r/NotHowGirlsWork - SEXISM BINGO 2

[@TheClick]

oh no it looks like one of the terrible tweets got cut a bit wonky in the edit my deepest apologies for not representing this glorious hot take properly

[@TheClick]

it's ok click. as a fellow alpha i forgive you

[@tiny-bumblebee]

As a fellow fellow alpha I forgive you too

[@damnbro6017]

Its OK clicky wickey

[@oribooedit]

It's okay Click!! Don't let haters tell you to make everything perfect, it was a little mistake, you don't need to worry about conforming to people's ideas of perfect xx

[@CanadianGoose92]

It's okay, Click, we know you did your best ❤️😊

[@thejayst3r]

The guy calling his eleven year old niece a slut… I think, deep down, you know why she doesn’t like you. And she’s right

[@solidstate9451]

Yeah, children know exactly who likes them and who not...

​@solidstate9451 ... and who likes them a little _too_ much, if you know what I'm saying. There's absolutely zero doubt in my mind that she's picking up on a weird vibe from this guy! Why do I think so? Because I've had nieces and nephews and friends children of both genders and they've _never_ suddenly stopped wanting to interact with me! _Something_ changed there, I can guarantee it.

[@jazzmineloe6496]

@ Exactly what I was thinking.

[@whos.chiaki]

@this guy gives off the exact vibes I get from my stepdad, if I was her I’d also avoid him

[@jessicablack9960]

Dude was literally mad that she probably found other guys more attractive than him. He is 💯 a creep.

[@kelcorrie8216]

As a former 11-year old girl, I can confirm that any adults who made me uncomfortable I would not interact with given literally any other option.

[@elliemac306]

Yeah, same. I had to pause the video until the creepy vibes went away from that section. Could you imagine a relative getting that jealous that you refused to say hello to them anymore because they were being hella inappropriate?

[@Makkufurai]

I'm sorry you've had to experience that, as a child no less...

[@dalisdiabolical]

same here

Yeah, and as the adult you're supposed to be the... you know, adult, and accept that the kid doesn't want to interact with you right now _for whatever reason!_ I hated when I was a kid and was being told I _had_ to hug this-and-that person! >:-( But maybe that was just me, I dunno. ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[@Akira_Tomoki]

same

[@anakabrawn1358]

"Babies are also born with legs. It doesn't mean that they're ready to run a marathon right out of the oven" this is forever engrained in my head. Thank you.

[@Shafas_GachaWorld]

😂❤

[@jasperhollow664]

It's such a beautiful parallel too

[@andistansbury4366]

I'm assuming the person who wrote that was born with a brain, but he clearly doesn't use it.

[@AllenTax]

Not all babies are born with legs. You can find this rare condition on google and youtube. Search for Phocomelia & Congenital amputation. There is the athlete Zion Clark. Born without legs.

[@stinky_twigs]

"women owe men sex". "you have to have sex to be a good partner". "in order to please your man and keep him loving you, you have to have sex with him". "if you don't have sex with him and please him, he won't love you and he will leave you". these are all things i grew up hearing- these are all things i believed with my whole heart. these are why i got raped at 13 and thought it was okay. he just did it because he *loved* me too much. he just did it because he was so kind to me and i wasn't doing enough for him. listen to me. listen to me *good*. i do not care who you are. i do not care what your gender or sexual identity is. *you do not owe anybody ANYTHING.* no kind words, no using your body, no explanations as to why you don't want something. *nothing.* you can *owe* somebody money. that is it. nothing else. remember, you are a person. not an object. you do not *belong* to anyone except *yourself*, and if anyone tells you otherwise? don't walk. run.

[@keorishalashaka2064]

I’m sorry that happened to you,Are you doing better now?

[@stinky_twigs]

@@keorishalashaka2064 i'm working on it. i'm not perfect, i'm not fixed, but it's a bit better- a bit more manageable. thank you, your comment means a lot. i hope you have a great rest of your day / night and remember to eat, drink water, and take care of yourself ^^

[@Dusty-Blue-Doodles]

I hope your doing ok now, anyway good message :)

[@stinky_twigs]

@@Dusty-Blue-Doodles a bit yeah ^^ thank you. remember to sleep, eat, and drink water. have a great rest of your day / night ^^

[@Dusty-Blue-Doodles]

your welcome, have a Wonderfull day/evening/morning/night :)@@stinky_twigs

[@Wolf_Avatar]

The "My 11 year old niece no longer likes me" guy gives me heavy "Not allowed within 500 feet of a school" vibes.

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

I'm really hoping that was fake, because that level of s*xual tension directed towards a child has me genuinely concerned for her safety.

[@jesuschristbutafab9923]

Fr. The niece probably got the creepy vibes he was exuding and noped the hell out of that. Good for her.

[@marcellemccalla6325]

Oh yeah. 🤢

[@kurojester4513]

@@jesuschristbutafab9923Oh yeah. As she gets older she’s realising just how creepy he is. Pretty soon she won’t even want to be at gatherings where he is.

[@senor-achopijo3841]

I hope it was fake, cause if he is real, he's such a creep.

[@Fruit_Cake_Boii]

"Women want buff men in maid dresses." Well, I'm not a woman, but I can absolutely see why they would want that.

[@sarahr8311]

It's important to remember that some women like skinny men in crop tops too

[@Remedy462]

I would look ravishingly adorable flexing with one arm and curtsying with the other.

[@Acorn905]

I really like people who break gender roles. It give people a "I don't judge other people beacause of how they dress" ennergy and i like that :) Alsow women in suits, men in dresses and enby people with androgynous outfits look just so cool to me the confidence adds to it :D

[@Fruit_Cake_Boii]

@@Acorn905 You and me both, sibling.

[@Fruit_Cake_Boii]

@@sarahr8311 Well yes, but consider... Skinny men practically *drowning* in hoodies two sizes too big. Shy boys.

[@squash6497]

Funny how to these people"if a girl has a period, then she can bear a child" applies only to the very young, but somehow not to women getting pregnant in their 30s or 40s

[@saros_system]

Yeah.

[@KateCat420]

That is genuinely depressing, actually 💀

[@maevav5645]

Strange. Or just some pedophiles…

[@ingloriousbetch4302]

It gross. I. Was. SEVEN... when it began and conservatives literally state I should've been allowed to get pregnant, married etc, and they're all for grown men doing just that.

[@bdariamihaela]

Something tells me they don't know women get menopause in their 50s and think that being pregnant at 35 is late. After that age still they should be more carefull, maybe do some genetic testing 'cause the risk of genetic mutations becomes really high

[@unsaali4201]

when women prefer provider men, they are labelled as gold diggers who are only after men's money, but when a women is career oriented who provides herself they can't tolerate to see it either

[@thulasibai6136]

This comment 👑

[@meep_cubed170]

The only way to win is not to play, but if you do that you’re called a freak, so you still can’t win

[@SingingSealRiana]

Many want a tradwife while not wanting to be a tradhusband, all the benifits without doing their part of the bargain. Like how is she supposed to do all the housework, raise and homeschool 6 kids while somehow magical still playing half of the Bills . . . . .literaly how?!

[@unsaali4201]

@@SingingSealRiana exactly, all those men crying about wanting a trad wife, why don't they fking go for women who actually want to be one rather than expecting a career oriented women to leave her all dreams just to take care of a man like his mom lol

[@takki2747]

Guess what? The Woman, who wants a Provider usually doesn't have any relationship value besides her body. Pretty sure "Toys" come cheaper

[@BiryuTheFox]

"If you get taken to dinner or bought a drink you owe that man sex." Okay buddy, you remember that the next time a big guy buys you a drink because he likes your vibe at the bar.

[@KH-uh8pp]

I sure hope he does 😏

[@XsaviXander]

I would love a big guy!

[@jamie1602]

Someone owes me for that case of water I bought.

[@Ramsey276one]

O M G XD Someone is not daring to pay a pro, huh? Or trying to get a better deal?! D-X

[@mossfrog9720]

That’s why these guys freak out at the very idea of getting hit on by another guy because they think they will be treated the same way they treat women (and of course it’s only wrong when they’re treated like that)

[@Nyaliva]

"Men don't want an accomplished woman" No, INSECURE men don't want an accomplished woman. No quicker way to tell on yourself.

[@axl256gamesx7]

Im insecure and i want an accomplished woman

[@Remedy462]

​@@axl256gamesx7Same, that would feel nice and also give me motivation to be accomplished in my own way, even if it is just being a good loving boyfriend and a better person overall.

[@bethanydavis9023]

And if the accomplished woman can fight with words or physically, then they can beat your bullies up! 😃

[@AnInsideJoke]

@axl256gamesx7 That means you're still less insecure than those utter train wrecks of humanity.

[@matissimoj1190]

Narcissists* don't want accomplished partners

[@Flemmli1]

To the men not caring if their wives won a noble prize: Marie Curie's husband Pierre quite literally advocated for his wife to win the prizes for her research when the scientific community tried to give them to him. He fully had his wifes back and wanted her to get the recognition she deserved.

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

Yess, I love that couple!

[@jice7074]

You missed the point. Women are more likely to concern themselves with their husband's status outside the home. A woman being a Nobel prize winner or working a job she would quit to be a housewife is often all the same to a man. However if your wife did do the work for a Nobel prize, of you'd want her to get the credit.

[@tiredteen8906]

True king, the man wife we need

[@thewaydownmachine]

​@@jice7074underrated comment award 🏆

[@annnee6818]

Yes, they wanted to credit him with her work and he didn't accept it. That's SO masculine to me. Being secure enough in your own worth to not have to steal credit

[@ebagentj]

I spent years being dismissed by doctors when I complained about my period, being told it wasn't that bad and I was being dramatic. It wasn't until I was in my 30s that a doctor listened to me and got me an ultrasound and CT. Turns out I had a teratoma growing across both of my ovaries and had been born with it, it just got bigger the older I got. It was 22cm when it was surgically removed.

[@Huntyvr9]

Ouch! I used to think other girls were playing up when they complained about awful periods. Now I’m older and they ARE awful! I’ve gone to a doctor and they can’t find anything wrong. I’m about ready to remove it all! It’s so bad!!!

[@andistansbury4366]

Aren't those the ones that grow teeth and stuff?

[@ebagentj]

@@andistansbury4366 Indeed it is. I was fascinated by it and demanded to know what they found in it, and my doctor did read that part of the pathology report to me.

[@miaomiaochan]

I know women that have periods so excruciatingly painful that they are effectively immobilized by the pain. I have friends whose periods are so irregular that they need to use birth control to regulate them. Women like that aren't hysterical - they have medical issues that needed addressing. We're in the 21st century, but attitudes have yet to catch up, it seems.

[@Silly_35]

Yikes….so sorry that people called you dramatic, I hope you’re okay now !!

[@TheImprovised]

An 11 year old girl wants nothing to do with creepy vibe uncle? Hmm. She's smart.

