Q&A - Gardening, Goats, and Mennonite Dress. 👉🏻 (why do men dress more modern than women?)

[@gailrodgers3079]

Years ago I became disabled and when I got to the point that i could no longer do the basic housework and finding that most cleaners refuse to do dishes, I was able to hire a Mennonite girl whose mother came with her for an interview. I think I was being interviewed more than the other way around! Once Mom was satisfied that I was a Christian and there would be no drinking, smoking, foul language etc. Her daughter came to work for me, I am now on my third cleaner as when they can no longer do it, THEY find someone to help me from their community. My current lady has been with me for 5-6 years now. We have become good friends. I appreciate her and her family so much. I make quilts and she knows it so when I told her how much I admired the fabric in a new dress, she brought me some of the scraps to use. God blessed me so much with this woman. I don't know what I would do without her or her community that come and Christmas carol at our home as I can no longer get out to church. While I have no problem wearing shorts or whatever at home, if I know one of the men from her family has to come over for whatever reason, I change into something more modest, which is how I generally dress. I have never figured out how a woman wearing a mini skirt/dress can stand sitting on a chair with no fabric in between her bottom and the chair, and I sure don't want to sit where she has been. Very nice blog.

[@theMennoniteMom]

I'm so glad you could find such good help and become friends. Thanks for sharing!

[@dawn7612]

👍💕

[@alicewhite6051]

the Mennonite Mom 6

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Mennonites and Quakers were the first groups to oppose slavery and I respect them for that.

[@starr6465]

AmericanPatriot That sounds very good, I will research. Thank you for sharing

[@virginiasoskin9082]

Both Mennonites and Quakers are still very much involved in emergency rescue, Red Cross type activities. I am Lutheran and we have the Lutheran Disaster Response organization and we are encouraged to give money to it either personally or as congregations.

[@KiKiQuiQuiKiKi]

Well explained-thank you!

[@miriamhavard7621]

Me, also.

[@misamisa2677]

Sorry 1st were muslims

[@miriamhavard7621]

I agree with you about the siding on the house. I hate when people do needless modernization of an older house. There is nothing wrong with the older aesthetic.

[@connielindsey1464]

I’m glad that you said, “I choose to”. I choose to keep the sabbath, I choose to dress modestly, etc. When you were talking about carefully following the Bible scriptures, I was reminded of a quote that I keep on my refrigerator: “There is a careful way and a casual way to live the gospel. As we consider our commitment to the Savior...are we careful or casual?”-Becky Craven

[@theMennoniteMom]

I like that quote. Thank you for sharing it!

[@melissatamer9193]

Amen! I love that

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

Thank you for that quote. I think I need to post that somewhere in my house, too. :-)

[@miriamhavard7621]

It's pretty helpful. I wonder, who is Becky Craven?

[@messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550]

Exactly. Like Yeshua/Jesus said “if you love me, keep the commandments.” I find the sabbath a blessing, I plan my week for it. I keep the holy days because I see them as a wedding rehearsal for the bride of Christ. I keep the dietary laws because I am a temple of Holy Spirit, and to remind me how important it is to be care what is allowed in my temple. Modesty should remind us of Christ (hence Adam and Eve’s clothes being the first burnt offering). I love my tunic instead of pants, needed something to go with my tallit. I see headcovering as a crown for a daughter of the King of the Universe, a physical symbol of a spiritual protection, hence why the wife suspected of adultery had to remove Her covering during the adultery test in Numbers 5:18.

[@susannpeters8891]

Hi Janine. I grew up in a Mennonite background and I thought you did a great job explaining why the men and women dress the way they do. 👍🏼 You do a great job with your videos.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly!

[@thewanderer1139]

You are fine. One thing about you , you come across honest and kind. I do however think men should wear pants or jeans rather than shorts because women aren’t the only ones that should be modest .

[@theMennoniteMom]

yes, I agree with you. In our specific church, men don't wear shorts unless it's swimming or such an activity. And we women would also were long shorts or skorts for such things. (I don't on youtube). However, in other churches where women wear skirts and blouse (often knee length skirts) then you'll see the men wearing shorts. So, it kind of goes hand in hand. Women that wear longer skirts, the men will usually wear long pants.

[@elic903]

I also agree. I wondered why that was too. We are holiness and we believe in modesty in both men and women. Our women wear dresses and skirts and our the men wear pants. I always wondered why I would see some mennonite men wearing shorts and even sleeveless shirts. Anyways I enjoy the channel. Thanks for sharing! And keep being a witness for the Lord! By the way, i totally agree with that you can spot other modest families while in stores or in other places. Thanks for your explanations.

[@diamondhair11]

@Michele Mcmillian You are so right......The only body I want to see is my husbands, and he is the only one to see mine...or part of it.... I am not a "run around the house naked" kind of woman...i am very modest, even around my husband. I love maxi dresses with a little shirt over it.....I never wear tight clothes, no cleavage showing, my husband always wears a shirt and pants. He doesn't like shorts and he will not go without a shirt, except in the house with only me. I wish we would see a lot more women and men, dressing modestly.

[@staceyjones3261]

Thank you for explaining this in such an honest and gracious way. I’m a Christian but not Mennonite. I appreciate you acknowledging tradition. All denominations have tradition. When tradition becomes an idol, we’re in trouble no matter the denomination.

[@theMennoniteMom]

so true!

