racist bridezilla finds out what karma is - REACTION

[@stargrl523]

I like how the bride’s parents were actually appalled and reprimanded her. As a parent, you want to protect and support your child but you must also make sure you correct them when they are clearly in the wrong.

[@robinbond7878]

Absolutely!

[@lelu810]

Unfortunately such parents are rare, I've mostly seen people who bend over backwards for their child to be happy no matter what age.

[@missnaomi613]

My 3 kids are all in their 20s and I completely agree!

[@GeneGL2814]

That was my favorite part

[@dainty_af]

If I were her parents I'd be mortified & questioning where we failed.

[@catdoganddramaqueen8487]

I went to a wedding where all 5 bridesmaids had the same dress but each wore their favourite colour. The bouquets had flowers of all those colours. The photos looked spectacular.

[@girliegdd46]

My wedding was simple, I let my bridesmaids pick whatever style they wanted and just bought them all in the same color.

[@emimagination]

This is such a cute idea

[@katie6731]

​@@girliegdd46 I did the same, almost twenty-two years ago. I told my bridal party the color and brand I wanted them to get, since colors with the same name vary widely across manufacturers. I chose the brand because the prices were reasonable, I liked their version of the color, and some of the "dresses" were actually separate tops and skirts. It seemed to give the most options for my ladies to find something that they liked. One of my bridesmaids and my MOH ended up picking the same style. They asked if that was okay with me. I checked with each of them privately to make sure that they felt comfortable with matching. I honestly didn't care. They both looked beautiful. More importantly, they both _felt_ beautiful. If I had it to do over, I'd give my bridal party a couple of colors to avoid and offer wide guidelines on the formality of their attire. I also wouldn't give in to MIL's demand that SIL be one of my bridesmaids. SIL was sullen the whole day and frowned in every _single_ picture. She kept pouting until her parents took her and left early. It was great! I didn't have to deal with her brattiness or worry that MIL would throw a huge, embarrassing tantrum. Also, by leaving early, SIL missed several sets of group photos. 😁

[@girliegdd46]

@@katie6731 my wedding was pretty laid back. It was a small backyard wedding. The groomsmen wore whatever nice looking clothes they had, even though i offered to buy them shirts. Hubby said no, they can do whatever. I'm not picky. It was a wonderful day.

[@katie6731]

@@girliegdd46 That sounds like a really great time. A lot of people seem to be more interested in a wedding than a marriage.

[@auntiemame7076]

The fact that the bride’s parents were also appalled and offered to pay for half is also satisfying.

[@annairama5775]

That freaking dress was an actual blessing in disguise, it allowed the groom the chance to see the bride for who she really is: a racist.

[@colette2034]

THAT! And that the bride took NO accountability at any point. Hopefully they have ended their friendships with the bridezilla, the husband, and ANY other friends who are on the bride's side in this. Shout outs to the poster's husband for standing by HIS WIFE and seeing how not okay the whole situation is.

[@onlygodcanjudgeme3949]

Exactly. And now everyone else can see it also. Amen to that.

[@Chanelfairclough]

Yes everything for a reason

[@jgw5491]

@@colette2034 Why ostracize the groom , too? He was almost screwed over himself by that witch. He certainly wasn't on the bride's side. 💔

[@i-yell-a-lot4906]

I'M STILL CONFUSED BY WHY THE SAME DRESS COLOR WOULD LOOK DIFFERENT JUST BECAUSE OF SKIN TONE.

[@mina-ashido751]

I love the fact that the groom is proud to say that his adoptive parents are his real family

[@chandramiller5119]

That bride was actually worried about that woman looking better than her at her wedding period which is why she didn't want you there at all rather than just in the bridal party. You are probably pretty and your skin is gorgeous. You would stand out in the best way possible

[@monharris28]

agree, probably jealous of her and her glorious boobs--haters gonna hate, that melanin be popping!

[@debracoronado3331]

Exactly

[@BlueAlien2]

8:51 I think so, too. She was not afraid to embarrass you.

[@jewels964]

As an adoptee that is the single rudest thing she could say . Wtf u mean " real family " ...she talking about two ppl who had a kid and tossed them aside!!!! The real family is the one who raised you kissed ur skinned knees . Wiped your tears . Cleaned up after u got sick in the middle of the night. Nurtured and cared for you and saw u thro all the hard times. That is a real family. I'm so proud of groom for standing up to her! ❤️

[@CatsSmore]

I was adopted by a homophobic and racist family.. I’m black and I’m bisexual, my best friend and his family took me 2 years ago. I’m currently home for the summer. In the 2 years I’ve been here I’ve been happier than the 6 years with my adopted family. And I’ve never been happier.❤

[@BrianAndresScott]

Absolutely correct 🫂 ❤

[@BrianAndresScott]

I'll never understand hating someone for people they choose to love, or their choosen religion's beliefs, hate like that will destroy you sooner than later

[@jacklow9611]

Family is not all blood relation.

[@monkeybusiness673]

Precisely! I have two people YOUNGER than me that I consider family, in any and all meanings of the word. That is FUBAR!

[@mariafox9226]

That bride is the epitome of, “I’m not racist, I have black friends.”

[@LoveSponge007]

At least if she had black friends, she would have listened to the warning. Instead of assuming she knew better about how darker skin shades work ..

[@TheKhaliente]

She HAD a black friend, lol

[@emilyi771]

Black friends she mistreats.

[@powerpuff_avenger]

Those people probably have a black friend on FB, whom they met up once to make a photo as "proof" and then just send them a "happy birthday" on their timeline once a year.

[@motherofdragons3481]

I’m sorry, I think this bride is just a narcissist and not a racist. This is a woman who wants a picture perfect wedding and not a wedding surrounded by beloved family and friends. This is a woman who would also kick out blonde women if she wanted a picture perfect wedding with no blondes, just dark haired women. This is a woman who is 100% focused on herself only and darn everyone else. She is the epitome of being a narcissist.

