#PPJ

[@nualisplace]

I knew Pumla needed such a platform,so glad to find it

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehehe! PPJ is Home. No holding back

[@brendahorysh6827]

Pastor Prima, thanks for representing the born again woman!

[@yvonnewinfreyug]

Very Fun and educational episode,thanks guys for sharing freely..we really need these conversations oftenly in Uganda.

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

I love how Joel opens up.. Men usually can't talk authentically about some stuff.. thank you all for sharing.. I've learnt a lot ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We were so proud of him ❤

[@nabakka_vivian]

“You prevent your own pleasure by standing behind fear.” - JOEL 2024 We need this on a T-Shirt

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We need this on a T-shirt

[@HannahStaceyBaluka]

you guys are going to get me fired from work. Immediately I saw this episode I dropped all my tasks to watch😂😂

[@masizibahove8939]

Thank you for your openness. Africa needs more of you.

[@bridgetkaremente4027]

Prima...I love the way it evolved for you.. communication and respect for each other's desires...very key.

[@carolinemayende7917]

Pumla wherever you go I go. This was beautiful and hilarious

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehehe! Thanks Caroline 😘

[@fredaspillecke]

I love Pumla,i love ya‘ll realness and authenticity to the core on the podcast ❤ 8:18

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Much appreciated. Someone's got to be real if we are to be better

[@tumuheirweprisca8932]

God bless you pumla

[@muhiirwalynette]

Pumla....😂 Pumla😂😂😂😂 Like the readiness for this conversation is just killing me😂😂😂 The props were proping😂😂😂😂 Thank you guys for the conversation especially for the church girls.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I came ready 😂

[@ImmyE8597]

Thank you Prima for representing the more silent group so well; i always look forward to your takes on the topics

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you Immy:)

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

More silent? Which Primah? 😅😂😅😂😅😂

[@Cheesecake-x1c]

Joel's facial expression 😂😂😂 Prima has enjoyed this show... Bambi Thank you for the show. ❤

[@nualisplace]

Now this is a show i would love to be a guest on.WHOLESOME

[@marthamasiko8862]

Well done PPJ! I read Dr. Sylvia Tamales book on decolonizing Africa and sex was one of the recommendations to deconstruct what the other race brought on to us! My take on this show is - I’m elated that three Africans (born and raised) are speaking about sex (openly with no shame: fear of judgement)on a public platform - that for me is a step in the direction of decolonization of the many things religion has taught us about sex. 2. I always have “outside my jurisdiction thoughts “ like what is a 32 year old woman in Mexico, India, Jamaica etc(rooted in values/principles) prolly thinking about sex and it’s intricacies - Kati lemme do my homework here- 3. Sex education is a myth in Uganda (Members hide their bu tricks) Christians are pretending it away…nela Thanks to Pumla for the towel thing …Ps theft is an offense punishable by imprisonment (sec 254 PCA😂) Prima your outfit ATE 🔥 Nekirala Bambi…in this episode I’ve learned that Joel is both a nice and good man

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahahaaaaa! The lawyer I was seated with on set didn't even warn me about my possible imprisonment 😅.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you:):) We hope the conversation can help stimulate more open conversations!

[@nabakka_vivian]

I’m watching the episode 2 days later I really love how interactive Pumla and Prima are in the comment section❤️❤️ Thank you ladies for educating us on such intimate matters and openly sharing your experiences 😊 Such varied rich experiences 🫶🏾 Love Love you ladies❤

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you for engaging:)

[@TroyMagezi]

I enjoyed this episode of PPJ in that I laughed, relaughed and laughed some more...the ad libbing killed me. For the first time I caught up with Joel's humour of him gesturing Pumla and her tears on the bathroom floor

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BrendaYiiki]

This was a very wholesome conversation. I liked what Prima said about conversations. Most men struggle with this and it’s just sad. Also that whole thing of submission by women and aiming to please and not get ‘pleased’ made alot of sense. Loved this episode 🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yeah. That submission thing reflects even in the bedroom. So sad

[@NabaasaY]

This was awesome guys ❤❤❤ thanks for sharing your experiences.. many which are very relatable !!! Normalizing conversations like this is what we need.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you for watching❤

[@Patricia53545]

Pumla enjoyed this topic more than us the listeners 😅😅😅😅😅😅big up to this crew for the raw...and open discussions

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaaahaha! I can't deny. Even watching now, I'm enjoying more.

