r/TrueOffMyChest Holiday Edition

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[@g00se00]

THE WAY HE ADMITS THAT HE ONLY GOT THE WINE BECAUSE HE DIDNT WANT TO COME EMPTY HANDED???? Girlie just throw him away

[@birdie7910]

Well tbh I feel like that’s the least problematic thing he did. 2 months of dating isn’t much for gifts and to me « didn’t want to come empty handed » sounds like he didn’t feel good about not buying her gifts which is fine lol. He’s obviously a weird ass person taking into account he’s 30 and a 21 year old is 5000x more mature and stable than him. I’m guessing that’s why he gets with younger women. He knows not a single woman his age would take him seriously. No one in their 20s would either but he’s probably mysogonistic and a creep. All those « red flags » on their own aren’t crazy, but together ?? Goddamn

[@DevlVergil]

Well at least he was honest, though that might be his only good trait.

[@ellec7188]

No gift comvined with that age gap screams side peice to me

[@Brownies008]

oh an he said CHEAP wine like she needs to throw the whole guy away

[@birdie7910]

Asking your 20 year old gf to pick you up for HER Christmas party when you’re in your 30s is actually crazy

[@Honeyin2013]

I swear the men that date much younger than them are often more immature than the girl. It’s so unattractive I don’t get it

[@Joe23590]

Why does everyone feel the need to overexaggerate the age difference? The situation is bad enough as it is without exaggerating.

[@rkive7040]

⁠@@Joe23590it’s not even exaggerating, it’s just THAT weird lmao

[@Damndang]

@@Joe23590it’s because that 30 year old is acting like a 13 year old boy

[@oscaroscuro]

@@rkive7040 but WHY is it weird? Who convinced you that it's weird? when is it ok? (if exceptions exist, then you cant pick and choose when it's weird)

[@nunyabiznes7446]

"He's also been drinking every evening this week to pre-game for his family's christmas party-" ok I apparently do NOT understand what pre-gaming is

[@han-sn8tu]

Right?!!? Its not pre-gaming if its 6+ hours before the event, not to mention multiple days?!?!

[@evecates2232]

"Dump the senior citizen." Love aisha

[@summerh1059]

"every woman wants to be able to mother, but you're doing it the wrong way. You're babysitting." Aisha just dropped the hardest slap in the face

[@nimics]

I had a bunch of friends in highschool who’d always talk about how shitty their bf’s were and when I introduced the option of leaving their bum asses it must’ve been like I was speaking some alien dialect cuz they ignored tf out of it and stayed miserable with their bf’s. Why are people like this?

[@cherryflavoredplaylist753]

No like actually, the straights are never okay

[@Erioletheonecanolie]

Comfort and complacency. They know its not a good relationship but to them its better than risking losing what good they do have for something worse, even though they would probably get better especially if you learn from the one you just left. In my experience at least, thats a good reason why

[@KNIGHTMARE__]

Ikr? I have low self esteem and zero confidence but even I know how myself and others should be treated. I think it’s really important to teach people that your partner should never be doing shitty things that upset you and then aren’t sympathetic or understanding when you’re upset by it.

[@sydneyvan9958]

"We accept the love we think we deserve" - the Perks of Being a Wallflower

[@suubisuubi]

I'd also like to mention: women and afab folk are widely conditioned from a young age to put up with bullshit from men. Of course feeling trapped in a toxic relationship is something that anyone can experience, but there are huge institutional factors at play that explain why so many women/afab folk stick around in "obviously" terrible relationships with men

[@g00se00]

These “confessions” of being disappointed about how the people they loved treated them during the holidays are so sad. Like, it’s one time a year and you can’t think of ANYTHING that someone you love would like??? Even if it’s not something they would like I mean it’s just something to show that you’re thinking of them.

[@jjhaya]

Yeah bro you could look literally up "top Christmas gift ideas" and choose from them . One that hurts the most is that girl who didn't get a gift from anyone in her family with the joke "must have been on the naughty list" as a hint that it's intentional; they probably hated her for a reason we didn't get to know but I think it's just a horrible action to do that, especially coming from your family in a day that should be about love . That kind of behavior is something to be expected in a toxic workplace Christmas party but should not occur in a family setting .

[@birdie7910]

Right ?? And money isn’t an excuse either because baking cookies or making candies and gifting them for Christmas is so meaningful. I’m usually HUGEE on gifts but this year I had 0 money lol. Instead, I made my family Christmas fudge and cute little cupcakes. Very simple, not expensive and they loved it ! Obviously it’s not something I would do every Christmas bc my baking skills are not good enough for that lol but it’s still something that made my parents and siblings feel important and baking is fun !! I don’t really understand how you could choose not to buy at least a tiny box of chocolate to say « hey it’s not much but I did go out and buy this thinking about you »

[@SputnikShootingStar]

The last story has great horror movie potential 😭

[@jjhaya]

And as suggested with the sequel happening in Easter. If spiced up more we could have a Midsommar-inspired flicks .

