It WASN'T Supposed To Go This Way (Sharing Something Personal)

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Hi! We are Heather, Bradey, Alexa and Chloe.
We are raising our kids to face their fears, to step outside of their comfort zones and to try new things. Family travel is the best way we know how to do this.
We want to inspire others to travel with an open mind and to see that it is completely possible to travel and fly with kids! Traveling is one of the best things we have ever done to strengthen our family, and to open up our minds about how big this world is.
Thanks for following along!
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[@Mel.H_]

Always remember your home is your family. Each other and the girls. Wherever you are you are home because you are together. If you need a break take a break but don't beat yourself up for not having a base. I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. Lots of love and hugs!! ❤❤❤

[@ldhpc]

I started following you about a year ago when I saw your channel come up after watching Flying the Nest. I’m sorry about your hard few weeks. As glamorous as traveling is, we all want a home base, so I get that. Add to that losing you grandmother and not being able to go back and say goodbye must have been extremely difficult. Thank you both for being real, transparent and vulnerable with your viewers. I believe it will get better from here for you after taking this risk. Hang in there! Your girls are getting an education few children get. I look forward to seeing where this adventure takes you next!

[@AudriannaB-World-Peace]

I am so sorry both your Grandma’s crossed over, but just know that they are now with other family members that have also crossed over to the other side and are in a beautiful place where they can do whatever they wish to do. Remember, there is no such thing as death. It is only hard on the survivors that mourn their physical presence in their lives. They are with us in spirit and you will receive messages from them when you are ready to receive them.🌟

[@ElementaryExplorers]

Your comment about not knowing what place feels like home really resonates with us. After being fulltime on the road for over 3 years, much like you guys, we often struggle with the balance of travel and needing to feel grounded. I think it’s a common wave in the emotional roller coaster of a traveling family. 😊 Praying for you all as you continue to journey! 💕

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you so much! It’s so good to know we are not the only ones who feel this way, especially full time travel with kids definitely adds an extra level of adventure and emotions in the mix!

[@jessicayoung4261]

I'm sorry for your loss of both your grandmothers. I'm half German and haven't been able to visit my German family in over 3 years because of the pandemic and one of my biggest worries is that I won't get to see my grandparents again before they pass. They are getting into their 80s now and I've spent the last year doing German lessons daily so I can surprise them when I get to see them again since they never learned English as they were nearly 60 when my parents got married. We've only ever had conversations with my mom or aunt or cousins translating.

[@cathymaitland345]

Boy you guys are amazing. I admire you both so much. Fate takes a hand and yes we always have a choice but the choice you make is your Fate. ..be brave you will all be ok. The life you are giving your children is something people dream of but never get to do it. Stick with it it will work out. xxxx

[@bobhale8325]

My wife and I love how you share your adventures, even the lows.

[@lieuwina]

I'm sorry for your loss of both your grandmothers, Heather. Home is where you make it, no matter where you are. It is hard to adjust I know I have been there.

[@sharonthacker8907]

Hope you are all well now losing someone you love is tough no matter your circumstances! Choices can be changed and visits rearranged, life is short and full of fun and terrors but keep keeping on! Condolences on your losses! 😢

[@SewFrancine6120]

Hang on Momma, you’ve been doing you and I imagine both your grandmothers understood for the most part and were probably very proud of your family and the successes your sharing with us all. ❣️☮️❣️💟❣️✝️❣️

[@bethlef5168]

Thank you for letting me join your journey. You are a incredible family!!

[@annabelv.2400]

You are an amazing family. Thank you so much for taking us along with you so far and for your honnesty. It is just so human to have lows... Realizing the perfect life wasn't where you had it planned, and also losing dear ones, not being able to be with the rest of your family.... who would go through all that and more unscathed? You are perfectly allowed to feel wrong and to voice it, kudos to you and big hugs of comfort from afar.

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you for your kind words! We appreciate that so much!

