks PBD. I love how you approached this topic not just from a spiritual lens- but emphasizing the devastating impact on the psyche. This in turn is impacting how our society is functioning or dysfunctioning rather.
@NetSunJin5 ай бұрын
P*** addiction affects marriages. I’m a witness of that. It’s definitely weakening our men. Glad this is a conversation. It’s not to shame but to bring an issue to light
@shosho4real5 ай бұрын
Women also have unrealistic expectations to male performance because of promiscuity among them
@Bigblack8045 ай бұрын
Naw I think men got tired of pleasing women so this better route
@subashdc64065 ай бұрын
😂😂😂@@Bigblack804
@ruzimabonieck69085 ай бұрын
@@Bigblack804 nosense, i here foolishness and ignorance from your thoughts, porn is turning lions into cats
@djgamingdragon9694 ай бұрын
@Bigblack804 LMFAO we're sick of their shit fr
@krninja225 ай бұрын
I can say with certainty it's one of the hardest addictions to overcome. I was addicted for 16 years and still struggle with it. Praying there's a path forward for me to finally let go of this and live a life of freedom.
@jeffgo57425 ай бұрын
Go get hooked on meth. Then try to quit. You’ll see over coming porn addiction is nothing
@NexxoExxon5 ай бұрын
It doesn't help when it's readily available for free everywhere. Heck Instagram is the worst violator. When you don't subscribe to it or hit like on any pornographic reels the algorithm still pushes it in for feed. There needs to be some kind revolutionary push back. Porn needs to be banned completely from society.
@williamtell32035 ай бұрын
Without certainty?
@jeffgo57425 ай бұрын
@@krninja22 it’s not the hardest addiction to overcome. Go try meth and see what’s harder
@guantyngdotcom5 ай бұрын
I can relate to where you're coming from, brother. There is definitely hope for you to end this addiction completely by rewiring your brain. Check out Porn Reboot by Elevated Recovery. They're the best when it comes to porn addiction recovery for men in the world.
@meals24u5 ай бұрын
*I am so thankful that I was able to kick this bad habit some time ago! My relationship is now more intimate and I am living guilt free being able to focus on my 4 girls!*
@Ramansekhon-rn1qm2 ай бұрын
wdym by 4 girls
@luphelongcipe21062 ай бұрын
😂
@andyjm71225 ай бұрын
Big respect to PBD, saying what needs to be said and digging into what the elites don’t want the public to know.
@MartinChap5 ай бұрын
I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH
@mariaagulo5 ай бұрын
My dear, please for the love of God can you shed light on how it happened??
@MartinChap5 ай бұрын
All thanks to Christine Evelyn Mackie
@MartinChap5 ай бұрын
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.
@Wesl-m8r5 ай бұрын
I do know Christine E. Mackie, I also have even become successful....
@DavidStone-yw1ns5 ай бұрын
Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Christine Evelyn Mackie.
@richarddillon99275 ай бұрын
The longest I've been without porn in the last 17 years is probably 10 days. Most days it's 2 or 3 times per day. It is a miserable addiction that has no doubt destroyed my life in a lot of ways. I've tried quitting many times, but I feel like it has a vice grip on me so strong I'd have to die to get it off. I genuinely don't know how to stop. I know that sounds like a cop-out, but I have no idea. It's available everywhere. If I even have the slightest urge, my imagination starts spiraling until it's the only thing I can think about. It's terrible. It's no doubt hurt my relationships with women and I don't want to be this way. I remember not being addicted when I was younger and having way less hatred towards women and having much better relationships with them. Please keep spreading this message Patrick, it's an important one. I hope we can get it banned in the US someday. I also think it's greatly contributed to hookup culture and our cultural obsession with sex. It's a cancer on our society.
@chris-rios4 ай бұрын
How do you have time 3x per day
@JosefFurg16113 ай бұрын
Man, don’t get discouraged. It can be done, people quit this thing everyday, and you absolutely can do it as well. You do need Jesus. John 8:34-36 KJV - Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. 35 And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. 36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
@proto6942 ай бұрын
Please ask Jesus to help you
@NamezJalen2 ай бұрын
Same I’m surrounded by women but can’t do anything with them. What am I supposed to do
@Revenant742 ай бұрын
But truly sad is men who won't accept the FACT they love sex and porn.
@BigBrownEyes3135 ай бұрын
Please keep speaking out against this evil 🙏🏽
@gkghaznikhelnews5 ай бұрын
The only way to quit watching porn videos is to pray 5 times to GOD(ALLAH) and recite the Holy Quran on daily basis. Insha ALLAH, ALLAH will help you.
