It's weird how motherhood has become a performance to be consumed on social media.
@nedrostram23609 ай бұрын
Social media is in itself a performance. And people are suckers for two things - pets and babies.
@Gloomdrake9 ай бұрын
What hasn’t?
@orionnebula11369 ай бұрын
@@Gloomdrake True :/
@leadleader20239 ай бұрын
It is very weird, but then again, everything these days literally is a performance to be consumed on social media.
@lilredcutie09 ай бұрын
@@Gloomdrake This is the sad truth.
@SpiralSine69 ай бұрын
“She ended up having a few of them and wanted more” Yeah no shit she asked for a pb&j for breakfast and you got it to her by lunch, kid was hungry.
@OctyabrAprelya9 ай бұрын
And now you know why bakeries start their shifts at 4 am.
@VictrolaIX9 ай бұрын
“Poorer women having been working forever” THANK YOU! Yes in the 1950s until her death in the 70s my grandmother worked in a dress factory. One of the things she did was sewing the linings into winter coats. Some families had the luxury of one income during the time that conservatives love to lionize but many didn’t.
@52flyingbicycles9 ай бұрын
Everyone helped out with farming duties way back when. There’s a reason medieval frescos show men and women in the fields
@DoctorBiobrain9 ай бұрын
My mom was a housewife. She never wore makeup in the house. Meanwhile, I’m a dude making banana oatmeal pancakes just for myself while watching this because all grownups should know how to cook. What Andrew Tate sells is perpetual adolescence.
@nerag74599 ай бұрын
Don't forget the MLM scam he runs (well used to run), he sells that as well.
@KOZMOuvBORG9 ай бұрын
Peter Pan Syndrome - i.e., refuses to grow up.
@roxanneboudreau9039 ай бұрын
Agreed! I am a stay at home mom, but I would have never married a man that didn’t know how to cook. I watched my mom do everything for my dad, and I realized quite young that I did not want that kind of marriage.
@SnuSnuDungeon9 ай бұрын
Banana oatmeal pancakes sound delicious
@androgenius_alisa9 ай бұрын
@@nerag7459 I didn't read the right mlm the first time, lol
@samueleborn99099 ай бұрын
Growing up as a Mormon guy, I hadn’t even realized how much women were groomed into being subservient tradwives since a lot of that grooming happened in young women’s lessons, where I wouldn’t have seen it. I was basically taught that women were just naturally perfect wives, which in turn was used to groom me into heteronormative gender roles by telling me “here’s what you have to do to be a husband worthy of these innately subservient women.” It also made me expect women to be perfect and subservient, and when I found out that they weren’t it wasn’t hard for the online right to gull me with incel talking points. You and other socialists really helped me get out of all that, Vaush. Thank you.
@marzipancutter81449 ай бұрын
That's really interesting. So they're taking aside both sides and telling them "the other half is doing all this naturally with no effort so you have to be like this with a lot of effort" and as long as they aren't ever encouraged to communicate properly they'll never find out both of them are forced to live a lie for the sake of the lie the other person lives? Sounds like a reciprocal hell.
@devi---9 ай бұрын
Congrats on getting out of that mindset!
@RobotMasterSplash9 ай бұрын
@@marzipancutter8144Yep, that's the ideal relationship under all conservative Christian faiths. The way they handle it is just slightly different.
@lisaayres-zp5jj9 ай бұрын
"you aren't allowed to shit unless you eat the crust" parent of the year
@karadanvers96489 ай бұрын
I don’t eat the crust of pizza because that belongs to the dog
@fordalels9 ай бұрын
@@karadanvers9648 if eating the crust of the pizza makes me a dog then bark bark
@biteofdog9 ай бұрын
I usually call the crust pizza bones. @@karadanvers9648
@cyrus64619 ай бұрын
@@fordalels I think they meant that they give their crust to their dog as a treat, I mean unless it's stuffed crust that's what I did with my old dogs
@fordalels9 ай бұрын
@@cyrus6461 the dog can order their own pizza smh
@foramoreperfectamerica84909 ай бұрын
"Andrew Tate grimly carries out his duty to be muscular and bald" lol
@markzuckergecko6219 ай бұрын
If you listened to a little less Vaush and Hunter Avalone, and a little bit of something else, you might not be a pathetic pussy loser that's going to die a virgin.
@missinterpretation49849 ай бұрын
That fckn sent me 😂💀
@foramoreperfectamerica84909 ай бұрын
@@missinterpretation4984 Same its one of those quotes I'll never forget.
@markzuckergecko6219 ай бұрын
@@foramoreperfectamerica8490 if you ever grew a muscle, your body would reject it like it's venom.
@foramoreperfectamerica84909 ай бұрын
@@markzuckergecko621 You are a pain in my ass in Hunter's comments and now you're following me over here? Seriously?
@Gyati9 ай бұрын
Andrea Tate
@joey_youtube9 ай бұрын
Anal Taste
@bign95739 ай бұрын
Android tape
@Grundlesweat9 ай бұрын
Sounds hot
@Tubepoacher9 ай бұрын
MORE LIKE ANDREW TITS
@indigomage28339 ай бұрын
So happy for her transition:)
@brianhotaling58499 ай бұрын
Those sleeves will catch fire in any kitchen
@sunfeatherX39 ай бұрын
Yeah if I was doing all that you best believe I look like a kitchen wench
@SaraphDarklaw9 ай бұрын
It’s some weird cosplay for sure.
@WASDLeftClick9 ай бұрын
Also it’s impossible to make bread without getting flour on yourself. She did an outfit change between takes.
@seamstressdragon87079 ай бұрын
Did you know that 2nd biggest killer of women before the 20th century was cooking as their large skirts would easily catch fire so everyone please wear sensible clothing whilst cooking, regardless of gender :)
@hefancy69219 ай бұрын
@@WASDLeftClickit’s possible if you use a stand mixer but if you’re in a bakery you’re going to get flour on you
@sunfeatherX39 ай бұрын
A lot of people genuinely want to stay in the home and that’s perfectly fine. I don’t have an issue with people deciding these things but they always bring tradwife gender role horrible stuff into it. It takes the love and care of the home out of the equation.
@KingJT809 ай бұрын
some people believe that this is the ONLY way it should be but a real feminists take would be to say, a woman should be able to make that choice on her own vs having society tell her HOW and WHAT she should be doing
@markzuckergecko6219 ай бұрын
It worked fine for about 99% of human history. And the other 1% has been an unmitigated disaster, people have never been more depressed and mentally ill than they are right now in western liberal nations.
@badwolf36189 ай бұрын
@@KingJT80I think you are being too generous to feminists here, even if you put the word "real" in front of it. I have seen Feminists complain about this sort of thing even if the woman insists this the lifestyle she wants for herself. I have seen them say that women like this are just brainwashed whether they realize it or not, and those women should be discouraged from having such a lifestyle. They think women need to be saved from themselves and thus tradwives need to be stopped. There is a lot less acceptance for this sort of thing amongst feminists than people realize. To be clear, I do not want a tradwife
@Pharomid9 ай бұрын
@KingJT80 we already live in that world, next. What else does a feminist fight for?
