Goths Answer YOUR Questions 2

[@amiluvmochi]

Conor talking about Anxiety should be its own video. Bc I definitely can relate.

[@RandomGothCouple]

4 hour long video of me sweating and hyperventilating while trying to make a doctors appointment over the phone 😅

[@deadinthebed963]

Goths with the Irish accent is too cute wonderful juxtaposition it's very cool. 🖤

[@RandomGothCouple]

Thank you! Glad you like it, some one referred to us as goth farmers before 😅

[@deadinthebed963]

Its really cool im coming from irish stock myself name O'connor 🖤

[@leoniesableblanc]

I am 52 my partner is 68, we still wear black, I am still gothic ( I don’t call myself goth) . You don’t change just because you grow old……. Love your advice for baby bats. 🖤

[@YearsOVDecay1]

Aww that's sweet

[@Davescousemetal]

The Crow is the saddest movie ever. When I see the dedication to Brandon at the end of the film is always breaks me.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Fantastic actor, so talented. Gone too soon

[@Davescousemetal]

Just wonder what he could’ve achieved as an actor if he’d lived.

[@LaurenStellerSeaEagle]

I am age 42 and have considered myself to be part of Goth culture for nearly 30 years. Lynn and Connor, you have such wonderful advice and insights on what the culture truly means. It's about exploring, being comfortable enough to ignore judgement, and ultimately embracing the individual within. Hopefully, more younger people with Goth tendencies will see your videos and hear your message.

[@tattastrophicwitch6337]

What Connor said about wanting to be able to Fort food a place to live and spend all his time with his girl brought me to tears that was the sweetest thing I’ve ever heard

[@davidsbookreviews4983]

I'm always socially conscious too. I never know what to say to new people. It's sometimes easier if we have similar interests. I'm always quite. Really enjoy the channel.

[@beast_of_burden7762]

I feel your pain Connor, i sweat like crazy and it doubles when I’m anxious, i will take a couple of steps and I’ll literally be Drenched in Sweat!

[@RandomGothCouple]

My answer to "how are you" is always ALWAYS "a little sweaty"

[@VixinatorsVideos]

I feel like if I saw you both I would yell out RANDOM GOTH COUPLE! and people around who don't know your channel name would judge me harshly.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Literally didn't even think of that omg 😂

[@AlfredSoul]

Oh god, lol.

[@antwhite3899]

I'm not into the scene, not into the genre, never will be. Just come across this channel, KZbin works in mysterious ways. You guys are cool as. Love this channel. Cheers

[@RandomGothCouple]

Thank you !

[@rishibeauty8889]

Mother is the word for god on the lips & hearts of all children. Movie had the best soundtrack.

[@RandomGothCouple]

That rooftop guitar solo was 🤌

[@rishibeauty8889]

@@RandomGothCouple You know it!!

[@Thomas_of_the_forest]

Donnie Darko ! I actually didn't know you were a fan , Lynn 😃 The soundtrack is part of why it's one of my absolute favourite movies. One of my most listened to Soundtracks , and the score has definitely been influential in my piano composing :)

[@greekvampy3690]

That's a good one I forgot about dony darko as an elder goth

[@pyrusmalus7158]

Every night there is a massive bat migration where my folks live in Queensland, Australia. When my brothers first arrived from the UK they used to think there were monsters in the trees because the fruit bats would fight at night. They had to do a PSA campaign to let kids know not to touch them because they are so common here and they carry communicable diseases. I remember one from the 90s that was titled Mr Bat is not my friend 😂😂😂

[@raversfantasy]

It’s so cool to hear that you’re Christian! I’m personally an atheist but my husband is Christian. We also deal badly with anxiety. I am straight agoraphobic and my partner is a social butterfly hahaha. Love watching y’all!🖤🦇

[@BOUJEEBOGANBADBITCHQUEEN]

I suffer from agoraphobia as well due to alot of trauma

[@madblood6493]

The Hunger is another good movie too. With David Bowie and Bela Lugosi Dead, you can not complain. Crow is definitely my favorite and an emotional movie as a person that went through similar things.

