Rating Abby Shapiro's Advice For Women

[@testoftempest]

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[@jeremiahbarnes6313]

I'd give the second channel 3 days before 70k subs tempest

[@1draigon]

Where did the video on it go?

[@astropenguin5448]

What is the new channel for btw?

[@Ayaya787]

@@astropenguin5448 exploiting the algo

[@brysonberan2505]

loving the videos on the second channel

[@will.2155]

“She looks like if my middle school dress code were a person” fucking great comment

[@lepkember6913]

Having spent time in a chatholic high-school, I can relate to that comment so much

[@T0xXx1k]

@@lepkember6913 lmao ikr I thought the reward for surviving that bs was getting to dress however tf I want for the rest of my days.

[@PT-nw4ph]

🤣

[@BruhWhyDidTheyChangeThis]

Showing shoulders

[@procrastinator99]

I was going to quote that on these comments. Finding it here was NOT a disappointment. In fact, my hope for Humanity has been slightly lifted. Thank you.

[@jeremiahbarnes6313]

Interesting *Takes a hit of thy divine blunt*

[@dannysdungareedanceoff8481]

Vaush ain't see someone in a sundress with a dump truck

[@sadtitties222]

Holy shit, you ain't lyin', lol. Thicc/Big/Large/Chubby/Plus size women rockin' sundresses are so freakin' goregeous, UGHhhH! 😄💕

[@embarrassedcap]

this is literally the advice google gave me when I was 14.

[@bradleyrose811]

I had such intense resting bitch face that I actually actively tried to learn how to look happy at work and one day I was literally thinking "I did it! I've been smiling all day very proud of mysel-" and a man walks up in line and says "Gee what's so bad lighten up" -_- And yet... I got a TON of attention from men... It's almost like, if you have a personality and take care of yourself people are attracted to you

[@DigitalDuelist]

Speaking of smiles, the amount of bottom teeth both her and Ben show when they do makes me think of a Shih Tzu

[@keithmadden9260]

What an offense to shitzus

[@swaerd3264]

2 things: 1: I shamelessly lift for myself and so guys will compliment me. I'm straight, but I love the high of compliments. 2: Natural makeup looks are definitely hotter in a strictly attractive sense, but damn is a well-done glam look awesome, if not "attractive" in the same sense.

[@anopinion1349]

19:40 this explains why dudes seem so happy to make me laugh (i have resting bitch face) but so scared to approach me

[@madimiller5781]

idk abby, my boyfriend loves when i have strong eye makeup or a bold lipstick :/ maybe all men aren’t a hive mind and all have different preferences

[@madimiller5781]

THE MANOSPHERE IM CRYING

[@appltron1827]

Alert alert! A loose cannon has been detected. Terminate and retrieve to Manosphere headquarters ASAP.

[@Olivetree80]

Exactly, I mean if you look good, you look good. It should be authentic to the individual.

[@TheAquaticGoddess]

Abby looks like she is going to tell us that there is no war in Ba Sing Se

[@Eli-ye8ks]

DAMN THIS COMMENT HIT ME LIKE A TRUCK XD

[@w77eed]

Here we are safe. Here we are free.

[@greanbeen2816]

it’s all right you’ll be ok there’s no war in ba sing se unless you’re trans or black or gay you’ve naught to fear in ba sing se

[@resistancearmy5385]

She's in the Dai Li?

[@jonoxes8662]

THAT'S SOOO TRUE LMAO.

[@MadeInHistory]

Some people smile as a defense or survival mechanism. I'm a Black guy who is often in white only or conservative only spaces. When I'm at my job smiling constantly makes me seem less threatening. I've heard similar stories from older friends and even articles.

[@jacobnoelle8428]

That sad bro. 😢

[@SailorAnthy]

Same here, man. Same here. Smiling is my default now because of how uncomfortable people would get when i didn't.

[@Lectical]

Yep it's everything "Get Out" was about, they want you in the sunken place

[@dinodare1605]

I smile uncontrollably when I'm nervous, at times where I assume I'd be blushing if my skin was light enough for that to be visible. Which, for a nervous wreck like me happens at all of the moments you described and then some.

[@lepkember6913]

Now that you say it, ever realized that when racist people are with a not-white person, they often smile and act 'friendly' in a disturbing way? It sometimes feels like they try to non-verbally communicate something like "see how much we tolerate you? You should be thankful that we are better than your kind"

[@saininj]

Funny how Ben has such a problem with men wearing makeup and a dress, when he does it all the time under his Classically Abby channel.

[@facundomegevandsanchez7233]

Too good

[@philipfrisk805]

Made me lol, bro.

[@thegreatgoddess9149]

🤣

[@totallynotme6720]

Took me a minute lmao

[@innitbruv-lascocomics9910]

Yoo, no I'm done 😂😂

[@ToruKun1]

"Nobody wants to be around somebody who has a grumpy face." Abby should tell her brother that, since li'l Beebo Shapibo always looks like a constipated goblin.

[@Ragitsu]

Shap "Kubrick Stare" Benpiro.

[@jakespacepiratee3740]

and not the hot, hentai-ish Goblin that looks borderline Furry-ish.