[@ta1920]

Just a comment about adoption, my Dad was adopted and I have had people say when I mention my grandparents 'yes, but not your real grandparents" to which I reply "yes they are" and they say but your Dad was adopted to which I get upset and say "that doesn't matter they raised my Dad they are his parents even if they didn't give birth to him. So completely understand the grooms position and glad he called the wedding off, you don't want people like that in your life.

[@devinammerman8397]

I don’t understand why people fixate on blood being superior. Like who has always been there for you and support you are family 100%. Anyone can have sex and get someone pregnant. But the people who sacrifice time, resources and energy. Who are always there for you, that is family

[@arielcorelis8526]

I was adopted and I hate it when people ask this. It's incredibly ignorant honestly and so disrespectful to my wonderful parents. My real family are the people who chose to be a part of my life; to support, guide, teach, nurture and love me. Real doesn't mean biological, it means the people who made a genuine commitment to raise you and love you through all the journey. Blood doesn't make you a parent, the bond does

[@InsaneLaughter01]

Birthing doesn’t make someone a parent, it’s PARENTING that makes them a parent.

[@kittkatt1962]

My Mom and Dad took me home from the hospital the day after I was born. My Adoption was final 8 months later. They had a very large family and I was raised as if I was just like the other kids. Except they bragged on how lucky they were to have me! I was very lucky to have them! ❤❤❤❤

[@TWLogik]

Bcse of my gf lvg my gm some of my father's siblings were adopted. And my Aunt would call her adopted mother Mom but also my gm. It never bothered me. And, I knew who she was referring too.

[@HighAsHeckPriestess]

Im grateful for all the replies where they corrected OP and said "yeah bridezilla is racist". In fact, this is a perfect example of why "not seeing color" is a problem. The bride didnt even consider OP when picking colors.

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

No kidding! And kicking her out!?!? 😮

[@Bayloy]

So it's OK for op to refer to the cousins skin color as printer paper? Racism goes both ways.

[@sadiemeyers6758]

Not only is she racist, but she is also CRAZY.

[@blizz2795]

Seriously, you can't tell me that there wasn't a grey shade a little darker that would've blended with her morning grey and looked grey on op's darker skin . But c'mon who dreams of and chooses morning grey for their spring wedding color? Reminds me of the movie The Wedding Planner when J-Lo says that Frannie chose teal as her bridesmaid dress color, the color of...Gangrene. 🤣🤣 Also, I find it hard to believe that the bride showed no signs of her racism over the years. Did she hide it that well, or was no one paying attention?

[@mushios]

I don't think this is a good example of, "Not seeing color." Most people don't really see color. I can tell you that as a white woman I burn in the sun like a rasin and that a black person wouldn't burn as much as me. Our hair texture is different but our skin color has nothing to do with the contents of who we are people. So I agree the bride was a freaken idiot and racist because clearly she saw color. She chose the "grey" dress on purpose. She knew what was going to happen and who it would effect. I guess you could argue everyone sees color here but I disagree because clearly the grooms parents didn't give a shit if they were adopting a little white baby. They didn't see color. If someone was really a good friend they would have taken the MOH's advice to heart. And also no one normal chooses grey for their brides maids dresses. 😂😂😂 Reason I say this is because I grew up with a mixed best friend. We shared eachothers experiences, how we care for ourselves because it was different but beyond that we could care less ❤❤❤ We still could care less. Most people don't see color~ not because were stupid but for different reasons than what you've implied

[@kellsbellls]

When she said "she kicked me out bc of my skin color BUT she's not racist" i thought to myself, "wow this bridezilla is also a gaslighter" how do you get from being MOH to fully uninvited bc your skin!?! And she still tried to say she wasn't racist. So happy this wedding didn't work out!

[@StrangeFacinations]

I think there is some jealousy about her figure too.

[@M_SC]

I’m convinced it’s the bride or brides mother/sister/cousin writing it not the black friend. Pretending to be the black friend

[@Domorrigana]

@@M_SC Um did you actually watch the whole video? (rhetorical question since you clearly didn't 😅)

[@rachellara9067]

​@@M_SChuh? what are you talking about?

[@mzjayde]

​@lotstodo THIS! Didn't she say that the bridesmaids dress and MOH dress similar to the brides? I bet she looked sooo much better in the dress than the bride

[@benitocuevas5159]

What in the KZbin algorithm led my here? I'm not sure what I just listened to but it was definitely worth it, especially the update. Entertaining delivery and your vocal emotes are funny. Brava.

[@Tryp-j9d]

YT KNOWS you’re racist. And you’d enjoy this!

[@Amateur.Nail.Art.1]

Such a refreshing fact that the groom stood by the OP and the bride’s parents. So many times that the family overlooks these ridiculous behaviors that is like a breath of fresh air when others don’t let the AHs in these situations get away with these appalling behaviors. So happy the groom dodged that minefield he was about to walk into.

[@bfwebster]

"We have an update!" Always the best thing to hear. 👍❤️🤣

[@Sheila-t2d]

Updates are always wonderful.

[@ugojlachapelle]

​@@Sheila-t2dEspecially when they are SOOOOO satisfying as this one was.

[@widowgirl1254]

Same

[@middletech]

Updates are great!

[@froopster3425]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love it. As a black person who was MOH for a white friend, she made sure my dress suited my colour, I was delighted. She then asked the bridesmaids to choose a dress similar to mine in a different shade that suits them!!! Everyone was happy as she gave the thumbs up for each. ❤

[@daphnereal3129]

The scariest part imo is that she surely met her fiancé's adoptive parents, who are black, many times. What was going through her head when they were together? Was she always plotting to squeeze them out and get the "correct" white parents in their circle? This isn't a momentary bridezilla "the dresses aren't right!" moment. She revealed a very ugly side of her and showed that she doesn't respect or like her fiancé's parents, at the very least.

[@CharlesH-t9r]

I figured she was being an intentionally difficult bitch to his black friend about the dress colors because she really didn't want any black people in her wedding photos

[@jgw5491]

She was definitely on a secret mission. She reminds me of a bridezilla from a bit back who wanted to exclude her fiance's young daughter from their wedding. She wanted her niece to be the solo flower girl (he suggested that they both do it.) It came out that she had a vision of their married life where he became a "holiday father" who only saw his girl on holidays and that his beloved daughter would fade from their lives. Another Oscar worthy performance by a bridezilla! She acted as sweet as pie to his daughter until the mask slipped. Cancel, cancel, cancel!