[@rachelhuber8065]

The Crow is my all-top favourite movie. There are other films, but I’m with you when it comes to the crow.

[@BrianBeauchamp]

I’m an (old) 80’s kid and I’ve seen The Cure 5 times since 1986. Best concert ever, every time! But I’m basically the preppie in a sea of black. Love it! I’m glad you got to see them.

[@amandatoombs8332]

Burn by the Cure is my absolute favorite song by them. Ill admit im jealous you saw them perform Burn live! I've seen the Cure twice but unfortunately they didnt play Burn. Still amazing though. 🖤

[@RandomGothCouple]

Same! And oh no! That's unlucky! December was my first time seeing them live but Lynn has actually seen them twice and they played it both times!!

[@ronnicolas4001]

"Be weird", was the best advice I could have ever thought of for young sub-culture experimentalists.

[@vampyrrgoff]

OMG IM SO HAPPY YOU GUYS ANSWERED MY QUESTION

[@RandomGothCouple]

Awww we are glad you got to see the video and that the advice was helpful! 🖤🦇

[@sarahkostkova19]

I have " it cant rain all the time " tattooed on my collar bone with a crow x

[@RandomGothCouple]

Amazing!! I'm still waiting to get mine 🖤

[@IsaiahSalvagno]

Thanks for this video, I can totally relate to that anxiety thing. you guys really help me and remind me it’s ok to be my self.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Aw we are so glad to hear that! Thank you for your comment 🖤

[@Sanniz]

Awww... I should be akward myself if I met you both irl. I am so shy those times and my brain totally stop function. 😆😄 Not a phase for me either and I will continue as long as I am capable do all things. Can't tell if I go that bad, so I can't move myself. Great to hear all answers. Loved seeing The Cure live... and when they played Burn... 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Stay safe Conor and Lynn. 🦇🖤🖤🖤🖤🦇

[@RandomGothCouple]

I am the exact same! Brain just stops working! Thank you for the question. You too!

[@Exalted_in_Venus]

Download sounds amazing!! Wish we had that here. Such a perfect lineup! I've seen Placebo once at a festival and it was so emotional. Brian's voice is just something else.

[@RandomGothCouple]

I wish we had festivals like that in Ireland too ! It will be our first time seeing Placebo !

[@archangle1172]

Crow like in the sandman. Favorite animal

[@RandomGothCouple]

All I want is a talk crow as a pet is that too much to ask 😭

[@foxwolft9332]

Ayo! I can relate to the Panic (hence the shirt I made that says "I panic at a lot of other places besides the disco") I have a job where when I tell people I am shy and have anxiety it surprises them. So thank you for answering my question and I hope that if I ever visit Ireland I can meet you guys maybe :3 no pressure lol. Also, having a significant other who is "social butterfly" is a life saver when more introverted. ^-^

[@skree272]

I watched the Munsters, Adams Family and I believe I watched The Crow once as a child, thinking around 6-7 maybe, one thing I remember was liking how the "creepy" cartoon characters looked as a kid

[@joyhafele3519]

I have 3 sphynx cats and a bambino, you need one for your show!!!

[@amiluvmochi]

Yes. We have so many questions. Glad we got to know more about you guys. 🖤

[@RandomGothCouple]

Wish we could do more of there. Hopefully stream soon and get to talk to everyone!

[@YearsOVDecay1]

@@RandomGothCouple yes go LIVE hope I'll catch it when you do

[@elizabethshields1719]

Anxiety can be a weird thing...not only have I felt like I could sink through the floor (sometimes depends on the situation) I will totally go blank-I'll forget a name or something and I get quiet thinking why my circuits misfire at the most inopportune moment. I feel the struggle when it comes to anxiety. As for meeting you guys either you two would be "oh she's so awesome" or you two would run away screaming lol. Sometimes other people get thrown by my humor because it can go dark sometimes.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Honestly same. It comes and goes sometimes too, I can have stretches where it's not as bad, but I've had a long run of it being really bad recently, definitely feel the sinking through the floor thing!

