PREGNANCY Q&A *I’ve been avoiding*…Feeling Scared, Irregular Periods, Mental Health

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[@Adinamfeldman]

I was really moved by the concept of being an adult means that you have to learn to give yourself permission, and not wait for someone else to. Life is inherently messy, and it can be difficult to come to terms with let alone embrace, but even just acknowledging the feelings you’re experiencing is a big step.

[@crimbleland]

I can relate so much to this

[@habibti320]

To everyone questioning the no period for 6 months….I’ve had years of no period when my hormones were out of whack due to a prolactin producing pituitary tumor. After I got it under control and finally got my period back, got pregnant two months later and haven’t had one since (2+ years later) because of breastfeeding. Not everyone who is capable of getting pregnant has regular periods!!!

[@nessapie23]

Yes, and Abby is super fit which can stop periods and so it doesn't surprise me that as an athlete she doesn't consider it abnormal.When I was dancing ballet and I lived in the gym and in the studio, I didn't have a period or not a consistent one and that was normal for me at the time. My doctor told me that I should try to be less fit lol. So the period thing with Abby doesn't surprise me at all, and there are so many reasons periods can be out of whack.

[@metzgerannalise]

I haven't had a period in years - it's due to my birth control *shrug*

[@elizabethr631]

Hello! @habibti320 hi my friend just found out she has the pituitary tumor. What did you do or take to get it under control?

[@sheenaj3951]

Congratulations. I have three children and I love labor and delivery. I did have natural births and while it is INTENSE, it is a feeling like I can’t describe. When it is over, it feels like you are superwoman. It makes me sad to think that I will probably not experience it again. My biggest advice is to learn to relax everything - your forehead to your toes. Breathe through it and instead of fighting contractions because you sense pain, let them come like waves and know that the sensation is progress and getting you that much closer to seeing baby.

[@mariavazquez8590]

Love this!! Also had natural births and the powerful feelings once babies are here is unmatched

[@XxAlisha63]

Im not pregnant but this is interesting, what you are saying about pain. I have SUPER intense period cramping and am due in a week. Im going to try to keep this mindset rather than the usual fight the pain and tylenol it out 🤔

[@DeluxxeTrash]

I had a natural birth. Simply felt like shit afterwards and not powerfull at all🤣

[@taylorgayhart9497]

Dude you are a super person, pregnancy and labor all sound traumatic honestly!! Idk if it’s because when I was young someone described labor as “kinda like the scene from Alien”, but I find it all terrifying!!

[@randipataska5700]

Agreed! “I will breathe my baby down” and “open, soften, release” were the affirmations I kept repeating and they helped tremendously! Do NOT fight the contractions. Even though it’s a new feeling to you, your body is doing its job. 🤍

[@charlenedawson7653]

As a former L&D nurse, I have met many women who had no idea, for a variety of reasons, that they were pregnant until the pregnancy was very far along. I'm just so very happy for you! BTW you are glowing 💖

[@mrsverovalera]

I too am type A personality and actually FREAKED out when I found out I was pregnant. It’s not something that is talked about often but is a completely normal and human feeling to experience.

[@melmore5807]

Love how you mentioned this is the most feminine and empowered you’ve felt, pregnancy and motherhood has truly made me feel this way too, authentically myself and womanly, and even spiritual, it’s a beautiful feeling. Congratulations💖

[@JustAysh]

Thank you for normalizing missing periods as not being total red flags. I've been on the pill (and still am) and have taken pregnancy tests every month for the last few years because my periods are "late". Because I've been taking them for years I wouldn't think anything different any time a negative one came across. I think this is worth sharing and I this helps others.

[@angelicaroman87]

As someone who also feels the intense need to plan out EVERYTHING, I completely understand how you felt! I appreciate you sharing your thought process on getting past that. I would love if you could share where you’re finding your resources on prepping your body for delivery. We’re hoping to start our family soon and I want to be as prepared as I can to make it the healthiest safest pregnancy and delivery

[@blondebot]

All what you are saying makes total sense. It is not shameful. You just wasn’t prioritizing your health and assumed (absolutely logically and correctly) that your body can’t function properly in that state. But you baby thought otherwise! Gonna be a strong kid💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻True fighter! Congratulations again and sending you lots of love and best wishes❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@reverethepatriot1776]

