10 Things INFJs Can Never Forgive

10 Things INFJs Can Never Forgive | INFJ forgiveness can be a tricky thing.. with multiple factors impacting how their infj empathy handles things, usually it has to be pretty bad in order for the INFJ personality type to not forgive.
Yet, this rare infj type is only human. And with that, there are things that cross infj boundaries to the point of no return. Sometimes even to the point of an infj door slam or worse.. a grudge they can't shake. So, do INFJs forgive easily? And what are the things they just can't excuse?
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TIME STAMPS:
00:00 - INTRO
00:49 - Number 1: Pot-stirrers
01:40 - Number 2: Cheating
02:30 - Number 3: Broken trust
03:37 - Number 4: Deceit and manipulation
04:46 - Number 5: Ingenuine compliments
05:37 - Number 6: Opinions expressed as facts
06:38 - Number 7: Being put on the spot
07:31 - Number 8: Hollow apologies
08:27 - Number 9: Being walked over
09:21 - Number 10: Illogical rules and regulations
10:21 - Comment Question!
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[@PSYCH-O]

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[@fredericmartin7148]

Please consider changing the name of your channel to "MBTI Psychology," or "Meyers-Briggs Psychology." As Teckno72 says below, "Please consider not calling the people who watch your videos 'psychos.' ” People in general already think that we INFJs are 'psychos.' You don't need to give them further encouragement to validate their opinions with the current name of your channel.

[@markmountain7981]

I've been called a groomer, look, I'm not a manipulative narrcicist. I manipulate the ignorants to raise awareness in them. That they may change their ways for their own betterment. Thus, they become greater & maybe even betterment me by becoming better than I. I believe in the greater people. I'm just a reminder to the better people because they can be, but seem to have forgotten this truth of themselves. 💖🤘🐸

[@djbond6241]

MORALS ,VALUES, ❤❤❤AND IF YOU BETRAY A🤑😝😜😡🤯🤬🤮🤧🤕👺💀☠ A TRUE (* ALPHA INFJ *) CONSIDER YOU WILL NEVER KNOW A BETTER PERSON THAN A (** ALPHA INFJ...**) AND WE ARE LEADERS ,ADVOCATES, AND WE WILL NOT ALLOW YOU IN OUR POSITIVE VIBES ONLY GANG OF PEOPLE. A PRIDE , A PACK ANIMAL THAT LOVES CERTAIN HUMANS❤❤❤❤

[@djbond6241]

​@@fredericmartin7148 AGREE

[@arlenerivera6631]

100% accurate! As you get older, as an INFJ, you will learn that you are fine just the way you are and you stop playing peoples' games.

[@cjuuljohnston]

Absolutely.

[@somduttadey9767]

It's absolutely true

[@zxad]

Not gonna lie, growing up as an INFJ is very confusing. Things only made sense when I got older.

[@richardoliver8174]

I think aware INJF types all come to the same conclusion and make their own mantra, saying, or thought that we repeat to remind us of who and what we are. Mine is that in every situation I ask myself, “Is this what I NEED, WANT, LIKE, and do I ACCEPT the consequences of my decisions?” I piss people off sometimes with this, but I’m protected and I don’t do anything that harms anyone intentionally.

[@DTheHAge]

Also what you'll learn is that the people who don't think you are fine the way you are (try to change you) are people who are better excluded from your life.

[@genevievebelanger903]

I would add arrogance to the list of what I despise as an INFJ. I usually try to stay as far as I can from these people.

[@sidlopez4599]

Now that you’ve stated that plainly and clearly the universe will keep arrogant people “ AWAY from you ‘hence forward.’ ” 😑

[@philomenaward1833]

It seems the writer wouldnt appreciate or recognise the depth of understanding or the deeper truth the INFJ deals in. or identfy

[@ursanirak2870]

Cheat on me/lie to me/ manipulate me and you are no longer in my heart. Flatliner. No more feelings whatsoever. My brain however will puzzle for a long time searching for the WHY????

