Q&A with MIKE: Relationship, Lockdown, Parenting and Vegan Food! | Fleur De Force

[@saramathews1069]

Fleur where’s this you’re not funny come from? Yes you are. You’re witty and dry and often make me laugh.

[@FleurDeForce]

Haha THANK YOU!!! 😂🤪

[@MIOLAZARUS]

YES!!!

[@emilyang25]

Oh my god Squidge falling asleep kills me she’s SO CUTE

[@kovagold4321]

Squidge

[@MartinaMcDonagh]

Oooooh Squidge - you're so cute, sitting there on Mike's knee.. Such adorable dogs.. (-:

[@katiespencer6964]

Listening to Mike talk about losing running and taking up cycling for his mental health was so important and very brave to be so open about it!

[@kathyforgues6994]

I’m with Mike on missing the routine that we all had. Never realized how much I love my routine before 😀

[@samantarizzi248]

Kathy Forgues we’re creatures of habit

[@raejae5565]

The beginning of this video made me think of the old days with you, Mike and Woof! 😢 Wow time has flown by, so amazing to see the family you've become!

[@paigemarie9850]

I thought the same thing. When I first clicked, I had to check the date. I think the earthier tones in the background reminded me of the old apartment!

[@terryfischer1070]

I think River will be fine when Mike returns to work as long as he leaves his car home for her to play in. Good news, Mike, you're getting a new car! haha

[@alessiastellaiacobone]

Daaamn... Mike’s cheekbones are snatched! 👀

[@Skelem0]

You say that like its a good thing! Last I checked men don't desire hallowed out cheekbones?! He looks malnourished :(

[@wa6184]

@@Skelem0 how does he look malnourished? As far as we can tell, he's generally a skinny person so he would likely never have a chubby face.

[@balisandra94]

Becky Riesinger he looks perfectly fine.

[@alessiastellaiacobone]

Becky Riesinger I don’t know how long you’ve been following Fleur but Mike has always been like that. He isn’t malnourished...

[@xxGuItArGiRLxx89]

@@Skelem0 they do.

[@constancew]

This video reminds me so much of the 'boyfriend tag' from so many years ago! Love having the pups join.

[@FleurDeForce]

Haha that video makes me cringe so hard whenever I see it! My eyeshadow was nooooot a good look! Hahaha

[@ellie7112]

Mike has wonderful skin.

[@poisonedchalice]

...and bone structure!

[@sarahpenna262]

Rosebud What is his actual heritage ? Looks as though he could have some Medit /Anglo Indian/Spanish /Portug in his lineage . More-so the older he gets ( which is normal that it shows thru' more as you age ) . Could be why his skin looks good

[@heathertims836]

Mike is my favourite YT husband. He’s a delight! You both sound like my husband and myself. He’s unbelievably slow, I end up pushing him out of the way and doing it myself. While on my phone. He’s a pushover, and really wants a trampoline- which I’m oppose to. And shake it off is the only TSwift song he knows.

[@FleurDeForce]

Haha I love that I’m not the only one! 🙈

[@andi250890]

Squidge is definitely the star of this video! Love her!

[@rosed4304]

I'm with Mike, I really miss work as well. I didn't realize how much I missed the routine, that type of mental stimulation(work progress, challenges and successes), and the clients.

[@helenelizabeth666]

I agree with Mike. I’m a teacher in the UK and not having my routine and seeing my class everyday is horrible. They are like my own children and I miss them greatly.

[@FleurDeForce]

Sounds like you’re a great teacher ❤️

[@helenelizabeth666]

Fleur DeForce Thanks Fleur ❤️fingers crossed that soon we can return to ‘normality’. Stay safe 😊

[@nutellalatte7522]

This is so sweet! I wish your class could see this comment and your appreciation for them 😭❤

[@KM-rs5dq]

I'm the same. I miss work too (also a teacher).

[@helenelizabeth666]

Nutella Latte I keep in contact with them and their parents regularly either via email or phone. Stay safe 🙂

[@simka2906]

Squidge is having THE time of her life hahaa

[@MyJewishMommyLife]

Loved this ❤️ you’re so right about kids missing friends I have a 3 year old and 1 year old and hearing my older son talk about missing friends and school is so heartbreaking as there’s just no replicating it at home.

[@ymia5]

Hey Fleur, your videos are really helping me right now. Recently broke up with my bf, so right now I'm home alone, being lonely and kinda sad, and your videos really cheer me up. Thank you for that! I watch them when I eat, so I don't feel like I'm eating all alone.