I have been so touched watching you taking this whole thing on. This baby is so lucky to have you as its mother. I remember when I was pregnant with my first I had the same insecurities crop up. I then heard someone say that, “no one else is better fit to be your baby’s mom than you, that baby has been sent to you for a reason.” Motherhood is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do, but it’s the most rewarding experience and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

[@czarinacrowhaney981]

I really enjoyed your reel about woman being the original body builders by actually growing a human because growing a human, takes a lot, they absorb all your nutrients, mess with your bowel movements as you were saying. You’re doing great. Every woman is different when growing a baby and every birth story is different. Ive been enjoying seeing your routines through pregnancy because I am 36 weeks, due end of august, looking to strengthen my pelvic floor for Birth. I’m more focused on the unmedicated side of it because I’ve known my pregnancy since the first month and been studying and mentally preparing myself almost like you have been doing but you’re such a gem with your physical training. Thank you for sharing this experience. I admire your excitement. May you continue to soak in this moment in your life!

[@ellewilson4209]

I am so excited for you Abby!!! I have been following your journey since before we knew you were even expecting! I just found out last week that I am pregnant too (about a month and a half along) and I was intrigued by what you said about how you’ve been “training for this labor and delivery like an athlete”! I come from an athletic background, and I love working out, I want to continue working out hard throughout my pregnancy, but many people around me are telling me that hard exercise isn’t good for the baby or me. I would love if you could do a video and talk more about how you have been “training” these past 8 months, and also maybe address some of the stigma that there is around pregnant women working out. Thank you so much! I love your videos! God bless 💕

[@rachelrak4502]

I am so happy for you! I am someone who has also had irregular, painful periods all of my fertile life (not athletic as a teen, just family history of irregular cycles and working on a PCOS diagnosis), and I have watched your approach to fitness for a few years now. I think you have a wonderful mindset regarding pregnancy, labor, and delivery (probiotics, fitness, et cetera) that I hope to emulate in my time. Not sure what your approach will be once Baby arrives, but I hope to hear more about this journey :)

[@Mandycal88]

I think it’s great that you’re so empowered and strong. What a great role model you are for being a powerful woman! You go beautiful lady! ❤

[@kristinspirek7616]

Being educated and “training for birth” will surely pay off! I looked at it the same way and absolutely loved labor and delivery and felt so empowered after giving birth. Even with my first birth, in a hospital, where it felt to me like they did everything in their power to try to discourage me from having a natural birth, giving birth was an awesome experience- I had to really stuck up for myself to have it though. Education is absolutely key. After that I switched to midwives and had two home births, and then my last baby was born in a freestanding birth center.

[@2Mushy]

I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and having that birth the way you wanted. I had the same battle. I had my first baby at home because of all the negativity they threw at me at the hospital. Had my second baby in a hospital, because my husband was in Iraq and they put drugs in my IV without telling me after giving birth. I had HORRIFIC depression after my second. Thank you for standing up for yourself.

[@rae-annhunte7333]

As a mom and a type A personality myself I get this. The insecurity and worry does not go away completely ever, but you grow and you learn and you do the very best you can. Once there is love and love is communicated all will be well. 💛💛💛

[@KPB1998]

I would love when you’re ready to make a video sharing the knowledge you acquired while researching pregnancy. I’m so nervous for labor and delivery I would love to hear what you learned that didn’t make you fear it so much!

[@ConniieBearrr]

It's Soo interesting to see how different people's experiences are for pregnancy and delivery! I cherish my experience, was also very unexpected found out at 2 months pregnant and was in shock for a week, now she's almost 4 months and I am sooo blessed! I pray for a quick recovery but I am not worried for you!

[@elisastrange1996]

Congrats on your pregnancy. As you, my periods are irregular, I went once 6 months without one. I been in hormone therapy, progesterone and the pill to help with it. It's completely normal that mental health affects your body, same thing happened to me. I wish you the best for you and your family. You have been an inspiration of the type of person that I want to become, thank you so much for sharing your journey through life. ❤️

[@taylorpresswood5341]

I’ve been following you for years now and your always someone I can watch for educational purposes or just need a fun laugh and I’m so excited that your feeling amazing with your little baby. It’s crazy how many people hint hint law makers don’t realize how irregular periods can be and not even the majority of every child, teen or women knows what’s a normal period is etc especially if they’ve been placed on hormonal birth control for years. We need education in our school systems and no cost for period products or pregnancy test and of course GETTING OUR RIGHTS BACK ON OUR BODIES. So we can help moms make the choice if they even want to be moms

[@kaitlynwhite6218]

Sounds like this pregnancy has brought a ton of growth and happiness to you :) so excited !!