[@erezcrestfallen1383]

I will also be angry at myself for not seeing it coming and being wrong about a person and\or a situation.

[@EMichaelBall]

The “why” is very individual and may or may not be influenced by you. Maybe you didn’t put out enough for him. Maybe you did, and he wanted variety. Maybe he was on a narcissistic chase. Maybe he was not a narcissist, and otherwise faithful, but for that business trip where his hormones kicked in and he lost self-control (John Grisham’s “The Firm”). These things happen. And men’s internal clocks are a lot faster and hotter than most ladies understand. KZbin “family feud you’d do what for [$£X]” for a taste. For some men, the “why” is as simple as, “It just happened.”

[@nancykim7352]

But after all I kinda feel bad for that kinda people thinking how pathetic they are and how unhappy life they can have to do such things..

[@erezcrestfallen1383]

@@nancykim7352 On the other hand: "Not my circus - not my monkies. But I definitely know the clowns."

[@legendaryrobb5903]

Betrayal is unforgivable. That might be another category of itself.

[@JoeWasFound1025]

After reading the comment section I really wish we all could have a support group for each other or smth 😂

[@kimberlypagett8031]

Exactly lol

[@sidlopez4599]

This qualifies as such , to at at least some extant. (In My opinion )

[@Casa_de_la_luz]

There are private INFJ groups on Facebook. I’m part of three groups that are very good. Hope this helps! 💜

[@cynthiajohnson9412]

Oh Lord, how do we INFJs even survive? At least there is consolation in knowing we aren't alone.

[@erezcrestfallen1383]

Yeah, when I found out about all this and that finally things became clear.

[@handleguy]

Sensitive INFJ male here. It's my theory that many of us don't "make it". The early days, especially school days are pretty painful. I believe that the difference in the numbers of INFJ males as compared to INFJ females is due to the incessant bullying by the more traditional alpha and beta males. There were times when this seemed to be a nightmare to me. I had no idea why this happened, but it felt completely miserable. As a mental health worker, I'm very aware how young people become suicidal under such constant stress. I'm ok now, but for many years I had what is called suicidal ideation. That is, without a plan to carry it out, but just a wish that the suffering could be over. I intuit that many INFJs do carry it out, and/or withdraw from society to stay alone and lick his wounds. The numbers suggest that the males are more likely to reach this breaking point. Females are also likely to be depressed by the existential pain of constant rejection. If there are any of you who are reading this and are dealing with this degree of stress, please get help. I understand that you may not like to ask for help, but there are times when anyone needs a hand up. There are people who want to help. Please let them. You are too valuable to be thrown away, even if it doesn't feel that way. I can laugh at the term psycho now, because I feel good about who I am and what I have accomplished. I've made important contributions to society. I have helped others who are struggling, I'm glad I hung in there. If I could do it, so can you. Bless my brother and sister INFJs. We understand and care about our siblings.

[@unhiddenhistory]

@@handleguy OMG...thank you! For over a year, I've been suffering from this suicidal ideation thing you mentioned. I never even knew it had a name, but it's great to finally know it's a thing. I was beginning to think I was cracking up in my "not wanting to live or die" funk I've been trapped in for a year. Suddenly, I don't feel so alone anymore.

[@susanbrochin]

This is so right on. Somehow or another we find like minded people. Luckily, I have found many of the same type and have learned to to release those with whom I have conflict or misunderstandings. Sometimes I prefer cats.

[@sidlopez4599]

🐈 😉🙂

[@leevicker8274]

I've learned to forgive, but not forget. Many times forgiveness doesn't mean having anything to do with the person, but not allowing your negative feelings take control of the situation. I've wished others well, but cut many out of my life for such things. What most people don't get is as an INFJ it's hard for us to get close to anyone to begin with, so when we feel like we have to cut them out it hurts. We move on though, knowing in the long term it's probably best for our own mental well being. I tend to distance myself from toxic individuals, but at the same time I hold no malice towards them. I simply wish for them to improve on themselves in the future as to avoid hurting themselves and others.