@yeah3777775 ай бұрын
Porn has severely impacted my social and dating life. I am still unable to overcome it.
@unc12215 ай бұрын
You have to replace an addiction with another addiction.
@angelofamillionyears45995 ай бұрын
Volunteer for Habitat oof Humanity and stop being lazy,
@DerealAzz5 ай бұрын
This is how it works. Lust is the desire to indulge in anything that is outside of the will and boundaries of God. See, the devil perverted it by introducing the unhealthy desire and so people now under the constrains of the devil. The best way to over this behavior is through the opposite. God wants to free you the devil wants to enslave you. Think about it.
@pierrebaker82075 ай бұрын
My heart feels for you. I was there, but I'm so much better now, you have hope.
@juansantana70415 ай бұрын
Get you a job in hard construction and work 12 hours a day for 6 days a week. When you get home you won't want do shit but shower and sleep
@garsto97185 ай бұрын
I stopped using porn and alcohol when I left the Navy. My life's been on the up ever since. No struggles with delaying gratification, no struggles with discipline, no struggles with social relationships (mostly lol ).
@5_colquhoun7035 ай бұрын
If you didn't have the "mostly" 😅 we woulda assumed you were 🦸♂️
@wilbertbrown85275 ай бұрын
The answer to this addiction is to FAST and PRAY against the spirit of lust.
@Masterthyselfandconquer5 ай бұрын
100%!
@Makai775 ай бұрын
Yes. FAST and PRAY consistently and often.
@coreywilliscraft24625 ай бұрын
How is lust a bad thing? Isn't that what makes us want to find a partner or spouse in the first place? Ive never understood this.
@jamesdot875 ай бұрын
I disagreee guys….by far the best counter to oorn addiction is to eiminate idle time and block xxx websites from your browser….get out of the house and work and stay busy….learn a new skill and excerise. For the first 2 weeks make yourself so tired out aide that as soon as you het home and hit the bed you zzz and set an alarm to wale up early and tAke COLD SHOWERS
@Shogunpandapolis5 ай бұрын
Jealous bro?
@TheNatewl7775 ай бұрын
44 and am just now walking away from it. Wish I would have earlier.
@EmoDKTsuchiya5 ай бұрын
God bless you
@Joker-11B-SYLV5 ай бұрын
Damn… how’s it feel to be such a weak individual?🤣
@Mat-threw5 ай бұрын
@@Joker-11B-SYLVdudes making an effort to improve himself and your response is to be a smug snide ass. Compensating for something maybe?
@kenhu60015 ай бұрын
@@Joker-11B-SYLVYour name is definitely accurate. Couldn’t imagine any woman taking you seriously with such an immature mindset.
@carlosbaptista71835 ай бұрын
I've been there. I was fortunate enough to get away from it in my early 30's. It felt like a prison to me. This is destroying men's mental health and relationships.
@MarkHicks-qh5gt5 ай бұрын
I think porn addiction is as bad now then it was ever due to how prevalent it is. Our phones are in our pockets and hands everyday. Sometimes porn is a urge due to boredom. It's terrible, that's why I work out and read more. I hated that and alcohol.
@drillingig23685 ай бұрын
Grind and get a schedule is the cure, man.
@maoisn5 ай бұрын
Social media addiction is just as bad as pr0n addiction. Change my mind.
@dodikplus98155 ай бұрын
Not at all.
@kevinday22375 ай бұрын
Def cant argue that.
@saintkevinofficial5 ай бұрын
you're right
@obiorannaji5 ай бұрын
Stupid point, not worth arguing lmao
@fonsengers63485 ай бұрын
Ask your'e lady or boyfriend
@hopolang995 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing and speaking about this, Patrick. As someone who really looks up to you, and as a 25-year-old struggling with this personally, all alone with nobody to talk to, this really means a lot to me.
@thulitukisi17115 ай бұрын
All the best to you Hopolang!
@treyjones66854 ай бұрын
One of the best videos I've seen addressing this this epidemic. I'll pass this along to my 2 sons who are both in their 20's and I know have struggled with pornography.
@onyx98575 ай бұрын
At 20 years old i was highly addicted to pornography. Seven years later I'm happy to say that after much hard work, I am now 27 years old.
@Wadiyatalkinabeet_5 ай бұрын
I’m 20 years old now and this gave me a lot of hope. God Bless and peace be with you brother.