[@Jaque88W]

I love this video! I love your stance on labour and delivery! I was similar with my babies and most people I told including health professionals just rolled their eyes and said as long as you have a healthy baby it doesn’t matter. But it does. I’m so glad I educated myself because my first baby was spontaneous labour at 34+6 and when the midwives and drs were giving me options, I felt confident making decisions. And I got a natural birth with gas and got to hold my baby for a few minutes before he was taken to special care.

[@kaytee789]

First of congratulations! You look radiant, your strong and healthy! I really admire and thank you for making this second video. I'm sorry if I the question about pregnancy test was very insensitive, but because it wasn't explicit I was confused. I don't have IBS but I'm lactose intolerant and I don't tolerate other foods as well and my belly swells up like crazy too and have other symptoms as well so its possible that they could have masked your pregnancy and you shouldn't be ashamed of it. I found your journey to be very motivational and empowering, I like how you debunk so many myths and common thoughts about working out and pregnancy. Obviously everyone is different not every women has it easier in their pregnancy some have so many problems, like joint issues, too much swelling, too much fatigue to handle any workout.

[@alicialloyd5537]

This video is so refreshing. It's so cool to see how excited you are about birth and motherhood. I also had the same question when you announced your pregnancy, despite someone also have irregular periods 😅 it's definitely more common than everyone thinks

[@vikkiskomarokha150]

Yes I had an amazing labor! I worked out almost everyday up to the day I gave birth. My labor was quick and amazing! I really recommend counter pressure! My husband pulled back on my hip bone and pushed on the opposite side of my hip bone on my back while the midwife pushed one of my knees in towards my body! Also, deep meditative breathing! I listened to white noise in my earbuds and it let me get into a zone I never knew was within me! It was beautiful

[@rachelsimon6351]

Congratulations! You're one of my favorite fitness KZbinrs and your sweet potato brownies got me through my surprise pregnancy after I stopped bc 🙃 I also did all the research & training for baby & birth until he was diagnosed with uvv and I had to stop lifting. Then little sir was transverse after my water broke and an hour later we were in the OR 😅 don't beat yourself up if anything doesn't go to plan. So glad you're enjoying the journey! Little man is 3 months & we're loving every second ❤

[@standup2982]

I have five children aged 25, 23, 20, 16 and 12. I loved my pregnancies, labours and deliveries. I had my 4th at home, planned, and it was wonderful. I know that baby is here now - congratulations Mummy 👏 I'm so looking forward to hearing your birth story 💜

[@lifestylewithmommynelly]

As a pregnant mama of 3, I currently can relate to all of this 🤍 thank you for sharing ! New subbie 😍

[@eustaciavy]

I had a baby 15 months ago after not being sure it would ever happen. I love your attitude, I love your story, and I love everything you’re learning about yourself and pregnancy. So excited for you on this journey!

[@charlotteejackson]

Congratulations! Birth is an amazing experience, I was so excited for mine and it was wonderful! From one type A person to another remember just to go with it, your body knows what to do!

[@rach1759]

I genuinely think becoming a mum for the first time gives you superpowers. Like before and early days I was torn up with self doubt and feeling I couldn't do this. I'm 1 year in and now I am so sure in my own skin. I AM THE MUM. The buck stops with me and I feel so strong. Life doesn't care if you're ready or not so there comes a point where it doesn't matter if you think you can do it. You just have to do it. My advice is just start small and try your best. If you can say you did that then nobody can touch you. You got this, you just don't know it yet. X🤜

[@RababAlhunaidi]

Congrats girl✌🏻 you got this

[@ewamarta4161]

👏👏 Last part made me emotional! I am pregnant at the moment as well and I also feel super feminine, strong and amazing right now! Sure my beginings weren't lovely - Nausea, lack of energy, etc. But now as 3rd trimester started I feel energetic (despite back pain) and I LOVE my BUMP, I think it's adorable and feminine! I think it's all comes from the philosophy of training to improve what your BODY CAN DO, not how it looks - and it's doing now a miracle, so I love it more now, even though I did put on weight not only in belly 😂

[@joannasomerville]

Thank you for sharing 🥰 your videos are so empowering and really help me feel more confident and excited about pregnancy and childbirth (in the future) so grateful 💖 love the "you don't need permission" 🥳

[@mkb8659]

I'm really happy for you and seeing that happiness radiate off your face makes me happy too!

