r/Self - Growing Up in an ”Influencer Family"...

[@TheClick]

GET YOURSELF A SPOOPY PLUSHIE TO HAUNT YOUR ENEMIES www.makeship.com/shop/creator/the-click

[@pineapplefrostyfruits9225]

Bought my first ever makeship plush; Ghost Mango. I love sharks, and he's a spoopy lil ghost boi. Thank you for the awesome plushies AND awesome videos, Click.

[@diddlemethis-b6g]

i misread spoopy god dammit

[@datdamfandom]

@@diddlemethis-b6g My deslexia made me read it as soupy. Which is true mango is pretty tasty and warm

[@Anonymous-nc1ly]

Please do r/nosleep

[@maggpiprime954]

My enemies don't deserve to be cute-haunted. 😤

[@numbers0580]

So Click asked, "Why is there a bee in my room!?" Obviously, it's auditioning to bee your next plushie.

[@FinArborist]

🥁🥁📀 😅

[@iris.pearl6572]

honestly id love to see click's bee plush ​@@FinArborist

[@TCHorwood-xq7mw]

Here, take my upvote 👍

[@johnlox398]

Nice one x3

[@Salicat99]

Sir Bumbleton needs to join Mango and ESD.

[@flyingprist]

The thing about RV parents saying 'Nomadic lifestyle is best' is so Dumb. Especially because one family isn't Nomadic. Nomads have entire communities that move from place to place TOGETHER. They don't even understand what the word nomad means and yet they think they've got the world figured out. Shame on them.

[@lizzienora678]

Communities are nomadic, RV parents are Exiled.

[@DrakeBoehm]

Had a friend who's family did that, but they stopped because it just wasn't good for the kid's mental health, and it was incredibly taxing on all people involved.

[@vernemeton]

exactly what i was thinking. nomadic lifestyle is perfectly fine, if done right. with community. travelling together. meeting up with others, staying with others, either those that settled somewhere or who are also passing through the same place. these people just isolated their child from everyone and everything to go chase their own dreams, that's horrible. packing up a 7 year old like a belonging, running around, filming the child the entire time (ugh, i hate it. i hate it so much) and when the child is older, is an adult, she even voiced her concerns, her wishes, her desires, her wants and needs, and gets ignored. that is not family behaviour, that is not community behaviour, those parents are assholes and their daughter deserves so much better. i hope she finds help.

[@GretchZ]

Yeah, these are not nomads. They are drifters. Want to live a nomadic life? Join a group of people that jump from music festival to music festival. Loose-to-close-knit groups form and the sense of community can be very strong. …but once kids are school age, you should settle to some degree. Settle for the school year at least! I used to do sound engineering, and the festival I did yearly for nearly a decade was the best week of my year. Everyone knew each other, everyone knew me, everyone got along aside the weird kids who stayed in the woods dropped low-ph substances and stole things… But no one had kids above 6 that were actual festival nomads.

[@rolfs2165]

@@GretchZ Or you could join a travelling circus. And guess what: even those will stay in one place for almost half a year during winter. Because it's no travelling weather (and people don't want to freeze their asses off in a draughty tent). In Europe there's also travelling groups of Sinti and Roma, but because they're an ethnic group that has had a lot of bad experiences for centuries, I don't imagine it's easy to get into one of those as an outsider.

[@emotionalagliophilic8623]

“The best way to live is nomadic” Nomadic groups live in groups. The community is nomadic, its not just a nuclear family isolated from all other people

[@petrfedor1851]

Also nomadic people move in predictible pattern

[@Solonneysa]

The crazy part is people think that this is not abusive, but if you shift it to the same behavior, with a stationary home, people start to see it as abusive. If a family kept their kid isolated, at home, with no friends, and filmed them all day, every day, it's considered abuse. Even without filming. Isolating a child, using them as a prop to their lives, to parade around like "look we're a pretty nuclear family," while providing zero actual familial support or peer-socialization, is not okay. Slap a cute name on it, put it on the internet, and travel and suddenly, somehow, it's fine.

[@avadamour1702]

My cats and I are planning to spend at least the next year being nomads. The exact route is being planned, so that we can pack exactly what we need. We will be doing a lot of adventures, but not ones for which we’re wholly unprepared. Also, the route has planned “stays” with other members of our “tribe” (which is funnily enough what I call my friend groups that are scattered about the states).

[@Sly-Moose]

DITCH THAT ENTIRE TOXIC "FRIEND" GROUP AND MARRY DAVE INSTEAD!! FAKE FRIENDS!! 😡😡😡

[@bakugoukacchankatsuki6434]

This is under the assumption that same sex marriage is legal where they live. Hell, OP and Dave don't even have to be in love romantically/sexually. They can get married as friends for the financial benefits! Dave is a real one

[@EggdogGuy]

bromance for the win

[@AceRubo]

realest comment ever

[@RockabellaSterrrn]

@@bakugoukacchankatsuki6434 Like that movie 'I now pronounce you Dave and OP'!

[@Juo.vettä528]

Omg yees If I was that dude I would marry Dave immediately (if it's legal where they life ofc) Everyone needs a Dave!

[@michellebrickner9307]

There's more to the RV story. She reaches out to her grandmother. Turns out, her family didn't even know she existed! They managed to get her out of there.

[@thatchaoticspirit9806]

Hell yeah!!

[@barrylangille3523]

Thanks for the update. It's good to know she got out.

[@LadyTroubadour]

Bless you. I was dying to know.

[@judahsmyth5398]

i actually went to the comments specifically to see if there was something like this, glad she was able to escape

[@akuma7425]

you got the link for us to see ?

[@babowasalwayshere]

As someone who often tried to keep the "no cry streak" going growing up: don't do that to yourself. I have emotional constipation now and I can't cry half the time even if I want to, and I'll go months and months without crying then burst into tears over really dumb things like dropping something on the floor or other minor inconveniences. Let yourself cry. Emotions happen for a reason. Get it out so you can move on. It is a release, and it'll be easier to not cry after you let yourself do it. It doesn't have to be in public, it doesn't have to be around someone you don't trust. But if you bottle it up and force yourself not to cry, believe me, it's going to happen somewhere you don't want it to in front of people you never wanted to see you in such a vulnerable state. Take some time to yourself, write in a journal. Watch a sappy romance movie. Read some dumb novel with trivial angst. Listen to music that has a message you vibe with. Find something to help you let it out, and just let it out. Do this. Your body and mind will thank you.

[@Antje_An]

I was trying to keep my cry streak going✌️ Well actually I didn't have to try but oh well

[@graefkathi1447]

Oof​@@Antje_An

[@graefkathi1447]

Yeah, if you try to keep your crying down you will end up with a pile of misery that could explode anytime.

[@jakubpluhar4914]

@babowasalwayshere This. I feel like a large part of men have this exact problem. Except instead of crying because of something minor, they end up getting annoyed or angry instead because they don't even realize they want to cry. Pretty much exactly what happened to me.