@phelan83859 ай бұрын
@@Pharomidwhat an ignorant comment 😂
@aethelflaed68149 ай бұрын
“She ended up having a few and wanting more” YEAH BECAUSE YOU MADE A TODDLER WAIT 3 HOURS TO EAT BREAKFAST! She also was very obviously reading a recipe. She really only broke character once or twice, but the second rising was “about 30 minutes to an hour”-you just made this bread and you don’t remember how long it sat while your toddler moaned IM HUNGRY MOMMY? (Nothing against people who make everything from scratch, but the idea of not having at least one of these premade from the last PBJ is ridiculous. Totally broke the immersion for me.)
@yogidevendrabiriyani17779 ай бұрын
Ofc not, she denied the toddler breakfast and then fed her a big lunch. Also, she may be overfeeding her, the kid will be fat. Also these people don't seem to know that "cooking prep" is a thing. Did she think the kid magically wasnt going to be hungry tomorrow?
@mutantie9 ай бұрын
I make a lot from scratch and one of the cool things about jelly is that you can make a bunch once a year and then never again..... She didn't have to do it like this . (Peanut butter is more like once every month and bread well. Why not make it the night before ? Or have it ready to go in the morning...??)
@henriquepacheco74739 ай бұрын
@@yogidevendrabiriyani1777 this entire video is a fake script. She didn't make this because the toddler wanted a sammy. She wanted to make a tiktok video about making a pb&j from scratch and add tradwife roleplay on it.
@Segphalt9 ай бұрын
The number of times the outfit changed probaly should have been your first tip off that this wasnt all the same prep let alone the same day. This is a conglomeration of multiple days recording.
@marzipancutter81449 ай бұрын
She wanted more? Guess I'll make another bread for 3 more hours...
@toddregnier49669 ай бұрын
It comes down to voluntary vs compulsory. If you have the means to stay at home, spend hours making bread and sewing clothes, and you genuinely want to, by all means go for it. But don't push the idea that this is the only way women can function in society. Being a career woman, staying single, a queer polycule, and any other choice you want to make are equally valid.
@flor93899 ай бұрын
I’d go into it with eyes wide open, though. Being financially dependent on anyone means you can end up in a really bad place. So many of my friends had middle aged moms scrambling to survive because their husbands left them for someone else or had only stayed because of the kids. You put up with a lot more bs when the choice is between near poverty and living comfortably.
@oo-vivian9 ай бұрын
What does polycule mean?
@TheGreatestJediOfAllTime9 ай бұрын
Man I hate the way you people talk. But I agree.
@ayoubzahiri19189 ай бұрын
Fart
@ChandraHatesGenocide9 ай бұрын
@@flor9389 Exactly. When you're dependent, the line between voluntary and compulsory starts to blur. Lots of decisions that seem great don't look so good twenty years down the line. As a middle-aged woman, I have a whole lot of friends who've faced the sorry choice between staying in a situation where they are mistreated or starting over with nothing. And it's not just tradwife types, it's women who only worked part-time or took "dead-end" jobs that offered them the flexibility to chauffeur their kids around.
@abramfedorov44839 ай бұрын
To the person who said she's just making a sandwich, she's making a sandwich for three hours. A real non larp housewife makes their dough the night before, or even the bread if they're getting wild.
@Wolfgang8-Y9 ай бұрын
fr fr Doing the second proof overnight in the fridge makes your bread taste so much better.
@yogidevendrabiriyani17779 ай бұрын
YES THIS!!! As someone who actually bakes good homemade bread, this entire video makes zero sense. And she's ignoring her daughter
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
Video editing exists, the portion of her making bread is likely pre recorded material. She likely makes her bread all the time same with jam and PB. My grandma made EVERYTHING from scratch. The thing i highly doubt is that her daughter asked for a PB sandwich.
@fluidthought429 ай бұрын
@@toedrag-release Oh absolutely it's an edit, but the narrative framing of doing it all in one day is still super stupid. It doesn't help anyone, especially those that are actually interested in making good bread. If your recipe video doesn't help people make better food more effeciently then what's the point really, especially if it actively obscures the effort and timing necessary for proper prep.
@ConspireTheMuse9 ай бұрын
@@fluidthought42 Bullseye. It's all performative, meaning it isn't just a nice educational video on how to make a kicking pb+j. It's a type of propaganda.
@Wolfgang8-Y9 ай бұрын
Yeah, Vaush has good points on the history of working women and reactionary RETVRN content but... y'all see that bread fake out? The bread she used for the sandwich is not what she baked. The bread she baked has an uneven, dense crumb (underproofed) and the sandwich bread has a perfect crumb and perfect, even slices. And why would you cut so much extra bread off with the crusts? Even without the crusts, the homemade is larger than her palm and taller than it is wide. Weird how cutting the crusts off made her bread exactly the same size and square shape as a standard store bought sandwich loaf. The "mini" sandwiches are to disguise the fact she had to pull out the Sara Lee lmao
@Skibbityboo05809 ай бұрын
You are absolutely correct. I worked in a bakery for 10 years, and I noticed the underproofed crumb as well.
@antlerbraum28819 ай бұрын
That’s really annoying, I mean commit to the bit at least.
@trippingthelight9 ай бұрын
no! don't point out that she doesn't know what she's doing... we might realize she's full of sh*t. Seriously, this is 100% theater. I bet she's never attempted this prior to this video, or since. Also, feathered sleeves while you cook food? 🤮
@AveragePearEnjoyer9 ай бұрын
For the same reason that there isn't a real pizza in pornos.
@nicoledreamcr46669 ай бұрын
Lol I wonder how much trauma she went through after failing to slice homemade bread. Bad tradwife, baaaaaad. Hubby will give her proper spanking for pastry not being up to his standards.
@255ad9 ай бұрын
back in the 1970s there was like a bakers strike or something in the UK and my grandmother had to bake bread because it wasn't available in the supermarket for several weeks. When it was over my grand father suggested she keep making the family's bread because he thought it tasted better but she flatly refused because it was a pain in the ass that took hours of her day every morning.
@yogidevendrabiriyani17779 ай бұрын
I make homemade bread too but only sometimes. It doesnt take hours but is quite an effort including clean up and so on
@LeCharles079 ай бұрын
based
@thumbwarriordx9 ай бұрын
Fresh bread is notoriously not necessarily cheaper to make. Professional bakery scale dunks on making one loaf, industrial scale exceeds it even more than that but industrial bread is like... not good. Generally home baked bread is a lowkey luxury item that saves you no money before you even factor in the time.
@andydyer65919 ай бұрын
Fresh bakery bread is the optimum because it was made by someone whose job is to make nice bread and goes through dozens of iterations per day. The appeal of home baked bread is mainly the IKEA effect: you like it not so much because of how it tastes but because of the effort and sense of accomplishment in making it. If you were to give it to a complete stranger with no context they would almost certainly rate it lower than the bakery bread.