[@2young2stress]

Totally Agree with you

[@marshawargo7238]

She probably had plans, to alienate him from his "black family" & gradually pull in the bio fam, after the wedding😮! The dress color was a cover for getting rid of OP. JMO but, The separate pictures would have probably been, there was "an accident at the photographers" that happened to all of the pictures of his real family ONLY😢!!! "So sorry babes, these things happen😢. Well at least your real parents pictures came out good😢! ⬅️That's the beginning of her shoving a wedge between him and his parents, slowly sliding the word real in & using the word adopted often, whereas he probably rarely ever had😢! Then she just conveniently forgets to invite them to events but never forgets his "real white family" 🤫!!! 🚨😠My plans been foiled by that menacing OP🚩😠!!! Meanwhile 😎👍🥂🍾🥂😊

[@queenbee23225]

THE SCREAMT I SCRUMPT WHEN THE BRIDE SAID THE ADOPTED PARENTS WEREN’T “REAL FAMILY”

[@Mythicalbeast_KatieWilson]

Riiiiight!?!? Same here! 😮

[@chantaljohnson6856]

😂😂😂

[@dvs7392]

I scrumpt so loud lol. Scrumpted?

[@Emeraldwitch30]

I hate people like this. My hubby has been my daughters dad since we got together when she was 1 1/2. She even looks like him and his family, lol. Blonde and ice blue eyes. To have people come up and ask stupid things like does he ever treat his real son better or stuff like that drives me bonkers. He out and our has never-not once-treated them different just because he isn't the biodad. Hell I think he spoiled her more. All the grandkiddos look like him and his family too. Cracks me up.

[@MommaB509]

Right?! As an adoptive mom, when someone says real family I look around and pull on my clothes like "am I not real??"

[@aspidistraeliator]

My bestie is black, she was my MOH and i was hers. We both "stood out" at each others weddings because we each dressed the other to look gorgeous, as it shoud happen.

[@willettecorley2508]

I lost it when Bridezilla made the comment about the groom's adoptive parents. That groom dodged an entire arsenal of cannon balls!

[@JaakJacobus]

The groom's adoptive parents were the biggest plot twist. How did she get so far? Her kids wouldn't be allowed to visit their paternal grandparents then?

[@grumpyold-man8302]

Shit he dodged nukes

[@JoseFigueroa-iz2on]

He dodged Rapture, Ragnarok, the apocalypse, and a plethora of arsenals is more like it.

[@edmondkeyah5479]

Bro!!! He dodged a missile not a normal one but an ICBM Ballistic missile 😂😂😂

[@CarbideSix]

@@grumpyold-man8302RIGHT!? 😂

[@natasapap7936]

A bullet? The groom dodged a radioactive waste.

[@sriv2167]

Right??? Goodness he dodged a damn nuke.

[@rojier-thinkb4142]

You for sure got that right!!!!

[@tniaa77]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Heathcoatman]

Yep, buyer beware. When you notice your bride is more concerned about her princess fantasy than hers and your best friend, she's not as interesting in being married to you than she is in having her dream wedding. Until you say I do it's not too late to save yourself. When you see serious red flags, dont ignore them. If she'll kick her MOH to the curb over petty things, she'll do the same to you eventually.

[@Theimaginationofamillennial]

The way *GASPED* when she said his adopted family was not his real family and his bio family will be the only ones in the wedding pictures. HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED!!! (In Charlotte's voice)😂😂😂😂

[@ayceinquisitor190]

That first story shows off the power of gray tones in color theory. How grays change hue in relation to other colors around it because of how our eyes work. Very cool stuff, but probably unfun for that wedding party

[@trinitybernhardt9944]

Is the dress blue and black or white and gold... a question that nearly tore our society down

[@globalwarmhugs7741]

Heh. So true​@@trinitybernhardt9944

[@globalwarmhugs7741]

It also speaks to race theory. And to the fact that the bride was insanely insecure. So many lessons here, for sure.

[@SUGAs_Shadow85]

​@@trinitybernhardt9944 the fact that it was 2 separate pictures sent out and no one even thought to check both with their friend

[@mythe6669]

I won't judge whether it was racism or an honest mistake on the bride's part (at least at the beginning) but surely it would have been possible to pick a darker grey or dye the dress a darker grey to prevent it from looking white on the MoH. It would have been totally fine for her to have a different dress / colour and also the right shade of darker grey could have probably mirrored the hue of the Morning grey of the other dresses for her skin tone.

[@allisonfisher9304]

Charlotte, I happen to actually have turkeys, and they free range my property during the day, following me around like feather puppies. I’m often outside watering my gardens, and my favorite thing to listen to while I putter is your videos. The best part though, is my tom turkey will pop off gobbling whenever he hears you make that noise 😂😂 One of the little joys in life 💖

[@daphnereal3129]

We need video of this please 🥺

[@CharlotteDobre]

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE LIVING MY DREAM

[@2nd_second_amb]

Poor guy probably thinks its a mating call. Charlotte cat fishing "cat calling" that tom turkey😆

[@amyjobernoski1024]

Charlotte is literally the only other human I've heard make that noise just because. I do it all the time. Why? Idk, just do. It makes me laugh and feel happy, lol. Maybe because it irritates some, ahahaha!!! Lol

[@aliciamae14]

Feather puppies!!! 😂❤ so cute

[@Aeryn4John]

I love updates and this was the best! The groom sounds like a great guy who deserves so much more!

[@MADEbySOUL]

THE GASP that came out of my mouth when I heard the bride’s response about the groom’s parents. I am so glad the groom believed what he heard and did not make excuses for her. I am even more happy that the bride’s parents didn’t make any excuses or attempt to minimize this situation. They held themselves with dignity when their daughter didn’t. Truly shows even when a member of a family goes down, the rest of the tree can be strong.