[@elizabethshields1719]

Hoping everything goes easier for you on the anxiety-in the past my anxiety would be bad enough to cause panic attacks. Thankful I haven't had panic attacks in a long time.

[@spookygoth]

Y’all my favorite

[@RandomGothCouple]

Thank you! 🦇

[@spookygoth]

@@RandomGothCouple your welcome

[@triggeredlatina]

So glad KZbin did one right thing and recommended your channel to me 🖤

[@radiomindchatter7994]

I love you guys...Respect from Georgia USA.

[@JuicePouchKat]

For the favorite goth movie question, mine are the Crow and Repo the genetic opera!

[@danvsjeep8062]

The animal bit!!!! I lost it.

[@ThreadBomb]

There was actually an attempt to reboot the Munsters a decade ago, produced by Bryan Fuller (Pushing Daisies, Dead Like Me, Hannibal), but it never got past the pilot stage. The reboot had a new title: Mockingbird Lane. The pilot is available to stream, but sadly no physical media release.

[@Vampirelord98]

My favorite goth movie is Dracula

[@LunaciaBooks]

Haven't seen The Crow in years and years, should watch it again!

[@RandomGothCouple]

We are gonna have a movie night in the discord soon !

[@LunaciaBooks]

@@RandomGothCouple Sounds fun!

[@valeriekelly4574]

Lol I adore you! Your answer about listing to all the staple band making some one goth… love it. I had the same reaction. Uiihhh yeah pretty much

[@DevilsReject765]

How did you both meet was It love at first sight or was it over time❓.Thanks for the videos.

[@luciferchristian]

Great video...thanks for giving us insight to the all enveloping goth culture...🤘

[@rivitheadlab2523]

Thanks for this video. As a die hard Rivet head, I tend to lean to the dark side! I listen to all the top level Goth stuff and some of the deeper dives. Thanks for reinforcing what I tell people. You don't have to look it, to BE it. I am 57, soon to be 58. I love the dark side and the harsh Industrial side for sure. Love your videos. Stay true and love to you both. Rivithead Lab.

[@SmokeSAS]

Very random, but Conor, I think you'd really pull off a Professor Snape cosplay. Idk, just thought of it randomly lol.

[@RandomGothCouple]

I've gotten that a few times, especially when I had long hair! It'll happen eventually I'm sure 😅

[@SmokeSAS]

@Random Goth Couple awesome haha.

[@amiluvmochi]

I've never seen the crow. You guys have talked about this movie before in another video. Now that it's out on Netflix, I'm definitely going to watch it.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Definitely watch it it's so good! But prepare to be a little sad...

[@katleiahveridian6564]

And definitely watch "The Crow: City of Angels" as well. I know most sequels SUCK but this one is really beautiful and I feel really continues the mood and world of The Crow.

[@gothlover4u]

Your videos are always awesome. Don't feel bad. I to have aniety and sometimes talking to new people can be akward in itself.

[@shaunmckinnon1193]

I feel you pain, Connor. I’ve always had the same anxiety. I have teach at a college, and I have to become a completely different person in order to do it. Same when I sell at craft shows; have to put on a totally different persona.

