Question/Answer: Coming out to wife

[@morghan_with_an_h]

I caught my husband wearing my dress & boots one day when I came home early from work. I've always been open minded so I said to him, "what the hell are you doing!? (long pause) honey, those boots totally don't go with that dress! Here, try these heels!" Now, I dress him up and he becomes my "wife" during the weekends. ;)

[@morghan_with_an_h]

My Dad is gay so I grew up in the LGBTQ community. I met my husband when we were 17, got married at 19. I'm still learning things about him and after discovering this our relationship has been more open and honest! I was only mad at him for not sharing this side of him with me sooner! Like hellooo..... My Dads best friend is a drag queen, like I would judge my man for wanting to wear my heels... he's way more feminine than me when he is in "Amy" mode. Haha

[@anthonydelorme2797]

@@morghan_with_an_h He's really lucky to have you. I'm always afraid for future relationships and finding someone I love wholeheartedly and then they find out I like to dress up and I lose them. You're an awesome person for how accepting you are.

[@morghan_with_an_h]

@@anthonydelorme2797 My advice is when you first meet someone just be honest about yourself, this includes your kinks & fetishes too. You can usually tell if your partner is open-minded or not once you get to know them. Don't hide it for so long once the relationship gets serious, you will only be miserable. Just don't be afraid, you'd be surprised how many women are into it and only want to please their partners in the end. Good luck to you, you will find someone!

[@anthonydelorme2797]

@@morghan_with_an_h Thanks a lot. I'll try to gain the courage when the time comes.

[@CHELLIE2408]

You are so Cool and Understanding :) Luv Ya

[@RichardWilliams-wl7fk]

Wife is lucky to have such a beautiful girlfriend now

[@RichardWilliams-wl7fk]

Obviously you do a great job with makeup

[@4aneme8R]

I did a study on "telling" you are always better off telling in a planned manor than being discovered, and my advice start with "I have something to share with you".

[@richardbedford6657]

You are a real cutie. I told my wife 40 years ago before we married that I had this MTF personality. After I retired I told her that I needed to cross dress. We went to the Dr. about it and she decided to keep me. She had resentment and made some bad remarks and it hurt my feelings badly. I finally convinced her that I was not being harmful to myself. I was able to dress around the house. I still kept it from the rest of my family though. I did not want to embarrass her in front of them.

[@alexisdeville3605]

You are so unbelievably feminine, both in appearance and demeanor! You remind me a many of Me as a Full time Trans MTF woman

[@davidhutchison3343]

Such good advice about not over dressing when you go out. If you dress like a drag queen, you will be noticed. If that's your thing, no problem, but if you want to blend in, dress as most women do for the occasion. If the rest of the women are wearing jeans and sweaters, you will stand out if you wear that cute 50's dress with the full petticoats.

[@jeaninehill]

I am a very fournate girl. I have been able to share my feminine side with two very supportive ladies. I was honest and open with my first wife. I told her when we were dating and she wanted to see me dressed. I dressed for her and she pointed out a few things that I was doing wrong. She totally supported me and we had many wonderful years together till she passed away. I met my current wife and I also told her while we were dating and I showed her a picture of me dressed and she is totally supportive of me dressing. My current wife has dressed me many times and both my late wife and current wife went out together as girlfriends. I have been blessed to have two wonderful ladies that accepted me for who I am. BE HONEST and OPEN about dressing, it may take a little longer, but you will find your soul mate and she will accept you for the person you are. Love,hugs kisses Amanda

[@greenrock8171]

amanda hill That is so wonderful to be able to express your femininity so nicely with both your wive’s like that. What a dream to be able to go out as a girl with your spouse!! :)

[@Kilkenny1923]

Some solid advice about blending in. CDs need to take their cues from the women around them. Are any of them wearing skin-tight minidresses and stilettos? Are any of them wearing makeup that is inappropriate for the time of day? If you want tips on how to comfortably "pass" just walk through Walmart and take a close look at the women you see there on any given day. Do ANY of them look like they're dressed to the nines? Yet every one of them is instantly accepted as women. THAT is what you should be shooting for. Dressing to be accepted as a women in public doesn't mean passing yourself off as some sort of hooker, nor is it about making yourself attractive to other men. It is about a chance to feel comfortable in your own skin. Never forget that.