[@KOKO-uu7yd]

Wise words. I hope you can gain whstnyou need, in time. It certainly sounds like you have the perspective, desire, and drive to work at it! Take care 🥹❤️‍🩹

[@michellebrickner9307]

My husband is 6'3", a firefighter, and very much a Southern Man. So the first time he broke down in front of me I felt honored, because it meant he trusted me enough to be vulnerable with me.

[@handson4580]

Thank for not being a person who pounces on your man for being vulnerable

[@Cynessa_Murder_Drones-1]

Oh, that's sweet!

[@ary3901]

the day my partner cried in front of me was the day i knew i was going to marry him

[@chastitymarks2185]

In my understanding, being vulnerable is not the same as being weak, quite the contrary I think that showing another person that you're vulnerable is a true sign of strength.

[@Suited_Nat]

@@chastitymarks2185I mean, you’re right. As a person who grew up with the opposite mentality, it’s kinda hard to shake off, sadly. Because even if logically I know it’s okay to be vulnerable and emotional, I feel the shame for doing so.

[@RainMakeR_Workshop]

I'd have told every single one of those fake "friends" to NEVER contact me again, they would all be dead to me. Dave, was the only one worth a damn.

[@magnetbane2671]

I have never heard a story that involved blatant cheating and a whole “friend group” just thinking it was cute and funny. Honestly insane in my opinion. Dave is a great friend and I’m glad OP had a Dave there for him when this happened

[@jake8748]

​​@@magnetbane2671I know atleast 4 of my friends knew of my wife cheating with another friend and no one said a thing. I went to unalive myself initially that first day of discovery. Now nearly 10 years later I have no trust in people. Basically no friends at all (1 work friend would be my best friend but we've never really chatted outside of work). And still have bad depression and anxiety. I wish I had anyone like Dave that I could know have had my back like that OP had.

[@thenexus8384]

We all (excluding people like that "friend group" and "girlfriend") need a Dave in our lives

[@GretchZ]

The contrast between OP and Dave to those monsters has immediately made “Dave is a bro” into a saying for me. Someone notices you need something and gives it to you without asking? “Dave is a bro!” Guy in a movie stands up to a bully for someone else? “Dave is a bro!”

[@Canvas-nb]

oh hi click you're looking very handsome today, you smell great too!

[@Scarbonara_]

Real 😔

[@Dana-sn4js]

The click is always handsome 😅

[@tailfeatherrs5886]

Conspiracy theory: he tells us we all smell great because in reality he is blinded by his own greatness of smell and only smells his own smell smell smell smell (sorry it was a long day I'm not mentally stable)

[@batkat8]

I thought this said "you're looking very human today"

[@sirius767]

​@@tailfeatherrs5886All days are equally as long, which means you're just like me; Never mentally stable. Welcome to the club :3

[@Darkloid21]

Those van life parents are borderline child abuse. The kids don’t get the chance to socialize or have any life apart from their parents, that’s a quick way to end up in a nursing home when you’re 80

[@hvbg]

The worst part is that there are people claiming this is a nomad lifestyle, even though nomads actually go together in WHOLE COMMUNITIES and not just singular families Basically actual nomad children still get to have friends and a life outside their parents, while van life children don't

[@Darkloid21]

@@hvbg I was going to say that, actually nomads were pretty decently size groups not just 3 people. This is very isolating

[@Art-is-my-main-hobby]

That's not borderline. It's straight up ABUSE. As someone who had to move far away from all of my friends, it's awful. Humans are social creatures. We need community, we need friends, we need loved ones. When you have no friends, you start wondering why you're still participating in things that make you happy. Your brain becomes starved of everything that makes us human, everything that helps you develop.

[@Darkloid21]

@@Art-is-my-main-hobby Yeah but if you know people like those "Van life" folks you'll realize nothing you say will change their minds. They're so self absorbed they can't see beyond their own bubbles.

[@darcieclements4880]

I just keep thinking about how terrible the culture shock was when I moved once and how it basically destroyed my ability to date or form relationships completely... I can't even imagine how awful it would be to not be able to establish any kind of social dynamic for any amount of time as a child.

[@cathleenc6943]

"A nomadic existence" is not something humans have ever really done as a nuclear family. Historically (and pre-historically) nomadic peoples moved around as a whole community, with extended family and often with unrelated community members as well. If an individual or couple enjoy it, that is one thing, but part of raising children in a healthy way includes socializing them, and helping them to learn how to make and function within long term relationships, such as long term friends, dating, teachers, other adults and children, how to resolve conflict, forgive, identify healthy vs. toxic people, and all this must be learned by doing it. It's not something a person can learn to do by reading a book or a website. I feel bad for this girl, as I think she has been severely neglected and isolated by her parents, who did not in any way consider her mental well being or happiness. I hope she gets away from them quickly.

[@murphieslaw6932]

Good thing this shit is illegal in most western countries. It is straight up child abuse, yes. We lived the biggest part of our 200 000 years as nomads or half-nomads, true. But those groups could easily be 50-60 people strong. A nuclear family, running around while avoiding any meaningful bonds ? Now that is unhealthy and unnatural. If you are not The Connors from 'Terminator', or are on the run from the Law, you should never attempt this kinda shit. And in my country - if the state catches you, and they will, you better pray you can keep your children, after all. And I hope they won´t.

[@adriannegentleman83]

"Why is there a bee in my room, Free pet I guess" is such a Click vibe, and I love it .

[@Ferrari255GTO]

Shout out to Dave, the real ones deserve credit

[@thenexus8384]

All my homies love Dave!

[@matthewmaccabe4171]

The story of 'got dumped because i wouldn't sleep with her' is so bad, the guy could just be being respectful or whatever and not wanting to rush into sleeping together cos hoping for something meaningful not just a hook up for his first time. Also she was drinking so that just pushes on worrying about consent especially if she thinks differently when she sobered up etc. Finally and most importantly she wanted him to make a move...if she wanted it so bad she could've made the move herself

[@LadyTroubadour]

Yeah that was so strange to me, a 3rd date seems REALLY early to not only be banging, but to be disappointed because you aren't and worried that something's wrong. Like there's nothing wrong with moving fast either if that's how things go, but I wouldn't say it's the norm, especially to this extreme of a degree. Like idk maybe they even just want to wait until they like, trust you enough to be naked with you, sometimes that takes more than looking at you a couple times YEESH. Also her uh... super mature approach to deciding the lack of sex was an issue... not talking about it or uh, asking him herself heaven forbid but making fun of him to her friends? Like she might benefit from talking to someone cuz YIKES.