[@johnwalker1058]

I'm just like "or maybe you could just not judge someone's personality by what mood they might look like they're in right now."

[@stoneman472]

Underrated comment

[@Ragitsu]

@@jakespacepiratee3740 I'm still unaccustomed to "attractive goblins".

[@bluebomber81]

Wait, so she's putting a monetary value on her sexual content, and making people pay for it? This is all starting to sound very familiar....

[@msgirly6827]

Lmaoo veryyyy familiar indeed💀

[@ASTRA1564]

@chindican I'd buy her only fans

[@kraio-sfu]

OnlyTrads

[@SoWhosGae]

@@ASTRA1564 Worst kind of simping

[@tom5505]

Don't get my hopes up

[@mommybat2941]

God the amount of times I’ve had an older man tell me “you’d be prettier if you smiled” when I’m just like minding my own business. Super annoying

[@psychicbyinternet]

Another win for mask-wearing. Update: some guy at work said it to me when I was wearing a mask. FML.

[@danthemanwiththepants4048]

@@psychicbyinternet Never taking it off

[@jonnaking3054]

My grandmother used to tell women and men the same.... But usually if she was their costumer and they were sour pusses

[@oliviam6332]

I’m a naturally serious woman. I’ve been this way my whole life. I’m so sick of people telling me to smile. They’re basically telling me I have to change myself to make them feel more comfortable. Fuck that bullshit.

[@antonioreis8394]

Don't you understand that you need to have a painful permanent smile at all times????

[@witchflowers6942]

This is the kinda shit I would watch when I was twelve and take the advice way toooo seriously. This is the stuff you find when you google “How do I get boyyyys to like meee?? 👼🏼👼🏼👼🏼”

[@beanieguitarguy4070]

Your pfp is dropping heavy Rosa Diaz (from Brooklyn 99) vibes.

[@mm-dn6oe]

I'm pretty sure the channel exists for precisely that reason, in addition to dropping in messages like "Dresses are great because they accentuate the differences between men and women"

[@lsmmoore1]

@@mm-dn6oe The funny thing is they kind of do that when men wear them too. There are pictures out there of men who look overtly masculine wearing dresses.

[@witchflowers6942]

@@beanieguitarguy4070 awe thanks 🙏

[@witchflowers6942]

@@lsmmoore1 yes true, and many girls have always been into that gender bending stuff too(See; pop-stars in the 70s/80s). Hetero attraction is not so dichotomous as “more different more sexy!” Lol

[@Engineer_Heathen]

I'm still convinced this is Ben Shapiro cross dressing.

[@jessekulbe1855]

And that's perfectly fine Ben

[@kadinpurath9295]

Ben’s got fat milkers then

[@JahovasFitness]

@@kadinpurath9295 "Lets's say, hypothetically speaking, that I know how to rock some tig ol biddies."

[@servoaugusta513]

Guys can we not use old tattered up insults of “you look like a guy!” On a woman as if that’s a particularly good insult. Instead of just a sexist one.

[@aleczitzelberger8123]

@@servoaugusta513 I think they are just joking about how strong the family resemblance is.

[@juliam7037]

being muscular is for the male gaze not the female gaze lol

[@Hanfgurkenhasser]

It really is, I got like 2 compliments from women all these years, compared to dozens of compliments from men. Which I really don't mind tbh, at least my workout routine is getting some recognition lol.

[@Lectical]

It's for the male gaze AND the male gays

[@Gretcie]

Same as having a sweet mustache.

[@handsdown7945]

@@Gretcie THIS

[@jennywhat6108]

What about buff women?

[@AnarchyIsLove]

I like dresses as dresses. I like seeing them on people and wearing them because they look good as clothes. This "emphasis of the female form" and dressing for attraction is the opposite of modest.

[@scottvelez3154]

I've always wanted to wear a sundress they seem like fun to wear

[@BlondeEyes7]

@@scottvelez3154 Do it! I’ve really come to enjoy seeing dresses on people of all genders and body types, personally. But yeah, the light and flow-y feel is fun!

[@evanr9583]

it's modest if you hide the booba /s

[@sadtitties222]

@@BlondeEyes7 Agreed! Very true. Honestly, I've never really been into wearing dresses whatsoever (only certain events that I've been to did I ever make an exception). I've always been more of a pants (specifically shorts, jeans, cargo pants, and leggings) kind of girl. I do enjoy seeing pretty dresses on other women and people though. However, I've recently gotten into wanting to wear a couple of sundresses that I've seen online that I found very cute, but I would be more comfortable with wearing them if I had some shorts or leggings to wear underneath them. That's just me though, lol. I definitely think that commenter (the one whose comment Vaush read out loud) who said that sundresses are like some gateway to pedophilia/submissiveness to men/juvenile or some shit was SUPER overreaching though. Like, wtf? Why must we pervert EVERYTHING, ugh! Just let women (and men and enbys, and trans, etc.) wear what they want and look super cute or hot af in them. JUST LET PEOPLE LIVE!

