I FEEL UNSAFE: Solo Female Van Life (Story 3)

Hello again!
Welp. It happened. I found myself in a sketchy and unsafe situation as a solo female vanlifer / buslifer . I take you through that scary experience, and finally make the drive out of Texas and into Louisiana. A lot of emotions came to the surface in this leg of the trip. Healing is hard work. It's important to honor the pain that comes with beginning a new chapter in life. But with that said, I can already feel the healing taking form. Get excited for what's ahead.
#solovanlife #buslife #regretlyss
Talk soon.
Lyss

[@REGRETLYSS1]

For those of you concerned - I assure you I am well equiped to protect myself, and confident in my ability to do so. I did not share outright what means of protection I have at my disposal, but know your girl is prepared. This is not my first rodeo. Perhaps I'll make a video dedicated to my safety & defense protocols. Thank you for your love and for being on this journey with me. :) - Lyss

[@jjsalas55]

very cool!!

[@terrycarroll656]

No don't do that it is best no one knows what u can or will do. Good luck

[@gadiantonx8474]

showing your defenses opens the possibility of neutralization leave us all wondering

[@ShouldHaveWornACondom]

So can i tie your shoes? So you dont fall for anyone else! I got that mean double knot. Plus im a great bodyguard/bullet sponge. Been shot, stabbed, blown up, ran over, tortured, have c-ptsd. Ya boy be like the terminator. I dont drink. So more for you. I smoke medical marijuana and have a medical card. So we're all legal.

[@ShouldHaveWornACondom]

Also i can make a mean meal and have a service dog (93lb pitbull/dalmatian)

[@tenn-gran9734]

After reading some comments on this video I am so angry. I am in my mid 70’s and some of you blamed her for what happened. My generation was the 1 when mini skirts first became popular. I could not believe how some commented about her beautiful hair and her choice of clothing. Years ago when a woman or young girl was assaulted the Defense Attorney could use her attire or looks against her in the defense of the criminal who committed the crime. She has the right to her freedom to look & dress how she pleases, even if she wants to walk around in a bikini that doesn’t give any man the right to assault or behave in a way that makes her uncomfortable. If not now in the time of Me Too then when will Women have the same rights as a man. Stop Blaming The Victim! Put the blame where it belongs on the perpetrator.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Your comment means more to me than you know Tenn. Thank you for being here, I hope you continue to watch my journey. Your energy is welcome here :)

[@anarchomoto1152]

I read through a bunch of the comments, and I didn't see anyone who was blaming her for what happened.

[@izzysanchez9865]

I totally agree with you!! As that has happened to me unfortunately and when I went to the police station with proof that he was following me an also attempted to put his phone under my skirt and I kept recording and I went to the police station with it and officer said "maybe next time you won't dress like a slut an you won't be approched like one" never wore a skirt in my life again!!!

[@getshorty7549]

Tenn-Gran (a little late to the party here)... there were male and female commenters in another group concerned about the fact that she was single, not with a man, and not yet a mother. No wonder Atwood wrote a book called The Handmaid's Tale!

[@karenzielke9898]

You tell em, momma!!♥️

[@jerrybrady9103]

As the father of two grown daughters and an ex security officer I feel for your safety. Im in NC and would be glad to donate some items to make it so you don't have to fear anyone. Absolutely no obligation

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Jerry that is incredibly kind. I appreciate the Care! Feel free to send me an email if you'd like, I'm confident with the protection setup I have. :)

[@votesudanusa]

@@REGRETLYSS1 Are you hustling us? First you said you are scared and now you say you feel confident. I see right through you

[@got2flynow]

@@votesudanusa A person can feel alarmed by the surroundings, but yet STILL be confident that you are capable of handling the situation. I'm a 6'-3", 240 lbs ex-football player and there have been times I was seriously alarmed by my surroundings, but still very certain that if "push comes to shove" I will take some one out if I have to. I'll end with this message for you that my mom used to tell me... if you don't have anything nice to say, take a hike.

[@votesudanusa]

@@got2flynow SHE IS TOO WEAK to travel alone and SHE is RUNNING a HUSTLE seeking donations and sympathy. READ her REBUTTALS to some of the comments. NOW TAKE A HIKE ON THAT. BTW being an ex football player does NOT mean you are tough... I could see if you said a wrestler or boxer. Running around in tights is a little different than combat TOUGH GUY .

[@soving]

@@votesudanusa speaking of seeing through... That has the be the weakest troll. She is confident in her protection is quite different from feeling stressed / threatened.

[@debbiee.6333]

I’m a solo female with kids. In addition to my intuition to keep me safe. I find another great tool for safety. It’s my glock 44! :))

[@reecedownwithpeace1314]

A 22 lr lol get u at least a 9 or 40

[@theKaufmanTapes]

Your kids will wind up using it on you! Not a safe option. The thing is we can’t wave guns around anyway. A man has a right to free speech and can say anything he wants. People can ride down the same road as we do and appear to be following us, but how can we prove it? Use your head and don’t be a victim.

[@marknorwood7521]

👍👍👍👍👍 I feel EVERYBODY should be armed. But "I" would go with No Less than .380

[@fumanpoo4725]

@@theKaufmanTapes Why would her kids end up using it on her? Does your family shoot eachother?

[@theKaufmanTapes]

@@fumanpoo4725 . . We are not gun peopled. We do not hunt nor do we have any use for fire arms.we do not kill. On the other hand, look at the statistics for accidental shootings at home. Unbelievable!

[@pandorasullivan777]

I took space today. I’ve never heard of such a thing, but at 64 with so many losses, I had to pause and grieve today. I parked near a lake, reflected (maybe retreated a bit), listened to music, and prayed for my next step. Then, tonight I randomly stumble across this video. Thanks for being real with your emotions. ❤

[@marksmith9176]

I’m a retired deputy with over 30 years on the job. Let me make it clear. If you travel alone and you’re a lady carry a gun. It makes it the best equalizer between you and one, two, or three assailants. Do not be naïve criminals will always act as criminals if they think they can get away with it. A single person is a potential victim. I’m also a CCW instructor that’s how much I believe in your right and your life.