[@CHELLIE2408]

No No No Anyplace But Walmart :) LOL

[@ethericlight1346]

You are so cute honey, so insightful, and I just love your smooth voice. Keep up the good work and hope to see you in more videos!

[@josiefrancis8197]

Love is love no matter what. Be happy be together .

[@kendevine94]

You look so beautiful. I have been crossdressing for many years and i love it. You are so lucky that you have a wonderful accepting wife who helps you.

[@donaldbaker6961]

That is awsome my girl is cool with me light dressing she wants me to go out but I can not get passed the door but I like how you say you just like to stay home and be relaxed that’s how it is for me it totally relaxes and calms me thank you sooo much Paola ☺️❤️

[@RichardWilliams-wl7fk]

You’re absolutely so beautiful

[@RichardWilliams-wl7fk]

You can easily pass in public

[@SpitefulAZ]

thank you for making this videos. They are very inspiring to me. -love, a fellow cross-dresser from Northern California.

[@ezeruz1]

You have a good day now, much love from Finland.

[@derlinclaire1778]

From Suomi,my friend.

[@viccipark8712]

As my wife says keep the super short dresses for home picture taking (or halloween) and dress as other ladies do when we go out.

[@remc70]

One of the things I found you can turn your frustration into gardening or if you own a house set the outside as Halloween hunted house.

[@laurencd6707]

So… this is your authentic self? I personally have a hard time explaining it to people. I tell them.. that I am a 🦁 and I am a 🐑. And that most people only know half of me… but to understand all of me… it’s like… now you see the 🦁 and now you see the 🐑. One is the one that I am… and the other is who is in me. But I am both… the lion 🦁/ 🐑 and the lamb. But both are me… it’s like I am married… and my bride 👰‍♀️… lives in me. And it’s like … who I am on the inside.. is truly who I am. But most only see the lion that I am… instead of the lamb that I am… but if you look real closely… you can see that we are one. And there is no separation of the two… that when I was made … I was made not one… but two… and it’s like… which one do I sacrifice? The lion… or the lamb… well… what is a good girl worth…. Well… I would have to sacrifice a really good guy.

[@justjon30]

I'm loving this channel, you look so incredible Paige, you're very lucky to have such an understanding wife. Your makeup is absolutely flawless btw, I wish you would do a makeup tutorial video.I've really only started coming to terms with the fact that I want to dress and be more feminine, however as I'm 42 I fear I may have left it a little too late, I think I look like a builder in a dress, and every time I see myself like that it just makes me more sad.

[@sharonmax6968]

So, I got some questions that I hope aren’t too personal, but are u attracted to men and when u dress up like this, do men hit on u and what do u do when they do this? Your looks and voice are quite feminine by the way.

[@michaelbarbano105]

Hipaigeiammikelovewearingsilknightgownscanyouwearnightgownsoutside

[@thomasjust2663]

Thanks to your videos, I finally kind of told my wife about my 20 plus years habbit of CD...she didn't say anything but didn't get angry either

[@brianastix1855]

Hey glad to see your new channel. Also glad to see you are still around and pretty as ever!

[@jamesjianghaiwang9536]

Hey you look great - not overly made up and just look like a cis female - to let the cat out of the bag. You sounded like feminine too, no high pitch sounding or falsetto voice and could pass off like a cis female. Bravo

[@alexisdeville3605]

I think we all would love to see you do a video of your makeup routine?

