Problems With High Value Men? What The

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Kevin Samuels

Kevin Samuels

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@byKevinSamuels
@byKevinSamuels 4 жыл бұрын
*What is your biggest takeaway from the broadcast?*
@Deshawn1
@Deshawn1 4 жыл бұрын
If you're a guy, just keep improving and life will become better for you the older you get. If you're a woman ,get married when you're younger and don't wait till later because if you do, it will be too late.
@endthefed1448
@endthefed1448 4 жыл бұрын
@@Deshawn1 haha, men age like wine if they take care of themselves. Women age like bread. Even if they take good care of themselves, their "scent" vanishes after about 30-32 years of age
@NapahShadah
@NapahShadah 4 жыл бұрын
Mr. Samuels, did you get my email?
@TotiaunahRanzy
@TotiaunahRanzy 4 жыл бұрын
So basically women have til 30 to get married and have kids to prove that they have some kind of value??? And if they do get a divorce in their 30s and they have children, they don't have a chance getting back into the dating scene cause they have a kid(s) and they're too old?? It seems as if you feel women are jus throw aways and don't stand a chance unless they're a young Halle Barry or Dorothy Dandridge Dandridge... tragic 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️
@alexanderruffin3363
@alexanderruffin3363 4 жыл бұрын
@@TotiaunahRanzy its not that they are throw away women, they just cant expect to get High Value Men when they have kids and they dont have the sexual market value that they use to have. The problem is women are still searching for High Value Men at that stage of their life when they have zero chances of getting him.
@impec
@impec 2 жыл бұрын
This live hit different now that Kevin is gone... He was right to stress the fact that life is so short. Rest easy big brother ! You helped me in so many ways without knowing me. God Bless Your Soul !
@erikmcentyre7636
@erikmcentyre7636 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you. It took me this long just to resume watching his content. feels weird 😕 and sad.
@skylevel01
@skylevel01 2 жыл бұрын
Rest In Power The Godfather 🖤🕊
@impec
@impec 2 жыл бұрын
@@erikmcentyre7636 Fr Fr !
@kgwine9146
@kgwine9146 2 жыл бұрын
He helped me become a better wife and mother. I appreciate and value my husband so much more now.
@jamaicanB1
@jamaicanB1 2 жыл бұрын
@@erikmcentyre7636 I thought I was the only one mate
@johnglover299
@johnglover299 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing in the world compares to having peace when you come home.
@darylrichardson8567
@darylrichardson8567 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve moved 3 times this year, chasing PEACE of MIND. I’m going to FLA. to work & I’ll finally get REST
@jermaineblalock5553
@jermaineblalock5553 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@klevdavful
@klevdavful 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I have been telling people for years no matter if you are married or single a lot of people think having it all is having a hundred million dollars in the bank 2 million dollar house 8 cars in a bunch of bling bling but people that have those things a lot of them or miserable so what else could it be for peace of mind.
@jeffreyhuggins4786
@jeffreyhuggins4786 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@peaceispriceless6051
@peaceispriceless6051 3 жыл бұрын
BIGG Factz💯
@ziontheelder1697
@ziontheelder1697 3 жыл бұрын
An ex once said to me, "you can't handle me." My response: I don't want a woman I have to handle. Lions, Tigers, and Bears, have handlers.
@johnstamos4325
@johnstamos4325 3 жыл бұрын
NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@eclipse2fly4
@eclipse2fly4 3 жыл бұрын
I have heard this as well in my journey. Never understood it until I was older of course.
@MsLisalisa24
@MsLisalisa24 3 жыл бұрын
That was a great come back ahaha
@sonof9ja848
@sonof9ja848 3 жыл бұрын
Best answer
@RaffineDebauche
@RaffineDebauche 3 жыл бұрын
I tell them the only things I should have to handle are children and pets. So, if I have to handle you, understand that you’re beneath me.
@OmegaRonY
@OmegaRonY 2 жыл бұрын
Even after he has passed, I'm still learning from him this. Great stuff missing this guy a lot.
@Specialkxxx
@Specialkxxx 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah so sorry for your loss
@KookinHaole
@KookinHaole 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Specialkxxx
@Specialkxxx 2 жыл бұрын
The angry women weren't actually fkn listening
@gregf8701
@gregf8701 2 жыл бұрын
His legacy will never die, just take what you can and pass it on to future generations.
@djcryox3687
@djcryox3687 2 жыл бұрын
@@Specialkxxx No thy weren't and I find that is the biggest issue. The women dont listen
@tp84816
@tp84816 4 жыл бұрын
I hope the callers don't think Kevin is trying to be mean. I can see that all he really is trying to do is help you let go of the things that do not serve you. Approaching dating as an 8 when you are a 6 does not serve you. Telling yourself you look young for your age when you an older woman does not serve you. Winning requires you to be realistic. It also requires making changes when needed.
@limitlessinfinite2284
@limitlessinfinite2284 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯✊🏿
@vdubmansmith86
@vdubmansmith86 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@AL-Boogie.
@AL-Boogie. 4 жыл бұрын
Well spoken
@njgiant1
@njgiant1 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾✌🏾💯💯
@thebluejay3145
@thebluejay3145 4 жыл бұрын
@xan fran if you're not on that level..then that may be true.
@morg8735
@morg8735 3 жыл бұрын
Been binge watching this channel. Gotta say as a white guy everything applies just the same. I know you have a target audience, but at this point we can drop the color distinctions. You're like a refined Tom Leykis, and your message appeals to ALL men. Thank you and keep up the great work 👍
@letmelickbud
@letmelickbud 3 жыл бұрын
As a 62 year old from aust …Kevin is the shit ….this content applies to men and women everywhere , The feminists have damaged our culture , K S is at the beginning of repair Tom is great too
@irocwellOO3
@irocwellOO3 2 жыл бұрын
This issue transcends race.