[@joeyfive5245]

Adam’s Family for movies. Munsters for TV. If it’s just down to TV then Munsters

[@trevorstewart1308]

commenting for the algorithm 🖤🤍 thank you

[@giovannibernardi4298]

CATS. I have 12 cats !!! 💜 😻 💜 Thanks for the video I love you guys xx

[@RandomGothCouple]

Thank you! And wow.. Very jealous 😢

[@mahoupanda2639]

I feel like the being old and alternative thing is easier when you have tattoos like when I’m old I’m still going to have all these bats and ghosts and creepy things tattooed on me 😂 without effort I will still look alternative without having to actively do anything lol. Speaking of other j-fashion styles would you ever do a dark decora look? Cybr grl did a video trying it out and it looked so fun

[@RandomGothCouple]

This is so true ! We are both covered in spooky tattoos, like bats, pumpkins and ghosts 👻 Although in Ireland it’s always cold so we cover up and no one ever gets to see them 😂 It think probably getting our necks tattooed fully black would do the job! Ohh I’m going to look up that video now ! I’ve only ever seen really colourful decora so that sounds interesting! I could imagine a full Sanrio Kuromi decora look!

[@kumachan9311]

Channel 4 started showing The Munsters when the channel first started [Mid 80s] along with a few other old Black and white shows [I guess they got as cheap filler] Lost in space, I love Lucy etc, they where kind of a 'big thing' back then as English kids hadn't seen them before

[@LH_ore]

Yeah, in my country I remember getting ready for school in the mornings and having Batman, The Munsters and Star Trek as background sound.

[@InnerzoneMusicVlogs]

Wow! You are back! Glad your making vids again! You're my favorites couple! Crow was my movie too!

[@notrealyBea]

I found The Cure bc they did the opening of a cartoon that i realy liked in my childhood called Dragon Hunters. It´s their best song in my opnion.

[@Xylaax]

yea I have very bad social anxiety, im completely comfortable at home, around family around friends etc, but I struggle to even to walk to the gas station and pick up a drink or snack

[@RandomGothCouple]

Mine is definitely situation depending, like if I go somewhere /do something often enough I can mentally prepare myself and its okay. But social gatherings and new people etc just send my body into fight or flight

[@Xylaax]

@@RandomGothCouple yea im basically the same, my friend tried taking me to a party once and I said why not, try and meet some new people, but I basically just froze and panicked stuck by her side the entire time, I was not comfortable at all, like I can handle small gatherings as long as atleast 1 or 2 people are there that I know, but larger groups I just feel lost and want to leave asap

[@Xylaax]

@@RandomGothCouple and whenever the mailman comes I wait till they leave before I go out and grab the mail rofl

[@natalieyork956]

I love you both individually and love you so much as a couple. You guys are adorbs

[@image30p]

Very entertaining and thank you for the words of encouragement!

[@elainejuarez5265]

Ravens often play with wolf cubs.

[@MarsGhoul]

You guys are awesome! Love the goth style and themes, would probably ask where you guys like to shop and how you do makeup etc. I feel like meeting you guys in person wouldn't be too bad in terms of finding things to talk about but I might be too much of a chatterbox. Anyway love yalls content 🖤

[@RandomGothCouple]

Thank you so much! We plan on doing more makeup videos soon and also some videos of finding and putting together outfits!

[@arianagrandetwin7422]

i love both i growth up with the monsters and Addams Family i even watched both from the 50s

[@natygrind9304]

My favorite youtube channel..love you both 🖤🫶🏻cheers from chile!!

[@xmaryHXCx]

I’ve just discovered your channel and I’m obsessed. I love your videos and above all else, I love how wholesome and warm and welcoming you guys are. Thank you for being you and so authentic and cool 😎

[@Paul_TheOutcast]

Welcome back and I'm looking forward to hearing what questions people have asked you guys 🖤 I absolutely love the Addams family and my personal favourite is Wednesday definitely can't wait for 2nd season on Netflix. Also I've never listened to any of the bands listed in your video but I like listen to Evanescence, Elysion and other bands that use Goth in their music occasionally like Motionless in white so does that make me not a Goth....

[@RandomGothCouple]

If you like those bands you should try out more gothic metal bands like paradise lost, lacrimosa etc definitely think you'd enjoy that! Like I said, once the interest is there, it's a mindset and all about personal identity! No one can tell you otherwise!

[@YearsOVDecay1]

And Lacuna Coil check them out! Maybe Nightwish too...