[@annabelv.2400]

@@RaisingVoyagers But let me say that from what perspires through your vlogs , I am sure that it' s just a matter of time for you to figure it out. because you will realise what a strong family and individuals part of it you are/have raised to be, but still, knowing that what matters is to be a team together. because you have learned despite yoirselves to become adaptive and open minded. because you need time to grieve your planned perspectives that will not happen and loved ones, like any human soul needs, because you are kind human souls because you have the ability to rebound within the love of each other and all the experiences you have gone through and that makes you stronger then you know

[@lynnecollins3284]

Hugs, I was traveling when my grandmother died(I was very close to her). Sometimes going'home' to grieve will help the process. It wasn't until I visited my grandmother's grave 20 years later (it was in another country) that my grieving process came to acceptance. I was able to move on. Never too forget her tho, but pain and missing her became easier. Be kind to yourself, do what you feel and needed to do. Love to you all.

[@mrscb5303]

I’m brand new around here, found you from Flying the Nest. One of the things that keeps me interested in a channel is if I feel like I’m really seeing your lives. Never feel bad explaining the bad times, while the travels are amazing, I’ll bet most people stick with a channel because they feel connected to the family. I’m so sorry that your plans were changed and for your recent losses. It’s so hard when a dream isn’t what you hoped. I think in years to come you will look back fondly on the dream, but right now you should allow yourselves to grieve. I’ll be waiting to see what is next, but please always take care of your mental health and your hearts 💚. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@vickigulley9479]

Thank you for sharing. It's easy for us to watch from the comfort of our homes and dream about the kind of adventures you have taken us on with you. But if I were honest... I love getting back home after a week of vacation! And then I get bored again in a week. I'm proud of you for having an open mind about Bali and being able to stop and logically consider that there might be a better option. Looking forward to tagging along on more voyages with you. Get together, stand in a circle, and give squeeze each other tight - That hug is from all of us.

[@MelbourneFlyer]

Stay strong guys! You will make it all work. You are doing such a great job raising your girls, and I'm sure you will find the perfect home base!

[@brendaswann7292]

My sweet darlings. If ever there where a definition for life, it is this post. At 70 years of living … never be shaken by what a new dawn present’s to you. Be the calmest in the room and plant your feet and heart close to those that have your back as that is what will be your survival and your future. You are as strong as your love is for each other. Bless you, love you, envy you ….🇨🇦🙏🏼👏🏽🙏🏼🇨🇦

[@tigerlast4384]

You are an amazing family, please be strong 💪🏖🥇🏆, YOU DID a fantastic job from TURKIYE 🇹🇷

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you so much! We really appreciate that!

[@emburnham953]

Thank you for being open and authentic! No one expects you to always have a smile on your face that's not realistic! You will find a place you call home! 💜💜💜

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you ❤️

[@StephandPete]

Sending love! And have no doubt y’all will figure it out. (sounds like you already have!) ♥️

[@nightwing4065]

Stay strong and much love! 👍❤💯

[@jonellesandel1066]

It sounds like you already have a home, where your extended family are. Maybe that is home base as you continue traveling, perhaps build in trips “home” to reconnect. ❤️

[@vittinthecity]

Love your music choices throughout your videos

[@lindadensham6453]

There is somewhere else you're meant to be. Relax, clear your mind and take your time and do what your heart tells you is right. Everything happens for a reason.

[@argasatrio4526]

it's okay guys bali and your dream doesn't go anywhere.... just go back home and stay with your families 🤠🤠 and back again to bali or anywhere else your gut telling you. be safe and stay positive. you're family is beautiful!!

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thanks so much! We appreciate the support! We do get some time with family soon!

[@limitlesscoker6669]

I used to have a similar life as you guys. I never had a home to say. Pretty much the world was mine. Now I feel trapped in a house. Worst feeling ever. You need to realize how lucky you are and what you really have. The world used to be my playground and I so enjoyed it. Would do anything to get it back. Have the best day ever love what you’re doing.

