I Lived With A Murderer (Part 2) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 3 | Season 3

[@morerimalemona8863]

The gun jamming when it was pointed at her ,it was really God🤞💖💖.

[@BeingIsiphile]

Truly 🙌🏽

[@tlhomphodiseko9972]

So tru...we thank God

[@penelopegomez5934]

So true Moreri ijo

[@lebogangmzondi567]

Praise God

[@marthanene7031]

But cc God was protected from you you are the really rock especially to pray God help you because you where looking for you future

[@thandilengwenya1297]

Am l the only one who kept on waiting for her to break down? It's too much. She is a Force, she is a gem, she is resilient and strong. Her courage is unmatched. May her Beloved Mother rest in Power, she has to forgive herself for dating a wrong Guy who took part of her. RIP to every victim. God is alive, it's evident in Lucky's testimony.

[@katli1208]

I cried on her behalf 😭😭😭😢. I was also waiting for her to breakdown 💔😓.

[@bokamosomolebatsi9046]

I couldn’t make sense of it either because I know I would have been a mess,the saying what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger is true looking at this woman’s strength telling her horrid story,love and light to her.

[@loxlux8118]

Agggh

[@vanessawilliams8818]

Nope ... she’s very selfish and psychotic like him ... that’s why she hasn’t broken down. She keeps laughing too .. they were a perfect mental match

[@vanessawilliams8818]

Naw ... she broke down for the man’s death 💀

[@gugumasango9598]

😭😭 The justice system is trash 🚮 Your strength is out of this world 🥺❤️ Sending love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tefelosehloho944]

Yoh,don't even call it justice system,because is non existence,we die like flies because of "lack of evidence" .

[@gugumasango9598]

@@tefelosehloho944 😭😭😭 True. We are on our own 💔

[@gugumasango9598]

@@matamelalivhoyi Truly 💔

[@opheliasihlangu2749]

The guy had to die for her to be FREE

[@theophilusmsomi8226]

Mcm we voted them in and this is how they repay us...South Africa is completely finished I kidd you not

[@DinnyM051]

This story is heavy. It scares me to know that the person who tells you that they love you could be your worst nightmare.

[@bngwato9015]

True

[@relebogilemabotja215]

This story is a stark reminder of the darkness that can lurk behind a facade of love. It's important to trust our instincts and prioritize our safety.

[@NicoleKimwele]

I am astonished at how calm she is narrating such a horrific story. That calm can only be established once you find God, that calm is supernatural.

[@lischentjaveondja9236]

The Lord has given her strength to help others. We need to open our eyes to realise the red flag before we go into marriage or serious relationship. There is always that stage when you wll say, "I wish I ended the relationship at that level"

[@bonfitgymcompany3562]

True

[@HoneyQuint]

That calm is when u get over all of the shit u have been thru. Got nothing to do with God

[@abigailmolusi]

and the frequent smiling.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Her calmness is truly remarkable, and it speaks volumes about her faith and inner strength.

[@simphiwesilinda2376]

I know for a fact that it was God who caused the gun to jam😭🤞🏼You're a living testimony

[@obee2]

Facts chile facts!! 😭

[@breakingchainswithlucky4701]

Mercy said "No" 😭🙌🏽❤️

[@iziledube-mthembo1360]

Factsss

[@relebogilemabotja215]

A true testament to God's intervention and her unwavering faith.

[@beckyphala5436]

Through my work as a gender studies researcher, iv come to learn that it isn't always easy for victims of gender based violence to articulate their past experiences and present day traumas and aftermaths. I appreciate how Relebogile was able to guide Lucky into telling the story in such a fragile eye opening manner. I wish Lucky warmth and love.

[@sips_mkutukana]

Relebogile is so gentle with her questioning ♥️♥️♥️

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Thank you for your insightful comment. Articulating trauma is incredibly difficult, and I'm grateful for the opportunity to create a safe space for survivors like Lucky to share their stories. Sending continued warmth and love to Lucky on her healing journey.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

♥️♥️♥️ I believe in approaching these sensitive topics with empathy and compassion.