@ave383
@ave383 2 жыл бұрын
I remember he mentioned Tom Leykis and Patrice O'Neal as being pioneers and legends in this field.
@BernieSanders-bn5dk
@BernieSanders-bn5dk 2 жыл бұрын
I’m Hispanic and can relate to what he says, I didn’t have a father either and was an outcast for having nappy hair and dark skin too 🤯
@dg6845
@dg6845 2 жыл бұрын
I agree (latino/american). KS mentioned that latina women are more submissive etc...unfortunately not in 2022...with social media platforms etc this disease is spreading to all.
@shaunahill322
@shaunahill322 3 жыл бұрын
My mom used to tell me that you can have it all, but not all at the same time. I got an advanced degree but chose building a family as a priority. I figured I had time to make money but there was a timer on procreation. It worked out well.
@Towoawawabo8
@Towoawawabo8 2 жыл бұрын
You'll be the best teacher to his children, High value Woman.
@charlzincharge2281
@charlzincharge2281 2 жыл бұрын
These episodes and Kevin message will last forever. The work he put in will resonate forever. Men we can always come back rewatch the opening monologues. Rip KS
@kia4020
@kia4020 3 жыл бұрын
Have to be honest, this channel is my guilty pleasure! I’m relieved I got married @ 22yo 😳 pickings are getting slimmer out there!!
@mackwilliams7081
@mackwilliams7081 3 жыл бұрын
I concur.
@rebekahkirkendoll669
@rebekahkirkendoll669 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr!
@lioness8456
@lioness8456 3 жыл бұрын
Right there with you sis! Got married at 26, we been through hell and back but we ride TOGETHER! almost 10 years of marriage, 4 babies later, and God as the sole foundation we keeping on! We clearly ain't missing nothing in these streets. Lol 😂 blessings to all my sistas on the journey. 🙏💯❤️
@kia4020
@kia4020 3 жыл бұрын
@@lioness8456 yes! I’ve learned, a husband after Gods own heart is a husband worth following!! Honestly all husbands need to lead but I’ll follow a God fearing man effortlessly 🥰
@faves2012
@faves2012 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@ken-wonmiller9570
@ken-wonmiller9570 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 36 and my mother is 58. This lady is my mother's age and I'm pretty much middle aged. She is a grandmother but is sounding like a college girl. That is what happens when you hear black don't crack your whole life. She supposed to be traveling and chilling with the grands and going to high school graduations.
@mr.culturefreedom2073
@mr.culturefreedom2073 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 50 with 2 kids in college. One will be a senior next year. I've accepted I'm the old guy.
@flashsanders1331
@flashsanders1331 2 жыл бұрын
You might meet a grandpa at the ceremony 😘
@bryana297
@bryana297 3 жыл бұрын
5 months of listening and he has to tell every woman who calls to turn off youtube when they call. They just don't listen.
@nickc3250
@nickc3250 3 жыл бұрын
Good point.
@entertainmentvidz
@entertainmentvidz 3 жыл бұрын
And those same women argue with him about them surviving without men using and building the same tech men built to survive. Mean while simple instruction on computers they can't even operate
@candiceknowlesRN
@candiceknowlesRN 3 жыл бұрын
😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 smhhhhh
@DanielMartinez-nb2qx
@DanielMartinez-nb2qx 3 жыл бұрын
Yep......its crazyhe has to repeat himself every show. They seem to have a need to be told what ti do by thr men they hate
@rafewheadon1963
@rafewheadon1963 3 жыл бұрын
Thats cos women call in here to try hit up high value men.
@northernnativesdesz
@northernnativesdesz 4 жыл бұрын
They for the streets ...til the streets dont want them😳 then they for a husband n the church 🤦🏾‍♂️...
@moneymitchamp
@moneymitchamp 4 жыл бұрын
I see Em all the time in church.
@benjones621
@benjones621 4 жыл бұрын
In the Church saying men should look at their heart and not their appearance or past. I"m a rare single man in a large church and wouldn't touch 95% of the single women.
@benjones621
@benjones621 4 жыл бұрын
@@thatlovegirl12 Income can always be improved if the man is driven to succeed. You just have to make sure his actions reflect what he tells you. Kids can definitely be an issue, although I have a son and have no problems getting dates with young women that have no children.
@northernnativesdesz
@northernnativesdesz 4 жыл бұрын
@@thatlovegirl12 its way more of you then us going...demand for good men good black men especially is high .....its like fishing in a bucket of fish tht look all the same jus different sizes
@benjones621
@benjones621 4 жыл бұрын
@FormerDry Jacker MGTOWs have entered the chat I see. Take that toxicity somewhere else. Nobody feels bad for you. Have a real conversation instead of hating on people.
@SummerJ200
@SummerJ200 2 жыл бұрын
‘ Non traditional women want traditional men and traditional outcomes’ facts upon facts
@CloutMoney
@CloutMoney 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to take these kind of conversations mainstream and captivate people but this genius cracked the code 💪💯
@jahsunhovah5978
@jahsunhovah5978 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that the good brother has passed on doesn't change the fact that what he said about most women is fact and truth may he rest in glory. 🙏🏿
@KeneishaFreckleton
@KeneishaFreckleton 2 жыл бұрын
This right here is why Vivica Fox is mad. Rest up KS.
@destin1989
@destin1989 2 жыл бұрын
Ah I see why Vivica mad AF.... saying a man's death is Karma for his opinions and speech ..sad world we live especially as Black people 😞
@rolandbaron5813
@rolandbaron5813 2 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@Harold10ful
@Harold10ful 2 жыл бұрын
But he told no lies Vivica has had the same gear being rude and nasty to all those who come across her using false bravado and has wasted her youth essentially doing nothing and not settling down now she a even more angry auntie sitting there hating like the rest on her show. Kevin was right in his activism trying to warn others not to take the same path.
@bennystewart1859
@bennystewart1859 2 жыл бұрын
Vivica Foxx's Karma is on the way, as a results of her own masculent toxicity.