[@SheenWatkins]

Holy smokes. We went there about a month ago, drove on the grass, looked at the surroundings and left. We went to KOA. I love Harvest Host but that one site was creepy. Always trust your gut! Glad you’re ok.

[@CyberMachine]

Can you leave a review on the place

[@aaronbono4688]

The whole being stalked and cat called is something we men have no way to relate to. I can't imagine going through life having to worry about things like that. You are a very brave soul. Good thing you also keep your wits about you. Wish you well!

[@uanditopia2239]

@@Jess_2025 If a woman emotionally can't handle a cat-call, she--alone--shouldn't dress for one. But pity Beauty; it has it's problems. Even wearing a gunny-sack wouldn't shield her.

[@altavatan1558]

@@uanditopia2239 I was 12 years old getting cat call in my white trash neighbor, that's the problem I emphasize the word "trash" = under educated individuals who act like effing morons.

[@LightIceLightCreamNoSugar]

@@uanditopia2239I’m obese and wear layers and get catcalled. Believe me, it’s not the look, it’s the audacity of the testosterone.

[@sandracox4341]

She was fully dressed. Why does everyone keep talking about how she was dressed?

[@Rspenesmit]

I'm a retired Police Officer, when things like that happen & you feel uneasy, get out of that area, don't stay another minute, trust your instincts, do not ever hesitate to call Police right away, don't let someone follow you, call them.

[@craigieb]

As a relatively old happily married man, I feel obligated to apologize for the scumbags out there who make you feel uncomfortable. Keep spreading your positive vibes in the world, and don't let the scoundrels get you down (it sounds like you haven't!). God bless!

[@bettywolfe5948]

Absolutely - I think Alyssa is not only brave to take her journey and lifestyle in this manner - but I commend her for taking ownership of her search for controlling negative and positive life effects. Stay safe Alyssa

[@erebusagarista8031]

It's really good to see a comment like this coming from a man, thank you!!

[@lmb4876]

Don't be afraid to age...looks may fade ( and that is OK)..but men no longer stalk you OR the ones that do...you can out run!!..As I have ventured into my 60s, I realize that every decade of your life, frees you more!

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Right! I looked just like this girl but blonde and I got so sick of pick up artists everywhere. Now that I'm 52, it's so nice not to have to wear makeup or worry about what I look like. It's true freedom!

[@themousethatroared3371]

LMB I love being in my 60s for the exact same reason you mentioned. (Except for the arthritis and age related pains lol)

[@dianal.1279]

Yes! Now at 52, I love to feel almost invisible, though the disagreeable moments still happen sometimes, but not as often as when I was young. I travel a lot alone, camping in the wild all by myself. I always try to hide when looking for a spot to sleep. How I wish we didn't have to go through these invasions of our space and peace! Because of all of these horrible attacks, my dream was to be invisible. Be safe, but never stop living your life the way you want.🌻☀️

[@vickieandrews5709]

That is the honest truth LMB. Every de ade frees you more.

[@valeriegiles6524]

Never trust that your age will deter the predators. Seniors are easy prey to them. Ask any police officer.

[@Thewombat50]

Hey Lyss.!! Just came across your Vlog which reminded me of my journey through similar situations in the '70s. I was a single lonely male looking for reasons why I didn't seem to fit in. Brothers suicide, depression leading to my own attempted suicide, drugs, meditation and purpose confusion. I came out the other side and now live a peace filled life. Love your practical skills, courageous emotional intelligence, processing fears, loss, and addressing the fear of the dark side of men who consider single women as bait. I just wanted to encourage you that you're not alone and don't allow fear to become a companion to overwhelm you and cause you to miss all the wonders of life on earth. I look back on my days and see so much good came out of my journey. At a deeper level, my unspoken questions about my circumstances opened me up to another world of thinking and one day I knew I was not alone. I had spiritual experiences and dreams that pointed me past the negative into a relational presence that has been with me ever since. The unknown eternal God of peace and security appeared to me in a private moment and it's he who has given me the joy of being who I am in all circumstances. Despite the junk that is thrown at me, by misunderstanding others, I am now very secure whether in a crowd or alone in the environment. Your transparent honesty is a commendable quality. I tell you this from personal experience. The wonderful and supernatural God who lives out of time came into my time and saved me from my personal nightmares and gave me a new life on his amazing planet. I ask him for you, that your journey leads you into the same emotional waking of healing and daily joy of knowing you are eternally loved, despite the private fears of doing it alone. No matter where you're at now, the God who made the physical universe from the realm of the supernatural/spiritual world has your back covered and looks forward to meeting you in his son Jesus. I could not say that if I had never discovered his eternal love so I leave this for you to ponder and in one of your alone moments I ask him to reveal himself to you. He's always available, when you're ready. Swing happy in the next part of your journey and dance regularly in the sunset. God bless.

[@ivansnegireff7515]

sir don't even attempt to do any of that shit if you need something to talk to I'm here for you anything like you're going through I got the time and patience to listen to you everybody else in this world be positive in life and don't forget about God thank you

[@dinahjackson8146]

That is ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL TESTIMONIES I'VE EVER HEARD !!! ❤ IT'S TRUUUE and THANK YOU. IAN !!! 😍💒😍

[@mtnduck3674]

So sorry you are having negative experiences like this. Just yesterday, my daughter's soccer coach decided to stay at the field after nearly everyone departed. I noticed a vagrant with his attention on her. I asked her if she wanted me to stay, to which she bravely declined. However she texted me in less than 10 minutes, stating that he had walked onto the field and was circling her slowly. I kept in contact till she had safely left the area, but it sucks that she couldn't simply enjoy a nice day. Trust your intuition and safe travels!