[@AnarchyIsLove]

@@evanr9583 depends on the degree of "hide", a dress still outlines the booba. She's not telling girls to wear cargo pants and a hoodie. Nothing wrong with any clothes either. But I think if the intent is to entice a man into marrying you with just your looks and fake smile, min-maxing sexuality and personality, doesn't sound very modest. Modesty would be toning it down, whereas Abby insist this is what men are truly attracted to. This hyper specific, hyper performative idea of femininity is centered around men's sexuality, and not modest

[@knavishimp6630]

I've always fantasised about living a gay, socialist, trad-husband fantasy. If I want to come home from a long day at the worker co-op to find my house husband baking a pie, that's what I'll damn well do.

[@l.3ok]

okay Genghis Khan

[@knavishimp6630]

@chindican As you can see from the news, not very well. I think it's about time I head to Ulaanbaatar, whip up some support, and get the band back together.

[@mrmaniac3]

@@knavishimp6630 the boys are back in town

[@marvelousTUD]

Same dude

[@not-a-gerbil9557]

Sounds good to me! Haha always fantasized about bein the pie baking house husband lol

[@denatoniumbenzoate8614]

As a goth having a grumpy face and wearing tons of makeup seems to get me more attention than I even know what to do with

[@kostasspirou1010]

Cuz it's very hot ngl 😳

[@bobbobsled8843]

Y’all be the best lmao

[@skullthunder3181]

Vaushs face in the thumbnail looks like a blur cutscene its so uncanny valley

[@Tarumarugan]

He’s trolling with the thumbs now 😂

[@stevesteve88]

He looks thinner

[@BushidoMauve]

I can't tell if that's his mouth or not. It bothers me so much and can't look away

[@kiren3168]

It is AI filter, not his teeth

[@GulfbeachMateo]

"In thirty seconds??" Ben Shapiro: "We are all about lasting long in bed in this family."

[@Moszan]

I'm screeching. 🤣🤣

[@RyanStorey1231]

This woman's content is so inoffensive, surface level, and vapid that it's honestly more offensive than anything her brother says. Seriously, she's saying literally nothing.

[@kailiek2402]

Sometimes i will literally put on makeup, curl my hair, and put on a cute outfit just to clean my house. To me, alot of times when you make yourself look good you FEEL good. During quarantine i needed that occasionally, and obviously that had nothing to do with gaining mens attraction🤷🏻‍♀️

[@msgirly6827]

This is exactly why I hate the notion of 'women dress/wear make up for men'. Listen, I am not saying that on occasion it doesnt happen. I am sure some girls only dress for men too. But alot of us dont. I also got cute and put on some perfume just to then go and watch some anime in my room. Women existing and looking cute is really not always for men.

[@lokalcrow1470]

I definetly relate to this. I'm someone who doesn't leave their house very often, but I still dress well everyday just to feel better. It's not very nice to just see yourself all day in pijamas, you feel really unproductive.

[@nelsondelgado1051]

Vaush's awkward smile in the thumbnail is quite adorable

[@HinaCabina]

Its the faceapp smile meme always making these awkward

[@carimavandijk1091]

If he smiled a bit more with the eyes it would be more adorable

[@thegreatgoddess9149]

Lol yeah

[@septimaserpent]

Fr

[@Zima_Blue01]

sussy smile

[@kayleigh1991]

She knows that different men find different women attractive, right? It’s not a whole one size fits all thing.

[@appltron1827]

It's almost as if they're individuals? Nah can't be.

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

This. Also, I think we all know what her take is on gay men, too.

[@bigpapamagoo8696]

I honestly feel like Ben Shapiro wrote the script to tell women what he likes

[@1123-n9f]

About the hair thing: “Taking care of your hair” does not always involve brushing it, if you have even mildly curly hair it will make your hair poofy and thus look worse. I haven’t owned a hairbrush in like 2 years and my hair looks pretty good I’d say.

[@dinodare1605]

I agree with everything you said (because it's true) except for poofy hair looking worse.

[@1123-n9f]

@@dinodare1605 fair enough, I just think a lot of people with poofy staticy hair who don’t want it aren’t educated on how to stop it from being like that (ie, me for most of my life)

[@dinodare1605]

@@1123-n9f Yeah, it depends on how you wear it, and how you prefer it. It can also, unfortunately be a discrimination issue based on what is deemed conventionally attractive. I have afro hair (type 4c specifically, the least conventionally attractive) and am just now coming around to liking afro hair because I fell for it when people would say that it's just bad hair. I want people to do whatever they want with their hair, I just don't like it when it sounds like people are making it straighter due to self-hatred or self esteem issues.

[@ToruKun1]

Yeah, I have curly hair and when I brush it, it looks like shredded wheat afterwards.

[@1123-n9f]

@@dinodare1605 yeah, I totally get what you mean. I was just firing an off the dome comment without even thinking about people with more curly hair types. I have very loose curls and so when I say “poofy” I wasn’t thinking of Afro type hair but rather hair that does static cling to my face and just looks sort of formlessly frizzy. But yeah hair discrimination is both very real and also stupid as hell

[@DoneDealAC]

She thinks being a conservative is a personality trait

[@exquisitecorpse__]

Conservatives think being a Conservative is a personality trait and they think that's all they need.