@SAK85
@SAK85 4 жыл бұрын
Listening to this show, three things struck at me; 1. Kevin really does have the patience of a saint in terms of how he handles female callers who come at him from a combative standpoint. 2. I believe there's a double standard regarding 50 cent. He stated his preference in a woman. People don't have to agree with it but it's HIS preference and he shouldn't be shamed for it. Black women have their preferences in men (6ft plus anyone?), and feel entitled to those preferences - which is their perogative. 3. If black women want to be married and/or have a serious/fufilling relationships they have to be willing to take on [and listen] to the constructive criticisms high value black men have about them i.e. the attitude/weight issue/non-feminity/combative nature. Notice I said "constructive" criticisms NOT bashing.
@charlesficheriii1478
@charlesficheriii1478 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your observational analysis on the show, I must ask, how can myself as a black man be expected to work with a woman of low interest when I don't learn at the same rate that she wants me to? I have had a similar issue in school when my lady teacher wanted the classroom to close our textbook to start another subject, the classroom proceeded to do as told while I was upset due to having more questions on the current textbook.
@vernonpaigejr.1517
@vernonpaigejr.1517 3 жыл бұрын
Hell even the average guy want's something that's simple.
@lingram001
@lingram001 3 жыл бұрын
@@charlesficheriii1478 Your the leader and she's your helpmate. She's supposed to help and encourage you to push further. If she can't understand that, how are you supposed to bring your family thru? Sounds like she's tripping you up with words of shame instead of words of encouragement.
@lingram001
@lingram001 3 жыл бұрын
@RonYo I hear what you're saying. But all joking aside, too bad they don't understand what men want.
@m.o.bmindonbusiness5584
@m.o.bmindonbusiness5584 2 жыл бұрын
His patience ,poise and ability to articulate his point so eloquently is what made him so dynamic...Mann we really lost one fellas..R.I.P Godfather Samuels
@Havoc62
@Havoc62 4 жыл бұрын
I view women asking men what they want as a rhetorical question. They don't really care about what he wants, what they are really asking is "Who do I need to pretend to be long enough to get what I want from you." It's one thing to hear what's being said, but something totally different when you learn to listen.
@TheWholeWorld1
@TheWholeWorld1 3 жыл бұрын
“Who do I need to pretend to be long enough to get what I want from you.” Bruh! You just cracked the matrix with that one!
@Jay-yy7uk
@Jay-yy7uk 3 жыл бұрын
Great point. 100% true.
@jazzonation7987
@jazzonation7987 3 жыл бұрын
And no joke, even trying to break it down like this, they'll respond to it all the same like they do ks. Lmao despite them telling you "I know what you mean"
@walkthedon
@walkthedon 3 жыл бұрын
OG statement
@ManoftheMostHigh
@ManoftheMostHigh 2 жыл бұрын
Listening is a skill...everybody hears , many Prerend to listen while they think of quick ways to slither out of truth and facts...
@donovanjackson7999
@donovanjackson7999 4 жыл бұрын
At minute 44 i said the exact same thing on oshays video on this. Whats exotic to the average black man is normal to other men. Femininity, being in shape, having home skills, being submissive. Just those behaviors make the average white woman exotic to black men
@blackcurls1415
@blackcurls1415 4 жыл бұрын
If certain bw have to be taught those basic things, they’re already behind since other women know that’s the bare minimum
@bobrew461
@bobrew461 4 жыл бұрын
6? More like 4! :-0
@nammyhorengekomrlotussutra6497
@nammyhorengekomrlotussutra6497 4 жыл бұрын
@@lifesgood1936 Wtf is u talking about??? Shaka Zulu.. This is the so called civilized world ! And it doesn't matter if you or we were the best leaders .... You ultimately choose who u follow and we have always had great leaders but do women listen to them?? If it's Selectively = selective progress !!
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 4 жыл бұрын
Have you ever wondered why?
@GemNini
@GemNini 4 жыл бұрын
@Amelia MacCarthy yeah we called them Karens
@nikolaivista920
@nikolaivista920 2 жыл бұрын
R.I.P. Mr. Samuels. You will be missed! Thank you for the wonderful work you did. And thank you for caring!
@communitysolutionspro1520
@communitysolutionspro1520 4 жыл бұрын
You told the older woman right. I’m 47 and get mistaken for my 30s but I feel my age and I understand the point is the endgame and your legacy.
@stallionshark1726
@stallionshark1726 3 жыл бұрын
If that is you in the pic, you look 47.
@lisae3357
@lisae3357 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@frankwhite9170
@frankwhite9170 3 жыл бұрын
@@stallionshark1726 exactly. The delusion is real. Why do they always have to exaggerate so much?😂
@communitysolutionspro1520
@communitysolutionspro1520 3 жыл бұрын
@@frankwhite9170 funny how people who want to insult dont have their picture up. Thanks for the attention. I dont need to make anything up thats what people say to me.
@frankwhite9170
@frankwhite9170 3 жыл бұрын
@@communitysolutionspro1520 not an insult.
@RealLifeRodger
@RealLifeRodger 4 жыл бұрын
Facts this is why trying to have it figured out by 25 is so silly. You're going to get fired or downsized at least once before you're 35. Then you're going to have to pull yourself up off the mat and get back at it. Finally, around 38 you realize if I just do the work, the right way, for the right reason, the outcome will come out in your favor more times than not. When you realize that you can't control the outcomes, you take a lot of stress off yourself. Just do the work brothers. That's what Kevin has done.
@grindhard4312
@grindhard4312 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a plan. This is where I am!!!
@benh2156
@benh2156 3 жыл бұрын
This comment is gold! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
@shanemurphy7277
@shanemurphy7277 2 жыл бұрын
This is very true, articulated perfectly!
