Preston Perry Puts Men on Blast: STOP Blaming Women!

[@HardlyInitiated]

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[@sibzism]

So I cried while listening to this... because these are men. And I had lost all hope in their existence 😔 ❤ Gentlemen, thank you! 🙏🏾

[@staticWave-y6c]

Then you women do better since you heard a positive message do better ‼️ ⚡

[@christymoore4047]

Placing blame is often easier than taking accountability

[@darkpharaoh542]

Which is why women have been doing it for decades.

[@BigMan-v6z]

@@christymoore4047 Accountability is kryptonite to a woman. They can't stand the truth. Fake hair, fake butt, fake makeup, fake flashes. A walking hot mess. Facts.

[@desiree2299]

I believe Adam beat us to the punch on that one! __ Genesis 3:12 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@soulspirationgoddess]

@@darkpharaoh542it’s almost like you never heard a word from this entire video 😂

[@nmcclarence]

💯

[@Dannniellleee]

What they outline is exactly why we call most men narcissistic. Women are constantly encouraged to grow, learn, become skilled, and improve - whether or not we choose to do it. Bad behavior among men often seems to be ignored or even encouraged.

[@imacoolmom4893]

@@Dannniellleee 💯

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

Yup

[@RubenBoykinJr]

💯

[@charlisena]

More than likely by their own mothers

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

@@charlisena Yup. My mom does this with my brother all the time. I tell my son don't even try me. He's 7, but won't happen over here

[@synthtv5976]

Finally, men talking with common sense.

[@staticWave-y6c]

@@synthtv5976 yeah we just waiting for one woman to talk with some common sense or any type of logic ‼️ ⚡ Man can lead all day but if woman wants to be rebellious like so many of them are today especially black women why save them let them perish of their own dumb decisions that they make in life women has no accountability or stand on responsibility when the United States has a whole system to fix these women's problems and they still don't see they are the problem like I said man can lead but if woman doesn't want to follow that's her stupid ass leave them to their own devices ‼️

[@BeanieWiz-k4j]

Yesssssss. My husband is African. He's always blaming me for stuff he starts. I spoke to another brother who blames woman only for getting an unwanted pregnancy. Like it takes two. Black men need to hear from men like this. Our community needs DEEP HEALING. Thank you for this post.

[@lovefelix1566]

God bless you ma’am ❤

[@chinwenduchinwe586]

@Bean... Very much so...and alot of healing on many levels.

[@staticWave-y6c]

And this is the type of talk that got your women in the jacked up situation the way that it is the black woman is the most undesirable woman on the face of the Earth compared to all of the women why is that,,❓🤔 ⚡ That's because of your effed-up decisions and your rebelliousness in your wicked attitudes that's why the majority of you would be unmarried you will die alone because of your jacked up mindsets ‼️

[@DestinedLove-cu3yd]

I APPLAUD THE GROWTH OF THESE BLACK MEN!!! It is so refreshing to see the transformations since the beginning or start of your podcast. Thank you Lord for the change!!!

[@shameyaholt9318]

Yes. I love this for them.

[@Jus4-Us]

@@DestinedLove-cu3yd You aren't applauding growth. You're applauding weakness and the emasculation of Black men appeasing and pandering to Black women. They aren't projecting strength by bowing to women. God made MAN in his OWN image and likeness and made for him a woman from his rib. Men who understand the true meaning of that verse also understand that being in God's image and likeness is power. Men don't bow to no one but God! We don't answer to women, rather, by divine decree the woman answers to the man. Black men have been emasculated and effiminated in this society. Our women have been placed above us and this is why we always apologizing to women for our decisions. If we Kings and gods, children of the Most High God, what the hell we apologizing for? If we make a decison, real men own it, stand on it and deal with the consequences. No apologies. If I rule on something, that's law. I give my life on MY word! Woman don't run nothing in the presence of real men. You keep quiet and follow the law or move around. It's as simple as that. Those are the men our ancient fathers were. We have fallen too low as black men and it's past time that we take our crowns back and stand up and be as our father's once were.