@ivankrushensky5 ай бұрын
World's most underrated comment lol
@awsambdaman5 ай бұрын
Lol it is hard to quit that’s for sure
@zs87965 ай бұрын
Ffs
@PhDWILL-qi8rt5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Masterthyselfandconquer5 ай бұрын
Pat you a real one! A real role model for young men to follow out here. You are really successful and don't need to be doing this but you do it because you want better for people. God bless you!
@dadajuns4 ай бұрын
This video needs to go viral and must be seen by everyone.
@courtnorton90025 ай бұрын
Most definitely the hardest thing I have ever tried to quit. I pray God continues to give me the strength to rebuke it when weak.
@gkghaznikhelnews5 ай бұрын
The only way to quit watching porn videos is to pray 5 times to GOD(ALLAH) and recite the Holy Quran on daily basis. Insha ALLAH, ALLAH will help you.
@kwdoug5 ай бұрын
I have been addicted most of my life, still am. Everything you said is true..everything. Amazing to see how Satan is using this to end society. It's working
@laxel015 ай бұрын
Jesus wants to set you free read Romans 8 and John 15
@derivative71175 ай бұрын
Sure, blame it on Satan.
@HaraldinChina5 ай бұрын
Porn is illegal in China. Although it exists and is available through VPN, it needs a lot of effort to get to it, you don't get it thrown at you everywhere like in the US.
@KreysHealth5 ай бұрын
And they still have lower marriage and rates then USA porn is not a issue
@gkghaznikhelnews5 ай бұрын
The only way to quit this habit is to pray 5 times to GOD(ALLAH) and recite the Holy Quran on daily basis.
@TinoV975 ай бұрын
Islam is a false religion. The quran is extremely inferior to the holy Bible(kjv)
@HHH-ye1ro5 ай бұрын
This is certainly true. When you hit puberty, it can be EXTREMELY harmful. Young men can have access 24-7. Stay home. Wack all day. Not focused on life. Fail at school. Not able to be in public. Need fathers in their lives. Guidance.
@DeutscherGospel5 ай бұрын
TheFatherEffect movie tells this!
@timjacobsen31415 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! There needs to be more people with as big of a social media platform like you Patrick to speak out against pornography.
@earthandbeyond5270Ай бұрын
ive been watching porn for about 20 years now.. ive been trying to quit for years but i always relaps. sometimes i even wish i could take drugs to cut the sexual urge in me but i know that will probably have bad side effects and i'll regret it. I try so hard to be a good christian but porn and masturbation just has an extremely powerful hold on me and this makes me feel like a hypocrite and theres no way god accepts my service to him. I am sooo desperate for him to at least be ok with me.. i dont think i can ever make him proud so to just live knowing that im not dissapointing him is something i want so bad.. i even feel ashamed to pray and read the bible .. i just want to stop forever but i just cant and im so tired of failing at it.
@Samadhiworks26 күн бұрын
I love you man, I’ve been in the same boat. We can get through this. God doesn’t know conditional love. You are loved and accepted by the father. He does want what’s best for you. Loves you regardless
@michaelnolannolan43718 күн бұрын
I had to go through fasting and deliverence with my pastor and back then my friend now my wife to break pornography off me. Then I got prayed with by a man of God that came from America. Without authority now matter how much I pleaded with God I had to wait for my deliverence.
@ilparle5 ай бұрын
The worst part about this is the rabbit hole and sensitization you go down. You start watch weirder stuff. It makes you weak
@ReeVoque5 ай бұрын
Man, that rabit hole sure is a weird one. Lemme tell you...
@JC-cv3up5 ай бұрын
@SkoloV-du9yfno
@Cbiz5055 ай бұрын
@SkoloV-du9yfstop coping please
@jooosAREevil5 ай бұрын
As a 31 year old American dude he’s completely right and I suffer from every single thing he said
@Jojo-pw8wp5 ай бұрын
May I suggest a personal relationship with God.
@WaqasAfzali-e8p5 ай бұрын
@@Jojo-pw8wp God won't change if you aren't willing to change yourself
@AndrewZambetti5 ай бұрын
biggest porn is the one no one talks about - social media
@ruzimabonieck69085 ай бұрын
ignorant, you do not know what you speak of, i use social media a lot and am a formal addict to porn, you do not know how ignorant you sound, be greatful you never got into it.
@anthonymcken60504 ай бұрын
I agree with you. Instagram is by far the worst culprit.
@kelpking44843 ай бұрын
Just on KZbin shorts they promote porn it's everywhere
@abhijeetpandey78912 ай бұрын
People actually get triggered by soft porn which Instagram serves us and then they end up on google Chrome
@DavidAllanTroll5 ай бұрын
I never understood how someone could be addicted to porn. I always thought it was funny, but as I matured I have empathy for addicts of any kind. Stay safe and I hope you find a way out of your addiction.