[@haydens5321]

All conservatives do

[@sunfeatherX3]

Your views do shape you though. Like how I wouldn’t be me if I felt other human beings have no value. Then I wouldn’t be human. Like Abby.

[@ElApostato]

Well you can be conservative as a person

[@jonc3519]

Well it kinda is tho

[@olly3231]

As a man, I really like dresses... on other men tho.

[@SA-mo3hq]

Biggest chad move is a dude rocking a floofy dress

[@BurloBrandoVonBando]

@@SA-mo3hq with the frills at the bottom

[@sadtitties222]

Noice! 😁👍

[@Ylemonade]

Same.

[@TheSlipperyNUwUdle]

As someone AFAB, same. 🙈 god I love men in skirts and dresses.

[@cosmopolitanbloodloss3148]

The whole "women should always smile! you look so pretty when you're constantly smiling!" thing creeps me the fuck out. Sorry but I don't find the Stepford Wives aesthetic attractive at all.

[@ChaosundSandale]

Being a trans woman in transition I feel veeeery optimistic I get some real good useful advice by Abby! Im so excited!

[@8bitdiedie]

If Abby re-branded her videos as advice for how trans women can pass more easily in conservative spaces… Million dollar idea.

[@KARKAT420]

@@8bitdiedie Way better idea than spending millions of dollars on cringe ads for sure!

[@bluexephosfan970]

@@MW-sv1dp begone terf

[@angrypepe7615]

​@@MW-sv1dp No, they identify as female and that's all that we care about. what's in their pants is irrelevant to how this person chooses to identify themselves.

[@nickelliott5182]

@@MW-sv1dp okay clown

[@linzlsleepy1627]

Last time I was this early I collected all the coconuts on the island

[@linzlsleepy1627]

@Jupiter Foxx Great for me, not for thee!

[@beanie1124]

can i have one?

[@beanieguitarguy4070]

@@beanie1124 You should choose a hobby and an identity to complete your name.

[@beanie1124]

@@beanieguitarguy4070 brother

[@strongbone9471]

Coconuts are disgusting you can have all of them.

[@isadoramoon7521]

In my culture if you are constantly smiling (man or a woman) for no reason at all people will find you very creepy and untrustworthy, they will think you are trying to hide something behind that smile or just being fake 🤷‍♀️

[@cjboyo]

Isn’t that usually cultures where emotion is expressed through the eyes? American expressions are in the mouth so people think a smile indicates someone is open and trustworthy.

[@johnwick535]

Can I move to wherever you are from?

[@isadoramoon7521]

@@cjboyo that's right. I remember there once was (like in the early 2000) an american documentary about my country and it's people. The american's who made that documentary came to their conclusion that we must be miserable because we didn't smile constantly (my country is one of the happiest countries In the world) They tested this by filming random people minding their own business. People In my culture especially do not like it at all if they are filmed, most of them will be awkward and stiff while filmed.

[@haydenandersen9937]

@@johnwick535 Seriously, I fucken hate forcing myself to smile, I always feel like a psychopath lol.

[@TheKarret]

@@isadoramoon7521 lol Murrican here, I'd side-eye someone trying to randomly film me.

[@menshevikbear176]

Abby should really just give up at this point.

[@painovoimaton]

she probably gets enough money for this I guess

[@Evannnnnnnn2]

She should just become a Minecraft youtuber

[@Erinski]

The smile thing, I feel like white people are that way toward black people as well. Met plenty of white people that love someone like Wayne Brady, but a more stoic black man isn't nearly as popular, even if they're in a similar fashion of someone like Clint Eastwood, who is popular for those same traits. It's like people want to see a smile on members of historically oppressed groups.

[@philipfrisk805]

Interesting take, bro.

[@delila5034]

Except Samuel L Jackson.

[@Fantallana]

Yeah, definitely has to do with oppressor groups feeling threatened when marginalized groups don’t look happy to be in their glorious presence. They’re not CONSCIOUSLY thinking that, but subconsciously? Yeah that’s where their threatened feelings come from. “I’m not feeling validated by this woman/minority.” “they’re not showing me enough appreciation for being nice/treating them like a human being.”

[@servoaugusta513]

If one wants someone to smile more they should probably try doing something that would encourage that person to do so genuinely. Instead of just demanding said person smile.

[@devinodriscoll]

The story of Sonny Liston is a PRIME example of that. People hated him despite his attempts to be a good man, because he was stoic and had a history.

[@veronicahair7427]

Abby: "Don't wear your hair in a ponytail" Vaush: *immediately takes out ponytail*

[@stephaniegeorge6444]

She told me to dress modestly but now I have to be attractive for my man & he likes see-through shirts with no bra *lol*

[@servoaugusta513]

Huh, that’s actually something worth noting. Conservatives like Abbie though braying for women to dress in a way to attract “good men” through dressing modestly always expect women to keep to that standard. I guess Abby just wants you to find a second husband

[@msgirly6827]

@@servoaugusta513 right like were does dressing modestly stop? Should you dress modestly when its just you and him? Must the lingerie be modest as well? What about the nightwear?