[@Jus4-Us]

This White man ruled society got BW thinking that they don't have to submit to BM. Yet, they get real soft when they with White men. Why is that? Because they know who is in power in this society. Which only proves that its in every woman's nature to be submissive to men whom she knows is in control. Thus, BW know that BM don't have real power in America so they flex on brothers and give us they ass to kiss but when they go to work, they code switch for their White bosses and act real sweet and cooperative. Then, come home and raise hell with BM. Again, this behavior only exists because of power dynamics in American society. If BM ruled their own nation we would not have the same issues with women that we see today. It's only because BW have never had to obey BM since our ancestors were forced into slavery. They've only had to obey one man, which is the White man.

[@janaecarlee]

Agreed! My husband and I were just talking about this.

[@welllookahere]

@@DestinedLove-cu3yd I came hear to say that

[@babydoll6280]

As soon as Adam ate from the apple, he blamed Eve, and men have been blaming women for their choices every since.

[@chappymoore2612]

So women aint shit

[@jasminecarter8998]

This was fire! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Men take your rightful places and watch us good women follow suit! Well done brothers 👏🏽

[@KingofFoodsNetwork]

@jasminecarter8998 not true. GOD gave everyone free will and Reciprocation is no where in the Bible in regards to as man and woman. GOD gave a clear expectation for Men and a Clear expectation for Women. (Ephesians 5:22-24). Reciprocation is no where in there. Again, women are not robots, they are humans with free will to choose be righteous or unrighteous according to the Bible.

[@izzyaghedo8123]

​@KingofFoodsNetwork 😂OK Genesis 24!!!! The whole chapter you believe is dedicated to telling males to what? This mocking God & his Bible has to stop. Being a man has always been to be the head of everything that God created on Earth including the woman that God made from is protective part of the body. Stop changing his words to suit your OWN narrative. Weak males never want to lead anything & will make excuses for everything 4:52 4:53 4:53

[@baloossthoughts1024]

😂😂😂😂 So 'good women' need the environment to be 'good' ....Gotiit

[@EL-km9gl]

@@jasminecarter8998 although these guys have their hearts in the right place, I disagree that one gender needs to lead the other. In the past wise matriarchs were called on for wisdom and guidance.. but because we live in patriarchal conditioning we’ve been brainwashed to think it’s men’s role only.

[@Nortarachanges]

@@EL-km9gl, truth. The Hebrews were led by women Judges same as men right up until they told God to pick a king for them. Jesus taught women. Jesus listened to women. The first people to learn of His rising were women. I don’t think God values, entrusts, or glorifies one gender most. I do agree with the speaker that people demand of others what they don’t provide too often. A lot of not removing the plank from our own eyes before trying the speck in others going on

[@Imani9825]

THIS IS SOOOO GOOD!!! And i find the title a bit misleading because this really was a balanced conversation! Not attacking either side really…

[@wisdomcounselors]

This conversation is fire. Thank you for this content. I'm so tired of the content that ignite division between men and women. Kudos 🎉🎉

[@Lisamoore1]

11:31 this is spot on!! I just watched a scientist explain how women are so valuable and knowledge that their reproductive systems was cut at 45 and outlive men by 10 years. They believe this was specifically for the value of being a “Grandmother” to dedicate the remainder of her life to model love and to teaching the next generation. And pass down her knowledge and experiences in love to the future mothers. We’ve lost that in it’s time to bring it back.

[@leelsummerzz]

As men we need to be better examples for our counterparts

[@lavernerowden8509]

Finally a grown up in the room. Men have to take responsibility and women have to take responsibility. If you’re the leader then to much is given much is required. Also a woman will submit to her man trust me if he’s a true leader she will naturally submit. I’ve met a real man like my father and I submit naturally. It’s a beautiful thing. Thank you sir.