[@cherylp.3347]

Great attitude!

[@sidlopez4599]

“I’ll say.” 😀 😌

[@sidlopez4599]

👌

[@drewford3205]

Being used as an escape goat

[@PSYCH-O]

Yes! Good one. Thanks for watching!

[@fredericmartin7148]

@@PSYCH-O Drew Ford, I agree that INFJs are often made to be scape goats by other people, I think you are quite right, and this should be discussed by this KZbin channel.

[@bidensucks6792]

If someone tells me that don't love/like me, never loved/liked me, we are not friends or never friends. They will never have a chance to say that to me again. Recently a close friend told me "we are no longer doing this parenting thing any longer" I was holding her one month old child. That was 2015, haven't spoken to her sense!

[@susysnakegirl]

What did they mean? Is their child okay?

[@sunset9729]

When your spouse treats others the way you wish they would treat you. This is painful.

[@kimkeck6266]

Because their are narcissists....we can't give them the supply they need anymore! Just my opinion. He is now my ex-husband. 🌷🙏🤭

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

Or your Mom and Dad treat others the way you wish they would treat you.

[@c.wilson6723]

Yup, ex-husband … after 21 years.

[@angeloesplana6169]

betrayal in all forms aside from cheating can also be unforgivable

[@dalidivinci]

Thought it was, we trust too much...we want to "understand" everyone, which makes us vulnerable and "marks".

[@AkilahOsa]

😭😭These are happy and sad tears😭😭 Happy, because what was said is all true. Sad however, BECAUSE WHAT WAS SAID IS ALL TRUE!!!😭😭😭😭

[@cynthiajohnson9412]

Right now I am feeling betrayed by just about everyone, for a whole spectrum of reasons ranging from broad-scale acts of evil, to not speaking out when they knew something was wrong. I suspected that something was wrong, I've recognized the patterns of social decline for decades. And when I strongly suspected something was really wrong, I shared my suspicions, but I didn't share them as fact - because we INFJs hate when people do that. The data that would have allowed us to connect suspicion to fact was intentionally withheld. It was clear from the beginning that a big part of the full story was being hidden, and who but INFJs would recognize that immediately - but everyone should have known that from the beginning. And suspicious behavior should rightly trigger suspicion of motives and suspicions of narrative. It's not for the powers-that-be to decide what we can understand and interpret - we, the People, are there to check their work. So we want them to show their work, so we can make sure the equation included all important variables (We decide what our values are - they don't get dictated from on high - for reasons we now plainly see) and make sure they 'carried the two', as they say, in their calculations. Just like in one of my favorite INFJ movies, "Apollo 13' where everyone had a pad and is feverishly doing calculations to check everyone's work - because lives depended on getting it right AND everyone was incredibly stressed out. That's how complex problems get solved. Not here's the solution, you don't get to see the equation, the factors, the data, or the broken-down calculations - you just follow our directives....based on a bare-bones story that wouldn't even qualify as a d-movie script. That's why I am feeling betrayed by just about everyone right now. I have to say we, INFJs, are the canaries in the coal mine - that's our job. Seriously, I'm not kidding. That's why we are here. And if we don't raise the alarm when the toxic gases get too high, what is the point of all our gifts and all our suffering? We are less than 5% of the population, but we can still make a lot of noise if we need too. And because we can beautifully balance thinking and feeling we are uniquely gifted in persuasion. You can guarantee there IS gonna be a next time, and we better be ready. That's all I'm saying. Cause INFJs put up with a tremendous amount - but ultimately if we go down, we go down swinging - like Joe DiMaggio, as Tom Petty says.