[@zhenyinghe7152]

Agreed 👍

[@GarnetHeartIllustrations]

For him to go from “11 year old niece doesn’t acknowledge me” to “11 year old niece is a SLUT!!” Is super concerning

[@bumblerbree]

hey maybe she found his reddit profile-

[@Thewhiteandorange]

that kid is NOT safe around him 🚩🚩🚩

[@bobbobbo5278]

Kinda reminds me of how my creepy older cousin would always want to hang out with me 🤢

[@abadaccident528]

"Women would be safer if they had male family members follow them when they go out" Women who were sexually abused and harassed by male family members:

[@valentinlageot4101]

that's the reality, would you feel safer with a man that you trust or without a man that u trust at night. the comment is moronic and clumsy but he's got a poinr

[@hyouka4567]

@@valentinlageot4101frankly i’d feel infinitely safer with a group of women than any man so.

[@valentinlageot4101]

@@hyouka4567 that's not the question the question is would a woman feel safer alone at night or with a man she can trust at night. and it work for you too you'll feel more safe with your bros at night than alone or with a woman. woman what she is going to do fight to protect you?

[@radioactivepower600nanaspersec]

​@@valentinlageot4101 Why wouldn't she?

[@valentinlageot4101]

@@radioactivepower600nanaspersec she wont' bro. that's how we work. the male always protect the feale from danger. and the danger is 99% a man. and a woman doesn'tb stand a chance against it. Once the titanic start sinking traditional role will get into fashion and feminism will be flushed down the drain.

[@esr1412]

Victim blaming is getting so out of hand nowadays that it requires not one but two spaces😂

[@jaydentownsend5402]

7:42 hahah

[@lareth87]

on the same diagonal even, so it will get halfway there with one coinciding post

[@kearstinnekenerson6676]

Was going to say the same thing

[@kearstinnekenerson6676]

And when he wants to pu a new one in he keeps the two victim blaming

[@chatboulon743]

There's just SO many victims to blame. 😂

[@Poots_80]

29:40 was that Adele with the Grammy? She has an 11 year old son. She says she got pregnant right when her career was taking off and people told her she couldn’t succeed at being a mom and a singer, but she has

[@miaomiaochan]

What they were actually saying was, "We're going to try our best to ensure she doesn't succeed." Screw them.

[@waffles3629]

The whole "periods don't hurt and anyone saying they do is just being dramatic" is what leads to people like me having to go to four doctors to find someone who takes "I pass out from my cramps" seriously. Yeah, my uterus got evicted, byebye bastard.

[@bethanydavis9023]

Did your uterus have cancer cells or were you so fed up with it other than health reasons that you wanted it "yeeted" out of your body. Either way, all the power to you. :edit for spelling

[@waffles3629]

@@bethanydavis9023 nothing was ever found, but I was chronically anemic (like I narrowly missed needing a blood transfusion by 1-2% multiple times) and needed narcotics for the pain. That's more than enough reason to yeet it. Having no life at least four days a month sucked. I'm also trans and it would've been life threatening for me to be pregnant so byebye, he can get chopped up and incinerated. I didn't want to ever be pregnant so there was no point in continuing to live in pain for nothing. Recovery was a joke in comparison. Yes, having an entire organ surgically removed was significantly *less* painful than my average period. Average, not worst.

[@bethanydavis9023]

@@waffles3629 you're happier now without it, that's what really counts.

[@waffles3629]

@@bethanydavis9023 yep. People keep telling me I'll regret it, but I won't.

[@spaghetto9836]

​@@waffles3629Oh my gosh, bro. I'm so happy for you now that you won't feel that pain ever again.

[@emilyjohn2034]

The worst part about the “just don’t go out alone” argument is not only is that unreasonable but the people most likely to assault you ARE the men in your life like you father, brother, bf, uncle etc

[@LRM12o8]

It'l almost sounds as if that guy is an abuser himself. He surely sympathizes with abuseres anyway... 🤢

[@vanovasmith9586]

That was my exact thought. Then again, they don't really think about that. Since it can't possibly be a man's fault for not being a decent human being.

[@SarahAbramova]

And no one tells guys to not walk home alone because they might get victimized, it's always women being told that. So women apparently can't walk alone and be safe, and this kind of logic also implies only women have to worry about this, when, although less likely, men have also been victims.

[@pigcatapult]

Yeah, most crimes are committed by someone the victim knows.

[@Juzokinnie]

Exactly. I was groped by my dad's father. And even if it wasn't statistically true it wouldn't be okay, and as you said, completely unreasonable.

[@Grievous_Nix]

-"Women should stop hooking up with strangers, it's bad!" -"Why didn't I get some after tryna hookup on the first date? She OWES me that!" (c) same men

[@thejayst3r]

As Pete Davidson said “stop shaming girls for having sex with random guys! Or else they’ll stop having sex with random guys!!”

[@TheLizardWizard_the2nd]

Is it really?

[@elistari1050]

It legitimately is. That's the point. The ideology is; women always lose. Just like feminism; men always lose. These sexist, gender oriented ideologies arr always lose/lose for the people the ideologies are AGAINST.

[@Makkufurai]

What is really fun is self-realization. I wish that upon you and anyone else.@@TheLizardWizard_the2nd

[@ingloriousbetch4302]

Yep

[@alisemaleneohme4666]

That's me! "I'm a woman and a bad gamer, but I'm not bad because I'm a woman. It's because I enjoy the 'smashing buttons' play-style and can't be bothered trying to become better."

[@moonlady3000]

I was gonna comment the same thing xD my bad gaming is not because of my sex or gender, I just have never strategized a boss fight in my life.

[@SizzlingSocks]

me

[@Seal_pupz]

Same,I suck at shooting games BC of my taste,I prefer roleplaying,Obbies(I PLAY ROBLOX OKAY) and anything else

[@preguicadetu]

me with childe

[@anke-gg8kg]

I'm 46(f) - good at some games, bad at others, play what I enjoy, and have been gaming since the 90's. When I was a tween and a teen, platformers were my jam, but I no longer have the reflexes so I just enjoy watching friends play games I would like to play on Twitch. Moral of the story: gamers come in all shapes, genders, and sizes. Oh, and just for kicks on those rare occasions I go to a brick-and-mortar shop for gaming accessories, I always make sure to dress up and have a nice designer handbag. The looks on the faces of the (usually) guys who help and ask "who" I'm buying a new gaming mouse for when I tell them it's for myself and then start talking about whatever my latest gaming obsession is - is just too good to pass up on (please imagine evil grinning emotional support demon emoji here).

[@Shuang_Shuang]

Oh my god! The "how pregnancy looks now 😡" woman is a Danish mom of triplets! She's a total badass hero! She has three of them in there! Towards the end of the pregnancy her stomach was so heavy and painful she was on permanent bedrest. She almost carried to term which is almost impossible with triplets 👏👏👏

[@fionafiona1146]

She has had twins before, that further decreases the chances

[@Shuang_Shuang]

@@fionafiona1146 and then this person who probably thinks they have "traditional values" shames her for the shape of her belly 🤦‍♀️

[@Scimitars-in-sandstone]

Absolute boss! ❤

[@Fiemus9]

I was just about to comment this. Shes a fricking trooper

[@andpeg]

She’s a strong woman for sure. I won’t tolerate any disrespect about her belly. These are the same men would wouldn’t last five seconds on a period simulator, much less a labor 😂

[@Metalwabbit]

I would never shut up if my wife won the nobel peace prize. I would become so obnoxious bragging on and hyping my wife to everyone I met. I would have a shirt made proclaiming I was married to a nobel peace prize winner!

[@kaymartin2807]

EXACTLY! Same for me if I knew ANYONE who won the Nobel prize I would brag about it EVERYWHERE.

[@IceMetalPunk]

Abso-fuckin'-lutely!

[@senor-achopijo3841]

Or any Nobel Prize, for that matter.

[@PrototypeSpaceMonkey]

Yeah, that OP sounds like a super insecure dude terrified by the idea of a woman being smarter and more accomplished than him, with a weird breeding obsession to boot.

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

If nothing else how can you not be hyped about the food? Like imagine being with someone who was smart enough that you could eat that food!?

[@zakuraRabbit]

As a woman I've been selected for control at the airport a few times...every time it happens they ask me if I want a female agent to do the pat-down instead... because they are very well aware it makes many uncomfortable.

[@MogamiKyoko13]

One time, about 6 years ago, I forgot I had my fitbit clipped onto my bra when I went through TSA and they had to pat me down. They didn't even ask who I would feel more comfortable with, just hailed the nearest female agent to do the pat down. Pretty sure that's just standard procedure at this point, regardless of what creeps think.

[@IceMetalPunk]

Yeah. I have to assume whoever made that comic knows that TSA pat-downs are not "men squeezing women's breasts," which would get them so sued so fast... or the comic author is a complete and utter delusional moron. Or both.

[@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426]

In my country, only female agents can pat down women. And there's a fairly big cubicle type thing with curtains on both sides in the women's queue.

[@UpsideDown853]

Same, only women may pay down women in my country and vice versa. Also, they often have cabins so I guess it feels more private and weird pervs can’t watch.

[@wolfy297]

Fun fact: it is policy in my states jails that as long as there is an officer of the same gender as the inmate, then that officer MUST be the one to do the pat search. So if a woman is brought to jail only female officers can do a search on her unless there is no other viable option

[@wompwomp5327]

21:07 The body does try to terminate the pregnancy, the problem is it also tries to terminate the mother while doing so. A pregnant person under the age of 16 will on average face more health risks than a pregnant person aged 40-50. I know because one of my closest friends was born to a teen mom, she was born two months early while her mom had dangerously high blood pressure and ‘gave birth’ to a blood clot so large they thought it was a part of the placenta at first.

[@fightingfaerie]

The fact that the Shrek one isn’t even a “meme” but someone’s creepy Shrek fanfic…. Like… they actually got Shrek’s daughter’s name right… wtf

[@cg6176]

Can't believe that perv did my boi shrek bad like that

[@Ramsey276one]

That is a FANFIC?? POSTED FOR ALL TO SEE?! Q_Q

[@wolvie1618]

That's just gross. Shrek fanfic is a horrifying enough concept, but that is a whole new low. Whoever made that needs to go outside and roll in several miles of grass

[@Ramsey276one]

@@wolvie1618 straight into a PIT

[@jesuschristbutafab9923]

​@@Ramsey276onea pit full of BEARS

[@Moo-2310]

PSA! The hymen: -Can be torn by many things, nearly all non sexual. -Has no link to one's number of partners. -Most of the time is more horseshoe shaped than a complete barrier. -If it was a complete barrier until you had sex, it'd cause problems because period blood wouldn't escape.

[@lauraanderson8785]

I want to add: The hymen doesn't even tell whether a woman has had sex or not. It doesn't always tear during sex. It's not even uncommon for it to not to. And it can tear from things that aren't sex. Many women never tear their hymens despite having sex countless times.

