EP.35 PART 1 of Thandeka on surviving being buried alive and life from one abusive relationship to.

[@BokangMphohla-yw7xr]

The minute she says "yoooooo" I know it's going down and it hurts The giggle says it all May God restore her❤

[@sarariet-o8y]

What l can only say is wow..wow..wow..l am lost for words..what us women go through in this life..Lord have mercy on us 😮😮😮😮.l pray that you really heal my lady.😢😢

[@Mimz123]

It's so heartbreaking that little girls go through this. My heart goes out to this lady, pray for her healing ❤

[@tshepishoselepe6514]

She unpacked her story so well that madam speaker didn’t have questions after each and every scenario. What a smart woman ,I could listen to her the whole day

[@ndemathabi5508]

Good storyteller

[@nomsachironda9624]

💯❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤

[@zanelebomsi3571]

😢😢

[@itumelengmaloka3177]

I’m watching this interview and I get teary 😢. To think I’ve met you few times and you always have this beautiful smile not knowing what you’ve been through 💔. Love and light sis Thandeka 🕯️❤️.

[@gugusegwabanyane5524]

The pain behind the nervous giggles can’t be unmasked. May God restore all you’ve lost sisi. Your story is too painful

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

As someone who lost her parents by the time I was 13. I am sooooo grateful for my extended family...both sides (mom and dads side) really made sure I was taken care of....Not once did I feel unsafe. Today Im married with kids and my husband takes care of me...I wish this lady had someone to look after her in her time of need. She has been through more than ANY person can bear. I hope she can find healing one day.

[@PhumieD]

It's so painful because the Thandekas biological mother was alive and aware if the problem. Heel my sister may the good Lord give you strength.

[@a.dlamini]

Yo. Exactly what I was thinking about. I lost my mom at the age of 8, my oldest sister raised us. I am so grateful.

[@nickypieters5278]

Holy Spirit please comfort her. We thank you Jesus for the healing within and upon her, amen

[@a.dlamini]

Amen.

[@kutloanomolumo1115]

We need a part 2 please, she narrates her story so well. Love and healing mama!🥰

[@claytonny78]

What else do you want to hear?

[@Cassandra-nn2os]

A true definition of a Goddess. ❤❤❤❤Sending lots of love and light to Sis Thandeka. I love how she acknowledges her pain and how it affected her children and most importantly, the fact that she acted on it. 100% beautiful to hear about where she's at right now. More than anything I'm glad she chose herself and her kids at the end of the day. That's all that matters.

[@favour664]

Sis Thandeka, you will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. You are a living testimony❤❣

[@Tshegomlp]

I didn't think I'd finish this video because it was triggering at first BUT I noticed how Sis Thandeka tried to make it easier to digest with her nervous giggle(she understands her lived experiences may be too much for others to hear). With all that she's been through, I was relieved to hear that she persevered! I don't believe that what she went through was because of God but God took what was meant to kill her for good! Aus'Thandeka is an amazing story-teller(I could picture every part). Beyond the work that she now does I think she should write a book, and that that book should be made into a theatre play or a film🤞🏽she's such an inspiration

[@ntandokazi5587]

She’s good She knows how to regulate herself and I commend her for that. ESP coming from such an abusive background

[@louisagilika3060]

Absolutely ❤❤❤ I thought I would breakdown instead I'm deeply moved, motivated and mesmerised by this amazing woman called Thandeka. Awaiting part 2. 1:17:18

[@Iam_Nelisa]

Perseverance’s ability to just sit and listen is commendable! What a blessed skill to have. Bless her!

[@mariamasetloa6272]

She hides pain 😢 😭 😔 💔 😞 with laughter 😢😢😢

[@winniemaduna]

I also noticed dt as well and it broke my heart 💔

[@marthamotuba3825]

Jaaaaa😢 IT Hurts So BAD💔🙈😭But 🎉God is GOOD All the Times 💃💕💅 LOVE you Deary ❤️

[@ntombicebekhulu1989]

umama failed her big time,Nkosi kanti mele izingane zethu zibalekele kuphi uma thina omama asibanakekeli

[@kwandiennkosazanaentleelun7515]

She’s really hiding her pain with laughter 😢wow I’ve learnt to never judge a person cause we don’t know what they have been through… May God continue to comfort her I’ve realised once you get rapped it keeps following the person. May she be healed in Jesus names

[@takalanisinthumule7338]

Thats what i and hubby do ,it shows she is a good person

[@florahngulube3544]

A very touching story,l pray God ushers a new blessed prosperous life to Thandeka as God promised to turn whatever the devil meant for evil,for God to turn it to her good.