[@chantemichelle888]

I like that “when tradition becomes an idol than we’re in trouble” 👍🏼 thanks for sharing that comment. I agree. I’m also a born again Christian 💜

[@monarogers1604]

You are beautiful at your weight. Don't ever feel ashamed. So happy you're healthy.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you so much!

[@stephaniehannah2003]

Yes, I agree. Your personality is just so inviting and beautiful. And even though you wear Mennonite style dresses I see your vibrant personality shine through with your family choices. There's nothing wrong with your weight. You two are happy.

[@mlwilliams7959]

@@theMennoniteMom You don't look like a nun. I was told by one Mennonite group that the reason why the men looked more "current" was because the women's clothes had to be made in a certain style. However I have seen other groups have women wearing more "current" styles as long as it is modest. Is that true where you live?

[@theMennoniteMom]

@@mlwilliams7959 yes. Every church is different. Some require a certain style dress, others buy their clothes (:

[@queenbetsy2]

Another blessings I have found in wearing dresses only? I make my own, all from the same pattern. I have 6 “cool weather” dresses and 6 “ warm weather” dresses. That’s it! Talk about a simple wardrobe. I love the freedom now in not having a myriad of decisions to make about what to wear each day. When one of my newer dresses starts wearing out, it goes into the everyday selection that I wear at home and I make another to replace it for going out of the house. The old dress becomes rags or quilt pieces. I appreciate your candor in explaining this subject. Blessings, Betsy

[@theMennoniteMom]

Yes! I'm with you! I'm not a frills type of person. I like the simplicity of it!

[@paulinedenhartog8969]

you should not feel bad about your weight, as long as you live a healthy life, that is the most important

[@sallyannc3176]

A healthy life does mean controlling your weight - but a better guide to health then simply measuring BMI is that a woman's waist should be less than 30 inches and a man's less than 40 inches. Any more than that denotes fat gain around the middle of the trunk which is the most dangerous for us.

[@kassrripples3659]

@@sallyannc3176 the liver function ... metabolic health is important... I’ve got middle age podge. I’m getting close to 50 though. I worry about my insulin resistance and insulin overload.

[@sallyannc3176]

@@kassrripples3659 yup - your Liver will struggle if you put on a lot of weight around your middle (Non alcoholic fatty liver disease). But what I was saying was that weight isn't just what to look at - my husband has a 'big frame' as he's 6'3" and has size 12 (UK) feet so has always weighed a lot. But when his waist measurement crept over 40" he had some beginnings of liver fibrosis. He reduced his weight by a stone and a half and waist measurement by couple of inches and his Liver tests (LFTs) are back to normal levels.

[@eej902]

@@kassrripples3659 just read swishing with hydrogen peroxide kills a bacteria in your mouth that messes with your blood sugar levels. I recommend watering it down by half before swishing.

[@amishgirl1000]

I agree with you. Clothes shopping for women can be a nightmare. We have very little choice, because necklines are low on almost all the garments. Then we struggle with a fabric being so thin that they are almost see through. Women have to end up wearing another undergarments underneath a top to be able to stay modest. Dresses and skirts in the stores are made very short. It can be totally frustrating to find clothing that is even reasonably modest.

[@theMennoniteMom]

I can imagine!

[@kimkey8758]

I asked Lynette the question about the dressing difference between Mennonite men and women and she directed me to this video An I’m so glad she did your explanation was very interesting an informative thank you I for one respect you an others for holding on to cherished traditions thank you!

[@theMennoniteMom]

I'm glad she did! Welcome! and it's an honor you stopped by.

[@jrrose6689]

I once heard a quote saying "In order to understand tomorrow, we must understand yesterday" and I think about that sometimes, how much we learn from history

[@thesaintmustwalkalone708]

Thanks for sharing!

[@daveanddeb5629]

you are adorable Jeannine! Modesty is the key here and also you are honoring your heritage by the way you dress. You are not standing out to be noticed but standing with your belief in modesty and honoring God and your family. In the end if you are pleasing the Lord, that's all that matters.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you so much!

[@halfmade-homemade]

Yes. Thankyou for being a platform that says modesty is okay as well!!!

[@doreentoman2853]

I grew up mennonite and I feel you did an excellent job of explaining in your video. Keep up the good work. I always enjoy your high quality videos.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly!

[@renmonpic]

I really appreciate & respect your solid position/conviction with your Christian beliefs. I am grateful for your presence in the KZbin world. You are such a blessing & a breath of fresh air!!

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly!

[@melissatamer9193]

I love how you explained modesty. I completely agree with you too. Isn't something that is seems "sexy" for a woman to be more and more unclothed. This is just so wrong and women need to correct that and respect themselves more.

[@theMennoniteMom]

I very much agree.

[@davinakoehn2049]

I appreciate you explaining the topic of modest dress. I know it can be a hard topic to address while not seeming to be judgemental. I am independent fundamental Baptist. We have always been taught modesty and I dress in a distinctive feminine and modest manner. When explaining my convictions I have been viewed as prideful which I am not. I hope everyone understands that someone can have these convictions while still loving and respecting others who may disagree. In the end we will answer to God for our own actions. So I will be kind and respectful to others who will believe differently than me. And I hope that everyone will show you the same respect to you for explaining and answering that question. God Bless! ❤️

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly. Yes, people can quickly think you are prideful if you do things differently. thanks for sharing.

[@daisy-bs8rt]

I'm not Mennonite, But you have explained yourself beautifully. (Even without notes) lol I've wondered myself about the men dressing what appears to be more modern. I respect you, what you stand for, and what your trying to do. Keep it up. Stay you. God Bless

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you kindly!