[@queersoapybar]

And some women can be born without a hymen!

[@pigcatapult]

@@lauraanderson8785 Sex generally only rips the hymen if the partner is really bad at sex. Being aroused and relaxed goes a long way towards avoiding injury.

[@SingingSealRiana]

- Might not tear at all unless you do something very drastic - some have none to begin with

[@SingingSealRiana]

​​@@pigcatapultreally depends on how it is shaped and how much it covers in some cases you can get nothing that is not liquid through without problems, it has some stretch, but that is not endless, no matter how aroused and wet she is. If you can not get a small tampon in getting in something bigger without trearing is very unlikely..... This is doomed to rip through penetration, no matter how careful the partner is. Yes patience and all are great and needed either way but let's not shame that people are build differently

[@LadyPenumbra]

Conservative men: "Women must be innocent and pure. They must dedicate themselves to their husbands completely and never have thoughts of their own." Women: "But you'll get a job and support the family, right?" Conservative men: "But what do YOU bring to the table?"

[@tdelioncourt1268]

it really is the Barbie monologue : you can't have a hobby, work, or go out alone - but you need to bring something you should rely on partner to bring money - but you shouldn't chose someone based on their pay

[@hmnhntr]

I think, in their mind, a woman is just supposed to wait for the first guy who does the correct 'procedure' and then completely surrender to them. They're somehow supposed to both be selective (don't be promiscuous, don't date 'bad' men) but also instantly receptive to advances (they owe s*x after a date, shouldn't say no to a man with a good job). It's like they think dating is a video game where you just have to check off certain boxes and then you can just have literally anyone to yourself.

[@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195]

If women don't bring anything to the table, i don't get why those dudebros just marry each other

[@aduckofsomesort]

Most men who want a tradwife aren’t willing or able to be a tradhusband and see nothing wrong with that equation.

[@miaomiaochan]

In short, why MLMs have been so successful. They are pitched to SAHMs that want to contribute to the household finances while raising the kids and being housewives.

[@rigure]

Appreciate the ace shoutout ✌️ Also, some wisdom from a friend of mine: Relationships are NOT transactions. Do not do something expecting something back and you do not owe anyone anything. You do something nice for someone to make them happy. If they don't make you happy, accept they don't like you, move on. If someone did something nice for you but you don't like them, that's their problem. Here's how relationships work: "I did this for you because I like you" "Oh, thank you, I like you too, so we can work together :)" Here's how transactions work: "Is it okay if I do this and get a favor for it?" "Yeah, sure." 👍

[@gracetackett63]

I don't think I've heard it explained this well before. Thank you!

[@takki2747]

Women made them into transactions and yet they demand, that men treat them like human beings

[@youneedtocalmdown.]

​@@takki2747 man argues that the person one is dating that he supposedly loves should not be treated like a human being

[@takki2747]

@@youneedtocalmdown. Why should I treat someone as a Human Being, who objectifies me as well?

[@youneedtocalmdown.]

@@takki2747 you should not be dating someone who objectifies you 🥲 And you should not be dating anyone if you think that objectifying anyone is okay, regardless of how the other person treats you. You will just be stuck in a toxic loop. The right thing to do there is break up and break off all contact and perhaps therapy to help you not internalise the trauma and suffer from the after effects.

[@JennCampbell]

The youngest known GIRL to become pregnant and give birth was FIVE YEARS OLD!!! She was assaulted by her uncle! Do you actually think this wasn't medically, emotionally and socially dangerous!?!?! Have you ever been near humans!?!

[@KenotheWolf]

I mean, Bodies can „malefunction“ too, obviously her body was not ready. Though i wonder what happened with her body there.

[@cinnimakesvideos]

​@@KenotheWolfHer being assulted is what happened :( There are studies, and articles, going over how being s/a'd can cause early puberty. I searched «s/a early puberty» (s/a being the actual words, dunno if yt will delete me if i say them), and several articles from medical sites, news sites, and ivy league universities came up. Not tryin to come off as rude btw!! I just had the info and wanted to share where to read more about it if anyone wanted to. It's horrible this has happened so much.

[@tatiana4050]

​@@cinnimakesvideos her puberty started very early, at 8 months old. Sometimes early puberty just happens

[@grandpaspantaloons]

who are you talking to?

[@am_Nein]

​@@tatiana40508 months..?! Poor kid.

[@eskarina1000]

I've been a gamer since the early 1980s, and I'm a "girl". You know why there weren't a lot of girls who played video games until more recently? First, someone in the video game industry decided they were for boys, so the marketing was all skewed towards boys. Initially, they were marketed to both, and there were about equal numbers of girls and boys who played. After the marketing switch, the numbers skewed, predictably, toward more boys playing than girls. Second, for the girls who did play video games, we were ostracized, made fun of, and once online gaming became popular, had so much sexist aggression thrown at us, that most of us went silent in our video game playing.

[@Dxs4all]

That gendered marketing was such a stupid dissicion. I only use chat function in online gaming and just let people assume I'm a guy, I'm not dealing with all that vitriol.

[@arielruby13]

i will blame the marketing people, it had such an impact on others perceptions that i spent the first 20 years of my life not being allowed a videogame because it was "not for girls" and "made for boys" as both of my parents used to say. i am not even a girl (im trans) but have been raised as one. im 24 now and the current issue is that i dont have money to afford a videogame now, but someday i will be able to just game

[@meriotheart]

@@arielruby13 you can play free videogames depending on what device you're using. For computer there are a lot of cute/interesting indie games on platforms like Steam and Epic games often has free games (including things like bioshock). I'm not too familiar with other devices, but a lot of places sell way cheaper second hand games

[@MiriaJiyuu]

Second one definitely matters. We're there, we're not talking. I used to, I stopped. And I'm reminded why whenever another female is in the lobby and makes the mistake of talking on a voice chat in a group of randoms

[@Nuadin]

I think as well, parents also bought into its boys due to marketing, and I think my parents were genuinely surprised when I wanted to play games in the late 80s (started when I was three though). I'm lucky I had a brother one year older than me, he also always had the best toys, while I got dolls I never played with. I'm on the other side where I still talk in games because I'd rather fight back on it. The best time though was when I grouped with nearly a full team of all girls and one rando who turned out to be one of "those guys". I spoke in team chat (the other girls were used to staying quiet) on where the enemy is, and he starts going off and being insulting that I'm a girl. All the other girls speak up and ask if he has a problem. I've never seen someone back peddle so hard once they realized they were the "minority" in the channel.

[@RainAngel111]

I feel really bad for that 11 yr old with the incel uncle. I feel like there's a non-zero chance that the uncle made some f'ed up comment to her or did something creepy that made her uncomfortable and that's why she's ignoring him.

[@Dxs4all]

No women are safe from incels. Not even children or family members (or child family members). Makes me genuinly worried for that child.

[@brianaschmidt910]

Especially when he started ranting about how she won't "look at sub 5 guys anymore"

[@dragonwolfzero820]

The fact that he gives her creep vibes means something has likely happened. Whether it's unnecessary commentary or exposure to something. That or she found out from memes or even content creators how to see certain behaviors that might harm her. When kids learn about things to stay away from they will if they can. This is why it's good to teach children simple red flags.

[@BaranKamali-dx4fj]

The older people knew something when they didn’t easily trust a single unmarried person even from the family.

[@AnikMonette]

I was thinking I was reading too much into it but seems other people got the same creepy vibe.

[@avalonwolf]

the dude being a creep about his niece, I hope her parents pick up on this and learn to put a barrier between them because holy hell, that's terrifying

[@spacebutterfly2873]

The Shrek one is a new level of atrocious, the creator really said "well obviously the solution to sexual assault is for women to become shut-ins who can't live their own lives or do anything for themselves" like that was a valid point. Imagine there were zombies outside that only attacked men, and when asked what to do about it you were told "welp, guess you'll have to just quit your job and all your outdoor recreational activities and stay indoors for the rest of your life and only go outside with an escort to protect you, nothing to be done." I think you'd be pretty pissed that you were expected to basically quit your life instead of people doing anything to get rid of the zombies. ALSO, since the creator was obviously projecting heavily: maybe your daughter wouldn't have gotten "coked up" at a party if she had a better support system and didn't have to turn to untrustworthy people in order to feel loved

[@miaomiaochan]

In other words, become like Saudi Arabian women?

[@BlueTressym]

@@miaomiaochan That was exactly what I thought as soon as I saw the line about escorts. Of course, the kind of men who write this bs also hate Muslims but of course, it's fine to be oppressive as long as you're doing it in the name of the only valid religion, right?

[@natthasiriboon8145]

Most victims of sa are being sa by someone they already know. Its not a "guy in a dark alley", it is someone you know or someone you trust, a friend, a family, a teacher, a boss, a co-worker you name it.

[@The-Person-Who-Asked]

Yeah, it's almost like people who think that women get s**ually assaulted because they were wearing shorts that are "too short" (mid thigh) or a shirt that's "too revealing" (shows off your shoulders, or those shirts that have built-in bras). Like, gurl, wear whatever you're comfortable in. If you're comfortable with wearing short shorts and a crop top, you wear that outfit and you slay. If you'd rather wear a dress, go for it. If you want to wear jeans and a baggy shirt, wear it. If you want to wear something nice, wear something nice. Whatever you're comfortable in, it shouldn't matter. You should be able to walk around and be confident in what you're wearing without having dudes being creepy.

[@pennyforyourthots]

​@@BlueTressymI don't remember who said it, but one of the church mega pastors or famous evangelicals basically admitted that he likes Sharia law, he just thinks it's for the wrong religion. I think he even referred to his beliefs as Christian Sharia law once. Can't remember for the life of me who it was. Kent hovind maybe?

[@kesia872]

I hope the niece's parents find out he's calling their daughter a sl*t and make sure he stays away from all the kids.

[@adrianamulet4144]

As a woman I can confirm that Kara child might not be hers. I can't even remember how many times I have gotten pregnant because I talked to a woman who had her period at the same time than me so our female bluetooth was connected. Make sure you turn off your female bluetooth before leaving your house. Stay safe ladies

[@IceMetalPunk]

As a man, I can only imagine how difficult it is when one of you is using an Android uterus and the other is using an iUterus! Getting them to connect is hard enough, surely, so getting them to disconnect must be worse!

[@Nigolasy]

@@IceMetalPunk Truely nightmare fuel. Sometimes you have to use force to unlink them. This is why women have their periods. It's your body removing someone elses eggs forcefully out of your uterus and more often than not, blood comes with it.

[@ohyekrokites6539]

Or, hospital mixup just happened

[@sandrols7]

You actually had me at the first sentence, ngl

[@WhatABinglylittlescronklylil-]

@@ohyekrokites6539 *_(Disappointed stare)_*

[@RosyBibliophile]

If I buy a man drink.... Several drinks, should he owe me his body for work? I mean, how's his drywall skills? Construction past?? Can he cook stew? Can... he make me food? I don't want naughty, just a personal chef.

