Power of NonVerbal Communication w: Michael Grinder

[@DamonCart]

Free 30-day Sensory Acuity course: selfconcept.com/pages/sensory-acuity?Dec16th-2020&

[@manidas4789]

Wow!! That was a treat to watch!!

[@DamonCart]

Glad you enjoyed it.

[@louborlagdan140]

Thanks , Damon. Always great stuff. Love your channel.

[@DamonCart]

Thank you 🙏

[@lornabukkland4004]

Thanks Damon for this wonderful interview, always love listening Michael - have done 3 live trainings with him personally and some online and I learn from each of them, his programs/materials are extremely valuable and I can highly recommend all of them.

[@DamonCart]

My pleasure. Thank you for commenting Lorna. Hope you're well.

[@DaleStricklandClark]

Very interesting. Thanks for this.

[@DamonCart]

Glad you enjoyed it.

[@natashasakota]

Very interesting thanks damon

[@DamonCart]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@em11111]

Another Grinder. :-) Interesting!

[@DamonCart]

It's one of the first things we discuss in the video. Did you watch it?

[@laaradee]

Wow! Permissional rapport, ? , lots of perceptual positions stuff, almost like Steve did a blueprint and Michael built a house. Lots to freewheel with here, ie, good, liked it , thanks!

[@DamonCart]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@laaradee]

I was ‘getting lost’ in the ‘house’ metaphor. The separation of the ‘internal’ and the ‘external’ rapport is useful. I believe you were asking ....if the ‘internal or permissional rapport’ was .....something to do with values. I think you are correct in that regard, Mr.Grinder’s response didn’t make sense to me. Familiarity with meta errors and sleight of mouth patterns, I see as necessary tools for sensory acuity skills. The phrase ‘permissional rapport’, was a fun linguistic/philosophic ‘rabbit hunt’. ! To seek permission can be considered as honoring and preserving the integrity of a sentient life form. So perhaps the term ‘permissional rapport’, is to remind ‘seekers’ to be humble, not ‘mind read’, and allow clarity to emerge during values eliciting/processing. Mr. Grinder, liked everything! He would begin a seemingly negative story, and end it with applause and a ‘football cheer’ tone of voice. This frequently struck me as. ‘forced or as a metaphor’ for the real thing. His ‘praise’ of car salespersons, for example, had the curious effect of lowering his credibility. He lead us with, .....’we all know car sales people’....relying somewhat correctly on common cultural/social assumptions about the honesty etc. of sales people, then he immediately grabs the moral high ground by applauding, and saying.....’....good on them etc...’. Meanwhile, I’m feeling guilty for my assumption- which mr Grinder lead me into. Additionally, the car sales thing felt like a purposeful misdirect- since he original point was now muddy, since I was busy dealing with the ‘guilt bait’ I’d accepted.

[@laaradee]

Finally, perhaps a few negative examples need installing on certain of his databases?/ my ‘ spidey’ sense said smug, hubristic. And we.’ know’, intuition on personalities is likely correct!

[@paulvillalva5641]

Michael is brother of John Grinder ?

[@DamonCart]

Yes, we talk about that in the video.

[@paulvillalva5641]

@@DamonCart Great! I watch this video now !