[@beverleyhill1110]

I am in agreement that too many church traditions can become “religion” when our Christian faith should be cantered on Jesus,. It’s about Him only!

[@samanthaelizabeth8330]

Love how you talked about not letting dressing become “religion,” I go to a Quaker meeting and it’s very similar! Quakers are most interested in the inward journey and clothing isn’t important, but it’s very nice to see how you DO use clothing to show your journey:)

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you!

[@NatalynSchlabach0215]

Hey Janine! Fellow Mennonite here! Thanks for sharing this! Very accurate and as I’m just a teenager I now feel better equipped to answer when someone asks me why I dress like I do 😊

[@theMennoniteMom]

cheers, and thank you!

[@Mrs_Guac_and_Glock]

I'm relatively new to dressing modestly. My husband and I were talking about modesty for men the other day. We came to the conclusion that the fit is very important. Women definitely lust after muscular men so my husband tries to wear less fitted shirts to practice modesty.

[@theMennoniteMom]

That's a good point. God bless you as you make godly choices in life.

[@linak7155]

Brittany, love your head dress! May Yehovah bless your walk! Shalom! 🙏

[@averybell4273]

Yes Fit is important, looser pants on men would indicate modesty to me.

[@narjsskh4487]

My husband and I are muslim, and we had the same conversation! He also wears looser things because of it. God bless you 🌹

[@SarahLizDoan]

Thank you!!!!

[@julielaw7825]

You are so true, kind and honest. As a member of the LDS Church I relate so much to your values. We are sisters in spirit. Thank you.

[@Kindnessmatters2]

I was thinking the same thing...💕

[@kassrripples3659]

Nice to see your comment here.

[@saundramorris5530]

I love being able to dress modestly. I know that we who choose to dress more modestly often draw attention, but in a positive way. I have been approached and actually ”thanked” for dressing this way. I wouldn't change this for the world.

[@theMennoniteMom]

yes! so true! I have also had similar experiences. Once, I very tough looking Harley man approached me. I forget what he said, but he was very respectful. I've noticed it various times, that men tend to treat us (modestly dressed women) more respectfully than maybe they do those that aren't. It's been a blessing.

[@DianeBianchi_MnWx]

@@theMennoniteMom Yes, I noticed that too!

[@Countrydaydreamer]

I & my husband joined a mennonite church in our late 20s. (neither of us were raised that way) At first I HATED the dresses. I was already dressing modestly and wearing a covering.. I didn't feel I needed to change that. But the longer we've been in the church, the more I've realized there is a bit of "unity in spirit", for lack of a better term, for the women in it. It's also so freeing to know I can pick fabrics I love & sew a dress that will fit perfect in only 2 hours or so. You are right about being able to spot a mennonite man, or even a mennonite youth young man. There are little differences that stand out loudly to us, but not really much in society. Also, I'm thankful I don't have to sew pants for my guys!! I think you did a beautiful job explaining the differences! You're heartfelt sincerity was very touching.

[@theMennoniteMom]

I'm sure you did have a jolt! People coming in do sacrifice a lot, but I agree with you. There is something unifying and simple that I love about it. Thanks for sharing! I love hearing from 1st generation mennonites. (:

[@mollystreeter5438]

Hi Janine I remember how poorly you were last year and it’s so lovely to see you looking so much better now. My son has Crohn’s disease and I sympathise with you regarding flare-ups and how much they can disrupt your daily life. Please don’t change we love you as you are, I have always dressed modestly, not because of a religious thing (although I am a Christian) but because I just would not have felt comfortable. I love the dresses you wear but there is so much more to you than your clothing. The kindness just shines out of you and you are a beautiful person. Take care and be safe all of you. God bless 🤗

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you for the encouragement. My heart goes out to your son. It can be such a challenge to stay positive through it all. God bless!

[@lisareinhardt8440]

That last little disclaimer about it not being religion is maybe the most important part.

[@gilliandelledonne4713]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with speaking from the heart. No notes needed. :-)

[@lydiazook4615]

I totally agree with painting the house. So many people ruin old houses by putting vynal on😔

[@_commonthread]

This is so interesting! My sister-in-law chose to join the local traditional Mennonite community (in BC, Canada) after attending a traditional Mennonite elementary school, and her community is much more conservative than your community seems to be, but much less than other communities. She can have coloured and patterned dresses, unlike many other communities, but her husband would never wear “trendy” or fitted jeans or tshirts. In their community the men wear store bought jeans and pants, but home sewn, long sleeve, button up shirts. It is interesting to see the many many levels of modesty!

[@theMennoniteMom]

very interesting. Yes, mennonites really vary from one church to another.

[@justme-dee6888]

Loved this video!! You stated the reasons behind modest dressing very well and with much grace! Thank you!

[@saraschneider6781]

I love that some of your dresses are a very traditional style, but a more contemporary print. That's my favorite pattern I've seen on you.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly.

[@britzel71]

This is the first video that I have seen of you and I just wanted to say you explained everything so well! I absolutely loved how you explained that the way you choose to dress etc is simply letting the heart change that came from loving the Lord pour outward, (you said it so much better). I'm a Christian and I completely agree that women now days are not generally taught about modesty in society as a whole. My grandmother taught me about modesty and I was grateful for all those valuable lessons.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thanks for being here! It's a real honor! God bless you as you serve Him!