@willguggn29 ай бұрын
@@andydyer6591 You can learn how to make really good proper bread. Most bakeries use a ton of additives to better automate the process. Most people nowadays preferring highly processed garbage over real bread--be it homemade or baked by a traditional bakery--and food in general doesn't mean it's better.
@neildepressedtyson5409 ай бұрын
I think PB&J means Peterson, biblical lectures and Jungian archetypes when a mormon kid asks for it
@jacqueshardin46019 ай бұрын
As some raised Mormon, this cracked me up. 😂
@neildepressedtyson5409 ай бұрын
My condolences :)@@jacqueshardin4601
@Revelwoodie9 ай бұрын
"What's for dinner, honey?" "Sorry babe, spent all day on PB&J." Seriously though, housewife here, and this is a COMPLETE FRAUD. These videos are appealing to people who are so unfamiliar with this life, that this crap seems plausible. It's a LIE. And it's encouraging young women to pursue a life of thankless drudgery. If you even suspect you might want a domestic life, talk to an older woman who's lived that way for 20 years. Get the real data.
@Manolara19 ай бұрын
Just let them trial it for a week, see how they go. Prob quit after 3 days.
@Are_you_eyeballing_me9 ай бұрын
“Babe why are there three stand mixers five saucepans eleven cups fifteen measuring spoons seven knives and two cutting board in the sink?” “I was making PB&J sorry didn’t get around to dishes”
@blackwatertv70189 ай бұрын
They are trying to romanticize this lifestyle because in their mind, they are somehow “antiestablishment” (it’s not) it’s arguably the default setting (no offense) but as always the the key factor and all this *is choice* That’s what feminist support
@zuiop99939 ай бұрын
@@Are_you_eyeballing_me I have three siblings and my mother was most of the time a stay at home mom while I was young. She did a lot of the stuff this woman did. Baking bread (not with the normal flour, but special healthy one that you can only buy at special stores), making homemade jelly, cooking almost every day. We even had a garden were we grew tomatoes, zuccini, salad,... (my parents are the kind of people that are a little bit too worried about chemicals and stuff) I even knew a lot of other families who did this kind of stuff. None of these moms would ever get long fingernails and were perfectly styled. That shit takes A LOT OF WORK!
@tirushone64469 ай бұрын
Your telling me you don't just have 3 hours on a week day to make a pb&j? One a serious note though I get tired out just making a normal meal that take 30-40 minutes, I don't think I would have the energy to do anything else after spending this much time making a sandwich of all things.
@johnwu89169 ай бұрын
Also. I want to know. How did she manage to keep a dark dress so clean while making bread without an apron.
@trippingthelight9 ай бұрын
or black feathers falling into the food 🤮
@LimeyLassen9 ай бұрын
It's all fake, that's how
@doesthisunithave1soul469 ай бұрын
And she kept her ring on during all the kneading
@janel.89219 ай бұрын
She’s wearing a black dress while using flour!😊
@yogidevendrabiriyani17779 ай бұрын
Cuz none of this is real
@Hawkwood969 ай бұрын
As a stay at home dad with a 9mon old, i can say that there are a lot of facets of our culture that look down on stay at home fathers. It's not always explicit, but there's very little respresentation of stay at home dads as being a positive thing, and when you do see the generic, "This is what it means to be a man," it's almost always wrapped up in socially prescribed gender roles rooted in white middle class america.
@TheybyBaby9 ай бұрын
I think stay at home dads are bad ass. Y'all get way too much side eye.
@Hawkwood969 ай бұрын
I also think this is what causes the disparity between many women wanting a traditionally masculine man with a man who's more in tune with their emotions, will do housework, communicate healthily, take care of the baby, etc. Not that I directly face this issue, as I'm happily married, but you can't reliably expect to find a man who fits both categories perfectly (as much of what it means to be traditionally masculine actively inhibits some of the aforementioned traits)
@Hawkwood969 ай бұрын
@@TheybyBaby appreciate it!
@Remedy4629 ай бұрын
Not to be cringe, but the Dad in Madoka Magica was a stay at home dad and he ruled.
@emilchan53799 ай бұрын
@@Remedy462 Nothing cringe about anime! While not a dad, The Way of the Househusband is also a nice series about a former yakuza turned househusband.
@rodneynoble60469 ай бұрын
"Poor women have been working forever" thank you Vaush! Its the gown that gives it away 👏👏👏
@NyanSox9 ай бұрын
being a house wife is based being a working wife is based doing what brings you and those around you the most joy is based
@samomeister18139 ай бұрын
being a boy wife is the based-est
@haleyspence9 ай бұрын
Based take.
@beybladebaby9 ай бұрын
nothing wrong with women liking cooking/cleaning or whatever but it's when their man partner is literally incapable of cooking her a meal when she's sick or has zero idea how to use a vacuum that it can definitely become a problem. It reminds me of men that want a divorce when their wives receive a cancer diagnosis because they know they'll have to take on a more active role in the household.
@flain2839 ай бұрын
So if the guy cooks and cleans up it's ok? That's like all the conservative men though now right, in 2024?
@PopeDope69-4209 ай бұрын
The most miserable old people are the ones who lost their partners and never shared any of their responsibilities. Their lives fall apart around them because they don’t know what to do.
@user-nf3qp1qd6y9 ай бұрын
@@badwolf3618 this is false. op's comment says "cancer diagnosis", but it also includes general disability & illness where they're more at risk of being divorced. i literally couldn't find any study on what you commented. additionally, there's a growing influx of women who are working & taking care of the kids. women are just as capable of being providers + men are just as capable of being caretakers.
@baileyj60209 ай бұрын
@@badwolf3618Your conclusion would make more sense if single income families were still ubiquitous, but now most women work full-time jobs on top of still being responsible for the majority of childcare and housekeeping. The stats don't really tell you why people divorce their spouses after a catastrophic medical diagnosis, but the most likely one if that it's financially crippling and it's hard helplessly watching your partner suffer.
@XMysticHerox9 ай бұрын
The problem is when people are pressured into it due to societal expectations. And one partner holding all the power is of course also an issue 9 times out of 10.
@Necroskull3889 ай бұрын
“Mom I want a sandwich” “Sure give me three hours” I guarantee those *toddlers* don’t appreciate the difference between fresh and store bought bread.
@Chelaxim9 ай бұрын
The store bought white bread has more sugar content so toddlers know the difference and they want store bought.
@EdgieAlias9 ай бұрын
The store bought bread is far less crumbly and works better for sandwiches.
@Are_you_eyeballing_me9 ай бұрын
@@Chelaximimagine spending three hours baking homemade artisanal omegabread just for your toddler to ask for Wonder Bread lmao
@Fucyallfr9 ай бұрын
@@ChelaximThe gag is that u can get healthy bread from the store lol
@blackwatertv70189 ай бұрын
The “fresh food” bit is just the privilege speaking and it’s for the benefit of the adults who can feel smug about themselves. Toddlers don’t give a shit about “real food” or not they’d eat mud with ketchup on it if they were able.
@Shventastic9 ай бұрын
Shout out to Tyler Bender's trad-wife parodies! Her parodies have even tripped up actual trad wife creators.