[@matthewmaccabe4171]

@@LadyTroubadour everybody gets nerves and take things at different paces and things. If you want to be in a mature relationship then you have to respect that in each other. For some people even just plucking up the courage to have a good night kiss at the end of a date is a big deal no matter how many times you've been out with a person. If it goes further and all involved are consenting adults then that's great but again it always comes down to consent on both sides and shows the importance of communication. Getting angry at someone for not taking it further is honestly just toxic

[@LadyTroubadour]

@@matthewmaccabe4171 word!

[@darcieclements4880]

I'm glad there's other people here that think it was too fast. I had a few people tell me that I needed to be making out by the second date or I would be rejected or torturing the guy and I've been unable to date since because I've been so terrified by that thought.

[@maursyf16]

Seems like she took him not wanting to sleep with him as a rejection. She obviously derives her self-worth by how desirable she is to men.

[@SageAsuka]

Can confirm, so many opportunities open up when you go outside once in a while. My roommate begged me to drive them to a park for a pokemon go community event and as it turned out, the area is full of people still playing the game. They have a little designated area as a 'hub' where everyone goes when they want to either rest or find someone to walk with. And this group is all ages so I've met people my own age, new parents, grandparents with their grandkids...everyone looks forward to it :>

[@Roadent1241]

I'm assuming it works IF you can leave, IF there's somewhere to go out to. Having grown up in the middle of the countryside, I've not got that. No buses, I can't drive, nowhere to go even if there were buses. No friends nearby.

[@deadinside8781]

I wish hubs were more common so people could find normal people more easily. I worked retail and it hurt me so bad to be abused by strangers. There was never a warning once they enter the store so now I can’t interact with others or compliment people.

[@charlym.7622]

Community but also dating. I got this advise: the best thing you can do if you want to meet new people is to try out a new hobby, take a class, something like that. Because you meet local people that are interested in similar stuff than you and it makes yourself more interesting :)

[@Roadent1241]

@@charlym.7622 If there are local people. I got given a site to look up 'local people' for my hobbies and Gamedevving gave me Bangkok as my closest. That's a... few miles away from Britain XD

[@wolf310ii]

@@Roadent1241 Dont worry, that happens also in the city, the only difference is, there you can have "friends" nearby who tolerate you as the 3rd wheel as long as they can take advantage of you

[@VAnotes2]

Man, we all need a friend like Dave. Better to have one good friend than a bunch of em who don’t really seem to be very respectful or caring

[@Llialune]

This story made me realise why I have very few friends left in my life. Granted, life gave me trust issues. But I've got one "Dave" and that counts as more than any 10 friends I had before. I just gotta make sure I don't lose that one too.

[@I.like.cats.and.strawberrys]

1:28 As a german, hearing cliccy speaking german is so surreal but also wholesome at the same time 😭😭

[@yamato9753]

Oh ja. Es ist absolut verwirrend und wunderschön zugleich.😂

[@cecile886]

Translation for those of us who don't speak German please?

[@Jonilo123]

Ist es nicht toll mit leichtem Übergewicht: "Mein kleiner Schmetterling" genannt zu werden???😁

[@Yaiiiiiii_Dinos]

​@cecile886 Yes my fellow Germans this is a very inexpensive thing isn't it? Yes my little Butterfly 😅 But his sentence structure is a little bit off XD

[@tami7992]

Ja, haha, finde es super

[@mondlichtkatze4818]

that animator guy that got cheated on sounds like a dream guy for me! im an introverted artist myself and i would LOVE a guy who just likes to chill inside with me, working on our projects and sometimes maybe collaborate a piece together as a date or something like that!

[@karine-v]

Same, that would be my dream partner.

[@nikkifahy7762]

I'm also an introverted artist, and would love to be with someone like that. I'd be asking questions about animation, and would happily enjoy hours of quiet while working on my own projects.

[@sunnyandthechlo]

Yes, he needs to find someone a little more similar to him. He says he’s gonna work on a project for awhile, she curls up near him with a book. Or goes into another room to work on her own project and pops in to check on him and see if he wants to go to lunch. Me and my husband always wanted two desks next to each other in the room so we can sit beside each other and play video games together or work separately for a while. We finally got that and it works out great. We’re always together but sometimes doing different things. Just make sure you set aside time for the relationship as well!

[@Llialune]

So true. Where do all the introverts go to meet each other though? I wanna silently vibe with my kin too

[@Lizard_Ri]

​@@Llialune I am joining on this question

[@lilyraindancer5240]

21:39 I follow a TikTok account who acts out skits of what gentle parenting is like in her family, but she dresses up herself as her children because she refuses to show her kids on camera until they are old enough to decide wether they wish to be on camera or not. She goes about it in the correct way and I am honestly glad that I grew up before we had really good cameras within easy reach because my severe social anxiety would have completely crippled me if I were growing up in today's environment.

[@Moon_x_sun]

Is it mammacusses? Bc I really like her. Not only does she gentle parent but she does it in a way that fits her personality :)

[@lilyraindancer5240]

@@Moon_x_sun yes it is.

[@waffles3629]

Oh I love Gwenna's content ❤

[@KaoticWhisper]

My mom taught me that you can't look after someone else until you can look after yourself

[@curtdammit]

Hard work good, hard work fine, but first take care of head

[@Bookwright]

That is true but you can still talk to people while you are working on yourself.

[@lilithcampbell2112]

This is why I'll never have a relationship. Being me is already too much work and would never date myself, I'm a loser 🥲

[@-Devy-]

@@lilithcampbell2112 Relatable.

[@Xanderj89]

Those people, people who cannot handle their own emotions and responses, make everyone around them take care of *them* , only allowing behavior they find personally comfortable, dictating what you should do based on how they feel about it, because they can *only* handle being catered to. When you grow up with a childish parent like that they basically make you handle their emotions for them, without ever letting you learn to manage your own, you just have to minimize yourself at all times and stay on alert to respond to everyone elses needs around you not even really being able to notice your own needs (yay fawn trauma)

[@vidal9747]

27:17 men can also want to take it slow. Toxic stereotypes are bad.

[@Sincyn241]

That first story is like finding out that your dog had explosive diarrhea all over the carpet. It’s still sucks, but at least you found it before the Roomba did.

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

😆 Your comment is gold!

[@Ragt0p]

Love your comment, it’s soo apt. But oh my goodness, my mind cannot unsee the scene after the roomba found it 😂

[@waffles3629]

​@@Ragt0p very apt, as someone who's seen the photo after a friend's dog did this. Not pretty, thankfully the Roomba got stuck on a dog toy about a minute later so it wasn't as bad as it could've been.

[@Sincyn241]

@@Ragt0p iRobot literally issued an update a few years ago because “poopocalyse” events were happening so often.

[@enoiladoe]

I've seen a couple of intros with the spooky plushies and by now I'm sure ghost mango is clicks favorite child

[@elaineb7065]

Don't blame him. Manghost is my fave & I ordered him xxx

[@enoiladoe]

@@elaineb7065 no blame intended. Just an observation I made. And maybe I'm wrong, maybe ESDs have to be shown love by being thrown through the room 💜

[@MaridoDoFelps]

Mango is definitely Click's favorite child, it was the first one and clearly one Click created more for himself lol I kinda feel sad sometimes when I see how little love Mango gets compared to ESD, but at least Click can buy all the Mangos himself and put them in the pool for the hot tub stream!