[@ChroniclesOfANamibianGirlChild]

One thing about God, he protects his own. 🙏🏾

[@breakingchainswithlucky4701]

So true ❤️🙏🏿

[@asandilegono8345]

❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@relebogilemabotja215]

🙏🏾 Amen to that!

[@molatelochokoe1867]

Yoo this sounds like a lifetime movie. You have been through the most and yet you still standing strong

[@breakingchainswithlucky4701]

It definitely felt unreal! 😢...​But it was "fight" or "die"... And I'm glad I fought ❤️🙏🏿

[@molatelochokoe1867]

@@breakingchainswithlucky4701 you are a fighter, most people would have given up. You are an inspiration to both men and women. May God continue to bless you ❤️

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Her story is indeed movie-worthy, but sadly, it's a reality for far too many. Her strength and resilience are awe-inspiring.

[@kangwamfula7521]

Imagine losing your mother because you dated the wrong guy. I feel so bad for her.

[@Nokss_20]

I'm busy trying to process that in my mind...

[@kaingonakauta6460]

It is so painful, and watching this by myself eishh so scarry

[@nomcebomthethwa4653]

Imagine 😥😥😥I hope she forgive herself

[@uchiziphiri8143]

Imagine Eish

[@bontle561]

@@Nokss_20 same here it's harder than physics and mathematics

[@missfauxyfauxyvegan2224]

Just watched this from the Netherlands she gave me goosebumps telling her story! What a dangerous madman!

[@cecilemuntu5401]

That dude is evil period.

[@ayandamkhize9971]

Also watching from the Netherlands

[@missfauxyfauxyvegan2224]

@@ayandamkhize9971 helloooo I'm born in South Africa nice to meet you darling. I live here 30 yrs now. xx

[@allvvjvv1923]

Ja echt gek bij het luisteren heb ik kippenvel

[@diddy3122]

Never been this impatient for the next episode...finally!

[@nyaradzocleopatramangunda4243]

Me too...

[@nanazimkhize2149]

I have been eagerly waiting... myself

[@marthaniitembu1077]

Me too

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Me too I came across it by chance....shoooh when I saw the part 2

[@nonkanyisondlovu5069]

Me too

[@phumelelazuma4704]

She’s so strong she’s not even breaking down. Strength 🙏🏾❤️.

[@ruthsibasa4944]

Things that we go through make us stronger and seem like we are immune to all the trauma.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

🙏🏾❤️ Her strength is a beacon of hope for others facing adversity.

[@neliswandlela5872]

This story Is heartbreaking 💔I can’t believe she went through all of this.You’re so strong sis♥️♥️

[@candidconversationpodcast]

This lady is woke, she is a blessing to society, a pillar of strength!!

[@zoleka2829]

How is able to speak through all of this? Yoh mina I would cry 😭😭 she’s very strong and beautiful ❤️❤️ may God be with her going forward and protect her at all cost.

[@Bro-dr3ou]

Aus Relebogile, your emotional intelligence is unmatched ❤️ We missed you❤️🤞🏽

[@busikubuli2958]

I wish she was just a tiny bit more empathetic though. I find her a bit detached. Every time she mentioned that her mom was murdered, I expected her to say something to that. Otherwise she's a good interviewer.

[@zoleka2829]

Cops have a lot of blood on their hands.

[@priscillankhabe4551]

True🥺

[@lelosebiloane6186]

Useless those ones

[@sebeethewriter]

And don't care less

[@madialemotsiri586]

Hence they behave like, it's ppls cries

[@iziledube-mthembo1360]

How do cops live with themselves after taking bribes over someone's life

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

It's the fact that SAPS didn't do enough to protect this strong woman. This is why I am getting a gun for my own safety. Can never be too careful.