[@rowan5335]

I'm always amazed how, when that switch flips in my head, I don't care who you were in my life I cannot get away from you fast enough

[@Mi-gc8ui]

1. [0:49] Pot-stirrers 2. [1:44] Cheating 3. [2:32] Broken Trust 4. [3:38] Deceit and Manipulation 5. [4:46] Ingenuine compliments 6. [5:38] Opinions expressed as facts 7. [6:39] Being put on the spot 8. [7:31] Hollow Apologizes 9. [8:28] Being walked over 10. [9:22] Illogical rules and regulations

[@KCobainFan4Ever]

Gas lighting and being condescending. I can’t STAND people that act like I don’t see what I do. It’s the worst insult there is!!!! It’s worth an entire video.

[@obidavekenobe]

your expectations of others are too high. its no wonder you end up in disappointment

[@KCobainFan4Ever]

@@obidavekenobe my expectations are too high because I can’t stand gaslighting and condescension?

[@Self-helper415]

I call manipulation as someone who is “playing in my face”, you don’t get to do that more than once. It’s quite infuriating to me and even more is when someone thinks I am not as in tuned as I actually am and continue to attempt to play in my face. I personally feel like I’m being challenged in a way that test the way I trust myself and what I’m feeling and that’s a problem for me.

[@highfae]

There is no ‘understanding cheating’. Someone chose to be inconsiderate and ignore doing the right thing- if someone even *thinks* of someone else while in a relationship with you, they’re not invested and should own up to that fact- it is that society has trained us into tolerating what we know isn’t actually right for us- and we’ve also been super indulgent and “forgiving” (really just inconsiderate of ourselves) towards cheaters when it should be seen as the most disgusting act you can commit against a person. Killing someone is betraying them to death, but to cheat they have to live with what you did to them. It reminds me of a comedian who was cheated on and the person said “it just happened” and he went on to talk about how there are a lot of steps to cheating, none of which ‘just happen’ all of which you allow to happen, _choose_ to allow to happen. Anyone who would be so inconsiderate, of any person, not just me, doesn’t even deserve to exist, and certainly _doesn’t_ in my life (I would never tolerate a person like that in my experience; maybe the real difference between INFJ’s and other types is that we have self respect). There is no place for such people, that’s why they scramble for _any acceptance they can find._

[@erezcrestfallen1383]

The way I see it, there is a reason between understanding and accepting. I can understand if someone cheated due to self destruction tendensies. But I will never accept it nor for me nor for anyone in my life. I'll hold a grudge forever.

[@r.w.bottorff7735]

At the risk of sounding "ol' timey" or "old fashioned" to society at large, I totally agree with you, and unfortunately, found myself being cheated on myself not long ago. My wife of ten years cheated. At first she said she just "fooled around" with some jerk, but as we tried to pick up the pieces and move on, she kept finding ways for her car to break down right by this jerks house, at night, and caused her to come home at dawn, multiple days in a row with obviously made up stories about how such a coincidence was possible. She only ever admitted to fooling around, whatever that means. Yes, it seems like society (via social media specifically) is telling a lot of women that if you are unhappy in your life you should broaden your horizons romantically and if your husband doesn't like it then that just proves he deserved it anyways. For context, I am a quiet, reserved man of 33 with autism and she was a narcissist that almost broke my spirit.😢

[@erezcrestfallen1383]

@@r.w.bottorff7735 You're not an old timer. I'm 39. I hope you put a distance between you and her. The last thing you need is that toxicity in your life. I mean, life are toxic enough as they are...

[@kimkeck6266]

@@r.w.bottorff7735 before you even wrote it my Ni said "narcissist!" I am that she did that and your pain. 🌷🙏😔☹️💔

[@EMichaelBall]