[@Curious_Inky_Toebean]

Well, ghost mango's bow tie is a bat, I feel like that's a huge bonus ^^

[@elaineb7065]

@@MaridoDoFelps I'm still waiting for original Mango to be permanent

[@Xanderj89]

That girl calling the dude spineless is projecting af lol, she could have initiated at any point but instead tries to be passive aggressive because she wants him to initiate, and instead of just ducking communicating her wants she shifts the blame to the other person who *could not read her mind* toxic is underselling it this person isn’t self aware at all

[@BananaWasTaken]

I wonder how different the world would be if therapy was mandatory.

[@janemiettinen5176]

And it sounds a lot like they seeked very different things; he wanted a more serious relationship, she looked for a hookup. But yeah, she is a prime a-hole.

[@lachouette_et_le_phoque]

I wonder if she felt insecure that maybe he "didn't want her enough" and is trying to overcompensate in a super toxic way

[@PadelbootStudios]

@@lachouette_et_le_phoque A sad possibility. The way she crapped on him reeks of her expecting him to act like the toxic macho cliche of guys taking the first opportunity they get. Could be a sign of tons of internalized misogyny, where she sees her worth only in terms of "sexual value" and him not making a move would thus be a sign of her being of "low value". This is what pisses me off so much about this story. He did what most normal women can only ask for! He behaved like a decent human being trying to form genuine connections and she shat on him for that. She really wanted him to move on her like a toxic macho prick, even though she was drunk. And his friends even agree with her when she contacted them? Like what the hell? OP had some really bad luck. :(

[@jennivamp5]

1:29 Click being sarcastic about German being a beautiful language and here I am blushing at being called his little butterfly. ❤😮

[@VictoriaEMeredith]

I KNEW I had heard the word “schmetterling” before! 😁

[@kosha4735]

Same Like GERMAN IS BUEATIFUL COMEON

[@murphieslaw6932]

I love how 'SCHMETTERLING' contains the word 'SCHMETTERN' which means 'smiting' or 'bashing', at least in modern German. I guess it originally meant something like 'tumbling', alluding to the typical wing movement. '-ling' of course means something like little creature - and English calls it 'butterfly'. Pah. It´s neither a fly, nor does it live off butter ! German wins ! ; D

[@orelliaorellia142]

6:30 : Who want to bet he told the story to his friends '' oh yeah, this very cute client asked for my number in case she need to ask me questions the other day ''. And all the friends were '' she was flirting! Send her a message right now! '' 😂. It's so wholesome 😊

[@Banunkie]

Pretty simply put, if you cant be emotional around your partner, they're not the one. I remember the first time I was really emotional around my partner. They made me realise all the stuff my parents put me through wasnt love but rather veiled abuse all culminating in me breaking down laying on their chest, crying because I wanted to tell my mum I was proud of her but all the bottled up rage, resentment and vitriol I felt wouldnt let me and they just held me, comforted me and listened. Pretty simply, if they wont let you be weak, find someone new. If they're obsessed with having an "alpha" as a partner they're stuck in a fantasy, you'll find someone who you'll truly mesh with and they'll be alone. Dont bottle your emotions up around someone who you're meant to love, you're only torturing yourself

[@db_524]

☝️

[@Altair718]

Bro that guy who got cheated on for two years, I feel like that group deliberately set him up. Like this was just one long, cruel joke for them. Shoutout to Dave for being a real one though.

[@mihaelaparvu7585]

Those kind of people take joy in other people’s misery, but the second something bad happens to them then they tell everybody what a victim they are. I had similar experiences with my bullies in middle school. Once we went to different high schools and they got bullied by older students, they posted on every social media platform they had. Me being a petty little witch responded with all capital letters: NOW YOU FINALLY GET TO SEE HOW I FELT IN MIDDLE SCHOOL WHEN YOU A-HOLLES BULLIED ME DAILY. The next day, all their post were gone and I was banned from their pages. That made me leave my past behind and move on with my life. The hypocrisy of some people .

[@brandonp5846]

Shit like that can have long lasting effects too! Trust issues, low self esteem, constant self doubt, zero confidence etc! That poor guy! What a horrible woman and horrible friend group! 😢

[@sinandtonic2029]

That guy around 36 minutes sounds perfect tbh. happy to stay home and do hobbies but willing to go on an annual adventure? Chefs kiss

[@finixfire8323]

The RV family thing. As bad as it sounds, they might have been able to give the child more stability if they sent the kid to a boarding school. They really are robbing the kid a chance at interacting with kids their age and having proper education. Especially if they insist on living in an RV. As parents they really ought to put more thought into the well-being of their child if they wanted a specific lifestyle for themselves and not lock it in for the kid

[@ClassicCat80]

I really hate that most modern social medias are super open about what people have blocked and if people have blocked you. I should be able to curate my online experience and not be judged for it, I remember seeing so many posts of people that are like "this person has me blocked, I've never interacted with them" and everyone replies that it's weird or something. Maybe I just really hate someone's profile picture and that's it, is it stupid? Yes, should I be judged for it? No.

[@imperfectimp]

I'm so thankful my relatives aren't on social media. Twitter feels like a safe space to me bc I don't get "can you come over for XYZ" messages or awkward "why did you block me" conversations.

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

Watcha wanna bet platforms do it on purpose, to discourage people from blocking potential sources of that sweet sweet engagement-driving drama and outrage?

[@erin1569]

The lack of stability due to frequent moves really messed me up. I moved over 6 times between the ages of 8 and 15 (including changing the country once). Now that I'm an adult I know I live in an apartment that I could call home, but it just doesn't feel like it's a space where I can relax. I basically feel like a squatter wherever I live. Adding the constant making and tearing apart friendships made me asocial (maybe a little bit anti-social) at 13. I cannot imagine what kids who constantly travel in RVs must feel like

[@smappositivedance]

I never thought of German as a sexy language until I heard The Click speak it

[@maxbaker7841]

All languages are sexy when spoken by the Click.

[@hannajung7512]

it only is because accent swedish is really sexy in german. German spoken by... lets say a person from Cologne does not sound half as nice.

[@garfieldkater5469]

​@@hannajung7512 his german sounded worse than actual german

[@Lian9973]

​@@garfieldkater5469 What do you mean by 'actual German?'? He was speaking actual German. Sure the grammar was botched a bit and he randomly added something about a butterfly at the end. But he did say actual German words.

[@river-collective]

​@@hannajung7512 That really depends on the dialect. Like, people from Magdeburg sound significantly more annoyed than Würzburg, even though they're both speaking in a neutral tone.

