Q&A with My Boyfriend | Age Difference? Language Barrier? | Dating in Korea

Hi guys! Sorry for the delay on this video, it was hard to find a good time for us to both sit down and answer these but here we are! Apologies for being a little low energy too, my boyfriend and i were both under the weather this weekend (Seoul has officially shifted into freezing cold winter) but we hope we answered your questions well^^ Thanks as always!
0:21 Is there an age gap?
0:49 What k-drama do we love watching together?
3:07 What hobbies do we share?
4:22 Is there a language barrier?
6:55 Do you believe in love at first sight?
7:03 How does my boyfriend feel about my solo travel?
9:45 What's our favorite trip we've been on together?
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[@caricakes]

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[@lofiguy8136]

My 💓 is shattered

[@madamhummingbird]

You guys adorable

[@chasingfurtherdreams5991]

I love how you guys are very clearly good friends, not just romantic/flirting... friendship is the most solid foundation for a relationship in my opinion

[@mboihk3796]

i'm born in 1983 and I married in 2016 and people still think i'm still young to marry... Asian gene 😂

[@lindaa2802]

My daughter asked her husband if he wanted to take a German class together. He replied "why, so we can miscommunication in two languages?".

[@tictoc900912]

Trust me miscomms in two languages get you further than in one

[@brennathecatlover4360]

I find that funny tbh lol

[@sukiyo1122]

Finally someone who doesn't use 'my korean boyfriend' in the title. thank you!

[@chaunti123]

Welma there’s literally nothing wrong with it. but ppl like to make a big deal out of it :/

[@and-xl2ey]

chaunti2turnt there is

[@chaunti123]

y’all a buncha weirdos ew how. there’s nothing wrong with pointing out your interracial/international relationship. ppl just make a big deal out of it. yes hes her boyfriend, but he’s also her KOREAN boyfriend. a completely different race, nationality, culture than her. people are interested in the difference

[@muwahibahmedidriz7869]

@@chaunti123 its tho im black and if i would be dating a white guy? Would i write My white boyfriend?

[@user-ce4qi9od6v]

Nothing wrong with it...

[@esel2297]

8:17 “I really think traveling is about discovering yourself.. unless you wanna go to Disneyland” wise words😌

[@caricakes]

hehehehe one day i will get him to see the magic of disney! mark my words!!!

[@esel2297]

Marked :D

[@kurt.archive]

but i just hate theme parks hahaha maybe i do need blessing from Disney

[@bxngtanbby9681]

ARMY 💜💜

[@faithm6260]

he has such a cool and open perspective on things!

[@caricakes]

he's great ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

[@multikimberification]

He is so charming.. something of his calm and poised ambience is just hot hot

[@jessoliveri516]

The language barrier question - that is me and my boyfriend TO A T. My boyfriend (who's also Korean) and I communicate primarily in English. The longer we are together, the more I use slang with him and speak at my normal pace. But overall, he says he can understand me well because I speak a little slower and more clearly than others. HOWEVER, we also have these weird conversations/arguments over something like colors. I'll call something blue, and he will be like, "no, it's SKY blue." But I love it - it makes for hilarious stories later.

[@caricakes]

hahahah yes!! i feel like he's made me so much more aware of the words i choose and their meaning cause if i say something just a little bit off he's after me!! hahahahah

[@Orangeyougladx3]

this is so weird, i teach in korea and my kids always fight me on sky blue too ahahha i just say blue and they explode everytime

[@jessoliveri516]

@@Orangeyougladx3 Ohhh yeah. When I taught elementary, I had the exact same experience!

[@kaylapinkley8399]

I have a Korean boyfriend too and we have the exact same issue lol

[@Emeand33]

nothingg lmao what’s sky blue in Korean?

[@madisonmiles830]

"so we can waste time on youtube. JUST LIKE YOU GUYS!" I WAS NOT EXPECTING TO BE CALLED OUT LIKE THAT

[@caricakes]

😂😂😂

[@ibnuhazar366]

So true I was like being slapped out of nowhere

[@marco_k_7787]

your boyfriend looks like so unique type of good person. he kinda like reminds me of my own youth :). hope you guys get along well for good.