[@hrsofhealingandIamproudaffirma]

Likewise I will have a fire torce in my car,paper spray,heavy metal so I can knock sense into whoever wants to harm me

[@menkimenki7194]

Please also get regular training for handling the weapon and keep it away from the kids. It's a cold world out there. 💜

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

@@menkimenki7194 Definitely love. I'm a big gun safety advocate

[@tebogomokobane8094]

And attend self defense classes

[@kingkunte5479]

Good job sister if you need help with the process reach out

[@lillieny3977]

God really loves this woman. The amount she has gone through and she’s still standing. Wow. Just wow.🥺💛

[@sandrakanguvi7614]

Our brokenness attracts dangerous people. Self love is key 😔. This woman is brave to share her story. I can’t imagine this kind of pain.

[@celinamilian]

Forgiving your parents is the key

[@thandekilemkhonta8233]

There is a God in heaven who is protecting you.

[@songezoflatela7088]

Truly, He is the Lord. 🙌🏽

[@fundirams3240]

What about the people that died ? He isn’t protecting them?

[@relebogilemabotja215]

🙏🏾 May she continue to be shielded and protected.

[@nosihlematyeni7650]

When she described how she would call the cops telling them that the guy is stalking her and they insist that he said he is away on business, that for me is mind boggling and shows just how little our police services care for human life. Alale ngoxolo umama.

[@gugumazindela2478]

Thank you baby girl I m sure your mom Nokuthula is proud of you God bless

[@Nokss_20]

Mind boggling*

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Amaphoyisa will take money over saving a person's life anytime.

[@kwindat.i.3560]

Danderheads those ones

[@motlatsikgosieng1704]

I can relate with a lot of her story,some of us we are just blessed to come out alive...God protected her

[@keepingthefaith1368]

God brought me here... I’m so glad I found this channel. When God says we are more than conquerors He means what this lady went through! May God continue to bless you sis ❤️ stay strong

[@nkule2493]

This man is/was evil. Your strength Lucky is admirable.

[@kgomotsomodise6858]

Her mom protected her against that attempted hit 🤞🏾

[@nononono7550]

As women we are alone

[@zanenhlemsibi]

My thoughts exactly! 🧚🏿‍♀️🙏🏿❤

[@ntokozozulu4284]

Yes mom broke after life protocol to save her🤞

[@diananamalwa4573]

My thoughts too

[@andreahall8495]

It was all God's doing.the Lord saved her for a purpose, I pray that she commit her life to the lord.

[@boikhutso_baboledi]

As someone who’s just lost my sister to GBV, I’m so numb. They system keeps on failing us a lot. I don’t even know where to start.

[@irisparadzai6427]

I am so sorry about your sister hun

[@SelbySivuyile]

Condolences to you and your family. Sorry for your loss ❤️

[@immaculatakadyanji5927]

Sorry for your loss.

[@seipelo2453]

I'm so mad that he is dead. He deserved to suffer! RIP to Lucky's mother.🕊🌹 and strength to Lucky.♥️

[@nosim7440]

That guy is still living somewhere in this world, psychopath that one I'm sure he watched this

[@motheowalerato701]

@@nosim7440 I also believe he's still alive 🥺🥺

[@masegowilford5149]

HE FAKED HIS DEATH

[@motheowalerato701]

@@masegowilford5149 is he still alive? 🥺😲

[@unodakhiyani5921]

It might be possible he faked his death 😭😭

[@maswikirimalematja2289]

"As women we are alone in this country"😭

[@nonkanyisondlovu5069]

I felt that 🥺

[@Leetso]

I felt it yooh💔😩 its heart breaking

[@sbonzama7013]

You as women are the majority, why don't yall vote out the ANC & try someone else.

