Psychological Secrets: How To Read Anyone Instantly - 7 Body Language | Psychology & Attraction

[@Rodrigo-vw8fy]

My appointments: - put your focus in the same direccion as the other person to understand them (alliance) - Social distances can change, orientations do not - As people move to conection, they move towards pleasure - You can make people like you more, standing at their dominant side (right hand dominant, stand at right side) - Feet orientation tell how invested in the interaction the person is - In a group look for the leader (feets are pointed at him) - Proximity tells you how much trust they have - Bouncy leg, means stress (positive or negative) - Lean towards (interested, paying attention) - Take space to get more power - Change your state -> change posture and breathing - If you know things about the person, without them telling it to you, you gain status in their world (you can do this through reading body postures) - Asymmetry is flirtation body language

[@goat_testicle_inspector]

- shoulder back showing heart to the person is a trust pose - approach people from the side than ventrally

[@nicholasprus2037]

7 tips for sexual attraction

[@ziborgbe]

the posture and breathing will make you bulletproof in every situation , so true . Si that in martial arts, the posture and breathing are so important, so by training it , you can recall it and use in a difficult situation.

[@robertdeanwillea5087]

Thank you David I'm Bipolar and I found your lecture very useful to not let people in my personal space and hurt me.

[@315foss]

"The most powerful hypnotic power-tool is your body." I have an anxiety disorder and depression. This sentence is important to me. note:Feelings=Posture=breathing=tonality plexiglass | heart

[@HaykAmirbekyanTKD]

ventral orientation, or "open stance", increases intimacy and the intensity of the interaction, whether that be increased hostility or increased intimacy. Another pro tip I came up with on the spot just now: Align yourself with others, and if things are going well, align yourself in open stance to speed the development of the relationship. This is all new to me, interesting stuff thanks for sharing

[@shameegbastiaan1723]

As a law student, this is an important video for me. Thanks a lot.

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Glad you found it helpful let me know if you have any other questions.

[@trimbaker1893]

Hello David, If I may share an observation...I was in the tropics and I noticed that Iguanas will rest with two feet facing forward and two facing backwards so they can leave in either direction. When you described the reptilian mind and the foot orientation, I smiled and remembered seeing that. Great video. George.

[@ImSpecialDealWithIt]

Your Enthusiasm Made Me Excited about Learning stuff like these and brought me back to why I startedddd!!! And pushing me further down the next 10-20 yrs of my Lifeee 😆😆😆 it's a pleasure to have just met youuu and will be focused at every min of your free(currently literally can't afford anything else) videos !!! Your work has probably Changed more than you imagine and I'm glad to be one of them 😜

[@VOCALCHEMY]

Ditto

[@bingraobeijing]

at 43:o2, he says:"...They will think it's them!" That is what Lao Zi said in Tao Te Ching about "doing nothing is the best way of doing things", LaoZi meant: you did something, but it appeared you did nothing, because they thought they did it themselves. Very interesting!

[@len5428]

Always over delivering and thorough explanations to make sure everyone gets it! Thank you David. You have changed my life in a incredibly positive way!

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Glad to help, great to know people are getting true value from our work. Like and share if you feel its worthwhile.

[@VOCALCHEMY]

David youre a bright light in my life

[@LoveMoneySecretsTV]

This video Dr. David is so good I've watched it half dozen tkmes! Love the OPEN HEART TRUST TRIGGER!

[@charleswebb9862]

Like how is free, searching so hard for similar videos.

[@carolinasoulshine8949]

There is nobody like you. Thank you. Wonderful teacher.

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Wow, thank you!

[@carolinasoulshine8949]

@@DavidSnyderNLP I have to mirror that back and say, wow! Thank you!!! Hehehe :)

[@VOCALCHEMY]

We're blessed to have you!💖⁺◟(●˙▾˙●)◞⁺💖

[@sariejager1858]

Hallo David. I watch your clips at least twice. Every time I learn something new. HUGE HUGE fan. Thanks a stack for making training available. You're daughters are adorable! Kind regards

[@brandibrownsoutherheartach401]

I'd like to say thank you for posting these videos! You're an interesting teacher. I'd love to hear you in person.

[@zbear404]

31:14 Literally shook because I thought he was talking to me.