[@caricakes]

heheh thank you, im sure we will!

[@christinethornhill]

Me too , lots of love to you from England ❤️

[@kritikaushal7906]

True your bf, is really cool .. he's so understanding .. rare catch

[@alexandragray61]

It made me think the same when i saw him 😊 I think he has a good aura ✨👌🏻

[@user-vc5rp7nf8f]

cari's quite pretty and pretty cool. wouldn't mind having a gf like her

[@rachelsyrup]

"I'm busy watching Brooklyn 99." "She majored in communication but I don't BELIEVE in communication." 👌😂

[@Missorangeade]

It’s so rare to see couples encouraging solo travel, I thought I was a bit weird for enjoying it so much, so thank you ❤️

[@caricakes]

yesssss!!! its great :')

[@franf45]

I was actually trying to guess if he was a born and raised Korean, he doesn’t have much of an accent when speaking in English. You guys look really good together.

[@meddy0811]

Agreed! I think the only thing that stood out to me was the way he used "actually" in his sentences. The way he used actually sometimes a native would use "i guess"

[@jspazzin13]

“The middle of Wyoming” “I don’t even know where that is” Kurt is out here saying what most Americans think too

[@Kitty-lj7eg]

Your boyfriend looks like high school student... but you two are so matchy together!! Happy couple!! :))

[@caricakes]

whenever he orders alcohol he gets carded cause no one believes he's old enough hahahaha

[@Kitty-lj7eg]

@@caricakes hahaha... you look young too, he looks super young. lol

[@Kt-cn2rq]

@@caricakes lol still do. More fun when see your real age.

[@Nazey09]

Funny, I thought he would be childish but he is right, he is very mentally mature and wise but looks 15. Lol

[@jackiehello]

it feels like you're super comfortable with each other :) i ship it. stay warm!!

[@caricakes]

heheheh thank you!

[@hazeylulu]

His english is 👌👌

[@aliceluc9159]

yeah is very special that a Korean can speak so fluently english👌

[@Willstonez]

Omg if he starts doing content on Korean films or anything, I'm there. He's the best.

[@caricakes]

hahha he's excited to do it!!

[@Sergeantpaprika]

Same!!

[@guiltypleasure5176]

I have been told that Koreans or asians in general look young for their age

[@rye-victoriabrown6808]

You two are just so enjoyable to watch and listen to

[@caricakes]

gahhh thank you so much!!

[@lina_byoui]

you guys are the cutest ahh i love the chemistry :')

[@caricakes]

gahhh thank you!

[@naz5928]

Ok I need to comment again. So the whole thing you guys said about traveling, I totally agree with it! I always tell people how important it is to solo travel at least once in your lifetime. Also, what you guys have is exactly the kind of relationship I want. You give each other space and respect each other's opinions and that's really important. 💗💗

[@caricakes]

💕💕💕 we’re really lucky!!

[@silverfox9648]

Ohh your boyfriend is the cutest😄 looking forward to more videos with him that he actually enjoys filming😂❤️

[@caricakes]

hehhehe thank you!

[@joyce_lui]

Wow, your boyfriend should definitely have his own channel to share his interests! I was actually curious about what he was going to say about pi at the end haha...

[@shreyabooked9309]

I've just started binging this channel a couple of weeks back (I've been following Cari Can Read for a while now) so it's just so sweet to watch this and know that you guys are married now and everything!

[@tina333li]

Ooh! Actually, yes please to Korean film and music recommendations. Also your Q&A's together are quite sweet...so how about a Q&A about music and movies ;)

[@caricakes]

🤗🤗🤗

[@bubu_lubu]

loved this video! It’s so fun to watch you two together~ also please please encourage him to make another video it seems he has a lot of interesting things to share !! Happy New Years in advance 💗

[@caricakes]

Thank you!! Happy new yearnn

[@HeyIAmNixo]

you guys are adorable!! Honestly the whole solo-travel thing, need to find a person like that you understand the value of traveling alone !! Hope 2019 has greeted you well!