[@han-sn8tu]

A Christmas themed horror movie would be so good

[@keeplearning4L]

one of the things that makes aishas videos great is the jazz. immaculate

[@semperinumbra]

that ramped up pretty hard in the end, now I just want a longer video of progressively weirder holiday families compared to just the poor spouses at the start

[@madswurld]

i cant decide what’s worse….having an awful uncaring partner, or being the single person from the third story

[@toribees327]

THE LAST ONE?? Did she make it out alive

[@beautiful_flower]

i found the original story on reddit and there has been no update 😭😭😭😭😭

[@fatmaabdullah9706]

@@beautiful_flower nooo, when was it originally posted?

[@beautiful_flower]

@@fatmaabdullah9706 it was fairly recent, but she DID end up responding to a comment on the post a few days ago. she ended up breaking up with the guy i think.

[@nnoeyedgirl]

“i didn’t have time to buy christmas gifts” there’s this amazing thing called the internet and online shopping

[@stellart5664]

I think the reason people don't buy gifts super early in the year is because of trying to hide the gifts. idk other people's families but in mine, November and December are the "no going into areas pointlessly" months because we know gifts are being hidden or wrapped. Knocking on all doors, no sneaking into a room, maybe even waiting for a second after turning a door handle all in case a Christmas gift is being hidden. Hiding gifts earlier in the year is harder because these unspoken rules aren't in effect, not to mention forgetting where you hide them.

[@BrookeAndCoStudios]

It's also easiest to ensure they're not going to buy that thing for themselves sometime during the year. Once November rolls around, I can finally say "Dad you're not allowed to buy yourself anything til Christmas" because otherwise he'll just get it himself.

[@ZephaniahL]

if there’s anything else you’d like to get off your chest, we’ll be right here to support you.

[@LemonMoon]

Yeah I’ve got about 200 lbs can you help me lift it up

[@coolbutnotverycool1440]

you don't know her

[@ZephaniahL]

I mean in a "Diamonds Are Forever" opening sort of way. But thanks for sharing!@@coolbutnotverycool1440

[@gutlery]

​@@LemonMoonyep! YepN! Lifet it up!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Ico.z]

5:48 nah bro my heart ached hearing that, that man should have the privilege of being in a relationship absolutely demolished.

[@xfreja]

frrrr

[@P3tr1ch0r]

Nrly 2 months with no Aisha video im crying and screaming come back queen

[@FlaccidWeiner271]

I believed in Santa just a few years extra than I should've and I think religion had something to do with it. With God you're expected to have faith, but with Santa where was at least EVIDENCE. Once I realized Santa wasn't real, my religious beliefs collapsed like a house of cards.

[@poofeh]

thank god you felt the same way as me about the age gap for the first one

[@KNIGHTMARE__]

Aisha, I’m loving the video but the red screen with the text from Reddit is making me see red lines everywhere temporarily and I didn’t realize it was the video doing this to my vision and I thought this might have been the beginning of my losing my eyesight. Thanks for the scare and thank you even more for making great videos.

[@olivia4984]

omg i thought i was going crazy

[@Honeyin2013]

Girl… I thought it was some weird light coming from like a computer in front of her

[@vivian9134]

Wait same

[@abccba199034]

DUDE I WAS STRESSING OUT TYSM

[@naisargibuch2168]

WITHOUT THIS I WOULDN'T HAVE FIGURED IT OUT 😭😭😭😭 thank fuvkk

[@embrosiapng]

the point you made about how Christmas presents can be bought or given any time of the year is so true! my sister in law wasn't done with my present (handmade figure of ash from fantastic mr fox) but she still ended up gifting it to me, after Christmas. and honestly the wait was SO worth it!! it made it sm better knowing she worked hard on it, for me.

[@Elaronna]

it’s happened. she’s forgot about us 😢 ☹️😞 COME BACK AISHAAAA

[@maggie_e2]

Aisha is my new favourite video of yours, the commentary was so hilarious, we love it 🫶🫶

[@angel127_]

those brothers and their wives used her as a free babysitter …

[@Isabellamvic]

I could listen to aisha talk for hours I love her voice

[@cherryflavoredplaylist753]

I feel like yt people overall take very silly things seriously, one time I got yelled at by my yt friend’s aunt bc I didn’t want to ride one of those slingshot things at the amusement park 😭needless to say that just made me more afraid lol

[@nyxs_time_alone]

The last one is like a horror movie. But i do kinda want to see if they believe that the easter bunny is real