“There is no ‘understanding cheating’” - Sure there is. I can think of multiple reasons. Maybe he is on a business trip and his hormones kick in beyond his ability to self-control (See John Grisham’s “The Firm”). Yes, many men’s drives are that potent. KZbin “family feud do what for [$€X]” if you don’t believe me. As Steve rightly said, “They don’t even know!” Nobody told them as a teen, that’s for sure! Or maybe the man is around his significant other more often, but she’s withholding too much, or their internal clocks otherwise don’t sync. He eventually overheats and blows. If you don’t feed him, don’t be shocked if he eats, elsewhere. Maybe it’s a narcissistic thrill of the chase - it’s that for some men, but not all. There are different reasons for different men, and your judgment on whether they deserve to live falls beyond and beneath that. Under the hood, it’s human biology that increases biological diversity and genetic fitness, which increases the long-term chances of human survival, regardless of how much the man wants all of her kids to be his, or she doesn’t want him to sleep around. And remember, while *you* may not have cheated, many ladies have. They have their own reasons, subconscious hypergamy bubbling to the surface being the main one. If you’re able to resist that, good for you - seriously. Hypergamy is the most self-destructive female tendency. But not many of them can resist it. If you’re wondering, I’ve never had an affair - yet, I’ve not slept with anyone, and am asexual. But I study others, and if I want a girlfriend, then with some hormonal treatment, I don’t think I’m beyond cheating, however much I’d prefer not to stray. Like in “The Firm”, it might just happen, anyway. Maybe you’ll never understand that concept.

[@phoenixindigo5383]

I don't forgive cheating. I bet this is because I won't do it myself and I expect others to have a sense of morality as well. But, alas, most people don't. It's one reason why I'm perpetually alone although I love being in a relationship. Never cheat on an INFJ...

[@venetiamiller56]

All...so true!

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you for the feedback! 🙌

[@debbysmith5346]

I cannot forgive the last Narc for abusing animals. I forgive her for back stabbing me, stealing half my life savings, and lying to me to my face. When she abused her pets she crossed the line.

[@JoeWasFound1025]

How I wish everyone that came across my mind while I watched this video actually do watch this video, they never know I already have set such huge boundaries with them 😵

[@TC-gx3qn]

All of these are spot on! Well done. 👏🏽 I remember a girl I barely knew was complaining about her husband to me and it immediately made me feel as if she would not be a trustworthy friend.

[@highfae]

Jeez, she was trying to confide in you and you judged her? As INFJ’s we have some natural affect upon others, an ‘aura’ if you will, that tells them they can trust us and that we will have powerful and useful advice for them- call it an instinct, their soul knows they can look to us if they’re confused. People tell me their life story immediately upon meeting me, as soon as they can get me alone; ever since I was a child, I’m not saying it’s always a good thing. I’ve often felt I was the granddaughter in the Grudge that the grandmother channels the evil into, people would always tell me their deepest, *darkest* secrets. But they were reaching from that darkness, for the Light. Which we represent.

[@TC-gx3qn]

@@highfae 😊 She wasn't seeking advice, she was just talking badly about him (no dark secrets-mostly just pet peeves) to me and four other people she didn't know. My wording must have given off a different impression. I have had many a stranger confide in and seek counsel from me, so I know that of which you speak and it wasn't that.

[@jeaniebird999]

@@TC-gx3qn A person that speaks negatively about others, behind their back, will also speak negatively, of you, behind your back.

[@TC-gx3qn]

@@jeaniebird999 Exactly. And the fact that she was doing that about her husband of all people to a group of five people she didn't even know was a huge red flag.

[@jeaniebird999]

@@TC-gx3qn Exactly!

[@Gustavo-lz5mi]

I totally feel identified with this video in each aspect, especially that related to the opinions expressed by bullies in social contexts. Fortunately, I've been able to learn how to retaliate against those attacks in such a way that they are left speechless (unless they want to expose themselves in front of everybody, ruining their reputations). I was able to do so because I never forgave similar situations that happened to me in the past. My conclusions that we all can learn strategies to thrive anytime and in front of anyone.

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

Yes, I'm big on strategies...and destroying my enemies. But they don't work everytime, in front of everyone.

[@ImHisShadow]

Measuring with 2 sizes. Especially since it causes injustice and in-equality. And just makes the individual inconsistant, wich can be for multiple troubling reasons These videos are such a comforting confirmation, and (ocassionally for me new) explanation.