@ShimmerBodyCream9 ай бұрын
She's hilarious.
@TheybyBaby9 ай бұрын
I love her!
@SamWeltzin9 ай бұрын
Was looking for this comment just so I can +1 the notion. She's great. The plastic smile and that neck tilt are perfection.
@lordflufffluff9 ай бұрын
TYLER YAY
@DoubLL9 ай бұрын
Gonna be honest, I'm male and my biggest dream is being a house-husband. Like I do understand that housework is a lot of work, and raising kids is a lot of work, but it's work I would be doing for my family and myself and I would directly enjoy the fruits of my labor vs slaving away for 8 hours a day in an office job which may be more comfy than cleaning but leaves me with zero sense of accomplishment or feeling that I am in some way doing something valuable for society. The problem is just finding a woman who wants a stay-at-home husband and also makes enough money to singlehandedly support a family lmao.
@salce_with_onion9 ай бұрын
femboy spotted
@firas19389 ай бұрын
I mean, depending on where you live, being a house-husband or a house-wife can count as a job -> the government gives your a salary. It just depends on the country. I know some require you to have 2-3 kids or something, but it's worth checking out.
@Eldeecue9 ай бұрын
I'm a childless house-husband, myself....and, yes, it's _great_ work if you can get it, heh. Key is finding a woman who hates cooking and/or can'tcook to save her life. Mine has burned hard boiled eggs. Twice.
@BengtNordsten9 ай бұрын
As someone who did exactly that for two years: no, really, you don't. Okay, maybe ONE kid, who is in preschool -- any more than that is staggering at the precipice to Hell. Too many ugly tales to tell, but start from this: my "free time" was spent catching up on shattered sleep-cycle, caring for lawn/garden, fixing the car, driving crosstown ALONE for groceries and hardware, baking, washing dishes, and doing laundry. Most "friends" who'd be horrified if HALF that was expected of a woman would criticize me openly for not doing enough to entertain my wife "who works so HAAARD to support you!!" (When I was out, her idea of childcare was some mix of locking them in their rooms and trapping them in playpens... and when I was home, her "kid-care time" became OUR job which meant MY job.)
@shadowprince44829 ай бұрын
I once dated a woman who I'm pretty sure is making 7 figures a year right now. If we were together she'd have a nice breakfast, lunch, and dinner if she wanted. Unfortunately our lives were going in different directions. She was super cool and I would have treated her like a queen if I wasn't working. Still friends with her and she's now a mom with a husband and I'm honestly super happy for her. Just in case I'm coming off as sexist right now but with my last ex I would play with her cats every morning despite always needing a few band-aids every time so they wouldn't wake her up so she could sleep in and then when she'd wake up I'd have a hot cup of coffee for her in bed and breakfast all ready. And she had even less money than me and I'm broke!
@julknowl9 ай бұрын
I’ve been a wife and mom of two for over a decade. I’ve been a stay at home mom and I’ve been back in the workforce for 5 years now. Being a stay at home mom is fucking awful and isolating in today’s world. Back in the day when we actually had community and we raised kids are a collective, it may have been less isolating, albeit more financially abusive. But you would literally have to pay me $150k a year to convince me to go back to never working at least part time again. These women are either unicorns or delusional.
@jedahn9 ай бұрын
Where do you work that isn't equally isolating?
@haleyspence9 ай бұрын
Literally anywhere where you can talk to another adult for any amount of time about literally anything lol
@jedahn9 ай бұрын
@@haleyspence Retail?
@haleyspence9 ай бұрын
Less isolating than homemaking, but retail is way more dehumanizing and uncomfortable not gonna get me arguing against that one lol@@jedahn
@jedahn9 ай бұрын
@@haleyspence It's all dehumanizing. Retail is kinda fun tho at least. I was thinking being a house wife is kinda like a suffocating office job. But you do have a reason traditionally to at least leave the house, so that's a plus. If you work from home tho...
@Kevo64929 ай бұрын
The conservative urge to argue the essential human condition and rights of freedom but also the biological determination of gender.
@markzuckergecko6219 ай бұрын
There's no contradiction here. People should be free to live their life as they please, as long as they aren't harming anyone else, but biological necessity still exists, no matter how hard you want to wish it away.
@Kevo64929 ай бұрын
@@markzuckergecko621 Wut. What biological necessity are you talking about? Your statement is vague.
@markzuckergecko6219 ай бұрын
@@Kevo6492 men are men, and women are women.
@DarylStreete9 ай бұрын
@@Kevo6492The biological necessity to remain in a single family suburban dwelling and operate the electrical cookwear of course, just as evolution intended!
@grazielaalmeida84389 ай бұрын
What biological necessity?
@Zarnirox9 ай бұрын
Anyone remember Bean Dad? He took six hours to feed his hungry nine year old because he refused to teach her how to use a can opener. Imagine the plot twist of these two being a married couple.
@CitizenPlane9 ай бұрын
The issue is not just a matter of whether the tradwife lifestyle becomes compulsory. Whether it's Andrew Tate or tradwives, there is something toxic about performing your gender roles in an extremely competitive way. It's not about living your best life. Tradwife content is about presenting as the most feminine woman who ever womaned. If it suddenly became the norm for women to take three hours to make PB&J sandwiches from scratch, they'd start growing the wheat just so they can say they're doing it better. We're seeing stuff like this, because social media incentivizes extreme, competitive behavior.
@jgmediting77709 ай бұрын
Stuff like this is being amplified because it’s suits the far right strategy of the elite.
@haleyspence9 ай бұрын
"Performing your gender roles in an extremely competitive way. It's not about living your best life." ~~ HI I just wanted you to know that I felt very called out with this because I was just going over my fucking pie recipes so when I submit them to the county fair this year and was definitely feeling like a villain xD
@ay2deet5789 ай бұрын
The pornographic content of a household surviving on one income...
@mmandible54709 ай бұрын
Alas such are the times we find ourselves in
@galacticspecter43649 ай бұрын
TikTok so goddamn dystopian, everything there is so artificial and meant to sell you something.
@yogidevendrabiriyani17779 ай бұрын
Omg i knoooow. Im dying thinkin of how kids are going to cope with it
@nerag74599 ай бұрын
TikTok? What about the whole internet?
@tinfoilslacks37507 ай бұрын
Fuck bros remember vine
@AbsurdlyGeeky4 ай бұрын
Gabi Belle recently did a whole breakdown of TikTok shop and how awful it is.
@tasha77269 ай бұрын
This makes me feel deeply uncomfortable because I can imagine her poor toddler starving while she takes three hours to make them a pb&j sandwich.
@OctyabrAprelya9 ай бұрын
Nono. The order of events isn't portrayed in the video correctly. She first gave the kid a nice sandwich (made with store bought bread) Then she proceeded to spend the rest of the day cosplaying and making an ungodly dough that she later threw away.
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
What your seeing is video editing and likely a bit of a white lie.nyou can see in the video she's wearing different things while she makes different things. This means she made them all seperatly at different times and recorded each individual thing. She then spliced her different videos together and made 1 video. she also likely does all the prep work while her kids are at school for 8hrs a day. C'mon this should be obvious to people in 2024 like watching those fake prank videos.