@E-utube5 ай бұрын
That's interesting. So you don't get a sexual high from it? Do you have a lot of sexual outlets with real attractive partners? That could be the reason
@NamezJalen2 ай бұрын
Because they’re lonely have nobody to talk to and no pleasure from women
@ArranVid5 ай бұрын
I am a 31 year old man who is kind of struggling with pornography addiction. Pornography might be my number 1 addiction. I have never smoked in my life, I have never drunk alcohol in my life, and I have never taken drugs in my life. I think KZbin videos and videogames can be addictive too, lol. But those addictions are arguably not as harmful to the mind as pornography addiction.
@jerry-ze8wr5 ай бұрын
You're actually very dangerously mistakenly. I once thought the same thing, how bad can pornography really be? It's just as bad, look up scanne brains of drug and pornography addicts. As a long life severe pornography addict, it completely consumed me and ruined my life. From my experience, it lowers your testosterone eventually. Look up low t symptoms, it's all pornography addiction symptoms, stop for good while you can!
@RATIONALSATANIST2 ай бұрын
so masturbating to porn is more unhealthy than sitting on your ass for hours on end playing video games ?
@doelljonathan68094 ай бұрын
we need more like you. we should hear this narrative 5 times everyday.
@oceanblue47505 ай бұрын
So there was a time in America when America was just as strict as Iran when it came to immoral behavior
@bradleyjohnson61075 ай бұрын
Yep! What a miserable fucking time.
@nathanl29665 ай бұрын
No thank you. Freedom and by extension personal responsibility need to make a come back.
@oceanblue47505 ай бұрын
@bradleyjohnson6107 women in America was fighting for their rights in the late 1960's ,they didnt make rape against the law until the late 1800's 😳 in America.
@anacc32575 ай бұрын
No one wants to live in Iran
@vante95885 ай бұрын
We don't need Draconian laws but at least ID & Paywalls for access to said things.
@teefrankenstein43405 ай бұрын
I see Porn as “bread and circus” to keep men distracted and unproductive. I’ve had my own problems watching porn, and spend too much time watching thirst traps on KZbin doing sexy try-on hauls. I know it’s a vice, it’s not good for me but as of right now haven’t completely kicked the habit. Thank you PBD for bringing up this subject.
@wybeprod76325 ай бұрын
Pbd as a young guy in my early 20's I really appreciate your message, I hope my generation can see how they are being used for profit while having their lives destroyed...
@salazarramir5 ай бұрын
using porn for sexual education its the same that learning how to drive watching fast and furious
@EmoDKTsuchiya5 ай бұрын
Facts
@seanm9965 ай бұрын
as a car enthusiast and recovering porn addict, you're spot on haha!
@kevinh75975 ай бұрын
Nobody watch porn as sexual education.... Ppl watch bc they're horny that's it
@AaronGonzalez-f4y5 ай бұрын
@@seanm996hey man do you have trouble getting hard with girls? Serious question. I did research about what I could have and it’s called corn induced errectile dysfunction. I wacked off for 7 years since 13 I’m 20 now was going to lose my vcard but couldn’t get hard while I’m 3 months clean. Idk what to do man. I’m surprised the girl still is talking to me this happened on Sunday
@Mike-h8m5 ай бұрын
But pls don't compare a great movie franchise with this trash! It's an insult to Hollywood.
@AlternativeHomesteading5 ай бұрын
In interviewing serial rapists, the number one thing they commented on having done prior to committing the crime was to watch pornography. To the naysayers, I studied this topic for my undergraduate degree in abnormal deviant and violent psychology.
@EarlMcManus20055 ай бұрын
The also breathed air.
@southlondon865 ай бұрын
@@EarlMcManus2005lol
@sarcasticcat49825 ай бұрын
@@EarlMcManus2005Ted bundy
@yeahthatreallyhappened5 ай бұрын
@@EarlMcManus2005exactly. It's amazing how people want to blame everything for their actions except themselves...
@antoniobabb45695 ай бұрын
That's not all true anyone can be serial wether it is or isn't
@iamLucid5 ай бұрын
The main difference between cigarettes and porn is that you can delete your history.
@TheRealestTiller5 ай бұрын
That's right cutie
@ConsensusX5 ай бұрын
But you can't unfap yourself.
@Limitless-m8x5 ай бұрын
Hey Lucid wassam
@Y.Stan15 ай бұрын
Yeah. You can delete the history from browser but you can not delete the history God have it about what do you do.Only if you repent and dont repeat the sins anymore.Good Luck!