[@City67Girl]

I'm sooo jealous. You have everything that I want. I love my time spent as a woman

[@Octopussyist]

Lots of parallels to my story. To all of you who want to go out more: Ask yourself what it is that you really want to do? I used to go to a lot of parties in the trans and even the drag-queen community (where I was often taken for somebody's wife just comig along). It evolved in the direction that there is a lot of social activities I feel happier taking part in while presenting as a female. This in turn lead to me having some friends who only know me as female and others who only know me as male. So decide, what it is you want to do and feel comfortable and happy about presenting as female, and do it. If you don't know yet, experiment.

[@greenrock8171]

Octopussyist That’s so wonderful that some only know you as a woman; you must be so feminine!

[@gpwil3847]

Putting aside a huge age difference we are very similar. Yep married two sons, blend in with other women and just live and be who I am as desired...I am open with friends...yep drop the labels. Thumbs up!

[@allamericannative]

But also I hope your wife is not cheating as well. Like I said your brave enough to not lie..

[@Jacdoc2002]

Can’t wait to see your beach videos.

[@sportsaholic19888]

Your wife is a lucky woman! She has beautiful you in her life!

[@nchareese]

I LOVE ur look. I am happy for you . I believe I've seen ur wife in pics w/ U on Pinterest & she is cute . I know the difficulties in maintaining a balance between the dichotomy of the crossdressing lifestyle & living in male persona. It's no easy task. I can tell you that it is a struggle, one I just found was part of my life. I felt this need to express my feminine self most of my life while still maintaining my male life. Your look , ur voice are perfect. I'm reasonably sure you pass in public well. I wish you the best .

[@forcedfeminizationanimatio6653]

Nina Chareese what’s her Pinterest account I can’t find her

[@nchareese]

I don't know if Paige has an account or not. But I see her pics on various boards on Pinterest.

[@forcedfeminizationanimatio6653]

Nina Chareese ok thanks and do you have Pinterest

[@nchareese]

in.pinterest.com/chareesebina/nina-chareese/

[@nchareese]

in.pinterest.com/chareesebina/feminine-gender-illusion/

[@marcuskraus631]

Love your video's, you inspire me more every day to keep pursuing who I really am

[@peterrhoades4568]

I have been crossdressing for years but only come out to my wife a couple of years ago, she is very supportive with me and she helps choose clothes and shoes for me to wear and also helps me with my make up, you have been a great help too with your videos and advice, thank you.

[@GeneralNickles]

You seem really tense and stiff. Which is understandable with you just starting out with this KZbin thing. Talking to a camera is really awkward. I've done it a couple times and it just feels really weird. Keep at it, and you'll get better. I really enjoy hearing about the experiences of other crossdressers. It inspires me to get better with it myself. And you, Madame, are truly an inspiration! You're so beautiful and look completely natural. Your makeup is flawless. Your voice is nearly perfect. I wish I was as convincing as you are.

[@geenawhittaker9204]

Just lovely!

[@jasminealondraalcantara6869]

I want a girlfriend/wife with whom i could share my fem side. You inspire me. (:

[@mkdjdjdjdjdjj7380]

Hola corazón

[@msh6865]

Can't get over how pretty you are. You seem very "real" and brave while still being shy. That's a great feminine combination!

[@lawrencewulff2071]

By xeimmd 13th 8ceissdressibg,life m@@girltimewithpaola9251

[@LeaOsmond]

Hi I love all your videos. I can't wait to see more. XOXO

[@Syzygy77]

I’m a cd too but only in private. I’ve been doing it since I was 3 yrs old. Ive always wanted a wife and kids but have always been a afraid that I wouldn’t find a woman that would understand my secret feminine side. Do you dress around your wife or is just when you have time to yourself?