[@jeffharris7777]

I hiked in Shenandoah and was sitting on top of a mountain just soaking in the view....this pretty young thing gets to the top and we were chilling, not talking except to say hi to each other...I was about to leave when this big dude gets up there and wouldn't stop talking to her from the second he got there....the look she gave me when I was putting on my pack was priceless... obvious... undeniable...I stayed until she left. I left right after her. After we got down the trail a bit she gave me the biggest hug. I let her go and stayed back a bit to make sure muscle boy wasn't following her.

[@BinoDist]

Unfortunately, women are prisoners of men's behaviour.

[@votesudanusa]

Oh please....

[@newlife8318]

@@votesudanusa it's kinda true. Walk the walk. Actually don't! They are traumatic and lethal experiences out there. May well be under-reported like most assaults. Do some criminology research. Watch this vid again. Can you feel that?

[@lightingthedarkremoteviewi8086]

Wtf? Circling her?

[@joejackson73]

You are so right about trusting your gut!! I told both of my daughters that it's better to risk feeling foolish than being a victim!! Have fun and stay safe!!

[@brandyfitch3833]

Thank you for your vulnerability and wisdom. I am going through a solo journey and dealing with heartbreak. You sharing your story is keeping me grounded, kept with good company, and a sense of peaceful courage to carry on. Thank you

[@wendytaylor3270]

Just as there is beauty in happiness and sunsets, there's beauty in the rain and the healing of pain.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Really beautiful poem

[@jeannie20001]

Well said. I definitely agree.

[@alexandria1316]

I’m so sorry you had to deal with this. I would’ve left that night. It’s horrible that we as women we have to deal with crap like this but I honestly suggest you start to “carry”. Also exterior cameras and motion sensors! There’s NO such thing as to safe. DO NOT let that prick or any others take away your joy or your will to travel. No one can take that from you. Be safe and live it up!

[@kavinbell4621]

The problem is its becoming more like a jungle with very dangerous predators on the loose and the only way not to become a target is not to put yourself in a situation to become the pray in the first place. And if do just happen to get into a bad situation make sure you have a way to protect yourself with extreme force with anything you have at your disposal to inflict sever pain and damage that the predator retreats and you escape to live another day.

[@melviasheppard8466]

Don't let that weirdo get you down ! You can get anywhere that you like. Unlike the rest of us stuck with neighbors in the suburbs 🤔

[@bobfromdenison]

I picked up a male stalker once.

[@kj475]

Men experience it too, but yes, women are particularly susceptible. Once you're targeted these people can be persistent and brazen. Man or woman, it's better to just move on to a different spot than chance it.

[@juliebowers550]

Contact police

[@mollydion8311]

Rio is a beautiful dog, glad she's a good watch dog.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Thank you Molly! She is the best road partner and has great instincts. :)

[@seantran4178]

Hi Regretlyss, while watching your video, I am so worried for your safety. I wish you knew or in case you forgot. I would like to remind you that for a Solo Van Life. Every time you park your van, remember reverse and park your van in a position of your head van face outside. In case something goes wrong, you always have the scape plan. And if you are walking with your dog, please walk with your dog leashes. I also recommend you should carry a panic alarm. As a viewer I like to support your Chanel, which's why I choose subscribed.

[@deecee6810]

I have traveled all over the US by myself as a solo woman. My number one rule is don't be the only one in a park or a parking lot and always go with your gut. Sometimes rest areas are more safe. Again... same rule, never park there by yourself. If there are semi trucks and other vehicles you will be a lot safer. Even in an RV with 2 other girls, we pulled into a rest area and it was totally dark, with no other cars, and guess what? WE LEFT. The scariest place I've ever been is an empty campground in Alaska with ropes hanging from trees that looked like you could be hanged there. I also got out of there. I also cut some of the ropes down. Don't take a chance, be safe.

[@123blunsford]

Stay safe! Watch those bodies of water with your dog, alligators can move under water very quietly, then attack. I wouldn’t want anything to happen to you or your beautiful pup! ❤️

[@lightingthedarkremoteviewi8086]

Gators in texas?

[@JuarezDerrick]

@@lightingthedarkremoteviewi8086 been in Texas all my life and we have tons of gators.

[@sallyclark9636]

@@JuarezDerrick and not all of them live in water, if you get my drift. LOL.

[@FemmiGirlz]

Right! Scary but not only that poisonous frogs, snakes and I see she had him on a leash which is great but if he got loose and went into a river with a certain type of algae it could kill him.

[@chancesareshewears]

I would have taken off as soon as I saw that neighbourhood.. I've driven this country many times and i get nervous at motels..if they feel dodgy..I just drive no matter how tired or late it is.

[@kaikito2348]

Sometimes, being short, fat , plain-looking and balding ain't so bad.

[@moreofawave]

Considering there are rapists who rape women in their 90's, or men, sometimes looks isn't the driver. It's just they have a 'body' to exploit.

[@arubahappy]

she wasn't bald

[@captainjim6300]

I am all and still carry a gun. lol

[@ryankorban6549]

That's a nice combo all bases coverd But you never know some guys have no Standards.

[@mlee81]

George Castanza?

[@ellamarie9429]

Just found your channel. Sisterhood supports you in anger toward that creep. Its jostling. Manifesting more respectful men contact moving forward. Glad you could reset & find safer lodgings, more fulfillment & processing after grief. You are a strong poet. Cheers to safe travels from milwaukee 💜

[@forestrunner8922]

Yes .. that is so scary..! What a horrible feeling being followed.. it reminded me of what occurred to me a year ago… I was at the beach by where I live reading a book in my car with the sun shining in door open… two guys in a big huge dark truck suddenly pulled next to me… I got so scared the way they were looking at me I closed door and drive off… they literally followed me for five minutes as I turned to try and lose them.. I finally pulled into a huge lot full of people and they gave up.. I hate that for sure so sorry for your experience but I feel u safe with your dog ..! Dogs help anlot

[@wassupitsann]

Best of luck in your adventures and future endeavors. May you and your dog will always be safe.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

That is so kind, thank you for that Ann. And thank you for watching!

