Reacting to mean comments, criticism, and feedback on recent videos

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Life with Jeremy

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@Demebeso714 6 ай бұрын

Jeremy believe in yourself..stop apologizing because youve done nothing wrong..just keep moving on..

@94040 6 ай бұрын

You do not owe anyone an explanation, thank you for sharing … :)

@anonymoushuman8962 6 ай бұрын

Yes I agree

@j96993 5 ай бұрын

Don't give negative people and comments ANY energy. A lot of people are going what you're going through and I for one needed to see your video

@carlmorgan8452 5 ай бұрын

People don't like to listen to others .... whining

@ashcension253 6 ай бұрын

People just can't treat people the way they want to be treated and yet they wonder why their lives are miserable... you are putting in a great deal of effort, are using self-reflection, are willing to grow to move forward and these are such important and valuable traits in a person. I hope you find a job, and if not, I hope YT pops off for you and gives you an opportunity to turn content creation into a job 😊

@Life_with_Jeremy 6 ай бұрын

thx for the kind words!

@ShaneConQueso 6 ай бұрын

don't respond to the haters or you'll be here all day. You're feeding trolls.

@JustLexyyy 5 ай бұрын

You address these things well. I give up after one application, can’t image 1500 apps! That is working a full time job plus more!

@anthonyleong4238 5 ай бұрын

I am on the neurodivergent spectrum and have had a hard time dealing with rejections. But I think the job market has made me far more resilient to rejections, and I am happy for that.

@cma9738 6 ай бұрын

I'm so impressed by your vulnerability and courage, the world proly needs more of that. You're super clear in your explanations. I can sense a bit of your self-doubt -totally normal and human- but you've got this! By the look of things it seems like you have a great career trajectory, so chin up! ;) I'm pretty sure most of us are cheering for you

@andrewpinkham9904 5 ай бұрын

You've been spoiled by over indulging companies. That's not going to ever come back. long term career goals; how about eat and sleep in doors

@CindyBlueWho 6 ай бұрын

Proud of you for even trying to put yourself out there! You’re doing it!

@Knowledge-b6o 5 ай бұрын

Honestly, you have income. You have a job. Good, now you are all set.

@CarlWinslowFM 6 ай бұрын

Just watched your past video, and as constructive critism, I saw many red flags with you. and many people make this mistake so you're not alone. 1. When you had that job opportunity but wanted to address your concerns, that is a red flag for companies because they don't want a "complainer" 2. Taking that month off to Brazil was a bad mistake, companies want someone who is devoted to them, taking a vacay after being laid off is a red flag. moving forward dont say that, just say you were looking for a job asap. 3. even though i beleive you have a chill demeanor, people like positive energy and outlooks, its ok to feel the way you do but practice your voice projection and smile. they want someone who will bring life to a team not bring them down. 4. apply to jobs outside your degree, ive met a ton of people who have degrees that dont line up to their role, you never know what is out there. I have HR background so I know this will help you going forward, all the best and goodluck

@Life_with_Jeremy 6 ай бұрын

thx for the feedback!

@Knowledge-b6o 5 ай бұрын

It’s not easy!! Take whatever you can get dude!

@Princess15732 6 ай бұрын

I've been looking for a entry level tech job for three years, not even one interview. I believe you😢

@cadcad-jm3pf 6 ай бұрын

You are not Punjabi and that disqualifies you from any tech job where the recruiter, the hiring manager or any interviewer is one.

@thanosianthemadtitanic 6 ай бұрын

@@cadcad-jm3pf very true

@Princess15732 5 ай бұрын

@@cadcad-jm3pf you're right...

@canijustgetanamealre 5 ай бұрын

20+ yrs in industry. laid off 10 mos ago. similar story. i agree with your experience and view. ignore the haters

@JustLexyyy 5 ай бұрын

There is definitely a new wave of unemployment and underemployment and simply put some jobs honestly look for bad hires so that they can blame poor performance on. You seem very competent and you will be definitely an asset and gain wherever you go or whatever you decide to do.

@CarolynGordon-nb2jy 6 ай бұрын

Some people just enjoy bullying or giving negative Feedback instead of giving Positive feedback,encouragement or Information that can be Constructive.you come across To me as being realistic and Genuine. Ignore the haters if They offer no positive solutions only negative construct.

@alanychung 6 ай бұрын

Hey Jeremy as another small content creator who has my own youtube channel that also works with a bunch of KZbin / influencer areas for work, the first thing every person has told me before starting a channel is that there's always gonna be people who criticize. For some people they just find joy in bringing down people. Just don't fall for it and do what you do. You don't have to explain yourself. Your content is good. I actually just stumbled upon your channel since you landed on my youtube homepage. It's always nice to see smaller channels being promoted as of late. I believe what you're saying after experiencing all the trauma from my friends. The job market is terrible at the moment. All my friends from major tech companies who spent a good 10 years got laid off all of a sudden one day from a zoom meeting and all my fellow peers in film/tv are getting no work because of the strikes. Losing a job and finding ways to keep yourself motivated in the job search is very difficult. Let alone making videos and talking about it. It takes a specific person to be able to do what you're doing right now. Keep up the great work!