[@wendymartinez3057]

That’s true! You speak English in a easy way 😂😂😂 thank you for that!! And you two are too cute!!! ❤️

[@caricakes]

my friends back home make fun of me though hahahhah and thank YOU!

[@TabeaLa]

When you guys were to mention your mutual fav kdrama I guessed "Reply" series. I thought you would mention it, since its truly one of the most authentic and realistic kdramas that contents meaningful values. Of course, that's only my opinion but its the one and only kdrama I would always recommend!^^

[@caricakes]

yessss they did such a good job with 1997!!

[@TabeaLa]

@@caricakes Yep absolutely love 1997 and my second fav is 1988! It's so fascinating to me how those series are able to awaken such a strong feeling of nostalgia in me although I didn't live at any of those specific eras. Contains a bit of a magical feeling.☄

[@delaneyevering]

You guys are the cutest 😍 and you have intelligent conversations and I can see why you get along so well.

[@gellichan09]

You both seem like such an intelligent couple. All the best to you guys and happy new year!

[@caricakes]

aw thanks! happy new year!

[@thatnursevicky9118]

Ohmygosh. Totally loved this one =) Per usual, you inspire in the most organic and authentic way. I love the validation I got from both of you regarding solo travel and knowing one's self better because this is one of the reasons I love to do solo travel. Thank you =)

[@caricakes]

its the best reason to travel!!! and thank you so much!!

[@TiffanyN]

You both are adorable. I'm glad he's getting more comfortable with the camera. But nooo keep doing more q&as!!😊

[@mrjinkorea]

Great video. Thanks Cari. Best wishes to you and your boyfriend. He seems like a pretty good guy. Happy New Year

[@caricakes]

he's alright ;) and thank you!! happy new year!!

[@tengchuyu]

!! Looking forward to the videos on Korean film & art :3

[@caricakes]

yeeee thank you!

[@withcharmtospare]

Adorable! I look forward to him getting all worked up about math in the middle of a movie review 😁

[@tszx]

I love it! You are so cute together hahaha the age mentally physical made me laugh. I think that what your boyfriend said about travelling solo is the best way to describe why travel alone. Thanks for sharing, and Happy New Year in advance to both of you

[@caricakes]

thank you so much!! and happy happy new year!

[@omisha797]

Both of you are lovely together!!!! This is such a happy video!! Makes me soo happy

[@responsibleregalia]

He is so cute. And I love what he said about how traveling is really about finding yourself.

[@valeriag9443]

I like that this is more like YALL are having a conversation and are letting us into it

[@GH-bb6uf]

Woah you’re so lucky to have each other. He is so mature and I really like his perspective and the way he sees things. I hope I can find someone who understands me like that in the future . Love your videos by the way❤️

[@satsukihatake2915]

Aiii the editing had me laughing so hard. Thanks for a great vid :)

[@caricakes]

hehehe thanks for watching!

[@selasninelives]

I accidentally watched your ghibli visit in japan, and now im here watching all your videos. I can say that you two are amazingly beautiful in such a way that you are very calm, open, and mature in a lot of aspects in life (which is very rare in vlogger cause they mostly do exaggerate lot of things, anyway im babbling too much). Since im here may i request about your favorite films or list of films/series that is a must-watch? Thank you. Have a nice day to you two~

[@caricakes]

thank you so much! we're actually going to be posting a vid about favorite films soon! (kurt will join for this one!)

[@MQ-rg7mk]

Got the notification and Immediately dropped everything. Hi cari 👋🏻

[@caricakes]

omg thank you!!!

[@mikapaddy]

I agree with the Coffee Prince part! Also, please make him watch Reply 1997!!! It’s really gooood!