[@sarahjustkidding]

I would love to see a future video where you just break down some of the nitty-gritty regarding something you mentioned here: the things you've found info about, some of which you may have implemented, that can be done to ease labor, delivery, and other related concerns (before & after birth as well!) Btw, thank you sooo much for being such a valid resource and friend to my constantly curious&nerdy mind!!!

[@bekahhaught807]

I’m a long time fan Abby!! I have a very similar approach to pregnancy and birth- I decided to have a home birth so that I wouldn’t have to deal with hospital protocol or a cascade of intervention. Had a healthy pregnancy and a “clinically perfect” birth (my midwife’s words) You’re awesome and an inspiration. I’m gonna get back in the gym! 💪🏻

[@joyhorina6109]

Thank you for being real and sharing how you handled those negative thoughts and anxiety. ❣️❣️

[@JasminaKazemier]

Would love to see a video of all the knowledge you gathered about the delivery and recovery!

[@chandrajohnson5908]

I really enjoyed this Q&A!! You are amazing!! I'm so happy for you and your little growing family!! ❤️

[@rachel6ix]

I’m so incredibly happy for you! ♥️

[@sophicarne]

Full honesty: even planning and knowing my entire pregnancy, laboring3 days, c-section and extra hospital days.. leaving the hospital with a baby is a real mindfuck!! Verrrry much your puppy experience. All the big feelings plus ALL the big hormones. You have to ride the wave. And you've got this!

[@abbeyv.a8994]

I can tell by your voice these questions and this video took a lot of energy, thank you for sharing and congrats!!❤️

[@aowyncarrillo7512]

I was always excited to go into labor, it means you’re going to have your precious baby in your arms soon! Being calm and breathing are huge helps, it’s hard but it’s not permanent 😝

[@TheLg1985]

So glad you're having an awesome pregnancy. I've been pregnant twice, have 2 lovely children (mostly) and while I would absolutely do it again, I hate pregnancy. Both times I was violently ill the entire 9-10 months with all day everyday vomiting.

[@lorienpatmore3520]

You are going to be an amazing mom. I’m so excited for you. When you doubt yourself remember you are the best mom for your baby and you can do hard things

[@momomachado1086]

Thank you so much for such an honest and helpful video! So excited for you to become a mom!!! ❤️

[@brit4294]

I love your empowering mindset about pregnancy! I hope to one day feel like that about pregnancy. I feel the exact opposite.. terrified about pregnancy and birth, the changes it could cause to my body, etc..

[@emgeezef]

Girl, our organs and our bodies are made for this, with confidence to push through and a positive "I'm a badass and this body is a badass and it's gonna totally make a complete human and pop it out like a boss" you will do the best 🥰

[@mrswray]

I hope you start a podcast if you haven’t already. I love your self talk and how you walk us through your resolutions and what you tell your self through a challenging time

[@ambrosiatea]

This is a beautiful story and your attitude is so inspiring towards your little bubba. Hope you're enjoying mum life, I've had three so far and it's really made me into a stronger woman

[@Purplehairgrandma]

As a mom of 4 and grandmother...in labor...do what works for you! Every woman is different. My 1st 2- I had naturally and water was my friend. The last 2- I had epidurals. I am absolutely fascinated with your pregnancy journey and how awesome you are doing in the mist of finding out. I am also excited to learn more about your fitness journey. SO congratulations!!! It's the best and the hardest thing you will love to do most your whole life❤

[@lidskii9958]

I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first. The last question about if you're afraid of giving birth was very empowering. I am wanting to have an all natural birth and it's refreshing to hear another woman sound excited for this experience. It's going to be painful as hell of course but it's also one of the most beautiful things to endure as a woman and I genuinely want to feel every second of it. Wishing you nothing but a safe and positive birth experience girl! ✨️ 😊

[@lome5914]

I had a natural labor with my second baby. It was hands down the most empowering and beautiful experience. I felt like I could conquer anything after that. My first labor didn’t go as planned, so to have that second experience was amazing :)

[@lidskii9958]

@@lome5914 I love that! ❤️

[@elonas9487]

Having had a 36 hour home birth, my best advice is to repeat the mantra '"I can get through anything 1 minute at a time." You can. You will. And you will feel so unbelievably proud at the end. Which is, of course the beginning.