[@tiorobot]

It's not easy breaking the news to someone

[@larrysevere5493]

Your channel is great 🙂

[@RichardWilliams-wl7fk]

It shows that you have been dressing for a long time

[@RGD-Audio-Repairs]

Wow your so lucky.. I came out to my partner about 6 months ago, She was fine about it. First few times wearing a dress and heels infront of her was awkward, and tbh still feels it.. I only cross dress within the privacy of my own home... kinda.. A few people know, My sister knows and seen me in a dress, Aswell as my neighbours.. I dont go out in public like it, But i have walked out my house and gone across road to my friends house, for her to do my makeup for first time :) Other than that, Thats about it.. I will be honest, i was hoping more for the "omg can i do ur makeup" sorta thing, But i dont really get that.. PLus, i dont dress full Fem... just wear the dresses and heels... Id like to be full fem, makeup, hair etc.. But i dont know how my partner would take that... As she knows about my feminine side, but dislikes it..

[@granthogg2824]

Wow! You are so stunning pretty and delicate. Big burly Scotsman here. You have made an impression. Gorgeous! X

[@RichardWilliams-wl7fk]

Is your wife accepting to your dressing

[@Jharrison6014]

Amazing! you are there :) You look (and sound) like you should have NO worry going in public and talking to anyone at all.. :)

[@semco72057]

Your wife got lucky when she married you because she not only have a husband to be with, but also a girlfriend to go shopping with. You are so gorgeous and so feminine until you could pass easily as a woman. Many would be flirting with you if they saw you alone out on the town.

[@Methoes123]

Absolutely Gorgeous!

[@TiffanyanneEaston]

I just came across your videos Paige. You are such a lovely person, and your femininity shines. Most importantly though, you have some very good, rock solid insight into MTF dressing and what to do and not to do in public. For someone so young, you are so very wise. I have quite a few years on you and I am still "analyzing" why it is I so love to do something that seems so wrong. Why do I feel so good when I dress, then feel so guilty at the same time. Well, I have just recently come to the point of not feeling guilty about it anymore and accept and love that other part of my personality. Thank you for taking the time to post your thoughts and helping others who may be conflicted as well.

[@mikkibaker883]

Do you and your wife go out as girls together? You certainly are passable, looks and voice. I'm sure positive feedback from this channel will help you feel more confident. Maybe think about attending a TG/CD conference -- Keystone in March is a good one -- with your wife. Both of you will learn more about each other from similar couples. A suggestion for people wanting to go out dressed; try to find a Meetup group for TG/CD people. Going out with a group of like people will give you the confidence you need, as well as a good reality check. I don't pass very well, but I'm comfortable in a group. Over the years I've found being "clocked" isn't such a big deal. I think people have become used to seeing men in women's clothing and don't give it much thought. But our hostess used a very key word --BLEND. If you dress to shock, better to do it with a group. When I go out dressed I pick my spots. When I shop for women's clothing I wear low-key women's clothes. If I'm going to a spot I don't know I'll scout it out as a male and use common sense in making my decision. I only go "overboard" on Hallowe'en or in a controlled environment.

[@mikeelliott5962]

What is your fem name, its nice to see you seem quite humble and maybe a little shy, looking great also.

[@mikeelliott5962]

Thanks for the reply Jade , great choice of name, stay true to yourself and your love ones, all the best for your future.

[@WhosStall]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 you dont go by paige anymore?

[@normshe307]

Mine is norma cd

[@roycollinson2232]

I don't think anyone would clock you But you would get chatted up. Your voice is totally feminine also. I applaud you.

[@allamericannative]

Your Soo absolutely amazing not too mention brave .

[@Jacdoc2002]

Do you only dress alone? Do you dress around family or friends?how do you shop for clothing?