[@katjaanjuli]

Great video, I really appreciate learning about how different cultural groups practice modesty. I’m one of Jehovah’s Witnesses and many of the women in my congregation got so fed up with trying to meet biblical standards of modesty with store-bought clothes that they have started to have their dresses made. I still buy my clothes but find that thrift stores are the only places I can find skirts that are both long and loose enough! Its so true that what is considered appropriate is SO uncovered nowadays. Its nice to know there are still groups out there who value biblical teachings on this matter!

[@karmakauffman7445]

You did a great job explaining why you dress the way you do. I appreciated your comment that there are many ways to dress modestly. I’m Mennonite, but I don’t wear dresses usually. I’m most comfortable when I’m wearing loose-fitting clothing that covers my legs and shoulders, etc.. For me, that can mean loose-fitting sweatpants and tee shirts. Luckily, I rarely need to dress up more than that. 😄

[@deenahaines200]

I also loooove how you always point out these convictions and traditions are not what saves you! ❤❤

[@kendrahostetler232]

Thank you so much for sharing!! I love the way you brought out the difference between men and women in their dress! It makes sense! Keep shining the light of Jesus! God bless you!💜

[@ourhome2260]

Appreciate u addressing this hard topic. I dress as u do and appreciate it very much. Men can stay "separated" and "modest" by not following fads and wearing tight pants and shirts; and be modest by having sleeves on shirts,not wearing splashy t-shirts etc...all in all we do what we do because if Who we belong to and represent 💙. Bless u sister 😉

[@theMennoniteMom]

Well said. thank you!

[@rachelberrocal2603]

God Bless you janine!! I too am a Christian and seek to dress modestly . . I also teach my 4 daughters to do the same. Much love

[@theMennoniteMom]

blessings to you! Such a valuable thing to teach our daughters!

[@lainshka1327]

I like how you explained the difference between men and women with the dress code...You put it into words for me.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you.

[@joellamartin8171]

I loved this video! You totally nailed it. Love how you brought history into the whole head covering/ dress thing and yeah, it gave me, as a Mennonite, good food for thought. Thanks for all your hard work!! Great job editing! Lol blessings ❤️

[@ratniebenezer2721]

I grew up in India & grew up covering our hair for church & prayer time at home. But now no one does it & I miss it. You gave a great talk on the way christians should dress. You are a real blessing & so honest in sharing your convictions. May God heal your issues with the gut. I knew a wonderful Mennonite family in Albany OR through the university. They were my family in the US. Their last name was Roth: Sterling & Patricia. I am in touch with the family although Mrs Roth is with our Lord now. Thank you for being YOU!

[@HumbleVoyager]

Thanks so much for the video. I prefer when people aren't scripted on Q&A videos. I completely understand and agree with you on modesty. I am not Mennonite, but am a follower of Jesus Christ. I too, am concerned with personal modesty. I believe that each Christian must live out their faith in their own way. I know that God loves people more than anything and that as I live my faith I am led to love people, regardless of the choices they make, which includes how they dress. I think your way of dress and head covering is lovely. Thanks so much for taking the time to answer the questions. I hope you have a wonderful, blessed day!

[@theMennoniteMom]

I completely agree with you. We are to love people and show Jesus love to them. Who did Jesus befriend? It was the poor, the prostitutes, sinners etc. Not really the religious people. But we are personally responsible for our own body's as we are the temple of the living God.

[@autumthacker5688]

I agree with dressing modestly. My husband is a pastor and I don’t wear anything but dresses and skirts. My husband doesn’t wear shorts or tank tops. But I totally agree with dress has changed over time and it is very frustrating to go shopping now days. I do recommend a couple of books about dress they are very good. One is “what in the world should I wear” and “dress, the heart of the matter”. We don’t force this down anyone’s throat but if anyone wants to know those books are glad at explaining! Thanks for talking on this!

[@theMennoniteMom]

God bless you and your husband in your service! Those books sound like a great read. I will have to check them out!

[@autumthacker5688]

the Mennonite Mom I would be happy to send you a copy if you would like! I would just have to get an address for you!

[@vintagehomemaker9338]

Oh my goodness! I just finished reading "What in the World Should I Wear?" - again! I have read it several times and passed it on to others. It explains why we need to dress modestly and what the Bible says about our dress. It is such an encouragement for those of us who wear dresse/skirts all of the time.

[@autumthacker5688]

Vintage Homemaker Amen! Love that book!

[@floridagal6740]

I grew up Mennonite and though I don’t dress like you, I dress modestly and have taught my two daughters to do so also. I respect you greatly and the way you explained the whole manner of dress was so well done! I love your channel and never miss a video. God bless you and your family! ❤️❤️❤️

[@theMennoniteMom]

thanks so much! It's an honor and blows me away that people keep coming back. God bless!

[@crestview]

You didn’t need notes! I understood you completely and I agree. Relationship over religion. You always sound very intelligent and well rounded.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly! Blessings!

[@connielindsey1464]

I had two auto-immune problems after the birth of my daughter, hyper-thyroidism and irritable bowel syndrome. The irritable bowel syndrome was so painful and I wasn’t absorbing nutrients very well. Now that I am in menopause, it only tears it’s ugly head occasionally. The hyper-thyroid caused infertility issues. I got pregnant about 2 1/2 years after her birth, but miscarried at the beginning of my 3rd month. I got pregnant a while later and had a baby boy. My daughter is 4 1/2 years older than my son. After his birth, my hyper-thyroid got even more hyper!! My hair fell out and I lost a lot of weight. I never was able to get pregnant again. I know that your son is a tender mercy and a blessing from God. I came from a big family and I am a member of a church that traditionally has large families. It is hard sometimes to answer questions from family and friends, as to why you don’t have more children. But the Lord blesses us in other ways. I now have 9 grandchildren! “The joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives. - Russell M. Nelson

[@theMennoniteMom]

thanks for sharing. You have been through much. but God is good! 9 grandchildren! What a blessing!