@ChevyChev-fj5sr5 ай бұрын
@@ConsensusXand you cant uncancer yourself either
@Ankit_peace5 ай бұрын
4:06 "Impact on productivity" is the biggest concern for me.
@Noah_5275 ай бұрын
If we are being honest, much of what is shown in Netflix and other streaming services is soft core porn. If you want to steer clear of porn, you have to cut it out entirely. This might mean not watching certain shows that all your friends are watching. Don’t let the enemy gain a foothold.
@ALTheFreeMan5 ай бұрын
Agreed, we’re living in a p0rnographic society, there’s no getting away from it.
@Deanna9745 ай бұрын
Amen. Most TV is ungodly and disgusting, and I used to be a big TV watcher. There are so many other things to do, so many relationships to invest in, so many people to serve.
@lidiagizaw38285 ай бұрын
is soft corn as bad as degrading porn where the woman is treated like shit ?
@Noah_5275 ай бұрын
@@lidiagizaw3828 I definitely don't like my corn soft
@lidiagizaw38285 ай бұрын
@@Noah_527 im def judging u right now. beating ur meat to a woman getting roughed up is psychotic to me
@fionn.sieber4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU MAN! Such an important valuable video. They should show things like that in school!
@1minutevideos3315 ай бұрын
gave it up 3 years ago never went back best thing i eever did
@AC-iw5mv4 ай бұрын
Well done 🎉 may you NEVER GO BACK to this horrible shit
@MrCa2pac5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Pat! We need to get that message out there more
@Eltersero5 ай бұрын
I feel like porn is a much bigger problem than anyone is talking about. Personally, I found porn before I was a teenager. It’s had a hold on my life ever since. I truly feel like it makes you weaker. I’ve tried to quit many times and during those periods that I abstain from porn I feel amazing. I feel more comfortable talking to others and I feel more motivated and masculine. Porn is a horrible thing and when you look at the numbers of people watching, it’s way more of a problem than anyone is willing to talk about. It’s also such a hard habit to quit because it’s so easily accessible. I quit weed about a year ago and it’s so much easier to stay away from something when you just have to stop buying it. But with porn, as long as you have access to internet, it will always be a few clicks away. To those struggling like I do, you’re not alone. Many men struggle with it and few are willing to talk about it. Be strong, pray to God, and stay occupied.
@TurtleChad15 ай бұрын
Nofap + cold showers + intermittent fasting + meditation = Super Saiyan Jesus 2.0
@johnfisher84015 ай бұрын
trendy little things, what tramples all of that by far is having a relationship with Christ.
@ghosha91665 ай бұрын
Christ is a title not a person
@ghosha91665 ай бұрын
@@johnfisher8401delusion
@Shenjika5 ай бұрын
Jesus is a fantasy joke for adults and nerds whom people rarely use this as a chad method joke Just simply cut off the Internet wire and stop buying internet services then No more pawn = Life good
@mjjumps5 ай бұрын
If you need JC to overcome things then good for you. But that’s not for everyone
@jsanford015 ай бұрын
Porn is the reason why most people under the age of 30 are not engaging in intimacy. With porn in the privacy of their own home, they don't have to. Let alone be in a relationship.
@ltsgobrndniagre3endofquote5253 ай бұрын
Feminism isn't helping either. That's why I'm MGTOW but still addicted to pron over 20 years later. (Im 30)
@Revenant742 ай бұрын
Rubbish. Men watch porn bcoz they can't get laid in real life.
@ΟΧΙΣΤΟΧΑΡΑΓΜΑ45 ай бұрын
I am 23 and i stoped watching porn 2 years ago. That was one of the best thing that i did in my life. ( Also I am in nofap , 1 year now)
@JLWprime105 ай бұрын
I don’t get why y’all old heads shit on young men or kids. How are we going to compete with women when young men are constantly getting hate and put on blast on social media and society. Women get away with so much bullshit but still somehow it’s a young man fault.
@JLWprime105 ай бұрын
Dude don’t listen to these old people they are constantly putting young men on blast I watch porn and it doesn’t matter they say you lose your drive but you don’t they say that just to hate on young men.
@AC-iw5mv4 ай бұрын
@@JLWprime10your comment is immensely misleading and wrong. Please please please stay away from porn. It will eventually ruin many aspects of your life.
@Jut_tc5 ай бұрын
Porn is not reality because real sex is completely different from want you see on the internet, that's a reason most women complain about the performance of their BF and Husbands who are addicted to Porn.