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

@@lavernerowden8509 societally women have always taken the bulk share of responsibility and shame… it’s time for men to take their proper share. Not everything is “both sides”

[@principlesoverpeople9427]

So why didn't Eve submit to the instructions of God? She knew better

[@vsmith6109]

@@theinvisiblewoman5709 for sure. I walk in the home after a 12 hour shift and see all the problems I need to fix for my own comfort. Then my relationship and the person I rely on...I ask him what he did today when off. Well he made the mess with the dishes and clutter on the counter 🙄. Just as bad is that he never scrapes plates before putting in the sink. When I'm off... I need to do the family laundry and lawn work on top of the daily chores. I also have to manage the bills, cook for the family, and clean. It's okay...I am about to give up.

[@MsDani171]

​@@principlesoverpeople9427 Because Eve was tempted by the serpent to disobey God. Adam and Eve both knew better.

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

@@principlesoverpeople9427 you’re asking the wrong question. If god is all knowing why does he place a tree of knowledge in his garden and allow a snake to tempt his ignorant human creations? He’d had to know all this would happen in future no?

[@marlenahawkins7098]

I applaud anybody that acknowledges there’s a huge problem. I am happy single until these concepts are respected or God bless me with a man that model these values .

[@TDJ8329]

I agree 🙏🏾 Amen I Am happy single until …

[@relaxme5919]

I have new found respect for Preston. I already love his wife Jackie! Thank you for explaining that so well. God is using them beautifully!

[@socasoul]

This conversation is SO GOOD! LOVEEEE this. This is what's missing in the body of Christ. TOOLS ... truth. Accepting Christ is the first step in a process of transformation. We need to know how to live in those areas where we are still battling.

[@gorgeousfrazier5903]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 it could all be so simple. We are responsive people, men set the tone, we carry the frequency. If the tone is flat, the frequency is going to match said tone!

[@SKingJoy]

I am an "independent" woman, strong minded, but it is EASY and i a desire to submit. We women just need to feel safe. When a man is putting his desires second to Gods will and sacrifices for his family, a woman will feel safe to submit because she knows he wont abuse her or his authority. Married 20 years and happy. My Husband stepped up and i stepped down. This is a daily choice. Never forced. It is MY choice to submit out of love for God and God's order.

[@alyu9337]

Please just date and marry other women

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

@@SKingJoy Yall weird for wanting to submit to anyone but God directly

[@soulanstreets222]

@@KangwithoutaKangdom But God said to submit yourselves one to another......or do you not read your bible? 👀

[@User_U571]

@@alyu9337 don’t ask people to sin, that’s just bonkers 😅

[@Ebele89]

These comments are very sad and disheartening. Anytime a man addresses men it’s called pandering. Good Leadership is never about pointing fingers and blaming but about extreme ownership, if you’re not ready to take ownership you’re not ready to lead.

[@DonDon-ge5dg]

Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.” Cause he is, y’all thots 🤡 want Adam 🧔🏾 role

[@RealNathanDaley]

No that’s not the issue. When men start manifesting pandering behavior it comes from a place of wanting to be accepted by women vs telling them the truth. He spoke several falsehoods in this interview which empowers women to keep up the delusion that they hold no responsibility.

[@izzyaghedo8123]

That's why if Jesus came today, these males would run & hide first then plot to crucify him

[@jenniferjackson7054]

❤❤❤

[@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage]

Y’all need to put the crack pipe down😂🤣

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

I’m not going to lie. I’m tired. I’m just going to be by myself. I wish life could be easier with someone but it seems as if it is so much easier without someone. Less stress, less drama.

[@IsraelaIAM]

A lot of these comments show that God isn't heading your life and that everything said in this video has gone over your heads

[@jenniferjackson7054]

❤❤❤

[@LSERA13]

So right. You can see it at the heart of every question and comment. If it's out of God's order, it will never make sense.

[@debbydooks2241]

Preach!!!! Finally! A black man who says the truth and how it is! We have been trying to say this for years. I’m surprised the guy who is fair skinned agreed since I saw a video once where he said if a woman has a house and car and is established, who would want her. I was so offended when I saw that. Because I didn’t know what they wanted anymore. First we are gold diggers, and the next, we want to wear the pants because we are financially secure in our own. I’m tired of the gymnastics!