[@kerrychabot]

The LITERAL jaw drop when the bride referred to the groom’s biological parents as his “real parents”. I blurted “oh HELL NO!” Startling my poor Husband 😂😅

[@dcarter455]

EXACTLY!!!!! This bride was giving me big Millie 💩pie eater vibes from the Help… 🤢

[@IceEdits-love]

So ur gay?

[@Peaceful_Zen_Life]

I’m straight and that sets off my gaydar too!

[@jeanluccouture9088]

Ok..... My jaw DROPPED TOO. I had kinda glimpsed this comment as it popped up under the video but thought it was gonna be regarding a 2nd or 3rd video..... But the way i gagged when it finally arrived, and the context that it was in..... I mean: imagine your wedding being cancelled, and YOU as the bride being banned from the reception. That takes a special kinda of person to achieve that wpic fail.

[@kerrychabot]

@@IceEdits-love what does that have to do with anything in my comment?

[@dwaynewright9981]

The bride almost made it to the finish line before she showed her true self. She just couldn’t help it 😂

[@Tryp-j9d]

Um….that’s a STARTING line!!

[@trinitybernhardt9944]

It is so gratifying that not one person stood by the ex-bride. That is rare in these stories. I wish every person in that story, except her, complete happiness in the future. I do hope she does a lot of work on herself and becomes a better person, but until then I am just glad she is stuck on the outside looking in. It gives you hope the world is actually becoming better, even if there is a battle from people like her to drag us backward.

[@queenreg7]

That IS rare. Kudos to the family standing up against racism and foolishness.

[@Itselizabethr]

That bridezilla just let her sad, sad racism ruin her marriage, her friendship with OP's husband, her relationship with her ex-fiance's parents, her parents' image of her, and her reputation on both her social circle and here with us strangers. Keep being racist :)

[@globalwarmhugs7741]

Best it came out before the wedding, I say. What an insult to MOH, BM, and his family. In a cheeky way, I hope he marries a strong black woman and has beautiful babies for her to be insanely jealous about. Yes, IATA, happily so.

[@Mewse1203]

Thank you. I'm not even past the "she refused to treat us differently and z I'm already like, "It absolutely was racism."

[@ElleDavi]

I don't think she's rçist, I think she's just dumb 😂 I mean, I've been asked if my twins are identical or fraternal... they're a boy and a girl... 🙄 there are a lot of dumb people out there.

[@amberfrost3653]

​@@globalwarmhugs7741I second this!

[@squirrelgirl1853]

Idk I'm not seeing the racism... They were bff's for years before the wedding, the MOH said herself that the bride isn't racist.... Just another delusional, bitchy, difficult woman/ bride... At least imo...

[@gregf4416]

It cannot be overstated how beautiful and perfect karma really is. The less you have to be involved in it when it happens, the sweeter it is.

[@toecutterjones]

Morning grey bride will probably become a sad beige mom.

[@daphnereal3129]

If she ever finds someone who likes her...

[@toecutterjones]

@user-ff5zm7ic4v I own my home. Keep getting mad about beige though, seems like a great way to spend your time.

[@Nekogal21]

​@user-ff5zm7ic4v the thing is the kids that grow up with these beige mums will be developmentally behind their peers. Bright fun colours are not only good for easy identification but they keep kids entertained and engaged for significant periods of time. When exposed to no colour this gets impacted and can make for a perfect ground for behaviour issues to start especially when going into a nursery or school environment with bright colours because they will all of a sudden be far too overwhelmed to cope with the bright colours on posters etc resulting on temper tantrums and the like. Talk to any child phycologist is you believe that putting a kid in a full bland environment is OK and won't negatively affect them and they will tell you it's not right

[@blizz2795]

@user-ff5zm7ic4v What? Who are you even talking about?

[@MariaEduarda-ln2ep]

​@user-ff5zm7ic4vI can't believe people rlly get butthurt and offended in behalf of beige palletes 😂😂😂 dude bffr

[@froonamission1013]

My jaw is all the way on the floor😮 Good for the groom, for getting rid of her. He would have been in for a lifetime of misery. Good thing the whole debacle with the dress exposed who she was before he got trapped in a marriage with her 🎉

[@samanthasowell9307]

Before he had kids with her!

[@Kat-queenofnerds]

can you imagine that simmering racism slowly emerging at every family dinner after? 'not his fault he was raised by those people.' holy cow

[@davismcdonald6186]

That man in the wedding story didn't dodge a bullet or a cannon ball...he dodged a damn tactical nuke

[@lizzykayOT7]

Bride was unhinged. I'm from the Caribbean, so we have like a nice spectrum here. People who freak out about skin colour is peak comedy. Charlotte's hair is looking so full these days, I'm envious.

[@X3nophiliac]

your saying ppl in the carribean arent colorist/racist?? visiting there with my black friends was very jarring with how "better" 😬 i was treated

[@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6]

One love ❤️ 🔥🔥

[@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6]

@@X3nophiliac considering the Caribbean is very big …..what area did you visit ??? I’m Jamaican American and I’ve visited at least two countries and have been treated like royalty . How many times did you visit ? This is very silly to say if you don’t have evidence to back that up .

[@Scarlett.Granger]

"She'll stand out, crazy, like my girl are you telling everyone to dye their hair blond because darker would "stand out" or what is this insanity??

[@emmerzk93]

The peak satisfaction that not only the parents were appalled at her behavior, the groom abandoned ship the second she admitted that his adoptive parents weren't his real family. No way, sir, you deserve so much better and I hope he finds the one he deserves ❤

[@katienorwood1258]

5:19 i slowed playback down to read the screen and that Southern accent at 0.5x had me ROLLING😂😂

[@erinmalone2669]

I find it despicable that brides wouldrather have, essentially, pretty, perfect manaquins over friends who have different hair, body types or skin color.

[@yatshie8717]

Yeah right? It's so weird

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Seriously tho! My friend's not racist but, screamed at me because my skin color has ruined her wedding.....

[@carolfield2760]

Anybody that does that is not a friend.