[@lidskii9958]

@@nilesandsam ty! Yes hoping mine feels easier than others lol

[@lidskii9958]

@@elonas9487 I'ma write that down, thanks :)

[@margaritapadilla2503]

Relax Abby and just enjoy every moment of being pregnant . You look amazing !! It doesn’t really matter what people say n think. Only ur close circle counts🙏😊

[@Becca14221]

Thank you for sharing so much of your journey ❤️ really excited for you and Jeff

[@Nikki-bs4nv]

I’m so happy that you’re happy and healthy. There is definitely not enough education out there about menstrual cycles or child birth. Our bodies are capable of so much and a lot of what’s common is so far from the way experiencing those things can be. I appreciate your logical and analytical mind and I’m here for all the baby content. I’m wishing I was in the same place so following your journey will be fun for me :)

[@baileyedwards8645]

I haven’t watched your videos in a while but this video notification popped up Congrats on this new chapter!

[@abbypollock]

Thank you 🥰

[@danikavening8933]

Have you thought about doing a labor/delivery preparation and post-delivery recovery video describing some of the things you learned about labor and delivery during your research? I would love to know more about how you prepare yourself in an “athlete” training mindset!

[@rosesmith000]

Best ever in the world, I'm so thankful for you and your channel and the knowledge you share with us

[@erin5109]

Hi Abby! You taught me how to do single leg deadlifts years ago and I think of you every time I do them 😂 I was shocked to come across your reel about being “bloated” and going to the ER, but how exciting!! I hope you and baby are doing well ❤

[@pmarzipan9465]

I'm so happy you're doing so much better mentally. :)

[@emgeezef]

The feminine and empowered thing. YES. I had an epidural the first time and the second time I wanted the whole experience and exactly, you feel POWERFUL. Empowered that you can do such a thing. Breastfeeding was icing on the cake for me in this regard. To me, being able to grow something for 9 months and then keep it alive for so long outside of the safety of my body with milk from my body was astounding too. It's hard to look at them thriving and believe "My body did that. It created an entirely perfect human and it continues to sustain this human!"

[@jissellerivas5280]

Hearing u describe how proud and feminine and empowered u feel about your body, I teared up bc I felt the same way! I peraonally was so vain before my pregnancy that I thought people that thought this way were corny lol but holy shit. When they say u love ur stretch marks u love your scars bc of what your body accomplished grew a whole baby. It's still mind-blowing that my body did that. And I super agree about there being stuff that are controllable like are emotions kind of, because I too was super excited to give birth. My babe was breech so I I ended up having a csection but I feel because I essentially just so mentally prepared for birth in general, I healed soo fast. Up and walking almost immediately. Good luck on everything ur whole story had me in awe. I've been a fan for years uve always been super cute and ure so much cuter noww! Ur going to be and already are a great momma

[@Alicet2323]

Regarding your answer to labor and delivery, I feel the exact same way!! I am not scared to give birth, I’m scared that it will somehow end up in a traumatic experience for me. I am so so excited to try for a natural labor and I’m just praying I’ll have the time and space to labor how my body needs to🙏

[@nikivable]

Same here🙏 are you have any recommendations in regards to books, blogs and channels on natural labour?

[@pseudonyc8739]

As a pregnant person, I already have a lot of feelings floating around my head and a lot of anxiety, guilt etc. We need this maam, we need someone to relate to.

[@Rollwithit699]

Congratulations on your pregnancy! Being a mother is the best and I loved being pregnant. What a great confirmation of my femaleness; I felt like a walking miracle. ❤

[@wurmbly9702]

Congratulations on your little one! Can't believe we are both due a few weeks apart ❤

[@brittanysuppes]

What a true blessing ❤️❤️ congratulations to you both. Labor was rough for me all 3 times but I am ready for #4. You can do this!! Loving the updates, Xoxo much love oh ya, my periods have been irregular forever. Turned out to be hypothyroidism :(

[@frank.e.underwood]

thanks abby! Its beautiful you don’t doubt yourself.