[@Paul_TheOutcast]

@Random Goth Couple Aevum, Arshenic and Elysion are all gothic bands

[@MissLizzy882]

😂😂 omg you have the WGT curse too!! Happens to me too! I'm onto my 4th failed attempt! Here's to 2024!

[@AnarArcana]

Omg u answered my question 💜✨️

[@cloudy4476]

you should ask a bat if it wants to be friend. the bat may say sure and you could hang out... and play basketball.

[@Pokemon_Collector_Pete]

For me it would be Crimson peek & also Bram Stokers Dracula P.s are you guys a fan of the Rob Zombie movies I.e house of 1000 corpses, The devils rejects & 3 from hell cause i luv em, also luv the human centrepeed 😆😆😆

[@killmeds.710]

Repo! The Genetic Opera

[@RandomGothCouple]

A little glass vial?

[@skylasjourney]

i'm a metalhead but i like goths and i like watching your videos

[@ladybeeofthesea]

Oh Conor, you were fine meeting in person! I tried to keep it short and sweet cuz.. Placebo.. haha but yeah you were so friendly, gutted I missed Lynne, but I understand your life and anxiety, it's real shite :( Love these updating Q&A's

[@diaramer5032]

DRAGONWYCK. An oldie with Vincent Price. it is Gothic not modern Goth. The house is to die for.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Will add it to the list! Thank you!

[@milanaborovko]

Love you so much, you are the best , Random Goth Couple...

[@YearsOVDecay1]

Yes CATS! Those big giant fruit bats can be kinda cute,but yes ravens/crows are freaking awesome I totally feel you on that. "Sweat,sweat profusely" lol Bro GOD I feel you on the anxiety and "structuring your life" around it. You are not alone my friend.

[@grimmdodhest6524]

Always liked the goth culture, not a goth myself but have goth influences. Have 2 hearses, one coffin, and 4 caskets lol. Love goth music. New to the channel, Cheers from Canada!

[@deadinthebed963]

Love will tear us apart is one of favourite song

[@slayeroverlord3667]

I just saw the Crow today I haven't seen it since I was a kid it still the most amazing goth movie

[@GodlessFiend]

I never knew goths were so fun even when they’re trying not to be

[@lindsayosterhoff2459]

As an elder goth I have a little bit of advice for newcomers. Find the nice older people in the subculture. Among those of us in the 40+ crowd there tends to be two kinds of people. There are the elitist gatekeepers and there are what I call the bodyguards. We bodyguards will protect you as much as we can from the judgmental jerks and we will make sure you have a good time within the subculture. We will be happy to give you the best hacks on DIY projects or tell you where to find the best makeup or talk music with you in a relaxed way (with some of us also wanting to learn about newer bands or styles you may know about that we don't). Bodyguards want the subculture to be a welcoming place that evolves and continues. We want newcomers to get into goth subculture and we invite their creativity and inspiration. Anyone who uses gatekeeping to try to prove how special they are is hiding some insecurities on the issue. They are afraid they aren't goth enough so they have to try to seem gothier than others. In reality we are all equal (regardless of how many/which goth bands you listen to or how you dress or how long you've identified as goth). I think the whole hierarchy of gothiness is silly but I'll use my goth cred to help newcomers any day. :)

[@miguelferrazcosta]

And again, totally relating to Conor.

[@Newcastle_hustle]

I Rescued a bat of my cars roof and fed it fruit and kept it in a dark place till night then i let it go that when i use to live in my old house i wanted to keep it but i know i had to let it go unfortunately but it kept flying around the house then it flew off in the night

[@RandomGothCouple]

Aww that’s so cute ! Thank you for helping the bat 🦇🖤

[@zhuxiu]

The Crow…..yes.

[@rickonnye2001]

Great video thanks 😊 you both look fabulous

[@creepyplaces7149]

My favorite Gothic movie is Sleepy Hollow by Tim Burton.