[@Chris_HT]

Real shi

[@mastermarkus5307]

For the first one, I've never heard of any woman who would respond well to being groped by the TSA. Enough people hate basic TSA procedures and pretty much everyone calls out being actually touched by them as abusive. I know it's a super sexist view of women in the first place, but it also operates on a weird secondary premise.

[@lyrienn1319]

Not to mention, as far as i know of, in most places there are both women and men tsa agents for this reason. The general notion is that women check women, and men for man, but you can request a swap if anyone makes you uncomfotable.

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

I have seen PTSD and I am always stopping when I come through TSA because I have hardware in my body that sets off the walk-through every fucking time so I have to get the pat down which goes all the way literally up to the labia. So yeah that is not something that I ever walk away from without being in tears.

[@Ishtarru]

Yeah, the whole point of those big body scanners is to make it so they don’t actually have to touch you.

[@fluffystuff500]

Yeah I'm actually scared of the TSA pat down thing. I don't want to be touched at the airport thank you.

[@battlesheep2552]

Yeah I don't even want to fly anymore, it's bad enough when you were just getting violated at the airport, now you get violated at every part of the journey, so better to take a bus.

[@Sly-Moose]

Make sure to add body shaming on the Bingo card next time, Click

[@busylawbee]

He could swap it with the second victim blaming.

[@juliaboskamp9666]

We need a extra longer and wider bingo card for the next video like this one

[@CrusaderKnight2000]

I mean, body shaming is, as bad as it may be, not really always a gendered issue. Some of it is, such as breast size shaming or penis size shaming, but most of it is universal, such as fat shaming or shaming of deformities.

[@Sly-Moose]

@@CrusaderKnight2000 Yes, but it's very common for men in those posts to do

[@shadenox8164]

@@Sly-Moose Its also very common for men to apply those standards more rigidly to women then themselves.

[@Eureka-1234]

The "how boys make money" one really pissed me off. Working a 78hr week is not a point of pride, it is exploitation. If you need to work 78hrs to earn a living then you should join a union, not brag about how much of your life is being stolen by some bastard with deep pockets and short arms.

[@yoBmeF]

Can I ask about the reference or relevance of short arms for the 'business man'?

[@Eureka-1234]

@@yoBmeF deep pockets and short arms, meaning has a lot of money but can't reach it when someone else needs it.

[@yoBmeF]

@seanthestewart thank you for explanation

[@Eureka-1234]

@@yoBmeF no worries

[@jacklow9611]

If they work 78 hours a week, they're probably workaholics, too.

[@JoyceR684]

22:09 As a horse girl, I feel that I need to play devils advocate and share that mares (female horses) are know for their temperament and sudden mood swings, so it could be that that meme meant that their new horse would be a handful xD. I really hope that that is what that meme meant.

[@grenade8572]

Now, we have to explain to incel guy that we want GELDINGS, not stallions. 😂

[@reallightfield5314]

Man that Shrek post is so nonsensical its hilarious. According to its logic, no crime could be persecuted because "The criminals dont care about the law"

[@BlueberryDragon13]

Well, they’re kind of right. There are people who think they are above the law. That’s why we should try to make the world safer for everyone. Like, not looking away if we see someone be mistreated. Have more security cameras in public spaces, things like that.

[@fssstyuniaf]

​@@BlueberryDragon13Every criminal thinks they're above the law or that they simply won't get caught. Till the law catches them that is

[@communadog7874]

I think that with the "bwc ohio rizz" and the berserk panel it must be satire, there's no way someone would actually do that seriously

[@sluttyMapleSyrup]

​​@@communadog7874 You say that, and I want to agree with you, but... Manosphere and Male Astrology (alpha/beta/sigma male shit) exists. I can't unsee that panel as some kind of gesture at white supremacist-ish beliefs, especially with Shrek doing the "surprised black guy" meme face as the whole next panel

[@cyanity1017]

12:06 "this is her job." Last time I checked, a cheerleader's job was to encourage and motivate the team with elaborate tricks, not to be photographed with their ass zoomed in.

[@dragonwolfzero820]

Exactly. I've watched cheerleaders at sports games and they have some crazy moves that would be difficult to do in literally any other clothing. I would count that as a sport itself. It's just creepy to me when people think the outfits are supposed to benefit anyone else that isn't the people wearing them.

[@Liggliluff]

I am confused by the outfit. Considering the occupation of performer, it would perhaps be a good idea that the uniform that all cheerleaders wear are more modest. Perhaps not showing off their butts as much. If it's something people choose to wear on their own, go ahead. But I'm think of this as a uniform for an occupation. Isn't cheerleaders traditionally wearing skirts? That seems like a good addition to the uniform to avoid having their butts as prominent. Some of the cheerleaders might be okay with the uniform, but if everyone is dressing equally, then being more modest is the way to go. Obviously the old dude shouldn't take photos. But also the uniform should probably not be designed that way either.

[@sarina76667]

@@LiggliluffYour point is valid. From the perspective of the job requirements however, cheerleaders, professional dancers, and gymnasts who work in choreographed groups of 2 or more people tend to find themselves off the ground a lot. They don’t always find themselves off the ground by their own means either. Someone has lifted or thrown them into the air. Loose fitting clothing will make catching this airborne person or holding an elevated person nearly impossible. The risk of severe injury and even death goes up when the anchored person can’t get a proper grip on the airborne person. The material is of their uniform isn’t just designed to be attractive either. It’s similar to swimsuit material, so sweat and rain (if you’re at an open air event) is less visible for the sake of performance aesthetic, stays light weight and aerodynamic even when wet, and reduces the risk of injury when being thrown and caught by a team member. Even if the uniform includes a skirt, the skirt is short so that the excess material doesn’t interfere with the safety of the routine. Under that skirt is either the bottom half of a leotard or a pair of modest bikini bottom shorts of the same material that matches the uniform so when your skirt inevitably flies up you’re not exposing yourself to everyone. That’s why the uniforms are designed to be form fitting and made with swimsuit/leotard material. The athleticism and risk of personal injury real cheerleading requires is on par with top gymnastics. One slip and that airborne cheerleader is on the ground with a broken spine and a snapped neck among other injuries. I grew up in theater, opera and theatrical jazz dance. If we go by the motto “if you’re not bleeding before opening night, you haven’t worked hard enough”, just imagine what their motto must be.

[@ResidentMilf]

​@@LiggliluffImagine thinking people should risk their safety because you're offended by the existence of a butt.

[@Liggliluff]

@@sarina76667 Thank you for that explanation, I do understand now why the uniform in that post does not have a skirt then. They might do those tricks and would need a uniform better suited for that. I've not seen those tricks being done in real life and forgot that there are some places where they do, and the post might be from such place. My comment would be more suited where they don't do that type of tricks.

[@nicorizzo5402]

The youngest girl to menstruate was 8 months old. I would say I'd like to say how many men actually think an 8 month old baby is ready to have a baby, but then again there are probably nasty pedophiles who do think that.

[@jamie1602]

They absolutely DO think that.

[@voidbreather7405]

I mean, the youngest mother on record was 5 y.o., so yeah... 😥

[@nicorizzo5402]

@@voidbreather7405 She's the one I'm talking about.

[@redwaffle6717]

​​@@nicorizzo5402and the worst part, it's that I think the father of the baby was the father of the girl

[@chatboulon743]

Wait, what? 😰 This was a legit period... for an 8 month old?? That's concerning.

[@yassqueen3522]

It’s funny to me how the last box to get checked is actually wholesome 💀😭

[@Boudiccagrace]

As a woman i can confirm that we do transfer eggs to each other Only at Christmas though like a secret Santa type situation.

[@Bryanferrywife]

Best part of the holidays!!

[@sleepingkirby]

I half expected you to say that you transfer it over TCP/Menstrual blood.

[@LadyEowyn]

I also like to give and receive eggs at Easter, but don't tell the boys.

[@tomduckworth6430]

@@LadyEowynBrilliant 😂

[@barrylangille3523]

😆😅😁

[@hlf3769]

the guy calling his niece a sl*t for not playing with him anymore is EXTREMELY concerning to me... like someone should look into that man and talk to that kid because that sounds really bad honestly

[@MostlyGhosted]

Especially that his niece is a 11 years old! Smell like pedophilia.

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

"Women nowadays they do _stupid_ things like... Get PhDs!" Click you are so hilarious 😂

[@sharymitidieri4632]

Well, as a PhD candidate, getting a PhD *is* a stupid thing to do 😂

[@miaomiaochan]

​@@sharymitidieri4632 "permanent head damage", as my PhD dad likes to joke.

[@PeachysMom]

That one about never leaving home without a male family member is so FUCKED. A huge proportion of SA is perpetrated in the girls/woman’s own home by family member and family friends! Makes me so mad, I’m sorry for my language

[@LittleMaitea]

You are rigth I had to do a preventative course (all need to take for working with kids) This was part of it Sad Statistics from my country The offenders of Adults beeing SAed 99% Men 1% Women 60% family/Friends/spouse 40% strangers The monsters SAing Childern 90% Men 10% Women 70% inner circle of the victim (family, close family friends, good friends) ~24% outer circle (teacher, youth counsellor, friends, classmates, pastors) ~5-6% strangers

[@LRM12o8]

It's always creepy when family members of (young) women side with abusers in victim blaming, rather than blaming the abusers. Gives me the vibe they're abusers themselves who would prefer the women stay at home with them at all times than going out livong her life. 🥶

[@Ramsey276one]

Probably going for "Men must protect women" rather than hide that particular fact about SA, but they probably didn't even realize that...

[@ana-nim]

Yes, and if she's suffering from sexual abuse from a family member but he's always following her everywhere then she can't even report him. Seems like this is exactly what they want

[@keiyakins]

Also even if the "it's in men's nature" argument was true, that would be an argument to restrict *men* from leaving the house, not women.

[@PyroGothNerd]

I popped in to make a note on the TSA one from the thumbnail: My Mom used to work TSA and 1) They're only allowed to use the back of their hand for most of it 2) The agent patting you down HAS TO BE THE SAME GENDER as you. A man must pat down a man. A woman must pat down a woman. 3) They can only pay down the area that set the scanner off (the machine will display where the detected item is) 4) There are multiple agents present, plus plenty of civilian witnesses The situation in the comic DOES NOT HAPPEN without someone getting fired. The Agent in the comic would have lost his job IMMEDIATELY and been charged. And yes, the woman would SCREAM if an agent grabbed her boob like that

[@pilcrow182]

Just curious, how does #2 work for trans women? I've never flown.