[@MidniteSpectre]

​@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066that's so mean tho, her wedding pictures are more important than her acceptance of you.

[@NoudlePipW]

Not TOO pretty and perfect though, because then they're bitches for upstaging you as well

[@trixie1636]

I can’t even tell you the amount of excitement that courses through my body when you say “we have an update”. Even when you said “I don’t want to excite you.” …. I knew 😃

[@nisaba5752]

I love how these two match eachother in intelligence! And they're _mutually_ complimentary in their differing personalities. They're just endlessly interesting and fun to watch. Jay: I LOVE your editing their videos❤the opening was a banger! 🤌mwah! chef's kiss!

[@rococcoschicchi5594]

Honestly the husband of the bridesmaid is the real deal. What a wonderful and supportive partner ❤

[@cplcabs]

about as real as the story....which is faker than a chinese rolex

[@cplcabs]

@@anamantics no, I just like facts, why do you have a problem with that?

[@sallyyexley9627]

He's an husband not a partner, the word partner, I wouldn't allow myself to be called that

[@raecheldeaton]

I love what your judge Charlotte noise has devolved into 😂😂

[@sv.22211]

Omg me too! The turkey gobble gets me every time 😂

[@yahainHotPink]

Same. It's perfect😂😂😂😂

[@dinasilva9263]

At this point i just come here to see Charlotte making different accents and noises 😂♥️

[@CharlotteDobre]

🦃🦃🦃

[@dvs7392]

Insert aggressive turkey noises here 🖤

[@karlagonzalvez4703]

I loveeee the "i wish you well.... in hell" Every time i hear it i think of Cardi Bi and her cackling as she said this quote 😂😂❤❤

[@JBR939]

This story heals something within me. There have been countless of bridezilla stories on this channel where the family is also very delusional. To see that there are still healthy minded people out there makes me happy.

[@billabong8427]

I'm adopted (I'm black and my daughter is mixed) and at my cousin's wedding, my daughter and I weren't allowed in the wedding photos. I need to do a story for Charlotte to read, because this cousin married the high priestess of Bridezillas. My cousin made the biggest mistake marrying this woman!!

[@leelandluver]

😮 Oh my goodness how awful!

[@sharons7949]

Yikes! He should have run while he could. Now she has her Zilla-claws in him. Are you and your daughter going to have popcorn as you watch their lives implode?

[@M_SC]

Why didn’t he get it annulled when he found out she was racist? I would

[@dominamortis1111]

Yes, I need this tea in my feed. Please share it with her/us!! Do you have more stories about the "high priestess of Bridezillas" after the wedding? Has she ever been smacked off of her pedestal?

[@lovesstorms]

Bring the tea!

[@danielcarter305]

How did the groom have an entire relationship right up until marriage with black adoptive parents and never noticed any red flags?

[@junecleaver8868]

The bride intended this all along because she is racist, knows it, but doesn’t want to spoil her image. So she came up with this plan to make it look like the whole thing was her black friend’s fault and for her to receive sympathy at how could her friend try to ruin her wedding. However, the bride seemed to not realize that nobody is that stupid. This will backfire on her. I can’t believe the other bridesmaids would stay in the wedding party. They all should quit.

[@Mewse1203]

100% First, othering someone due to their differences is racism but so is not respecting their differences. Second, I'm with you. She never wanted OP as her bridesmaid because she's black and knew it would look bad. She's OK to be friends with OP but *gasp* not in her wedding pictures.

[@Bambi-xg3kr]

Yeah right. She's soooooo racist, she's been besties for such a long time. Behave.

[@ralfvandeven3155]

@@Mewse1203 Might be because I'm a man, but who cares about the "perfect" wedding picture, it is a memory of a day celebrated with your loved ones and can never be better as the marriage itself.

[@Mewse1203]

@@ralfvandeven3155 I'm a man, too, lol. I get why people want it "perfect." It's supposed to be a day to transition you into a new life. It's a party all about you and your love. And it's supposed to be a high note to kick you into higher notes. I got married at a clerks office with a piece of paper so 🤷

[@ralfvandeven3155]

@@Mewse1203 my point is the wedding should be about all that, the wedding picture is just a memento. Watching this channel you hear about a lot of friendships and marriages being screwed up for the sake of the "perfect" picture.

[@TocaTowana]

Saw this first story on tiktok and i agree the bride should've just listen to the MOH because different skin tones and undertones really to make color show up differently on skin. So i listened to the whole thing. 😳I have to admit i didn't expect the bride to be actually racist omg but at least she got what she deserved. We love a happy ending 🎉🎊 😆

[@Mewse1203]

To me, it was clear what was happening. Racism comes in many forms, one of which is refusing to respect that someone is different than you. So the bride wanting to "treat her just like everyone else" even after she was told it would be an issue just screamed red flags. Then when she started talking about how the bride insisted on a super light color of Grey even when OP tried to tell her? To me, it was obvious she never wanted OP in her wedding party snd she was looking for some nonsense reason to kick her out. This isn't to say you're dumb or I'm smart or anything. I'm surprised I caught it so quick😂

[@SingingSealRiana]

​@@Mewse1203yeah, treating someone different as in shifting balame onto them for how colors and hair worl plqin differently that ignorancw and unwillingness to acommodate is a lezs agressiv type of racism then the thinking they are subhuman type but it is still racism, it still ends up with discrimination for something another is boen as and cant change

[@Domorrigana]

It was all one story. That's how crazy the story is.

[@HotaruHikai]

@@Mewse1203 how is it racism to misunderstand that colors are going to look different on different skin colors? also I'm confused how is wanting to treat someone the same as everyone else racism? isn't that what everyone wants? to be treated the same? and not based on their skin color? and don't misunderstand me I'm not defending the racist ex-bride in anyway that B is delulu. I just fail to understand your logic.

[@Mewse1203]

@@HotaruHikai She didn't "misunderstand that colors would look different." She *deliberately* attempted to single her out because of her race in order to kick her out of the party she didn't want her to be in. More than that, not respecting someone's inherent differences is just as racist as othering them for those differences.