[@lazymonsta2007]

oof xD

[@vishavjeetsingh3747]

😂😂

[@zakariatartibian6033]

Holy shit, same here! My name is Zak too lol

[@sebbe138138]

Amazing. I feel that hallucinogens made me think about this stuff. Your ability to put words on it is absolutely amazing. Thanks a lot. Cheers from Sweden.

[@yeabro4038]

LSD😍

[@alister_kroulenko]

I find this video on lsd. I observ very similar things in small groups of people body lanhuage, its like complex dance of physical objects with different vibes that can be calm or intense. Sound of voices correlated to body moves. On raves similar process very syncronised. Today i watch man who live in lions pride and use same things

[@conormccabe4200]

Notice something he did at 32:24 He gives a command for self congratulations and then immediately gives a hard command to take a seat. The people flew down into their seats faster than I’ve ever notice an audience do before. I wonder what this is. It must be something. Maybe giving and taking rapport to snap the audience attention back in place. Whatever it was it is interesting.

[@margaretannsimon7679]

thankyou . i accidentally put three emotions together and bam courage walking. very cool .

[@margaretannsimon7679]

i do believe that trauma can be stacked by emotion and recoded to success . . i think this little accident is the key to starting again . so cool . like this is gonna be way faster for me and everyone i work with . and here i thought the effects amazing after distressing the hard drive . i never thought to boot it up except for the regular stuff . way more powerful . revolutionary like my name . lol . totally grateful . i still feel amazing . we totally gotta meet .lol

[@windrider5845]

Wow! Fascinated! I could soak up this info all day! Thank you! ❤️

[@killx17]

Thanks for posting this for free ❤❤ free knowledge and wisdom at the comfort of my bed also great teacher, had me engaged all the way through

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Wonderful!

[@alanweiss3578]

so i get to the part about leaning and suddenly realize im sitting at a 45 degree angle towards my tablet. this all seems very intuitive and even obvious, which is why its so incredibly amazing to be able to burn away so much dead wood assumptions and replace it with knowledge.

[@whoshotya117]

Came for the body language, left realizing Im a reptile. I am Reptar.

[@darwin4519]

same

[@MrUnder30seconds]

and you are god too, there is only you in the whole universe. ha.

[@martelljhixson]

😂😂😂

[@moethehuman]

I'm a lizard.

[@meganbc321]

The moment your critical facilty goes out, your will power is done. Your will power is a finite resource, but the most powerful hypnotic operator you have is your body. The energy behind your persuasion message is generated from your body. If the feelings in your body are right, your posture will be right, if your posture is right, your breathing is right, if your breathing is right, your tonality is right. When those things are right, it's really hard to do something wrong.

[@AshleyMarieMommy]

Holding on to that situation that was good even in bad …. Thank you! I needed this!

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Glad it helped.

[@milas7816]

Thank you for generously sharing great information!

[@jde9711]

I am so hurt.i said to a guy I was seeing he will treat the girl he was with the same way as he treated me. He looked down hunched a bit and said no I won't. I felt he lied while standing guarding the doorway.i also asked a few weeks before how he felt he looked out his car window to the side said he didn't want a relationship.i felt he lied.twice I asked this. Am I right anyone?

[@hanksh7285]

Amazing, i loved every second of it!

[@hatemonger8902]

You had me at "I watch way too much Supernatural".

[@sunnyshah8434]

he is spiting some gold.love his videos.

[@mominator69]

Ok, can we take a deeper look at "Familiar"? Because if you grow up in a dysfunctional and or abusive home, familiar is not a good indicator of safe and functional but we are still drawn to familiar so in look for a spouse, for example, if we are female and our father was aloof, indifferent, or even narcissistic then we will likely attract and be drawn to people who are selfish, dismissive, avoidant and manipulative, people who do not have our interest in mind let alone our best interest. Be wary if you have grown up in an abusive home that when you meet someone and you feel like you have known them your whole life, likely you have met someone who is like those in your childhood home who may have been the ones who abused you. I am not saying that you won't be attracted to those who tried to protect you, only that a feeling of familiarity may not always be good. Dreams of what we want our life to look like are good, right? When we say "I am living the dream" or "I want my dream life" do we forget that nightmares are dreams also. . . . .