@EmoDKTsuchiya5 ай бұрын
They also complain because their perception of sex is being altered by porn an increasing amount as well
@angelofamillionyears45995 ай бұрын
and the point is????
@tomevers66705 ай бұрын
@@angelofamillionyears4599I’d use you as my boy toy - The Diddler
@DeutscherGospel5 ай бұрын
@@angelofamillionyears4599"STOP WATCHING PRN [MUSIC VIDEO]" by Bryson Gray x Tyson James
@stargamer75765 ай бұрын
Yes its completely different one you play with yourself with no accountability or consequences the second one requires acountibility, risk and devotion.
@judah61525 ай бұрын
I overcame (no pun intended) a 32 year porn addiction. It can be done. It will consume you and destroy you.
@EmoDKTsuchiya5 ай бұрын
Yes indeed. I used to think it would be impossible to return to normal. It's a struggle, but now that I'm out, I'm never going back.
@judah61525 ай бұрын
@EmoDKTsuchiya Congrats. I felt the same way. Spread the word, this is destroying us.
@krninja225 ай бұрын
How did you do it? I've been addicted for over 16 years now.
@EmoDKTsuchiya5 ай бұрын
@@krninja22 figuring out why you do it do much is a good start.
@unc12215 ай бұрын
Bros left arm is more jacked then a bodybuilder on Tren
@bobbydigital17475 ай бұрын
I stopped years ago. Best decision ever
@AC-iw5mv4 ай бұрын
Amazing. Keep at it
@gifthorse36755 ай бұрын
Cool now let’s talk about social media and how it has ruined young women!
@jackedgamer00365 ай бұрын
Please dont be antisemitic
@levilively86435 ай бұрын
Social media is by far the biggest threat to society than porn. I'd say social media addiction is worse than drug addiction. It consumes EVERYONES life. Kids, teens AND adults. It destroys relationships and marriages and lives. There are people who actively look for something controversial said by an individual and then try and ruin their life over it.
@AmericanVices5 ай бұрын
go make a video
@Mikamichae5 ай бұрын
It's ruined men aswell lmao
@joebeta18375 ай бұрын
Excellent, excellent comment.
@Jessyking1st5 ай бұрын
Real relationships at the end of the day will save you. Friends are out there people who will care for you are out in the real world
@kevinh75975 ай бұрын
Real sex relationship will save you from porn *. You need to precise . But guess what most of men don't have acces to real relationship ( love or sex )....
@ivafoot27862 ай бұрын
I quit it, and recently I found the love of my entire life. I finally got my first kiss. I'm happy af, I quit, and I will never return to it, because I don't wanna my life to be ruined
@HershyWeiss165 ай бұрын
I completely stopped 3 weeks ago hopefully for at least a yr
@yeah3777775 ай бұрын
I keep relapsing 😢
@exnihilonihilfit63165 ай бұрын
You'll get better at not relapsing. Just never, never quit working on it.
@thedoomaster145 ай бұрын
Actually one of the earliest surviving porn films is from the start of the 19th century and is called ''The Devil''.. This is no joke, that is it's actual name. Name rings bells
@tomevers66705 ай бұрын
PBD doesn’t know that he’s my adult content 🍆💦 - The Diddler
@curseddeity63795 ай бұрын
made by saturn films, a jewish company. right?
@EmoDKTsuchiya5 ай бұрын
@@curseddeity6379 not a coincidence at all
@curseddeity63795 ай бұрын
@@EmoDKTsuchiya a Cohencidense one might even say!
@laxel015 ай бұрын
Woah creepy, but I believe it!
@AaronBarbosa5 ай бұрын
Great Job PBD!! This is very true and so helpful
@ThatCasualZach5 ай бұрын
Men, if you are filled with sexual energy and are not in a relationship.....switch from watching porn, to watching pick up artists and dating advice channels. The dating community will get you from sloppy, overweight, and unsociable.....to becoming a confident man that can approach and speak to real women that you meet in your daily life. This will not only help with your dating life but will help you in your professional or business life. High anxiety moments meeting women will make business meetings with men low stress and allow you to keep a strong frame. Trust me, women will be surprised and flattered if you approach them in a positive way.
@smokingcrab22905 ай бұрын
Stupid advice. All that pickup crap is so cringe. The whole "muh strong frame" bs blah blah blah. Modern vvomen are worthless and so not worth it. All they bring to the table is sex, then they'll turn the sex off and ruin your life. There is no reliable sexual outlet. And living your life to max out your stats just for a woman's attention gets real old too.