[@KevinAtukunda]

🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@nassalisarah4993]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT

[@dashb9053]

Thank you guys for this. Every one of you represented a different group of people, and pumla your rawness is refreshing, and i appreciate that you didn't back down from actual examples. I mean you squirted lube on your hand 😂😂😂 I saw myself in every one of your takes as a group, traditional perspective ls merging with religious and progressive takes and for that thank you PPJ ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We appreciate you for watching too. We don't have to be divided just because we have different views. If anything, there is so much more power in blending ❤

[@semandarobert9051]

Wow wow . This conversation was so insightful . I am 28 years old and have never had sêx before. Listening to Prima gave me hope (its a skill learnt after time). Pumla , Kiss lub and CDS should pay you .🤣🤣🤣. I have learnt alot . I have to be expressive when that time comes and conversate with my partner.. The world needs this information. Lets share this episode SO INFORMATIVE 🥰🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

So true. It's a skill learnt overtime. And you really don't have to mess around the way I did. I'm just my person so you be you and enjoy when the time comes ❤

[@semandarobert9051]

This means alot . I have been judged by my friends . I am encouraged to engage sexually with many girls though am still waiting for marriage . I am an NBM . 😂😂. It still worries me . Wont i mess up . Wont my wife hate me 🤦🤦🤦🤦 Anyway let me wait

[@belindanamutebi-thebrandsl8417]

Pumla! You are changing a whole generation. Thank you and I love you even more.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! We must all do what we can in our little spaces of influences. Love right back at you 😘

[@hadassahesther5103]

We know why that man crossed his legs😂😂 the conversation is deep yooo😂😂😂🙌

[@nassalisarah4993]

wabula PPJ... I have really enjoyed this. Joel`s bu slide in comments.... Primah`s ka expression of `Pumla Nabacwa`... continue edutaining bambi.... Good lessons here.

[@MariaGorretyNamubiru]

I really enjoy these conversations 😂😂😂deep, raw and hilarious

[@justinenansimbe3341]

Always excited to watch you guyz.

[@mugishaborisnahabwe3521]

This has to be the best ad for the lube 😂😂😂😂 and the funniest intro esp when Joel pocketed it 😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaaaaaa!

[@kihembodoreen7368]

I am surprised that men feel the need to perform.. as a woman I have always felt like I needed to put on an enthusiastic performance. Key word here being enthusiastic... Glad I freed myself of that expectation..

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We must free ourselves mazima

[@kisakyejustine2196]

Sooooo educative besides interloops of fun.❤

[@rosenantale2800]

Honestly this sounds like an automatic knowledge to everyone yet not, thanks for that discussion guys, my p ❤ not disappointing. Cant have it on mi menses for real

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Era its not automatic. We need to speak up more

[@JoshuaCal3b]

Joel’s face expressions on different intervals would make great memes😅

[@Phionahkarungi31]

I soo loved this episode banae I laughed so hard 😂en learnt a lot as well . Thanks for the educative fun you guys ❤so much love for you all And for the last question No I can’t when in my Ps

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehehe! Thanks Phionah

[@annieassists]

Pumla is vybessss . I stan! . Really loved the episode guys, you gel together so well ♥

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for being here

[@damaliebusingye1501]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668did you see how she threw in the word 'gel'? 😅

[@annieassists]

@@damaliebusingye1501 smart gurl 😅

[@VivianNakakeeto-zg9so]

Pumla as I always say Nze nawe we are 🤞@prima I love ur personality I don’t know why just onyumira 🥰. Guys ur loved am here t say nti we appreciate ur time

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! Together Forever. Thank you Viv