[@MrSadikiboy]

Faith, unity and a common goal for a better family oriented mzansi is what we should strive for kzbin.info/www/bejne/p5_GZqmBpt6Ym68

[@lovedforever3578]

😭

[@spicefaith7419]

the suspense was killing me for this episode; thank you Lucky for sharing such a painful experience you went through and I'm so sorry about the loss of your mom; most importantly I'm glad that you healed and you know that you are protected

[@Nokss_20]

She's so beautiful, resilient and intelligent. I agree we need to deal with root causes. She must be grateful to her mother and ancestors and God for her protection. 🙏 thank you for sharing your story sisLucky.

[@olebogeng7558]

RIP to Lucky's mom, Siam Lee, and all his other possible victims 💔

[@nomi_K28]

Woah, had no clue to that connection. This is sad 😔

[@hlengiwemasondo2858]

I'm completely shocked this guy was sick

[@Thuli_Sthuli]

Who is Siam Lee?

[@hrsofhealingandIamproudaffirma]

@@Thuli_Sthuli she was an escort however the guy was obsessed with her which led to her murder

[@moe_ramz]

Hence we should name and Shame. His next victim probably has no clue who he really is 😭

[@Gontse.P]

She really looks like Katlego Danke.

[@NjabuloBDonda]

She does.

[@thatswhatsup712]

Thank you

[@relebogilemabotja215]

She does have a striking resemblance!

[@rinaemapholi6334]

I loved her last words 1.Being abusive is not a gender thing. 2.A platform where men can be vulnerable and shut down pressures that society has placed on them. The man doesn't have to be the bread winner Doesn't have to be strong and emotional less . To all the men that come across this comment: It is okay,you can be,feel and express yourself any how you please , without the social judgement. Hopefully my point is understood🌻

[@yoliswambebe619]

Gender is always the issue, for the fact that you say: Men= gender related.

[@riakozi]

we need to start naming names so that people are aware of such men.

[@thabisilekhumalo3289]

His name is Philani Ntuli

[@noluthandosibanda3852]

Omg she’s so strong. It must be so scary to live a life like that

[@nanazimkhize2149]

She exudes an aura of calmness and tranquillity. I am looking at her, wondering ' how does she do it? I mean, this is beyond torture.

[@noluthandosibanda3852]

@@nanazimkhize2149 dude. I highly commend her. It would be easy to be broken after going through all of these. And she didn’t break down I was literally shaking through part 1 and 2

[@nanazimkhize2149]

@@noluthandosibanda3852 I am just speechless, sisi. Ngeke, I can't. How on earth do you go through this and come out with your integrity this intact?

[@nompilokhanyile8100]

This guy doesnt just sound like a narcissist but a psychopath aswell. Im so sorry you went through this

[@beyond_9-5_dreams]

Type B personality in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual

[@AphiweMtembu]

He is jooo yooo it's too much

[@anittamasenya2533]

I don't know how you could tell this story without breaking down 😭😭😭 this really does sound like a movie. Loosing your Mom in the midst of everything 💔 😪 Strength and love to you Sis. Thank you for sharing your story. I truly hope that it has saved someone out there

[@tshepangmokwena8738]

Lucky's story sounds exactly like that movie Enough which Jennifer Lopez starred in. 😪😪

[@relebogilemabotja215]

The parallels to that movie are chilling. It's a reminder that these stories are not isolated incidents but a reflection of a larger issue. 😪

[@KhuliMuzi]

All I can say Dating is deeper than what you feel for a person . Before you bring a person closer to you , try finding out about them from their Family, Friends,partners etc .. don't just make conclusions based of What you feel for someone or what they have to offer . Women are getting more and more predictable because of the desire to feel financially secure and this things kills out families and our society

[@joaquinadomingos5656]

You've been through the most. It made me think that we should look at the flags at beginning, love sometimes blind us, but we need to listen, trash smells. Thank you for sharing and hope that you fully heal

[@ayakhashumane3424]

The justice system failed her so much 😭💔

[@nosim7440]

All the know is so certify documents the whole fuvken day🤬

[@wpp1586]

As a South African, my heart goes out to her and the family, hai bakithi this is just scary, not really better abroad.

