Rebound Relationships From The Dumper's Perspective

Rebound Relationships From The Dumper's Perspective
Why Dumpers Rebound:
1. Proving a Point:
- Showing Independence: Dumpers might enter a new relationship to prove to themselves and others that they can move on quickly and are not dependent on their previous partner.
- Reaffirming the Decision: Being with someone new can serve as a way to justify the breakup, reinforcing the idea that they made the right decision.
2. Filling the Void:
- Habitual Need for Intimacy: If the dumper is accustomed to having someone in their life, the sudden absence can create a void. A rebound relationship helps fill this void and maintain a sense of normalcy.
- Emotional Comfort: Rebound relationships can provide the emotional comfort and familiarity that dumpers might crave after ending a long-term relationship.
3. Avoiding Loneliness:
- Fear of Being Alone: Many dumpers fear the loneliness that follows the end of a relationship.
Jumping into a new relationship can be a way to avoid facing this loneliness.
- Need for Companionship: After ending a significant relationship, dumpers miss the companionship and emotional support they previously had, leading them to seek out a new partner quickly.
4. Emotional Distraction:
- Escaping Emotional Pain: Breakups are painful for both parties. Dumpers might use a rebound relationship as a way to distract themselves from the emotional turmoil and guilt associated
with ending the previous relationship.
- Avoidance of Self-Reflection: Being in a new relationship prevents the dumper from reflecting on their own behavior and the reasons for the breakup, providing a temporary escape from self-reflection.
5. Validation and Self-Esteem:
- Seeking Validation: Ending a relationship can leave the dumper questioning their self-worth.
A new relationship can provide the validation and ego boost they need to feel desirable and valued again.
- Rebuilding Self-Esteem: The attention and affection from a new partner can help rebuild the dumper's self-esteem, which might have been affected by the breakup.
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[@neodistinct]

I really don't know. BPD ex is for more than one year in new long distance relationship she monkey branched to. Flaunts all the time on social media how happy she is.

[@worldrecordmethod7119]

It happens, just remember there is no chance they are happy lol. 10/10 times couples who act the happiest on social media are miserable together

[@Bloodsport1337]

My ex is also BPD and I was her rebound. We lasted 6 months where everything seemed perfect, then one day she ghosted and immediately was with someone else 2 weeks later. We got back together a month later and the cycle repeated. This went on for 3 years. She’s now in a new relationship for about 8 months. They never change.

[@jasoncarpenter6187]

I feel ya. My BPD ex of 3.5 yrs did the same thing. And in a long distance relationship but isn't posting anything like she did with us

[@yoursassyg1rl]

Bahaaa BPDs suffer everyday. And they are most toxic when they are in relationship.

[@sreach93]

You have explained this very well, it's almost a copybook of what most dumpers do. Some also hide their rebounds as opposed to flaunting them, there must be psychology behind that as well.

[@anacfonseca8292]

Thank you , I almost make a mistake , is so painful that my still husband after 23 years he just move to a relationship .. basically he told me I’m moving with her to forget about you , he’s not caring about anything.

[@nickyj2657]

My ex just celebrated her 1st anniversary with the one she rebounded to. Don’t think she coming back

[@Bloodsport1337]

I was in a rebound that lasted 3 years off and on. 1 year doesn’t mean they will last

[@remyd1984]

@@Bloodsport1337 are you male or female? They reckon a rebound turns toxic over a year

[@ahmadelshbasy3222]

@@remyd1984what if my ex is girl ?

[@Bloodsport1337]

@@remyd1984 I’m a male. And you are correct. It was off and on the entire time