[@claudiasofia4256]

I'm so Happy I found your KZbin account. Totally love to hear and watch you 🎉😂

[@brainfreeze1925]

One of my groomsmen was very dark skinned, another olive, and my brother and I are very light skinned. The (film) photographer had a heck of a time correctly exposing the wedding photos because of the skin colour variations. Oh well. Friendships are more important than perfect photos.

[@blizz2795]

100% THIS! Your relationships are much more important than one day.

[@boogermaiden]

True

[@kimmyB9203]

My MOH (I only had her stand up with me) was very dark skinned and I am very pale. I didn't care what the pictures looked like. She's my best friend and I love her like a sister.

[@M_SC]

That’s why you pay a real Photographer, amateurs can do that kind of thing

[@tanyatran9948]

We had so many different skin colors in our wedding party that the photographer called us a meeting of the United Nations. The day was beautiful and so were the pictures

[@Hashbrownpasta]

Thank god that bride showed her true colors and the fiancé and MOH can live the rest of their lives in peace without that mess dragging them down.

[@clairepettie]

I wish the wedding had continued a little longer, because when else will you have the opportunity to shout "I object!" in real life without being the bad guy?

[@gailhodges7353]

I loved the ending! There is no room in this world for racism. The sooner people stop describing people by the color of their skin the better. People are people. Everyone bleeds the same. I'm glad she got what was coming to her.

[@gracestayner2033]

The fact that she said “Real Family” pissed me off so much

[@CharlotteDobre]

IKR

[@dustinriley8059]

I get people have certain circumstances that cause them to give up kids for adoption, but I don't see how they can ever be considered family after that. After they get their life together enough and want to come back into your life years down the line I see that as acceptable, but really just as friends, not as parents.

[@HotaruHikai]

@@dustinriley8059 as someone who was raised by a single mother, and is estranged from her father, I can safely say that having my father "act" like a parent would be equivalent to one of my friends parents attempting to scold me and would most likely get a reply of "your not my dad."

[@dustinriley8059]

@@HotaruHikai I mean, you probably should show some respect to your friend's parents if you're in their house and doing something they don't like.

[@HotaruHikai]

@@dustinriley8059 never said I was in their house.

[@claracatlady9844]

Just imagine being that brides parents. I would be so incredibly mortified if my kid did that because not only did is my kid a racist but now people will think that *I* am too and raised them to be that way.

[@AyameFyuu]

Legit I would also be mortified. I be dragging my kid out and apologize wondering where I went wrong man. Good on the parents for making right the situation as sometimes it can just happen.

[@Sleepghost681]

I love how she talks to the camera like we’re sitting in the room

[@katherineplendl4364]

Dude, racist + bridezilla is just too much delulu at once.... no wonder my man was ranting, GOT SAVED FROM LIVING WITH THAT AT THE LAST SECOND!

[@Bruintjebeer6]

True colors will reveal themselves sooner or later. I'm happy for the groom that she showed her true self just before the wedding.

[@okwhateverhaha]

I hope that she dyes the dress a beautiful color that really shows off her gorgeous complexion and she takes tons of pictures!

[@marissathomas9327]

As a black woman, married to a white man and our biracial 4 babies .. this whole story had my emotions all over the place . I went from okayyy, to angry , to more angry , to happy , to ecstatic lol that father taking her home , did something to me . 😂

[@ungarischfsikurs743]

I'm white, but I experienced the same rollercoaster of emotions :D

[@jeannette28]

Rollercoaster!! 😂

[@michelleportch6227]

As the vampire white person and Casper is envious, this bride is delooloo. Some of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen have had the darkest skin and she probably rocked that dove grey and the bride was just pissed. I’m actually surprised as dove grey is the worst colour for pale white girls because we end up looking like corpses.

[@stadot1427]

My wedding party looked like a bag of skittles. Especially when you add in all their families!

[@Just1Nora]

In my head he yelled at her, crossed his arms, then pointed to the parking lot, raised his voice again and said, "Now march Missy!"

[@angb1923]

The groom canceling gave me chills! That was such a great story.

[@Ray-dy4uv]

2:44 oh wowie, colour theory caused some drama :")

[@chrissyduncanson7461]

Haha

[@DaisukeMiyamoto-e5g]

It's the blue & black/white & gold dress debate all over again!

[@spenceair1972]

I go through this a lot doing shirts. Especially when people request white and light gray on a black shirt.

[@Domorrigana]

It all came out in the end. This girl never wanted black people included in her wedding, not a single soul. She knew way ahead that the dress wouldn't work and THAT WAS THE PLAN!!!

[@maggieb4736]

Yes. Folks with their dress solutions---it was never about the dress!

[@kathybrem880]

Or bride was just very dumb!

[@Domorrigana]

@@kathybrem880 Oh she's definitely dumb but it was a calculated move -- she completely uninvited her from the wedding, ignoring all possible solutions. She did not want her there from the get.

[@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049]

Usually I wouldn't agre. But being kicked out of the wedding is definitely evidence for what you said. It's crazy!!! I'm black, not dark and have gone through similar stuff but I usually chalk it up to people being ignorant. This scenario is crazy though

[@kyliedee6079]

My thoughts exactly but she doesn't want to be called racist so she made an excuse thru the dress. Total BS. It's one thing to remove OP as MOH but to be uninvited altogether??! Hell no that bish is racist

[@madsquishy3410]

In my experience with weddings, the bride could wear a potato sack and still not be upstaged! Brides that are truly happy and in love just have a certain GLOW about them. Almost like when a women is pregnant. No one else at the wedding is going to come close to glowing like that and honestly it makes any woman look so gorgeous and spectacular. I wish more brides would just worry about the fact that they're having such a special day, instead of focusing on all of the small and truthfully insignificant details. Marrying the love of your life is all the "aesthetic" any woman ever needs. No one can upstage that!!!