[@MrBeatboxmasta]

He's right about the flashing. If a women did that at the bar, a man would wonder if she did that because she was drunk, if it was a dare, if she was interested, etc. Basically, there would be multiple questions we would ask ourselves. Having said that, it's only because it''s so out of left filed. If she looked at a man and just seductively undid on button on her blouse, we would get the message loud and clear. The only hesitation would be to look behind us to see if we were indeed, the intended target.

[@confidentenglish-masteryou658]

Thanks for the tips, David. They help a ton!

[@josephonuorah6063]

Hi Dr this Joe from nigeria.love u sir. Learning a lot.

[@cynthiamaria2599]

Hi. We have been waiting for hurricane Dorian to pass Florida all day... In the meantime, I have binge watched you the past 7 hours. I like what you teach and enjoyed learning as much as I did. Thank you! Will you be coming to Orlando anytime soon? And if so when?

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

not Orlando, but I'll be in the DC area teaching a seminar In November.

[@cynthiamaria2599]

@@DavidSnyderNLP Thank you for your reply. Do you have a website or facebook that indicates your future events or meetups?

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Hi Cynthia, yes our regular website is www.nlppower.com the specific page with a current listing of our 2019 and 2020 events is www.nlppower.com/2020events There are some active links but mostly just a list of events dates and locations. if you are interested in a specific training I recomend you call my Administrative Goddess Stephanie at 858 282 4663 you can also email her at [e-mail] talk to you soon. Sincerely, Your Friend, David

[@cynthiamaria2599]

@@DavidSnyderNLP Good morning David. I really appreciate this information. I look forward to gaining more insight thru your teachings. Again, thank you! Cynthia

[@samuelmacek8272]

So basicly what i have learned is that the way i was sitting in school for the last year i have been telling all my teachers by my body laguage "fuck you". That actually fits how i feel

[@atanaspashov2108]

Great stuff! Thank you very much. Please give us more of the Hermetics and Kabbalah diving deeper. Thanks and keep up!

[@andhemills]

Earthly desires are enlightenment. Enjoy what there is to enjoy and suffer what there is to suffer.

[@marshallmatters69]

I always knew attention was the key to women. I was always the guy that felt the best move was to not move and let everyone else fail

[@canninerash0311]

Brilliant

[@spiritwoodlive5597]

This fascinating !! What if you have a rare neurological disorder that pulls your body into an asymmetrical-posture involuntary.... this explains everything. Geez Louise!! 😂😂😂

[@arazimargas9045]

Then you look at their voluntary movements

[@CarlosLopez-gy1jg]

This guy is great! But who is he? Where I can find out more about him?

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

check out www.davidsnydernlp.com

[@MrTEMTA]

Same glass of wine, New bottle!

[@aidouninadiro6492]

Great video and fascinating stuff

[@ilenek.5428]

I love this!

[@Te_arra]

It sound like I’m getting a psychology lesson from Tony stark 😂

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

is that a good thing? Didn't anyone else do the reading?

[@guyeshel9316]

This is brilliant

[@phataton8206]

Yay. Both ears.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

I've noticed "micro expressions" on someone who had ill will towards me... For the most part their act was congruent, but every so often i'd get a break where i could see how evil it was. Also i could see it if they came to me for anything, initially i'd see this face and attitude they weren't aware they project but it cleaned up soon after they warmed up.

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

cool, was there a question or just a share?

[@ParakeetWhispererKing]

Example: “Right hand dominant” should now be called, “Precision hand”. One hand is mapped for Endurance and strength, the other is mapped for detail management. So you can understand why you’d want to be on the side oriented for care.

[@JoeSmith-xm3wb]

Ryan Reed -What if you're left-handed, do your(these) rules(of body language still) apply? 🐒

[@lookingglassreflection3585]

This is fabulous. I love your channel, David!💗

[@bongoslide]

How would yo approach a narcissist and not give them power over you? better yet how would you take control over a narcissist, please ?

[@cristiebowcher-royce2376]

Ahh... yes try to maintain poker face. Even of they get you to crack remember they can only judge you by your last reaction... when I got used to it I found it was useful to react or not react, differently, each time, would throw them off guard

[@VikingPreparedness]

Good stuff, David. Thanks.