@lidiagizaw38285 ай бұрын
bro telling these men to treat real women like shit isnt the answer .all pick up artists teach men is how to be aholes to women
@dcchavez97Ай бұрын
Tom and Paul gave the best PUA advice, along with Richard. Very true!
@ChristopherDonnerArtist4 ай бұрын
Porn is very unhealthy in my opinion. I've noticed the negative effects in a lot of my friends. When I stopped watching porn. Great things happened. I'd honestly compare it to cigarette smoking.
@jimathens63545 ай бұрын
thank you Patrick for having the courage to shed light to a darkness. I commend you for putting this out there!
@Mr.gomez2335 ай бұрын
Patrick this video is very needed for this generation and the generation coming.
@inwe21025 ай бұрын
Do a video on women reading "romance" novels. It's just written porn. Extremely graphic and instagram are filled with clips from the books. Not to mention women harp about toxic masculinity yet the books are filled with men degrading the main female characters.
@SWOTHDRA5 ай бұрын
They dont wanna talk about that.....
@krisj8275 ай бұрын
You're right to some degree but comparing romance books to actual porn where actual ppl are seen smashing is on another level. Most men go by looks and watching pien gives them a false sense of reality when it comes to relationships
@inwe21025 ай бұрын
@@SWOTHDRA we need too. It's another piece to the stupid dating atmosphere.
@jowiens325 ай бұрын
I’m a woman. None of the women I know read romance novels, including myself. I’m not sure what you are referring to. Also, if a woman has a real life man who is paying attention to her needs, especially emotional, she would put down a book in a second. A woman who is lifted up and supported, will also in turn have a husband who is lifted up and supported.
@darktitan80855 ай бұрын
No? Not all of them? Theres romantic po-- too if you want to get into that category Further, criticising one doesnt mean siding with the other? I dont get the point of this comment at all? Its like saying oh we're bad but you're also bad so now we're on same grounds and both of us are gonna do nothing about it. Thats the vibe im getting from this comment.
@axlmtz55005 ай бұрын
Thank God that you’re spreading awareness of what this industry causes in men Thank you
@yeah3777775 ай бұрын
I know all the negative sides of porn and still can't help myself. I keep relapsing
@Vasilyevich055 ай бұрын
Only God can set you free
@ArranVid5 ай бұрын
I also keep relapsing.
@Earth_Rocker5 ай бұрын
That's because you are weak.
@DariuszRomanovski5 ай бұрын
Don't let thought control your life, instead go for walk - social life with balance your life. Also understand that is not only your one problem, there a lot of people and same scenario, so you can have impact ant change. Sometime I start realize this thoughts can come from emptiness feeling, or maybe stress that girls don't want talk to you or when you got reject and you search fulfilment in porn "fake love videos" dopamine. What the best question for stop I think "Do I want to experience another life?" where is your potential, god given inner gift in your life you're using. And again there can be after 1 month or 2 weeks setbacks which go with thoughts.. ahh just one more time and that's it, but after you will feel no energy, fog in your mind, and no goal achievements. So again it's not only you in the world who feel like that or experience it, just make different choice. Did you born to just watch porn and Die?
@StoicEPICtitus-r5 ай бұрын
People aren't affraid of God, that's the bottom line. Read into his warnings
@Vasilyevich055 ай бұрын
I know someone that quit corn recently. God helped him. His words are, "you have to be addicted to living righteously"
@Deanna9745 ай бұрын
Amen!!! ❤ I love hearing stuff like this. Not being promiscuous and living pure really makes life easier. I'm a virgin (at 32 years old), but i used to read romance novels and things like that. And I've had women--and men with high body counts tell me that they wished they would have waited.
@exnihilonihilfit63165 ай бұрын
Lemme break it to you, Deanna (even in this dishonest society, overtaken by slave morality [a la Nietzsche]): You'rе a l0ser. How did you mess up your life so bad?... Oh, and don't try to present your loserdom as virtue! That's a classic of slave morality, by the way.
@thulitukisi17115 ай бұрын
I love how this comment section is showing vulnerability (transparency) and presenting solutions
@sadhguru-clips5 ай бұрын
21 yrs i am addict for 6yrs now and the worst part is no one knows about it am.alone😢
@Mr.Edwards2335 ай бұрын
No you're not, you're definitely not alone on this, a lot of men and women are struggling with this.
@rodrigokbza15 ай бұрын
God is with you. Rely on him.
@krninja225 ай бұрын
We're all struggling together my guy.
@nathanl29665 ай бұрын
21 is definitely not too late to turn it around.