[@davesloggett6884]

He didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged a missile

[@SLP828]

Um, my Matron of Honor was my SIL and black. Our wedding was diverse but the wedding party was small and was not diverse. Yes, she stood out AND LOOKED BEAUTIFUL TYVM SIS! We've been true sisters for 15 years now ❤

[@ruthenns7333]

I'm White. I have found that having Black friends, is, enlightening in so many ways. Since we have moved, we haven't been in touch with our Black community, and I'm disappointed.

[@ericanorton71]

The first one reminded me of my ballet teacher telling me when I was getting ready to advance to toe shoes, "You should just stop lessons now. The outfits aren't made for people your shade. You'll never get anywhere in ballet." She broke my little heart. She and the other students were always mean to me, and I knew why at that moment. The eye roll I gave at the "she's not racist" remark..... Yeah, okay......

[@maggieb4736]

😢 Omg, to do this to a little girl, no less...I'm so sorry. Lots more I could say but you know...so just...hugs.

[@ericanorton71]

@@maggieb4736 thanks. I'm good though. I switched to karate and got a black belt. Then a green belt in aikido. I'm much better suited for martial arts and they loved me there. I was treated like the most special person and appreciated! 💖💖💖

[@maggieb4736]

@@ericanorton71 , I'm so glad to hear it. Best wishes! 😊

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

That is so messed up and sad, I'm sorry

[@Domorrigana]

"The first one" It was all one story 😅

[@Epaminondas20]

This deservers a Disney princess movie, it has all the perfect plot twists and a very happy ending!!

[@beckylang91]

As a wedding planner, this is one of the hundreds of reasons why we recommend that every couple hires a full-service planner- we hear everything and therefore can steer the bride or groom in another direction if they’re being delulu

[@fttftt6325]

Honest question. If you had this bride as a client, what would you have done? Would you have told the groom about the bride not wanting his black parents in the photos? You wouldn't have tried to gloss over it for the sake of peace? I think its actually better they didn't have a planner as the truth may likely not have come out and he would now be married to that awful racist.

[@senacht]

It’s also the unrealistic expectations surrounding modern weddings, which are often encouraged and abetted by wedding planners, that contributes to fueling the bridezilla phenomenon. I worked for an event and catering business, and over the years I saw every type of wedding and reception known to mankind. And many times it was the wedding planner who was the enabler.

[@beckylang91]

@@fttftt6325 I was primarily referring to the dress situation, as I likely would know about that aspect of it. I would have strongly recommended to the bride that she consider her friendship with this person and also consider that the dress would look whiter on her than her other friends, that I highly recommend her letting this friend get a slightly different color

[@beckylang91]

@@senacht a good wedding planner steers the bride in the direction of her priorities while keeping her on track with her finances (helping her not to go over budget), and helping her stay grounded

[@glittergirljmm]

@@beckylang91 the Bride understood the whole time. The word of the day boys and girls, is microaggression.

[@InksplatOops]

I heard the color as Mourning Gray and thought “for a wedding?!” Still always amazed at how weird people can get about weddings. Accidentally putting the maid of honor in a white appearing dress would have made such a great funny story to tell people later.

[@M_SC]

People take everything so over seriously. They make everything unfun

[@TianaBarker]

I think black people look so good in warm colours. Especially red

[@Tryp-j9d]

WRONG thread, Honey! We’re talking GRAY here!!!!

[@eva.valo.00]

The amount of catharsis I felt, by the end of that update... We need more karma-in-real-time stories like this. They truly warm the heart and soul. Who else wants another update, in a month or so, about how the ex-bride is doing, dealing with all those consequences of her actions? 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@hawkeyescoffee6399]

I'll put $1 on her faking a pregnancy to try and get the ex-fiance back.

[@fenixsoul3102]

People need to understand that racism nowadays is becoming more and more subtle and covert. Not saying that you need to look for it everywhere. But OP clearly gave her all the info she needed to make an informed decision, and threw a fit when she didnt get her way, then tried to flip the fault onto OP. I feel like OP didnt want to use the word racist to describe her because whenever some people here a black person call someone else racist, they dont take it seriously or think, "not this again".

[@dance2wiithkniive278]

“Racism nowadays is becoming more and more subtle and covert.“ As someone who was reading (what I thought were) silly theories about reptile people for LITERAL YEARS before finding out what that was code for (and as someone of Jewish descent, I hate how much of my time I gave them)… as well as the whole thing about people believing aliens built stuff in non-white areas because no one (white) would have thought to build “like that”??? Anyway, yes. I very much agree with you, and I’m not saying it’s everywhere but it sure is where you least expect it when you aren’t looking. Stay safe everyone, and remember to hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

[@mandymonster]

I just learned about this in my sociology class! For anyone else interested, Eduardo Bonilla-Silva explains it very well

[@Kenzirs]

Happy someone pointed this out. Having lived in a predominantly black country most of my life, then moving to a predominantly white country, the contrast is very striking. The way people treat you, the way they look at you, the way they talk to you, etc. For a while I legit thought I was overthinking things. But nah, it's there. Very subtle, but it's there. I almost envy people who don't notice that sort of thing.

[@HotaruHikai]

I think OP honestly thought the bride wasn't racist, because why would a racist person want to marry someone who has a family and BFF of a different skin tone? ex-bride is delulu if she thought she wasn't going to have to see them all the time during holidays or parties.

[@TheErikaShow]

THANK YOU for saying this. So many of us go through this. We KNOW when we encounter racism. How could we not? But the gaslighting we go through if we talk about it is just *exhausting*. As I have gotten older, I am more likely call out racism in the moment. The act of protecting white people’s feelings while swallowing the stress and negativity ALONE has been very unhealthy for me…and has even manifested in my physical health. Now I am seeing a therapist, and I am learning a lot about the stress I have carried since childhood. So…yeah….I’m talking about it, and if you try to gaslight me, I will call that out,too. I see it happening around me, too, and it is very healing. This is one of things I really like about 2024.❤️ The truth shall set you free✊🏾

[@marshallposey7842]

Bravo to the groom for standing up for what is right.

[@abhisek6198]

Dm me. U r handsome

[@froodychick]

"We have an update" is now one of my favorite phrases!