[@ginafranciosi3252]

You got this 👍 trust it WILL work out . I found your family through Flying the Nest and have been watching a few months now. I'm going to subscribe. Thanks for sharing . I can relate to the hair 💯. So sorry about your Grandma's ❤️

[@sandrabutcher1961]

New to your channel thanks to Flying the Nest, you guys are human and have feelings do what you want to do, go where you want to go, if that's home to see family go spend some quality time with them

[@beknic8872]

My heart breaks for you Heather, and I send you the most heartfelt condolences on the passing of your grandmother. Unfortunately these are the pitfalls of travelling that we forget about. And believe me I know first hand of what you are going through but please don’t be sad about Bali. Home is where ever you and the family make it 💜

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Yes! Thank you so much I appreciate the support and encouragement!

[@margaritasun7908]

Everyone of us , undergoes on that point oneway or another , irregardless if you are traveller , works regular hours or so. We need space and we should for healthier mental state & growth . Lets be kind to ourself. And the zest of everything comesback after.

[@joditrupiano8893]

LOVE WATCHING YOU GUYS!!!!! KEEP YOUR HEADS UP

[@mirandabako7551]

You are great family

[@foodblogjunky]

I can understand where you are coming from. Bali is a beautiful country I have been lucky enough to travel there 17 times over 35 years. I always feel it’s my special place but I too don’t think I could ever live there permanently.

[@nicollettesingleton444]

It is so hard being away from family. We live far from all of our family, and we love to travel so I can understand how hard it is. I do however hope that one day we can start full time traveling.

[@RaisingVoyagers]

It really is. Even if full time travel doesn’t last forever for us without a home base we don’t regret it and we have learned so much from the last year!!

[@meloneybarnett419]

Welcome home guys love the trip around oz in your eyes my home is Western Australia i remember the Nullarbor congratulations guys you did it

[@idkreatif8701]

U should meet the family who lived in bali sharing life with them..

[@BlackIjs]

Watching you bare your souls, I can only think of a song from years ago. Maybe by Thom Pace. I get the same vibe.

[@ladymc2021]

I think the people who have got the most likes on the comments before me definitely deserve a hand clap for what they have said - it is so important that you guys remember your home base is being together no matter where you are and it is so true your children are getting an education not most children can get. I was living in England as a newly wed when my closest grandmother passed away and I could not be there - it totally wrecked me and I honestly think you should spend the money to go be there if you can as it is so important to not lose these moments but to thrive in them. If you can't go, try to do closure with it in a different way as there is always a time to mourn for lost loved ones. We live in Nashville, TN now and honestly even though I have a home I am constantly making new travel plans as I don't "feel at home here yet" after 6 years! And realized my husband is my home and that is what family is all about. I miss living in the UK where it was soooo much easier to just get up and travel. There are many of us who wish they could live a life of a lot more travel like I used too, so please enjoy what you have and embrace it and keep making memories. It is so vital. God speed to you and your family's health mentally, emotionally and physically. You are an inspiration to sooo many and that is priceless.

[@HungryHillSarah]

Y'all just need a vacation from vacationing. Completely understandable. You'll find the perfect spot to rest in. I don't have faith in much of this world, but I have faith in you.

[@davidsquire2107]

I was in NO with 85 and 85

[@AlwaysAnAdventureWithKids]

Life has been so crazy for us, I am just now watching this. Hopefully you are feeling better now! I can completely relate to how you're feeling. We moved from the US to New Zealand...and have recently left New Zealand to return to the US after 5 years. I don't feel like we fit in the US anymore and I don't really know where we fit. I was really depressed for a couple weeks after leaving NZ wondering if we made the right decision and if I would ever be happy again. In a few days we are heading out to Vietnam. We're finally off on our Round the World adventure. Hopefully during this time we can figure out what is next after our travels. Also, I can definitely relate to not filming some of the rough moments. I often tell people that when we are really stressed out, we don't even think about pulling out a camera. I glanced at your videos and it looks like you are in Europe. I was hoping maybe you would stay in SE Asia and our paths would cross :)

[@meloneybarnett419]

Heather I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother I wish I could give you a hug take time to do what ever you need right now maybe a little break for yourselves you guys and the girls are wonderful to watch I love all your videos and girls are so lovely it makes my day seeing you all explorer the world and I’m sure you grandmother would be proud of you I love to see you all in Australia my home again one day and look forward to the Disney cruise with flying the nest take care guys

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you so much for sharing that! We love Australia so much and cannot wait to go back again someday soon we hope! We are also very much looking forward to the Disney Cruise!!