@kennethhopkinsjr.821
@kennethhopkinsjr.821 3 жыл бұрын
That slap sound bite be killin me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@termitez97
@termitez97 4 жыл бұрын
A 55 year old woman that is dellusional, is sad. God doesn't send you a husband, you must prepare for one. God also said submit to your husband. I see to many of our Black women in this state of delusion.
@IAMblackman1st
@IAMblackman1st 4 жыл бұрын
Ole girl was so worried about getting used up she died on the vine lmao.... It's obvious black men are supposed to suffer in silence but in reality we've just silently been making moves but no longer will that be the case.
@dylanjames1523
@dylanjames1523 4 жыл бұрын
The sad thing about the 55 y/o caller is she's the type of mama that I'd have to deal with when dealing with her daughter. That's why I check the mothers too before I date them seriously.
@dylanjames1523
@dylanjames1523 4 жыл бұрын
@Sofia X I meant check like inspect. To make sure she is even sane enough to deal with on a regular basis. I learned my lesson cuz now my daughter has a crazy ass grandma that don't nobody like or takes serious.
@christianpaul-cp6746
@christianpaul-cp6746 3 жыл бұрын
@@dylanjames1523 speaking true facts. Her mother is a preview of what's to come.
@Joseph-yk2zy
@Joseph-yk2zy 3 жыл бұрын
My brother you are so right ,your smart to see and deal with that red flags immediately. I’ll be honest I messed up years ago not running immediately when I saw red flags with the mother of of ex. A family member of my ex at that time came to me and said don’t stress keep doing what I was doing. I should have run immediately. I promise I been through hell I’m blessed to even be alive now. Now I see red flags with some brothers and I’m like bro bounce get the hell away from her while you can.
@ameado2010
@ameado2010 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I did that before I got married.
@Rory-ct1zu
@Rory-ct1zu 3 жыл бұрын
Just from her conversation reveals she is a problem from the start. No one wants to deal with that
@terrencetolbert5051
@terrencetolbert5051 2 жыл бұрын
Man...I was actually watching his last broadcast not knowing he had died that morning. I still can't believe he's gone. It took me awhile to start watching again. It's sad knowing that he was on to something but we'll never hear anything else. Man...I miss this dude. RIP Kevin
@windellclark5157
@windellclark5157 2 жыл бұрын
He was never afraid to speak on his own mortality "We don't have too many sunsets left.." while speaking to women and time when trying to express you don't have the time to be waiting for the perfect man..
@guysofly4315
@guysofly4315 4 жыл бұрын
Theres a video of Vivica admiting she was wrong for how things ended between her and 50, saying he was oldskool and wanted to lead but she wouldnt let him. Now this??? 😂😂
@mr.tonywilliams1236
@mr.tonywilliams1236 4 жыл бұрын
Not surprise she needs to go get her a cat and chill she's done
@blackymo5430
@blackymo5430 4 жыл бұрын
well thats for the cameras , honestly he might be a down low
@guysofly4315
@guysofly4315 4 жыл бұрын
@@blackymo5430 well she clearly aint over him 15 years later
@blackymo5430
@blackymo5430 4 жыл бұрын
GuySoFly 52 he gayish she learned 🤷
@MsDragonbal776
@MsDragonbal776 4 жыл бұрын
@@blackymo5430 stop with the silly highschool shit
@poloparachutes9983
@poloparachutes9983 4 жыл бұрын
1:55:29 I’ve met women who preached they are “disgusted by men” and “men are trash”, but yet she wants to be spoiled? lmaoo what HVM will want to deal with a mindset like that
@nicklausb
@nicklausb 4 жыл бұрын
......what MAN (of decent value) will?
@giggiesurge
@giggiesurge 3 жыл бұрын
Serious daddy issues and self hatred. I'm assuming penis envy as well, I know a lot of bitter women secretly wish they were men because they think it would solve their problems like it's men's fault they are unhappy.
@winwinwin481
@winwinwin481 2 жыл бұрын
A broke man wouldn't even want to deal with that 🤣
@A.Brooks23
@A.Brooks23 3 жыл бұрын
I love Kevin. I’m glad I have been tuning in. I watch his videos now like I watch Bobby Hemmit. I am a 39 year old black woman, been married going on 11 years in October. I’m am so glad to have married at 27 because it is rough out here. I would like to apologize to the black men because I did not know it was this bad for y’all. I am deeply embarrassed at my fellow women and also at my self for not treating a man I dealt with at one time very badly. Now I know the error of my ways and I understand now thanks to Kevin. I never knew my dad and now listening to these videos I am receiving the guidance that I needed as a young woman from a real man. Even as a married woman, I can take things from what Kevin is saying and apply them to help become a better woman moving forward in life. Kevin has helped me to understand things that I had no idea about as far as being a woman. Thank you Mr. Samuels. To all the men out there looking for love, keep your heads up, we wouldn’t want that crown to fall King. Be well. 💋 Ase
@flutebabyg
@flutebabyg 3 жыл бұрын
Ironically, being natural is “exotic” in the black community nowadays
@fboyd109
@fboyd109 Жыл бұрын
But it's not shunned upon, that's the part that yall keep misinterpreting with bm
@beauty4u132
@beauty4u132 4 жыл бұрын
As a 42 yr old Woman, I completely agree with his Spanking of the 55 yr old. Wow! very insightful! I really appreciated that example.
@SimplyDarlene09
@SimplyDarlene09 2 жыл бұрын
Oh so this why Vivica responded to his passing the way she did… he didn’t miss though! RIP Kevin 🙏🏾
@milehighgambler
@milehighgambler 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. She hated that he called her out. Rest In Power Mr. Samuels
@primolivingbc5138
@primolivingbc5138 4 жыл бұрын
The 55 year old has that party voice......... I know alot of older females who have been "single" their entire lives and have that party voice..... they all have horrible attitudes also.
@hendrixjoe555
@hendrixjoe555 4 жыл бұрын
@Trav yep it's a "bar voice"
@AL-Boogie.