[@mtc-j9i]

Woooooo!!! Lol Number 10 was spot on, but they were all very accurate!!

[@annaandrea8320]

This is one of those paradoxes that make up our personality. We are empathetic yet unforgiving.

[@Anonymous_Anon882]

That’s the way it is. I won’t lonely throw mud on your name (not so directly) but whatever dislike I’ve developed for you off the back of the line being crossed I’ll probably take to the grave and little will change that. I’m okay with that being my vice.

[@erezcrestfallen1383]

It's rare that I forgive about something. But depends on the situation. There was one time that one of my best friends left one of the rooms in my house at a total mess because he had was about to late. I was furious and lashed out on him but later the anger subdued and we went back to normal. Another thing INFJ can't stand is being taken for granted or as one-of-many.

[@BasedRanger]

@@mufflecat This has been one of my biggest fears in my relationships.. That I am nothing more than an adequate enough placeholder.

[@BasedRanger]

@@mufflecat Yes, and I'd imagine that one of the reasons why INFJ's in particular feel so strongly about this is because we are so very discriminatory in choosing those within our circles. We hold them in esteem and want the feeling to be reciprocal.

[@obidavekenobe]

Yes, unforgiveness is a learned behavior. you too can learn to forgive. forgiveness must come from the inside. it’ll make you a better person and improve your relationships!

[@kristannestone1748]

My newest coworker violated every one of these, multiple times, in less than 3 months. And the owners are doing nothing. Instead of staying and suffering, I'm planning to uplevel. Never go sideways or backward. Always upward.

[@josephrockholt5840]

I don't know, I heard fake apologies and that was all my brain was thinking about lol

[@randelclemons5798]

100% true!!! Awesome video. 👌

[@JoeWasFound1025]

Finally someone understands me 😭

[@krisa8969]

I generally agree, though the pot stirring bit has evolved for me over time. I used to get more bothered by people stirring the pot because I didn't like the confrontation that came from it, but the more I understand why someone is stirring the pot, the less it irritates me. I don't necessarily agree with the approach, but it can spark up necessary discourse that may have not been addressed otherwise. For example, ENTPs tend to stir the pot a lot, but there is a reason why they do this. INFJs and ENTPs also tend to get along well, though INFJs may get a bit irritated with their approach.

[@dianahope8776]

This is a good presentation, on point! And believe me, I know ;-)

[@philomenaward1833]

All so true, as an INFJ this is 100% accurate in every way,thank you for such clear articulation.

[@ginarose2066]

I feel so much better to know their are people out there that can relate to INFJs.Every video I watched on the subject of INFJ I felt in sync with. I push people away that come up to me with a fake smile ,talk in an overly nice voice,making me cringe in shame for the person!! I could say a lot more about the people I met already but I have to forgive and forget? Thanks for the videos!🥰It really helped understand myself better ✌🏻

[@mia7065]

This video is 💯% on 🎯

[@tomwilliams6744]

About apologizing, there are others who had upset me. And then I tell them how I feel; and they wouldn't apologize. After that I tell them I want to split up. They don't want to, but I do. So they end up having to accept the break-up. But later on they want to get back together with me but still they don't apologize. I don't understand why they don't apologize when they knew that they had upset me and I don't want to continue with them. But like a fool, I end up taking them back. Things will go alright for a while and then it's back to their crap again. They use the excuse that they need to stay in touch with me because I live alone and worry about me.

[@littlephoenix164]

A lot of people don't apologize because it means taking responsibility for their actions and acknowledging their faults which most are not willing to do. When they do apologize, they mutter a fake apology just to get it out of the way. They lack empathy and don't care if their actions hurt others as long as their own wellbeing is not affected.

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

That's narcissist behavior on their part. They are hoovering you. It's a tactic and a strategy that they use against you. Dr Ramani has some great videos on dealing with Narcs. I was reared by Narcs, so I spotted it right away in your story!