[@cupidfia]

aisha you look gorgeous as always! happy new year 🎉

[@number1whalesharkfan]

aisha’s voice is so calming

[@princey3001]

my favorite hobby is using aishas videos as a podcast while i do my schoolwork

[@Kate-pg9zl]

this was so sad :(( i hope all of these wives or girlfriends have the bext christmas next year :(((( (AND break up/ divorce their partners because omg)

[@larryluv2302]

That Saint Nick one Could be a meat canyon animation

[@gandalfthegray6895]

I can’t believe so many men won’t even do the bare minimum for their girlfriends and at least get them gift cards. My girl friends, even when they claim they don’t know what to get me, have always been gotten me a gift that was perfect for me in some way

[@tzatwar]

8:22 this one makes me so sad :[ poor lady. she clearly deserves better. also "they all came over" implies she was the host, too.

[@Datboikev1]

these videos be so relaxing, the vibe is unmatched.

[@jefft8597]

Air Fryers!! That's it!! The perfect gift, Christmas in June!!

[@cdmnumber3fan]

Aisha is the It Girl Gen Z YT

[@Kate-pg9zl]

im sorry but 21 year old dating a 30 year old AND KNOWING EACHOTHER FOR A YEAR HUHHHHH U WERE 19 THE YEAR BEFORE WHAT WHAT eewww

[@snehapradhan5591]

ok you've got to do more videos like these, it was so fun!! ❤

[@indigostar33]

NEW VIDEO DROPPED ALREADYYY?! MAN best christmas gift so far

[@abiss2951]

QUEEN POSTED HAPPY NEW YEAR

[@ce_982]

happy new year and a belated merry xmas aisha!

[@sunsbleeding]

Love this new video format!!

[@smont04]

I love how you have the phone as the mic still. I bought that exact same phone holding arm thing like 4 years ago to use my phone as a webcam

[@tyler46537]

PLEASE BRING BACK YOUR RANKING BARBIE CINEMATIC UNIVERSE VIDEO FROM 2020 I BEG 😭😭😭😭🙏

[@adisonking4115]

i was distracted by the sesame street stitch in the background. its beautiful.

[@fawnwhisker]

why was the last one so terrifying

[@Ama_tullah]

I hope she made it out alive that sounds like a Legitimate get out senerio 😳😭

[@hsfbhfsbfsb]

the toddler one is so sad

[@OniMane666]

my crimbas was aight. merry new year aisha 🎉🎉

[@drskelebone]

This is why I hate Christmas. ETA: I love the Storytime background music. I could get back into Christmas if we had more things like this.

[@wallfloher8933]

5:13 in brazil we also celebrate christmas eve even more than the day itself, and when it's midnight we get to open the presents. i believe other countries on latin america also celebrate christmas eve, just a fun fact :) happy new year aisha 🎉

[@sophiadefrance4704]

my polish friend and her family also celebrate on christmas eve :)

[@samballard3365]

All these stories are so goddamn gross, like, this is your girlfriend or sister and you can't put in even a LITTLE effort. Let alone that all these ladies are the ones who planned everything else for the holiday.

[@dwgauntlett]

I like you reading. You could do a reading rainbow kinda thing where you just read your favorite books to the camera as if kids were listening…

[@abbiecooper6652]

now i know i’m actually too obsessed with those reddit parkour stories because i’ve nearly all of these already 😅

[@fartmcqueen]

happy new years aisha! ^_^

[@genepozniak]

I'm only about 7 minutes into this and I hate ALL of these people already.

[@wafflefries1758]

im loving the English teacher Christmas jazz music in the background :D

[@ohhhhdear]

6:14 relatable that when you get worked up and you have to go into a ball on your feet in your chair

[@Bunni985]

My mom loves these videos girl!!

[@sophiehauk7376]

I find some of these story’s so crazy because my dads love language is gift giving so on Christmas he always is so guilty saying “i didnt get u that much….” And then on Christmas he got us like most of our list

[@archangel819]

11:05 he had 364 days to get her a Christmas gift.

[@iremmkaraman]

so random i know but I LOVE YOUR VOICE AISHA RAE

[@brotherjoll1802]

the sanpoku is crazyyy

[@pufferfishcosmos]

santa is real wdym

[@EdenLoooo]

I watch these videos like a podcast

[@aceyfan]

I spent Christmas alone. For some reason I just don't have the empathy working passion, to be concerned about people not getting a gift. Being with your loved ones is way more important.

[@HatCake]

christmas alone, havent had a family gathering in like 15 years

[@audeedawow2529]

this made me so sad

[@almighty1984]

It's on Christmas Eve in Sweden too and adults don't expect any presents

[@roarbertbearatheon8565]

As it should be

[@lizthislove]

why she always post like 10 vids in a month and immediately after dissappear from the face of the planet for like a year COME BACK IM BORED

[@gigicoub2935]

in mexico (and i think many other latin american countries) we also celebrate during chirsmas eve!