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you for being here:)

[@matembecosma8024]

That moment when Pulma started sharing her first encounter then Prim said "Pumla Nabachwa!"😂😂😂 Meanwhile Joel was holding on his dear life. Pumla onseseza banange😂

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Gweeee!!! We were real dumbfounded:)

[@MercyIsaac-g1t]

She is raw

[@carolinemayende7917]

Been off but coming back i started with this

[@timblue3394]

Like the way Pumla was so open that's nice and notice the it also influenced Joel to be open later....this is the 2nd best episode ever

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

For the open/honest conversation.thank you❤❤❤❤❤

[@daphinenamuli7566]

Watched from 8:30PM till the End....I may Sleep now. I love the different perspectives.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Goodnight ❤

[@vivianneabwooli4909]

U guys make ma day…. U know that feeling of listening to people in your age bracket and you are thinking….im so here Love you guys…xoxo And for the last question…. Yes oh yes😜

[@ronniedenis3844]

Are u in a rship?

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yes. Oh. Yeeeeeesssss 💃🏾

[@KezaabuBridget]

Sex conversations are really important and am glad that our generation is having them. Now to answer the question, I am also okay with sex during periods, it actually soothes the crumps however it is messy so make sure to cover the bed/surface with something to protect it from blood stains.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yeah. There is always the part of protecting the bed from stains. The wash-up when the excitement makes you forget 🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️

[@sandranamirembe7057]

All along I was searching for Pumla nga she is here eeehhhh Here to stay And Yes to the question.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehe! You're welcome to PPJ

[@bigdogroman8071]

Pumla Pumla😂😂 nkunonya ❤

[@drcissyatwine]

Commenting as i watch.. vaginal dryness also happens due to hormonal changes like during breast feeding, pregnancy, perimenopause and menopause so agree that people should be open to using lubricants.. and oestrogen creams where indicated... i am so glad to be talking to my kids about sex early.. my 6 year old just asked for the upteenth time to remind her how exactly she got into my tummy🤣 which i did.. i hope her generation will have it better.. with shows like these then its encouraging that we are breaking the stigma/myths/shame and mystery around sex.. thanks PPJ 🙂

[@drcissyatwine]

🤣🤣🤣 when Prima's dad gave the HIV talk reminded me of how my dad told me that if you see anyone pregnant then it means they have HIV 🤣🤣🤣so i knew sex equals HIV 🤣🤣

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Dr Cissy!!! Thank you for educating us.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

@@drcissyatwinebanange your dad!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks Doc. So true about the hormonal changes. I intentionally didn't highlight those more vulnerable to dryness because it usually makes those who aren't in that whatsapp group feel like they aren't eligible to use the lube. Let's enhance our sexual experiences together 😊

[@drcissyatwine]

@pumlanabachwa8668 indeed...thanks for educating us with your Serena Nkumbi 🤣🤣

[@droliatashobya]

Captaining the red sea 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️. Lovely show guys ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😎😎😎

[@kobutungisonia851]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 mbu what next, we go see my parents 😂 that’s so me! The value attached…institutionalization it is!

[@mugishaborisnahabwe3521]

Bro Joel’s comments that just come in finish me….. taxi ride 😂. Are they here? 😂 …. Ateh we know the reverend😂

[@annnyakake8497]

But pumla, one day you will kill someone 😂😂😂😂😂😂 am literally dying of laughter. I like your bring authentic 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are happy to receive you 😂

[@ntihi1]

Joel's reactions are epic🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sherryscreativitycorner]

Pumla was so invested in this topic and even came with props😂😂😂😂😂😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I was determined to leave nga people have understood

[@sherryscreativitycorner]

@@pumlanabachwa8668we have indeed learnt and if there was an extreme tense in the word”learnt” then that would be it😂😂😂😂

[@swabrahgyagenda]

Absolutely enjoyed Prima's take on this, i can relate to it most. But of course everybody on the podcast is always so smart and authentic, love it!❤ now, where can I get a copy of the "when the hen crows" book please?