[@SpottableBus]

On the first piece of advice: you usually have to talk to women (and be interested in them) as people to find success. I found love almost immediately when I stopped looking for it. The difference was I started looking for friendship. I wasn't looking at someone and evaluating them as a potential partner. I just got to know people. When I knew my current partner as a person, suddenly love grew out of that friendship.

[@waffles3629]

Yep. I flat out was not looking for a relationship, had absolutely​ no interest in being in one (I'm aroace), and then my best friend and I realized we were basically in a QPR. Still happily together 8 years later.

[@janemiettinen5176]

Solid advice. Ive known my husband of 24 years since childhood, he was my best friend before we got together. And still is.

[@omgtatercat]

Parents who force their kids into the RV life don't care about their kids. Kids want to be rooted, they want to be able to make friends. Kids NEED structure and routine, and moving around all the damn time completely prevents that. Someone below in the comments said the girl contacted her grandmother and was able to get away from her parents. That's fantastic news, and hope she can start living her life. It's just a shame her parents denied her a real childhood for content.

[@theuncalledfor]

I think it could work if you had a larger group, similar to an actual nomadic tribe. Your roots are in the tribe, not the ground. Or the house. Or the town. But a singular family? Nope, no way, terrible idea, you're completely right.

[@lampekartoffel]

7:32 haha, you're not going to fool me Click! I know this "leaving the house" thing is a scam! I'm going to stay home where my cats and my plushies are! (Just got a ticket for a concert in Copenhagen in February, tho. And I don't know anyone who's going to the concert😅)

[@flimsywizard5577]

Lampekartoffel - what an iconic username 😂

[@elaineb7065]

Enjoy the concert xxx

[@lampekartoffel]

@@flimsywizard5577 Thank you 😂 a result of preteen me not being able to think of any "cool" usernames that weren't already taken and then asking a friend to come up with something random - he had potatoes for dinner and was looking at a lamp when I asked 😂😂😂

[@lampekartoffel]

@@elaineb7065 Thank you 😊 I'm 100% sure it's going to be a treat 💙 at least, after my social anxiety has been overtaken by the music and atmosphere 🙈

[@muse6815]

I go to concerts solo more often than not. It can be a little scary, but I have a blast with the strangers around me. Talk about the bands/acts you're seeing, toast to your favourite songs, see if they see other shows and maybe expose yourself to new music. It can be intimidating, but rewarding.

[@kurtwagner4663]

I was not prepared to be called a little butterfly in my native language by click today 😂

[@warpendragn8824]

I had an emotional breakdown recently, and my partner was already the best thing thats happened to me. He listened, and hugged me, and told me it was ok to grieve something even when it didnt "make sense". He entertained our friends while i took the evening to recover. Im so glad im going to marry this man

[@vedogon343]

Im so happy for you. I have similar relationships with my partner but it hasn't been really great lately. I miss having this treatment too.

[@oougahersharr]

When a cat trusts their owner, loves their owner, the cat rolls over and shows their belly. This is not for a belly rub. This is revealing the most vulnerable area, knowing their trusted, loved owner will not hurt them. I you can not emotionally "roll over and expose" your vulnerability to your loved one, run. Run fast and far. They are not the right one for you. The one who attacks that vulnerable spot and makes you feel like curling back up, hiding and nursing your wounds . . . that attacker is not the right one. Everyone needs to be able to "expose their belly" safely to their loved one.

[@Geospasmic]

To the guy who got cheated on for being "boring": you're not boring. The cheating girl is boring, because she's the one who can't entertain herself and needs somebody else to entertain her.

[@pavelZhd]

25:46 fun fact. This actually happened to me. When I met my wife and introduced her to my friendroup, a couple of female friends I had privately said to her (and she much later retold to me) that they never saw me as a dating material but I would be a good pick if she was after a long term relationship and starting a family. This year is our 18th anniversary.

[@vanguardangel6912]

AAAAAAAA THATS SO CUTE!!!!! 🥰

[@bellajonson6765]

Aww that's really sweet ❤❤

[@AroWolfArts]

God, I love it whenever click tries to speak full on german sentences. It makes me giggle with so much joy every time.

[@Curious_Inky_Toebean]

Especially his "tender way" of saying Schmetterling!

[@Eevee-ks6cp]

I didn’t know how much I wanted to be with a man who could cry and feel big emotions until I met my now fiancé and he broke down every misconception I ever had about men. Be your self. Be open. Feel big. If she deserves you, you’ll know.

[@Bajeffrey]

My grandfather used to say. Learn for other mistakes. You can't make them all on your own

[@Moon_x_sun]

Kinda sounds like what my mom said: “Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”

[@janemiettinen5176]

My great grandma was wicked smart, she told me smart people learn from others mistakes, regular peeps learn only from their own ones and stupid people will repeat them. Kinda same difference, just in other words.

[@Eden-is-Here]

"Everyone loves a little bit of Gay Christmas!" Yes! And the kindness in your voice when you respond to the quiet guy putting himself down, that was healing.

[@Isla_TwT]

I want The Click to make a movie about Mango and Emotional Support Demon fighting evil family influencers and saving the children and then they become a happy family :)

[@Bookwright]

I think it would work better as an animatet series. They could save a diffrent person form diffrent situations. 😊

[@tolotos95]

Cerb-Duck also has to join the fight once it's released!

[@durabelle]

​@@Bookwright Definitely a full series! They could be saving good people from cheaters, rescuing them from these toxic friend groups, supporting bullied kids at school, helping employees with mean bosses, and making stupid Karens meet their karma when they're bothering yet another undeserving person like they do. There's no lack of people needing some emotional support and a pet shark with toe beans in all the Reddit content Click gets through 😂

[@yba_xoxo]

sweedish coffee vs ghost mango

[@alicebthegachaweirdo8378]

Who will win?

[@Ctrl-Z-Renders]

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 OBVIOUSLY Swedish coffee.

[@anomalousanimates]

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 ghost mango without a doubt

[@TheKampfschaf]

Sounds like a fancy dish 😊

[@anomalousanimates]

@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 ghost mango without a doubt

[@4.1132]

I think a lot of people forget that you can talk to each other. My ex is a very shy and a bit grumpy person (in a cute way not an obnoxious way), basically he’s a big teddy bear. He‘s affectionate but physical intimacy is awkward for him, so we talked about it. He allowed me to push and tease him a little with the clear understanding that either one of us can communicate when to stop. The relationship didn’t work out but he’s still a good friend and he still let’s me tease him a little bit to coax him out of his shell. I hope he finds someone that can make him happy and get him out of his shell a bit more.

[@PeacefulAutistic]

I forget he’s not living in America sometimes. He has a very very weak Swedish accent. He sounds more and more American every time I hear him speaking English. Then he says “Swedish coffee” and “good evening”. While he posted this at around 9 AM my time, it was 5 pm for him. He knows these come out in the dinner period for Europeans.