[@laurenmichero9003]

I hope they do more of these Q&As! I like to see them interacting on camera. It’s funny how Mike is explaining in detail (slowly) how Fleur doesn’t listen and then Fleur (who isn’t really listening) interrupts him to tell us about his “flaw”. They literally proved each other right by displaying their flaws while answering the question about what their flaws are 😂😂😂 too funny!

[@shaanajuntunen]

I completely relate to Mike. I broke my ankle hiking almost 2 years ago and lifting weights became my form of “control.” As soon as I started physical therapy, I was also hitting the gym. I ended up finishing my PT early because of the amount of work I was putting in to healing. Losing control of your health is a really scary thing.

[@denbeesewswhat9841]

seriously best Q&A's from you guys! And Squidge kind of stole the show a bit LOL

[@inesdhont4992]

Mike really made me laugh with the “axe throwing “ Can’t stop picturing it

[@lucyallen5960]

I honestly think you’ve both got better with age ♥️

[@merlygirly03]

I’m isolating away from my family! But my favourite KZbin family has cheered me up, so thank you for this x

[@CarrieDayton]

It's so funny because I live in LA and the first place I want to go when all of this is over is the UK lol!! Wanna switch? Loved seeing this type of video from you two, reminds me of the good old days 💞

[@FleurDeForce]

Haha like the holiday?! 🤪

[@CarrieDayton]

@@FleurDeForce THE DREAM LOL

[@NancieDrew]

Omg I didn’t know Carrie Dayton watches Fleur 😍😍. So cool.

[@cathleenhoward5229]

You are such an absolutely lovely couple! What a treat to watch on a slow quarantine day.

[@kellyfeng9642]

Thank you Mike for joining in. You two are one of my favourite couples. such honest answers. I have a 9 month old now... Such a struggle to get done anything at home. So my husband who I been with for 10 years never had arguement suddenly I became a person telling him off for not helping enough. I hate myself doing this because I know he is trying and work got super busy for him in the past year as well. I wish to become healthier as well. Love you two. Thank you for the recent vlogs and all those Instagram posts. Xxx

[@betsybabf748]

In Boston area here, on the coast between Boston and Cape Cod. It is beautiful here. My husband passed away at 45, but 23 years of marriage, we had 5 kids plus fostered 2 more, so 7 kids. Key to happy marriage IMO is 1. Approach each day thinking how you can make day happier and/easier for the other rather than what they do for you. When both do that, it works. 2. Make couple time every day and make it a priority and 3. See couple time as your reward for a hard day and your break, not as a chore you have to fit in.

[@Aever1988]

My brother has been living in Boston for the last 5 years or so. It has a surprisingly European vibe. I don't have much American places to compare it to, but I really like it there. There's lots to see and do, both cultural and touristy. I can't wait to go back when travel is allowed again!

[@michelleroy7304]

I agree with Mike - I’ve been vegan for 5+ years and Dairy Milk chocolate is the thing I miss the most! And don’t stress about slipping up! Changing 99% of your diet to plant-based is incredible, and is such an amazing choice for the environment. Slipping up on the rare occasion will not make or break your choice.

[@giovannamckeaney4943]

Random question.....but what is Mike’s job lol?!

[@natashasadaeva3530]

CEO of a car dealership

[@rachelletomlinson6344]

Thanks for asking this I was keen to know.

[@sharonrobinson1412]

I SO enjoy watching you two! You are definitely funny together and the obvious affection and respect you have for each other is great to see! I am a Brit living in the US and when I am feeling homesick your videos are ones that I search out and they instantly bring a smile to my face! Thanks for being authentic! :)

[@Ca_1021]

The dog is a whole vibe 😆

[@fivebyfivewhat]

We moved to Boston last September, if you want to see the fall leaves you’re better off leaving it til mid October 👍 but of course, who knows about travel for the rest of this year!

[@fionafrazer8820]

I was going to say the same thing. I live in Massachusetts, and definitely the prime "leaf peeping" time is mid October. Last week in September first week in October if you are going to Vermont or New Hampshire! I just don't think things will be anywhere near back to "normal" by then, sadly.

[@TheAggie2309]

@@fionafrazer8820 Exactly! I commented the same thing! September is so nice but still pretty summery

[@GabLidDav]

From your last question/answer. I work in a nursery, and have worked in primary schools, and having vegetarian and vegan children is a norm now! With all the different allergies and personal/religious dietary requirements there are schools and nurseries are able to cater to them all! So if River does choose to be vegetarian or vegan, don't ever worry that she will be one of the only children with a 'special meal'! I chose to be vegetarian from 6 years old, it was a lot harder when I was a child than today 😊

[@catswithspoon]

If you ARE able, Boston is absolutely stunning in the fall. I’ve lived here my whole life and there is nothing as beautiful. I’ve got lots of plant-based recs too!