[@jull444]

Which field of study should one go to for this kind of knowledge? Obviously psychology, but does it have a name? Surely it isn't hypnosis, is it?

[@jeffersond4505]

Cryseth In my half century on the planet, I’d say. Meet many people, experience as much as you can. Spend time alone, study human behaviour, the brain and nutrition 👍

[@saradee8435]

nlp

[@vrlegend697]

i am ready i watched the whoule video

[@ozzieaz]

Exactly what's probably going on

[@jaisugrim1]

hilarious

[@dulce4366]

i read this exactlyyy when he said it

[@Mr.Wanted911]

Sir you’re amazing WOW

[@EMC2Scotia]

The neurotic is attracted by the certainty of the psychotic, for whom no gaps or lack is possible. Or ethics, for that matter...

[@Zaprixa]

a lot of info in one thought

[@tubefreakmuva]

Amazing!!! Thankyou very much

[@ddbulley3]

So... Match a persons body language, in a discreet way and you become the leader and seducer? This comment was made at 20:12.

[@adcaptandumvulgus4252]

I wish I could find a good source to help me access my subconscious reliably. So far, it still remains my most elusive goal. Any suggestions what really works?

[@francisrunzel]

Meditation and having fun with it, 5 minutes a day beats 30 minutes a week. Consistency is key. Journalling what comes up so you have a record of your progress and can pick it up easier if you stop for any reason. I'm sure there is more - this is what came to mind. I recommend breathing in for a 4 count, holding for 4, releasing for 4, and waiting to inhale for 4 - it's a great way to tap into your unconscious, and bring your conscious mind along for the ride, so it doesn't "get in the way";

[@jimmythevoice8716]

Chris Brew Mushrooms 🍄. Seriously. Psilocybin. Or Dmt. Or what this guy said. Meditation if you don’t want natural Chemical help

[@LIZZZAARD90]

Holotropic breathwork

[@LIZZZAARD90]

@@jimmythevoice8716 both mushrooms and a meditation practice

[@rab8483]

Meditation. I do it nonstop all day every day. Its easiest to do with your eyes open at work by doing energy work and krya yoga.

[@Democracy_Manifest]

Where do you stand on hair highlights?

[@shannondove96]

Dont stand on it because the container might break open and make a mess

[@TraciMoon]

Power poses by Amy cutting 48:37

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

Amy Cuddy, important reference.

[@pimp8041]

Your the man!

[@techzRR]

pimp8041 hey x

[@MrUnder30seconds]

*you are

[@HarryNguyenHypnosis]

Thanks alot for the knowledge that you share

[@MagicToshi]

you my friend , are a wizard

[@mtdsurveying3873]

How does one become a subscribing member?

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

This guy is Spot On and then some.

[@chrisbailey7820]

Thank you pal interesting info amusing delivery good egg

[@greg0354]

Is this law of attraction?

[@getsmartquick]

thanks for recommending red gold I've been using for basketball and women any recommendations for books on haptics info

[@CarlosLopez-gy1jg]

I want to know which are those 3 magic questions

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

3 mq is featured in the Speed Attraction Videos.

[@vibesandstuff76]

I'm eating lunch across from a woman, she stretches her leg underneath the table and puts her foot on the seat next to me. Is this a good sign?

[@ameliadeshane9192]

😘

[@DaveEntity]

@@ameliadeshane9192 😂

[@OEMPlus]

thumbs up for the winchesters.

[@heckleypanes4988]

Adam is included right?

[@mariaelenadilonex1018]

Absolutely amazing!! Thank you. You are blessed :)

[@whitneyangelie3682]

-34:44, -21:40, 50:00

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

😎

[@houdini178]

Great vid!

[@pontealdiacabron2009]

What you mean with rigth hand stay in the rigth posición can you answer?

[@lisahislebeard5718]

Does the heart thing work on a narcissist?

[@jkm6112]

All humans are narcissists!! We're ALL self centered. Even when we give, it's for selfish reasons.

[@1978UA]

Nothing effects a true full time narcissist.

[@annekerotterdam7499]

@@jkm6112 No! Narcissism is a serious personality disorder. There's a huge difference (!) between narcissism..., egoïsm: being 'self centered'. or ego-centrism. (staying alive) Educate yourself!