[@darcieclements4880]

Oh even stranger as a swedish American, I've come to realize that the swedish accent actually has influenced the Midwest accent a bit. Especially in the area I grew up.

[@waffles3629]

I think his accent has softened over time, not like super duper dramatically or anything, but the longer he speaks English more and more often, the more subtle his accent seems to get.

[@kevinchong5424]

7:24 Cliccy low-key telling us to go touch grass

[@danielanoguera7093]

Low key? More like his next plushie is gonna be a patch of grass whit toebeans 😂

[@Curious_Inky_Toebean]

@@danielanoguera7093 Thx, you made me snort laughing while eating soup😂

[@waffles3629]

​@@Curious_Inky_Toebean how'd the soup smell? 🤣

[@shadowldrago]

⁠@@waffles3629Like soup, I expect.

[@discordiadingle3203]

It’s funny, but the advice is solid. I stop by Micheal’s here and there for art supplies, and I’ve made it a point to not be afraid to ask other customers their opinion on things I’m not knowledgeable on. I asked a lady about sponge brushes and she told me how she paints rocks. It’s definitely awkward at times, but it’s nice.

[@alicelookingforwonderland7951]

I really just wanna say thanks. I recently lost a friend to sui**** and it’s been rough especially when I’m home alone and being able to watch such a wholesome being as the click talking about how life can and will be okay eventuell really helps me get out of the circle of negativity that is my headspace currently. So thanks for beeing a wholesome bean. I hope you know how much you are appreciated

[@Mar_Selcouth]

( つ⁠ ⁠◕⁠‿⁠◕⁠ )⁠つ

[@bellajonson6765]

Oh wow that's awful, if you haven't already you should consider finding a grief counselor or support group. They really help you process everything. And just know that there's no wrong way to grieve, everyone processes that kind of loss differently. I know this is basically unsolicited advice but I've been through this before and it really helped me and maybe it can help you too ❤❤❤

[@ThatSoddingGamer]

With those 'friends', it would actually surprise me if there wasn't a whole cesspool of screw-overs (literally and figuratively) in that mess. People like that who can laugh about someone getting cheated on by another member of the group, well, there is probably a lot of nonsense going on between multiple members (other cheating, theft, badmouthing, and backstabbing). It's just that with such a dearth of decency with so many in the group, odds are against the OP being the only one who was oblivious to getting treated like shit. Wouldn't shock me if the whole group eventually implodes in a future scandal causing a round robin situation where everyone airs everyone else's dirty laundry in retaliation. EDIT: Yeah, @TheClick gets it. Whether it's months or years from now, they're going to self destruct as a group.

[@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339]

100% agree. Some friend groups are just borderline incestious for whatever reason. Basically a gatekeeping clique of rotating partners where everyone has been with everyone else at some point and who knows what else. Better to not touch any of that mess with a 10ft pole 🤮 I wouldn’t be surprised if that blew up massively at some point 🙃

[@MamaCat956]

2:15 And when a woman says no that means NO!!! You don't ask her another 20 more flipping times !!!

[@Radio_ink114]

2:10 is a better time stamp

[@chrisjags]

I used to do one of these things: "Oh, I'll try to find a permanent girlfriend ONCE I have a lot of money, ONCE I have a place of my own, ONCE I know exactly what I want from life." I kept putting it off and off because I couldn't meet my exact standards until... ...one day I realized I loved living by myself and I actually didn't want a perma-partner after all.

[@susannairisastarte5192]

Ace/Aro. Same 😊

[@WalkingNeonCarpet]

0:13 OH GREAT HEAVENS, not the mangost!!

[@murple0054]

oh so true

[@iseinsdumm5703]

As a German, I so love it when he talks in german, it is a bit unsettling but so hilarious because he says it absolutely correct but somehow in a weird way 😂

[@sarastepp2705]

Man, that woman who broke up with the dude for not sleeping with her is the type of woman that will cheat on you the first time you have to be away from them for some reason. Then they would have gaslighted them into believing it was their fault because they weren’t there to give it to them.

[@crowdemon_archives]

Some of these people quite literally think like beasts with no future sight of some form. Or maybe they just don't posses the ability to comprehend object permanence.

[@4wolvenpeople]

wait, 17:08 wasn't that literally why Debbie in the Wild Thornberrys was constantly grumpy, cos she was trapped with the most annoying family ever (a sister who believed she could talk to animals) and had no friends, her sister even got to go to school in the movie, while she was still stuck in the rv.

[@polydactylblackcat2218]

Okay, if you want to do the horizontal tango on DATE TWO, please for the love of god state that explicitly so us demis and aces can run far far away from you 😂

[@nicolassycamore]

to be fair no one-or very few, at least-actually plan for that to happen, in my experience. it usually happens suddenly, if at all. most don’t really look to do that, not just asexual ppl lol

[@kurokagator4567]

It's genuinely so hard to find a partner as an ace, I've tried dating apps to going out but it also doesn't really help how introverted I am. Why do people wanna do the horizontal mambo so bad it's like so unnecessary and weird to me

[@BananaWasTaken]

Shoutout to Dave in that one cheating story. He’s a bro.

[@MisterCake]

_"you smell absolutely Spooky"_ Someone working the Graveyard shift: why thank you ☺️

[@johnfaber100]

To that RV kid: Whenever a camera is in your face, say the most unairable things so they can't use that footage.

[@yeeyeeyeeye]

Even better, play Disney music very loudly every time they shove a camera in your face without your consent.

[@andree9519]

Or play modded nintendo games

[@kevinchong5424]

Cliccy being cursed and haunted? Yeah, checks out

[@celeste8360]

When I was applying for financial aid to go to college, being in the same location was essential. If RV parents don't want to mess up their kid's future they need to have a permanent address (could be a relative's house) and the teen should go to high school in person. I was disqualified from one scholarship because I changed elementary schools 😭

[@whosebuilderandmakerisgod]

37:00 I’ve never understood this. Introverted people who don’t constantly plan creative outings. It’s not a bad thing! The point of a relationship is spending time with someone. It shouldn’t matter where you are. If one person is more extroverted and prefers a more spontaneous partner, then they’re just simply incompatible

[@erinjohnson7329]

He'd be like "I'm gonna paint some more of this fantastic thing" and I'd be like "cool I'll go buy coffee for us, then do some painting and make a big mess and then read. Oh, have you done today's Wordle yet?"

[@erinjohnson7329]

Him: "and tomorrow, I'm going on a 3-hour hike in the morning" Me: "oh, ok... Ok, awesome, so the plan is, I have an Epic Lie-In while you do that, and you buy coffee & pastries on the way back after, k? x"

[@fuyuki1608]

25:44 so this is how i discover that i am actually lovable? because 80% of my friends are women and the people i get along the most are my female friends but i somehow always feel like i am unlovable, even if they straight up tell me "ur the first person i would date" ig it always feels nice to be reminded of it by such an amazing person like you are

[@user-dw4uj1cw4l]

Tbh I feel you. I've been betrayed so much I can't live without having someone tell me how much they appreciate me every day. Thank god I have a partner

[@jlessien3826]

3:54 my mother always told me that I should learn to love myself first ( in other words, accept myself for who I am) before loving someone else. And after 30 plus years of hurt, I finally understood her advice.

