RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION HACKS FOR HER | South African Couple YouTubers

[@meeshelml4138]

Yhooo moes at the rate that it's going, some of us will enter marriage as experts because wow we are led!🤭🥰 You two are honestly doing the Lord's work! Thank you

[@angelinemoreroa1429]

Exactly hey. It's the info we need especially us singles. ❤

[@mello4392]

Couldn't agree more

[@noziphon1]

Lalela! 👌🏿👌🏿

[@noziphon1]

Lalela! 👌🏿👌🏿

[@ThandazaMK]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣yeyiiiiiii, we will have PHD's

[@keneuoe100]

I am here for the sign language interpretation guys... As a disability activist who focuses mainly on equal access to information I AM SOOOOOO HAPPY FOR THIS.

[@sharonjohns1686]

This man is flipping MATURE!! Wow very admireable couple. My goodness 💞💞💞

[@TheMakhs]

A King! We thank God for the gift of Wisdom♥️♥️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@portiamothibi5401]

God has saved my marriage through you guys....I personally want to thank you so much for allowing God to use you...I can't thank you enough🙏

[@TheMakhs]

Praise God🥺🥺🥺. We literally have no words! We thank God for using us to make an impact your marriage. We are truly humbled. May He continue to bless your union. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@sebentilezanini1085]

Wwow!!! Marriage is beautiful...if more people could share especially in line with Gods word on how to run our marriages....so much heartache would be avoided. Siyabonga bo Makhetha!!!! I always say be kind to one another, respect each other and always seek to understand the other persons point of view ....

[@sinazositshange96]

I honestly haven't seen any other channel with sign language interpreter, big up to The Makhs 👏👏🤗🤗

[@sandyleputu8258]

I am learning so much from you guys as a married woman , may God continue to use you. You guys make marriage a blessing to everyone and doable

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you for choosing to journey with us Sandy. We are so humbled by your beautiful words of love and encouragement ♥️♥️

[@mgeijho]

60 000 subscribers here we come!!!!💃💃💃💃

[@ms.buhlee]

What a lovely sign name Pheto😍😍 Thank you guys for being so considerate for the Deaf community. Shout out to the interpreter!🙌 blessings to you all

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much! I absolutely love my sign name!♥️♥️♥️. Calvin is incredible. He is literally holding our hands throughout this journey of inclusivity. We are grateful to him and the deaf community for embracing us with love.

[@NduwaSiachaba]

This is sublime over here!❤️❤️ My partner thinks I'm turning into this groomed, wise mature lady😅. Not knowing I'm being groomed out there with content from you two❤️❤️✨You guys are impactful Keep up with the good works🙌 Much love from Zambia 🇿🇲

[@karabobatshwenyi4783]

Wow🥰this is nice to hear

[@TheMakhs]

This is so beautiful to hear. Thank you so much for journeying with us. We are also being groomed by being on this platform♥️♥️♥️

[@racheallamptey4374]

Mr. Makh is full of wisdom mahhnnn!!😭❤️ God bless you guys🙏 Amazing content 🇬🇭♥️

[@lulumops]

So true Lerato, I also block out certain events and conditions depending on how they make me feel. It drives my partner crazy! To him I am forgetting important issues. To me, I simply block out traumatic and painful experiences.

[@masabathamhlongo6378]

Phetola you’re not the only one, perhaps that’s how we are as women,because what you say is familiar , and surprisingly enough how Lerato reacts is similar to how my husband does, you know wow thanks guys this is absolutely imperative, and wisdom filled May the good Lord help us to be better communicators in marriage , to exercise grace wow that was a great point Lerato🙌🏽 cos wow a lot bad fights are due to bad manner of approach in communication.

[@aminutewithgod7812]

It’s Phetola’s “ mmmh mmmh yaaah” responses😍 they get me all the time ❤️

[@xsikwana]

Im glad you are having these discussions coz guys had i gotten married in my 20's or early 30's, yeeeey i wud hev been a problem... Well not married yet but one day, when the Lord wills.

[@MimiMosia19]

OMG how am I only realizing the sign language interpreter now????????! that's so amazing that you guys had one in this video!!! Thank you for being considerate to the deaf community.