@juliusdv6657 5 ай бұрын

"You can get a job, you just can't the job you want". What are they implying, that you get a job at starbucks or mcDonalds? Silly comment. Doctors don't go to school for 4-10 years then settle for Walmart.

@digitalmarketingsuperhero 6 ай бұрын

On one hand, you don't need to explain yourself. On the other, I appreciate that you accept feedback. A sign of true wisdom. This just made me a loyal subscriber. You're gonna be alright here on this platform. By this time next year, this will all be behind you and you'll be earning a living from KZbin.

@ThomasAgain 5 ай бұрын

Agree with @94040. You owe NOBODY anything, screw the haters. If they gave an f, they would be making content themselves. Hang in there man.. good content.

@wrath231 6 ай бұрын

Jeremy, it takes a lot of courage to bare yourself to the world. Kudos.

@jameshizon4861 6 ай бұрын

Not everyone will understand where we come from. I been feeling it more often than not but when they actually experience the trial you're in... Then they learn. Takes more energy and effort to understand someone so we judge fast.

@lily_m3538 6 ай бұрын

Wow. Jeremy, there are some mean-spirited, nasty, and bitter haters out there. Don't take it personally, they get a kick out of stamping and trampling on people and they are not worth your time or energy. Losers!

@michaelprestoy6838 6 ай бұрын

hey Jeremy - I found your other video, and it really resonated with me. Similar background in product - been out of work about 7 months now. Sorry you had to deal with some not so great comments. I feel we need to just keep trucking - interviewing, networking, mocking - it will happen. If you can, consider taking a few days - week break. That always helps me come back refreshed to whatever I am doing.

@LeoB-bp6ht 6 ай бұрын

"Ghosting Me", I have experience the same from some foreign HR people. Same thing bro, We talk many times, he even part of the same football club fans with me but at the end, he ghosting me :) so move on and do not trust people too much especially those easily act as friend / friendly :) those tend to disappoint more...

@kitbiggz6135 5 ай бұрын

I don't understand how tech guys can try for months and do hundreds of applications And not give up. Obviously the tech market has changed. Am I wrong?

@ra639 6 ай бұрын

Jeremy - has it ever occurred to you that making these videos may not be the greatest way to get a job?

@Life_with_Jeremy 6 ай бұрын

It has, I debate taking them down.

@ra639 6 ай бұрын

@@Life_with_Jeremy think about getting a job the same way you would seducing a woman - would you really want her to see videos of you this vulnerable ?

@ljaaraica3372 6 ай бұрын

I guess it depends on everyone's situation and how you look at it. Funny enough, I work as a corporate recruiter job and have a delivery job on the side, for extra cash at a restaurant. I heard one of the food runners say, I have been applying to jobs and never hear back. The runner has a "job" working in a restaurant, but they have a "job". I know it's not the same if you are contracting in your field. Is having a job at any place the same.

@dix_pack_of_sixie 6 ай бұрын

The more you give those type of comments attention, the more you will see them. Take whatever positivity you can from their harsh words, and do not highlight their trolling. Focus on the good comments and thank the haters for their input because honestly, they may offer you pointers, but dont dwell. "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace". The job market is tanking, the economy is tanking and has been propped up for decades...it is not a testament of your failures, it is a testament to the failures of us citizens as a whole to hold our government accountable for their usurpations. Your pain and turmoil is profitable to a select few. If it exists and is widespread, it is profitable, period.

@scd6969 5 ай бұрын

I have to say they have good reason to feel the way they do, Jeremy. You weren't honest and we're found out to use a click bait title. So you kind of deserved the hate. That said I do feel for your situation. We all struggle but we keep moving forward. I had come back out of retirement after living in VN forn4 years with my fiancé. We got pregnant 3 years in and decided it was best to raise our daughter in the states. So I came back and the first year I spent notnworjing rather helping my wife though her pregnancy as we did not have much family support to lean on. My wife had a very difficult time with my parents and Soni ended up moving out and spending a small fortune renting and living off my savings without any source of income for a year and a half. The immense amount of stress I endured dealing with a pregnant wife, her going through postpartum, her complaining about us not having income and a future and me not being able to land a job and blowing through my life savings. So I do empathize with the uncertainty and discouragement. My only advice to you is to keep your head up, do things that make you hally regularly to maintain your mental health is the most important. And keep pushing. Having faith in yourself and your ability is better than not, regardless of your job situation. There's a little bit of luck in everything we do so the more we do it the more luck we have. Don't waste your time making lame videos and responding tonsocial media. Spend it impeoving your skillet, enhancing it, growing it. Likewise with your network. Something will come. Believe it will and keeping going until it happens. Best of luck to you.