[@caricakes]

Im working on him muhahhaha

[@lourdesr.a3878]

It’s my favourite drama!! Al the season are amazing, but my favourite one is 1988 is the funniest one

[@peacelife]

Aww! Glad you guys found one another. I think watching TV shows/drama about the country is the quickest way to learn the language and understand the culture and humor. Friends were my show aha. He is def way more Americanize than the other Korean partner I saw on the other KZbin channel. So glad I found your channel. Very relaxing to watch and it is like listening to a friend.

[@hesokaaa8419]

I really love your videos and enjoy your videos cus u r looking so honest and simple in all of your vlogs🌷

[@euniceopena9522]

I can’t help but smile the whole time I was watching. You are both cute! And I admire how both of you are not afraid of doing things alone - as individuals. I agree with solo travel and I, too, loved it since I’ve tried it. Happy New year to you, guys! 💕

[@caricakes]

happy happy new year!!!

[@nhiv2615]

i had my first solo traveling experience in nyc the week after thanksgiving and it was amazing! i’m hopefully moving to korea next year and i’m so excited to do all of the solo traveling around the country 😭

[@caricakes]

omg yay!!! im so glad you liked it, solo travel can be hard sometimes. and travel in korea is AMAZING!!

[@nhiv2615]

cari cakes i think it helps that ive done small things by myself just around my city-eating at restaurants, grocery shopping, watching movies. i agree that it’s a good way to discover yourself, for sure. 👌🏻 sidenote, and i hope this isn’t weird lmao but you’re probably my favorite youtuber living in korea, so i hope we get a chance to maybe meet one day once i move there!

[@caricakes]

its definitely something to ease into^^ im glad you did! and awwww thank you!! i really need to organize more meet ups theyre so fun!! good luck with your move!!

[@nhiv2615]

cari cakes i’d definitely go to one if you did! you are the sweetest, thank you!! 😭❤️

[@Xxxchewittxxx]

Came as soon as I saw the intastory about it ! By far my favourite youtuber I discovered this year

[@caricakes]

omg you're too kind ㅠㅠ thank you!!

[@angelicsaturn]

Omg yas Coffee Prince! So glad you guys like it as well :) Also I love your couple dynamic

[@asutkaprosh2492]

you two are adorable :) and I totally agree on solo traveling.. been doing that for about 15 years now.. love to see how supportive you guys are of each other

[@kat.f1940]

Sooo true! I think i found your channel because i'm interested in South Korea and its culture but i also like a lot how you speak!! It's so calm and you're so expressive that it's a pleasure to hear you and practise english oral comprenhension by watching your videos!

[@charity4913]

You guys are the cutest! Loved the video!

[@caricakes]

🤗 thank you!

[@fatimamartinez9505]

First video , already love you guys !!

[@giangviet222]

5:08 Yes!!! You has such a great accent/ voice for English learner! Though I can speak english like a bilingual but tbh your english so easy to listen to

[@BtsArmy-lh3yw]

Your boyfriend is so special I really like him for you , you deserves each other ❤️ be always happy , like this video a lot !!

[@louellaenglis]

I love your videos Cari! You guys remind me so much of Jun and Rachel 💕

[@Jenny10161]

You guys are soo cute! I'm glad he's more comfortable being on camera now. Have a fun trip! When you got to hongkong, will you be taking any solo trips?

[@caricakes]

i think we'll b sticking together for that trip since i've been there before so i dont have any places i am dying to go to, i want to see how he likes it^^ and thank you!!

[@fernandanahir7595]

This is SO interesting!!! Loads of love from Argentina 🇦🇷❤️

[@caricakes]

thank you thank you!!!