[@karongoodine3288]

Connie Lindsey I'm sorry to hear about your health issues. I find it very rude and personal not any bodies business as to you having more children. God blessed you with 2 and 9 grandchildren.

[@deniseflores80]

Just wondering about your ibd, is there anything that works specifically for you? I have ulcerative colitis very bad and im struggling so much with it.

[@nicoletroyer7394]

I actually find you to be concise as well as kind! I’m a Mennonite as well and came from a setting probably even slightly more conservative than you are currently in! I believe the move to so much immodest clothes has to do with feminism and I also feel it has to do with the fact that as a general rule men are giving to visual stimulation and women in a sense are being “sold” for sexual pleasure. Very ungodly. I do agree it’s hard for me to buy a dress I can wear without at least one additional clothing item going with it because of low necklines etc. one thing that has started is modest clothing companies. This has helped be they do tend to be pricey! I definitely found common ground with you about gardening and we also have goats! Blessings! Keep it up!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Yes, very much agree with you 100 percent!

[@preciousstoryward8708]

Well explain!! I started wearing skirts and dresses only and was ask if I was going to Church🤣You definitely stand out when trying to look modest.

[@theMennoniteMom]

LOL, yes. that happens!

[@stevekroner7947]

It’s so refreshing to hear from someone who lives their life because of their pure love for God. Your the one that is free! Life is easier when one understands that God loves us the way he made us. Also I’m so glad you are standing in faith and believing God is healing you and he is. God Bless ♥️

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you for the encouragement. God bless!

[@jodieschlipf182]

Thank you for such a good explanation on convictions in a Christian’s life.

[@leviglenn1]

I think your explanation was beautifully stated! Keep being true to what the Lord has called you as a family to and thank you for explaining that our outward expression is an issue of our hearts and our dress is not an issue of works. It IS all about Jesus Christ!! ❤️☺️

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you! God bless!

[@conniestephens19]

I think you did a very good job explaining! Thank you for your thoughtfulness you show to others while explaining modesty. I'm not sure I always do that, thank you for being a good example.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you. God bless you!

[@barnyardinourbackyard3133]

Thank you so much! Recently moved to PA and love being so close to the tradition and culture. You have to live life a little more slowly after an introduction to buggy jams and tractor jams. Not your typical traffic jam! My favorite local store is Good's store, farm stands are amazing but my garden is probably bringing me the greatest joy. I grew up in the desert and will never take this gorgeous green for granted!

[@theMennoniteMom]

very interesting! Yes, welcome to country traffic jams! ha ha. Especially if you are in lancaster area. Narrow roads, lots of people, and many cultures all trying to share the same road. LOL.

[@BLWSquared]

I love Good’s! It’s such a wonderful store!

[@robertadunn1572]

Welcome to Pa. I live in Ephrata,Pa . Lancaster county. Yes there are a lot of farming apparatuses and horse drawn buggies that's for sure!! But I Love the slower life ,I am nit a city person by any means. Have you ever heard of Green Dragon farmers Market in my town? It is a large market full of everything and people of all races have stands there,we live right up the road from it,it is handy living so close. Hope you have a great weekend ahead!

[@barnyardinourbackyard3133]

@@theMennoniteMom yes, living in the Lancaster area. My favorite example of cultures combining is the well used horse and buggy parking at Costco.

[@barnyardinourbackyard3133]

@@robertadunn1572 Thank you for the welcome, I love this place! The Green Dragon is not too far from us and every week we plan to go but somehow it just hasn't happened yet. Sounds like a great way to spend a Friday night. I hope you have a wonderful weekend as well!

[@anonymousunknown8243]

You are BEAUTIFUL. Loved the explanation!

[@karrysmith9336]

I really hate that there are so many judgemental people out there. I appreciate you explaing to us so we understand. Keep up your videos love them!

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly!

[@annaklassen8876]

You did wonderful at explaining everything. We as a family have chosen that the boys and men wear shirts with a collar and buttons, my husband personally has chosen to wear a long sleeved shirt every day, where as our son wears both short and long. Now our church has no rules on this things t-shirts are very much a thing and I'm not saying that that's wrong but we as a family have chosen to be this way

[@theMennoniteMom]

good for you. Yes, shirts with collars tend to be more dressy. I appreciate you sharing.

[@cbigg_8844]

Good explanation. I never thought about how men's clothing hasn't changed much but women's has. It makes sense now why your modest dress seems so different.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you. (:

[@AHerz-mo6ts]

In my view women stand out and dress more modest because they have never been able to adress their sexuality as man have. Historically and to an extend today their value is created by their virginity or if married the amount of children. In absolute contrast the womans worth in the mainstreem society is also often created by her beauty and how much she shows. What a double standrad!! We should just simly look much more at peoples hearts, compassion and actions! Regardless of dressing.