[@livin4jc3]

Absolutely loving your vlogs and videos right now! They're a sense of calm in a crazy world! :)

[@justycethibault5375]

i’m so glad i’m broke and didn’t have trip planned lmao also fleur i’m with you i am absolutely obsessed with my daughter, she turned 1 at the end of february and i really did not think i could love her more than i do and yet here i am lol she literally makes my life

[@GoodandDelicious]

Try recipes by the Minimalist Baker. She nails vegan or vegetarian versions of traditional recipes. Like she has an American General Tso’s Chicken recipe but that’s made with tofu and it taste like takeout. Even if you’ve never had General Tso’s, it just tastes like really great Chinese takeout. Or take away as you guys would say 🙂

[@CRG_]

GoodandDelicious agreed, note that she no longer does just vegan, so newer recipes may need to be modified

[@thisgirllovestoshopx]

Fleur you’re my favourite youtuber, I really love your videos, they always make me feel like everything is going to be alright! Thank you so much for continuing to upload and be regular!

[@donnanancekivell9430]

I loved this Q and A....you and Mike are a scream together and are very funny........I find you have both matured since Rivers birth, not in an old fuddy duddy way , just grown up and you are right Fleur you are not nearly as driven as you were....you just seem calmer within yourself.........stay well and safe...........Donna in Toronto

[@katemoran3138]

You guys are such a perfect couple and parents and I love you guys and your absolutely adorable family so much! I grew up basically vegetarian (with the very occasional fish but I’ve never once tried bacon or chicken or anything like that) and I see what you mean about having options but I always found that there was a vegetarian option wherever I went. It does limit it a bit, though, and there have been times where I sometimes wanted to try it but I never did, just because it’s not something I grew up with (my whole family including extended is the same). Thanks for continuing to put out interesting and informative content during this time, Fleur!

[@kirstenrubberducky]

I miss work. I never thought I would say that, but I do. I love my job, I'm lucky to work with a lot of friends and I miss the challenge. Because I work in a theatre, I'm also massively missing the shows!

[@paulagartley4195]

You two make my heart so happy to watch (Corny I know!!) You just seem to have this mutual respect for eachother and life, it is so neat to get to watch it action. I have been married for 20 years this year and so many things you said my laugh as I thought of similar things with my husband. While I know we all want to go back to our normal lives, I am so going to miss seeing you guys on a regular basis! LOVE IT!!!

[@triciamonahan]

OMG Squidge was so zen in Mike's Lap. Adorable! Thank-you for sharing your beautiful family with us Fleur.

[@sarahg2022]

Squidge is just ADORABLE! KZbin trained too, looking into the camera 😍!! So nice seeing more of your lovely dogs.

[@Emily-md9yu]

Squidge is a beautiful dog

[@erikamoulton]

Your face when Mike said his guilty pleasure were Kind bars 😂😂😂

[@peiwee108]

loving how sensible both of you are regarding parenting River! sending you lots of love!

[@lauranel-boland531]

Yes yes yes to this video! Love when you and Mike do Q&A’S together 😊

[@mjimenez3187]

Thank You for the chat! I felt I was hanging out with friends....

[@abigailhall7870]

As an early years teacher I share in your excitement about River reciting stories. It’s great learning and you should be proud! 😄

[@paula19100]

Squidge appearing in this video is just the best!

[@helenlesczynski3989]

I’m an attorney in Chicago and my office is closed closed minus one day a week and I am going stir crazy. I thoroughly enjoyed this 😀

[@kellygrotrian716]

Mike's comment about not replacing but just searching/eating different foods - has really been my go-to in making the change. I don't feel the need to try a Beyond Burger or use much in the way of veganized "fill in the blank" (although, I do love my vegan cheddar for my chili!), I didn't want to eat vegan versions of familiar food b/c I knew it wasn't going to be the same. Made sense to just abandon and turn to the other food choices options - so many of which I simply never had or were never exposed to growing up (and thus continued to never try as an adult). But - kudos!

[@FrannyLuvsAll]

I’ve missed these kind of videos with MDF! Loving the weekend vlogs, too!

[@TheSecretbysarah]

Boston is an amazing city! A lot of healthy food, nice places, mix of the 'new and old'

[@jessicawong8416]

Squidge is so cute! I was mostly just watching her throughout the whole video.