[@hrsofhealingandIamproudaffirma]

Well been abroad for years still there's still domestic abuse it's everywhere however s.a takes the cup 4 me

[@vuvulicious41]

You're one strong woman Lucky!! I am so pleased that he didn't entirely break you. Your testimony will certainly help another woman in some way 🙏🙏

[@MaTshabangu]

May your mother RIP…I’m in awe at humankind 💔💔💔

[@sleemiya4249]

It's very sad that women go through all of this and they are alone. Can we have more conversations about these abusive behaviors and more awareness campaigns to help girls and boys.

[@goitseonezubane4379]

Yoh Relebogile does what she does so well,so sensitive and so mindful of the language she uses,I’m in awe🔥👏🏽🤌🏽 Great interview ❤️❤️🔥 And as for this lady, her strength during this ordeal is remarkable 😭😭❤️

[@asandemthembu9651]

zithini izithakazelo zakini sisi? My bf is Zubane manje I want to thakazela him

[@nanazimkhize2149]

Yaz yini this show was wired into her DNA, I swear.

[@LindaTinahTV]

I like how the host gives her time to speak. I expected one of them to break down but they kept it going till the end. This is some crazy stuff.

[@nothandomathenjwa7352]

Lucky I think what I loved the most about your story is that you reached a point whereby you realized that the attack was not just directed at you but it was a fight against your purpose, and you moved to protect your purpose. May God grant you more strength🙏

[@breakingchainswithlucky4701]

Accurate sis! ❤️🙌🏽

[@kamutushishivute5032]

Very true

[@phumzilemdluli7418]

Absolutely 💯 PURE, because he could have killed her step dad and he boyfriend. He did not bother himself to them. He killed her mother because she wa her mentor in her career. He just want to destroy her dream; as while training ladies modeling she will also tell them to be aware of this type of people who love your money and your intelligence not you. Woman of the MIST HIGH LIVING GOD, YOUR DREAM WILL COME TO PASS.

[@phumzilemdluli7418]

*Woman of THE MOST HIGH GOD. PRESS ON

[@H20PM]

Wow the amount of energy this nutter had was unreal! The devil is a liar 🤥 what a monster. Such a strong lady. Stay blessed sis and thank you for sharing 🙏

[@nosim7440]

4 years wanting revenge on someone who did nothing to you

[@Dimakatsomonaheng]

She is so strong. May she continue to heal

[@sinahmahlangu5821]

I love how sis Relebogile handled this interview❤️

[@tshedi.mhololive]

I read about Narcissist everyday..and the manner in which she tells a story, if you pay attention to such detail..You'll have a recollection of everything..I can relate, my situation with my neighbour taught me a lot about such monsters.

[@annajohannes5455]

Yohhhh! Sending you virtual hugs my girl. You are destined for greatness. He can’t take anything from you.

[@colleenleeuw9118]

You have a beautiful testimony, only Grace🙌

[@zamakhathidekubheka3731]

My gosh. My heart goes out to Lucky. The justice system has definitely failed her. She has shown a lot of strength in this interview More strength to her🙏

[@nkelemokami4115]

Season 3 man it came strong, thanks ausi relebogile 4 holding it down.... May de Grace of God grant u strength

[@Boitumelo_Pohotuna]

At a loss for words honestly!💔

[@nompilodladla8249]

Lucky is so beautiful and articulate. I knew of her when her modelling career was in its prime. I was also a Facebook friend during her relationship with the guy, they seemed so happy and successful. Was shocked when ‘Nondindwa school’ went live. Hearing what was happening behind the scenes is chilling. The gun shooting upwards but jamming when pointed at her sounds like a scene straight from an Africa magic movie. I was almost a victim of her ex fiancé’s toilet paper scam. I later discovered he was a mastermind of scams during his arrest & bail application in the murder of Siam Lee. When his illness and death was reported, I felt like he got an easy way out. I hope her career takes off again in the direction of her dreams 🌺

[@zethuzngxaka3127]

What is the nationality of her ex fiancee And please explain the toilet paper scam?

