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Hi for those of you who have seen my post, I filmed this video just days before I lost my father on Thursday, October 7, 2021 at the young age of 63. He was a healthy man, actually the healthiest person I knew. His religion was exercise and he was just always smiling. My father, James Michael Shannon Jr., was an extremely special human being and I know it may seem that I have a great bias but it really could not be more true. During my lifetime, I saw the way he cared about people and the way he treated others. Kindness was important to him but it didn’t stop there, he went above and beyond for every person, he always offered a smile, a sweet word of strength and help to whomever needed it. He often placed himself in harms way to protect others and gave to others when he had nothing himself. He was so quick to make a new friend and would embrace people with so much warmth. I just learned there was a time when he was taking home a new award or trophy for everyday for saving individuals’ lives but I never saw that, he never even spoke of it because he NEVER wanted the CREDIT. He wanted to make the world a better place so he even took young recruits under his wing and tried to show them the right way and I have just had the privilege of meet a few wonderful people he had an effect on. One thing I kept hearing was how beautiful his smile was and how important it was that everyone be treated equally no matter their gender, race, religion or sexual orientation. He just valued people (and our late Cubby).
Being the daughter of such a selfless man allowed for me to have the most wonderful childhood and at the age of 23 he made sure to continue to make me feel like his little baby girl. He would call me on the phone from work to help me with my homework and we would even meet up at Taco Bell during his lunch or dinner breaks. Not only was I lucky for his heart, but his mind… my god. He was so brilliant, he was the expert on everything or at least he would make it seem like it. LOL. He just had a curious brain and learning more about the world constantly was so important to him. And apparently every woman had eyes for him but he only had eyes for mi mama.
It’s still so new to me, a surprise, a shock, a devastation. I’m angry. I’m mortified. I’m destroyed. I’m happy he can finally rest because he never took a rest for himself. I keep waiting for his call or a text or an email. I don’t think I will ever be happy the same way again. I know time heals but this is a scar for life, daddy was my best friend.
I used to want to live forever, dreams change.
I love you deeply and permanently daddy,
(Yes, I will take a lechita before bed- cold and chocolate please)
Sugar Bear ❤️
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