[@brendarichardson8299]

It was not until Adam blamed God for “the woman he gave him “that they were ejected from the Garden. Adam and men since have not been accepting accountability for his actions. !!❤

[@willawentertainment]

I was just arguing with someone about this. The community is suffering because we don’t have strong male leaders in the Black community like there used to be. There’s a lack of accountability.

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

We NEVER DID. I really wish yall knew history because even with the bm leaders, it was women doing most of the work and them taking credit.

[@mymelaninempress3495]

If having the responsibility is unfair, then wouldn’t having the benefits be unfair too?

[@ese77ajala39]

Preston Perry! This man is a gift to the body of Christ. Thank you for teaching us about God’s perspective on this culture war between Men and Women.

[@khem127]

There is no war. Women are only responding to being attacked.

[@Validheart]

Theses guys make sense. Thank you for this video.

[@TurnAwayNow]

It's simple. How can you blame someone you're supposed to be leading??? You can't make that make sense. Emotional, mental & spiritual (not religious necessarily) intelligence needs to be working in tandem.

[@kevinharris3993]

This was deep. This is the conversation that needs to be had in the church in men fellowship. However when we teach wives submission in the church, it is actually domination. This is why divorces in the church are higher in church than in the world

[@MsKeepgodfirst]

what are we submitting to? God does not tell women to submit just to submit.

[@SheLoveSports]

I like that Preston mentioned that it should be older Christian women who correct the younger Christian women. It bothers me to see so many men (preachers and KZbinrs) telling women how to be women. I have seen countless videos of men rebuking women for their attire while using videos for examples. The method has always felt inappropriate to me to hear men speak about women's breasts and buttocks and tight-fitting clothing. Let the older women do the rebuking. Have we silenced women so much that older women no longer have a voice among the faithful?

[@synthtv5976]

No, younger women seem to think that we are hating on them when we offer correction and guidance. So we keep our mouths closed.

[@SheLoveSports]

@@synthtv5976 Genuine question: Are you offering correction and guidance from a place of an established relationship?

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

​@@SheLoveSportsNo, and a lot of them ARE haters

[@shanelllangham9481]

Maybe this should be put in a sports context for many of the men in these comments struggling with this lesson. Just like if a football team is continuously losing, who gets fired? The coach. Everyone blames him. It's his responsibility to pick the right players and give the direction the team needs to be successful. The weight and responsibility and expectation rests on the leader.

[@lasallereactions1360]

You do know that the coach doesnt get to pick their players? Also why certain players get called "coach killers" and get judged by fans for gettin coaches unjustly fired? I get what youre sayin but coaches dont have as much authority as you think they do. Not the best analogy and still doesnt escape the reality of star players who were steady losers (aka Allen Iverson, Carmelo Anthony etc)

[@Victoria-qk3mu]

Well said

[@teachertlangi5697]

@@lasallereactions1360 it’s okay if you’re not ready for the conversation. She just wanted you to understand what the guys ware saying not Debate

[@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage]

@@teachertlangi5697we quite literally never needed to HEAR this it’s common sense😂🤣

[@soulspirationgoddess]

@@BrotherB1ackHeartSavageif it’s common sense it should be practiced.

[@DulceCubana100]

I’m glad to see men saying that leadership comes with ownership. Ownership of things that are not accomplished and accountability for where the lack is. These are the conversations we need more of so society can flourish. Also, the Bible does call older women to mentor. Not sure why it don’t happen more often. 😢

[@Rebecca-vn8vn]

Preston you preaching!

[@angelajohnsonmusic3731]

Great discussion! We need more conversations like this on marriage and relationships. He's right on 🎯

[@eon001]

Leadership always comes with more responsibility and extra burden. This is something that's left out of a lot of these conversation's.

[@ERICA1288]

There is absolutely no burden when one is not manufacturing but obeying. The will or law is already established. One is just living in the established will of Yah. HE will share HIS glory with you once you endorse HIS will in obedience.