[@lewisnapton8399]

I am looking for love, and a sense of family. I love you guys, and I love the Addams Family! It is obvious that you love each other. I will get trolled for saying this, but you two represent the first time I have seen love in real life.

[@makhirot1983]

Donnie Darko, I love that movie

[@amariknox9441]

It’s kinda a coincidence sense two other KZbinrs I subscribe to as well published alongside you

[@RandomGothCouple]

We normally don't upload Fridays but this video is a day late! So that is weird!

[@rayweeboy]

The Phrase 'My Grandma listens to the Cure' is not making me feel young and hip.

[@DamianAngels]

im mostly horror gothic i like supernatural things and nature i agree with this list and funny with the bird plushie lol also i agree music is about brain reaction not by choice our brains like what it likes to hear no matter your genre i know alot of normal looking people who love dark music it has no barriers lol

[@beyondtheradio]

i get the height difference thing XD my husband is 6' 4" and I am 5' 5"....they always see him first but thats okay. though now i have red hair, so people tend to remember us idk why but that makes me anxious

[@elizabethlynch6544]

I actually paint or draw to combat my Anxiety. Try that or maybe CBD gummies for anxiety.

[@RandomGothCouple]

I have a lot of coping mechanisms at home etc but I just have not found a good one for real life social situations! Can't get proper cbd gummies here 😭

[@elizabethlynch6544]

@@RandomGothCouple understandable

[@YearsOVDecay1]

@@RandomGothCouple we could probably mail you some from the states...or try

[@greekvampy3690]

I saw the craft though

[@ninjareport2]

Sick videos guys! Keep going. Unrelated but i found a fetish goth just like me, we're boyfriend and girlfriend now, she's from Norway. They're really smart but I'm the chosen one. You should do sports video lol

[@KimchiYeo]

You did not mention the Underworld movies and Queen of the damned was pretty sick aswell.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Queen of the Damned is one of my favourites ! 🦇

[@katleiahveridian6564]

Please, please respond to this comment! What is that orange worm called? I had one when I was young and have always wanted to find another one.. but it's hard to find something if you don't know what it's called! So be my heroes and let me know so I can have another worm friend.

[@kumachan9311]

Squirmles (also known as Snoots, Magic Twisty Worms, or Worm on a String) are small, worm-like toys with eyes, a furry body, and a hidden string used to imitate a live worm, sometimes used as a magic trick.

[@chrisstephens5310]

bless the good looking people of the world all love

[@Vampirelord98]

I am huge evanescence fan

[@SpookiCooki]

I have bats under my windowsill so if I have the window open during the summer they sometimes accidentally fly into my house. As cute as they are I try to avoid it. I found a mummified bat once in my living room and I don't want that to happen again. Look at my page and you'll see the last bat I found (but in my garage.)

[@RandomGothCouple]

Oh nooo the poor bat's. Least you get to observe them when you want!

[@SpookiCooki]

@@RandomGothCouple Yeah that's the plus. I can hear them during the first half of summer too, presumably because they have babies and they are chatty. They have a very high-pitched sound that you feel more than you hear.

[@loganscott8243]

The crow is the number one movie I consider best goth movie of all time on Halloween I always dress up as the crow and to pay tribute my wrestler hero I dress as the undertaker 🖤🦇🕸️⚰️, and I got one one question for both y'all if you were directing a either action or some vampire movie what song would you put in.? P.s. much love to both y'all 🤘🖤🦇🕸️❤️💜💀.

[@RandomGothCouple]

Kane was my favourite wrestler as a kid, undertaker was a close 2nd! I think this sacrifice by London after Midnight would fit so well in a gloomy early 2000s style vampire action movie!

[@abigailrosado2666]

Wanted is goth movie 🎬

[@jonidjoharijonidjohari5385]

Hello 🤗 from Malaysia

[@patricebest545]

Elder Goth age 63 here Teenager in Disco era of colours so you can imagine how wearing black stood out I can laugh now Regards from Australia