[@PyroGothNerd]

@@pilcrow182 They put together some questions TSA has to ask towards the end of her time there, and I think you can request which you prefer. My Mom only ever had two trans people, and that woman didn't tell anyone she was trans, so my Mom patted her down...noticed...and just waved her along, didn't bring it up, but informed her supervisor in case any complaints came up. The second one this person claimed to be a trans woman and requested a woman pat them down...but this individual was using a male name, presenting as male, and there are some rumors the individual wasn't actually trans wanted to see if they could get away with that. Personally, if I were trans I would bring it up quietly, because the scanner machines are designed to scan for anything that shouldn't be on your body, do the pink button isn't expecting anything between your legs, and the blue button isn't expecting anything on your chest. Usually the button they press is based on which you present as. Also, fair warning, lotions set off the alarms, as well as certain soaps, anything with glycerin, fancy hair, excessive body weight, etc. The things are fickle and jealous of everyone else's hair.

[@jacquelynsmith2351]

@@PyroGothNerd sweat also sets it off, so if you've been racing to get to your gate using a wheelchair, you have to get up and get patted down all over, and you're not allowed to use your cane to get to the side room that they insist that you use for the pat-down. "And how do you suggest I get there without the chair or the cane?" That was my problem to figure out...

[@PyroGothNerd]

@@jacquelynsmith2351 They really need to update those dang machines

[@cloudyskyz2237]

Ayyy what if you’re gay/bi? I mean as a woman I’d love to be patted down by either a man or a woman lol

[@ClownHoundII]

3:52 What makes this pregnancy comparison even worse is that the woman labeled as "no class" is dealing with complications and needs a C section. Calling a woman classes becauses she's nor pretty during pregnancy is creepy but saying it because she has medical issues makes it worse.

[@monkey.dchomsy9464]

I've seen her on Tik Tok and she seems sweet just vining with her hubby. She was having triplets in that pic and all the boys came out healthy and she looks great too. Also b4 them she had twins so she's doing her best.

[@LittleMaitea]

Also both pictures have been taken recently so the whole thing is just a made up argument in this insane persons head

[@braumkimball9548]

​@@monkey.dchomsy9464Darn, from my mom's stories, triplets are hard. Complications due to being a triplet pregnancy meant I was born in an emergency c section. Glad all of them were healthy

[@ClownHoundII]

@@monkey.dchomsy9464 I'm very glad she and her babies were okay. I figured on the size it was twin or maybe triplets complications. If that makes sense.

[@DePhoegonIsle]

I think I would just be in some shock seeing that kind of pregnancy in the first place. X\ weird that the person labeled it 'class' like... class is about how you portray yourself & act.... not about a biology condition.

[@Silliest-guy-the-ever]

“I don’t owe you my heart, and I don’t owe you my body”- Will Wood THAT IS A SONG, SOME GUY WHO MAKES MUSIC ABOUT ATHEISIM AND ALCHOLISIM KNOWS MORE ABOUT WOMEN THAN YOU DO

[@djoctobeat5204]

WILL WOOD REFERENCE!!!

[@scottscully4325]

Girl says her first word. "She's ready to give a speech." Girl takes first steps. "She's ready to walk the dog." Girl learns the alphabet. "She's finally ready to write that novel." Girls first period. "She's ready to get pregnant."

[@WhatABinglylittlescronklylil-]

This is a really smart comment, this should be taught or shown to these idiots in these videos

[@foxliasgriffinYT]

not ready, capable, we arent wild animals dude i mean even in farms they have a brain, they wait certain time for the animal to be fully capable of handling having a calf n what not, like, dude

[@aduckofsomesort]

@@foxliasgriffinYTand the point goes over your head faster than a rocket

[@facelessdrone]

@@foxliasgriffinYT before the age of 20, there are more deaths from the mother giving birth than in literally any other age bracket, this includes elderly. So, no, they absolutely are not "capable of getting pregnant" if it literally kills them with such frequency that teenage pregnancy and birth is typically only possible because of c sections, and extremely aggressive, invasive procedures that ensure fetus and mother do not die. By your own logic, boys are "capable" of becoming body builders at the age of 12 because they finally have started puberty and the very fringe, highly specific circumstances that allow a 12 yr old to become a body builder without them dying exist somewhere in the world due to modern medicine and regular, aggressive medical interventions.

[@Sylfa]

My only concern is that someone will think you're being literal and serious. Sadly, someone will. Hopefully, they'll post it so it can be mocked online.

[@cjmchugh6917]

Only Click could make women actually enjoy sexism bingo. This is honestly the sequel we all needed in our lives, whether we knew it or not.

[@kimielle]

The thing about 'women being ready from their first period' is that some countries do treat that as if it is true, and those girls, literal children, have to give birth time and time again before adulthood. It causes damage to the pelvic floor and causes serious health issues, including and not limited to incontinence. They end up being divorced or abandoned by their partners due to constantly soiling themselves, and are considered unmarriagable. There's a group of volunteers who perform remedial surgeries for it, but they're sorely underfunded. Of course these men who want to claim girls are so ready at that age don't know about it because they don't care to learn about womens/girls' health, and also because they come from countries where girls/children have more protections, so this sort of damage is rare to nonexistent there.

[@tealkerberus748]

It also completely ignores any possibility of the girl having any opinion about what she wants to do with her life. It's like they don't see her as a person at all.

[@BlueTressym]

@@tealkerberus748 I think we all know that those kinds of men do not, in fact, see girls or women as people.

[@BlueTressym]

Another thing the people who say that are ignoring is that puberty used to start much later, so when they cite Ye Olde Days, they are citing a time when girls were not getting periods so damn early that they were nowhere near fully grown. While the gap between 'getting first period' and 'being physically able to bear a child without it being extra dangerous to both mother and child' may have once been small, it really isn't anymore. Oh, and they're also ignoring that the first year or so of periods tend to be irregular and the girl may not even be ovulating, so even if you were only thinking in terms of viability and completely ignoring the creepiness of it, trying to make a girl of 13 pregnant would harm her without achieving the stated goal.

[@kellharris2491]

Yeah and it's not like this is new knowledge either. Yes girls had arranged marriages of real young girls among the nobility. But peasants had an average age range with many girls in the older teens range. Not every area or place breed women until they die.

[@kimielle]

At this point it's really safe to just translate these modern-day dudes who say "they're ready from the first period" into "I want to bang children". Because that's actually what they're saying. They want their dong to be first on the scene. It's what purity balls are about. Safeguarding your daughter's V so a dude can have first crack at her.

[@Potato_Of_Regrets]

12:33 as a cheerleader, my job is to encourage the players not getting a photographed by a pervert

[@Mari-zc8zo]

Ideas for next bingo : ‘i have never seen a woman’ ‘im not the problem’ ‘all women are the same’ ‘justifying misogyny’ 🥺 👉👈

[@beingmegucaissuffering.5326]

Another good category would be 'periods'

[@MiotaLee]

"Creepy incel stuff" would cover a lot of ground

[@AbsolutelyAri1]

​@@beingmegucaissuffering.5326lesbians can't have periods 😡😡😡

[@Superlovesimmer]

Or “SSSSWWWWWEEEEEEETTTTT HHHHHOOOOOOMMMMMMEEEEEE AAAALLLLLLLAAAAAABBBBAAAMMAA”

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

I want the see one against female incel that bingo woukd be hilarious and sad

[@svenhendrickx2783]

I get so disgusted by the creeps saying that a girl is a woman after her first period. My 8 year old niece has a classmate that already had one(sister is a teacher there and was talking about having to give a sudden explanation to the girls in the class), so it's incredibly disturbing to hear people say a child is suddenly a woman? No jackasses, it's a kid going through puberty with the emphasis on KID. Hell, it's just nasty af Different note: if any male viewers ever get the chance to use the period simulator, do it. Tried that out and while I managed to tolerate level 9, I can't imagine having that for a few days. Because hot dang, that was a pain.

[@sketchr9258]

petition to make it a required health class activity to try the period simulator! sadly though, I know people who would try to excuse themselves out of it.

[@LRM12o8]

@sketchr9258 forcing school boys to subject themselves to a painful treatment in order to teach a lesson? Yeah, I don't see how that could go wrong... 😅

[@sketchr9258]

@@LRM12o8 it wouldn't hurt boys to learn to have sympathy over what girls face each routine cycle... it doesn't happen today and what happens to girls? they are called "too dramatic" and "emotional" and aren't even taken seriously by doctors since guys simply don't know the severity of pain during menstruation, and even beforehand

[@witherschat]

@@sketchr9258 What is the period simulator?

[@sketchr9258]

@@witherschat a device that goes on the body, and it causes pain to teach how periods are in practice

[@sairuhbby]

Next round should have "all women exist as a hive mind" on the bingo card. Maybe represented as 🐝 🧠.

[@senor-achopijo3841]

That's such a good one to add!

[@shadenox8164]

I'd make that one the middle as its basically a free square anyways, its so bloody common.

[@PrototypeSpaceMonkey]

I thought the guy at 16:08 who thought all women have a hive womb was bad enough.

[@Remedy462]

Same with Feminists, oh and good feminists don't want to take men's rights away. We want to hold women up to men's status and then lift both up even higher, at least that's what our hive mind has agreed to do. 😁

[@errantwinds-up8uu]

I fully admit that I would read that as "bee brain" because I'm a basic Becky (or something) 🤣

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

The picture of the pregnant women "in modern times" is from a famous story of a mom who gave birth to multiples though I can't remember how many, so you were on the right track when you said twins.

[@hiitscupid3504]

someone who refers to people as Foids (Femoids) is definetly too weird to be around 11 year old girls.

[@SlothDaan]

I had to look up what it means, first link was Firearm Owner IDentification. I was soo confused, but then I looked a bit further and found it.

[@reikenkayzer]

I had to look it up to and I actually facepalmed at these fucking incels.

[@satamiko]

Right? It sounded like he did some weird shit so she stopped talking to him. It says she was nice but then stopped and behaves as if he should leave the house...

[@tealkerberus748]

@@satamiko He really should leave the house. I wonder if her parents know?

[@satamiko]

@@tealkerberus748 Sounds like not. I've seen too many parents not care, too. I knew a 12 yo girl that was harassed by a cousin coming over and parents turned blind eye. They just didn't want to deal with it, because they are family. Some people are disgusting.

[@808atlas5]

These people who creepily stare at women feel so offended because to them they're "Not even allowed to look anymore" but they fail to realize that normal people do acknowledge others around them without being creepy.... I don't think they realize that, it's totally possible to see a beautiful woman or man walking past you and think that they're beautiful and not stop and pull out binoculars....

[@MissMadCherry]

Exactly!

[@Arvak]

For sure! I'm a bi woman and I check out men and women alike in public, but... discreetly!! I just glance at them, think "they're hot", and move on with my day 😂

[@EagleTimberWolf]

I can't imagine being so self-unaware and socially inept as to just... STARE at random strangers in public then have the nerve to get offended when they're predictably creeped out. Like, bruh, I feel like a weirdo just for briefly glancing in someone's direction for less than a nanosecond, how do incels live like this???