[@livelaughlovin_lifeafter50]

Then how are single mothers doing it? Leading their family by themselves juggling it all working a full time job...for some 2 jobs, for some also going to school to get a degree to eaen a higher income, while also taking care of the kids and being the maid cleaning and cooking and everything else from A to Z? But men find it hard to just lead their family and work with a wife to help? Make it make sense...???

[@jamierichards9926]

Pressure is made for shoulders not hips.

[@jamierichards9926]

@@livelaughlovin_lifeafter50I was saying this the other day!! Women are literally out here PROVIDING. Buying homes, getting the degree to provide, taking care of our families, etc. And men these days sit around whining and want to be the next rap star. It’s crazy.

[@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage]

What u be listening to? It literally comes up everytime black people in America have this conversation😂🤣

[@jamesbell739]

They way these dudes don't realize he's talking about THEM... is hilarious...

[@cynthiadickerson5403]

Some people are slow learners.

[@debram8784]

I never thought I would live to see this day. I have been illuminated by this biblical text since I was in my teens. They have brainwashed us as young ladies to take the fault. The man is the head. The instruction was given to him. The wife is the support. Accountability is something we must all work on.

[@margaretdebellottems.dthej6555]

Great episode. Leadership is not equal to blame.

[@ajr7940]

Some of these comments are excellent examples of no matter how well u explain Gods Will to people, they will find any & every way to reject it & do what they want anyway. Men & women. Its SIN that is the ultimate problem. Its disobedience to Gods guidelines that He has given us in order to live fruitful lives. Its peoples outdated belief systems(Gods Word is timeless & 4 any time), its peoples intentions getting into relationships & marriages, its the dishonesty between the sexes, its so much goin on. But thank u again 4this show because this is one of many parts that need light shed upon it ❤

[@marilyndalton7149]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👍🏾👍🏾 that’s all it is…

[@kiyomimcmillan5869]

I been saying this for so long I'm happy to hear it from these men cause I know I'm not tripping

[@LSERA13]

Older women in the church need to check problematic women??? I don't want to play the blame game, but -- a lot of children develop deep issues because of the lack of fathers in the household!! Come on! Let's be real real. Accountability!!

[@carolynmerritt7100]

As a 60 year old woman I have been discussing this for years. Many older men refuse to see they have to set the tone.

[@zyruemusic]

Leviticus 19: 29. Do not prostitute thy daughter, to cause her to be a whore; lest the land fall to whoredom, and the land become full of wickedness.

[@jacquelynmcmiller]

I agree with this entire conversation! Men and women should stop blaming and commit to their roles!!! Give each other grace. Women should be submissive to a man who leads by humbleness rather than ego.

[@LadyD-q3f]

Ma’am when (Black Women) decide to raise (Decent Black Men) we’ll Follow and Marry him! 😠😠😠

[@nicholasjenkins4533]

@@LadyD-q3fthere are plenty of decent black men outside you may just be skipping over them…

[@LadyD-q3f]

@ , I know, I Birthed three Black Sons, who Live in the same Home as their Children raising them! I will say, when a (Black Man is “Good” he is Damn Good! Look at (Barack Obama) the Best Husband and Father in the World to me! 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage]

Put down the crack pipe Obama hate black love more than divestors and is in no way shape or form a positive role model for so called black American men

[@tonia9455]

​@@LadyD-q3fYOU are part of the problem! Smh...

[@Madfunkids]

I loved this. Though I sincerely hope one of the takeaways *is not* that husbands exclude wives from the relationship decision-making. Leading does not mean making decisions on his own. Marriage is about working together. That's where men set themselves up to fail by wrongfully believing that they're on their own in making all the decisions.

[@LOVELYLONDONGURL]

His message was so simple and so simply put but spoke so much volume. We need so many more men like him to speak to other men.

[@user-Mimi333]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yes! Thank you Preston for standing for us women.