@AL-Boogie. 4 жыл бұрын
You said it right. Bar chick voice or the older woman who looks and acts younger at the gym voice!
@kilduce4423
@kilduce4423 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. She’s definitely blacked out drunk plenty of nights out in her 20s
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
3 - I have no clue, because neither one of them occupy my attentions.
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
Why Ms. Fox do that to her face?
@moneymitch5839
@moneymitch5839 2 жыл бұрын
This is why Vivica is salty. 😂😂😂
@NICKEYBLACK35
@NICKEYBLACK35 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I came here to hear....lol
@JayloveTheFoodguy
@JayloveTheFoodguy 2 жыл бұрын
She wanted that get back...
@DarylLII
@DarylLII 4 ай бұрын
To This Day!!
@adayah6772
@adayah6772 4 жыл бұрын
We black women need to take responsibility of all our actions in everything... Including failed relationships... The work is big but totally achievable. We must stop the blaming game... Blaming parents, blaming teachers, blaming exes, and stop blaming ourselves too. I believe that there is self hate inside our temples. It's costly but when we hire a personal life coach and do the work... Life shifts. It take deep work through digging to the roots... But then we start learning about self love and acceptance and all the good things in life. When we change... The world surrounding us changes. It hurts but this man is right, we had our chances and blew it because our knowledge was limited. I told my 14 years son that he can have any woman that he wants as long as he is happy! The funny thing is if we make us a priority in our lives, actively investing in ourselves, yes put us first even before kids and cats and mamma, we attract higher quality men, effortlessly. Much ❤️ to humankind
@chrisb1906
@chrisb1906 3 жыл бұрын
A black woman admitting they need to take responsibility,lemme check the weather.... I think hell done froze over
@RLO26
@RLO26 3 жыл бұрын
Love this accountability! Wise women beyond her years!
@chrisb1906
@chrisb1906 3 жыл бұрын
As black men we have alot to do as well as far as taking responsibility for our behavior
@steelesharpensteele6252
@steelesharpensteele6252 3 жыл бұрын
@@chrisb1906 stfu
@kingzr-oxxx9149
@kingzr-oxxx9149 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a black man and I love exotic women. Always have. Hell I got one right now. She's beautiful as hell. And I'm 43. Never been so happy in my life.
@yolandawarren71
@yolandawarren71 3 жыл бұрын
Date, love, and marry who you want. I don't have a problem with it all. Love is love in my opinion. What I will say is that looking exotic doesn't equate to being beautiful. A person is either attractive or not regardless of race or skin tone. Let's face it, looking exotic just means that a person doesn't look black. As black people we've been program to believe that anybody that doesn't look like the typical black person is attractive. If you possess certain features you can look mediocre and still get called beautiful!
@uncclelocc
@uncclelocc 3 жыл бұрын
@@yolandawarren71 if any one who disagree with his statement called to listen. He only talking about a different caliber of Females. Mostly the kind of Females who don't need to leech off of him.
@ShadowbannedbyYoutube
@ShadowbannedbyYoutube 3 жыл бұрын
You sound moist though.....
@daniescott3000
@daniescott3000 2 жыл бұрын
Vivica has been a joke for years, I remember when she first got with 50(2003-2004) I knew then she was gonna blow it. She got too comfortable and thought she was irreplaceable,and she clearly hasn't gotten over it.
@johnpotter7018
@johnpotter7018 2 жыл бұрын
I’m really going to miss this brother, he was the truth.
@PASSDA
@PASSDA 4 жыл бұрын
Considering our women suffer with the bare minimum; Ive walked away and work on my value mentally, spiritually, and financially.
@ameado2010
@ameado2010 3 жыл бұрын
Bro you are correct. Most women want to just ride your wave. Then when things does not go they way they wanna leave and cheat. Self care goes along way.
@etherbeing
@etherbeing 3 жыл бұрын
You speaking that true light!
@akultisgod5538
@akultisgod5538 4 жыл бұрын
"youre old like me and you talking like a silly girl" 😂😂😂
@daniellesdelight6305
@daniellesdelight6305 3 жыл бұрын
" Halfway to the grave !" LoL love it
@juliusmoore2176
@juliusmoore2176 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I married my wife when I did. Sounds like the dating scene is so brutal nowadays.
@celeste982able
@celeste982able 3 жыл бұрын
So true. Me too.
@sirreginaldlee3576
@sirreginaldlee3576 3 жыл бұрын
she cheating bruh
@johnk6534
@johnk6534 3 жыл бұрын
It's just your turn...
@1stone379
@1stone379 3 жыл бұрын
VERRRRY
@shakeelmuhammad2050
@shakeelmuhammad2050 3 жыл бұрын
@@sirreginaldlee3576 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@rafeeqwarfield9690
@rafeeqwarfield9690 4 жыл бұрын
all the shows are good, but this one was off the chain 😂😂😂
@Towoawawabo8
@Towoawawabo8 2 жыл бұрын
Shemon😂😂😂
@dwadeisajerk
@dwadeisajerk 3 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is I damn near teared up when he said that after everything and all the negativity that black men still STILL want black women and what hurts is it seems like black women don’t want us. From being told straight lies that we don’t like black women to the horror stories spread about us, it doesn’t seem like black women want or care about black men.
@chinito1724
@chinito1724 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy how when he was here I would cut and skip to the good parts. Now he's gone I'm making time to soak in the entire show. KS was the TRUTH
@halfdorkhalfcoolmedia7223
@halfdorkhalfcoolmedia7223 3 жыл бұрын
I’m done, he said that she was half of a hundred!!😂😂😂 Stop man I’m dying over here!!! I love this guy!!
@morelove.5048
@morelove.5048 2 жыл бұрын
R. I .P Godfather your work will lives on! You were an inspiration.
@kejuanlynette8531
@kejuanlynette8531 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, young men and women should heed his advice. You don't have to agree with EVERYTHING He says, but being marriage minded and preparing for said marriage should be a serious focus.