[@everthingworld1437]

Seniour citezens is crazy

[@Makurai]

I wonder if for the last story with santa claus, that the family are actually calling on some ancient entity and are secret part of a cult where in exchange for sacrifices they get the exact gifts they want.

[@Avaavacake]

You and wes10 remind me of suki and sokka (season 3 of avatar the last air bender)

[@mikachiXD]

Celebrating Christmas on christmas eve is also a filipino thing XD

[@kianablankenship4095]

these are actually infuriating i can’t 😔

[@officialtoofknbusy]

I (32m) just found out I'm a senior citizen. Merry Christmas!!

[@luvelyalice]

my christmas was spent downing 1000g of Ikea ginger thins

[@CodOfAges]

Santa Claus is real tho???????????

[@g0rc752]

the thing with celebrating Christmas on the midnight of is a Filipino thing too

[@fakename4683]

As a man nearing his 40’s and is help planning a baby shower with my wife for her sister, don’t expect much from older men. If there is anything he has taught me is that age isn’t tied to wisdom.

[@justinegerhazi6829]

Ok I didn’t get my mom a gift because I couldn’t find anything and she thanked me because we both know it’s better I get her something that means something. She was genuine btw.

[@mei_0109]

UGH THE FIRST STORY WAS UNBEARABLE

[@jefft8597]

Santa Claus isn't real??!!!!! Whaaaaaaat!!?? NOOOooooooo! Well who ate ALL the cookies then!!!????

[@Reectjthegamekid]

Okay guys ima VENT so im in highschool and my NOW EX BOYFRIEND is too but he moved away okok. So we had been together for like 9 months and things were going okay but he was like LYING all the time and leaving for weeks so things were getting bad. So to fix this I was like "Hey for a while I have been planning this Christmas thing for us you should come" and all month this was good right? I would see him on the 26th right? Well he reschedules it to the 27th, then ALL DAY on the 27th GHOSTS me and I was talking to his best friends brother to find out HE WAS AT THEIR HOUSE ALL DAY??? So I was a little pissed. Anyways I brought up the fact he kissed his best friend and he went ape shit and when I tried to leave him he said "nah lets fix this" and when I tried to he was like "IM BLOCKING U YOU KEEP TRYING TO FIX THIS"..... Okay....WHATEVER THO bc boys dont matter and im the best boy in the entire world umm...???? So yeah my Christmas was silly, At least im FREEEEE!!!

[@bened22]

If the guys are genuinely terrible - dump them. If they are only terrible around gift making and celebrations - tell them that this shit is important to you (since it's clearly not important to them). We all value things differently and maybe they don't really care about those things specifically and are annoyed by your fixation on it. If this doesn't change their behaviour - dump them.

[@minelleo04]

i also open my christmas gifts on christmas eve because it's a filipino thing ykyk and ik ur filipino so maybeeeee thats where you get it?

[@zosiazosiazosiazosia]

5:16 polish people too!

[@NidiotZ]

i know a lot of Hispanics also celebrate on Xmas eve.

[@heu-reaka3658]

a 21 year old is by definition not a teenager. like I get where that's coming from but I think this is an important detail

[@finnduncan9760]

Aw man Im bummed to see more and more of my fave KZbinrs making “reaction” content. 😔 I dont blame them, I know it garners tons of views, and theres certainly an audience for this kind of content. Regardless, Aisha’s take on this trend is still leagues ahead of most KZbinrs, seeing as she’s actually charismatic and contributes her thoughts and opinions.

[@Reectjthegamekid]

OKAY OKAY so basically Santa is a real person, He was at least. If you are catholic like me, You believe in saints. Saint Nick is a real saint who would leave money in the hanging socks of families of the poor. So he is real but yeah

[@kevingonzalez-james6421]

W vid as always.

[@OlliepiH4]

aisha come back!!

[@HoTrEtArDeDcHiXx]

Vaguely related 🇩🇪

[@harambe3363]

the gift to my girl is my presence now make me a steak

[@harambe3363]

i joking loooool

[@jadab1782]

Lol

[@andrew2272kag]

The 20F & 30M posts, always so predictable. Please don't call 30 a senior citizen though 😢

[@Makurai]

Not tryna sound like a pick me or nothing, but as a guy a lot of these stories were pretty messed up. The only one I could see coming back from would be the opening presents without the mom, they can work through that, but the others were just not being the most basic level of thoughtful. I mean not even a book, or something useful. I admit I'm not the best gift giver but it really isn't that hard to just get a gift when you've been seeing someone.

[@QuintonZwane-rh3fv]

AISHA IS SSSOOO CUTE LIKE SERIOUSLY ADORABLE 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