[@goawayleavemealone2880]

I'm gay, I don't spend a lot of time staring at women or even looking at them at all. But I'm just not buying this BS anymore, the difference between Creepy and Flirty is physical attractiveness. We all know it, please stop pretending otherwise. I know in reality people can be physically attractive and still be creeps, but in the heads of women creeps are just men that they assume are interested in them whom they would prefer not to be. And have far too many female friends, who've unintentionally proved this, to buy whatever response you're going to word vomit at me.

[@ecchidragon8038]

@@goawayleavemealone2880 You're wrong.

[@shaylafey]

Iv said it once and I'll say it again, that whole "if you have a period, you can safley carry a pregancy to term" type argument is far to common and so dangerous. I was 8 when I got mine. The average is 10-12. It's an instant red flag for child predetor or at least apologist when i hear this argument.

[@solidstate9451]

I was 14 and I wasn't the last in my friend group.

[@shaylafey]

there are of course varations, 14 is not unusual, though a bit late, but even still 14 is still a child. @@solidstate9451

[@twotruckslyrics]

i was 9 when i got mine 😰

[@j.c.2240]

I think I was 12

[@walkingfish703]

By this logic every male capable of ejaculation is capable of being a father. Oi vey.

[@animes_a_way_too6883]

My first boyfriend said to me, "Just so you know there is no point where we can't stop. If you feel uncomfortable at all we can stop no matter how far we've gone." Once we started getting intimate, because it was my first relationship and he had had a couple. This is one of the sweetest things I have ever heard. We need more men that say things like this.

[@NeldaYtb]

I love how men tell other men what women like but when we try to tell them what we actually like, they don't listen to us. Don't you wanna know real information from the primary source ?

[@bethanydavis9023]

Better to say ironic or mention sarcastic for the incels who manage to find themselves to this video.

[@Jumpstart342]

I have heard that men don’t ask women for advice about meeting/dating women because “you don’t ask a fish for fishing advice”. But like, you can’t ask a fish because they’re dumb, and if you could, you couldn’t trust what they say because you want to lightly injure and traumatized them at best and murder and consume them at worst. So are you saying you won’t ask women for advice because you want to hurt them, or because you think they’re sub human? ((Which, sadly, for incels, is actually kind of the case))

[@bethanydavis9023]

@@Jumpstart342 hitting the nail on the head there!

[@zweipinguine]

So fun fact: Over a month ago an alpha incel messaged me on Reddit asking why i defend females so much and what they ever did for us (because everyone on Reddit is male) and why he can't get a girlfriend and because he's only 15yo and i have a helpers complex I'm still arguing against all odds since he's only repeating his "arguments" and just not answering the things that might be too critical for his worldview. So anyways, i encouraged him to just post an r/ask directed to women asking them what they want and he came back with two responses: 1) women don't exist on Reddit, it bores them and they only use Instagram and TikTok 2) Women often don't know what they want. And it baffles me because if a woman says she wants a man who's funny and trustworthy and she doesn't want to sleep with him until a certain point and she wants to work as well then she's pretty clear about her wants. But I'm pretty sure the only instance he'd believe a woman to know what she wants would be if she wants everything he wants to "offer" in a relationship, which would make her severely mentally ill but that's not the point. How about we create alpha females and spread false claims about men like that male orgasms don't exist and stuff? How would he feel if women only listened to women as these i wonder? Not too great i guess.

[@bethanydavis9023]

@@zweipinguine the "alpha female" subreddit can start as a joke site. I undoubtedly am sure it will unfortunately attract toxic "feminists" and have heavy attacks from the icels and some of the good men being uncomfortable. Again, it'd be a joke reddit with a lot of effort that in the end will spiral out of control. But less of the incel men would think that women don't use reddit 🤷‍♀️

[@gabeangel8104]

I find the concept so weird that different genders can't ever be friends and can only ever have any interaction in the hopes of it becoming a relationship or sex. It must be such a frustrating and narrow way to live your life, limiting everything you do with another person based around what you think your future prospects are with them

[@tatiana4050]

Bi people can't have friends at all

[@justaperson4656]

I always wonder what these people must think of people attracted to 2+ genders. Maybe that's why they're so scared of us? Because they see everyone they're attracted to as prey, therefore we must be the same

[@swearsinspanish1092]

Yeah..im bi for example. Guess i am not allowed to have friends 😂

[@stevenclark1662]

@swearsinspanish1092 makes me think of George Carlin, "can you imagine wanting to **** EVERYBODY you meet?!"

[@Pr0pheceye]

It’s such a dumb societal expectation! I’m friends with mostly guys. We’re all some flavor of neurodivergent, so those expectations don’t apply to us. And guess what! We’re all still friends.

[@SpiderwebIntheCorner]

As an Asexual in the audience, I tip my hat to you, Mr. Cliccy.

[@cg6176]

You have a hat?

[@hopelessgeek3776]

Ace of the World Unite! Dyslexics of the World Untie!

[@plaidy.]

SAME

[@CR1MSONACE]

Captured Denmark gang rise up!

[@colin._.wright]

@@cg6176 I want a hat 😢

[@K1ngEr1s]

It makes me so happy seeing someone shout out the aro/ace community when people talk about relationships thank you click

[@amandapanda5087]

Yeah :)

[@yourunclered6686]

You could add “mad that woman is attractive to them” and “mad that woman is not attractive to them” to the bingo card. They could go together or separately.

[@sketchr9258]

mad that somebody is/isn't attractive

[@fortunatecookie]

“Mad that woman is”

[@eulennachathen449]

Woman: exists. Men: 😡

[@Myder_Dragon]

As a gay person who kinda was forced to be in a relationship with a women at my parents wishes I somehow know way more about women than this straight dudes.

[@wolvie1618]

That's awful and I hope you were/are able to get out of that. Nobody should be made to be in a relationship they don't want

[@SingingSealRiana]

Aro ace and I am somehow way better educated on safe sex and baby making since I was 12 then many sexually very active dudes at age 30... It is disturbing. ...also shame on your parents, I hope you got away from their toxic bs

[@KenotheWolf]

Sometimes i feel like it might be because non straight men are not viewing women as walking pussys that handle the rest after getting to their own pleasure. I def had someone like this that though he could make me his Mom 2.0 but with the pleasure to use me as sex toy. He didnt even knew that women bleed, although he had a Sister. Sorry, i may be bottled up with alot of negative feelings about this topic and sex, because all dudes i ever had missstreated me for not having sex with them. I dont wanna say all Men are like this. But it definitly destroyed my view on men. Im just a walking Vagina to them. Everything else is not important.

[@malicemacey]

You had to do your research! Unfortunately heteros tend to do their research by asking other poorly informed men 😂

[@hedgiehogdudeu_u406]

Don't even get me started same

[@beyedoc]

I was just told yesterday, "Enjoy being single" when I said there's nothing wrong with wanting a traditional marriage but everything wrong with believing that the natural world order is that men should run the world and women should obey them. So yeah I'm feeling a little spicy against the basement dwelling incel thinking he put me in my place when really I have 2 advanced degrees as a scientist and a doctor.

[@sketchr9258]

"enjoy being single" is supposedly an insult bc they fear being single, but u are busy and have an active social life so 'staying single' is not a problem for you, they're projecting also TWO ADVANCED DEGREES? I'm so proud cuz that requires intelligence!❤

[@beyedoc]

@sketchr9258 Thank you so much and I couldn't agree more. I've been through some really tough times in the past few years, and I'm very proud and happy of where I am right now. I guess "being single" is supposedly an insult because people like that are so desperate and lonely. Thank you for the kind comment. This is a great community.

[@ttintagel]

Somebody once said "Enjoy being single" to me and I smiled and said "Thanks! I am!"

[@missmichelle06]

​@@ttintagel I feel like an even better comeback would be to say "Thanks, you too!"

[@ana-nim]

​@@missmichelle06 daaamn 🌚

[@Julia-lk8jn]

So ... this _"asking somebody in the gym to spot for your means you're obliged to go out with them"_ rule: does that still apply when a man asks a man to help? I feel that if nothing else, this could make for great slash fiction.

[@clarasnotlikely]

“… oh my god they were gym bros”

[@hfrench4618]

That pregnancy vs pregnancy at 3:50 is also ridiculously unfair in comparison. The 70’s person is clearly either not far along or only having a singular baby. The “now” pregnancy is with TRIPLETS. I saw her on TikTok, she’s having triplets and was close to her due date. Super unfair comparison even if there was a single ground of footing in it, not that I’m surprised.

[@krea8402]

Not to mention the fact that both of those photos are clearly from modern cameras, so their examples aren't even a comparison between times 😂 Seriously, at least find a real 70's photo to go with your insanity

[@Alices.White.rabbit]

The period stuff is so weird to me because my cousin started her. At 8, my mother at 9 it's just really creepy to say that you're a woman when you started your period.

[@MsAubrey]

Agreed. My great aunt was 8, my mom was 9, and I was barely 10.

[@kathleenwoods8416]

Being reproductively capable doesn't mean you should owe anyone a baby. Children are too much work to be birthed half-assedly, and frankly the kind of person who thinks that you do isn't going to help.

[@ohboof]

I also started my period at age 9 and it's been the biggest unwanted thing in my life. I'm nonbinary, so also not a woman anyway. To know there were men who looked at me as a potential partner and then justified it with the fact I started my period has only caused me to further hate an organ that's just doing its job.

[@mimsycookiiess]

Yeah I got mine at 10 and same with my little cousin; most people who have periods normally get them at elementary or middle school age, so that sentiment always creeped me out. I find that more traditional people usually say that for some reason; I remember being creeped out when I was younger when my dad said that I should take women vitamins because I was a “woman” (we have kid, teen, and woman/men vitamins, the ages are stated on the bottles…) and I made snide remark stating my age bc I was so grossed out

[@mimsycookiiess]

⁠@@kathleenwoods8416Exactly! It’s also unfair to the unborn child to be born to a family that only had them bc of pressure from others and possibly won’t get taken care of to the fullest extent

[@hellochildren3780]

"Women should only go outside accompanied by a male family member." Who do you think is doing the SA? Its statistically more closely known people than strangers. Also did anyone else see that weird thing with the tweet at around 10:14?

[@Antje_An]

Me

[@roselover411]

The horse girl one is wild. No horse girl would care that their dad bought them a mare rather than a gelding. And no horse girl I've met would likely WANT a stallion because they know what real stallions are like. Mares make fantastic companions.

[@haineko1989]

Well, they do, although I personally always bonded better with male horsies than mares :) Still, when we (my sis and I) had our own it was a mare, and she was fantastic! Also stallions can be wonderful horses too, but there's definitely a higher level of probability that they'll be demanding/difficult and not everyone is good with them...