@DoritoBot90009 ай бұрын
@@toedrag-releaseschool? That was a toddler
@originalhgc9 ай бұрын
The think I hate the most about that video is the goddamn absurd sleeves. OK, sure, doll yourself up for the cooking video, but at least avoid the most impractical sleeves possible for the kitchen.
@KenS12679 ай бұрын
As someone who spent many years as a professional chef, the actual baking and cooking parts of the video are absolutely wrong and would result in bad food. Just as an example, you never use a rolling pin when making loaf bread. That pushes all the air out of the dough which ruins it. You shape bread dough by hand. That's why her bread didn't rise in the oven. A loaf of white bread should rise by almost 100% in the oven. There are similar things wrong with the jam and peanut butter. This video is clearly just for the clicks. I have no idea how money is made on Tik Tok but that is what this is about.
@johnwu89169 ай бұрын
I aspire to be a beefy guy who gets away with wearing a witchy apron that bakes bread and makes comfort foods. 😊
@BengtNordsten9 ай бұрын
The world awaits your channel. 👍
@tommybruneel95739 ай бұрын
I aspire to be a beefy guy with chic nonbinary fashion and slutty makeup
@OctyabrAprelya9 ай бұрын
@@BengtNordstenONG.
@tommybruneel95739 ай бұрын
I aspire to be a beefy guy who has a non binary fashion sense and wears makeup
@AbsurdlyGeeky4 ай бұрын
Big King Energy right here.
@RealTalkWithRickyPaquiot9 ай бұрын
I hate how some men who want women to have a *"stay at home with no job"* lifestyle because they don’t want women to have money to spend on their own. It rubs me off the wrong way.
@narcissisticcapitalist4439 ай бұрын
My girl stays at home with our son and loves it. It’s not that I don’t want her to have her own money, it’s that I have that aspect covered and we live comfortably. I don’t have to worry about the house and she doesn’t have to worry about money.
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
If a man can afford it and wants a stay at home wife and a woman wants to be a stay at home wife and not have a job I see no problem with it. Some woman want to be stay at home moms, in fact my Ex wanted that but it wasn't something I could afford really and is a big reason we broke up. For context that was nearly 10 years ago before this red pulled nonsense was around.
@Chanchan194949 ай бұрын
As a person who is married to a stay at home mom, this content is disturbing to me for a different reason. Most people do not have the ability to stay home and not work. This content, in my opinion, is less like Andrew Tate’s and more like Kylie Jenner’s. Projecting a false image of wealth and beauty in order to sell envy to less beautiful, less fortunate and insecure people. My wife does not have this much make up or dress this nice when she’s making a sandwich for our kids or chasing them around all day. Unfortunately, making people feel bad sells and is captivating to a certain kind of person. It’s selling the idea that “you’re not good enough” to a lot of women, telling them “you can’t make bread and jelly for three hours and look this beautiful doing it.”
@titanblooded62229 ай бұрын
I'm going to assume, she's dressed nicely because she's making a video for public consumption. And wants to look nice
@Chanchan194949 ай бұрын
@@titanblooded6222 ok? What’s your point?
@titanblooded62229 ай бұрын
@@Chanchan19494 That there's an actual pragmatic reason for her dress. That doesn't involve any sort of psychological manipulation
@Chanchan194949 ай бұрын
@@titanblooded6222 I never said it was intentional. But that’s the result of that kind of content whether it’s intentional or not. It’s selling an ideal yet impractical aesthetic of life that isn’t good for people. Also, bro your channel is about the annunaki and the fuckin Illuminati. The fact you’re arguing about the “pragmatic reason” of anything is hilarious.
@titanblooded62229 ай бұрын
@@Chanchan19494 The ability to entertain an idea without accepting is the mark of a great mind. You don't have to worry about that.
@resir98079 ай бұрын
Oh god this reminds me of a time I shared a house with 3 other students, one of them being a hardcore house mom. This girl wanted to live like a family, which meant everything was a team effort and she set all the rules. She demanded we waste enormous amounts of time making bread and pasta, polishing cutting boards and cleaning out garbage before throwing it away, among many other things. She was so obsessed with living climate friendly, dirt cheap and hyper-clean, I was forced to spend 7 hours a week doing housework during my studies (which were more intense than my full time job). What a horrible time
@steroidsretenoid9 ай бұрын
Wow so someone tried to help you live cleaner, cheaper, and more responsibility and you see his as "horrible". Life isn't just studies or work, it's everything. Especially for someone starting out life it won't hurt to live cheaper and practice valuable life skills while you have a cushion and support
@EatingYourWAFFLES9 ай бұрын
I once shared a student apartment with a girl like that. As an example, she’d go through our communal trash and confront us for not properly sorting out every single recyclable, which we all found inappropriate (nothing wrong with wanting to recycle but it’s not chill to go through your roommates’ trash and scold them). Also wanted us to adhere to her cleaning schedule, which again could have been reasonable but she was very uncompromising and angry about it from the beginning. We weren’t obsessive cleaners, mind you, but it’s not like we left food out to rot, had bugs, or even had dirty dishes lying around… it’s just like there’d be some dust on the floor or small crumbs on the counter or whatever. On the cleanliness scale of college kid apartments, it was pretty good, and we even already had a weekly chore schedule before she moved in. It extra was bizarre because she was extremely controlling of the kitchen space but meanwhile her room was basically a massive pile of unsorted clothing and personal items in the middle of the floor. She had serious anger issues so eventually one of my roommates just drove her to explosive levels of rage by basically saying “no, i dont agree to do that” to her chore schedule over and over. One day, she ended up screaming so loud over the placement of a coffee table that our apartment neighbors thought it was a domestic dispute. She moved out not long after.
@resir98079 ай бұрын
@@steroidsretenoid mfer I learned nothing, scraping yoghurt from the bottom of plastic cups is not a life skill. I have no respect for people who fetishize housework, you can be a housewife and have fun all you want, but don't force that shit onto others. I do what needs to be done and fill the rest of my time with something more meaningful. I'd rather spend 5 hours playing the piano or doing sports than renovating a cutting board. And in the time it takes to do that, I've earned enough money to buy 10 (recyclable ones, I might add). I used to think like you, then I actually became an adult and realized that it's just unadulterated bs.
@bonthebunnycat6679 ай бұрын
@@steroidsretenoidyou have no reading comprehension
@Jasonsmith-sr1ke9 ай бұрын
@@steroidsretenoid Those things are fine in general but sounds like this person in particular was extremely inefficient and obsessed over small things, wasting time which be better spent studying or working. Why the fuck would anyone waste time making bread and pasta when they could just go buy it from the grocery store, unless they’re a stay at home mom of course.
@borgardeskinwalker81839 ай бұрын
As an ex-Mormon (I was forced to go by my grandmother) in teaching you are told the woman is meant to be near completely subservient and dependent on her husband and the thing they are meant to do is clean the house and have kids. Your also judged if you don't marry young in the church and start having kids.