[@breann7913]

@@REGRETLYSS1 Do you carry??? I do!!! I'm disabled I can't walk and I have a young daughter to protect when my husband is on the road working! One of them is sitting beside me right now actually! Our house has been broken into before a couple times! Of course that's not the whole reason I do I love them we had them long before I was sick! I don't think I could travel alone being a girl hell being a guys now days either without protection. We Worry about you. I was jw how you keep safe? I didn't say the words I know YT don't Iike those words!

[@ThroughHisEyes444]

Great video❣️. Love your dog Rio...great insights you were having about going inward, making space for healing. God Bless you both 💖

[@charliestrickland6194]

I just found your channel and am blessed to hear your words. Even traveling solo for guys is sometimes dangerous. But you are so wise to listen to your inner guide. And your thoughts on grieving touched me. Thank you. Be safe.

[@jcryptogoldsilv2826]

White knight!

[@mountainlace7618]

Just an FYI, when in Alligator territory, it is good to remember ALL bodies of water should be considered "their" home & small animals are high on their menu. Please stay safe and enjoy your travels 🤗

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Hi ML! Absolutely. I kept Rio on a tight leash for that reason, but just had to check it out. I appreciate that warning! Those gators are sneaky

[@michaelreece458]

@Monday, Tuesday Is My Weekend Indeed....in a split second.

[@timeforchange3786]

@@REGRETLYSS1 sneaky and fast lol

[@kattykat9600]

This is all I could think while watching her dog play in Louisiana, like ma'am, please watch out for Alligators!

[@mamalovesthebeach437]

Interesting that this came into my feed… last week I was pumping gas in the middle of the day, and a guy pulled up next to a pump alongside me. He gets out of his car looks at me and says “hey good lookin!” I just shook my head and kept pumping my gas. I always have my car keys with me so that no one can jump in my car and takeoff and for the alarm feature. I’m 67 years old for crying out loud and still dealing with this BS.🤦‍♀️ I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with it. It sounds like you have a good intuition and took care of yourself in that circumstance. I have to say it really helps having a dog. Predators are generally cowards and want easy prey. Dogs complicate things. Be safe on the road. And enjoy your travels.💜

[@cheryltrosper8108]

You are such a kind, determined, courageous women. Safe travels.

[@xiampiii]

As a guy, I won't understand what cat-calling men expect? Like it makes women feel uncomfortable, do you seriously expect them to sleep with you?? 💀

[@deemack5179]

Good point. Most men who do this are women haters. They don't respect women and will do harm to them. This woman isn't prepared to travel like this. She's used to being with a guy and got the false impression that she can just continue on the journey with few problems. Bad idea. The reality is that anyone traveling single, even some men, are at risk. There are tons of mentally unstable people in the world, predators, and extremely violent humans out there. I hope she gets to a point at which she fully understands that she needs a form of protection beyond just a mild mannered dog which is really her companion. At minimum, she needs a stun gun, mace, and other non-lethal weaponry. At most, she needs some steel heat! This is a healing journey for her but she still needs to be extremely cautious and a bit more savvy.

[@PlaneJaned]

Their goal isn’t to sleep with women. Their goal is to make women feel unsafe and uncomfortable. That’s what gives them pleasure and makes them feel powerful.

[@jcardosa02]

what is "cat calling" exactly? cause if it's hitting on a woman in person when she's walking by how is anyone doing that with intentions to make someone feel unsafe and to have sex with them

[@alight4090]

It’s harassment plain and simple.

[@PlaneJaned]

@@jcardosa02 making unsolicited comments about someone’s body, propositioning someone, whistling at someone, following someone, etc. when that person is just trying to go about their life is harassment. The fact that some people claim to be incapable of working out appropriate contexts in which to hit on someone or claim to be incapable of reading body language to know when their advances are not appreciated do not make that behavior acceptable. And this clueless, incapable persona is often put on by men in a bad faith effort to excuse bad behavior. If men want to successfully hit on women, they should learn how to be respectful while doing it. If they are unwilling or unable to be respectful, that’s their problem. Women aren’t required to tolerate, excuse, or indulge bad behavior by men.

[@michellestratford9753]

We are the descendants of people who listened to their intuition, please don't ignore yours. I'm 56 so my days of having men hassle me are long gone, but I even taught my son from the time he was young, that your intuition and your tummy will always tell you right from wrong and 'should I or shouldn't I'. It doesn't have to necessarily be in relation to sexual threats, our intuition provides an early warning system to threats of all kinds. Glad you're ok💖 Safe travels 🚙🇨🇦

[@elainemclemore4137]

Please be mindful of letting your dog venture into unknown waters, alligators could be anywhere...both of you should be careful...praying you have safe travels always!❤

[@nadeemrehman5466]

Never weep again my daughter God bless you and protect you wherever you go . We are thankful to you. You never weep I praying for my lovely daughter.

[@Dontdive509]

If something was to happen and I was left alone with out my husband (we have no children) I would also live a van life....you are such a inspiration of strength!!!! Thank you for sharing your journey..its so inspiring 🥰

[@samanthadodd8112]

I'm solo female traveler. I got an email from a friend of mine years ago about a survey someone did with rapist in jail. What they look for, what would stop them, what makes them pick u....So I have done some of the things they suggested to make a man walk away. I travel for work so I stay in hotels, but I have used the aggressive loud voice to start a conversation in the elevator to deter. I have stopped and give the "and what" look to someone walking behind, I have stopped stared and gave the "I know u don't want to mess with this bitch look" at men. I'm not young anymore, no where as pretty as you, but please be safe. Loud, proud, not ugly just aware and ain't going to put up with nothing has done me well. Sorry That someone put u in that position. He needs a slap in the back of the head by his own daughter.