[@MahlogonoloSebola]

Just when you thought you've went though alot then you listen to other people's stories and you get to understand that actually you haven't been through anything People have bigger issues😭😭💔

[@Nabolanga]

And then you feel worse ...!💔

[@louisagilika3060]

Yeyi 😮😢😢

[@mirandamims7047]

Neh

[@leratosebetoane8333]

Oooh the strength she carries is unmatched ❤.May God continue holding in the palm of his hands. Sis Thandeka is beautiful and im glad she no longer needs the validation. 🎉🎉

[@preciouszondi7164]

Wow I'm speechless I know her and she is an angel on earth there is no way I could have known she survived so many things. Keep striving sisi you are a true reflection of a person walking the walk with the most high. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@boldkoatala]

Most of this show I've cried,as woman we must stop being each other's enemies we must rather support each other.this woman went through alot n i wish the abuser's can realize how deep the wounds go.the woman still remember everything that happened while she was still young in details.she went through hell n back.may God give her strength n courage she needs in life

[@SeabiTshabalala]

Can we all pls come gather here and cry our lungs out...aa man this is too much. Father God pls forgive me for being ungrateful 🙏...my sister I love you and God loves you more 😘💝

[@thokogqiba4683]

Thandeka your resilience is amazing❤ your story is healing a lot of people. Keep sharing Queen. In spite of your childhood trauma you have good qualities of strength. You're an amazing hardworker and very creative. Much respect and love for you dear sister❤

[@molelekengmakgolane4466]

Part 2 , part 3 if possible madam speaker. Please please lady.

[@neshmatshiambwa8562]

Joh this lady went through so much at her early age.. She's broken.. May God heal her

[@patienceikombele9161]

How much more can a one person take 😢😢😢😢 No maan this is too my much. This woman never had peace. This is a reality of many girls who were born in the 70s and early 80s.

[@tshilidzisengani8667]

And it's painful as hell 😢😢😢😢😢

[@mamolewamodiba9159]

It’s a very sad 😢 experience that Thandeka went through however I don’t believe that what she went through was experienced by those born in the 70s 80s or whatever. I was born in the 70s and I’m watching this with shock😳😳😳 our childhood experiences are different

[@Nabolanga]

Born in '87, and you're absolutely right -our parents' generation was rotten. Sad thing is WE look like the bad people for telling the stories. I don't know what they put in their water🤷🏾

[@nosisamasiza683]

😮​@@mamolewamodiba9159

[@dorahmokete218]

U are correct im born in 83 i had to fend for myself as if my mom wasnot there ,parents in tose years were something else,not caring at all ,but that experience made me strong and a better Mom,i thank god every day😢​@@Nabolanga

[@sharonmaluleke4618]

God, how can one person go through soo much alone 😭😭😭😭😭 Yhoooo this is painful, I wish to hug her now

[@lettienahole]

Yoh yoh. This world is cruel especially for women. Love and light to Sis Thandeka.

[@ruthpartridge6314]

True

[@Iam_Nelisa]

I wish I could give mama Thandeka a hug, this is so heartbreaking. Lord have mercy!

[@Tshegofatsomaleka_m]

I watched your video and I want you to know how deeply moved I am by your strength and courage in sharing your story. It takes incredible bravery to open up about such painful experiences, and your willingness to speak out is truly inspiring. I am so sorry for the pain and suffering you have endured. No one deserves to go through what you've experienced, and I admire your resilience in moving forward despite the challenges. Your journey is a testament to your strength and determination. Please remember that you are not alone. There are people who care about you and want to support you on your healing journey. If there's anything I can do to help or if you ever need someone to listen, please don't hesitate to reach out. You deserve love, safety, and happiness in your life, and I believe in your ability to find peace and healing. Take care of yourself and know that brighter days are ahead. Sending you strength and solidarity❤

[@hl3ngzMathenjwa]

How I sooooo wish too I could help her in any manner I could have but may God bless her

[@SeabiTshabalala]

For me it's the giggles 😭😭😭 sending lots of love my sister ❤️

[@drkhanyarajuili4753]

It's amazing how trauma duplicates itself in people who experienced it. I salute your guest to have conquered and able to share

[@esthermakhubela4239]

Thandeka may God be with you my darling. But madam speaker we need part 2

[@dineomhlari1038]

i honestly cant stop my tears from rollin this momma has been through the most😢

[@hildaachwa8251]

Please put subtitles for your viewers who aren’t from South Africa. We miss a lot

[@katienkhwashu]

She's the best narrator i ever heard here .... please bring her for part 2...eish Life nee where's God in all of this though.