[@meesheeli9107]

At this rate,with this knowledge by the time I'll be 21 I'll be offering relationship advice chile.Thank you so much for the vulnerability❤

[@wandilekwanda541]

The gang's in the house. You guys are such a blessing to all of us.❤❤

[@TheMakhs]

Heeey Wandile!!! The O.G! So blessed to still have you in our corner♥️♥️

[@karabonkadimeng9576]

I'm a new member here and I'm Soo mad myself for not joining the family sooner...very fruitful conversation you have here❤️

[@TheMakhs]

A warm welcome to the #DreamTeam! We hope that you love it here♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@believebecome99]

Lucky for you, you can spend hours watching all their previous videos

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

"When you want your man to do something,make it seem like it's his idea coz men don't like to be told what to do"😭wow I really learnt alot from this❤thank you so much Mrs Makhs

[@kundaikoti9701]

There are always lessons to learn over here, that's why I love it here.

[@TheMakhs]

We love you being here! Thank you for tuning in every week! We see you♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@DrKadosh_A_Fruitful_Woman]

The manner in which we speak, the tone, the attitude…. Wise advice. The way we approach others says a lot about our heart ♥️. We need to still learn to speak in love though our feelings are hurt, yet remaining truthful. I used to be a straight talker too, in all my relationships, and Lord did that get me in trouble.. Thank God for maturity. We need to learn to get our defences down and communicate and not just talk. #Dreamteam You Are The Bestest. 🏆

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️

[@snenhlanhlamashile6398]

This so so encouraging cause right now I'm peak giving up on him but i love so much so that even typing this or the thought of leaving hurts me so much but I'll hang in there

[@phiwo8998]

I can’t express how incredible your approach to this is. You guys use your own lives as case studies and it helps make the message so much more tangible. Thank you for putting yourselves out there. Learnt so much from You guys !

[@likopotsephe8979]

I'm like Lerato when it comes to communicating with grace and love. Fighting with words is truly hurtful, and then my husband will apologize later like, it's harder to forget what was said...let's just not engage until we're calm.

[@TheMakhs]

So true. We need to remind ourselves to always fight fair, and in love♥️

[@mantsimanesebokolodi1762]

Sometimes it really is "1 + 1 my baby"😂😂😂😂...

[@nicolestroud3009]

You guys are the best! Def agree with the wife. Validating feelings can be important. I want to hear, yes you miss me too. So powerful to interrogate your feelings too. Vulnerability is such a tricky thing. Continue inspiring the world with your relationship tips/convos.

[@LM-he7eb]

Tjeeeer! Mr.Makhs. I like the fact that you noted that Pheto's inability to admit that she misses you, could be because she doesn't trust you with her feelings. And I like that you asked how you have contributed to that mistrust.

[@sinolesaoana7761]

You are my kind of "personal development'. I learn everyday from you rents. Your podcasts are always so informative ❤I am a young person who happens to grasp a lot, trust me we will get into our own marriages with these important tools. I love you so much.

[@ndeshipanda3588]

I spent a minute just rewinding you guys saying your names in sign. so thoughtful and welcoming👏

[@reshoketswemogwaneng7354]

on 15:00 I get what Aus'Phetola is saying about fighting your partner when you actually miss them. I am also like that I cant explain it but she explains it better.

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

Yoh Lerato drops gems beke le beke.🔥More young men need to hear him.

[@juniorcapital3084]

The thumbnails are always so creative.

[@fikileassah1026]

Jooo this is profound installment. When I communicate things to my husband, most of the time I mean them. My husband confuse communication and being talkative, and everytime I try to communicate something he would say "ngikhuluma kakhulu" meaning I'm talkative.

[@ThisIzKena]

I LOVE that Lerato was NOT feeling that "making it my idea" point and vetted it further...King ish! 😉 ... it was the only point in the video that made me *side eye*. So, it was nice to have him in agreement! Great video as always! 🥰🥰

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much fam! ♥️♥️

[@Lindo.N7]

Thank you for the Hacks team! ..❤ still here, and ON we go🎈🎉

[@charmainemathye8662]

So refreshing. The communication even in this video is simply mind blowing. Also love how Lerato articulates his thoughts

[@sinothandosirunu]

It's so crazy how God has wired men and women's brains so differently. And yet we have to make it work, but there's so much beauty in that. Thank you for sharing these hacks with us, also, you guys having this conversation in your platform made me understand myself more because you are so relatable.

[@chumamajova5503]

My thoughts exactly, thank God He has given us grace to make it work😅

[@sinothandosirunu]

Indeed❤️

[@gofa.matembe4761]

Nako e ke kopanang le lona ke tlo go lela shem🙌 I appreciate you guys so so much

[@pontsotsoeunyane9395]

This is so profound and yes Phetola, I can relate to that behaviour of pulling fights in the quest for attention. I like how you guys unpacked this episode and thanks for being exposing your vulnerability with is

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much Pontsho. Thank you for creating a safe space for us to be honest and vulnerable 🤗🤗♥️

[@mahlogonolothobane7298]

Amazing installment., I learnt so much. Thank you bana ba Ramogolo :-)

[@sanelemjoli4877]

Wow this was proper hey. It's all about the approach and I agree 100x. The Great I AM loves you

[@ThorisoMoalusi]

You guys are amazing. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you!