[@loopcheckphones]

Your kindness to explain the Mennonite way is just wonderful. We see a lot of Mennonite families in north Mexico and I have been asked if I am too Mennonite since my skin is very white and I dress modestly. I know the Mennonite ladies speak low or high german and I do not know of either. English and Spanish are all I've learned. I'm from AL but we live in TX and Mexico both part-time. Amazing how the religions, cultures and traditions differ. We enjoy your videos. Thank you, Erica

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thanks Erica! Yes many of the mennonites in Mexico are the older more traditional mennonites. Honored to have you here

[@shirleymurphy1958]

Home is where you place your heart. Your heart is showing at that little Homestead .

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you. Yes, home is where the heart is!

[@alip.9740]

You are so articulate. Being self conscious and only hearing your voice for a while can wear on you I know, but I found this to be clear and full of truth. Thank you for this video. It sprang up after a current video.

[@apriljoy1156]

I've noticed some mennonite groups have woman who do not wear head coverings and dresses all the time. I found that interesting. I am not mennonite, but have discovered I believe many of the same core thoughts of those with an Anabaptist background. I really didn't even know much about this until digging into ancestry on my Dad's side of the family and discovering our P.A. dutch roots. (A closed adoption had this hidden from us). Jesus is central to my life, church is important, and I believe in modesty as well. My modesty just looks a little different...longer shorts in summer, no low v neck lines, etc. I learn so much from you. Thanks! I also enjoy the positivity of your channel and look forward to your videos.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Good for you for practicing modesty! It's not about how we are modest, but that we are. (: thanks for sharing!

[@loric4550]

I don't think you dress ridiculously. I admire your courage of conviction. Good for you. God Bless.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly!

[@trxcybee]

I love the way you dress! I think it's beautifully modest and feminine. It also must be so nice to have a complete outfit with one piece of clothing! I used to love wearing dresses when I was a child, but I grew out of it by around 2nd grade. Now I feel out of place wearing skirts and dresses, and like you said, it can be hard to find store bought pieces that aren't spaghetti straps and so on. (And chub rub on the thighs, ouch - but that is something that needs to be addressed health wise). I also have issues with standing out in public. I have always wanted to blend in and it is much harder when one dresses so differently than the norm. I do understand also that it can be good to stand out as a Christian and can open up dialogue with others about Jesus. I am still shakey in my beliefs as I grew up without religion and do not always feel deserving of His love. I avoid low cut shirts and never show my knees in public. Thank you for all your wonderful videos :)

[@BLWSquared]

I am plus size and have found that wearing bike shorts or leggings (long or Capri length) underneath my dresses combats the chub rub perfectly. Make sure to get the Spandex/Polyester moisture wicking ones and not cotton. I actually really like the Avia brand ones at Walmart!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Yes, I understand it is difficult to be so different. But I believe if you are trying to dress modestly, you will be rewarded.

[@trxcybee]

@@BLWSquared thanks for the suggestion! I have used legging under skirts before but I will have to check out the bike shorts at Walmart! I haven't been there since covid started. I'd say it's about time for a trip :)

[@teresamusic4533]

On the subject of something to wear under a skirt or dress, I wear something called a slip short. I got them at Walmart. They are Vanity Fair brand and they had them in 2 different styles, the spandex type or a thinner, more silky type. If they don't have them in the store, you can get them online, which I did for a few more pairs. I wear them for modesty's sake in case my skirt should fly up or I'm up on a ladder (yes I do that in a dress) something along those lines. Or like the time my dog decided to chase after a cat while I had him on a leash and he took me flying head over heels down the drive way! I will say this about wearing dresses and skirts; I did wear pants for a period of time in my life, always loose fitting with something over my hips and I NEVER had anyone approach me in public and say they knew I was a Christian. Since wearing dresses only, people do that a lot and actually have told me about something or someone in their lives and asked me to pray for them. It does make a difference! I know this for a fact.

[@2Blessed]

I love your explanation! I am not Mennonite, but I am also Christian and choose to dress modestly and wear skirts/dresses. I lean a bit more modern, but a lot of people still consider me old-fashioned. You are so right about it becoming religion - we attended a church for a while that basically seemed to teach that if a woman didn't dress 'right' she wasn't right with God, and the whole focus was how you looked instead of your actions and your faith.

[@maryg.249]

Well said and explained on the modest clothing. Be ye kind one to another! Blessings,

[@javaandgingerbread4899]

Don't be too upset if you have another and they are spaced apart. Mine are 6.5 yrs apart and it's been a huge blessing.

[@theMennoniteMom]

that's great to know! thank you!

[@ruthjames4299]

I really enjoyed this video and I think you explained yourself very well. 😊🇦🇺

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly!

[@mandychoiniere146]

I just wanted to say where we live most of our community Mennonite dress like you guys! I also want to thank you FOR NOT changing your attire by being more “ modern” like wearing skirts and shirts and showing fashion or whatnot I actually love watching you more than the other Mennonite mom shows because you are what we have up here as a plain and simple content sahm and showing us daily life I’m not interested in ooh decor that matches room or buy this or that it’s not what we are supposed to do biblically spending money and more time finding thing to make us feel happy? from my personal viewpoint I feel like showing us your tip and ideas and being frugal and being content is more important than videoing the decor shelf at Walmart ...🤣😂 So thank you thank you thank you!!!! I love all your cape dresses and hope you will always wear them!!!!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you (:

[@RoadsofFaith]

I love you! You are so real and a breath of fresh air. First found you when you showed your rv reveal before you sold it. We live full time in our RV. My husband is a "retired" Pastor who periodically fills in at churches that have a vacancy. You are right about historical fashions and women's clothing and how much it's changed. And I'm sorry about losing your baby. There are a LOT of babies in heaven, including our infant grand daughter. You have a very strong faith that helped you through that. I don't know how people get through life without Him. We need to share Jesus with the world, because the lost need to know Him too. God bless you!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you for your kind words, and it's an honor to have you here. God bless your family as you serve Him.