[@dragonslayer616]

Adam blamed a woman, and men haven't changed over thousands of years.. Sad..

[@ambiebby1636]

It honestly started with Adam…He blamed Eve as well. I also think Satan has led many men to abuse their position thru seeking to control and manipulate women as opposed to gently leading them like a shepherd leads his flock. I actually believe many men hate women and don’t see them as human and it shows in the way they speak about and treat the women in their lives. All of this has made women bitter towards men which has led to outright rebellion. It’s really sad. Then some men just refuse to lead and instead want to be led. It’s weird.

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

@@ambiebby1636 I believe Adam was blamed because before Eve was brought to him, he was assigned to be the dresser and keeper of the garden, and failed when they ate from the tree. What is not written in The Bible we have is why Adam did not know 🤔 or if he knew that the serpent was sowing discord in the garden 🤔. Notice that Adam's judgement was that the ground was cursed, and the earth would no longer yield its increase to him. Eve lost her place of having dominion with Adam, and her place in his heart as bone of his bone, and flesh of his flesh. And the serpent 🐍 was cursed above all animals and made to crawl on it's belly as in groveling in the dust. Everyone was demoted that day. However, The Bible states that The Last Adam (Yahusha Ha Mashyach) came and restored what The First Adam lost. All Praise To The Most High YAH. 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽

[@spookymachine]

This is sooo healing to listen to, brought tears to my eyes. Its clear and truth but so many reject this guidance. The future is doomed, babies not being born, men and women don't get along, twisted views of our role in human behavior.

[@darkflyonwall]

I, as a woman feel so encouraged to see you men having this conversation, keep it up!

[@user-xr4xq7zl9m]

These comments are sad These young men have SEVERAL GUESTS that tell women to do better They have these young men on and everyone gets upset. The reality is BLACK WOMEN, and all women, black men and all men NEED JESUS! Not a podcast, not other folks opinions. Read the bible for yourself, go to a BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH (which may not be predominantly black!!) Stop fighting each other and fight the devil!

[@calvinjackson5013]

💯💯💯

[@tb9340]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

Males are allergic to accountability

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

lol Jesus and religion is why we are dysfunctional to begin with. If women were happy under religious households they wouldn’t have created feminism 😂😂 yall need to stop with the foolishness. What people need is to be accepted and tolerated for their own beliefs. Forcing people to conform to your beliefs inspires rebellion.

[@nai_latte]

This is such an awesome discussion amongst strong, real brothers!

[@kaybrown7733]

I've never needed anybody to lead me. If you are a horrible person it does matter what you say. We're not dealing with any crap from anyone.

[@froggybug]

Giving rules to the oldest only works if you’re not using them as another adult. If you didn’t have a dad…she made you the dad and that was not right, nor was it your responsibility to lead. You were a child who was supposed to follow her leadership.

[@Zedecrem54321]

Why do we need men to lead us as adults? Why not two grown adults come together and figure out their responsibilities in their relationship and make it work for them? This rhetoric is toxic fa real.....men are not superior them women and vice versa

[@cynthiadickerson5403]

Ask the creator why he gave the man the leadership role?

[@lakeishaslovingteachings6704]

Fire!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@clairelashaun4886]

ALL OF THIS!!!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜💜

[@claudiabarnswell252]

I don't subscribe easily to particular channels but this conversation instantly had me subscribe. Thank you for being the voice of reason men need to learn and grow. Women will follow(with ease and grace) when leaders are trusted

[@professorh7024]

I love this! Great conversation young black men! This is true leadership!

[@queenshay88]

This was 100% on point!! So, true!! Amen!

[@kimallnaturelle]

Seeing how some of the men around me (family) grieves my spirit. I know it's a spiritual issue, but man, it is really hard to keep hoping that said men will shift. I'm tired of men blaming women for stuff not looking inward and modeling. I try my best not to be negatively affected through prayer, being realist, and minding my own. But, the urge to give up on men is so strong sometimes. I need the men in my life, I want them there! Men have a different strength and outlook that I need around me...but its so stressful dealing with them and is killing women trying to be everything in ourselves.