[@Wildernessadventuresoz]

I was always told to do something unpredictable as well it seems to frazzle them

[@votesudanusa]

Sounds as if you have a persecution complex.

[@fringedwellermccatintyre730]

In addition to the good tips here: Make sure you always have that 'walking tall posture.'

[@newlife8318]

@@fringedwellermccatintyre730 I prefer the other methods. This isn't about June Dolly Watkins School for Young Ladies!!! This is about getting to the basic realities of gendered behaviour based on biology. Erm now what do we have here? Yes complete scientific evidence through case studies and history shows men do rape women and advice them of their assaulting powers in subtle communicative ways like cat calling and so on designed to condition and induce terror in the female and a rush of power in the male. Watching this girl was like watching the gazelle about to be grabbed by a predator. This is SO serious always. And the fallout for girls and women remains appalling. And any person who is raped. Or about to be. Or raped and bashed and murdered. What are all these lives in jail for? This is the context of a serious crime unfolding here. And poor old ladies can't always walk tall and look pretty, or we're tired. Can we all have a practice run at walking tall and see where that gets us? If a guy's going to go off and attack he's in a highly fixated dangerous state, his mind running with images of assault. You don't unfortunately that with balancing a book on your head.

[@newlife8318]

@@Wildernessadventuresoz now that's actually sort of true in a way...I've done all sorts of things to try and get out of a pickle with them. Like flying out the door and running for help, and calling the cops when everyone in the medical building is not sure if you should, lieing there winded and being frozen in fear like Gandhi tells us to do when being raped ( now that one's a sarcasm classic) ( because it's blindingly obvious how strong and determined they are when they attack and YOU CAN'T BREATHE LIKE THE POOR PREGNANT GIRL KICKED BY a male martyr of aggressive behavior GEORGE FLOYD when he was in criminal mode), ( another strong calling out of male aggression and crime).

[@magicalmary2706]

Don’t let anything or anyone deter you from your dreams! You’ve got this!

[@melaniedavis7638]

I know I'm seeing this a week late, but Happy Mother's Day. You're a great Dog Mom. HUGS

[@AlanMcCarthyguitar]

I’m isolating in my living room with Covid , never been so sick , but still I watched 2 hours of your videos last night on my tv and more this morning, what a courageous person you are

[@TheLaurkenGroup]

I admire your courage & self awareness. I’m like you…like everybody in that my heart has endured multiple compound fractures. I had a traumatic childhood, adult relationships so bad they’re like horrible Hollywood movies. When bad things happen to me, I do two things: A) I take time to process what happened and make sure I’m painfully aware of all the contributing factors, my culpability, too. B) I cut my hair short. Needless to say I’ve never had long hair. But regardless of how you process heartache, perspective is vital. I lost the last man I vowed I’d ever be involved with in early 2017. This one didn’t leave for another woman as the other did-this one died. Massive heart attack and my heart was broken. Finally, I felt broken. I became a recluse after that. I didn’t get a van and travel, but I went alone to places I’d never been before & came home to a house that was that was quiet & stayed quiet. In this time, I severed a lot of plutonic relationships that had barely been on life support. I turned off my ringer for weeks on end & texted or emailed just enough to let family know I was alive. I don’t exactly know what the intricacies of the past 5+ years have taught. But the main lesson learned is that I can depend on myself when I need myself most. At 64, I’m in my life’s proverbial third act. I don’t know what the future holds-if new friends might enter my life; perhaps a new man friend. But if they do, things will be different. It’s like what flight attendants always say as the plane is taxiing for take off, “In the event of a sudden loss of cabin pressure, oxygen masks will fall from the panels above you. Pull the cord straight to start the flow of oxygen then place it over your face & breathe normally. Please be sure you place your mask on first & is working appropriately before assisting others” Take care of yourself before helping others. Words to live and fly by. Education continues even flying the friendly skies at 30k feet. Stay safe & here’s to healing.

[@NorthernKitty]

Intuition is absolutely the best weapon in your arsenal when living the nomad life alone, regardless of gender. Although it can be tricky at times to distinguish intuition from fear. If you examine your feelings closely enough, however, there is a difference. Intuition is a nagging unexplained feeling rather than some specific imagined fear. Your intuition will simply tell you, "this doesn't feel safe" whereas fears will invent scenarios, "OMG, what if someone attacks me?" Listen to the former, ignore the latter.

[@sjwillis1137]

Tricky. But , yeah .

[@LifeofJennyandJacob]

Man my heart started pounding when you said the guy was following you. I’m glad you went with your gut. I love your content btw ❤️ -Jenny

[@rivkaruthgolan]

Don’t look good. Put hair in a bun. Baseball cap. Masculine clothes

[@tiff7217]

In Australia we can only lawfully use self defence not shoot or deliberately hurt someone attacking us Some that have killed in self defence were almost jailed

[@jcferreira]

The dashcam view of you driving and the door to the side looks so cute. It looks like you are driving around in your kitchen:)

[@JuletJulet]

Hi I'm new to your channel. You are beautiful ♡ I related to your sadness because I lost my beautiful daughter 10/29/2020. It's only been a little over one year but in my heart it seems like yesterday. It can be a lonely journey Grief! But I have her little daughter who we're raising who reminds me how beautiful my daughter was and how much I love her daughter too. ♡

[@_aGirlFromKashmir]

More power, strength and love to you, brave Queen .. 👑

[@john404201]

Sorry to hear about the problems that some people bring your way. I am 68 years old. I have COPD and emphysema. I struggle with oxygen starvation. So I watch videos of people hiking and camping and having fun and enjoying life. Kinda helps me feel I'm chilling with you all. I Sub. Stay Safe. Hi from Texas

[@harriethunter8910]

What a gorgeous Dog. Greetings and safe travels from Australia.