[@nompilodladla8249]

@@zethuzngxaka3127 South African. Re the scam, he was offering opportunities to distribute toilet paper to predetermined entities, e.g schools, government departments, private sector etc. He ‘supplied’ the toilet paper for low amounts, and allocated you businesses from his ‘database’ to which you would distribute at a mark up. When I did my due diligence, things didn’t add up, and I found complaints by a multitude of people on the internet. Luckily I had not paid yet

[@masegowilford5149]

@@nompilodladla8249 , I believe this guy faked his death

[@nonjabulodladla6603]

Who is this guy? Why is it that his name is not public yet his victims' names are? Ah this justice system kodwa!

[@moffatmokgale1715]

This is such a heartbreaking story but your strength sisi, has just given me more strength! You are going to do great things in this lifetime 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@ellegee2490]

This story is too close to home. As 'movie-like' as it may seem, so many of us have lived or are living through something similar. Thank you Lucky for being brave enough to share your story. Narcissism plus money are a dangerous combination. The sad thing is that narcissists know how to charm everyone else around them to a point that no one will believe the victim if they chose to speak up. People go as far as defending the narcissist. I almost got sick when the investigator who arrested Philani said he almost believed that he had arrested the wrong person because of how well put together he was. If Philani could almost fool a trained investigator then how much more everyone else? Once more thank you for sharing this story. For some of us this is a reality and when you speak up, we feel that we are not alone

[@nomcebomasuku8102]

Touching

[@wethumahlangu]

Hit home

[@Fhhdvhfghgfhtrdgrd]

At a loss for words. Talk about an agent of Lucifer on two feet. I’m glad she survived it but it’s soooo heartbreaking to lose a parent to a diabolic monster.

[@memorynelson445]

That is what a narcacist is .They are literally the devil's child .

[@kwetepemakofane763]

😟it's so heart breaking to still hear such stories about GBV...will there ever be peace for women😥

[@Iexposeevil]

Our justice system is shameful. I’m so sorry Lucky. Your strength is admirable ❤️

[@madodadlamini8446]

I went through something similar last year I have not healed everything that happed feels like a horror I have always asked myself like how why did this happen to, the guy tried to kill my mother and sister the shame it's very traumatizing I pray that one day I heal and that this does not affect me anymore.

[@moe_ramz]

Name him so there’s no more victims 🥺

[@ebonytriumph3816]

Healing is a,process. lt will happen just engage with it. its zig zag but possible

[@dakaloentertainment9461]

Wow angels are real. I believe that God's angels blocked those guns hence the jamming. You are favored by God Lucky

[@malebo]

Am I the only one who lowkey thinks the guy faked his own death? Like, it's just too convenient- his death I mean. Noo!! The guest should really stay safe honestly...

[@nontokz]

We oe I’m also thinking the same thing aibo

[@noziphon1]

Me too, ayi uyaphila lo🤔

[@stellamooibedi9027]

I'm with you on this one

[@nthomengmajara8575]

I think so too.

[@NaNguni]

He definitely faked his death loya satane

[@welilefakudze7121]

I love her sense of self worth

[@mbalenhleluthuli4201]

Can’t believe the interviewer did not pass on her condolences as soon as she starts phasing in on her Mother’s passing..😮😮shocked at how the details mattered more than the actual reality of what the interviewee had gone through.. Wow!

[@IamTheOne247]

Would she be a guest in her show if she didnt already know her story? We're the ones hearing it for the first time hence our shock and reaction, i think.

[@nyaradzocleopatramangunda4243]

I remember when I reported my ex boyfriend,I will never forget the female cop who laughed at me for being beaten by a disabled on also went on to say that I deserved it because I was dating a south African man as a foreigner...the woman I will never forget her ..

[@lethabor]

I'm so sorry sis.

[@kullidee2053]

Oh man!!! I am truly sorry sis, sending you love.