@KamalaTheClown 6 ай бұрын

Do NOT break, brother. Keep the faith and keep looking. Contrary to what the media and the current regime tell you, we are in a recession and the labor market is currently in shambles. Finding a job now is a very difficult task. Keep looking man and don’t let these haters sway you! Best of luck!

@seetongsung106 6 ай бұрын

This is your place your channel if they don’t like, don’t watch. Be strong

@A52424gr_gr 6 ай бұрын

Hey Jeremy. I'm an aspiring KZbinr too. I think your production quality is really good. Do you mind sharing what you use to film, and what for lighting? And mic if you don't mind - the one I got sucks.

@Life_with_Jeremy 6 ай бұрын

Thanks, I'm still bootstrapping things. I use my iphone for filming, and I have 2 light sources. One light source is a desktop ring light and the other one is a tripod ring light I borrowed from a friend. My mic is also borrowed from a friend, and is something like this: amzn.to/3ROJRhu

@unitedstatesofpostamerica7559 6 ай бұрын

Agree difficult up front, difficult later on

@LifeOfKeli 6 ай бұрын

Maybe start doing mindset affirmations. When you believe in yourself criticism from others will not phase you. Good luck with everything!

@longhorn789000 6 ай бұрын

Poor attempt at saving face.....tsk tsk tsk!

@MugenTJ 6 ай бұрын

If you live in LA, become a card dealer at a casino!

@support1Q84 6 ай бұрын

Hey Jeremy. I think you are absolutely honest and genuine. And it is AWESOME! There are always some passionate people pointing fingers around. You are not alone in this job market. Hang on there and best of luck!

@savio8976 6 ай бұрын

Jeremy don’t listen to these trolls lol, god bless, Jesus loves you man ❤️👍🙏🫡

@Knowledge-b6o 5 ай бұрын

You don’t need to explain anything to anyone!!

@kelvinfok 6 ай бұрын

Hi Jeremy, thanks for sharing about your situation but I don’t think it’s wise to openly criticise another company publicly (in your previous video) on your channel. While they may be at fault, the open criticism which was emotional (albeit an anonymous company) , may send a impression to your future employers that you have problems managing your emotions. And should they employ you, they may be a target in the unforeseen future. As much as we can empathise with you and fully support your hopes on getting full time employment asap, that video (including this one) do not serve you, as much as you think they do. Take care brother.

@djdoc06 6 ай бұрын

Hi, best wishes to you on your job search. I can’t really say why, but there was something about your affect or tone in the last video that was pretty off putting to me, and I’m really not sure why (and today’s video feels much more authentic and likeable). I can’t put my finger on it, but there was something that came off slightly inauthentic or subtly arrogant or entitled, that made me want to comment and argue about some of the points you made. I avoided the impulse and glad I did not comment at all, but now I am giving you honest feedback on that video, that something in the tone of what you said, pushed a negative button. That video felt like you were “acting”. This video feels more authentic and a lot better. And I recognize that making content like this is difficulty but just wanted to maybe give you feedback on how that hate you received can be avoided in the future, and just improve how you do this.

@deklavier 6 ай бұрын

Don't take YT comments that seriously or personally haha, you will always get trolls

@donniemoder1466 5 ай бұрын

Title of video was fine. Ghosting twice is a sign the company sucks, so consider yourself lucky they don't want you. I wish you were faking this. Ha!?!

@anonymoushuman8962 6 ай бұрын

You could KZbin stuff. Build your channel around this subject or something you enjoy. I don’t know how this pays or how difficult it is. Just an idea.

@joseromero81 5 ай бұрын

Aren't you on TikTok? Your face looks familiar.

@Blackbeard2k 6 ай бұрын

Bruh you don't need to explain yourself to trolls.

@monterreymxisfun3627 6 ай бұрын

Let this be a lesson to save more money when you're working, then you can treat hiring downturns as temporary retirements. You're putting in too much effort. Go enjoy this time. Had you put that $44K in a retirement plan, you could have discharged that debt in bankruptcy and still have been just as debt free with $44K extra dollars to endure joblessness.

@Vteckkkkk 6 ай бұрын

You have no idea what you're talking about, do you? Encouraging a 35 year old professional into bankruptcy. K, wow.

@monterreymxisfun3627 6 ай бұрын

@@Vteckkkkk By not declaring 4 or 5 Chapter 7s in one's lifetime in the US, it leaves massive amounts of money on the table. It's not like last century where you can just default on unsecured debt and not get sued.