[@Sagejourney1440]

Intuition and a firearm. Stay safe out there.

[@gadiantonx8474]

firearms are illegal in too much of the country one must be more creative on weapons curation and usage

[@truthfilterforyoutube8218]

@@gadiantonx8474 Try not putting yourself in these situations. Problem with any weapon is that it is more likely taken away and used against you. Reality is, as a single girl travelling alone, you're asking for trouble !!!

[@gadiantonx8474]

@@truthfilterforyoutube8218 she was asking for it is never an excuse and self defense is written into the DNA of every living thing how one defends self might be the question in point

[@newlife8318]

@@truthfilterforyoutube8218 listen to our language saying women are asking for trouble, based on historical reality and genuine concern. Does this empower men to continue their childish aggression around their predatory behavior? There is at least one whole religion of further assaulting the victim based around it.

[@anarchomoto1152]

@@truthfilterforyoutube8218 "Problem with any weapon is that it is more likely taken away and used against you." Only if you have no idea what you're doing. Solution is to know what you're doing.

[@johncichon9499]

Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm a 62yo dad of 4 daughters and husband of 38 years and it really boils my blood to see females sexualized like you describe. I hope you have every legal weapon....and are ready to use it/them as needed on any one who needs it. My opinion, please don't be offended, I know certain clothing is much more comfortable and acceptable in a larger area...but it draws attention to yourself in areas where men's moral compass are faulty and public opinion is less a good influence. You certainly have a right to wear whatever you want, but be aware of this potential (unintentional) message. Men are either predators or protectors...and I pray you meet the latter most often...if not always. Men without a God-harnessed inner nature are just awful and despised and have a future of eternal punishment waiting unless they repent.

[@jillw.2524]

👍

[@Cleangirlbeauty]

Amen

[@jazza3458]

So sad but I agree and I’ve got six sisters and they know how to be cautious when needed sometimes suffer to dress down and look a bit shabby and that would be my advice to those poor girls in Ukrain Men can be so bloody disgusting. Stay safe and remember you need more eyes tan a sack of spuds 😎. Stay beautiful and stay safe 👍✌️

[@shittersfull886]

That is offensive and untrue about those that dont believe in deities. You dont need religious beliefs to have morals. In fact there are plenty of crazy religious people who take advantage of the vulnerable.

[@phatjones6263]

Thank you for sharing and making me feel okay with "sitting in the space"...I too need time to heal and sometimes life pushes me into the future before I am ready....thanks for reminding me! Peace and safe journey into tomorrow.....

[@OneLove101.]

I’m so sorry someone made you feel this way. I’m glad to hear you’re prepared though, if needed. 🙂 Safe travels to you and your fur baby 🚐 ❤️

[@BobVan]

That guy was probably tired of hooking up with his sisters... Your alarm was valid. Even lone guys in your situation would get freaked out with strangers following them granted we don’t get catcalled and all that like our counterparts do. But methheads, thieves and bad actors don’t discriminate who they mess with. Good job keeping your cool. Thanks for sharing. Safe travels✌🏼

[@cormet55os28]

lol ewww

[@davidbladen5667]

I was vacationing in Arizona back in 1986. I had a nice campsite in Sedona along Oak Creek. I drove over to check out Montezuma's Castle. It was very interesting. When I left I decided to take a look at a boondock campground. I drove in and there was such a scuzzy bunch of people sizing me up in my new truck and camper that really spooked me so I left and drove back to Sedona for the night. The next day I bought a newspaper and there was an article about someone that was murdered at that spooky campground later in the evening after I left. Go with your gut feelings and stay safe.

[@bobbys4327]

@@davidbladen5667 Also last year down the road at Cottonwood Walmart there was a big shoot out between police and a big family of vagabonds.

[@kylethornberry7074]

A 12 guage will increase you feeling of being safe and secure.

[@cr-nd8qh]

Depends if she can get to it and not get it used against her

[@gaillessard2786]

Not practical walking around town. Concealed carry is the way.

[@crownofhair]

12 guage for home defense, conceal for personal carry. Its also never a bad idea for anyone to take martial arts. Your body can be a lethal weapon if you know how to use it. Building the muscle memory helps us when we are in a tense situation bc we have practiced and prepared. Always be aware of your surroundings, and be ready to do what you need to.

[@pbodymathis]

Get you a taser and a small pistol (22 caliber) and some pepper spray. Use the pepper spray first, taser second, and the gun last unless the attacker is quickly on you. Practice grabbing for them in your RV until it is automatic! Un load your gun first so you do not shoot a hole in the RV.

[@lyfandeth]

Bad idea. Taking a gun across state lines, or using it out of compliance with local laws, can get the "victim" convicted of felonies. Not a casual decision.

[@JuarezDerrick]

@@lyfandeth That's why it's best to stay in Texas lol

[@amandawellsvenegas7024]

The reality of traveling solo as a woman. The world isn’t gonna change, but we can be safe, prepared, capable, and wise.

[@HeatherBDentureDiVa]

Why the hell are people commenting saying it's your fault. People coming at you or making you feel afraid is not your fault. It's the person who is coming at you fault. I'm glad you have your dog to keep you aware and protect you or help in any way. But I'm seriously disappointed in humanity ever thinking it's a woman's fault when stalked or attacked. Fricken ashamed of all these bad comments

[@kerrazee]

I'm sorry that jackass made you feel less than safe. I'm also glad you mentioned it. Of all these videos I've watched, I've wondered about safety yet you're the first to bring it up . Thank you

[@cindyfrakes3311]

I’m sorry this happened to you in my home state. I love my Texas but hate bad behavior. Glad you came out of that okay. Stay safe and keep on trusting your gut.