@paisleyjane149 ай бұрын
The reason so many women got hooked on pills in 50s and 60s was because they were absolutely miserable
@jonasdowner9 ай бұрын
are we not gonna mention the fact that she absolutely fucked up by not having that stuff prepared already? You don't make jam when it's requested, you make jam when you run out. She got caught procrastinating. trafwife fail, tbh
@hamburgerjones6959 ай бұрын
Yeah it’s almost like this video was forged by far leftists to make traditional wives look stupid….
@yogidevendrabiriyani17779 ай бұрын
Robots have no foresight lol
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
She did you can clearly see it in the video. She's wearing black when she makes the dough, she's wearing white when she cuts the bread she's wearing a sweater when she packs the lunch. What you're seeing is video editing. She recorded herself making different things in advanced. Then she splices the videos together and Wala seperate videos coming together for a PB and J sandwich.
@fluidthought429 ай бұрын
@@toedrag-release We know, we're just mocking her narrative device.
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
@@fluidthought42 honestly I don't think many people do know. Judging by alot of the comments. I could be wrong, it can be hard to tell on this channel who's joking and who's being genuine
@paisleyjane149 ай бұрын
Was married 30 yrs. Hubby got Ms and had too stop working before 30. I was the breadwinner & he focused on being a great dad and husband and cook. Thank God i was able to give him a comfortable life as long as he was with us. Miss you every day 💔❤️
@GordonSlamsay9 ай бұрын
Dang that's rough. Condolences.
@paisleyjane149 ай бұрын
The soft voice thing is taught to women to keep em ‘sweet’. Mormon’s , the Duggar’s , it’s a thing to infantilize women and keep them just above the kids in hierarchy
@slackershrub89239 ай бұрын
Bottoms seething rn
@MrBobbymacaroni9 ай бұрын
Kid takes one bite, spits it out, announces they feel more like pizza, now...
@fjordojustice9 ай бұрын
I love it when two partners both work hard full-time to manage their shared household, but only the man recieves money and respect for his labour.
@ish46389 ай бұрын
Always worth bearing in mind that these women who advocate for the traditional housewife… have jobs. This woman’s job, which she is paid to do, is content creation.
@SuperGorak9 ай бұрын
I've noticed broadly two types of harmful trad-female socialization so far, but it's kinda changing. The first one is the more empathic, but kinda codependent type of woman; the middle class woman, who has all the right genuine social skills, empathy, whatever, but uses them in line with patriarchal standards, making her effectively codependent on capitalist patriarchs. Basically the family's emotional care worker. Those who became aware were the ones who ended up using their empathic awareness for feminist causes. The second type is the stepford-type of socialization, where more emphasis is put on outward appearance, manners and daintiness. True empathic awareness is completely left behind though, as the hegemonial veneer doesn't allow for "common" authenticity. Women from this group, if they didn't manage to become aware and join feminist causes, either stay the stepford-wife, or become a girlboss and/or complain about man-spreading. This woman is foremost stepford, but also kinda both. I just think it's really interesting how the stepford-type seems to absorb the careworker-archetype into its model. Like care work is now supposed to be the sign of max cultivation, instead of being relegated to commoner maids. It smells like the co-option of "empathic" values seen in all modern family-first and pro-life policies. They fucking subconsciously know how wretched they are, as they know they need to adopt any semblance of healthy interpersonal stuff. They always have.
@SpecialBlanket9 ай бұрын
hey, nothing wrong w being a female lifestyle sub to a male partner, that's me and i'm so happy, just don't pressure other women.
@DoubLL9 ай бұрын
I'm German and her cutting the crust off freaking TOAST made me irrationally angry. It’s toast, wtf.
@ArDeeMee9 ай бұрын
Fax
@mrgaudy19549 ай бұрын
Putting aside whether this is a good message or not, being able to stay at home and be supported financially by a partner (while enjoying a good quality of life) is a privilege that few can afford these days. You may as well start an “upper middle class living” trend. I thought the point of a trend was that it was accessible?
@jgmediting77709 ай бұрын
The same interests pushing this kind of propaganda are also the same same interests making it difficult for one income to support a family. The reason this is being pushed is to politically push people right in order to protect the economic and political power of the minority exploiting the majority. It’s part of the far right strategy to protect their interests amidst a collapsing economic system. Their biggest threat at this point is working people uniting along class interests and removing the exploitative economic foundation that is the source of the elite’s wealth and power.
@jingbot10719 ай бұрын
I had a long term GF who liked doing tradwife stuff, and it was fine...because she made it clear that she did it for her own entertainment and not because of some bizarre gender role expectation. Sure, it was great to come home to warm homemade pretzels and craft beer! But on a weeknight? I'm going to make stuff in the crockpot for both of us because I can make it early and it's done when I get home, and the fact people have said I'm "out of role" doing so seems pretty weird to me. What's the deal with how ironclad America is about gender roles?
@x999uuu19 ай бұрын
The worst, insidious aspect of "tradwife" shit is how people call ANY domestic work "tradwife stuff". No, your girlfriend didn't do "tradwife" stuff, she had a hobby for pretzelmaking and brewing.
@jingbot10719 ай бұрын
@@x999uuu1 Well it's also that she liked the whole "made up trad girl" look sometimes (ngl it was probably partially fetish stuff) but again, that's just an aesthetic package. She also likes cottage core and goth. Basically it's like saying there should be a series of expectations placed on you because you dress in a particular style. America loves seeing fashion as a lifestyle, somehow...
@nunyabiznes74469 ай бұрын
The hilarious/tragic thing here is that this is incredibly shitty and selfish childcare sandwich making. Your kid asks for breakfast and you're like, ""Thank god, I can put on my makeup and record myself making the world's most intense sandwich so that the internet will praise me." Like this is the world's most masturbatory sandwich pretty sure this is half ragebait. What a fucking internet we've gotten huh?
@hihiz4329 ай бұрын
It's really not that deep. She said she gave them snacks and let them play while making it. Are mothers not allowed to find joy in motherhood? Why aren't the allowed to have fun with it?
@nunyabiznes74469 ай бұрын
@@hihiz432 Nobody said anybody can't enjoy motherhood. And I'm no mind reader but generally kids ask for food when they're hungry, not when they want to mess around for three hours. Getting fully dolled up and recording yourself making bread for tiktok is not Neutrally Enjoying Motherhood. You have to be brain damaged not to see ulterior motives here.
@Pawel2749 ай бұрын
The idea that this woman does any housework with these nails is absurd 😂
@blammela9 ай бұрын
Or with these sleeves
@Vic2point09 ай бұрын
Andrew Tate isn't a traditionalist. Both the husband and the wife have to embrace traditional gender roles and norms for it to work (but yes, it's awesome 😋).
@muskelversagen9 ай бұрын
She literally said the bread came out so nice and gold and then cuts als the crust away??! When you have a nice bread the crust is the best thing about it
@TrentonF5059 ай бұрын
I grew up Mormon and was raised by a trad mom. It’s strange because it feels like she’s acting like what she thinks a trad wife would act like.