[@zingara76]

Congrats 🎉 I’m very excited to see your journey

[@bunnybangz]

Girl we got you 💚 I didn't know I was pregnant became a show because of how many women gave birth in toilets 🥰😬 I am beyond happy that didn't come to that for you!!!! Thanks for sharing

[@abbypollock]

THANK GOODNESS! 😅💛 Grateful that baby’s healthy and to have you on this journey

[@bunnybangz]

@@abbypollock that baby and your health are all that matters 🙏🏼💛 thank you for allowing us on it 🥰

[@yanelihuerta3837]

Wishing you the best! I love your videos!

[@jinmakessugalaughandsugama744]

Congradulations i hope you have a safe and healthy journey with your little one and i hope you enjoy each and every min!!!!

[@Francesco_M.]

Your own baby child will be proud of her mum the second he/she will enter this world; You are preparing for it meticulously both mentally and physically, not everybody is willing to do that! I can only wish you a safe delivery and a few fulfilling pregnancy months ahead ! 😊😄 🇮🇹🇨🇦 👋

[@paigehibbert2028]

Congratulations, again! You’re going to be a great mom! Best unsolicited advice that I can give: advocate for yourself. Doctors are very pushy and they aren’t on your schedule. Not all of them are this way but I didn’t get to deliver with my regular doctor so she didn’t have any connection to me and pushed for things that I didn’t want and used fear tactics to get us to agree. We couldn’t use a doula because of the pandemic but I’d definitely use one now. Next time I will deliver at a birthing center or at home. Study and meet all the doctors at your practice. You’re going to have a great labor and delivery! ❤️

[@RosyCheeksBoutiq]

Couldn’t agree more! I had a hospital birth with my first and they pushed to break my water and then with the immediate intense pain (that I wasn’t prepared for) they pushed for me to get an epidural. They did not encourage me at all, just wanted the easy/quick way for them. I had a home birth with my second and it was an absolutely amazing experience! I actually loved it and I am excited to do it again! What a difference it makes to have someone (my midwife) on your side! Encouraging and supporting you and your choices! It made ALL the difference!

[@paigehibbert2028]

@@RosyCheeksBoutiq that’s amazing! I’m definitely having my next at home with a midwife. So glad that you had a great second experience. At hospitals you just become a number. I have labor and delivery nurse friends who agree that it’s more like a factory than an individual experience, especially in a big city.

[@VLS1998t]

I got my iud removed last year and before I got it placed I also had a SUPER irregular period. I had the same reasoning and experience as you, the iud stop my periods completely, and I got it at the same time once a month every two months once the iud was out. I was happy at first because even though it was still not “regular” it was something! Yeah well, that ended February. I’m definitely not pregnant (I’ve been checking) but I haven’t gotten a period now since his pas… not concerning to me in the slightest, it’s just how it is for me. And yes, as an adult trying to plan for the future, it sucks. Teenage me thought it was a blessing

[@lizzdoe2821]

You are such an inspiration!❤️❤️❤️

[@anthonyalvarez124]

Congrats again! You look amazing! 🙌 🔥🔥🔥 😎👍

[@2Mushy]

I am an information person so before giving birth, I watched birthing videos so I knew EXACTLY what to expect. It really helped. I'm so happy for you for wanting to experience all of it. I LOVED giving birth, which I don't say to many people because they think I'm crazy. But I trained like an athlete too and did natural birthing classes and it was so beautiful and I would do it again. Fun and effective tip for giving birth, do not scream while pushing because that tells your body you are panicking, grunt because that sends a control signal that you are working on a goal.

[@naomiowens8754]

Great tip, definitely helps me!

[@Rachel_Collins]

Can we see a video of your pregnancy prep/baby room stuff? 🥰

[@stfuporfavor9102]

It was 3 months for me til I realized life was so busy & I had like the kind of spotting you think is your period but after like 10 days strait of eating a 4 for 4 from Wendy's exactly the same down to the Dr pepper and being just so tired it hit me when I woke up from my nap & I had an "oh shit" and just knew when you are in a routine in your life and you don't expect it it's like the scariest thing every emotion comes over you every single emotion & it's so overwhelming

[@amygingras6210]

I have had three 100% natural births. You are approaching it in the best way. As a runner, I always have "trained" for each of my labors and it is a must for sure, not just physically but mentally. Good luck to you! If you are interested, I always found hypnobirthing to be very helpful ( I loved the Positive Birth Company).