[@jlp6864]

@@msgirly6827 republicans are either totally vanilla or complete freaks in bed theres no inbetween

[@stephaniegeorge6444]

@@servoaugusta513 *giggles

[@servoaugusta513]

@Stephanie George, seriously though I think conservatives like Shapiro do generally view women as always having not only appeal to men they love and care for, but men in general always in public. Show a visible effort to please men in the dominant culture in a society. You may not be looking for a husband. That doesn’t matter to Shapiro it’s still your obligation to dress in a way that signals significant care towards wanting to be approved by men.

[@samuelbarber5097]

guys: "I love when a girl wears no makeup" *posts a picture of a girl wearing concealer, foundation, blush, mascara, eyeshadow, highlighter, nude lipstick, etc.*

[@supermutantsam1160]

Abby seems like she’s trying real hard to cope with how much shit she gets every video. She says some shit like, “I’m gonna get hate for this,” at least three times, it’s really insufferable lol

[@LimeyLassen]

That's the toxic positivity.

[@scotiadragoon5974]

She’s said nothing. Nothing at all. “Want to be attractive? Do non-specific things to be attractive!” The specifics noted( since she references her husband) apply to her husband. So, ladies, these are the things that you need to do to be attractive to Abbie Shapiro’s husband. We all advertise ourselves all of the time. The angle to take is to determine what audience we wish to advertise to, and present one’s self in a manner befitting that group. The most succinct thing would be to dress ( including makeup) neatly and appropriately to the situation that you’re involving yourself. Be comfortable in yourself and people will notice.

[@jlp6864]

truuueee like if you wear sundresses youll get attantion from men who find that attractive and if you wear more masculine clothing youll get attention from men who like that. so you shouldnt change the way you present yourself because you will be expected to do that EVERY SINGLE DAY FROM NOW ON

[@djtoxicdhg]

Abby gives S tear advice for woman in the 1920s;)

[@soulslvr9562]

No no that advice is too conservative for the 1920's try a century back... The 1820's xD

[@anarchomando7707]

Never heard of a flapper my friend Heck even in the 40s we had knowledge of transgender surgery (thank you Weimar Republic for being so inclusive Just add it to another thing to hate the third Reich )

[@videogamenostalgia]

"wear a nice dress, smile, uh... put on some perfume" this is the advice I would give if I, a cishet male, were asked to deliver a seminar to women on how to be attractive with about 5 seconds' prep time

[@anarchomando7707]

@@videogamenostalgia no tomboys are better

[@djtoxicdhg]

@@soulslvr9562 true lol

[@isaiahK0V]

Edited Vaush feels like an alternate dimension

[@mandyroo3375]

I was raised to "sit down and be quiet" to "only speak when spoken to", taught to put on a fake face in public....it's very much like those depression commercials where the ppl carry around a happy face mask. I worked a job, where men walked by constantly while I would be cleaning up, and they walk by and tell me to smile.....I'm mopping a floor, do you want me to sustain that smile while I mop? while I scrub dishes? At this point, telling me to smile as a 40 yo woman, it's offensive and I will shove it in your face.

[@johnnyestrada6993]

If missionary was a person, it would be Abby Shapiro.

[@sadtitties222]

Hey now, missionary can be fun (you just need to have an imagination), but the way Abby makes it sound....yikes she would probably put you to sleep before she even came into the room, lol. 😂

[@msgirly6827]

Yall need stop shading missionary fr💀

[@SoWhosGae]

Take that back about missionary. It's one of the best positions to get to the G spot.

[@Olivetree80]

Not really, missionaries I've known have been super down to earth and non judgmental.

[@msgirly6827]

@@Olivetree80 he means the other missionary

[@Anthonycheesman33]

Basically her whole channel is appeal to men without actually appealing to men no dude wants a woman who wears 3 layers of clothes at the damn beach lol.

[@yunix2396]

Aldens smile signifies that he has the Coconuts.

[@prajwaljayaraj5887]

🤣🤣🤣

[@caad5258]

ooooooooooh noooooooooooooooo

[@HowBlairYou]

I'm not smiling. I'm fucking laughing at Abby.

[@caad5258]

I wonder if her mantra is " Live , *LAUGH* , _Love_ "

[@AnimeFan9833]

YOU JUST FELL FOR HER TRICK :0

[@HowBlairYou]

No because my laugh can be very unflattering

[@singularity___]

I haven't even watched and I'm already rolling my eyes back into my skull

[@jessehenderson2967]

Dont have a seizure....

[@singularity___]

@@jessehenderson2967 Too late.

[@scottvelez3154]

If you roll your eyes you might see a plankton controlling you. I saw it on TV.

[@Izuuun]

I'm gonna point out that women usually smile when they feel awkward or uncomfortable so it's interesting that men have this weird obsession with making them feel that way and then getting that awkward smile 🤔 it's almost as if men treat women as things that exist for their entertainment

[@belakun1244]

She's just describing what she's wearing.

[@handsdown7945]

@@willepiot2726 looks like the star of David with the symbol for Sikhism inside?? Maybe??

[@handsdown7945]

Nope not sikhism. No idea lol

[@caad5258]

Why'd you'd think she plugged her conservative "only fans" at the begging of the video?