[@bibimajeed7281]

I hope you guys are all three doing ok. Healthy, and safe. I'm always missing the Q&A. Mike has such a great sense of humor. Blessings to each of you for good health. Stay safe. The virus is so bad here in Maryland. Highest death in my zip code. I haven't seen my daughter since birth for the longest now. The hardest of it all is not being able to see my grandchildren. My heart hurts.

[@potnoodlegirl]

I've been to LA, San Francisco, Chicago, New York, and Philadelphia but Boston was my absolute favourite US trip.

[@Soltopmtz]

I'm like Squidge trough the video, falling sleep working from home lol

[@heatherj9029]

I really like that you aren't forcing being Vegan on River. I grew up vegetarian and once I was able to buy my own food, it was 100% meat. Processed meat, regular meat, and I've never eaten Tofu again. Also soda was prohibited and now I'm pretty hooked on diet soda.

[@anard7889]

Omg the pup was so sleepy 😍😅 soo cute!!

[@AmyandtheIsland]

Honest to goodness, I would watch a reality show of the two of you. Your banter is lovely and hilarious

[@77Pinkcupcake]

Ha! Loved this. You and Mike just bounce off each other so well. Mike is such a marshmallow when it comes to you and Riv Fleur. He tries to act so tough but he’s a big softie. River is just gorgeous, such a little ray of sunshine ☀️. The star of the video was Squidge! Loved her, she gives zero shits about anything and is in everyone’s personal space! I love seeing River with Piggy also 💛💗💛💗. Love these kind of vlogs x

[@ellaprowse3488]

I totally respect that everyone is doing what they consider right for their kids and I respect Mike and Fleur totally in there parenting. I personally feel that my daughters aren't missing out and aren't getting anything more special at nursery they are vegan. It will be there choice when they are older to continue or lot to be vegan. They also don't like any meat substitutes and prefer to leave that to the side. They are aware wholeheartly as to why we are vegan and they are supportive of it. It's amazing how young kids get it. Xx

[@Beckyh921]

my favorite couple like ever hope you all doing okay and keeping well and safe

[@liramalea7041]

This is so heartwarming and old school, I loved it♥

[@kellywatson1830]

I love this! I took a trip down memory lane not too long ago and watched the first Q&A you guys did together (the boyfriend tag I think!), this is so lovely! x

[@PrincessofErised]

My daughter had that ability at 2 as well. Upon entering school, she was tested and her IQ was/is 150. She is now grown and amazing. This skill is a good sign of intelligence.

[@heajincha]

Been following u since before Riv! Truly thankful that u are one of the only youtubers who have remained my favorite people to watch ❣️😭✨

[@MissLuxe74]

Loved this, your skin looks amazing Fleur, what skin product and foundation have you used here please? xxx

[@willowgreene1476]

I love hearing views on the vegetarian kid thing. I raise my 2 yr old daughter Vegetarian and think the other way- if she chooses to add meat to her diet in the future she can. Thanks for the Q+A always love them 😍

[@carolinemarshall4860]

I agree with mike that River should be able to make her own choices when she’s old enough to understand.

[@xMakiPunk]

I have to admit I've always had a little crush on Mike, he's so sarcastic and funny (and that bone structure!) and I love the way he makes fun of you, always hilarious and you can tell how much he loves you and knows you by heart ! I've been following you almost since the beginning and I've always thought you make such a cute couple. That kind of relationship when you can make fun of each other but always with love is precious !

[@jeluna19]

Boston is so beautiful in the Fall, If you do end up traveling in September and take a day or two to head out towards western Mass and The Berkshires, to see all the fall foliage and go apple picking, wine tasting and maple syrup tasting. There is also this big fair called the Big E in West Springfield that has a taste of all the New England state in one place. Goods and foods, grown and made from those state that you can taste and experience.

[@Musimakeup]

:-) you're basically one of the only responsible adult youtubers lol it's refreshing to hear your speach about River and letting her decide about vegan food. I'm always soo sick of always hearing ''know it all'' youtubers. You know.. "Know better than the nurse" in a labour and delivery story, "know better than the doctor" who missed this or that "know better than the dieticien" or complainig about this or this professional.. come on...

[@munigaller7492]

Your makeup looks so beautiful and fresh! 😍 What eyeshadow did you use?

[@victoriaa456]

After watching Fleur for years, you could tell she loved lulu and she shows riv more than i thought she would. But in my head i thought she loved lulu more than riv which seems crazy to write but this video definitely shows her proud and loving she is of riv

[@Jess236]

Is it just me or do like and fleur have some similar features? They have a similar look! One of those couples that look a bit alike 😂 the large dark eyes, nose shape, even mouth shape a bit! Xxx Enjoyed the video thanks guys x

[@Jess236]

*Mike!