[@susansusan5616]

He was there that's why she's narrating the story is where you can see that God is alive if He was not there she was not going to be alive, Glory to God

[@VusiMazibuko-q8o]

This is too much I salute her and I think she's an earth Angel.

[@blessingsgcaba9445]

The brain blocking everything, that's why she forgot everything 😢it's unfortunate but the brain was protecting her from her trauma😭

[@baradimoletsane8698]

True

[@okuhlengubo9359]

"Going to the father of devil" Not me crying and smiling at the same time.....Sis Thandeka o dibone hle. Sending hugs❤

[@paballomajela4907]

Sis is still broken😢😢praying for your healing My sister. May God restore your healing❤😢

[@MillyMRM]

She is 😢, the little laughs in between her story are just masking her pain 😢

[@busisiwezulu7200]

She's really hurting & trying to hide her pain & tears because it has never helped her. Ii feel her.

[@winniemaduna]

I wish i could hug usisi 😭she has bn through a lot

[@LilianMajeke]

I can attest to that 😢ijoh that's me hugging her in my mind and heart she's been through the most😢❤

[@ThembaKhumalo-k6r]

Hope nobhuti was arrested

[@rumbidzaimachapu9650]

My heart can’t take this yohh 💔 💔 Thandeka thank you for sharing . You are so brave 😢

[@KatMug]

13:03 this part 😢 what he said to her just broke me. A whole entire brother. I’m disgusted and sad at the same time

[@Benkeba77]

Hey love, would you mind translating for me plz? Hugs from Haiti 🇭🇹 🤗

[@mmabathomakwela2246]

😢😢😢sad story am glad shes happy now with her family,God bless you

[@Imvubu.dablack]

Guys I dreamt of this interview a month back but it was my aunt Thandeka who was sharing her story and the interviewer and the audience was crying including myself listening. My aunt was wearing white😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱

[@ameytheistZadkiel]

@@Imvubu.dablack an angel

[@Millicent_Kgaladi]

I feel like you should allow your guests to express themselves in their own language and put subtitles. Had she narrated in her own language she was gonna flow. Very sad story so sorry she had to go through all this trauma.

[@zwad3423]

I think she did well in english too

[@GreatnessLungile]

Also, I've heard that subtitles are costly. Maybe let's be patient until she can do that

[@zinhledludla6674]

Yes 🤞🏼

[@A-_B956]

I think her English is perfectly adequate, people do not have to sound American or European for their English to be pleasant.

[@KoketsoNdaba]

Without Practice And Error, There Can Never Be Learning ❤. She Expressed Herself Adequately... So Proud Of Her❤️

[@mogatlatshireletso8825]

Ahhhh , I want to give her a hug 🫂

[@nomsachironda9624]

Most definitely my Queens we👑 are not happy we need a part 2 this is so deep and we are learning a lot 4rm our Sister over there Thandeka she is a true fighter i love how resilient she is what a strong smart women she is woooooow it's a lot yoooh mara God bafhwethu am happy he showed up for her❤🫂🫂God always shws up indeeed🙏

[@annaramagaga]

Yoh, I am sorry what happened to you my sister. God continue to bless and heal you.sendimg hugs and love.

[@ndemathabi5508]

You are just an amazing storyteller though it’s so sad that you’ve gone through all the traumas and you still stand.🥰🥰😘

[@Onthecuspwithdaphne]

On a higher level of a goddess 👏👏👏👏👏love your spirit to the core. Thank you so much for sharing such a powerful and painful part of your life 🙏May God bless you 💙💙💙👌keep shining sis 🙏

[@feziwemotshabi3096]

I really applause her, very strong lady We can learn a lot from her and her kids must be proud of her 💕

[@nataliekangwa7221]

She is a good storyteller i could continue listening to her. Glad she left her abusive married

[@ZikoraKems-e5u]

You are a strong woman and healing looks good on you. You are amazing

[@Mrs_Matt.]