[@handsdown7945]

@@willepiot2726 I have no clue lol

[@SevenDayGaming]

"Smile more!" Like cults smile more? Like I smile more behind the register? Like it's a fucking Disney movie and something dark happened last scene? Oh yeah, that makes sense. Hey, is anybody else's skin crawling?

[@vantahawk2834]

"You can shit yourself and people will associate it with you" - Now I know why Kaitlin Bennett has been known well beyond her college's borders..

[@jaikthesnake6285]

Can't believe Voosh doesn't have a full red line across the Quinton reviews iCarly video smh

[@th3rasave]

ikr lol maybe at some point

[@NutellaMosley]

I'm unsubbing.

[@ivang201]

It's surreal seeing actual editing lately. I'm hard

[@123sarge123]

Conservatives watched Stepford Wives, and thought "Yeah this is absolutely how women should act, and look how happy they are! Can't be miserable, if they're smiling :)"

[@kchofer1741]

Is her message “there’s nothing wrong with pretending to be something you’re not to get laid?”

[@rastufrusss4986]

Just like Barney Stenson

[@swaerd3264]

Another couple thoughts: Sundresses are definitely attractive, and dresses are really hot in the 'dressed up' kind of way that I *imagine* suits can be for people attracted to men (or to women who wear suits). But in general my first impressions as a straight guy are really positive of women in jeans and comfy t-shirts, or leggins or whatever. Most women I find attractive are just attractive pretty much whatever they're wearing. And the smiling thing... of course smiling is attractive. But, like, holy shit can we back off the 'smile more' meme? All the women who have been attracted to me have smiled plenty at me, because they were interested. If a woman isn't smiling you don't have to fucking psychoanalyse them. I don't smile all the time, or even frequently, without specific reason. It's a normal person thing...

[@SoWhosGae]

What's a sundress to men?

[@carmensavu5122]

I'm a woman attracted to men and I have to say, I really, really don't understand the suit thing. I hate them on men, and I hate them on women. Suits basically make it impossible for me to tell anything about that man, because they essentially make these men dress the same. A man's clothing style can tell me quite a bit about what that man is about, what his interests are, etc. If I see a guy dressed in a hippie attire, on the other hand, that catches my interest immediately.

[@azuresky4984]

@@carmensavu5122 Same except I don’t really heat them on men. I just don’t really care.

[@SoWhosGae]

@@carmensavu5122 You're a weird one then. Never met a woman who's not into formal or semi formal clothing on men. You don't have to wear a whole tuxedo but tailored blazers, shirts, good pants make a man instantly more attractive and different from everybody else in the crowd. Granted they should all fit great. Literally all men wear is jeans and some boring t-shirt or smth similar to it.

[@FrenkieWest32]

@@carmensavu5122 You do realize that theres different types of formal attire the same way as theres different types of informal attire? Saying people who wear suits all dress the same is as strange as saying everyone who wears in hippie attire dresses the same.

[@manderly33]

“Dresses accentuated the differences between men and women.” They . . . do? It depends on the dress. Some are more straight-up-and-down or full, ESPECIALLY sundresses. Like that one commenter said, some sundresses are quite girlish/childish. Like Hannah of Hannah & Jake said, Abby’s advice always make it sound like she’s an alien who just landed on Earth. It’s so rudimentary. PS: some dudes hate perfume, my husband being one of them.

[@decembervyne6541]

I was thinking the same thing! A dress can be a shapeless smock, not all of them “accentuate” your figure.

[@handsdown7945]

An additional benefit to having tattoos IMO is knowing that it will repel the kind of men that don't like tattoos.

[@carmensavu5122]

Exactly!!! They joke about tattooing and dyeing hair in cold colors like green or blue to be similar to aposematism (mechanism trough which some species advertise themselves as poisonous to ward off predators). Well, hey, if it's warding off conservative men, it means it's working! Also, I found it interesting that, knowing the type of man I'm interested in, my best friends have advised me to show off my tatts more. That can certainly be arranged.

[@bigpooper4156]

@@carmensavu5122 I find that joke very funny because in that scenario where women are warding those men off, the men are outright calling themselves predators

[@justintsui2522]

saying that there are times that girls dress up and wear make up for themselves makes her more of a feminist than Jordan Peterson

[@mntestav]

I very much disagree with this Abby Shapiro video on makeup. Bad makeup looks bad, but I think really stylized unnaturally colorful make up is attractive, and I am a straight man. Perhaps conservative men like women with less makeup because it makes them more comfortable. Obviously, dress how you like, but I just don't think this statement about makeup is true for plenty of not super traditional dudes. Edit: Not that she mentions it, but I can guess her opinion on brightly colored hair, and I am a fan of that too

[@Orphus]

"I'm sure there are some underlying biases that contribute to my desire to go soft on her." Pity, maybe?

[@caad5258]

It'd be weirder if he went HARD

[@sadtitties222]

I wouldn't go soft on her if I were to talk to her/talk about her to be honest. Abby ain't some innocent, delicate flower. She knows exactly what she's doing. I will treat her the same way I treat anyone who says and does stupid, ignorant shit. I don't pity her, but that's just me.