[@rachelathome7516]

I always thought they looked like brother and sister

[@anyawillowfan]

I became vegetarian when I was 11 and honestly it's very likely that that choice affected my growing (aka I stopped), and I think with young children they need all the proteins etc that come from good meat to ensure they grow as healthily as possible. I stopped being vegetarian (though I still don't eat fish or seafood for environmental reasons) but am focused more on the quality of what I eat now. I can't say if it's helped my health (I have a chronic illness), but I do feel more balanced now.

[@destiny13006]

Most women stop growing at 11 or 12 in terms of height.

[@ceel493]

Mike is like someone you would see in a vampire movie, his facial features and voice tone.

[@tx6845]

Some of the best vegan chocolate: Nomo, the vegan galaxy bars and Ombar !

[@gwynethglas-brown9171]

Fleur & Mike thank you for your Q&A was great to see you both and Squidge 🥰. Stay safe ..

[@reneklein6049]

I applaud you both for going vegan. I gave up red meat at 17. After basically fish and chicken. 9 years ago, I went totally vegan. I'm 61 now. My oldest daughter at the age of 5, announced that she would never eat anything with a face. She went vegetarian. She has now been vegan for 10 years, and has her own vegan restaurant. Everything is organic, and she makes her own cheeses. Feel free to give her a look on IG. @missrachelspantry You guys still can have amazing chocolate. As long as it's dark, over 72% cacao, there is no dairy in it. Thanks for the great Q&A. Be safe and well. ❤

[@amandachin6853]

Loving your weekend vlogs and vegan content! Thanks to you and Mike for this Q&A xx

[@alexandrafingleton7407]

Mike broke his hip! I’m so sorry. I have a hip replacement and it is major. It’s just you said it so casually. I hope you are well. You guys are sooo beautiful,

[@nessiesmakeup6244]

I would like to hear Mike speaking more and able to answer fully! x

[@SiriusScientist]

We are in Boston! I’d really recommend coming earlier in Oct as it gets chilly quick here, if you come this year, but next year would be better. A lot of things have been rescheduled and we’ve been locked down since March, so this year might be a little off. If you come, you should do Vermont, New Hampshire (Franconia Notch), and Maine as well. The fall here is beautiful and any time of year when you can walk outside is great. You can checkout the Boston calendar to see all the stuff going on in the city every week (when things start again). Cambridge is just across the Charles and also has a ton to do. I hope you’ll ask on insta when you are getting ready to plan and all of us Bostonians will definitely give recommendations! I’m glad Mike’s hip is doing better and hope we will see him at the marathon in 2022!

[@bethanybanana7447]

Loved Squidges cameo today. Felt like an old school video today! I miss lots but on the list is my work as I am a librarian and miss my colleagues and the kids. Great video guys

[@misshaack]

Squidge is an absolute love xx Also, thanks for the reminder that Mike is a silver foxed gem.

[@procrastinatetolive]

Omg let him talk 😂

[@annedesrues-vinet3547]

Thank you for this great video, I love seeing you both together on camera, you're so nice! And your insights on why you went vegan, and how Mike thought this through is really interesting. Sending you lots of love!

[@AngelicVirgo]

Fleur would to see cooking videos on the vegan meals you are having from morning, noon to evening.

[@UKChloeT]

❤️❤️❤️ Squidge falling asleep from all the rubs and cuddles!!!

[@lululocks2894]

Love how open and honest Mike is :0)

[@GiaBlinks]

Mike and Squidge were a nice surprise. I love you guys.

[@ladyf7275]

A few of my favourite vegan chocolate are: VEGO hazelnut chocolate bar (besttttt ever) Ombar (all are superrrrr good but my fav is the cocomylk) NOMO (especially the fruit and crunch one) Cudbury Bournville Seed and Bean Mint (tastes almost exactly like after eight) Best vegan (& healthy) Ice cream: Booja-booja

[@lynnwalker8305]

Mike is such a good sport for doing this

[@ashkohli5847]

Boston is amazing in the fall! Also highly recommend driving up to Vermont to see the foliage

[@xoYaSsYox]

I hope you looked into what supplements to take and what to integrate into your diet if you go vegan. My husband and I went vegan 5 months ago too and I'm lucky that he read and watched a lot about it.

[@laura23678]

I'm with Mike, I miss work so much ☹️ I love my office and colleagues and enjoy my job. I'm working from home but I'm missing the social aspect.

[@jessmullens5191]

Great answer on the vegan baby question!