[@swoonscapades]

I'm dying at the beginning with the bunny, that was so cute 😅 Gah, i love you both. You guys are so adorable together! 💖 I was about to say "more videos together pls because I love these" but then I got to the part where you mention he doesn't like doing this very much, BUT I would definitely love that video where you both talk about Korean movies and films. Tbh I wouldn't even mind the math video but that's just because I'm similar to your boyfriend in terms of interests and the way we think (you mentioned once he was really logical, I think) 😅 Also, he mentioned that when you travel you go to places people probably wouldn't go or think to go.. but that's exactly why I love your travel videos. The places you explore are so unconventional and it's why I subscribed to you when your Korean travel videos popped up on my recommendations. I felt like I had already seen the same things about Korea over and over, but your videos showed a more unique, fresh side of the country that didn't feel "mainstream-y" if that makes sense and I love it. I feel like you do that about all the places you visit in general and I adore that! So I'm actually really glad you go to "weird" parts of countries 😅 ❤

[@caricakes]

awww thank you so much! i like traveling to weird places muhahaha happy new year!

[@sarahc8954]

Thank you for sharing/ talking about solo travel!

[@caricakes]

its something we both think is so important!!

[@zohreh5339]

I LOVE how independent you both are while in a relationship

[@laura-md3ue]

you and your boyfriend are both so cute and funny! I think it would be so fun to hang out with you guys, I really like yours and your boyfriend's opinions and taste in certain things uwu, thank you for sharing this cari

[@caricakes]

Hehehe thank you!!!

[@nanasadie2879]

You two are so cute! Have a wonderful trip, guys! About the way you speak... it is so true. I considered commenting this before, i can understand everything you say that's why i thought you were an english teacher!

[@caricakes]

hehehe just a natrually (often frustratingly) slow talked ;) and thank you!!!!

[@mintygloopy]

You guys are such a cute couple 😍 Also happy early birthday! :)

[@caricakes]

thank you so much!!

[@AndreaJF]

You guys looks so cute together 😍 Yaaayyy, music and Korean film recommendations!! Awesome idea! Btw congrats on getting your videos rewarded (I believe I saw an Insta story about that recently). Take care ^_^

[@caricakes]

thank you so much!!! happy new year!

[@1ovesyou]

That is the cutest thumbnail I've ever seen !!

[@caricakes]

awww thanks!!

[@hihello3862]

aww this was cute. hope you feel better! stay warm!

[@caricakes]

we're feeling much better thank you!!!

[@hihello3862]

@@caricakes you are welcome love !

[@futureturns3057]

You guys are just too cute 😍 Your boyfriend seems like a really cool, funny, open-minded person ~ Totally agree with you guys about having solo travel time, even if travelling together!! ~ Hope you both have lots of fun in Hong Kong and have a lovely, adventurous and happy New Year ✨

[@caricakes]

thank you so much!! happy new year to you too

[@reginagomez847]

Cutes... cuuutes ^^ I appreciate that you speak english in a slow way, I can understand almost everything without subs, so thanksss. And movie recommendations yay!! I recently saw 4 movies in a cinema festival here in Spain and I love them. So yes to that!! ^^ Happy 2019 and happy birthday!! 🎂🎂

[@caricakes]

heheh thank you!! and happy new year!

[@lofiguy8136]

I guess I have to wait for, if not, forever! By the way, you two are good looking couple. Congrats! Cari's my favorite KZbinr

[@coastalphoenix791]

I've never seen your channel before, but you two are so adorable omg.

[@Delphadae]

Listening/watching this Q&A is so relaxing..It almost feels like I'm sitting in the cafe with you two.

[@caricakes]

^^~ im glad!!!

[@keshiachristelle5112]

thank you for the bf screen time, he is funny to watch. he is such an interesting character. hahaha 😄 love you both, always entertaining. #goals 😍

[@caricakes]

Hehehh thank you!!

[@Mariah-ddalgi]

Could we maybe have videos of you two talking about your adventures, solo travels, or trips together? It'd be a cool video series perhaps?

[@caricakes]

thanks for the idea!!! and happy new year!

[@marleneevans5171]

I really enjoyed your video. I have fallen in love the the Korean people and culture. I look forward to seeing more of your videos.

[@pornessianparpio1320]

Girl you got a good man. He is so smart and a gentleman. I hope the best for you guys. 💕💕

[@MrBug-qp1zz]

Homie is just there snacking. Appreciate😔💖 yall cute

[@JJ97MM]

Y’all are so adorable ❤️❤️

[@caricakes]

gahh thank you!