[@whatthetheory]

You can order a copy from Mahiri Books online. And thank you so much for watching ❤

[@kyagulanyiitungo7356]

Wabula Pumla🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you walk around with the Nkumbi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ah ah! I packed it specifically for the show

[@kyagulanyiitungo7356]

@ 🤣🤣🤣🤣okay

[@cynthiakimulu3029]

Our Pumla has done it again 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I can't help myself 😂😂😂😂

[@faithamong2389]

You no

[@teoprecious3438]

Proud of you Pumla 😂😂 very equipped , Kiss people should pay you for the advert

[@karigirwaimelda3510]

This was very educative thanks guys

[@StellaNabatyanga]

My new fav channel...

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You're welcome 🙏🏾

[@isaacbaguma7779]

How I've waited for this😊

[@ShineProssy]

Ehhhh bashaija mwe tonight's episode 🎉🎉🎉🎉 I have been checking for any vedio....

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂

[@najwaanabacwa8629]

I loved this topic.

[@AidahNansubugasalama]

Never compare, physical looks, and brain 🧠 of a partner because I preferred having an intelligent hubby to handsome slow partner. Love is not marriage, for marriage to stand there must be sacrifices and brains to digest issues in marriage.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Ameen 🙏🏾

[@damaliebusingye1501]

Berry blast had me out 😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You little 😂

[@JaneRwizy]

Kankuweeko😂😂😂 by Jo😅😅😅

[@irenem7739]

😂😂😂....great conversation. Lets keep talking and sharing coz imagine that percentage that will get old without ever feeling it everywhere 😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Imagine!

[@joycenyakahuma5925]

Thanks ba dear for sharing

[@NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520]

Now that I have finished the video I am back for final comments 😅 Without giving TMI 1. To Pumla's question : sex in an environment that doesn't meet my my standard of cleanliness is a No. 2. I agree with Prima about NBM. Though sometimes you may find yourself falling into the act. 3. I thank God for Joel's submission about having sex with friends. It clarified for me how men view these things. This episode was 💥💥👌👌🙌💯

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@brendanakirya1379]

Very nice raw episode. Teli bya holy Mary.

[@carolkezaabu9389]

Harlequin The ka shoutout is appreciated🤗

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

That one. HARLEQUIN. HARLEQUIN. HARLEQUIN. The name keeps disappearing 😅. Thanks again.

[@angelaafroallgauer4052]

Slap saliva took me out😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 KISS LUB FOR UH AHH VIBES

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

There is now this alternative 😊

[@angelaafroallgauer4052]

@ start your own podcast, raw real and living life as a woman👍👍 I will be your 1st subscriber

[@Therealspiceolife]

The point when Joel and Prima were looking at Pumla describe her sexual awakening…. It must have felt like Kelly and Michelle watching Beyoncé sing her lungs/heart out…🤣🤣🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahahaaa! So funny. We all had our "shook" moments 😅

[@Therealspiceolife]

I won’t forget the berry 😂😂😂 and the berry blast 😂😂😂🎉🎉

[@nualisplace]

Those days,Mills and Boon, Harlequins, Silhouettes 😂😂😂

[@sumayamya357]

Nanti Pumla and her favorite topic.. that one and financial...ohhhh. But to be fair. she gives it her all for all topics. Thank you our Nabachwa....

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahhaa! I give them my all but you're right - this one is one of my favorite 😅

[@kevinbukirwa8923]

thank you for talking about the stigma in the church

[@kautharahmutalaga7061]

Allan, you have until the next episode to show your face😊.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

All.the best 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kautharahmutalaga7061]

😂😂😂😂

[@claranorris1611]

I agree

[@giftanyijukire4000]

😅😂😂😂😂

[@marianampijja4331]

Periodt

[@kyokushabashine7193]

Thank you guys for sharing

[@charlottekiberu34]

I don't know how l ended up here, but l enjoyed this conversation.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

welcome to the fam:)

[@annnyakake8497]