@winnifredmiller7759
@winnifredmiller7759 2 жыл бұрын
Hey gentleman…why did you leave so early We were just getting to understand our place here as black families I’m still in shocked I am thankful for your time sir I am glad you left this legacy We heard you & im clearly getting better Rest well …..
@MoreThanJustAPrettyFace
@MoreThanJustAPrettyFace 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. I hate he's gone. We need this knowledge
@elplatanogoya21
@elplatanogoya21 2 жыл бұрын
Man, watching all of your older videos is haunting knowing you're not longer with us. This year is mine, and it is thanks to you. Say hi to my family with The Most High for me Godfather. Rest In Power.
@tanyabeale4232
@tanyabeale4232 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna thank u Mr Samuels for bringing awareness to the black woman community about what is really going on. I heard about u from my cousin and she wasn't impressed with the way u express ur opinion. I understand u because I've been married to the same man for 20 yrs and he is definitely very honest and expressive in what he believes in. But I can say that at times the way u talk to certain woman comes across a bit disrespectful but at the same time u give us woman the harsh truth. Thank u and I'm so glad that I'm amongst the group of black woman that is married. No I didn't marry a high value man in the beginning but currently my husband is a man that over the course of time he now makes 6 figures. He has always been a man that would work 2 or 3 jobs to provide for our family and he married me and I already had another man kid then I gave him 3 kids throughout our marriage. I have much respect for strong black men all over the world and in my opinion there's nothing better then a black man. I'm very happy married too my husband after 20 yrs. I feel very sorry for all the single black woman who has to date during these trying times but love is out here. Plus I have to admit that I do keep up with myself meaning I make sure I look good even after having 4 children my body is still looking good, I don't wear lots of makeup and I'm definitely a woman that understand my place in this world. I'm a very feminine woman at all times. I've dated other men with money but what I truly prayed and ask for is just simply a man that will love, respect and cherish me as a woman and no I was never looking for a rich man because I definitely don't make lots of money but I was blessed to have a man that loves me and yes he now makes 6 figures. Not because I wanted him too but because that was his goal and all I did was support and stand behind him. I'm a woman that is 41 yrs of age and I've been wit my husband since I was 21 yrs of age. My out spoken husband help keeps me looking as good as I look because he tells me the truth and yes I definitely listen and trust my husband word.
@mac7114
@mac7114 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin you have the best set up ever! Just overall how you run your platform resembles boss life. Salute
@RahsaanKnight
@RahsaanKnight 3 жыл бұрын
" I don't give a dam about how you feel. You were born in 196- f%$#^- 5". Quote of the year. I don't understand how this young man hasn't been on GQ Magazine cover yet.
@carboy101
@carboy101 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh... That made my start laughing in the middle of the office.
@brixtonmystery
@brixtonmystery 3 жыл бұрын
“Young man” is a stretch lol
@ladyak6279
@ladyak6279 2 жыл бұрын
Ahhh so now we see why Ms Fox had so much animosity. Vivica you could have confronted this man when he was living. Now that he can't challenge you, you have much to say. We see you "Queen".
@rolandbaron5813
@rolandbaron5813 2 жыл бұрын
Fact!
@jrnostressproduction4788
@jrnostressproduction4788 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@larrykillebrew
@larrykillebrew Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad we see the real VF👎😤
@brianmoru1123
@brianmoru1123 3 жыл бұрын
Keep doing what you do bro, you are helping us men alot , this femine movement is killing us . Men
@izdirty9117
@izdirty9117 2 жыл бұрын
This man Going on Vivica in the grave 🤣🤣✊🏾🖤💯
@jimdino77
@jimdino77 2 жыл бұрын
It all makes sense…… rip bruh
@NightRidah777
@NightRidah777 3 жыл бұрын
"55, there ain't much left to use" .... Savage 🤣🤣😂
@clmk28
@clmk28 4 жыл бұрын
That is so true about a man turning around his life for the better in 3 years especially if he has a mentor. I have seen this happen with my own eyes
@twintailsanimations4973
@twintailsanimations4973 3 жыл бұрын
Would like to see a show on this.
@JohnTube2K
@JohnTube2K 2 жыл бұрын
Man too bad this guy passed away… i was so late to the party with his videos. I’m a high value man and earn $250k/yr and a lot of what he says rings true.
@carl5438
@carl5438 2 жыл бұрын
MTR, Crimson Cure, and Mr. Dennis Spurling KZbin channels will care on the message. Check them out.
@JohnTube2K
@JohnTube2K 2 жыл бұрын
@@carl5438 Thanks bro
@KenHSr
@KenHSr 4 жыл бұрын
They want God to fix it. In the form of a Beta Provider Simp. With no backbone. And, who is going to give her all his resources and the control. With no credit for his efforts. Just disrespect.
@thedarkknight7924
@thedarkknight7924 4 жыл бұрын
Since Vivica Fox is in this blog and we are talking about getting high value men, Independence Day had a man that was a Captain in the Marine Corps (Will Smith) failing for a stripper (VAF). This type of media BS is why low value tries for high value.
@altinawashington-key5675
@altinawashington-key5675 3 жыл бұрын
Wow facts 👏🏽
@craigtrusty3496
@craigtrusty3496 2 жыл бұрын
And she was a single mom
@stella9624
@stella9624 2 жыл бұрын
@Victor Johnson rank absolutely changes value. What is the point of ranking otherwise. You only need one captain to 100 soldiers (or whatever measure you want to apply). There's a reason for that.
@Tazmanian_mma
@Tazmanian_mma 4 жыл бұрын
Every time he starts playin that “Money World”song i start dying 😂😂 that song low key hard though even though I don’t understand em lol🔥
@taqeeyazeed9064
@taqeeyazeed9064 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother for your inspiration and the courage to take a stand. By the way, I bought my first pair of JMM frames.