@jgmediting77709 ай бұрын
She is. It’s the propaganda of billionaire interests.
@Ellie-gt1gc9 ай бұрын
the really crazy thing is this woman is 22 years old, married to a man who's 25 and has been married to 2 other women, and her children's names are slim easy and rumble honey
@MrGksarathy9 ай бұрын
Seeing all of this, and being a young, somewhat depressive, shiftless man, I find myself finding the idea of becoming a househusband or secondary earner pretty appealing. The domesticity of it all, caring for a wife and kids, and my labor benefiting my family sounds way more appealing than slaving away at any kind of job.
@publican909 ай бұрын
My toddler stumbled into my bedroom this morning and shouted “grilled cheese” (picks up a bucket and walks to dairy farm)
@ofanichan9 ай бұрын
Considering how picky a lot of kids are. Can you imagine spending 3 hours on making them bread for breakfast, just for them to throw a temper tantrum because it's not exactly the same bread they ate yesterday?
@RememberingGames9 ай бұрын
Man, those asmr type voice drives me crazy.
@hugegamer59889 ай бұрын
Don’t confuse a PB&J with a P & BJ
@Remedy4629 ай бұрын
Is the peanut butter to entice the BJ? 😂
@greenghoul1579 ай бұрын
The baking bread and talking softly in that ASMR voice is how they tap into your brain
@curiouscomrade86809 ай бұрын
Off topic, but making jam and peanut butter is quite time consuming, so what she should’ve done is make those the day before baking the bread. Or better, buy the fruit in bulk (whichever one you plan on using to make the jam) while it’s in season, and make a few jars of jam so that you always have some (jam can last up to a year so you won’t have to make it until the fruit you used is in season again).
@EatingYourWAFFLES9 ай бұрын
Real. A friend of mine made + jarred a bunch of peach jam with her mom and they gave some to me. absolutely delicious and also eco friendly, especially if it’s made with local in season produce like you’re saying. but making all the stuff yourself at once and creating en entire sink full of dirty dishes for a single pb&j seems insane
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
She did, you can see she's wearing different outfits each recipe. She also made enough for a weeks worth of lunches. What you're seeing is spliced videos taken on different days making different things. She just edited different videos together
@smolmoru9 ай бұрын
seriously the biggest sign that someone's not doing homemade shit regularly are the nails. I used to work as a baker and I still somewhat do, just not with preparing and cutting the dough myself anymore and nails like this?! you can't knead dough like that and you have to do that to properly get it into shape. I hope that kid won't have mommies fake nails as a little surprise treat in their food one day .. and don't let me start on the hygiene part with long nails and especially fake nails. there's a reason bakers, cooks and so on are not allowed to have that .. *yikes*
@trinsit9 ай бұрын
I wish they would just come out and agree thay communal living works. The only reason they don't is because the ONLY communal living they'll agree to is having a "nuclear family". No other versions count to them.
@RatPfink669 ай бұрын
they know it would expose them as the cult they are.
@LyionOfRoses9 ай бұрын
god it gets me so mad how the right keeps saying the left hates trad families... No Sane Persona hates trad families we HATE that they make it out to be the ONLY thing that should be allowed smh its also not even the lefts fault its that its LITTERALLY to expensive to live like that and thats what gets me even madder
@musicf3b9 ай бұрын
Who are these women trying to convince? Other women? Men? Themselves? If they feel comfortable betting that a guy can and will support them forever, then no one is going to lose sleep trying to convince them otherwise.
@apoc50009 ай бұрын
There are men out there able to support their family because they just work hard instead of whining all day about America and capitalism
@stoheha9 ай бұрын
My wife likes these videos and it's really just because she finds having a job too unbearable. Staying home all day and being able to raise our son is just more appealing to her.
@sunfeatherX39 ай бұрын
@@apoc5000nobody was contesting that some can afford to do so. I’m choosing to work in the home for my man for example, and we will complain about capitalism all we want thanks.
@rameeziqbal87119 ай бұрын
Well hateful feminists on Reddit do lose their sleep. They hate men and easily stereotype men. Much like red pill men, how they stereotype women. Both feminism and red pill are extreme ideologies. Both are cancer to society.
@apoc50009 ай бұрын
@@sunfeatherX3 please exercise your freedom of speech. I support it
@MrPaksh8 ай бұрын
As a german I feel very offended by the bread. Either make proper bread or stop wasting flour.
@Ghostlicker9 ай бұрын
It's the "because I've lost control of my life" Rugrats meme but with raspberry jam instead of chocolate pudding.
@sayanApprentice0959 ай бұрын
- _"...honey what are you doing?"_ - _"making pb&j´s from scratch"_ - _"Its 4 o'clock in the morning, why on earth are you making pb&j´s?"_ - *_"Because i lost control of my life"_*
@gcheftjgfba26559 ай бұрын
Her making that pb&j from scratch is extra frustrating cuz im putting myself in the kids shoes. "Mom can i get a pb&j this time 2morrow plz?"😂
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
I don't believe her kids asked for a PB&j sandwich. She also didn't make all this in 1 day as you can see her outfit changes every recipe. In fact she's wearing a completely different outfit from when she makes the bread to when she cuts it. It's all seperate videos made at seperate times that she spliced together and claimed her kid wanted a PBJ sandwich. It's so obvious I can't believe nobody else has picked it up.
@gcheftjgfba26559 ай бұрын
@@toedrag-release I know right. When u actually think about it, it shoulda been obvious she's fronting in ffwd.
@DJTony9939 ай бұрын
The dishonesty in this video is the worst part. I can understand maybe making your own peanut butter and jam and bread, but not on an individual basis. Make it for the week, or make a batch and store several jars of it. Nobody is making fresh peanut butter and jam every time their kid wants a sandwich. This whole video is a lie.
@toedrag-release9 ай бұрын
You're correct, you can see her outfit changes each recipe. She didn't make it on an individual basis. She made the 3 seperate things at 3 seperate times while recording and spliced the video together into a PBJ sandwich. Also the amount she made is good enough for a week worth of lunches
@biteofdog9 ай бұрын
My dad (a Vietnam vet) told me when I was a kid that I should be an independent person and shouldn't end up with some loser who doesn't know how to do basic things like cooking and cleaning. To hear about these Tate or red pill guys wanting a mommy-maid-wife, who they don't want to emotionally open up to (since they believe their weaknesses will be held against them), is quite pathetic. Love is a risk, but if you end up with a great partner, then it's worth it. These guys must not know what a healthy relationship is because how else are they falling for these manosphere losers who aren't successful with relationships to begin with.
@Danzarr9 ай бұрын
watching her use the stove with that robe, I just imagine her sleeves bursting into flames. I worked in a kitchen for years, I have seen more than one towel catch fire in safer conditions than that.
@jimbo16379 ай бұрын
Honest to god I think 90% of the "trad wife" shit is just more of the younger generations not wating to devote most of their waking hours to a iob that barely pays them enough to survive. Being married to someone who's willing to take you on as a financial dependent so you can focus on your family/ hobbies genuinely sounds awesome. (Assuming it's by choice) My only hang up is that i think we need to be careful with the female coded patriarchy. If this attitude becomes common, then the red pill would actually just become true at that point.