[@annekerotterdam7499]

@@1978UA True, it's a serious personality disorder (genetic/brains) You can't 'fix' what's not 'there' right?

[@edwinleahy]

I don’t know the answer but just in general if you know how something works you can figure out a way to hack it.

[@PaulHattle]

Weak handshakes is a very good sign. Women not so much, but if a man gives you a weak handshake do not trust him - imho and experience.

[@chrissymarie7578]

Paul H limp handshakes are the worst

[@leprisonnier7957]

....

[@entre9199]

That guy who walked out was hypnotised

[@navascv8745]

what is he refering to when he say "the world according to david"?

[@kevin-yx1ru]

That's his name

[@AwoudeX]

on the OODA loop thing, alot of people driving cars will experience the overload thing when they need to process too much and their ability to react, drops. I'm somewhat of an extreme case as i've taught myself to absorb my surroundings as complete as possible, so there's alot more that i observe and thus the orientation stage takes longer and the decision time is abhorrent and, well the action time thereafter is normal. I've also taught myself a work around, where i focus on 1 thing to orient myself on, while still observing all. Now imagine doing that in heavy traffic... In order for me to drive safely, i needed to either narrow what i observe or expand what i orientate around. It's taking toll of my attention capacity as the habits of fully observing and single focussing my orientation when needed, have become years old habits that have been reinforced within my brain. Understanding all of this combined, for sure is a half way mark to changing myself for the better as driver :D

[@BlackubayEhym]

I learn a new word, mombojombo 😎

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

😀

[@efethecaptain6]

Now they wont be able to read me from body language LOL _unless they can read the frequency of people_

[@dulce4366]

knowing how to read people both ways makes me feel special and it makes me even hungrier for information on the topics

[@MorganHill8]

Looks and sounds like Tim Allen.

[@antpooler]

25:05 and on is an Example of how we create reality

[@pillkings9710]

Very interesting!

[@mysmirandam.6618]

Interesting and presented in a simple way. Love it....I love minivans btw

[@pamelamagdanz7132]

You are brilliant sir, thankyou. ❤

[@nomorephones]

Thank you.

[@nejcpanic6704]

hey, why you call your stuff bullshit? (at the end) i think its not good to do that. anyways, thanks for uploading such good stuff.

[@prussianmillionaire5055]

just found u.great stuff.

[@ziborgbe]

every thing is question of aliment. As I am hearing his words it reminds me on different emotional states I experienced and different aliment configurations, and I can see now very clearly how there are connected together. Most of a time this is some how intuitive.

[@aaronpoole7322]

‘The slower that time takes’. Does anyone know the meaning of that one ?

[@glenngoodman7272]

Time passes based on individual perception.... There's no such thing as seconds hours or minutes those are artificial inventions of man that we can all agree upon...or not!

[@TheEdge92]

Patrick Jane brought me here. Check him out ;) Im serious! That guy is totally killing it.

[@IReservedI]

He's a fictional character

[@jamesross4319]

@@IReservedI Yep. Him and the guy off 'lie to me' though are great albeit fictional introductions to this and I watched them both with great interest. (The "Lie to me" probably has better science since Lightman was based of a real expert but there it is.)

[@leprisonnier7957]

Where are the concrete things ?

[@TheMerryPup]

Right hand chopped into the crook of left elbow with left middle finger extended. "That's uh. . .that's. . .damn!" Go and watch some more body language videos. 🧐

[@pourkazemehdi]

What do you feel now? -Its just Open...!!! (harrumphing) 50:20 ...

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

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[@edp5623]

I play drums. I constantly lap drum and double bass roll my feet.

[@XeLYoutube]

drum over my 3 x 1 hour album./ its 2 hour metal and 1 hour electro

[@amyp9010]

She said she's not intimating not trying to be rude but since she's too since she didn't like his comment but it looks of her I wouldn't want to meet with her either I'm so glad that guy is into meeting I would go for him he holds himself way better Alexa or fee and strong and looks like he's got personality .

[@DavidSnyderNLP]

everyone is different, you just have to roll with the changes, also my way of asking for volunteers usually starts with me point a finger at you and saying thank you for volunteering.😂