Reduce FIGHTS, Increase UNDERSTANDING in relationship

[@ひろゆき二十一]

I do not know if you will read this. I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for how much clarity you have given to me. I'd say your youtube channel has been one of the greatest things that I've come across in my life and I'm not exaggerating. Thank you for these life lessons, I do hope your life fares well from your effort. Thank you.

[@eliaswachira4807]

Excellent ! kindly do you train others, I'm interested as I go through your sessions on episodes, they're pretty good and acceptable.

[@thetippytoe4941]

Claps for Mr. Psychologist! 👏👏 Loved it! Both the thumbnail and the video!😅

[@mrskhan597]

Great advice. It's very thoughtful of you to make the same content in Hindi/Urdu as well. I can share this with my or people who can't understand English that well. Really appreciate your efforts. God bless

[@CelineShiko]

Very very valuable information 👏🏾

[@manishabharti6511]

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[@playlust3909]

Amazing advice. Big Thank you!

[@desiremixx7622]

If everyone in the world become as understanding as you are, there would be no fights and wars

[@priti8581]

Shridhar Maheshwari ji, I must appreciate the example you gave in the video.....I could not stop laughing and thinking. You are very correct to a great extent.......its just the mind.....how do you take things (understand)......positively or negatively......i m sharing recent incident of mine....Day before yesterday only, I was upset as my husband asked me to join one of his friend's party.....they just became parents.....I was like ok....the party was in our banquet only.....I dressed up and reached and I asked him to let's go......he was like u just go and meet everyone.......I have already meet them.....I have an important meeting....need to rush.......i was very furious as i felt bad at that time but as Shridhar said.....we ourselves dont know sometimes why we are upset??? Well, I went.....congratulated....gifted.....hardly i stayed there for ten minutes as i was upset I just came back without eating......I was thinking should I feel bad for his behaviour.......I realized I reacted .....without thinking, I just left as I was furious......later on, I completely understood ........he had an urgent meeting..... we should think, introspect and understand others before jumping to any conclusion. I would say to every wife to be patient and not to react as I did.....generally, we all do......we need to understand our husband.......when to talk, when not to talk......what makes them to listen to you.......experiences of old couples teaches you a lot.....As Shridhar said, try to understand each other and talk and think positively.......Chant Hare Rama Hare Krishna.....works like magic !!!!

[@abusadi4742]

People who see marriage as a part of a big social relations system are free from toxic obsessions and doubts. They can feel necessity of gratitude and the feelings of selfless attitude. If the husband sees a good attribute in his wife,he knows he should be grateful for her parents/relatives who shaped her personality. He also understands that it's her parents who use their special intelligence to keep the marriage stable. Little feelings of gratitude(type of love) is a cure for many psychological issues and expands the heart. Teaching people fiqhi rules can't benefit without understanding the nature of human social relations.

[@manjulagb3454]

Understanding the things is based on how much we need ... not how much we want that things... if they realy need them they defenetly understand each other

[@futuristicvibes2643]

New subscriber here 🇺🇸 Very insightful and informative content and I’m sure this channel is geared toward the Indian community, however, as a Black American I’m glad it showed up in my recommended videos 👍🏽👍🏽 Is this psychologist an ENTJ OR ENTP by any chance?

[@jenik4336]

Lovely video☺️

[@Dora23Jan]

This is such eye opener . But what is the sign of real insensitivity and non compatiblility? What is the limit to understanding cause as all have their own reasons to disrespect each other and justification. Even murder have him own reasons and causes. So what’s the limit.

[@shyamalidasgupta671]

Sridhar ji .... what happens / how do you deal with the situation when you are living with someone with personality disorder .. ( like schizoid & avoidant traits- my husband, borderline- my sister in law, or cluster B - my maternal family members ... my brother) ,.... not easy .... I am taking guidance & help of a therapist ... she has asked me to read about Transaction Analysis - I am OK , You are OK by Thomas A. Harris . Also - Games People Play - Eric Berne. Your Explanation helped , .... personally disorders are challenging... I am working on my responses ...

[@ethics_academy]

Yes indeed it's difficult to deal with personality disorders. It's helpful if you keep reminding yourself that the other person is not looking things from your view, that will give you some patience to behave nicely to them.

[@Shon_29]

Nice explanation to resolve conflicts, What if anger comes up all of sudden on just assuming bad about partner and then blaming them for nothing.. removing past … mixing anger with bad words and name calling , criticising , triggering on the weakness is all this safe in anger to do to partner should the conflict be resolved where the respect is crashed sir …

[@priti8581]

In such time, when u feel like criticising ur husband.......just close ur eyes and think of all his good habits.....his positive side.......just ignore his negative side and dont feel bad about ur partner.....understand him !! U know God Shivji is said to be avguno ke khaan .....despite parvatiji loved him so much !!!

[@vaishnavilakadaram4044]

Hi sir, in our relationship he doesn't respond or say what so ever question i ask, the other day i have been discussing about our daughter birthday plan, like I said shall we discuss what we can do on birthday so that we may comeup with some good ideas, what are your plans them he is like "mute"

[@priti8581]

Vaishnavi.....expectations are the biggest cause of disappointment.......u r asking....sharing ur plans to ur husband and he is not responding ......its perfectly ok.......sometimes ur partner really doesn't know but dont worry soon he will start and help you in organizing........u take the initiative, tell him where you needs his help.....organize!! Make it happen as u have planned.....dont feel bad if he is mute......u never know what's going on inside them....in which situation they are in.......dont feel bad or get upset for small small things and do ur duty !!! U asked him...informed him.....he is not responding then it's ok......u did ur duty.....u come up with ur idea and just make it happen !!!

[@vaishnavilakadaram4044]

@@priti8581 thank you for the suggestions

[@drharshini3245]

I texted you for advice but you didn’t reply it’s been one year

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