[@vamarsh26]

I am not a Mennonite. However, I do dress modestly in skirts and dresses. The response to the clothing question was a great explanation and I can definitely relate. People often automatically associate modest with old fashioned. I also started sewing clothes so that I could have fashionable items that are also modest. Shopping the the stores can be difficult at times.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thanks for sharing!! God bless you!

[@rosiemckenzie885]

Dear Janine,you are a dear kind soul and I like you! You can dress how you like as long as your happy and no one should judge.You and Xander are real chatty and such a people person.If you visit Scotland I would love to show you around and to be my guest.My Mum has Crohns and it can be awful.You should be a motivational speaker.Lots Love from Scotland 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

[@theMennoniteMom]

oooo, I may just take you up on a Scotland tour. You have no idea how much we would all enjoy having a local take us around. Scotland is on my husband's bucket list. I'm sorry your Mum has Crohns... it's so hard! Hugs!

[@averybell4273]

The mother in law visiting video felt like a home tour. I loved it

[@theMennoniteMom]

ah yes, almost forgot about that!

[@LoveServeOvercome]

I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage ❤🙏🏼 Just to encourage you - my sister has had ulcerative colitis for the past 3 years & she just gave birth to a healthy baby girl last month ❤ Don't let the disease stop you if you feel in your heart to have another blessing 😘

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you for that! So encouraging to here! I hope she is well!

[@LoveServeOvercome]

@@theMennoniteMom She is doing great :) better than ever :) She does get infusions every month at the hospital and that helps a ton!

[@theMennoniteMom]

@@LoveServeOvercome in glad media are helping! Many it doesn't work for!

[@HonesE57]

Thanks for the video. The distinctiveness of Mennonite men has completely changed in the last 50 yrs. Women have had hemline changes up and down. Fabric has changed dramatically in some communities for women's dress. Not to mention the variety of changes for head coverings. I have seen Mennonite men dress in tight jeans, name brand shirts, coats ball caps ect. In my own inquiring about this, the explanation I was given was men work more "in the World" then the women do, and they need to blend in. I frankly found that a very sad answer. There was a time when the men were not afraid of the distinctive dress of a main stream Mennonite, be it for business or not. The focus was on distinctiveness in dress for both men and women as well as a lifestyle of Christian love to ones neighbor. the purpose was to be "separated" and be a witness that one could dress modestly and be an impact upon their communities they lived in. I know that there are hundreds of factions in Mennonite churches, in 1976 National Geographic did a special edition on Mennonite history in America. At the writing of that particular article there was over 400 different Mennonite sects. I am certain the choice of fellowships is from ultra orthodox to very liberal. I suppose an outsider would need to choose which one they could relate with by examination of the church standard for a particular church. Having said that and in my own research and personal experiences, it is rare in many Mennonite churches for an outsider to stay long term. It happens, but it is not the norm, here in America or in another country. Having traveled and worked with several communities, I have been so thankful for my time with them. I left with only a prayer for Jesus to be the focus instead of the externals which can be so easy to get hung up on. It was and is the externals and some doctrinal differences that contributed to so many hundreds of factions. keep shining Jesus young lady! You are doing a wonderful job, and I respect your choices.

[@sandyb34]

I appreciate the history lesson! Thank you! I had often thought of men's suits as basically the same throughout the years but I was mostly jealous their shoes were more comfortable than mine as there is no such thing as a pair of comfortable heels in my opinion. LOL I'm glad you are feeling well and I wish you continued success in your journey to lose weight. I think you look great but I understand what it's like to be really sick, lose a bunch, be happy with that even though you're miserable, then finally feel great again only to eat what you want and gain it all back. I'm still trying to come out of my flare but I'm feeling much better which has led to some poor food decisions for which I always pay for but I'm learning. =) God bless!

[@theMennoniteMom]

Hugs to you! I hope you are currently doing great! It's such an up and down ride. :(

[@haleyspell3730]

Great job explaining Christian modesty. I’m not Mennonite but I do believe in dressing modestly. I love how you explained that dress is not religion but it’s our relationship with Christ that comes first and puts a desire in our heart to dress modestly . Thanks for always being yourself :)) We live in South GA and it is HOT here for sure. :)))) Love & Blessings sent your way.

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly, and God bless!

[@cassandra5516]

Great video! I've been wondering about that so it was cool to see you've addressed it :) I dress modestly just simply because I prefer how good it makes me feel and for how practical it is. In my case it's strickly skirts & dresses outside my home, elbows, cleavage and knees covered. Having said that, my husband wouldn't be caught dead in anything less than a decent t-shirt and either jeans or knee length shorts and nobody calls that modest.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Good for you! And yes, you are right. No one calls that modest because it's the accepted attire and men generally wear those types of clothes, so it doesn't pop out as modest.

[@amesthegreat213]

I really enjoyed your explanation of modest dress. My family & I are Apostolic/Holiness. I have dressed modestly for years. I have thought many times of just making my own dresses....because it truly is SO HARD to find good modest clothing in stores now. You made such a good point about not letting our outward expression become religion. God Bless you and your family!

[@elainehorning7720]

Thank you for your thoughts on modesty. Well said!