[@roselover411]

@@haineko1989 All the stallions I've ever encountered (which to be fair is not many) have been aggressive and difficult. The other issue with stallions is they are much more likely to catch a mare in heat's scent and go tearing after them regardless what you want them to do. But to be fair that is my experience, and others may have had perfectly good stallions they love.

[@haineko1989]

​@@roselover411 There's also the compatibility between the rider and the horse on top of that - I was always given the "difficult" geldings or the stallion at the facility I trained at as a teen because the trainers thought we would "fit each other" as we're both "fickin' individualistic characters" xP The stallion was definitely the most difficult due to that heat issue tho, and would not be used unless when in the highest skill group the lesson seats were maxed out, but if there were no mares around it was a great - albeit definitely a proud - horse. My uncles' stallions were way wilder in comparison O.O

[@avikarpik]

@@haineko1989 Damn, are you me? And also Polish hehe. I was also the resident "she gets the most difficult horse" person and I just loved it. I got some free extra classes and heavy discounts, which was really nice as I couldn't afford to ride as much as I wanted. It's like, all the good things that happened to me in the equine world was thanks to or related to the fact that I liked difficult horses. My best lucky streak was one horse holiday (camp?), where I actually managed to ride between 6 and 8 hours per day for 4 weeks. The usual riding time was only 2 hours per day, but the advanced group didn't have enough people with the skillz to ride all stallions. On top of that, I paid full camp price for 2 weeks initially, and then I was allowed to stay another 2 weeks, with free bed and riding, in exchange for helping out with horses/kids. So the only expense was my food, but that was nothing, I also befriended an old lady who lived nearby, who agreed to feed me dinners in exchange for some money towards groceries. The same "she gets the crazy horse" arrangement happened in multiple places where I used to ride. I just needed to prove I can work with a difficult horse, and within a month, I had all the difficult horses to myself. I think many trainers also appreciated a rider who isn't fussy a horse they get, because the "I only want to ride on " attitude is a serious problem if 5 people want the same horse... And where's the fun in riding low effort horse? For all those dangerous horsies I loved over the years, I only had one injury - broken rib - and it was my fault because I forgot to take off the bracelet. It was definitely worthwhile, from money perspective and just because it was a lot more fun than riding a professor. Even judging fellow teens who started riding around the same time I did, I think I also learned much faster thanks to difficult horses. If you don't have the technique, those horses will not work with you. My fav trainer said that it works for me because I don't fear horses because of their size/temperament (I rode a lot of Silesian horses, so hugee). There was only one horse I declined in my life, he was a total psycho, the only genuinely aggressive horse I have met. He was not slightly mean like "ohh is this your foot? I didn't see your foot there" or some occassional bite when you didn't pay attention, he was the I'm gonna send you flying to the moon and trample on you when you land back on Earth type of psycho. I rode him a couple times, but I could see his mind spinning and calculating how he can fuck me up. He'd change how he moves near obstacles (or corners) just to see if there's some angle to hurt me or to throw me. On third lesson, he purposefully fell to the inside corner when galloping and tried to roll over me - despite having really good stable ground and doing this corner multiple times during this lesson. So that was it, I was too scared for my spine to play along with him, I declined him after this and he got retired from the school. Some human psycho apparently leased him later, and seems like they got along fine, maybe this horse psycho was just really really picky.

[@DangerHob]

I love how wholesome this thread actually took that "meme", instead of the highly inappropriate insinuation it was actually making. ❤❤😅

[@ICantThinkOfANam3]

"women want buff men in maid dresses" I am a woman and I can comfirm that I want to see buff men in maid dresses SCREW IT I WANNA SEE ALL MEN IN MAID OUTFITS!!!! Yall are beautiful

[@tralilingvlog7160]

I'm a woman but idk it's just the fujos that like it lol i like them with suits

[@ICantThinkOfANam3]

@@tralilingvlog7160 I like buff men in maid outfits cuz it looks funny lmao And I like men with suits too lol. I used to draw Randoms OC's of men in suits

[@Scarlet-ku7ks]

YESSSSSS AGREEEEE

[@Ehaellie]

​@@tralilingvlog7160real, maid dresses are so overused/overhyped, it's not even sexy or something ☠️

[@werentia]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@EhaellieI feel so bad about the maids who have to dress like that now that the internet make it such a naughty thing 😭 like imagine saying that you work as a maid and some random spicy video/manga reader/watcher is gonna make a comment so weird like “omg your master must like you” or “is your boss hot?” bc people are so used to seeing inappropriate things when maid is mentioned. kinda like a rainbow being called “gay” 24/7 just because the flag is also a rainbow.. the internet isn’t funny now and just is full of inappropriate people with weird minds always trying to make innocence look inappropriate

[@CaspiDrako]

The funny but also upsetting thing about the bluetooth earbud "let's confuse the girls" one is that I've heard so many stories of women only having one earbud in specifically so they can hear their surroundings to avoid getting assaulted. So I think women may be more likely to understand the issue of one earbud having more charge than another...

[@Miczka1988]

My earbuds manual literally said not to wear both of them outside, so you can hear your surroundings, including the traffic. The one most confused now is my phone, as it now treat each earbud as separate device.

[@marzipan__]

I thought it was about one hand getting tired more quickly than the other during self satisfaction

[@unseencrowyomare4143]

​@@marzipan__ same

[@hfriedjnk]

oh is that like. . .a thing? i thought only I did that

[@CaspiDrako]

@@hfriedjnk it is...

[@crawdaddy1234]

28:51 The only square not filled is “actually wholesome.” 😂

[@artistryanxiety6132]

26:24 1. She's 11. 2. She's your NIECE. 3. SHE'S 11.

[@Acide950]

Yeeeaaahhh. Who the fuck calls an 11 year-old relative a "slut", an insult that is so sexually charged, if they aren't a gross creep?

[@meowmeow-im7fl]

It's definitely his fault she started acting like this

[@deimoskaischylos]

25:15 This one really leaves me baffled. He is not only speaking about a *child* like that, he's speaking about a *family member* like that. A child family member. She likely just realized what a creep he was and wants nothing to do with the little weirdo.

[@crystalcrusader711]

4:31 I’m surprised nobody added that the man IMMEDIATELY left when she turned him down. He was just using her. He expected to be able to go out with her, and was only willing to help when that expectation was available. He abandoned her the second he couldn’t get what he wanted.

[@adrenalineactivate]

Yes. Exactly. She was right to call him out for using him and then he acts like a Chad for not wanting to help a person because he can't get what he wants. It's super hilarious how they are literally so close to getting the point. But somehow sees nothing wrong with it

[@sunshinebrownie4545]

LITERALLY I was like « bro immediately left as soon as he knew he would get no intimate interaction with her » and somehow she’s the hypocrite ? 💀

[@luisgalizien]

Eh. They would have sort of used eachother yk?

[@vegbeg9170]

based

[@adrenalineactivate]

@@luisgalizien being decent toward someone is using them? Must be some American type shit cause where I'm from helping people out isn't call simping or using them, it's called etiquette. Men help women without expecting anything and women expect help not because their entitled but because they expect you to act like a decent person, vice versa.

[@pulsefel9210]

saying if a girl has had a period shes good to be pregnant is a call the FBI level red flag.

[@Arvak]

"being denied a wife" is so funny because like.... you're just outing yourself as being so awful that no woman wants to marry you 😂 plenty of men get married, but women actually have standards now

[@haineko1989]

Right? Unless someone is a poor chinese man who's affected by the impact of one-child policy and gender-motivated abortions from the past in his rural area I don't think there's that much influencing the wife-less situation other than one's personality and conduct >_>

[@bobbobbo5278]

And still there are plenty of women with horrendously low standards, so if he can't find someone then oof

[@valentinlageot4101]

that's not how marriage work women control with who they sleep, a man control who they wifed

[@valentinlageot4101]

@@foodie_nightos then don't ask where did the good men go?

[@Arvak]

@@valentinlageot4101 That is exactly how marriage works, if you want an actual healthy relationship with mutual respect and affection. If you're just looking for a toxic and controlling relationship, then sure, men "control" who they marry 🤦

[@cattynerd1859]

Fun fact: It's actually possible for one twin to "eat" the other in the womb, resulting in the person being born with different DNA in different parts. This is called Chimerism, and one woman was unable to apply for governmental assistance for her children thanks to the DNA test not showing they were her children. Another DNA test was performed with cells from her womb, which were a match for her children. So although rare, a maternity test can possibly have important results!

[@SarahAbramova]

I actually knew a guy that said this happened to him! Apparently, he was supposed to have a twin but he absorbed his twin.

[@lorifiedler13]

"Fun" fact, they took one of her children at birth and the new borns DNA didn't match mom. That's how they finally figured it out.

[@bloodyneptune]

...they thought she had a baby that wasnt hers and just denied her assistance? They weren't wondering where tf she got the baby?

[@lorifiedler13]

@@bloodyneptune They thought her children WEREN'T hers and that she was scamming welfare.

[@waffles3629]

​@@bloodyneptune if they're talking about the case I know about, they tried to take her children by claiming she must've stolen them even though the doctor who was present for their births confirmed she gave birth to them.

[@thelemoncoffee]

"spend less time trying to be a nice guy, and spend more time trying to be a good man" is by far the best advice anyone could give people who are Like That.

[@valentinlageot4101]

that's an actually good advice, in fact the only advice in thise comment section so far that I've watch. instead of insult

[@trini2DBone134]

​@@valentinlageot4101and why exactly would you expect people to be nice to misogynistic pigs?

[@valentinlageot4101]

@@trini2DBone134 to prove that you know better than them. instead of actually being a karen and someone that they don't want to date. cause if all women are like that no men is going to hav ethe patience and marry. better end humanity than having an hard life at the job and at the house.

[@trini2DBone134]

@@valentinlageot4101 nah, i'd rather not be nice to misogynists, especially when those dudes will refuse to listen anyways ✌️

[@valentinlageot4101]

@@trini2DBone134 problem is that you feminist consider all men to be mysoginist when they have pretty low standards for a women. but hey who am I to prove you wrong, not god that for sure.

[@DPNack_]

29:29 I (mtf) came out to my dad recently and he said "yeah whatever but when you will be old, rejected by all the catholics in the family and with no children, who will come visit you on your deathbed ?" That's exactly what it's proving, some people are like "yeah the goal of life is having children" and I felt pushed downwards because my own father. Expects from me. To have children. No. Matter. What.

[@BlueSkyBirdies]

Same... I'm not Trans myself (but congrats for you!) I'm aroace. Children are not necessary for a happy fulfilled life.

[@DPNack_]

@@BlueSkyBirdies exactly and that's what some people(including some of my family) don't understand

[@Κατερίνα-ω1λ]

I am a lesbian and it's my life dream to rise a lot of children, I am quite young to think of having kids, but I still want to have one day and I have since I was really young. I have no problem with people who don't want children, because they can do whatever they want with their own lives and not everyone was meant to be a parent, but I hear contently people saying; but if you don't have kids you will and up alone! Like, is really the only perpece of having kids to take care of you when you are older? Like come on, that's stupid.

