Q&A - Are You Proud To Be Transgender?

[@ALFIE19]

Just found you on tumblr! Thank you so much for vigorously documenting your journey, there are so many people who just do the thing and not tell anyone or document it in any way so in a way. Your confidence is golden. Thanks again :D

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+A L F I E Bless you my friend, thank you!

[@cassidybrewer]

Inspirational speech about being yourself and loving yourself. Happy Sunday!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

thank you. happy Sunday to you too!

[@clarissamiller3144]

I love this Finn. I needed this today. be blessed my friend. thanks for being you.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

bless you too my friend and thank you 😊

[@jillianhesse7087]

I absolutely adore you as well as your dictation with the way you speak; very well spoken. much love finn ❤️

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

that's so kind! thank you so very much 😍

[@wesleytravie-blainewells290]

dude ur so amazing to me. I'm a recovering addict myself ima yr n some change clean . I'm jus so proud n finally bein tru to me n honest n it feels good. thank you for your videos they help me so much Finn you have no idea

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+wesley travie-blaine Wells I am just so glad to help, congrats on your recovery and just keep on keeping on!

[@invalidclosedaccount6810]

I'm struggling with my family's unacceptance at the moment and a lot of other stuff with being trans. Thank you for this it inspired me a lot.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

I'm glad to hear that my friend, it's so hard when this happens and it's important to remember that although you want their support and acceptance their approval of you isn't important to who you are. it's their issue not yours. just be the best you you can be and those that love you will see your happiness and come around. all the best to you

[@TheVeryAngryShrimp]

I'm so glad I found you through Skye! I don't know if I could transition. My dysphoria isn't bad, but I really, really want to transition and get top surgery. And I've made the connections to how I feel and what it was since I hit puberty (almost 22 now). My family isn't the most accepting people, but I'm not sure if I want to lose them. My friends would be more accepting than them, LMAO. But whatever. Baby steps. You're living how you're living. And that's good. Congrats to making it this far (σˋ▽ˊ)σ

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

skye is awesome! it is baby steps my friend it all feels so darn scary early on. I've been more surprised by the support I've got after initially dreading the worst, people that love us usually surprise us! just keep connecting and reflecting and soon enough the way forward will become clear. that's what happened for me in the end. the fear of staying stuck as i was began to outweigh the fear of people's reactions and at that point I knew what to do. good luck in your search and please do message me if I can ever help

[@TheVeryAngryShrimp]

FinnTheInfinncible Thanks a lot for the response! It's something to have a think on, for sure. I appreciate the feedback, as well. :)

[@adrianlane6094]

Thank you, Finn, I needed this today. Although I'm out as FTM transgender some of my family still doesn't know and I was really stressed out about today since we have a family get together and I know I'll be continuously misgendered. I hope you have a good one and thanks again for this talk

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Adrian Lane Thanks my friend, is so tough when family is in that stage of not quite used to it yet, remember you are still you and noone can take that away!

[@garyc]

In terms of TransOxford, take care of yourself first. You might not be as involved as you want to be right now - but any support is great :D

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thats very true my friend, thank you

[@franklittle]

I still have a lot of hard work to do on self-love, but you're an inspiration mate :-)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Frank Little Thanks my friend, I think it is a life time journey this one! Especially after many years of self neglect and lack of understanding from the world en mass!

[@franklittle]

+FinnTheInfinncible You're right. And at least I'm working on it :-).

[@judasplaylists8854]

aww last day of the festival is on my birthday, wish i could go. Great idea though, i love this

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

thanks mate! great time for a birthday treat?!!

[@Ocean_Grove]

Finn you are such a beautiful person. x

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Leo bless you mate, takes one to know one :)

[@wesleytravie-blainewells290]

thank you so much Finn. my transbro

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+wesley travie-blaine Wells thanks my friend!

[@Moosh207]

You're so wise ❤

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah thank you!!!

[@LoganJoannesRollerCoaster]

off topic - I love your shirt!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Logan K Thanks so much!

[@Moosh207]

💕🔥

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

:)

[@shanewilliams7627]

I wish I could transition 😔

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

why can't you my friend?

[@shanewilliams7627]

+FinnTheInfinncible my whole country is pretty transphobic...

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Shane Williams I am so sorry to hear that my friend. where do you live?

[@shanewilliams7627]

+FinnTheInfinncible Namibia, it's a country in Africa.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

+Shane Williams wow ok. is there anyone in a similar situation to you that you can chat with over there?