[@hrhdianednum7203]

That’s such a great way of explaining I understand the Mennonite beliefs and characteristics so I can understand the Wisconsin Mennonite community. I know that when my mom was alive she always went to the stores. She was born in 1921 but my grandma was born in 1900 and they lived during the depression and my grandfather was a dandy yet never supported my grandma and their 5 children. So I can relate to cultural and social beliefs.

[@mari-ch7lh]

Appreciate the time you spend making these interesting videos. Thanks!

[@theMennoniteMom]

So nice of you. thanks!

[@elizabethcarr5226]

I really appreciated this. We are Christians who believe in modesty as well. I really loved how you described it. Thank you

[@theMennoniteMom]

God bless!

[@mommacobba]

👍👍 👍...Still my FAVORITE channel!!! You reminded me of Jeremiah 6:16.....and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein,....❤

[@theMennoniteMom]

aww, thank you! (: never looked at that verse in that light. LOL. Blessings on your day!

[@kimmerrou]

I was thinking that, too! It's one of my husband's favorite verses.

[@janetbradbury5021]

We appreciate your comprehensive answer to Mennonite dress. By the way, all your dresses are fabulous!! I need to wear layers mostly and long sleeves . Long skirts are nice.

[@kayc.6984]

This was a great video. Everything you said made sense.

[@ozarkview928]

You did a wonderful job explaining why Mennonite men blend in and women don’t ! Thanks Jeanene

[@ruthgoebel723]

Grace Reiff Blending in May make us feel comfortable, but on the other hand, we miss many witnessing opportunities that way.

[@deb9024]

Wonderfully said. God Bless 🙏😊❤️🌺🌺

[@deenahaines200]

Excellent explanation for the differences between men and women’s dress. I don’t know if you have heard of the conservative holiness movement but that is what I am a part of (not Pentecostal but a separate group) and it is kind of the same, except all of us tend to wear sleeves past our elbows including the men. Some groups wear homemade dresses and some don’t. But I love the way you brought history in and showed how women’s dress has changed so much more than men’s has. That was excellent.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thanks! I'm not sure if I've heard of that movement or not... it slightly rings a bell. Thanks for sharing and God bless as you serve Him!

[@OurSmallTownLife]

I love your "proper attire" scenario! That's such a great way to explain your thought process.

[@theMennoniteMom]

Thank you kindly

[@dawnm5834]

I appreciate that you acknowledge that there are more than 1 way to dress modestly. We are a Christian family, and have 2 little girls. We choose to wear pants or even tank tops. But we’ve really tried to instil in our daughter’s that God looks at the heart - and how we dress is a reflection of our heart. So we choose to wear longer shorts, high neck lines, dresses or skirts knee length or longer, no spaghetti straps etc. Because we want to honour God with our outward appearance. Our kids are only 8&9 but it just really clicks and resonates with them. Their both so conscious and convicted even as kids, what is and isn’t appropriate. It’s a tough balance with the world we live it. So many ‘cute styles’ our kids like.. but when we remind them of the heart behind our choice to be modest, the desire to be ‘fashionable’ seems to fade. Lord willing, they will carry this on throughout their life.

[@theMennoniteMom]

good for you! God bless as you raise them for Him

[@euniceshirk9000]

You did a great job in explaining modesty!

[@donnazavitz1095]

Thank you

[@theMennoniteMom]

good for you! A Godly mother! (:

[@Souerdike7]

I want to address your comments about your weight. I live in a community with German Baptists, and church we attend was started by people who left that, as well as the vast majority of the congregation are former GB's. I've noticed in that culture, as well as Mennonite, there seems to be this thing where all the young ladies are reed thin. If that's the standard you're measuring yourself by, please stop. You are a lovely lady and from what I can tell via your videos, you are at a healthy weight. Your health is so much more than a number on a scale! I hope you can stop focusing on that and simply eat healthy and be thankful for wherever your body settles at as a healthy weight for you!!

[@theMennoniteMom]

thank you kindly. Maybe it is a Mennonite thing, but I wouldn't say so where I am from. It's just always been an insecurity of mine as I've always been the one that struggles with my weight ever since a child. And getting older makes it much harder. But thanks for brightening my day!

[@neshmahenkel2428]

the Mennonite Mom then please, don’t. God looks at our hearts and knows our minds/thoughts, like He told Samuel about David. He is not interested on how we look. I think it’s good to be healthy ( you look healthy to me ), just remember aesthetics won’t matter to God when we go to heaven. This is coming from someone who used to care a lot about aesthetics and what people thought about me. I have been slowly working on it. God loves you. God bless your family. 🙏🏼♥️

[@theMennoniteMom]

@@neshmahenkel2428 good for you. I'm working on it. Thanks for the encouragement!

[@neshmahenkel2428]

the Mennonite Mom Thank you for blessing us with this lovely channel. Can’t wait to watch the head covering video. If you decide to make it. God bless .

[@ebgbjo2025]

You are very healthy weight wise. Your body has allowed you to do so many things that many of us women could only dream of. You are very active as well. Dont judge yourself based off a number on the scale (they are filthy liars anyway) or compare yourself to other women. I am very sorry to hear about your miscarriage. :(

[@pilotpete6478]

Love this!! History, culture and family is probably how I dress too. I never really thought about it! Thank you

[@shijshi]

When it comes to religion, be leary of man's traditions as to not fall into the bondage of legalism.

[@bethanybringsbooks]

That gardening tool is called a stirrup hoe. We actually just ordered one from Hoss Tools. It works wonderfully!!