[@k.lorraine]

So glad men like this exist. So glad they all arent evil jerks

[@nobullzone8394]

Preston Perry was 💯 I'm about to find his channel. He spoke to me with his reasoning. Definitely mentally delicious how he explained what the Bible teaches. Beautifully done Bothers

[@alfienykabutler5919]

Preston should've spoke the whole time. 😊 As a wife and mothee I'm grateful for the Goldy women that give wise counsel.

[@daniellepowell5]

This is a conversation worth listening to. Thank you ❤

[@dorothywest2053]

Black women have to be strong because we are uncovered in this world.

[@User_U571]

What do you even mean, and why bring up skin color?

[@Phenece]

Oh my goodness, I absolutely love this truth!!! This is a definite eye opener for all!!! May the great I Am bless you all with more wisdom, grace and knowledge in the mighty name of Yeshua!! 🙌🏽👑🥂

[@J.J568]

Wow ,the wisdom coming from Preston's mouth is astounding❤

[@104DaysofGoodMusic]

Great conversation!

[@ChildofObatala]

I like what they are saying and I’m also looking at the men who will say this is why we voted for Trump because we are going to lead our women in the way ‘we’ believe they need to be led.

[@magsbayou]

I truly loved how we broke down leading by example. I have been saying for awhile the way men are moving and blaming women for everything is only pushing them away. Who wants to invite that toxic energy into their lives?

[@Missy35249]

4B ladies ‼️

[@coachquay5716]

Thank you King.

[@amberd5318]

Only 3 minutes in, and I feel fed. I've long believed the gender war in the black community is spiritual and a reversal of God's mantle on men and women. This is an important conversation ❤ Thank you!

[@Onehli3846]

I really liked listening to this. This was my first time watching you guys and I love that I was so relaxed and focused on what was being said. It also opened my eyes a little more.

[@Aw-ix1cl]

Ohhhhhhh weeeeeeee!I LOVE THIS!!! SPEAK! AND TEACH! I SO APPRECIATE THIS MESSAGE AND SITTING IN ON THIS CONVERSATION 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💜💜💜💯💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 SPEECHLESS 😊

[@stanleyfontaine25]

Every man needs to hear this and understand this. We would be better off.

[@memeoti6266]

Adam failed his first mission, protect Eve.

[@rhondam4369]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 great conversation

[@KFontLab]

Love this conversation… I don’t agree with Mom at the time he was young … he is not the parent he was the child. Now if she expressed these are lessons I’m teaching you, explain how, and then implement the test that would have been much better. I am glad that he took that positively though.

[@doulalavi]

Sometimes that is just the dynamic when there’s a big family. Somebody has to be in charge or there’s chaos. She didn’t have to say it, but he apparently learned the lesson. Many learn by experience.

[@livelaughlovin_lifeafter50]

Yeah, parents have done a poor job of explaining things to their children but mostly because previous generations didn't explain things to them and it was just "do what I say and don't question me".

[@mzyotruthnlove8263]

@KFontLab I agree. He is a sibling, not a parent. I think she should have told all of them together what each person was supposed to do. And then told all of them that the older sibling is to make sure each person does his or her chores.

[@xxyz321]

I grew up in a large family, it was understood without a sit down conversation, that the oldest were in charge and were holding down the rules of the house, everybody did know what they were supposed to do, it was a different time then (40+ yrs ago)

[@roxiwilson4842]

I’ve been trying to say this for years, but because I’m a woman, I guess I had no right 🤷🏾‍♀️ True men cannot put the blame on women, because they understand their role as the leaders. You have to be willing to model and lead her…not point fingers

[@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage]

How hard is it to follow directions?

[@roxiwilson4842]

@ relisten to the gentlemen. They spoke on that already

[@Deedee-qg3ct]

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[@AC-fs8ec]

@@BrotherB1ackHeartSavage very hard when as a woman, the man trying to give u directions lack Godly morality, and doesn’t live a life worth following

[@coreythomas3633]

​@@BrotherB1ackHeartSavagelike men like you know how to follow directions.