I stopped paying attention when pumla admitted limping😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@carolinemayende7917]

Prima enjoyed this topic

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Hahahahah I can't even deny

[@namulindageorgette.m6243]

Pumla pumla one day you will kill me but we needed this information. Thank you for sharing

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! I also kill myself but this info needs to be shared

[@joynangobi7544]

Well done. This was 👍

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520]

One of the things I love about this podcast is seeing beautiful people with dark skinned complexion on media. Thanks for representing us. ❤🎉

[@primahkyambadde6436]

We are here to serve lol

[@christinenakazzi280]

You guys I'm falling deeply in love with PPJ😂😂.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We're here for you always

[@marthasekta8953]

Naye omwana Pumla mulalamu😂😂 she's so real banange😂

[@lostbiker.9601]

I love you guys

[@hadassahesther5103]

Love you Pumula😂😂 your are true goddess woman. You explained the kiss lub yarabi😂🙌

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! I appreciate the compliment. Thank you

[@amanyajin2075]

😂😂😂😂Pumla Pumla Pumla you will finish us but thankyou, PPJ all that's been shared has been helpful,sex is a serious issue,we got to do better indeed(in Pumlaz words)

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We must do better indeed 😊

[@pennykay6368]

Omwana Pumla Nabachwa😂😂😂 I have a feeling your parents reassure themselves about how much they don't know you when they watch some of these episodes 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 My parents gave up. Nothing to do but accept this fruit of their womb

[@pennykay6368]

​@pumlanabachwa8668 for sure! I would be resigned as well because wariz dis! 😂😂

[@christinenakazzi280]

Before i went to bed yesterday, I was wondering when will the next episode of PPJ after watching Pumla somewhere talking about finances.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

And here we are 😊

[@gospel-praisebest1471]

So we need location where to shop this lubricant.. Thanks

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It's in most pharmacies in Kampala

[@NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520]

I am commenting mid-video cos these revelations are too deep 😂. However, I want to say thank you for the conversation. People are having sex so we may as well talk about safe practices and how to do it well.

[@nyamburaadventures_ke]

Pumla,you are so open about sexuality

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehehe! I really have no reservations in areas I know people need to talk about more

[@samantha.inarukundo]

About the micro member being an "issue" for women who are not clitoral, it's still mostly due to socialization because even for women who enjoy penetrative s€x a micro p can get you there since the G spot is only a couple of inches within. A micro m becomes a non-issue if: (1) the micro p holder knows the female anatomy to locate the spot because even a pinky can get you there (2) he's not being sneaky about it. As a woman, realizing you're dealing with a micro p only when the guy undresses, feels like a gotcha moment. If only micro p holders were to disclose about their size beforehand. The disclosure should be done in a confident way, the same way disclosure about huge members is done. (3) he can compensate in other ways that are not penetration and is willing to introduce s€x toys in the mix.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Your suggestions are appreciated. I'm sure they'll be very helpful for someone who needs to read this. Thanks.

[@matembecosma8024]

Pumla moved with Enkumbi!😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 For purposes of showing you guys

[@dhagaa]

Joel is so animated. 🤣🤣

[@bridgetkaremente4027]

People have spoilt "berryblast" for me.😂😅

[@KevinAtukunda]

Joe " you sound like the other one, were you at the conference ?"😅😅

[@estherbirungi8036]

Wahala Pumla you are the winner in this...........

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

All of it for you our people 😊

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

10:00 the reaction of the two 😂😂😂

[@Theugandancook]

"Toys are us"😅😅 I can't be the only one who heard that little comment from Joel!

[@totalnabweru162]

😂😂😂 Pumla you have us today

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha!

[@claranorris1611]

This podcast where have I been

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! Better late than never

[@phillipaddungu31]

But also there are a lot of girls/ women who have been coerced into these moments without realising it! Under the guise of “don’t be a tease, or just the tip”

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Coerced into sex?

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This is quite true. Some even raped through it. Nti - "you thought you were coming here to do what? Lwakuba this was beyond our discussion.