[@witchflowers6942]

13:10 NO they like “goths” not Goths™️. Normie dudes look at someone with teased hair, layers of torn black clothes, and goth eyebrows, and they’re put off.

[@fcrw2120]

Why you gotta gatekeep goth like that.. i dont mean to sound mean, but like, maybe some people just want to go for a more simple aesthetic.. i think both are good, so long as they are expressing themselves in a way that makes them happy.

[@fcrw2120]

@chindican oh, i misunderstood the comment then... My pea brain thought that they were dissing lite goths, not the people that say they like goths until they meet the more campy side of the fashion. My mistake.

[@jodinha4225]

Please stop gate keeping an aesthetic…

[@SoWhosGae]

@@jodinha4225 Goth is not just an "aesthetic", it's a lifestyle. Ppl who are in it just for the aesthetics aren't really IN it.

[@witchflowers6942]

@@SoWhosGae “everyone wants a goth GF till it’s her turn with the aux”😔

[@kayleigh1991]

I was having an actual panic attack once and some random guy told me to smile 🙃

[@SS-xr7jf]

If you love wearing heavy makeup all the time, then you should probably wear heavy makeup when looking for a man because that’s generally what he’s gonna be seeing. It also quickly weeds out all of the men who have a problem with it, who you didn’t want to waste time with anyways.

[@mollusk6130]

i always forget that that abby isn't just ben shapiros wife, like a millhouses parents situation

[@puppyuck]

Ok this was overall enjoyable but “I think girls just like wearing make up idk if that’s biological” is without a doubt the most thoughtless take I’ve ever heard

[@FernBunbury]

I thought that was a joke from Vaush, but it seems it may have came off as crass.

[@gab3926]

Yup, like make-up wasn't originally made for men to wear, like pharaons in Ancient Egypt XD

[@Mastikator]

Prehistoric neanderthal women evolved to wear mascara and lipstick. It's evo-psy 101 LMAO

[@SoWhosGae]

@@Mastikator Haven't you heard Peterson? Women emulate arousal and sexiness through makeup. Dreamy "bedroom" eyes, reddish lips and cheeks etc. Rouuuugeee 😂

[@MysterousBear]

Love the guy but Vaush comes out with the most smooth brain takes like once a video, he just says it with such confidence and is constantly operating with a degree of irony so it flies under the radar

[@burnttoast111]

Vaush is just ignoring how The Joker is universally considered to be the hottest fictional character because of the non-stop smiles.

[@spazzitronmcgee6254]

When Vaush got into the dress discussion an ad played for the next Rue Paul show and it was absolutely amazing.

[@nickculver1864]

Unironically I don't like women in makeup, unironically my girlfriend doesn't wear makeup and I still find her beautiful.

[@lovegood1376]

Omg is vaush getting skinnier and skinnier?? Work king ✨

[@OnlyRoke]

Women who smile constantly freak me out. When I was at uni and I'd see a young woman just smiling incessantly during class and even in the breaks, it was always the type of person who would just hold very shallow conversations and that's it. It always felt like they were putting on a mask and there was no way to strike up a normal chat that wouldn't revolve around the weather or which pages to read for class. Always had that air of fakeness.

[@varun009]

"C'mon, baby, give us a smile!" - abiGAYle Shapiro

[@tareke586]

You should force yourself to smile to attract a mate. Because that makes total sense according to her.

[@maxinesenior596]

7:49 Vaush going "hey." made butterflies in my stomach >///////

[@elKinesis]

Abby's video reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend about this same topic the other night. She stated that she wants to dress more "feminine". Wear dresses, makeup, perfume, etc. The stuff that Abby mentions. However, when she does that, guys turn into fucking creeps. She gets cat-called and leered at, making her uncomfortable. So, as a reaction, it's less dresses and nice shoes, more black jeans and combat boots. I think that Abby is missing that aspect of this topic.

[@maxyboy9648]

There is absolutely NO way this woman isnt reading a script

[@Zeverish]

Oh my god, dresses are attractive because they are reminiscent of youth/childhood? Jesus christ chat, I know we have an unhealthy fascination with youth but not every facet of attraction is born out being predatory to children.

[@sadtitties222]

Exactly! Holy fucksticks Batman! Like, that commenter really irked me with that shit. Such an overeach, jfc. Not everything needs to be perverted people! Just let cute and hot mfs wear what they want and look amazing while doing so!

[@Erinski]

I'm a little weirded out by how much she and her brother look alike. I'm not entirely convinced this isn't Ben in a wig, trying to make it seem like he's got female support for his sexist views.