Thandeka went through alot, its like the guy who sent her to buy bread ledt her with all the bad luck...may the good lord locates her and her children🥺this is too much for one person❤️‍🩹

[@Me-xoxoz]

He probably knew he could get away with it ngoba her family bekungela order.

[@Khethokuhle_Dlamini]

They say isnyama, it always follows you. Hence you gotta cleanse

[@culturenarrativeswitholalo7394]

Beautiful spirit ❤❤❤❤❤Thankyou for sharing your story so bravely

[@joycesebati4695]

Listen ladies i thought i am going through a lot but no i am still playing by the way❤❤i am healed today thank you very much and you are looking beautiful and you have said mouthfull and today and forever i am the best version of myself 🎉🎉thank you very much for the uplifting podcast ❤❤and i love you ladies no more crying i am the change that i always wanted to be ❤❤part 2 and 3 please ladies

[@onkabetsesepeng7433]

Your resilience and strength are something..... Power to you♥️✊🏿🙏🏽

[@mpumimaphanga280]

How much pain should one take 😢 hugs to u baby girl keep on Thandeka u are dearly loved cc

[@nothandodube7573]

Yoh I had to stop and take a moment and pray for Thandeka. I hope konke kuhamba kahle manje. May you heal, may you experience joy.

[@sithembisomtungwa6110]

yhooo Sisi Thandeka i never saw a brave woman like you, may the Lord heal you dear 🥰🥰🥰

[@mantelekhitsane8935]

God when she giggle my heart become heavy💔💔😭😭😭

[@NtswakiMpshe]

Eish

[@zamambhele242]

Yeah a way of avoiding to cry 😢

[@zanelebomsi3571]

M Soo emotional now ,my heart is sore

[@lebohanglebo4640]

Yhoo ndoda😢

[@Wasa35]

What an inspiring woman! I thank God for her life!❤❤❤❤

[@veronicakesebelwang]

Ohh God thandeka bafethu u r such a strong woman ❤❤

[@tshepiso0]

I love sis Thandeka😊 wish I can meet her one day some of her story I see myself in it, would love to pour my heart to her

[@ugogojessicaTartot7545]

Ijoooó this lady is so calm,after what she went through about her life ❤❤❤

[@noluvuyomthetho897]

I cried and smiled at the same time,she went through a lot,sending love

[@mantelekhitsane8935]

😭😭😭💔Iyoh this is too much but thanks God sis Thandeka you survived going hell and back, God continues to heal her heart❤🙏🫂

[@natashabohlolo9074]

This is heart wrenching. Love, light and hugssesi Thandeka.

[@michellebowes7650]

Oh Thandeka I am so sorry for all that you have been through. The pain is so fresh as you speak, I feel it for you. I pray for peace and prosperity over your life. I wish that I could give you a huge hug😢❤

[@nomvuselelosmoyo8451]

It does hurt the most to hear how you were being abused from childhood. This trauma is unmatched. Sending hugs and healing to you. ❤

[@ZolaNgemntu-v8t]

Wishing her all the best in her Healing Journey 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@huberthamogotsi6424]

The way I'm steadily waiting for this episode to drop 🤞🤞👌.

[@TlakiManama]

Yhoo Thandeka you are such a strong pèson after all what you went through. May the good lord bless you and leave for your kids ❤❤❤

[@eunicemaretela4961]

I thought I went through hell but joo this lady ...I cried all the time she was explaining 😭😭😭

[@Savebygrace-it]

My blood boils bafethu this story is so common ekasi. Why vele. The communities are not safe, our homes are not safe. And omama nabo they don't pay attention to their kids busy trying imshado with men that end up abusing their kids. We are really a damaged society.

[@beejjjj4106]

Our parents glorifies marriages. They care about "batho ba tla reng" at the expense of their children. Then they also say they stay "for the sake of children", which is just a selfish excuse, because at the end of the day, it is children that gets hurt at the end. Speaking from experience, I lost a little sister because of my mom's toxic marriage. Still going though therapy, because I can't just believe that she's no more. My sister's death was when I realized just how toxic that marriage is. Out of respect. And so many meetings I've had with them in the past.I just distanced myself.