[@sanelisiwesanne1586]

This got so real😍😍😍😍thank you for all this .May the good Lord really protect your union.i love you guys

[@ogiyonkematiwane1224]

Yoh ha.a I’ve never seen soo much transparency but very well articulated and not offensive to anyone. Y’all are soo profound haibo.🔥🔥😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️.. Your wisdom doesn’t get old, truly aligned with Christ. You guys growing with each other and not against each other is the most beautiful part. ♥️♥️😍😍😍😍. Love is soo beautiful 🤩 . On the men not being mind readers part, I’m taking notes🤣🤣🤣.

[@beatalabercensie545]

It's the emotional intelligence for me. ❤️ I love this. God bless ✨

[@salomechauke6181]

Let me tell you neh,this installment was so good,I had to pause it 10 minutes before it finished because I didn't want it to...more wisdom to you both 🙏🏽

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah this is so amazing!♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@hlengiwe1464]

Thankyou so much for this and for being such a blessing 🙏🏾

[@ntombikayisemthembu7711]

Cn we hv annual single and married men and women seminars with you guys coz I feel like a whole lot alot of marriages and relationships cud b saved through some of the topics you touch on.

[@tabbywaithera9112]

Love this 2...💖 freeee therapy I tell you.Enjooying every 42nd minute of this segment.God bless y'all.

[@lolwethungcawa8354]

Here for the content. Very insightful video, I'm definitely watching hacks for him. 🙏❤️

[@bontlemofokeng4815]

The more I listen to you two week in and out I see myself in Lerato and Phetola is so much like my hubby. So it's not about men or women but characters. I love you 2 so much.

[@gabrielmbundu1022]

Great inside really... Love what you guys are doing by keeping it real

[@limakatsoselatile6424]

Your content is genius, EVERY single time... I am learning so much from you. Thank you so much for this.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@MrsD_2022]

True. Many things don't come naturally to men. I can relate to this.

[@africankenyan6089]

Watching from Kenya🇰🇪

[@godandglam9636]

oh meeennnn!!!! I love you guys soooo much. I always look foward to your installments and y'all never disappoint. And its always the " Peace and blessings. One time too real oh yeah" for me💃💃💃 Thank you MAKHS

[@chumamajova5503]

Nit me liking befire getting into it🤭🤭🤭. I love you guys thanks for building and empowering us in this joyrney witj Christ and relationships❤️💕

[@Afrosoil11]

I'm realizing Lerato is very sensitive person, it makes sense since he is a creative a well. Great installment as usual. Learning a lot

[@vanessakhanya1707]

Thank you for the lovely content and good lessons. Ja as ladies you would pick a fight not aware you just missing the person......

[@nomvuselelomatsebula4822]

Thank you guys for addressing important issues that often destroy marriages. Thank you for sharing your journey and growth; this is very equipping. I have learnt a lot.

[@sibobuhlungu4404]

The wisdom in Mr Makhs, wow. God bless you🙌🙏

[@traceymoumakwa3974]

😂 😂 😂 😂 Stiff... Phetola is more like me🤣🤣🤣

[@mgeijho]

Pheto you are not alone my sister!Adrienne on The Real says her husband sometimes tells her "babe,just tell me you miss me".and when i heard that it really made me introspect😂😂😂😂😂because i also start unnecessary fights and even i dont even know what that was about!

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️ yuuu inde lendlela (this road is long) but we are learning everyday!

[@lesegomokaleng1006]

Enjoyed this ❤️ thanks for sharing.

[@yyem_n]

The Makhs are amazing guys, do the right thing maan!! 🥺❤️🔥🙏🏾 Thank you so much for the quality content, I appreciate yal!! 🥰🥰

[@daphneatlholang7026]

May God continue to bls u the Makhs indeed u r an inspiration to many of us,m really blsd about this.

[@pamellagumbo4194]

My favorite couple watching from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 l learn a lot from your podcasts 🤍

[@queenria-thesidegigsavage4738]

Also watching from Zimbabwe

[@mpopisirejoicemanamela278]

Thank you family for this instalment. Love you guys❤️🙏

[@tsegomolema7659]

Wow I so needed to be reminded of this! Thank you 🙏🙏

[@torixx9910]

This episode was too short😫😫😫❤️‍🔥Needless to say I love your channel

[@kwakha6103]

Signing in Tribe, 10 seconds in and already loving it.