@nursedavis5653
@nursedavis5653 2 жыл бұрын
KS was correct no one especially black women dont like an outspoken black man.
@damiancallender6621
@damiancallender6621 2 жыл бұрын
Ooooooh. This is why Vivica is big mad and celebrating the passing of the God father 🙄Thx KZbin algorithm.
@Jean120483
@Jean120483 2 жыл бұрын
YOU ALREADY F'N KNOW LMAO
@HighFrequencyRadio
@HighFrequencyRadio 2 жыл бұрын
Yes this is the reason.
@timothybright7064
@timothybright7064 2 жыл бұрын
A week ago Kelvin Samuels has Passed On. Kelvin spoke Truth about Vivica & the group of Women associated with Her. Vivica Mocks Kelvin's Death, but Still Kelvin is Right about Her!
@misslc7864
@misslc7864 Жыл бұрын
He's dead and she's living so who cares what a dead man thinks
@dmack1988
@dmack1988 3 жыл бұрын
Reason why I’m very attracted to a short hair black woman, I accept the sew-ins but short hair Nia long I’m crazy about. The weaves cool but I love a natural Afro Angela Davis... where those women at, and I know it’s not the 70s but I’ve seen a lot natural hairstyles BGM wear that kills it.... but don’t get it twisted black women, black ppl in general are trendsetters period.
@madeinresitasometimeago3970
@madeinresitasometimeago3970 3 жыл бұрын
Bro. I'm white (from Europe). Would you be so kind to tell me why black women wear wigs? I really don't get it. I could never date a woman who wears wigs or hair extensions (they use those here too). With respect, Flo !
@jamesrichmond7568
@jamesrichmond7568 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy that he said Thursday is his favorite day and he ends up passing on a Thursday.. RIP
@nobodyknowsforsure
@nobodyknowsforsure 4 жыл бұрын
This man...is an absolute genius...I'm gonna watch a few more to confirm - but this is quality content.
@ansarali4053
@ansarali4053 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Kevin, I think Tomika was missing the point that dying alone in this context of data means, 3/4 black women never gain a committed relationship, marriage and the chance to live a life with a loving man. Her view of the data is the soul leaving the body death part without realising many people die in loneliness and misery even before the soul leaves. Maybe if you explained it that way, she would have understood the point you're trying to make. When she hears 3/4 will die alone, she's focused on the dying (end point) as opposed to living alone. Hope that helps :)
@sillyme1642
@sillyme1642 3 жыл бұрын
You don't think he knows that.. she was so intent on making a point it went over her head she wasn't trying to understand him. If you understood what he meant so did she and this is coming from a BW
@JulianJ58
@JulianJ58 4 жыл бұрын
"You can just sit right there and watch me make money." 🤣 Priceless
@Towoawawabo8
@Towoawawabo8 2 жыл бұрын
True that, I missed him
@Sociallydetached
@Sociallydetached 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I stopped playing the friend zone with women!!!! Dear men, stop playing the friend zone and put them on the blocklist
@DanielSquires
@DanielSquires 3 жыл бұрын
Men can always make more money, but women can;t make more time. Either way, man or woman, get real with where you are and start making progress immediately doing the best with what you can control.
@lindathompson9357
@lindathompson9357 2 жыл бұрын
Kevin you will surely be missed.
@daniescott3000
@daniescott3000 2 жыл бұрын
Too many Black women want high value Black men to settle and it'll never happen.
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin is truly multifaceted. He is so deep and serious but definitely can be hilarious.
@lowbo47omsascotave
@lowbo47omsascotave 2 жыл бұрын
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ I'm only subbed to a handful of platforms on YT. There were only two who's notifications I looked forward to...and one is now no longer with Us. Rest easy KS. You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
@JackaLBLK
@JackaLBLK 3 жыл бұрын
For your convo around the 40:00 mark...what resonates with me is that this society (non-traditional, progressive, etc) has all the roles and expectations flipped upside down so that all standards of living and roles are OPPOSITE to what should be the standard for a normal, functional society. This is why our “community” (more accurately, our demographic) is so out of order, and our women are going unmarried, uncovered, vulnerable, and miserable. Our men need to go back to our code, and be leaders once again and put things back in order
@antoniaedwards4347
@antoniaedwards4347 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I totally agree with you!!!
@carpetcleaningtrainingwith9394
@carpetcleaningtrainingwith9394 2 жыл бұрын
Big king we love you thanks for exposing these wicked jezebels . Your a Very Wise man, a true Unicorn 🦄
@Courber99
@Courber99 4 жыл бұрын
It's sad when people in our community, use career oriented to hide wrong choice...other community seem to have a family and a career...Love the show KS
@flashsanders1331
@flashsanders1331 2 жыл бұрын
Mature seasoned Black Ladies , 👂🏾 listening, it's what an art. Both are winning on some levels but not on others.
@elisha1973
@elisha1973 3 жыл бұрын
What I heard from the 55 year old woman was, I need a retirement plan. Her plan of living her life may have been fun but it didn't pan out. I do not believe that she would be looking for a serious mate like a husband unless she is trying to secure her financial future. I say this because she seems to have never taken relationships serious enough to have one .
@BLUEGUTTA
@BLUEGUTTA 4 жыл бұрын
“You’re half a hundred” yoooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀🤯
@-quarlaCarla
@-quarlaCarla 3 жыл бұрын
Who Kevin hes 51 and yet wanys to call people over 30 old and middle aged😂😂😂
@gabrielisrael4063
@gabrielisrael4063 3 жыл бұрын
Just learn man you are not on his level 100% guaranteed if you are talking trash
@TheresaTrychanel5
@TheresaTrychanel5 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not too familiar with this guy..but why does he talk down on women that are over 29yrs?!
@gabrielisrael4063
@gabrielisrael4063 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheresaTrychanel5 wow that is a really hard question to explain without texting a whole essay. I think it will benefit from studying a different perspective so you can improve your game. Watch about ten videos and understand if not watch alpha male strategies both black men.