[@ND-lz2ti]

I think she’s so exaggerating how she’s expressing about my home state as well so ridiculous she’s more than welcome to get out of Texas.

[@ryubonsai6861]

Hugs from the U.K.! So glad you are safe. You have such a good handle on how to cope with bad emotions. Things will get easier for you so look forward to the sun coming out from behind the cloud!❤️❤️❤️

[@michelleward9315]

if you are feeling vulnerable, sad,, lonely, and unsure, the anxiety, over thinking and fear can be defeating at times. Remember this will pass and you will emerge stronger and more prepared for almost anything. Those feelings are not easy. Your tears cleanses the soul and laughter and music bring hope for better days. And you have your best friend your devoted and spiritual protection with unconditional love for you. My prayer for you is for your higher self spirit guides and love protect you watch over and guide you through out your journey..

[@sidneymartinez5752]

That's why it's always good to have a puppy around they know they will keep you safe

[@got2flynow]

I really really like your style of vlog. It draws me in to listen and feel your message. I hear you. The first part made me very anxious and my protective nature started coming out to kick the shit out that dude. I still get so angry and saddened that a person would make another person feel that way. But you are smart, capable, and aware... don't need any help. Rio is a good traveling partner and dogs are very intuitive too. Til next time... Stay safe. Mitch ✌

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Mitch, thank you for this. I feel completely capable, and I'm glad that shows. It's so great to know I have a supportive community here on KZbin. You're the best Mitch! Thanks for continuing to watch

[@williammartin9115]

You are a wise and beautiful, from the inside out, person. Sitting with emotional pain and allowing it to take its course is not something we are taught in school and our society runs away and numbs itself with every manner of distraction....drugs, entertainment, gambling, shopping, etc. Namaste :)

[@sweetpeazAdVantures]

I just crossed the country and stayed at LOVE’s all through Texas.

[@michaelbryant2071]

It can be quite challenging being single and living alone. I am 67 and have lived alone for twenty years now. Never be hesitant to reach out to your loved ones, friends, or anyone else and communicate what your feeling. Great adventures and journeys to you.

[@1Troutguy]

I'm a new Subscriber, I'm watching from story 1. Love seeing, hearing your story, here is a tip, if! you ever have an incident with a creeper, a good thing to know is kick the shin! HARD... they will go down fast and in pain and cannot follow you. Be safe LYSS, we Love you back, safe travels. 👊 Vince

[@catmandoo8295]

I'm so sorry that you're hurting! I can tell. It's not easy; I've been there! Being alone really sucks. It's great that you have people that you can talk with. I am praying for your protection, and safe passage home to NC!

[@kacey9281]

So sorry you have to deal with that. I would recommend definitely getting some kind of protection for yourself. I hope you don't have to go through situations like that alot. Much love stay safe out there.

[@lindsey.eldritch]

Oh my gosh! I was so scared for you in the beginning. I think you could handle anything you had to, but you should NOT have to! Very much praying for your continued safety. Thank you for being so candid with your viewers. You’re awesome!

[@got2flynow]

Agreed. What you said...

[@warhammer5789]

Waters edge is usually Home to Dragon woops. Stay away from the water! It's not safe! And stay in after dusk! We have it all over the place here! It's scary. Please Be Safe!

[@tonyriri4265]

Boy Scout Motto Babe: Be Prepared. Because you're attractive you have your work cut out for you. You have kids too. If your confident in your ability to protect yourself what about your kids. I would never jeopardise my daughters life, but, If I am prepared, I go where ever I want with her. Be prepared girl. Diligence, trust your instinct and be aware at all times. You'll be fine

[@ruthcline5465]

So good to know you’re capable of staying safe. I highly recommend a siren type alarm for your keychain and pepper spray/bear spray in order to defend yourself. Thanks for sharing your need to slow down and deal with sorrow in the moment, those times come to us all. Happy trails.

[@zariballard]

Ruth Cline Oh yeah, a siren and a spray canister....that'll keep the bad guys away.

[@pennyappellatia]

Robin of Creativity RV had a hand-glove bear spray thing that impressed me.

[@Lakesidelife]

This too shall pass. Trust those instincts. These are character defining moments that will make you stronger and more confident with your independence. Stay safe.

[@healthcoachrene7351]

Hopefully this does not come off as creepy, but I am so impressed with your wisdom and maturity about life. I am truly touched by this video. Thank you for being vulnerable. Oh. And next time you might just go park at a truck stop? Glad you were safe.

[@jenniferw5095]

Be safe, you and Rio. ❤ Prayers for intuition keeping you in safe areas.

[@N-A-uw5fp]

There are those who cross boundaries and then there are those who are just sick! Stay intuitive and safe!

[@lascauxmaibe]

I’d be terrified of someone slashing my tires 😬

[@foto-poptv9446]

Who is catcalling in this day and age? wow so scary. The look on your face said it all. I don't think I've ever seen you sooo tense. rightfully so. Always trust your intuition. Gald you made it out ok. hugs

[@robinp9047]

So glad and grateful that you are ok 🙏🏽❤️☮️

[@chrisjohnson1599]

Stay safe out there! Tell Rio, "Don't Drive Angry!" for us. 😁 Most Wal-Marts don't advertise it, but they don't seem to mind people passing-through to park toward the outskirts of their parking lot. Most are no longer 24hrs, but they still have fairly well-lit parking lots and some allow pets in their stores as long as they are well-behaved. Hugs from a new fan!

[@SmithBeatZ1]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'll apologize for all men that act like that. It's beyond uncalled for. Love seeing solo woman out camping and enjoying life.