[@JusLetMeB275]

Charlotte, I appreciate your attitude and reasoning on these kinds of topics. Many ppl like to pretend racism doesn't exist (kinda like OP at the beginning of the story) to protect themselves for feeling uncomfortable. You are definitely an Ally for spot lighting racism when it happens

[@HeidiSue60]

So. Yes, this is five months ago but I found you just today because I was in the mood for AITA stories and I gotta say, you’ve had me laughing all morning. I’m simply binging while working a half shift. Such fun!

[@YourLoyalHighness87]

0:01 dude!!!! I literally just refreshed my page abd at the same time said “charlotttteeeee” out loud, then the first video that came up was this one!!! ❤ love you Charlotte!

[@dorothytenute2710]

"We have an update" Those four words are music to my potato ears

[@celestiaforbes7111]

Not me sitting here, having read the first story and updates, waiting for Charlotte to get to the updates. I'm also going "oh honey, you've seen nothing yet."

[@SaveAnimals_GoVegan]

"I wish you well... in hell" took me out. Charlotte's hilarious! 🤣

[@staceyjones4927]

I do love that Charlotte has just committed to the turkey gobble and just doesn't even try to say "you may be seated"

[@TonyHavenMusic]

6:00 so she was completely controlling about every detail yet somehow didn’t bother with a fitting 🥲

[@jenneryy]

I can’t remember the last time a KZbin video had my mouth hanging open in shock, but the reveal of the bride’s response to the groom’s parents was just INSANE. Holy shiznit.

[@samanthapattison7286]

1 racist + 1 wedding = 0 groom + 0 bride + 0 friends + 1 awesome party. BEST MATHS EVER!!! ❤

[@PersonalNotBusinessreally]

Thank you sm for making that Reddit thread because people in there are WAYYYYYYY more helpful and understanding then others in other sub groups

[@ChronicLB]

I am also a 34H/I and that is very hard size to fit/find. I've been bridesmaid 2xs for both of my sisters and had to have the top modified. So, my guess is that she Def would have had several fittings to make sure it fit properly up top. The Bride had nothing to say at any of the fittings??! Or pictures of the fittings in the chance she wasn't there for the fittings? This has to be much more than just the color of the dress. Smh That is just awful. But it seemed pretty clear it was not a dress issue.

[@MidniteSpectre]

Does it hurt your back?

[@A_Rose_From_Concrete]

I never knew H was a cup size until this video

[@ChronicLB]

@@MidniteSpectre oh absolutely it does!!

[@ChronicLB]

@@A_Rose_From_Concrete It would be equivalent to a 34 DDDDD and it is not an easy size to find at all. Or to find clothes that fit!

[@JuriAmari]

I also am an H cup and I had no idea the band size could go that small! (I’m a 38)

[@mitchcooper5132]

THE SCREAM I MADE AT 5AM WHEN SHE SAID THE GROOM CALLED IT OFF.

[@biscuitsmum3451]

This was excellent & you know how much we LOVE an update. This was brilliant!!

[@badkitty4922]

That Groom dodged a howitzer!😂😂😂

[@Loveladylove]

My beautiful Black sisters, do not beg do not contort, and definitely do not lower who you are to appease people who don’t like you anyways🙏🏾👑. We must honor our ancestors, by walking away from people who use race in order to justify their hate against us.

[@M_SC]

Well said. And let us non horrible while people know because we won’t be friends with them either

[@marseanmoore1066]

Be true to yourself. This is not surprising, people are you they are.

[@Jess-hf9me]

Totally agree

[@LauraSchendel-ko1qk]

“eeew-brotha-eeew” has me dying! I also love her “side-eye, side-eye!” 😂 Oh! And my favorite is “My flabbers are gasted!” LOL!

[@mamabancroll]

The best news ever was knowing that the wedding was called off. Love that for this story

[@RDW503]

I always thought that the maid of honor was SUPPOSED to stand out... different from the bridesmaids but obviously not the bride.

[@Shetooktothewoods]

Shockingly, if you’re not racist, when your Black MOH stands next to you in your white dress and the bridesmaids in grey dresses, it will be clear that she is not wearing a white dress. That’s the thing about visual contrasts, just like pastel grey looks whiter against dark skin, it will look darker against the copy paper white wedding dress. And in a line of identical dresses, they all look alike and skin tones get exaggerated, though that might just make the vampire aesthetic bridesmaid look actually dead.😅

[@not_you_i_dont_even_know_you]

I'm so glad to hear that everyone in the situation did the right thing. So often these stories end with everyone enabling the bad behavior. Hearing the brides parents disavow her nonsense and be willing to pay reminds me there are still some good people in the world

[@vcutler4735]

Mourning grey dress is the mvp of this encounter. Outed a TRULY terrible person and basically dove in to save the groom from being legally attached to a very gross person. I have to imagine the party in place of the wedding was wild.

[@garyrobinson1568]

This might be the best podcast l've viewed this year! Your storytelling and sound bites were hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣

[@Itselizabethr]

I love how these come out during my lunch break :)

[@SaraBellaAbby]

Same

[@ClakyNotReversed]

For me is right when I come from university, so I can get comfy watching Charlotte after a super hot day and tiring day ❤

[@jaeplae]

Right👏

[@bnadira212]

Same! 😂

[@t_writer17]

Me too!

[@Sleipnirseight]

First bride perfectly demonstrated why "i DoNt SeE cOLoR" is a form of diet raci'sm 🙃

[@alicewolfess971]

It's the same bride, there is just one story of the same bride

[@HotaruHikai]

its not "diet" anything she is full on racist, and she most definitely see's color. don't misunderstand true color blindness for racism.

[@colette2034]

I am SO glad I'm not the only one who hears some wiiiild tea and responds with something like "YUMM" 🤣 Though admittedly, I usually end up muttering, "Yum yum, eat em up" and/or "Good eats hot treats". Great video as always Charlotte

[@gilded_lady]

Second story: I love a happy ending. Also, props to the bride's parents for still offering to pay half. Who knows what wrong, but it does seem like it isn't the ex-in laws.