[@winniethipa4011]

Come on!!! You guys are the best absolutely love your instalments!!

[@queenlilly_violinist]

Wooow family thank you for this eye opening instalment!

[@dimphomoyana4928]

That moment at 33:57-33:58🥺🥺🥺🥺....Priceless❤❤❤

[@MolobaneEstateLodgeSpa]

"That was poor communication ,wow Mrakhetha😂

[@Tefo-Sethuba.]

Thank you guys for this installment 😍🥰😘

[@bernoveneodendaal8782]

Beautiful installment guys! So helpful. God bless you

[@faithmaloma6176]

On the "make it seem like his idea"... I agree, it doesn't even have to be a serious issue. My e.g when we are at the shops and I suddenly remember that a child needs a pair of jeans for civvies and he would say "no, it's not in the budget, you like spending unplanned " and Bob's your uncle he comes home the next day with a better looking one and much more pricey and he comes home happy about the purchase.

[@faithmaloma6176]

When he said no, I didn't argue but I knew I would still get the jea s the next day

[@gabrielmbundu1022]

I'm not not married yet but learning a lot about relationships.... keep keeping on

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

Mnmmnh, mmmmm your names in sign language, I am sold, u are having so much fun 😄

[@nadia_manjate]

I'm exactly like you Pat...it's hard to articulate myself in the moment. But we live and we learn

[@LethoHali]

Can’t wait to watch when I wake up!

[@nkhensanijacobs8840]

Ebang president le le two🤣🙌🙌🙌...haai nooh lol I feel yall could just run awhole country...a king and a queen.love you guys so much...le tlisa lesedi sechabeng♡

[@darryldenemartin3651]

I'm just here going ...🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️... wisdom on wisdom on wisdom.😩❤

[@octovianKamau]

This was so so good... I relate to Phetola a lot... I'm really learning. Love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@KhanyisileDlamini23]

Wow thank you for this topic and the tips ❤I'm not married nor in a relationship coz I want to work on myself and I'm really learning alot from you guys😭you are truly a blessing ❤❤

[@katlegomolokoe4437]

Sho! This is deep and very important.

[@siyamtolo6733]

"You are his stress!"🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bomb points Lerato there by role reversal! ❤️

[@TheMakhs]

😂😂😂😂🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️

[@victoriasomtyato4400]

So beautiful. Thank you for this

[@myneighborhood3466]

Thank you for being real. I have learned a great deal today. It's true that we are often told communication is the key to a good relationship. And as newly wed I am struggling a lot in actually terms of applying it in my every day life. Thank you for giving me and many others a starting point. God bless you

[@siyamtolo6733]

This was so lovely, fun and informative Pheto you represented sis!❤️❤️❤️

[@ngawethungcuka9780]

Petola, please allow Lerato to be great and appreciate your beauty as much and wherever he wants, trust me you will miss it when he doenst complement you publicly anymore. can be overhwelming at times- i can imagine but just take it and own it you are beautiful girl

[@katlegomolokoe4437]

This is very good, thank you guys for this 🙏

[@mgeijho]

Lorato,believe me bro,its not what you do or dont do.we are just wired like that!sometimes we dont know how to express ourselves so we end up starting fights.i wouldnt say theres anything you can do to change that.Pheto did well to explain it(the missing you but not saying it).i dont know guys,we just need prayers😂😂😂😂😂its almost as if we want our men to be on the same page and same line as us ALL THE TIME!!

[@mariatashiyashoolongo]

Wau my favorite couples 💑 just nailed 👌 it. Thank you , I learned alot

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaahhh thank you so much♥️♥️

[@MangyM.]

Talk about the relevant content at the time I am in need of it😢😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@itisallaboutus8534]

Inspiration and motivation is what I get when I come here

[@teboJoh]

You know what ne the point that you were making about a meeting at the last hour is soo true. Sometimes we miss our partners and don't know how to say it. And Lerato s response 😭 when he said "if u had told me that you miss me, I would do something about it".😪I will definitely communicate much better next time guys thanks. Its true men r simple🙏

[@leraydoo1]

AHHHHH you guys have helped me sooo much with this installment. I am definitely going to implement these communication skills in my marriage. Thank you so much.

[@TheMakhs]

We are so happy to hear this! Bless you fam♥️♥️

[@AmoKgori]

This is so insightful fam. Kea leboga. I pray my husband to be is consuming this kind of content too, we all have alot to lear from this kingdom love.