[@elizabethburns-gundel1052]

Regarding the RV family, if "the nomadic lifestyle is the best way to live," then why weren't they always doing it? Is it possible that their own parents gave them a stable childhood, and they possibly even went to college? Those parents probably say, "she's got food, clothes, and a roof over her head." Great! You're providing the bare necessities; now you go up the hierarchy of needs; that child needs to be socialized! It's a human *need*! I know there are *many* things that parents do that their grown children don't want to mimic, but sometimes it's like, just be a ducking stable-butt parent. Even a stable home with low levels of love but love available elsewhere is probably healthier than an unstable home with high levels of affection and no available affection elsewhere. I don't even know if I can call this situation "love;" it reeks of abuse. Also, regarding men crying: The first time my husband (6'2", then 33) cried in front of me was when our promised kittens died. It was a beautiful moment because he was showing vulnerability *and* showing that he actually cared about those tiny living beings that we now didn't have. It felt a little bit like having a miscarriage for us; we saw the kittens, held them before they were old enough to leave mama, prepared our home for them, and then we lost them. It hurt. He's allowed to cry for losing another living being.

[@scarlettrazor5374]

at 26 in, yes it's great to have approval from you woman friend but don't trust it blindly. I had a friend in highschool. She and I had been friends for about five years at that point. I had just broken up with my first love and she wanted to set me up with someone as a rebound. She spoke so highly of him and how she had known him for so long and was sweet and blah blah blah. He r**ed me, t**tured me, a**sed me... It turns out she had met him the same night I did. She said all the great stuff because she wanted to make me feel better and be the hero. She met him through her bf who also a**sed her (I didn't know at the time). Y'all be careful out there.

[@Deltatronik]

Holy ducking hell. I hope you recover and is doing much better now

[@bellajonson6765]

My friend in highschool set me up with a repeat child S/O and I felt sick when I found out about his history. That's awful I can't even imagine going through that. I hope you find healing. ❤❤

[@Knight_Of_The_Sand]

21:20 or around this. Now I grew up in an RV until I was like 12 with my two brothers and parents. But we had a reason for that. My dad had to move around for work and we didn't have the money for a house. My mom and dad brought a house and now we have our own rooms and such. I'm just saying. Not EVERY single RV family are doing it because they want to.

[@waffles3629]

I don't think he, or anyone sane, is blaming people who don't have a choice.

[@ElliLilith]

If you are a side piece you can't expect your partner to be faithful once they break up with their main partner. Because you accepted them sleeping with somebody else the whole time so there is no reason to expect that to change just because of one break up. I always found it funny. My aunt was a side chick for some dude (I never understood why because he gave me the ick) and then she got divorced and he got divorced and they married and she was surprised at how fast he found himself another sidechick.

[@KaoticWhisper]

I really love this corner of the internet -- weneed more wholesomeness in the world and this is where I find my dose

[@RuthBhmand]

Yes, exactly. The reason why we are here! ❤❤ It’s not the hope of German compliments or furry content☺️

[@db_524]

Same.

[@saralaudicina7913]

As an introvert, I promise you could even find an extrovert partner. I mean, I did. Don't ask me how 😅 but now we are this weird couple of an extremely introvert, language geek woman and a golden retriever kind of extrovert, nerdy programmer man. So I mean, everything is possible, isn't it?

[@Inachis]

Wait...are you me? 😝 I'm an introverted translator married to an extroverted programmer.

[@saralaudicina7913]

@@Inachis LOL I'm a language teacher BUT I have a Master's degree in Interpreting and Translation

[@jlessien3826]

11:11 Leave that "friend" group and stay friends with Dave.

[@kyleenheather9879]

Dave the only real one, and it's sad, but I'm glad at least one of em was real friend

[@goofy6942-fe9vw]

YEA LWABE EM AND MARRY DQBE INSTEAD!1!1!1

[@OctoLink-12]

Click, i just wanted to make sure that you know how many people you helped with this video and I really appreciated it. I’m learning some stuff about my self that I don’t want to go into, but I have really wanted to tell one of my friends about and everything you said about not being lesser for opening up really helped and I just wanted to make sure you know that and that you helped me and I’m sure many others with this video :)

[@nobodishere]

If it weren't for the click, me and my boyfriend wouldn't've found eachether, so thank you so much click for existing and being such a wholesome persob on the internet

[@FrenzyFranzl]

Finally the Click uploaded. Right when I seriously needed him due to my mental health declining Update: I just got out of depression like 2 months ago and now it's back

[@yba_xoxo]

hang in there, pat pat

[@FrenzyFranzl]

​@yba_xoxo thanks 😢

[@Crocogator]

just keep breathing, one step in front of the other, even if it's out of sheer spite

[@persooniemand8346]

So same. Best wishes to you internet person, hopefully it gets better for both of us

[@spook5948]

I’m at my low too, you got this We got this Nowhere to go but up even if it’s slowly so let’s watch the click on the way 🙏

[@Pa5an1]

Getting called mein kleiner Schmetterling by The Click wasn’t something I had on my bingo card 🤣 my brain is too slow, it confuses me when I’m in English mode and then suddenly someone starts speaking German unexpectedly 😅

[@kimmyb8276]

I would just like to say I am not perfect but my husband loves me anyways (and vice versa). There is a Dr Suess saying: "we are all a little weird and life's a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with the and fall in mutual weirdness and call it Love". We have this on our bedroom wall to remind ourselves it's okay to be weird and we love each other for our weirdness

[@DIRTkat_ofc]

As some people requested here's some stuff I noted for the click bingo card, which I plan on turning into a picture and then will probably post on the discord server - holding a plushie - blonde wig - "mwah" - smelling the viewer - "oh yes indeed" - mentioning Sweden - "back in uni" - the click academy - "checkmate" - "I could turn this into a DnD" More suggestions are appreciated

[@LegorocketsAnimation]

yeeting the plushie he was just holding

[@oceanhaze6701]

I don't speak German but I recognized one of the words, the last one in the intro was butterfly!

[@MiloschaSaddens]

Das ist korrekt ✅

[@hannajung7512]

He said: Yes, all my german people, this is a very cost efficient thing, yes, my little butterfly!