[@kaylove7003]

I’m 5 months pregnant and feel a lot like you. I’m more nervous about things the drs may push me into doing but not giving birth, I’m hoping for an unmedicated delivery and have done sooo much research so I’m so ready to have the experience.

[@mango3269]

Irregular cycle girlie here 🤚 my IBS and interstitial cystitis play a major role in that! However like many others I am a worrier and stresser… irregular periods have been a part of my life since I started menstruating!

[@lindakroppsd74]

Damn girl you are inspiring ❤️ only on the first question lol you are great and you're gonna be such a good mother

[@bijismythe551]

This green makes your eyes pop so lovely

[@AuntBeeDoesLife]

Don't feel bad for not knowing for 6 months, feel humbled by the experience it is teaching you that the best things are always unplanned

[@thaaatsenoughinternetfortoday]

Actually, there's different types of fiber. You have insoluble fiber, which does not dissolve in water and in turn makes poop more runny, which would help to ease constipation. Soluble fiber is the opposite, where it is does dissolve in water and essentially forms a gel with your poop, which bulks it up and thus eases diarrhea.

[@sydneebabcock709]

Have you thought about getting a doula for your delivery? You said you were scared that a doctor might take away from you having a meaningful delivery and doulas are there to protect you as a female and mother in the delivery room. I haven’t had one myself but I’ve heard they are extremely helpful in making you feel safe and not overseen by the doctors/staff at the hospital.

[@AnjuliMack]

Here after seeing your shorts about how you didn't know until 6 months so I'm excited for this haha x

[@TheUodragon]

Bless you, your partner and baby ❤️😇

[@randipataska5700]

14:22 Midwife and/or doula! Have consultations and choose who you click with. They are there to make sure your needs are met!

[@jessicahall1407]

Abbyyyy I’m so happy for you. I’m TTC and when I’m pregnant I want you to train me. 😅

[@yippykiay13]

Could you make a video on some of the things you learned that are supposed to improve labor and delivery? I’m on baby #3 now, and the last two weren’t great despite working on things that were supposed to make L&D easier.

[@Alynnescape]

i think it speaks volumes to the power of the hypercritical voice we both share, that it convinced you the missing periods were due to you falling short of perfection. The hypercritical voice pushes us to great success, but can absolutely overlook the forest for the trees when caught up in details of life’s plans. isnt it funny. time and life moves us as much as we move through life. when we see results of our hard work we think that is the only way for anything to happen. but there are big surprises and chances in life that have nothing to do with whether we have achieved enough to keep that critical voice silent at night. thank goodness it doesnt ALL rest on our shoulders. blessings to you and baby!

[@starrieknight8307]

You don’t owe anyone an apology

[@abbiecarroll8929]

Will you share any of the birth? Would you also share some of the things you are specifically doing to train for birth? Thank you! Don’t think you are crazy and loving following your journey

[@user-te9wt2ll4k]

Some women can also have prolong periods, I am one of these women. My longest period was 3 months, I really wish I was kidding, but turns out I have PCOS. We got you Abby, you don’t have to be embarrassed! I’m super excited for you and to watch your journey!!

[@morinosen1598]

I am at the end of the first trimester with my first, you said at the beginning of the year you weren’t feeling good mentally, my pregnancy came with really intense depression in the first trimester. Even with a traumatic life even (which I am also going through) it feels a lot more intense than mental health struggles I have felt before. Just saying that might also have been related to your pregnancy.

[@IWasBlindButNowISeeJesus]

Omg you should watch the Spillover's podcast episode called "the birthing business" super insight and makes you think deeper about birthing in hospitals

[@standup2982]

Home birth rocks 🙌💜

[@gorditatomamacita]

Thank you for satisfying our nosey selves! Will you be developing a pregnancy training program?

[@NadMartineau]

Wow I didn’t know you found out at 6 months. You are a really strong person. Honestly I’m nervous to get pregnant