Relationship Style of the ISTP (Intellectual)

Do you ever wonder why your partner will do things with you, but you can never get them to open up and share their thoughts and feelings? Or feel like you are on one mountain, and they are on another trying to find a way to connect?
Then you won’t want to miss this episode of Relationship Live to find out why the ISTP behaves this way!
Get ready to dive deep into the wild and wonderful world of ISTPs! These folks are like Peter Pan, refusing to grow up and instead choosing to live in a never-ending cycle of excitement, freedom, and adventure. They've got a serious case of FOMO, constantly seeking out new experiences and living in the moment without a care in the world about the future or the boring responsibilities of adulthood. And let's not forget their impulsivity - they'll jump headfirst into any situation without a second thought, consequences be damned!
While this all sounds pretty thrilling and exhilarating, it can also cause some serious headaches for their partners. They can sometimes prioritize their own needs over their partner's, leaving them feeling neglected and unimportant. And when it comes to commitment, forget about it! They'll do just about anything to avoid being tied down or constrained by anyone else's expectations.
If you're tired of feeling like your ISTP partner is off in Neverland, tinkering away and avoiding emotional intimacy, we've got some tricks up our sleeve to reel them in. We'll teach you how to sweet talk and seduce your ISTP into opening up and sharing their thoughts and feelings with you. With a little charm and a lot of patience, you can unlock the mysteries of your ISTP partner's brain and turn that Peter Pan into an intimate partner!
Not only will you learn what makes them tick, you’ll find out…
- Why they have a hard time with commitment
- What drives their impulsive behavior
- Why it’s so hard for them to open up
- Why it sometimes feels like you are the adult in your relationship
- Everything you wanted to know about relationships with an ISTP but were
afraid to ask
- How to not get angry at them for being forgetful
- How to not take their behavior personally
Get ready to learn the ins and outs of your ISTP partner's brain, folks! We'll be diving deep into their predominant need and how it can sometimes lead to relationship struggles when they prioritize their desire for knowledge over their love for you. But don't worry, we've got your back. We'll show you how to help your ISTP partner find a healthy balance between their passions and your relationship.
And guess what? The key to unlocking their heart and achieving true intimacy is patience and managing your expectations. So come join us for some insights and tips on how to make your relationship with your ISTP partner thrive. They need your understanding and support to create a happy and fulfilling partnership, so don't miss out!

[@EngineeredBody]

I told my ISTP wife i was feeling depressed. I didnt know what brought it on. She began talking to me like i was a check engine light then told me i was making her worry that i was going to act out. I assured her i was just communicating information. It was hard because she offered no warmth and just stopped talking and went to bed. It was a bitter pill to swalllow knowing i was 100% alone in dealing with it. I end up being more concerned that my affect will cause problems for others, so i usually bottle things up and eventually get over them on my own. Sometimes, i just want to feel like i can let my guard down and not bear the weight of the world and my emotions. But im also realistic and i cant say she is a bad person when its her cognitive functions that explain it all. Like you explain, her emotions can come out spontaneously and rarely so. So i told her truthfully that i probably needed warmth and that i know ill get over it on my own somehow. She was upset at the fact... You know, that her Ti cant fix depression with questions. So she will be upset and distant for a while but she will eventually forget and just be glad that im not being dramatic with having negative emotions.

[@andyd568]

It might also be nature's roles. You're meant to take care of her not the other way around, which is a tough pill to swallow.

[@malakashraf2801]

I am so sorry for that but i have to say I doubt that is an fe inf style, they are so sensitive to what people feel

[@RaffertyMBTI]

this sounds like a torturous and unjust relationship and I would never accept this from a partner. As an ISTP male I would never react like this and I'd probably fall out of love with someone who treated me like this.

[@RaffertyMBTI]

Pretty amazing stuff - coming from an ISTP. Very good video.

[@annedranitsaris1650]

High praise indeed! LOL Glad you enjoyed and hopefully gained insight you can share with those you are in relationship with.

[@DavidSummers-wt1hz]

Most Pleased with your delivery style & the depth of insight you share as you bring to the table. So pleasant, a dose of Cryptonine glows in the dark.

[@DranitsarisHilliard]

We're so glad you enjoyed the video! We make sure to deliver as much insight and depth to every topic we cover, we hope you have time to check out our other videos :) Thanks again!

[@DavidSummers-wt1hz]

I have had the good fortune to live 53 years, to date with my ISTP Mate. Each day is & will continue to be an adventure surveilling 360 degrees 24/7/365, till kick. You are truly spot on at a thousand yards out without the use of a Marine spotter feeding you down-range coordinates to ensure target acquisition. I look forward to your sharing of the other 15 cognitive stacks as we live & bond on this third rock from the sun as we hurl through the Universe. It is an honor to receive your investments & ability to shed light & seek growth as time permits. Respectfully

[@annedranitsaris1650]

Thanks David.

[@annedranitsaris1650]

I am sure you could share many examples of your journey shared with your adventurous mate. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

[@mohammed88air]

my parents used to think I’m autistic cuz I was distracted shy hate crowds refuse to go to family meetings with them rarely express emotions always fight in school cuz I don’t know how to avoid bullies just beat them and i was so curious there is nothing I haven’t dismantle hair trimmers microwaves vacuum cleaners motors drills motorbikes electrical panels literally everything sometimes i can’t sleep unless i disassemble the new appliance that my family bought and i was reckless and impulsive never care about the consequences I’m so grateful that i’ve never been injured

[@annedranitsaris1650]

Thanks for sharing this and raising such a critical challenge for children of your personality type. If more parents sought to understand their children and their needs (in the case of the ISTP child, the deep need to know the mechanics of how things work) the more they could direct and facilitate their growth and journey through life. Glad you weren't harmed in your quest to know the mechanics of everything!

[@RobertJohnson_Zeppo]

As an "ISTP," a "gifted" one intellectually, and a gray beard at that, I have a few observations to share; it may have been "Mr. Toads Wild Ride" but I would happily do it all over again, there is no such thing as "toxic masculinity" but their are masculine men who find themselves in a world increasingly toxic to them, the scale of "We" vs. "I" has been unbalanced heavily toward the "We" for so long that it will likely be the end of western civilization as "We" know it, and I am truly blessed, in more ways than I could have ever imagined, particularly as a young man... Godspeed, to you and yours.

[@annedranitsaris1650]

Always a challenge to live true to one's nature in a world quick to judge and condemn those who don't fit the mold. Thank you for sharing your ISTP experience and insights.