Preparing for my wedding night: Abstinent, but not a Virgin | CHRISTIAN WEDDING NIGHT ADVICE

[@carololdebeken3089]

Hello, getting married today, practicing celibacy while in a covenant relationship. We have talked about everything already, so important, thanks for your video!

[@missNCW]

Side note: that lip colour looks great on you! 😍

[@janaedivasjourney9088]

Thank you for doing this video. I'm not a virgin AND a daughter of a pastor and entering my SECOND marriage. I was not a virgin when I got married the first time but I felt there was a part of myself spiritually I hadn't given away to other men. The young man I'm marrying isn't a virgin either BUT I have known him for 10 years. We were recently reunited after not seeing each other for almost 7 years. We had sex twice this y until we BOTH decided to be celibate until our wedding night. I sensed things were different for us this time and I knew not to give into my lustful desires with him. He even wanted me to move in with him at one point. I declined and moved into my own apartment. It has been a season of preparation for me. If he really loved me he would see beyond sex and get to know me for who I am. It was really hard because we remembered our sex lives. But I wanted to do things right this time.

[@GloriaBoza-x2p]

I love the part about anointing of the bodies. Thank you for sharing it.

[@dominiquegoldsonatkinson2254]

Paige! I’m getting married in 7 weeks ! This topic is on point 👏🏿

[@carlosandmonique2017]

Thank you for sharing this. 🤗🤗🤗 It really is the transition that works on the mind. All your life being taught sex is bad den boom! Married and now sex is good. Takes a bit to get past it mentally.

[@NaturallyPaige876]

This is exactly it! Had someone share with me how she struggled with not viewing sex in marriage as a sin because it was so ingrained in her

[@lecydecy9257]

i definitely love these type of videos. loving how honest and real you are! thank you for sharing!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@NaturallyPaige876]

I'm so glad! Thank you!

[@Ajike96]

Came across this randomly...but I must say you just encouraged me now thank you for this ♥️

[@shevanbryan3549]

Very important topic Paige. It needed to be discussed and I hope that this video opens up the lines of communication for further discussions about what else can be said and done ahead of time to help make it easier. Also, what can be done if it hasn't gone well is a big topic too. There are people (believers) who are struggling with various issues like performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus and all kinds of things long after the fact and instead of getting help they decided to tough it out. So big up to you for suggesting some very practical things to do to help things along including prayer, which may seem slightly strange but is absolutely crucial. That anointing point... wow... such a wholesome approach lol. I will reserve any further comments but respect to that couple for taking it to that level from day 1.

[@paulinep.4394]

Good job for sharing this very important topic. We ‘the church’ are not frank about this. Shaving down there works too cause those hair cuts are vicious. A key thing is mind set. Need to be very relaxed in the process. Bravo for broaching the subject. Bless you💝

[@NaturallyPaige876]

Yes!!!!! Love the male perspective

[@leedee74]

Thank you for sharing this, Paige. Every engaged couple should get this counsel. Both men and women need it as it would save them from the misunderstandings and disappointments that come from setting unrealistic expectations for their wedding night.

[@NaturallyPaige876]

Exactly!

[@humblednature9593]

This is like advice from an older sister I need

[@_heyimbritt]

Wow what a necessary video! Thank you for sharing this.

[@kimonethomas7610]

This is why i love this channel.💕 Yes girl!!!! Keep it real!!!. Sooooo many great tips! Love it!!! Love it!!! This isnt spoken about in church but we women (and men) have so many questions and uncertainties. I laughed so hard at many points in this video but u make some very good points. Bless up 🙏🙏

[@NaturallyPaige876]

I'm glad u liked it!!!!! And yes! The Church needs to keep it real!

[@kharisahiggins837]

Where have you been girl? So glad I found your page, talk di tings dem👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@NaturallyPaige876]

awwww thank you and welcome!!! Hope you subscribed!

[@kharisahiggins837]

Yes yes yes👏🏾, I already subscribed and shared this video with others. It's just nice to hear a fellow Jamaican talk about these things because I can relate to what you're saying. Also love the hair videos,❤❤❤ please post more too 🙏🏾

[@opalburnett2385]

Thank you for sharing on this topic Paige. I enjoyed it

[@kristanrussell9931]

I thank God for your for sharing! Bless you

[@NaturallyPaige876]

You are so welcome

[@yaniquewanliss1801]

I love this. Very informative.

[@NaturallyPaige876]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@tahlz2177]

Great content Paige ❤️ lovely video 👏

[@NaturallyPaige876]

Thank you!

[@jaymac3117]

Woooow.. thanks for imparting such knowledge....

[@NaturallyPaige876]

You're welcome!!!

[@trishawnatreasure]

Subscribed ‼️‼️‼️

[@NaturallyPaige876]

Yayyyy!!! Welcome welcome welcome!

[@lecydecy9257]

For those who are new here including me..if it is possible could you please share a story time of having sex before marriage? I hope it's not too much in me asking.

[@NaturallyPaige876]

HI! Welcome welcome! when you say story time, not sure what exactly you mean, cuz i figure you dont mean details. so help me understand a little better :)

[@lecydecy9257]

@@NaturallyPaige876hey goodnight Paige. not in details but a summary. don't have to go in depth

[@daniellewalker1445]

💃💃💃

[@NaturallyPaige876]

❤🤎💜