[@smillbarkile3111]

If NFJS. Are betrayed and manipulate Spychologicaly. They won't play shit with anybody. These type of personalities prefer to stay alone , because it is hard to trust other.

[@Jordi7174]

At 0:53. Or Shit Starters as I like to call them.

[@80ladyjay78]

😂same

[@BakedPotato0630]

Being lead on for months, then told by that person who was leading on to stop flirting with them when a joke was said, but they continue to complain about not having a partner all over their social media. More or less a hypocrite.

[@Alex-vc5dr]

100% True.

[@bsmith5404]

Haha, I discovered cheating on our team at an office charity quiz and my reaction became legendary! Then I ‘slammed that door’. Can’t help myself. 😂

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Yup. All of this rings super true.😣

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

You are so correct, I can't stand any of those things. you know me better than I did.

[@missmits5998]

Pot-stirers my mother, trying to ruin my relationship with my twin sister. Cheater, ex... He didn't break up with me I found a picture of them married. Is how I found out.

[@donnajrobb]

I can’t stand being accused of being dishonest, or of stealing, etc. I am as honest as the day is long. If I suspect someone of revealing private information, I will tell them something and say, don’t share this with anyone else. Recently this person somehow got me on the phone and didn’t realize it. I heard her telling someone else, exactly what I told her not to share. She and the person I suspect (who accused me of being dishonest) will both be getting the door slam when I am done with things I have to work on with them within the next 6 months or so.

[@faridaashu5505]

No.10!!!

[@smillbarkile3111]

INFJ.Personality do not forgive easy these people who hurt them. This type of personality don't forget easily either.

[@kacake]

#1 clash of belief #2 contempt #3 cheating

[@SecretUnicorn8]

For me forgiveness is entirely dependent on if the person is genuinely sorry, even if they did something really bad I can forgive if I think they truly regret it but if they are not sorry at all then even if it's a relatively small mistake I start to do the emotional door slam

[@korinhubbert7163]

All of these thing will make me see a person as untrustworthy yes, and rebuolding trust with me is harder that a stranger earning trust from me yes...however I only have 2 things that are absolutely unforgettable to me and neither one is on this list. 1 hurting my child or children. 2 violating people's bodies. Other than that if you are up to the challenge of regaining my trust I will give you a shot!

[@joshuachase9742]

Accurate.

[@shelteredsparrow2736]

I am an INFJ All the above are true

[@mikemerriman7154]

…spot on

[@Teckno72]

Please consider not calling the people who watch your videos “psychos.”

[@fredericmartin7148]

I'm with you 100%, Teckno. People in general already think that we INFJs are 'psychos.' You don't need to give them further encouragement to validate their opinions. All my life people have somehow felt free to taunt me with, "You're just DIFFERENT. You're not the RIGHT kind of person." If you are an INFJ, you are cursed of God, a designated outcast, and an object of ridicule, bullying and other abuse. Like Rodney Dangerfield, you don't get no respect! Thankfully, I'm prosperous enough now that I don't have to work and can avoid people most of the time. I like staying home with my two cats, who are wonderful companions; I've never been done wrong by a pussycat!! By dogs, yes, and by people, always, but never by a pussycat!!

[@rachelheyth3645]

Well! I should have waited till morning before listening to this. You have mentioned at M east 4 of my pet hates. It's illegal to smack a person gard and for a long time right?

[@djbond6241]

BROKEN TRUST LEADS TO BROKEN HEART 😢💔💔💔😢😭💔😭😭💔😭😡🤬🤪🤯🤕🤒💔💔💔

[@BubbleoniaRising]

I don't forgive those who steal the credit for my work. Better luck next incarnation.

[@obidavekenobe]

duh….