[@tiffanyderbyshire2304]

Keep up the good work. Lovely to see another couple like ourselves love from Tiffany & Kimberley xx

[@jamesmeunier3463]

I love to dress up a lot when I can

[@patrickbarber8187]

Great dress! Where did you get it! I want one like that

[@hugorujeles87]

Your vids hv just intrigued an captured me an my interest and imagination, your voice your "look" , an your whole general vibe to your life n lifestyle are so appealing n gentle n soo "natch". I'm so happily blown away by the way your channel an you describe ur relationship with your wife, was that traumatic or scary when you HAD to "come out" to her? And does ur "little one" know, how do you plan on crossing tht bridge? Sorry for two things, being so nosey, and starting this sentence off w/ a preposition.😏 I guess I myself have some feminine tendencies, shoes n some other garments don't want to say yet which one's, nvr have tried makeup or wigs but hv thought bout' it, your makeup tips are very cool n have influenced me to maybe give it a shot, if I muster up the courage. Thanks for ur vids, n helping me out of the hole I thought myself in, I thought I was all by myself here. Keep up the wonderful an thoughtful channel, I'll keep my eyes an ears open for your content. Dueces, later 😎👌🏽

[@jeffrodenberger5936]

Sweet

[@m.s.8729]

Love you!

[@ericborgen7311]

Wonderful wife to except you for who you are incredibly beautiful woman heart and soul I love it when women are understanding of cross-dressing thank you for sharing your story love the videos

[@murrayparsons5826]

Glad you got a under standing partner and you able to be you

[@murrayparsons5826]

So who looks hotter you or her

[@JohnDavis-rl6po]

I love your blonde hair as well as your darker hair.

[@mikee750]

Blending in? Are you not sending mixed messages? What is over the top? It is difficult being a crossdresser, more so if you are straight. It sounds like you are saying hide who you are. I have a wife as well and two teen agers. I have been called all names my whole life but it has only made me more proud "WHO" I am, not what or a thing to be judged. Loving who you are is the most important thing. If you aren't ok with "WHO" you are how can anyone else be? You look fantastic btw.

[@user-sj3lf1uw9j]

Where do you get your wigs? They look awesome

[@chrisdenton5534]

I was 8 when I started. I wore heels at first then pantyhose. Then it started from there

[@ericdravenX00X]

Im glad to hear your wife was understanding and accepting of the matter.. Sounds like a good woman to be married too.. I would like to say, i think your channel is beautiful kind & informative.. Thank u, Paloa..💀

[@hestia165]

WOW! your voice is out of the world, do you know any good tutorials? i try this stuff with moving adam's apple and so on but it doesn't work. you are very cute :)

[@barbaraanneneal257]

You have a new fan! I appreciate your honesty and your point of view. I like the Halloween dresses too! A minor technical point: if there were some way to improve the shots of your whole outfit, I think it would be appreciated. I don't know if you're as obsessed with shoes as I am, but I feel that they can make or break an outfit. On a more intimate note, you don't appear to be wearing breast forms. Do you, and if so what kind? Thanks again!

[@barbaraanneneal257]

My Crossdressing Life Thanks for the reply, and I must say that I agree with you about breast forms. It's the only reason I've considered hrt. In any event, love the recent videos, and thanks again for making them. Your makeup and hair are spot on. And your voice is terrific!

[@alexisdeville3605]

Any clubs in your area you really should check them out you will meet other girls like us!

[@miket6672]

Couldn’t resist a hello. You are beautiful, intelligent and have such a alluring personality.....I’m intrigued.....*smile

[@freewilldummies1603]

You are prettier than the wife she could switch and be your husband 🤗

[@alexisdeville3605]

Are you living full time now? How tall are you? BTW you are really gorgeous!

[@ЛюблюЛюбилса]

love love💘💘💘💘

[@janisfreimanis2314]

Interesting, what can You suggest to man who has large palms?