[@sara_daria2]

LITERALLY they look like twins not siblings. It's so weird

[@cjboyo]

Someday the real Abigail Shapiro is going to escape from the cupboard she’s locked in and come out as a socialist 😂

[@anarchomando7707]

Snapchat filter he is not doing the effort to even do the makeup right

[@mayaxo9673]

the part about natural makeup is so true LMAO i’ve seen that on twitter so many times where a guy will post a pic of a girl with really light makeup and say “i love the bare faced natural look 😍”

[@curseyoujordanshow]

True story: I am a man, and I once was fired from a job because I didn't "smile enough". What was the job, you ask? Security Guard. Yes...apparently, my boss believed that smiling and wearing a constant, fake, forced affectation on my face all day long was somehow integral to performing the duties of a security guard. Because after all, when you think of a person who's there to keep you safe, the first thing you envision is some soyboy with a big dopey grin, right? FYI, this particular boss of mine was well-known for having a major stick up his ass and seemed to have a problem with every single person on his staff, to the point where he would just make up and spread lies about employees for the sake of having an excuse to disparage them. But I digress. So ladies, while I'm sure being told to "smile more" is exceptionally annoying, and I have no doubt you have to put up with it a thousand times worse than men do, but just know that it's something men on occasion also have to deal with, and in cases like mine, can actually lose their livelihood over.

[@nob2243]

7:38 Like, you can just walk up to a girl and be like: "Hey." ~ Gigachad Vaush, 2021

[@PumkRock]

Lmaooooooo My wife was the polar opposite of this shit when I met her. I was a skinny shy goth kid, She was a tomboy with panda-eye punk rock make-up and facial piercings, who literally never wore a dress, had this insane dyed razor-fringe, and always had this resting death stare and a take-no-shit assertive attitude. I instantly fell for her. We are in our 20s now, and while she does the "natural" make up look more often now (she's crazy good at make-up, learnt it all from tutorials on youtube) and has forsaken dye for her natural strawberry blonde hair colour, she still wears her hair in this cool as fuck undercut style- and will even put on a dress from time to time... with the explicit intent of showing off her tattoos. And as far as I'm concerned, she's the most beautiful women in the the world. IT'S ALMOST LIKE DIFFERENT MEN HAVE DIFFERENT PREFERENCES AND THERE MIGHYT ACTUALLY BE SOMETHING TO THE "BE YOURSELF" CLICHÉ????? WOAH NO WAY?

[@generalerica4123]

"talk less, smile more..." ~ Abigail "Burr" Shapiro.

[@Piratewaffle43]

I remember when I was taking driver's ed. and I was driving with other students, the old driving instructor creepily advised one of the female students to smile more. Made my skin crawl.

[@scottsbarbarossalogic3665]

"Always smile, because no one is more attractive to men than The Joker"

[@scottsbarbarossalogic3665]

The editor make the same joke... We truly live in a society

[@krelekari]

As someone who smiled all through my childhood and teens and early 20s (because I naturally have a resting bitch face and I didn't want people to think I hated them) you tend to attract pessimistic people and people that generally judge others as habit. Which can and does erode the happy-go-lucky attitude you used to have because suddenly you have to appease people drawn to your youthful energy but saying really doomer shit. I lost a lot of my energy simply from proximity and that is something no one talks about

[@cheeto.burrito]

Abigail's smile has always unsettled me and I'm starting to understand why

[@muffintoast4829]

14:47 "Its a meme on the internet" sounds like something someone who doesnt know what memes or the internet would say.

[@kelva1304]

I like it when a girl is bitchy/whiny at times even about small things. But only if they are self-aware about it and can take it when you make fun of them for it. It's a fun dynamic. Smiling all the time is like a smokescreen too, it masks how you really feel from your partner. Also ponytails are one of my major weaknesses...

[@God_gundam36]

The point about the creepy smiling 24/7 thing really gives me some weird thought about abbys situation considering abby is never not smiling and also a hardcore trad wife. Like if you look at her long enough you'll catch a tear running down her face as she flutters her eye leashes in morose code. Like when that dude got flashed by the camera in get out.

[@gobbelgub4031]

You mean, it feels like she was in a miserable cult? Like, conservative?

[@God_gundam36]

@@gobbelgub4031 she's grew up with ben How do you think she's doing? Could you imagine the arguments?

[@ChaosundSandale]

Forced smiling is indeed endlessly creepy.

[@gobbelgub4031]

@@God_gundam36 well, hypothetically, lets say i break another one of your toys. lets say, i break three. Why would you not simply sell them and buy new ones?

[@edvard8449]

"There is a moral imperative to be happy"

[@decembervyne6541]

This is not an attack on Abby's looks, but I just can't take her seriously about make up when she pairs that yellow eye-shadow with her complexion...

[@kaitlynmcdowell8167]

yeah it looks like jaundice

[@carmensavu5122]

SO MUCH THIS!!! She has no business giving anyone advice about makeup, her taste is horrible.

[@videogamenostalgia]

This is just the classic Shapiro "my own weird insular conservative existence is the ONLY CORRECT WAY TO LIVE" thing that Abby and her foul brother engage in.

[@Kittsim]

As a French person you’re all insane. Literally no one smiles here. Unless you’re at like Disneyland lmao. For no malicious reason, no ones resting face is a smile. I refuse to believe it.

[@laurens3091]

The constant smiling and laughing is sometimes a way that autistic women mask. I knew a few girls in highschool who did that (and it felt pretty intense) who later found out they were ASD.

[@sadtitties222]

You just described my life in a nutshell, haha. This is exactly what happened with me.

[@lanechange1]

It’s difficult to know if she’s mocking or genuine. She’s sad either way

[@Alpine_Nightly]

I still get PTSD chills from my ex when I smell coconut scented body wash.