@x999uuu19 ай бұрын
>being married to someone else who's willing to do the soul crushing wage labour so you don't have to sounds great! This doesn't sound nearly as good as you think it does.
@existenceispain43339 ай бұрын
Sure it sounds great, but domestic labor is undervalued and is often more demanding than it appears. Your partner can work a grueling 9-5 but is it worth it if you’re working 24/7 at home? Also while not having any wealth of your own? I mean if your down for that that’s fine, but I don’t subscribe to painting a disingenuous picture of that life.
@wardrobewings80009 ай бұрын
I know that is not the point Vaush is making, but this woman doing everything from scratch instead of preparing ingredients earlier just makes me want to cry. The coolest part about doing preserves is that you can do it once per year and not bother for the rest of the year. Heck, depending on the preserve and how you made it you can keep them for a few years and they still will be edible. You can also keep the ready dough in the fridge so you only need to pop it into the oven in the morning. This tradfem LARP fails so much it's just plainly sad.
@thumbwarriordx9 ай бұрын
"Mom can I have a PB&J" >Sure hun *starts from scratch* >No you can't change your mind and go for a pizza or a stromboli. And remember, the crumb has to set so add a whole extra hour to the 3 it takes to proof and bake.
@jabraun009 ай бұрын
there is no shot this woman cooks on the reg, look at those nails lol i cant imagine my mother dressed up like a vampire making pb and j from scratch
@me-nah33439 ай бұрын
Who can afford to be a housewife anymore…
@matthewdunham16899 ай бұрын
If I remember correctly, something like 10 or 12 hours a day preparing food for the family. It was a full-time job with crazy ot back in the olden days. I'd be happy with a single parent in society being able to support the family working. But gender roles should be consenting choices of the couple.
@pllpsy6659 ай бұрын
That was only the case a few times a year on holidays or when they were doing long term prepping and conservation for the winter . They were not having a feast every day so they did not really spend a lot of time on making food because there was not much of it anyway. Of course for the rich with big estates it was different but they had other people working for them.
@nicholascarter91589 ай бұрын
@@pllpsy665 Depending on how you define 'providing' it could be very time consuming: You might just be slow cooking a vegetable stew in some bone broth, but the pot is sitting over an actual fire that you'll have to tend to keep the pot at temperature for the whole three hours your soup is simmering.
@dellarae9 ай бұрын
Also it would be more efficient to do a slow rise bread the night before and keep it in the fridge till the next morning....
@ergotempusvernum9 ай бұрын
This plus the roll back of female rights should sound deafening alarms for our future.
@thechief0439 ай бұрын
Maybe it's just me, but this segment feels chaotic in a good way. Lot of good points hit about capitalism being at the center of these tradwife TikTok trends, but patriarchy is also ever-present.
@TonyGModesto9 ай бұрын
We need a cage match to determine who’s real top G.
@whatsupinspace8549 ай бұрын
Who cares? Let people live how they want to live. This is in no way the female version of that r'pist Tate.
@255ad9 ай бұрын
I want the video to end with the mom finding a note from her kid that just says "I ate some cereal because I couldn't be bothered to wait, next time just use some fucking wonder bread and peanut butter and jelly from jars instead of making it all from scratch"
@stephennootens9169 ай бұрын
Damn straight!
@zuiop99939 ай бұрын
Why are people focusing so much on how much time it takes? Usually you'd do this 2-3 times a week and you'd bake a shit ton of bread.
@Remedy4629 ай бұрын
@@zuiop9993Do you wanna make bread from scratch all the time? Do you really?
@hihiz4329 ай бұрын
@@Remedy462 is it that hard to understand that some people enjoy cooking or baking. I make a lot of my foods from scratch and wouldn't have it any other way
@Znooly9 ай бұрын
I didn't know Andrew Tate transitioned.
@Echo81Rumple839 ай бұрын
if i were to ask this woman to make a salad for me, not only would she go to the process of making homemade bread like this but with added steps to make homemade croutons, she'd prolly also grow a variety of veggies in her garden the moment i ask for said salad, and make some balsamic vinegar from scratch, and by the time it's ready, i left her house out of boredom and severe starvation. and her bump would become another mouth to feed. THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO PLAN AHEAD. even my aro/ace sister, who loves doing homey stuff like this, KNOWS THIS.
@beybladebaby9 ай бұрын
need a catboy to bring me my sandwich
@Reed50169 ай бұрын
Hell yeah.
@zuiop99939 ай бұрын
It's the masters responsibility to feed the catboy! He can do other things to make it up to you.
@Kickiusz9 ай бұрын
@@zuiop9993 PB&Js are really unhealthy though. A good nyaster makes sure their catboy maintains a balanced, high-protein diet. It's also good for the meal to be in liquid form, so that poor thing doesn't extert itself with unnecessary chewing.
@zuiop99939 ай бұрын
@@Kickiusz I gues it's a win-win situation then. If it gets any more explicit KZbin might ban you.
@OctyabrAprelya9 ай бұрын
@@Kickiusz (hashtag)KZbin-comments-that-feel-like-Discord-DMs. I do agree tho.
@hauntedmushroomsasmr77169 ай бұрын
This woman literally thought she discovered sliced apples with cinnamon on top and wants to name her babies "pear, pepper, frosty, and cherry." She is not the brightest bulb in the box.
@nuclearsimian32819 ай бұрын
Conservatives don't want a woman that voluntarily does that. They want one they can train into doing that.
@aholafungi9 ай бұрын
Never understood women that wanna be valued as little more than a trophy by their husbands, but to each their own
@hugo36279 ай бұрын
I saw a video from ShoeOnHead on this topic. It was so frustrating how she could not conceive of the idea that tiktok lifestyle vloggers might be grifting. It was so obviously propaganda. ShoeOnHead had to have been deliberately ignoring that fact. She was acting like these tiktokers are actually living this tradwife lifestyle. She went as far as to accuse people of being jealous.
@evenoddridge48299 ай бұрын
I could not live in the same house with anyone who spoke in this tone of voice with any sort of regularity
@francesco80009 ай бұрын
It's like watching "Howtobasic" but less disgusting and more creepy.
@OctyabrAprelya9 ай бұрын
Somehow I was waiting the video to turn eldritch or something. The voice was grating, thank God Vaush kept interrupting it.
@Tleilaxu09 ай бұрын
"I was so excited." says her voice over, while her face looks dead inside. This is the first time I've seen a food video that made me feel LESS enthusiastic about cooking. Even Jack, the guy who only makes food poisoning, at least looks like he's experiencing some joy from the process.
@Fredlyy9 ай бұрын
the shoeonhead final boss
@OppirompaMiDotCom9 ай бұрын
I disagree that this is Andrew Tate for women: This one is just humble bragging about performing simple, but time consuming household tasks. Andrew Tate is about toxic masculinity, so the equivalent for women would be toxic feminism, such as me too and terfdom.