[@malburns4210]

Lovely

[@alexismarie2308]

Good afternoon. Wanted to drop a line in not only to say Thank you for the videos but thank you for your motivation too to help myself allow myself to actually be the real me. I have been crossdressing since my young teen years secertly due to the times my family has found out they humiliated me. It took me up to about a year and a half ago to finally accept myself and actually explore this side of me. I'm still having difficulty in finalizing if I'm totally trans or not because religiously I find myself happier fully as a female plus more things too. It's been a seriously lonely life for me and my depression constantly gets the best of me. Sorry for dragging out this comment it's just nice finding someone totally understanding to everything I am into. Thanks again truly Sincerely Alexis Marie

[@MiguelPerez-xj8lx]

Is that your natural voice? How old are you Jade?

[@nameci1313]

I tell all girls I meet right away

[@jamesreyer1174]

You look so good nice hair and make up

[@TsColleen]

Did you or would you consider hormones to enhance further your beauty?

[@TsColleen]

Only reason I asked is because one of my friends who crossdresses, takes low dose and blockers to help with appearance.

[@pm3024]

My God, you wouldn't know you were a crossdresser. WOWZER 😍

[@Rlo605]

You were truthful😘

[@terrismith263]

Omg fabulous fabulous fabulous pure heavenly dreams 🌹🌹🌹

[@allamericannative]

Halloween is always fun ..

[@raylew9937]

Paola ~~ wearing the Halloween dress, in this episode, is so appropriate since I have noticed you shared by teaching progressively, so it is natural you illustrate from a Halloween dressing occasion to be able to explain to your wife about your enjoyment in creating an entertaining persona with the hope and intention your dear wife ( and later kids/own children?) will understand your motive for the decision -- and **approve**! You went from Paige to the famous Paola (Paula) persona brand! 12-18-2020

[@jardinero9112]

Your so pretty. Wow. Your eyes are so captivating.

[@herored1204]

More legs please

[@IsmaelHernández-k1k]

Wooooow🥰😍beautiful❤️🤗

[@neonachomanoj6382]

i love you!!!!

[@teencd2003]

i wish i would have told my wife in the same fashion as you did when she found my clothes

[@lillwines2395]

Ur such a pretty pretty 👧 girl.i started cross dressing when I turn 12

[@jason77584]

You are soooo sweet I hope one day I can be happy like you💖💖💖💖💖

[@CeciliaPeng]

The most (NOT one of the most) successful crossdresser I have seen anywhere, both on the Internet and in real.

[@scorchedearth1451]

When you cheat, and your wife finds the clothes of your mistress, you tell her you're a crossdresser to explain the clothes being there, and you dress as long you live together. Otherwise she might find out. LOL

[@seankelly8962]

Secretly I crossdress I wanna meet a guy I wanna crossdress when I'm with him I wanna be his girl how can I make this happen

[@davidhickle7629]

I'm a man I don't want to crossdress but I won't mind if a man wants to crossdresser and have sex with me but also I want the crossdresser to stab me in my belly button and cannibalize my belly button in real life

[@Octopussyist]

That is probably easier than finding a boyfriend as a boy if you look good. (Or I am simply not good at being attractive as a boy). There are dating platforms for this. But be choosy about them. 99% contacting you will be seedy characters. But there will be enough 1%ers to choose from.

[@alexisdeville3605]

Mall trips a girl should try to blend in with what the other woman in your age group are wearing to Malls in your area!

[@kentdiffenderfer4857]

You are so cute love your videos

[@davidhunter2824]

What a great video. You are so inspirational. I respect your family for allowing you to be who you are. I'm crossdress myself occasionally, yet I'm mostly known for being a MTF crossplayer. What's interesting is that, when I crossplay at anime cons, I get a lot of great compliments (thank you convention community). However, my mother gets very nervous and suspicious of my costumes even when I wear a "normal" male cosplay. Btw, do you have a Facebook or Instagram account? I would love to be friends with you and show you some of the costumes I've made and worn over the years. Take care my friend and much love 💗

[@ronalddaub5049]

When I was young I used to fantasize that on Halloween I could get away with dressing up like a girl but I never did do it until years later oh that was fun I just wish I could have done it every day since then you're giving me inspiration to do the right thing thank you