[@CorneliaMMakatile]

I can feel her pain, a mother who is supposed to protect you as a girl child and just doesn't give a damn,the first person to go to when you have problems 😢, sooo painful

[@MpuseSellane]

Joooo cc Waze Wangi khalisa nge story Sakho u nkulunkulu Aku busise engathi nginga hlangana nawe ngiku hake 😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔

[@emmabaloyi8566]

I love you sis thandeka, if life is for the was a person huwe loyo❤ ❤😊

[@Ntswaki-d4z]

I can relate cos I've been down that road May the good Lord comfort and heal her

[@Mamghobhozi478]

Beautiful interview so emotional and painful but usisi is very strong i wish her well for her journey❤❤❤

[@KoketsoMakoene]

We need a cohost to assist, no empathy towards the guest or connection. What a strong team woman, such a sad story and I wish she told the story in her mother tongue and we would rather read subtitles

[@a.dlamini]

I am so sorry for what you have experienced. No one should ever go through abuse and neglect let alone at this level. I hope you are okay, I will be praying for you complete healing. With love.

[@tashaj1996]

I thought she looked and sounded familiar. 😢 Aunty of the nation. Aunty wa ga mlungu😢 I'm so sorry mama. I wish I could give you a hug 🫂 but I'm happy that you're happy and we'll kept at work. It's God's pat on your shoulder ❤❤❤

[@nokuthulamhlongo297]

As a mother I picture my child going through this , under nose 😭😭😭. Can one person go through all this mara !!😡😡

[@Chichinekhubvi-1]

You've been through the most cc, you are very strong, you have the cutest kids ever, you are gorgeous❤️❤️

[@phumlasimandla4641]

This story is so painfully 😢😢😢😢

[@thulad2148]

Uthe nje angakhuluma ngengane yakhe, wakhala😔Ei ukuba uMama 💐

[@nomsashikishi2917]

Nxese sisi ur growing up was painful and u relate the story with a smile but the hurt its written all over ur face.

[@moratouamolefe8677]

Ohhh my God Thandeka went through the most but she is tough and loving ❤❤❤❤

[@nelisiwemathe3073]

Sis Thandeka is beautiful…. So sad she went through all this 😢

[@lindiwemdhluli8491]

I love you mommy, you are the true definition of a woman, so strong bold and ambitious. ❤❤❤❤😊

[@LadyLe-z7o]

Eish my sister your story hurts. I wish I had a power to heal you and make you forget all the trauma that u went through. May the great god bless you and heal you. Big love and hugs

[@godsfavourite6134]

What kind of a mother keep quiet knowing her son abuses her daughter? I'm so sorry cc may God strengthen you and may you find happiness 👏🏾

[@PenzoLebza]

A devil

[@mercymsezeni838]

A witch.

[@mqilingwakampilo2288]

I cant 😢😢, this story is so sad 😢 I just wanna give her a big hug ❤

[@marlenekhakoni1404]

Kindly put subtitles for us international viewers when the guest speaks in local language. Otherwise, this has been so deep. May God graciously restore her.

[@ChwayitaMboxela]

I'm sorry cc God loves you pls be strong you came this far for a reason let your story help other's to heal and may God heal you too thank you for sharing your pain 😢🙏🙌🏿

[@MorategiMakgamatha]

Shelters for abused women are very important and beneficial. Women shouldn’t be ashamed or afraid to approach these places. You come out stronger. Safe yourself and children. Restore your life and dignity. Well done Ausi.

[@ThobekileMsibi]

Iyhoo sis Thandeka's story broke me yaz I which to see her cos am also at Orange farm what a strong lady

[@NomvulaIrene]

Skilled hardworker, God bless you

[@thrivingrosie1290]

My heart goes out to you. May the Lord heal you. Please Madame Speaker kindly add subtitles. I got lost a lot and had to guess. Love from England.❤

[@ntshengedzeninetshilindi2561]

Please madam speaker, part 2 please…nwana hashu

[@ugogojessicaTartot7545]

The story of Sisi.. brought some childhood traumas on me about the elder brother

[@MalemeTau]

How come a brother become that / rapist to a blood sister, according to you sis, what childhood from parenting side make brother to do that to a sister, teach us please??

[@ugogojessicaTartot7545]

@@MalemeTau same from the mother and the father's can happen,this stories do happen

[@ugogojessicaTartot7545]

@@MalemeTau mostly in family members they dnt wanna talk about this

[@ugogojessicaTartot7545]

@@MalemeTau this are thy untold stories of black communities

[@ZeeInterpretationz]

​@@MalemeTau it's a curse that is passed down. No one wants to address it in families.

[@mvuselelobnzama8498]

So much trauma but healing at at the end and laughter Loving the kids with the way she would loved it