[@helenstratigos4862]

My condolences about your grandmothers passing. May they rest in peace. I'm curious though why you were "unable" to go to the US to support your family after their deaths. That is a priority, isn't it? And a great message to teach your children about love and a bit of sacrifice.

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you, last minute flights across the globe are extremely expensive and both times it was just not possible unfortunately

[@ayselgecgel7169]

size taziyelerimi gönderiyorum size gülmek yakışıyor bu dünyada doğmak var ölüm var neyazıkki önüne geçilmiyo 😥💕

[@sideforum]

I totally love the travel and the adventure but with two small kids I think it is normal to need a home base. Children need by nature that kind of security growing up and you guys seem to be needing that possibility for a pause during such times. Nothing wrong with it. My condolences for your grandmother 🙏

[@ladykiwi_nz4102]

Sounds like you have reached a crossroads as they say. Obviously Bali wasn't meant to be and you do know your family will always be there for you when you need them. Take time out to grieve and heal and clear your mind 🙏 I Love watching your channel ❤️💕😍

[@himadriboruah4849]

Love from Assam 💗💗💗

[@klmdk2898]

Good luck 💕

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Thank you!

[@connihudson1578]

The Lord can be your true home no matter where you go. It makes all the difference. Please consider this eternal truth and impact. You love traveling and enjoying His creation but you can see it through the lens of salvation and eternity at home with your true Father and Safior.❤️😇🙏🏻

[@elas.7891]

❤️

[@davidsquire2107]

114 Degrees in Phoenix right now at 12:12 p.m.

[@jayd2655]

Have you been to 105 degrees with almost 100% humidity? It drains the life out of you. It's tough to get motivated to move about because there's that constant invisible wet wall that you feel all around you. All you want to do is go to a cool place, sit and drink something cold - dreading the thought of going back outside to wade through the thick, wet wall. It's not fun because you can't enjoy the surroundings, or at least you struggle to enjoy it.

[@lizame65]

Taking a break and going home is not failure. Get yourself a Van and travel the United States. You must have family somewhere in the States. Go and spend time with them. Regroup and then get back in the game. I'm sorry that your grandmas have passed away. That's never easy. Being sad is a part of life. Just don't wallow in it.

[@halukcakir6074]

Come back to Turkey, guys.

[@mannypacu6460]

Yes! Best place for them to live. People were nice. They know so much history.

[@mannypacu6460]

Has there been a moment or more when Alexa or Chloe said “let’s go home” and got a reply “no we keep travelling’?

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Nope :) they love what we do. We all talk openly about how we feel. We are working on finding a new home base now :)

[@trec9623]

No, never on the vlog, they get edited out. Kids have no filter. 😵‍💫😄🤣

[@bradthomas3144]

Are y'all from Canada or the United States

[@janicejordan593]

Love and kisses 😘😘🇦🇺

[@cesbi]

Without wanting to minimise the exhaustion you are experiencing: I don't think it's a travel thing. The last two years have changed the world beyond recognition and I know a lot of people right now who feel like they don't fit into their own lives anymore. We're all looking for new home i guess. Let's see where these crazy times take us.

[@leahbeeschmidt1094]

Come to Canada or hawaii

[@Richard_C.]

Romans 10:9-10, 13 9 If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved... 13 for, "Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved." Mark 1:15 15 "The time has come," he said. "The kingdom of God has come near. Repent and believe the good news!"

[@thetravelmomlife492]

Where are you guys from? I am new here.

[@RaisingVoyagers]

We are originally from the USA

[@chelseapowell2819]

What’s wrong with Alexa’s eye?

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Mosquito bite that got swollen up 😔

[@adnaneroglu2500]

👍🙂🙋👏

[@yusufdincturk6732]

Habibi come to dubai

[@artougelartougel7698]

هل لذيك ذجاج وصغار الذجاج

[@tigerlast4384]

🇹🇷💪✈️🤷‍♂️

[@davidsquire2107]

take a trip home and unlax.