[@gracenovie]

I’m so sorry you went through that 🌼🌼

[@funtasiakhuhlane8717]

🌸🌸🌸I’m deeply sorry that you went through that.

[@anitamhlongo4443]

So sorry Sis that you experienced that... It's even more sad when women who are law enforcement officials are not helping..

[@slindilenkabinde5156]

sis Lucky you're soo brave for telling this story. we thank you for sharing this story with us so we can be aware and educated of men like this. I honestly don't think he is dead. the way his death certificate is on google, to me it seems like overcompensation. they are making sure that we believe he is dead. ausi please be safe and keep on praying. God and Mom are watching over you and protecting you all the time. will pray for you as well.

[@vanessascorner7501]

What's his name

[@noendlovu4788]

Good Lord this man was the devil himself!!! I am so scared just listening to Lucky’s story and I doubt this man is dead. Such people will go to “win” in all situations . May God continue to protect you as you rise from the ashes and be a beacon of hope to those in such situations.🙏🏾💝

[@sashamosenke5079]

This sounds like a movie yooh! 😭😭 I'm sorry you went through all of that🙏🏾 May God heal you sis❤️

[@yvonneokeyo8883]

my immediate ex is a narcisstic and i truly relate with her story and most people who have dated a narcisist leave those relationships without energy and hope, she looks energetic and sounds hopeful. I am inspired by her story

[@ericjamsonsemono3503]

yoh😮 this needs to be a documentary. Thanks God you still alive

[@Thebougielawyer]

I remember lucky dating philani funny enough philani used to date this other doctor chick who i was very close to its a small world I think the girl need to tell her story because wow she went through it with that guy.

[@ntshovelom2154]

Philani is the murderer?

[@cookielyon5686]

@@ntshovelom2154yes Philani Ntuli

[@kimlee05]

What is this woman made of. Is it of Iron. I can't fathom the strength. What is at her core. How is she able to talk about this as if it did not happen to her. There is not a trace of anger, or unforgiven ess. Truly a heart that God would approve of

[@thandol448]

I'm curious about what Lucky knew about his family background and upbringing, was she ever in contact with them about their son's behavior/actions especially since uyewalobola, so the families had been brought together at some point.... Otherwise, I believe you have a big purpose and calling over your life Lucky, God saved and preserved you for the work He had ordained you to do. You are an incredibly strong woman, I pray for you and the men/women you will be working with, I pray for strength and wisdom to navigate through all the different cases/scenarios. May God bless the work of your hands. 🙏

[@missnteo]

I’m also asking myself the same thing. This interview session has poor planning cuz they never ask the important questions

[@nobathembumafuduka5406]

Not every family will tell you about their son/daughter's behavior or their flows

[@thandol448]

I think Relebogile did a good job with the interview, this story was loaded with events so it may have slipped her mind to ask considering the time limit. I personally think it is very important for women to note matters concerning their partner's upbringing, family history and dynamics as some of the areas to look into when considering a serious relationship with someone. It can give some insight into the person and possible "red flag" areas to be aware of.

[@ebonytriumph3816]

Abusers families not all but some hide the childs behaviour, some are abusive themselves thats why they raised an abuser. Gape abusers hide behind a mask so they can condition their victim. we need to educate people on how to see red flags

[@thandol448]

@@ebonytriumph3816 I completely agree with you there

[@uznamalunga]

The chills on my body about the gun jamming. Lord, Lord...my God

[@zamobubu912]

My God. Her story is hectic 💔... I pray she heals and is able to fully move and start a new life with someone who will love her in a Godly way 🙏😢💖

[@mukelisiwekunene4039]

this woman is strong,, she don't even cry when talking about this horrific story and her mother passing. You are strong dear.