@solaawodiya73605 ай бұрын
You're not alone man.
@Nobodyyoucarabout5 ай бұрын
I suggest everyone get really into working out and dieting for bodybuilding if you want to escape porn addiction. I'm 6 weeks out from a show, the amount of effort I'm putting in has distracted me from that addiction. Obviously my sex drive is lower due to being low bodyfat and hormones being disrupted, and just overall fatigue. But coming out of this show I'll have a boost in sex drive and energy, and my wife will always be there. I've been about a year clean from porn, and it isnt easy. But if you swap an unhealthy addiction with a healthy one, you'll be far better off.
@marquisjohnson92563 ай бұрын
Thank you Pat That was one of the best videos 💯
@bzo1955 ай бұрын
Great video Pat!! Props to you for exposing this on your platform. This industry is killing youth as well hence the decline in marriages and families
@Gekko085 ай бұрын
Truth : about 50% of genz wont even try to make a real relationship. They would be better off watching porn.
@dred91745 ай бұрын
All of the girls want Tyrone and Chad. The rest of us are invisible unless we're making 6 figures which most people in America don't.
@soxfan52405 ай бұрын
Source?
@ALTheFreeMan5 ай бұрын
What about women who regularly use sex toys???
@learningearning83855 ай бұрын
@@ALTheFreeManalso.. unhealthy. But if men are natural leaders..start with yourself & don’t compare yourself to a woman
@dcpunisher47815 ай бұрын
Good so they won't procreate. Do we need young children being raised by the current idiot kid generation that doesn't even know which parent shoots the sperm?
@liamwright69545 ай бұрын
Social media, lack of focus, division in the family, and the male loneliness epidemic are equally as bad
@nanahunter38085 ай бұрын
Remember nothing is free on earth, somewhere somehow you are paying for it
@cheeseman4175 ай бұрын
Absolutely, there are no free lunches.... unless you recently just crossed the border because now apparently it's free lunches and more all the way!😂
@Nagitax5 ай бұрын
Everything you get a virus from those sites, the site gets paid by the virus creator. THAT is how they make their money. I had no idea. I learned this in an undergraduate deviant behavior course. It is all so much worse than most people know. PBD only scratches the very surface of this subject.
@sahlaboohlas5 ай бұрын
So so so true brother.
@samuelmoreno81695 ай бұрын
Sheeesshh Thanks for doing this video Pat 👏🏼Much needed and very well said! Doing Gods work brother 🙌🏼
@CL-fr9yx4 ай бұрын
Great message. Thank you PBD.
@rootstv79895 ай бұрын
PBD ..."dude was trying to spit game"... hilarious
@Tranquilflame5 ай бұрын
Didn't work out 😂😂😂
@teefrankenstein43405 ай бұрын
I caught that too
@ean33455 ай бұрын
God bless your efforts sir. You're spreading knowledge and that may save humanity.
@HNRI144 ай бұрын
God bless you Pat for talking about the truth ❤❤❤ I wish you would have the same conversation in Persian! It’s sad we, Iranian people, are deprived of successful people’s content like you
@Mmlnk055 ай бұрын
I would love to have those same morals in society back from the early 1900s
@vmjr5435 ай бұрын
Not just young men but even married men. The importance in marriage and it is Biblical that a man and a woman need to come together so that they can resist being tempted into looking at porn.
@al.hussary.quran.recitation5 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking about this, Patrick ... 🙏
@ke753reej5 ай бұрын
My husband was addicted. I had no idea. I thought there was so many things that were wrong with me because I wanted to have sex with my husband because he was always stressed and he wasn’t in the mood. I thought he just had low testosterone and it turns out he was a porn addict. It never occurred to me, and the Holy Spirit urged me to ask him. And I asked him last month, he admitted and I was completely heartbroken. I asked him a million questions and immediately he became accountable with our pastor and his godly friends. Now we are healing, this darkness has been exposed, all the gaslighting he did to me now all made sense that I wasn’t crazy after all. Praying for continued freedom for him and healing for me. God is good. Thank you.
@carac7a4 ай бұрын
I will never go back to this sickness
@AC-iw5mv4 ай бұрын
❤
@jamalwashington67613 ай бұрын
6:17 “that man was tryna spit game and didn’t workout too well for him” 😂😂😂😂
@cheeseman4175 ай бұрын
Even without a religious motivation behind it, PMO is completely detrimental to ones mental and physical health. it should be looked at the same as cigarettes or drugs. Chat gpt is as woke as their programers with the responses it gives. It has absolutely no benefits to it, on any level.