[@katherine2777]

Get a dummy for passenger seat, they have some great ones and keep pepper spray with you! Drive into public place..find police station when being followed

[@Tammy121111]

PLUS SHE CAN GET SOLAR LIGHTS PUT ON HER BUS WITH STRONG LIGHT ALL AROUND THE BUS JUST IN CASE YOU MAY NEEDS TO SEES WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND HER & A LOUD BULLHORN , YOU CAN GETS THE BULL HORN IN THE FISHING DEPT. THEY ALSO USE THEM ON BOATS TOO & THEY'RE VERY LOUD TOO !! WE ALSO GOTS SEC. LIGHTS AROUND OUR RV TOO & IF THEY ARE MOUNTED TO THE RV/ BUS , OTHERS CAN'T REACH THEM !! ALSO GETS SOMETHING THAT CAN PROTECT HER WELL AND IT'S A GREAT THING THAT'S SHE HAS A ( DOG) FURBABY WITH HER TOO !!

[@picturefish40]

I live out of my truck, I travel from San Diego because I like kayak's fishing to Nederland, Colorado. I carry with me a flare gun, and I make sure they see it. Hope you stay safe.

[@ThePlantUtopia]

That is a good idea. I will remember that when I start traveling.

[@dawnhightman8557]

I am sorry that idiot made you feel that way. It’s like -really did he think you would be in some way inspired to turn around and talk or do more with that idiot! People seriously have issues some times. I’m glad you have a dog-they truly are our best friends!.

[@helenhines2712]

I could never do what you're doing. I applaud you for being so brave and adventurous. I'm too afraid of everything therefore I have a boring life. Be careful and always stay safe. 👏😊

[@dianal.1279]

From a woman to another: you're not alone. 🌻 Greetings from Belgium!☀️

[@virtualcardshoppetraveland3655]

Thank you for sharing your journey and letting us know it's OK to be human.

[@RPRiley]

Although the beginning was troubling, the ending was thoughtful and warm. Thank you

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Hey rix, I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for commenting

[@rocknrollfawn]

Those are my neck of the woods. Born and raised in West Texas...trying to get away for my whole life! I'm finally going to do this thing soon!

[@markfairbairn1769]

Nothing quite as unsettling as feeling unsafe. Thank heavens all worked out ok! Happy & safe travels to you!

[@davidhansentobyblak8785]

I came to your vlog late. I saw your split and I felt your pain. When that jerk in Abiline was messing with you and you returned to the bus and let your emotions out I wanted so bad to give you a hug and tell you that it was going to be alright. I traveled alone in a van I converted quite a bit. I started out the first trip with similar heart issues. Sometimes being alone sucks. Time and introspection can heal. As I continued my road trips through the 80/s I was able to explore the country by myself and managed to learn quite a bit about myself and how other people experienced ĺife. Remember that all of life is a journey and that we don/t get all of the puzzel pieces at once. I pray for your healing and safety. Dave

[@russellallen9648]

Here is the reality to what I keep seeing with this new phenomenon called van life. A lot of young women and little dogs traveling across the country and putting themselves in situations that are unsafe. There are predators of all kinds everywhere. Nowadays people just have this odd selfritches belief system that clouds their common sense and puts themselves and others, or in these cases their pets in bad situations. Walking around those recreational areas with a little dog is not the best idea because predators see a easy target. Just like a young woman walking around in a strange town. Please understand the reality of the world we live in and be aware of your situation, and be safe.

[@jilllangman9343]

That really tricky word to spell is actually self righteous.

[@woomeebly]

I really don't care to know your name But I know about you, you victim shame I suggest you find someone else to blame Don't look at the stranger who simply came To visit and give a small town newfound fame You really seem to think this is a game Not everybody is as predatory as you claim Yes there's idiots but then again It's not about the victims that you should complain But the men who hassle women and cause trouble and pain Enjoy your miserable five mins of fame And may I never have to speak to you again!

[@theviolator6039]

Unresolved wounds... nicely stated... I sometimes feel like a mass of unresolved wounds and when I release, be it from the lyrics of a song, or a memory, or from that lonely feeling when you want to share something and there is noone there... that release is the only thing that's real in an otherwise false existence. To quote a character from the great JRR Tolkien "I feel like a pat of butter scraped over too much bread."

[@rexmobley2760]

Thank You Lyss... I often tell my grandchildren "the are the good ol' days" Happy Tracks

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Hey Rex!! I always get a smile on my face when I see you've commented. :)

[@ivansnegireff7515]

The steam people don't understand even though I'm on KZbin I'm always helping out other people's and I miss you and I support a lot of music but thank you anyways

[@user-gq3qz8nj5v]

I feel for you. There is no time limit on grieving. I lost my husband when he was 47, I still have days when I feel like my heart is going to break, and I am 74 now. So you grieve as often as you need to. I just found your channel. You are a beautiful young lady, Stay safe. ❤

[@marianamunoz6075]

Yes! Please share your solo woman nomad safety and protection tools & protocols! For those of us wanting to get out there on our own but too scared to! So glad you’re safe! 💜

[@kimberlymajor5185]

Be careful around bodies of water in the South. There are alligators.

[@joyyoung7082]

Your voice is so relaxing. You should do books on tape. Your vlogs are very well done.

[@yuyulimaster]

My grandmother always says: intuition is always right. God Bless you darling. Thats why I dont like Texas.

[@REGRETLYSS1]

Your grandmother is absolutely right. thank you for watching!

[@kd5you1]

It's not Texas. There are creeps everywhere. Even as a guy I feel uneasy when I arrive at work before anyone else, and while waiting in the parking lot some strange car I don't recognize stops near me or slowly creeps by.

[@siobhanwisdom1500]

I have had 2 Rio's in my life

[@ruggedrick]

Why would you park behind a bar? Bars are bad news, especially at night. When you're in East Texas, check out Steele Creek Park and Walling Bend Park near Whitney, TX. I found out a couple years ago through the Free Roam app. I now moved here on paper, and spend my winters here. It's fair to say that I now have a life here. It's not at all sketchy, and lots of people love this rural area.