[@beautybyk3450]

Youre a living testimony.🙏🏾 These are the situations that God does not put you in a situation you cant handle and he is by youre side every step of the trials. This brought tears to my eyes,such a women who is so strong!🥺 Her name describes her story even. Yoh,touched😭❤

[@katsoshumba9020]

Had to come back and watch this after learning about what happened to Siam Lee. I hope Lucky Mthembu is living her life freely and to the fullest♥

[@boitumelokutlwano1716]

I really like what she's saying towards the end...I hold the same sentiments

[@itumelengselepe7254]

You are alive for a purpose Lucky and I can tell that you walk with God now. Brace yourself because you are definitely going to reach 80 years still telling this testimony.

[@msm5887]

I can’t shake off the feeling that this monster is still alive 🤞🏾. May her Mom and the girl he burnt, continue to rest in peace Uxolo Nana ♥️

[@justpassing6643]

The power to have went through this, then to come out on the other side and want to solve the problem at its core is truly a testament of your strength

[@malefuivy245]

He might have took you Mothers life but she protected you from getting shot…When the gun jammed, she said you killed me but not with my daughter 😇🧚🏽‍♀️💐🕊🕊🕊🕊

[@lungienxumalo3244]

Hurt people, hurt people. I'm so glad i got out of a similar situation. He would abuse me so much, sometimes he'd lock me up in my own apartment and leave me all alone, leave me there the whole day and come back at night drunk banging my door demanding the door to be opened by ME just beacuse he had lost my keys. This one time he came to my apartment late at night drunk with a girl and said that he thought that i had gone home, he beat me up infront of the girl saying that i didn't leave on purpose cause i was insecure, i mean really. That girl slept on my couch and he left her there in my apartment, i felt sorry for the girl cause she said that he had told her that he lived and alone and was single, that girl lived an hour from where i was. When i woke up in the morning, she was gone nothing stolen. When id decide to leave him he would cry tears begging me and be the nicest person in the world, he would often give me his bank card after he got paid for me to just spend his money on whatever i wanted after he would abuse me. Narsassists know how to make you feel really guilty for what they do to you and make sure that you apologise for it so that when they do it again you already know that they are "innocent" and that really fucks with your mental health, it took me forever to get over the traumatic events that i went through.

[@zothaniimlovingitkhaya2599]

Thank you so much Lucky, but hey Hamusdale is scarry. I'm glad you survived and now u brave to tell your story.

[@zandilisana6885]

You are so strong Lucky! The justice system is non existant 😢

[@Cyamonicaa]

I read about Siam Lee’s murder and somehow this felt like it connected to her death. I honestly pray that monster is really gone.

[@mpumimhlakaza2312]

I think so too

[@tsholofelomakhubela7911]

Same here

[@free2be748]

This poor lady had the misfortune of dating a psychopath who became obsessed with her. It's scary that we have to think about things like this in the dating world. Very painful story, especially the lives lost so senselessly.

[@tshegofatsomosito8245]

We live amongst sick people in this world. This show really broke my heart.

[@oratilwemuteme9015]

I can't believe I "know" who you are talking about. I read about what he did to that other lady in various magazines. That guy is a psychopath. I am glad you got away.

[@igletmolatudi3321]

OMG now I know the guy she's talking about, I watched a video about that other girl that he murdered and she was a very young girl who worked with her mother in the business

[@onti9140]

That was him ?!? 😭 I literally got chills

[@florasenaterammutle4884]

I'm sure if you were to interview me we would take the whole day. This reminded me of how the man I was supposed to get married to had threatened to kill me and our daughter. I'm still waiting for him to take me to children's court. Cause he's been a mouthful after we had separated. It's crazy!! To those who think the law favors women wait until you have to experience what this lady has went through.

[@keitum]

Bits & parts of Lucky’s story are similar to Jackie Phamotse’s story. This goes to show how dangerous men are. It’s so sad that she had to lose her mom in the process. I really hope she’s okay & safe. Love & light

[@jacquamine]

Very similar.

[@Qveeqvee]

So sorry for what you've gone through, may your mom rest in peace. God Loves you, you are a powerful woman., Thank you for sharing your story...Relebogile, legendary as always, Thank you for a great show