[@VampiraVonGhoulscout]

Can I just say that, as a woman, if a man cries in front of me then my respect for him will go through the roof. This is especially true in a romantic setting because it shows me that you are a safe person who is emotionally mature and can handle your feelings like a human and not a robotic "alpha" man child. I will love you even more for that and it brings out my inner caretaker because I'm a giver. Furthermore, I have my own trauma with emotionally unstable, unpredictable people throughout my life and I even had a long term partner who would SCREAM at me for crying. Something about seeing women crying made them very uncomfortable, especially if they caused the tears (which was often), so they would lash out or mock/invalidate me for it in a "how dare you make me feel bad for upsetting you" sort of way. So I know exactly what it feels like to feel like sharing your emotions in a relationship is unsafe.

[@Smolgibberish749]

Dave didn't know because he's a good person. The cheating was found out because Emma bragged, they likely all knew Dave was a kind enough person that he would tell the op the truth.

[@lolitzi47]

7:25 funny story this reminds me of. My dad decided to go out once not a special occasion just randomly. He befriended some random person when he was out and they talked for a bit. 1 week later the guy invited him to his birthday. He went and that's where he met my mam. Just one small thing is the reason I exist in a way

[@haveaballcrafting8686]

Long ago was lamenting to my supportive friend about a breakup, mused about how I prefer quiet geeky guys…realised who I was talking to. Married him four years later. Shout out for people with quiet, solitary, introverted hobbies, you are awesome and there are other people out there who will appreciate your talents.

[@andeeharry]

9:43 Similar to me. I was involved for 8 years until it broke down, admitted to cheating on me as we went our separate ways and then for 3 months, I had stories and reports from all my friends about her. They aired her dirty laundry and told me everything she been up to when we wasnt around and I must say, it was shocking. They didn't say anything as they didn't want to interfere with our relationship and they knew I wouldn't have believed it at the time. I must say, it did help connect a few things, but it is shocking to find out. Turns out she was ''well known'' around the neighbourhood and town so to speak. No wonder she was paranoid a lot of the times.

[@shawnstum5323]

The story about the guy who got dumped because he wouldnt sleep with the girl: what it really sounds like is this girl just wanted to cause drama to entertain herself. OP explains that she was drunk the first dates. If OP tried to sleep with her, I'd be willing to bet instead of the virgin line, the girl would have been spreading stories that OP took advantage of her while drunk, which is honestly such a worse claim than what he got. OP made all the right moves, and he is honestly just truly lucky to be away from her.

[@lampekartoffel]

27:52 Ha, if some rando I'd been on 2 dates with contacted my friends about me not sleeping with them - they'd probably all be like "yeah, no shit... She's Asexual"😂 (while I am one of the Aces with 0 libido I'm not sex repulsed and actually enjoy giving a partner pleasure - we just need to establish an emotional bond first. Otherwise all my alarm bells are ringing and I just wanna run away😅)

[@DryPaperHammerBro]

Demisexual!

[@imanadult7432]

I'm not ace but I think my friends would be appalled that the person went through my friends list to talk shit about someone they hardly know to other people they don't know at all 😂

[@Roadent1241]

People on the outside of my relationships have said some weird things. We're just friends. I'm stringing them along. I'm evil. I'm not a real girlfriend. He will somehow cheat on me despite me actively warning I won't do it with him and giving him permission to do the Allo stuff with other people. But I'm the bad one for denying it from me. That's like saying I shouldn't buy Greggs sausage rolls, I should make my own at home or some other silly analogy. I don't kiss and cuddle my platonic friends, so uhh...

[@lampekartoffel]

@@imanadult7432 Yeah, pretty sure that's how my friend group and I would also react if it happened to anyone else in the group 😂

[@lampekartoffel]

@@Roadent1241 Yeah... Allos can be super weird and unaccepting about unconventional types of romantic relationships... I hope you find/have found your happiness 💙

[@Trueedgelordhades]

Nice coffee cup, i have a similar one my mum made, it's nice to hold

[@VAnotes2]

1:44 As a woman, I can confirm that we are not real (I do not exist and this comment is a hallucination) Also, the pet bee must be named!

[@cryochick9044]

As a woman What's a woman?

[@VAnotes2]

@@cryochick9044 I am still not real and yes you are simply imagining that you are reading a response from me at the moment

[@waffles3629]

As someone who was told they are a woman, but is in fact not one, they definitely don't exist

[@koivunen2489]

On the "ball-less virgin" story: If she wanted to have sex with him so badly, why didn't *she* make a move? She's allowed to do that...

[@imperfectimp]

Yes, but she was obviously looking for a Manly Man Gigachad Alpha Male(tm)

[@koivunen2489]

@@imperfectimp but wouldn't a Manly Man Giga Chad also want to know when she's ...thirsty? He couldn't read her mind either.

[@imperfectimp]

@@koivunen2489 oh absolutely, she had some wild expectations that she didn't communicate at all then got upsetti spaghetti when it blew up in *her* face.

[@koivunen2489]

@@imperfectimp yeap, that's what's so baffling to me. Communication is key, no matter what

[@claudiamcfie1265]

3:02 how about learning to talk to women as people without necessarily looking to date, if you're not ready for dating?

[@autumnlee9965]

Hearing Click so passionately call out toxic friends was honestly healing. Thank you for being you, man.

[@LunaryxDiarmait]

German: the language that you can say the nicest possible thing in, yet still sound like you want to conquer everything.

[@sieglindedeutersbotter1251]

Blödsinn

[@milliesghosted]

I READ IT AS BLOODSIN- ​@@sieglindedeutersbotter1251

[@John_Weiss]

Only if you're screaming it instead of speaking it. What most people think is "speaking German" is either screaming, someone who desperately needs to use the toilet, or someone whose underwear is on too tight.

[@John_Weiss]

​@@sieglindedeutersbotter1251Genau!

[@SilvrRazorFeather]

32:10 I hope this guy realizes the trash really did take itself out in this case. He held his ground and the backlash was intense, yes, but it was absolutely the best thing he could've done. There are people out there who will listen and respect your boundaries, you don't ever need to settle for a disaster like that. I hope he knows how strong he was.

[@Hi-rw8vr]

During this video, I was wondering why Click isn’t a therapist, but then I remembered he makes demon plushies for a living. What could be cooler? Also who needs therapy when you have an emotional support demon

[@Ghost_Gaming_42069]

It's hilarious how Click speaking German instantly scares the living shit out of me like his pronunciation is so scarily good XD

[@Moon_x_sun]

I think it’s bc he has learned it in school :) probably from someone with good pronunciation bc it’s def not everyone who has good pronunciation even tho they’ve learned it in school haha

[@tealkerberus748]

@@Moon_x_sun I'm pretty sure he has German relatives - so he probably learned some of it from them.

[@MrKrazygamer13]

That friendgroup with Emma... if I were the guy who found out that my GF was sleeping around in my friendgroup, I would simply turn around, leave and block all of them, that's a friendship ended moment right there.

[@TeamQuigley]

In college I used to dream of doing that tiny home/van life thing. As a parent I dream of a house big enough to fit all my kids legos…. And maybe if I dream big we each get our own library dens to chill in on opposite sides of the house.