[@DPNack_]

@@Κατερίνα-ω1λ yeah, "raising children with the only purpose of free care when you're older" feels egoistical

[@FighterCore17]

I really dislike how you guys get so much hate, people seemingly have no problems with FTM because they're "tomboys", but you guys immediately get labled as creeps and pedophiles. Like goddamn! You got this, queen!!

[@Lord_of_the_sixth_house]

That one guy who thinks wombs work like bluetooth had me rolling. What a grand and intoxicating innocence!

[@stevenclark1662]

I'll bet he's a farm tool.

[@crescent_sun482]

did you really put a Morrowind reference in there Edit: oh, you're Dagoth Ur. Makes sense

[@stevenclark1662]

@braviary211 there are a couple of ai channels narrated with Dagoths voice and he says that line a lot (also calls kajhits and argonians "farm tools")

[@Lord_of_the_sixth_house]

@@crescent_sun482 Yes moon and star, it is I. But even if it wasn't, there's never a bad time for a Morrowind reference.

[@crescent_sun482]

@@Lord_of_the_sixth_house true.

[@sarina76667]

I gotta say that it is refreshing to see an attractive man with a sexy accent making fun of the ridiculous misogyny of much less secure men. By the gods, these men of myth do exist!

[@lunawilder8739]

As a woman I agree it seems the legends are true!!

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

What is this feeling, I'm suddenly so hopeful!

[@ATomicAstronaut]

right? It's like he's selling something to you guys, like a marketing tactic almost. Hmm

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

@@ATomicAstronaut who cares really, he's already a refined plushie seller

[@ATomicAstronaut]

heard he s one of the best! @@strawberryshortcake4345

[@stevedavis5704]

I grew up neighbors with a girl who had her first period right before she turned six years old. I was only ten but I can assure you even then I knew she was not the way things normally are. Looking back I can also assure you she was not ready to be a mother at the age of six. All the neighborhood adults looked out for her because when she was ten she looked twenty. She was still playing with her Barbies and she looked like a Barbie.

[@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195]

that's scary... i started getting breasts at 9 and nothing was ever the same since then You just start living in constant fear and you're too young to even fully understand why. Most women were catcalled the first time whe they were 11-15 ... KIDS

[@thehippydisnerd4887]

Yikes! I horrified by my puberty at 12, I can’t imagine the trauma of starting at 6 (or earlier!)

[@MoonGuardian866]

And this is why hormone blockers exist! but of course conservatives dont want it cause they wont have their childbrides

[@Nuadin]

​@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 I feel like children even get more catcalled then adults, at least that's been my experience, and that sickens me to think that might be true.

[@joelroman6839]

That’s a good neighborhood. A girl named Lina Medina was born in Peru 90 years ago, and she got her period at 3. But Lina didn’t get much attention due to being poor and having so many siblings. She most likely wandered off by herself during a festival at age 4, and then Lina was caught by people who made her partake in an orgy that got her pregnant. Lina’s pregnancy wasn’t discovered until 7 months, and she became the youngest documented mother at five years old after giving birth to a healthy baby boy named Gerardo via C section. Lina’s son died at 40.

[@Iaminpain-le3wo]

9:40 i gotta be honest, i really felt it when he said “Men w woma arroga We do Nobel”. so inspiring.

[@RedMoon814]

Yesss. The guy at the end spitting straight facts! So good. Also all the creepers saying girls on they period "became women"... don't they know the average age to get it is like 11?? Or they DO know it and are unashamedly and publicly sexualizing minors? WTF

[@sketchr9258]

they literally don't know what the age of periods is, one guy once said "why do eight year olds get their periods so young? why don't they hold it in until they're old enough to have them?" I swear this is what they said, like wtf also, some men think that periods shouldn't be discussed among kids 7-10 years bc "they're too young" so that proves that they have literally NO idea when periods come

[@LRM12o8]

I'm gonna say they know and hope you don't realize. Because I sure didn't realize the girls they're talking about were _that_ young. It's dangerous to attribute to incompetence which can be attributed to malice! It's how we got people like Hitler and Trump in charge and it keeps happening again and again, because we keep underestimating people's capacity to do evil while overestimating their incompetence in planning, commiting and concealing it. How many times habe people said during Trump's presidency that he wouldn't be evil enough to try some shit and would be too incompetent do it anyway and then he actually did it?

[@pigcatapult]

@@sketchr9258 that’s actually kind of comforting

[@NeldaYtb]

Oh they know the average age, they just need to find an explanation for what they do

[@shadenox8164]

@@sketchr9258 You just have to look at how many people flipped out about periods being alluded to in Turning Red to see how little people know about them. Frankly maybe we should be discussing the topic more so we have less grown ass men freaked out by their mere mention.

[@LadyPenumbra]

All these, "I'm the real victim!" guys just enrage me. "I don't know how to talk to women now!" Clearly you couldn't before. It is very simple. Here it is. Keep your words and your hands off her body.

[@miaomiaochan]

I knew a guy like that. He once complained to a male friend within earshot of me that he was afraid of being accused of groping for putting his arm around women he's never met without their consent. In his mind, it's women's problem we don't like being touched by strangers that are trying to be "friendly", not his problem for being a complete creep that doesn't understand boundaries.

[@bumblerbree]

@@miaomiaochan insane how easy it would be to just not touch women-

[@valentinlageot4101]

@@bumblerbree more and more men are resulting to not even talking to women. it has worked quite well for them I must confess.

[@ResidentMilf]

​@@valentinlageot4101Good. Men like you SHOULD leave us TF alone.

[@Mortablunt]

And here we have women completely failing to grasp the problem and reinforcing what guys already know to be true which is women can ruin their life just for fun.

[@PlatinumAltaria]

49:37 The problem with a lot of these guys is that they hear "work on yourself" and decide to spend their life at the gym, because they think some arbitrary characteristic will magically make a woman interested in them. The goal is not to manipulate or trick people into finding you attractive, the goal is to find someone who already sees you that way, that you can build a mutual and healthy relationship with. You cannot make someone like you. YOU CANNOT MAKE SOMEONE LIKE YOU. The genie from Aladdin made that clear, no love magic. Sorry. If they aren't into you, move on. There are billions of women, this one is not that special. No she isn't.

[@Jibly09]

Exactly what I think when people work out for relationships, muscles don’t matter. Be there for them when they need someone, help them if they need help, even if they don’t date you, you now have a friend for life as you have proven that they can trust and help you like you do for them.

[@animeartist888]

THIS. SO much this!

[@Chespingod]

12:41 if I was cheerleading and a girl, I don’t think I would want to get pictures snapped of my ass by men 30 years older than me. Being an of model is different then being a cheerleader. Cheerleaders are there to cheer the team, not get sexualized. Of models are there to get sexualized, not cheer the team

[@kodamaspirit9298]

The drawing "Men don't want a woman who..."/"We don't care" is by Lainey Molnar, and she makes very inspirational comics about women's issues, I highly recommend everyone to check out her work! :)

[@MKPiatkowski]

Lainey is amazing.

[@whitneydouglas4794]

... Adele is a mom and a multi-Grammy winner. She "won" both ways. Also, I got my period when I was 11. I was not physically, mentally or any other way ready for pregnancy. People who think this are disgusting.

[@snickeridooo5467]

I was fourteen. Didn't make me any more of an adult.

[@tealkerberus748]

@@snickeridooo5467 Also people who want to inflict pregnancy on kids that age clearly don't regard the child as a person with a right to her own choices about her life. The notion that she might not WANT to have a baby before she finishes school doesn't seem to cross their minds at all.

[@html.g0ld3n27]

My mother was 7 when she had hers and I was 11 too 🤨 I think that man should be locked up-

[@kathleenwoods8416]

@@tealkerberus748 Honestly, for people with those beliefs, even the babies in those situations are just convenient punishments and hopefully convenient adults to manipulate one day.

[@m.h.7364]

Fun fact of the day : in the early Middle Ages, you could buy a sword for the price of 8 cows. A trained hunting falcon could cost up to 12 cows

[@Rotten_bonesXx]

That’s unrelated but interesting

[@m.h.7364]

@@Rotten_bonesXx ik, but people sometimes share random facts in Click's comments to cleanse away the stupid from the content

[@senor-achopijo3841]

8 cows already sounds like A LOT. We're talking about lots of meat, milk, skin, maintenance... You're basically jeopardizing a family's diet and economy in exchange for security.

[@SlothDaan]

Is this why only the rich could become knights? Because the the normal and poor couldn't afford a sword?

[@sarahr8311]

​@@senor-achopijo3841yeah, swords were super expensive. Like, the scenes in movies where people are just being handed swords to make an army is about as realistic as the king handing out luxury sports cars so people can travel.

[@Viendork]

Thank you for this. I love your voice and your humor. It makes my day! Meanwhile, to the person who thinks women claim menstrual health issues to exaggerate "normal" periods, the average woman is said to lose 3 tbsp of blood in an average ~week of menstruating. I was losing over 5 tbsp in 24 hours with bloodclots larger than average, and after years with cramps getting to the point where I would throw up and have diarrhea, becoming anemic, and finally hemorrhaging where I got dizzy and outbled everything in the ER, the nurse and doctor told me ~blood transfusions were going to be an inevitability. I had months since age 10 where I bled for a month straight, 2 whole weeks in a row, nothing for two weeks then another 2 weeks straight, and other irregular months. It took me years of doctors not being willing to listen to me, and not being willing to test me, not believing my periods were abnormal. The day I was finally hemorrhaging and going unconscious is when the hospital found that I had endometriosis and multiple fibroid tumors in my uterus and would most likely be infertile. A month later I had to get my uterus and tubes removed. This runs in my family and all the women, on my mom's side of the family whether right wing or left, have reproductive health issues. Fuck ignorance to unhealthy periods, that shit almost killed me. I'm happy and healthy now.

[@Aarzu]

Holy hell, the post where the guy refers to their 11-year old niece as a "foid" and a "slut" can't seem to figure out that maybe he's the one putting out bad vibes and making his niece uncomfortable? Considering that he's already sexualizing her to some degree, I can only imagine what he's said to her. I'm sad that she has to interact with that creep at all.

[@rose_2139]

Literally! The logic of it is ridiculous in of itself- ah yes, the classic definition of a slut: a child ignoring their uncle... Like no, that's a preteen with a creepy relative

[@Glaycier]

Literally anyone who puts sl*t in the same sentence as their 11 year old niece is weird as fuck and should probably have their computer checked.

[@aynDRAWS]

Excuse me, but what does "foid" mean? That's not a term I'm familiar with

[@twotruckslyrics]

@@aynDRAWS^ unfamiliar as well 😕

[@BLU3B33RY.]

Yea same, I’m unfamiliar with foid too