@BLUEGUTTA
@BLUEGUTTA 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheresaTrychanel5 because that’s around the age women become less desirable and their competition w younger more desirable women come into play in the dating arena it’s the “ danger zone” because women over thirty find it hard to get involved with the top 20 percent of men. And getting married at thirty plus is not common.
@justinmarch5095
@justinmarch5095 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 64K🎉🎈🎊🍾
@ericsutton9853
@ericsutton9853 4 жыл бұрын
News flash also, mature men don’t want a woman challenging them, respect is respect no matter the wealth. I
@kam.kam.
@kam.kam. 4 жыл бұрын
“Behind that preposition.” 🤦🏿‍♀️😩😂😂😂😂💜
@paulg.2103
@paulg.2103 3 жыл бұрын
I want this man's playlist.... I'm digging the intro
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 3 жыл бұрын
@Paul G. I’ve said the exact same thing. His taste in music is flawless. 👍🎶🎵
@FlurryJoe
@FlurryJoe 2 жыл бұрын
Older well paid men end up with younger females because females don't age well. When you're 30+, youth goes. Being active=sexy. This is why females need to understand the value of cooking and cleaning. They're subconscious involuntary physical activities that maintain a woman's femininity and physical fitness. Think about it. God bless.
@atonydubbw2645
@atonydubbw2645 2 жыл бұрын
What's up Godfather? Another great topic! After surviving the struggles that my generation endured through the 70's , 80's and 90's including my own personal triumphs involving life threatening illnesses and the like? As an average man with a high value man mindset who maintains a comfortable middle-classed lifestyle? Surviving the general disdain/disrespect that the average black man gets from the segment of black women who don't value us is nothing more than a minor speed bump on the road for those of us that are moving forward on that nonsense! Keep on speaking it like I think it! The men are listening! Peace...
@MichaelBrown-zg9wc
@MichaelBrown-zg9wc 4 жыл бұрын
Vivica fox and fox soul crew are bitter because they made bad choices S M F H
@jamarrallen2181
@jamarrallen2181 4 жыл бұрын
The “Old Lady Gang” 😂😂😂
@georgeblair3894
@georgeblair3894 3 жыл бұрын
Not wanting to be held accountable for bad decisions.
@JustBree716
@JustBree716 3 жыл бұрын
Yes as a black woman or should i say woman in general those ladies are embarrassing
@1stone379
@1stone379 3 жыл бұрын
Allll of them...
@damecommander868
@damecommander868 2 жыл бұрын
We miss you Godfather! Congrats on the BET award! Even in your absence you’re still winning and applying pressure! 👑
@darrenrenna
@darrenrenna 2 жыл бұрын
As to Tamika's question about unmarried women dying alone, my grandmother dies at 101 years old having outlived grandfather by more than 20 years. Grandmother passed surrounded by 4 generations of people who owed their existence to her........tell me how children do not complete and fulfill the female life experience????
@theman2017inc
@theman2017inc 4 жыл бұрын
Bitter cold truth and thought provoking, excellent show!!!
@snow40741
@snow40741 3 жыл бұрын
Mr. Curtis Jackson is doing just fine...he has a right to his opinion and has continued to expand his brand and branched out into other fields. Her loss!
@altinawashington-key5675
@altinawashington-key5675 3 жыл бұрын
And they been broke up and she is STILL talking about him!
@davidestick9936
@davidestick9936 4 жыл бұрын
I'm speculating, there's a definite resentment from Black women towards Black men. Being that a lot of our modern dysfunction traces back to slavery, this lack of reverence could stem from a perception of lack of safety due to the rapes of Black women in those times, and our inability to physically intervene and overcome those racists and slave masters, and many Black men not being with their families due to their forced bondage. So for the last few generations, they've been conditioned that they can't rely on us. Not assigning blame or taking a side, just objective speculation.
@innerpowerup
@innerpowerup 4 жыл бұрын
This doesn't stem from slavery. This is an example of the black tax. I mean the penalty we impose on each other for not being white in a white man's world. Women penalize men for this all the time.
@SpyTrader1988
@SpyTrader1988 4 жыл бұрын
That’s interesting
@davidestick9936
@davidestick9936 4 жыл бұрын
@@innerpowerup so in your mind, the problem exists strictly in a vacuum of Black women being mad at us for not being White? I'll pass on that one
@davidestick9936
@davidestick9936 4 жыл бұрын
@Sofia X that's a toxic attitude to have towards Black men and I reject it wholeheartedly. First off, no other race of men live in a country that has spent centuries trying to eradicate them from existence. It would be great if, as nurturers of life, Black women would treat their men with a sense of empathy and compassion. The one thing I'll agree with you on, is we need to stop demonizing women for our shortcomings, take more ownership of our failures and make wiser choices in how we treat ourselves and our women. This gender war in the Black community is disgusting and if we want to overcome our dysfunction, we all need to check our attitudes regardless of what we've been through. Love is our only chance to be great as a community.
@davidestick9936
@davidestick9936 4 жыл бұрын
@Sofia X the only thing women need to do is be feminine, as Allah designed you to be. The only thing men need to do is be masculine and take charge of their lives, as He gave us the power to do. All this cross-gender bashing, I'll leave that to you and all the other bitter Black women and men. I've grown out of that. The blame game hasn't helped either gender in the 20 or so years I've been aware of it, if you think it will in the 20 years to come, have fun. If you listen to all of Kevin's content, he goes just as hard at the men. So again, I won't entertain any toxic man or woman bashing. I have no respect for it. Notice I disagree with you, yet I have not called them worthless, or children like you have done men in your two comments. Like Kevin says, you need to either go to therapy or cut off the friends who are bringing this toxic energy to you.
@seanaluke
@seanaluke 4 жыл бұрын
Lol career Yoga instructor/hairstylist you can't make this stuff up.
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