[@storygirl33]

Well, this simple video will stir up complex emotions. Strangly, I find that amusing because of the passionate ideas, not because of any pain it may cause. I hope anyone triggered can find a way to address their sorrow. Anyway, to the points here, I find the phrase never forgive a bit severe. I admit I don't approve of any of the behaviors listed and 3 of them stepping on me (others), betrayal, and manipulation horrid. So yes, I'd not have a close relationship with anyone that selfish, but does any well-adjusted person want to establish emotional intimacy with someone like that? For people who are insincere in words, use opinions as facts, and stir up drama, this isn't an unforgivable offense as much as clues into who they may be. With more observation it will be clear who they are and whether it was just a misunderstanding, a one-time thing, or a severe pattern of using people. But people who like to stirr things up, take credit for anothers work and only say nices things to get something from you, do this in varying degrees. Those that do it alot is someone to be watched because it affects you and your work team. So is it not forgiving or just surveying the path ahead for pitfalls and dangers? There's nothing wrong with that as long as you allow what you thought at 1st glance was a poisoness snake to be a garden snake or harmless branch once you get a closer look.

[@ShizuruNakatsu]

Not me. Like Jesus, I am an INFJ who forgives everyone/everything, even if it goes completely against my morals and principles. I love unconditionally, so nobody ever leaves my heart no matter how badly they betray me, or how many times. They can abuse me for years and I'll still love them. I don't like a lot of things that people do. I'm very sensitive and have a strong sense of justice and fairness. I have a high moral standard, and I'm extremely against evil, hateful, or violent actions... But I still always try to understand everybody and love them for who they are beyond that. I was even able to love someone immediately after they murdered my friend who I also loved. Obviously living this way isn't easy... but I can't give up on anybody.

[@juliehofer1940]

Before I even listen to this number one for me is lying.

[@FortuneSeek3rz]

Wouldn't this apply to other MBTI types as well? I don't think anyone would like being treated like this.

[@juliehamor2112]

coffee? chocolate milk? toothbrush? candy? dispenser

[@stephyLynn7]

How do you get an INFJ to leave a narcissist it’s affecting their health but they are loyal and torn…

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

My guess is, show them other Narcs who are using the same behaviors. Especially Dr Ramani's "How the Narcissists Destroys YOur Health."

[@angeloesplana6169]

can you also discuss about INFJs escape goats

[@fredericmartin7148]

Angelo, if you mean that INFJs are often made to be scape goats by other people, I think you are quite right, and this should be discussed by this KZbin channel.

[@susysnakegirl]

As scape goats?

[@juliehamor2112]

my life is so lonely

[@juliehamor2112]

my time

[@juliehamor2112]

as if its your last

[@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142]

Yeah I understand it is exhausting 😊 1:47

[@juliehamor2112]

good boy gone bad

[@Lola-mt1ne]

Cringing at the obviousness of it all.....

[@rtshaw3621]

WARY not weary one denotes caution the other fatigue get it right AI.

[@robbinashmore2578]

As. am. INFJ. I. can. put mean people in their. place

[@joshy0369]

More or less

[@malinichatterji8585]

Being misjudged.

[@obidavekenobe]

try honesty

[@juliehamor2112]

andito na si chito chito miranda

[@juliehamor2112]

tomorrow

[@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142]

I do not cheat I trust you whit my life an you now it !smile 3:46

[@juliehamor2112]

andito na si chito si chito miranda

[@pace1719]

Narrowed it down to 10? Lol

[@juliehamor2112]

meow meow

[@juliehamor2112]

milk? chocolate?

[@juliehamor2112]

i know u were trouble

[@juliehamor2112]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@juliehamor2112]

look wat u made do

[@toniaseats1218]

Sounds like more gaslighting.

[@whereisyourhumanity7557]

Oh baloney.

[@PonziZombieKiller]

Sabotage

[@PSYCH-O]

💯

[@juliehamor2112]

i love the way u lie

[@lrwiersum]

I don't forgive COWARDICE. Face things, be honest and let the chips fall where they may.

[@obidavekenobe]

that’s cold!

[@dustinmaust8380]

You take an objective means of seeing the world, and tag all of this subjective shit onto it...... Get a grip. Content creator doesn't know typology. They are the Miss Cleo of type. All these videos are.