[@courtnaesmith6198]

Wow! This was good on so many levels!!! Thank you!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👑❤️❤️❤️

[@tyshiehakeitt3270]

I 100% agree with everything you are saying!! Unfortunately, these are not the men we have anymore!

[@jujununya9182]

Amazing conversation

[@palesamatabane4473]

When he said lead with gentleness and meekness, then later added humility. ❤🎉

[@AngelasTravelAdventures]

So true, as women we need more older women in the faith correcting lovingly as well. We also need to allow our men to lead as they follow Christ.

[@synthtv5976]

When older women attempt to correct young women, we are called haters. You all can not have it both ways. I always listened to my elders even when I didn't like what they were saying. Your generation does not listen.

[@KangwithoutaKangdom]

​@@synthtv5976Because we seen yall suffering and with nothing due to listening to yall elders, who made yall doormats to men who have no business in anyone's household.

[@enishajamison1960]

Well said on both spectrums of this issue. I have my own kinks to iron out and improve on....I don't need my husband's kinks straddled to my back as well. I enjoyed the truth and positive insight all of you provided. We all need correction, and more "JESUS" is the answer!!

[@tonia9455]

YES!!!!!

[@lw1814]

PREACH! that’s exactly correct. God punished the man more than the women because she was his responsibility even though she was the one who was deceived 1st. Adam didn’t lead her but followed instead. He should’ve brought correction to her head but he chose to follow and participate. And til today, we are reaping the consequences of those decisions. And still making the same mistakes🥴. Get Christ back into your life, and see how it truly is- joyful, peaceful, contentment, and genuine love🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ertfgghhhh]

Adam disobeyed. Eve was deceived

[@lw1814]

@ God’s expectation is obedience and that is why his punishment was worse than hers.

[@bigtank6465]

I agree.. When Eve influenced Adam to eat the forbidden fruit, He should have told her NO and Disciplined her for getting out of line. A similar scenario plays out with Sampson/Delilah and Jezebel/Ahab. Where a Man allows himself to be influenced by a woman and it leads to his downfall. A Man is the Ultimate Authority and we should Never relinquish that position for any reason.

[@ertfgghhhh]

@@bigtank6465 discipline her? You missed the point and are misguided. How can a man give discipline to himself? He simply had to tell her no. That she was being deceived and tell her what God told him. Sampson's problem was himself- not delilah. He chose a wife that did not serve God. Then he went against God and told the enemy how to weaken him You are misguided. One needs to learn how to leaded in order to do so correctly. Christ is the blueprint.

[@ertfgghhhh]

@@bigtank6465 a man is not the ultimate authority. Christ is. Ahab married someone married a worshipper of another God. Jezebel was a priestess who worshipped other Gods. She did what priestesses do.

[@thechillhomemaker]

Love this!❤

[@uknox6543]

May God continue to bless his marriage. The fella with the blue hat was on point with this....

[@jolewis2057]

We need more of this podcast 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽

[@Dominque-se5dx]

Many brothers scream that we don't let them lead us. If you were capable, I would. But so long as the BM is behaving like the neanderthal man he is a danger to himself and me. If you're only going to lead me to death and hell, no you cannot lead me. Shoutout to the Righteous Men of God.

[@poundthesecakestraceehayes2842]

This show gave me chills to hear men speak so eloquently and intelligently. Gives me a new perspective. I'm praying for a God, fearing loving learning man like these men. I can only submit to a strong man who knows the word and knows God and be strong in my submission because I'm not being dominated , but i'm being laid. We need more leaders like yall keep app the good work. God bless you all.

[@VisibleTimes]

Great topic ❤

[@MS-ti9bi]

Family first. No gender divide.

[@tiphanydevilliers480]

Real talk ☝🏾

[@listeningviayoutube7229]

This is a powerful message....

[@ajr7940]

THANK U 4THIS ❤