[@kimdechavu4043]

Kurt seems to be really protective towards her and that s kinda cute. What a lovely couple ❤️💙🤍

[@chih-ninglin8298]

HaHa here is a person watching your KZbin to learn English ,too! Also I love your lifestyle and attitude : ) Happy new year~ Please give us more stories ~

[@caricakes]

Happy new year!! Thank youuuu~

[@paula-zb8lp]

You guys are sooo cute. I love this video! Hugs from Argentina 💙

[@caricakes]

Hehe thank you!!

[@luisbanegassaybe6685]

He was staying in Saint-Denis...oh boy....”real” French experience ㅋㅋ큐ㅠㅠ

[@caricakes]

hehehehe

[@annieranai2198]

Seine Saint-Denis style 😉

[@peachpearplum]

this is a great partnership because you are both so in tune mentally with each other. it shows!! 👍🏾 sidenote: theres a space on YT for his kinda math content! narrated by his quirkiness a lotta people would watch haha

[@rose-bd2fe]

I laughed when I saw the bunny video next to your boyfriends face 😂 I wish you two the best 💜

[@caricakes]

Its like his twin!!! Hahhaha

[@kimhuff8798]

I really love you two together! I would love to hear about Korean movies and Music. I’ve watched one Korean movie so far ( Train to Busan) and I loved it.. I love a good horror movie. 💖

[@caricakes]

he HATES horror so you'll have to get your recommendations from me (who loves them haha) and thank you!!!

[@kimhuff8798]

Miss Dolkapots thank you for the recommendation!!! I’ll check that out tonight!!! ❤️

[@MandyS108]

you are both so chill i love it

[@annamiruna8656]

My question finally got answered!!😂 Love your videos but you should really make the audio better, atlesst for Q&A's , love ya💓💓

[@sunnysidebingsu]

Really admire your dynamics. Like how you guys can be independent and so the relationship doesn't seem suffocating. Intellectuals!

[@caricakes]

hehehe thank you!

[@milliehumphries3293]

absoluetly obsessed with you guys thank you for another video together you guys are a lot of fun and make me smile cause you're such lovely friends as well as partners in crime 💕😊😊😊

[@caricakes]

hahahah thank you!

[@btslovhq764]

y’all so cute 🥺😡💖💖💖

[@caricakes]

😂😂😂

[@AprilWanders]

I just love watching you two communicate with each other it feels very chill and fun. 😁

[@caricakes]

😊😊😊

[@karenkingrey6142]

I hope y’all do more videos together. It’s great to get to know another aspect of your life. 😊

[@caricakes]

thank you!!!

[@xAnicsi]

Your boyfriend totally should make his own youtube channel, I bet he'd instantly have tons of supportive subscribers haha You guys are super cute. Thanks for making my break from work worthwhile! I feel refreshed now

[@happycake1183]

I love your vdeos ❤️. Your videos are amazing

[@K.S.00.]

you are such a cute couple 😊and thank you like always for the Nightvideo (i Call them like that because i nearly always Watch them befor going to sleep, its like a routine😂)

[@caricakes]

awww yay!!! sweet dreams!!

[@josevictorino6679]

Just came upon your vlog and while watching I like your partnership right away so I’m a subscriber now and I’ll be looking forward to more of your videos.

[@akim953]

That's right I love the way she speaks 'slowly' it's very helpful to improve my English listening ability 😉

[@DanNak]

Haha I love that you and your boyfriend both agree that he is mentally older 😋

[@caricakes]

yeah hahah theres no question about that 😂

[@kurt.archive]

but I like cari is not! sometimes I sick of myself being old man honestly haha

[@Emeand33]

Kurt Lee omg you guys are so cute I can’t-

[@t.adrianaa]

you both are so smart & go so well together . 💞🤧

[@caricakes]

:) thank you!

[@naz5928]

Ok your boyfriend had me at Brooklyn 99. Also, you guys are so cute together!