Relieve Depression With This Simple Step - CBT

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@ShikiWithGlasses
@ShikiWithGlasses Жыл бұрын
Thank you, but I don’t think it will work that easily 😭🥲
@SelfHelpToons
@SelfHelpToons Жыл бұрын
I’ve had a number of comments like this, and in general videos about depression get similar comments. You’re correct that it’s not as easy as a 1 minute video makes it look, because nothing feels easy when we’re depressed, and because any short video about a serious topic is going to be an big oversimplification. But behavioral activation can be challenging for a number of reasons, despite the fact that it's often presented as a straightforward technique. When we're struggling with depression we may experience a lack of energy and motivation to engage in activities that we used to enjoy or that could be beneficial for us. This can make it difficult to start and maintain new behaviors, and it's important to understand that it's not a matter of "not trying hard enough" or “not wanting to get better.” Lack of energy and motivation are common symptoms of depression that can make doing anything much more difficult. It can also be challenging to identify activities that are meaningful or accessible or feasible for us to do based on our current circumstances. And negative thoughts and beliefs can undermine our efforts to engage in activities or other depression reduction strategies. For example, we may think "What's the point? It won't make a difference anyway," or “this is too hard for me.” Which again isn’t a lack of “trying” or wanting to get better, but the result of the negative thoughts that are one of the main symptoms of depression. And with any strategy to relieve depression, progress can seem slow at first and difficult to notice. For example if we’d rate our level of depression as 95/100, and we are able to reduce it to 90/100, we’re feeling more than 5% less depressed, but 90/100 still feels really, really depressed. So it’s easy to conclude that something didn’t work since we still feel so depressed, when actually it did help a little. And even small changes can be meaningful and represent steps towards feeling better.
@ShikiWithGlasses
@ShikiWithGlasses Жыл бұрын
@@SelfHelpToons thank you very much. I may be depressed because I don’t do much with my life. You seem like a very kind person, thank you for your efforts
@Miss_Tas
@Miss_Tas Жыл бұрын
Yeah
@916nene
@916nene Жыл бұрын
It actually does work
@cygwanfogbe246
@cygwanfogbe246 Жыл бұрын
It’s a vicious cycle indeed
@palakmaniar8771
@palakmaniar8771 Жыл бұрын
The fact that you acknowledged not having pets/friends in a casual manner is appreciated alot. People always judge for not having friends/pets.
@annaluizacesar6106
@annaluizacesar6106 Жыл бұрын
Hii!! I know what you mean, and I'm not judging, I am depressed, but my dog helps a lot in that matter!! They can be so loving, maybe it would help to get a pet!!
@pattif192
@pattif192 Жыл бұрын
I liked that too
@rhondabanner4342
@rhondabanner4342 10 ай бұрын
I have friends, but I’m horrible with communication. It’s easier to be a recluse.
@AlphaSigmaRichMan
@AlphaSigmaRichMan 10 ай бұрын
​@@rhondabanner4342 same
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 9 ай бұрын
Exactly. I have 3 friends but abroad..only in phone. I'm active, bike, fitness but after a heartbreak I'm more down and im looking for a job but i feel unhappy...how to perform without love support. I started online dating affected my health. Also i sold my apartment in 2020 for more reasons and since then i miss joy and basic happines. I'm renting now so more worries and savings going down. All this snowball effect after being r.ped in 2018 (in my old apartment). I am pretty resilient but im tired from dissapointments. Lost my job recently bc they used my trauma against me. Pushed me into sick leave l..the last thing i needed. I left the job of 16 years and now living from savings I'm invited for 2nd job interview. Finance but deep down i wanted to be creative. Freelance work. But for now i have no choice and tell myself werking will also help. Less worries. Heartbreak made me feel extra depressed and in winter time here it's cloudy..😊 Warm shower, buying flowers, eating fruit. Colours. Wearing a happy sweater.
@Yash-Gaikwad
@Yash-Gaikwad Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love that he acknowledged that some people don't have friends is truly amazing
@martinpetersson4350
@martinpetersson4350 Жыл бұрын
Some are depressed because they’re lonely and nobody wants to make the person feel less alone.
@Sage-Em
@Sage-Em 8 ай бұрын
Yes exactly! I think we should normalize and destigmatize not having friends.
@brendalg4
@brendalg4 2 ай бұрын
​@@Sage-Emwe shouldn't normalize it. We should be more open to being friends with others.
@Sage-Em
@Sage-Em 2 ай бұрын
@@brendalg4 People shouldn't be stigmatized for not having friends at any point in life
@brendalg4
@brendalg4 2 ай бұрын
@@Sage-Em you missed my point. If we didn't have people that didn't have friends, we wouldn't have to worry about whether or not it was normalized... Because it wouldn't exist
@dreamteamgta
@dreamteamgta Жыл бұрын
It’s so hard dealing with mental health when you’re a single parent. I just want to lay in bed sometimes and recharge from all my lack of sleep. I just want to take a walk by myself or have a long bath. Nobody talks about how strong you have to be for your kids even when you’re on the verge of giving up 😔
@bushidooffaith4706
@bushidooffaith4706 Жыл бұрын
never giving in! and always keep looking up, for GOD is always looking down. Keeping you strong, remember always, tomorrow is a new day with a new start, stay strong!!!
@bfiwoqu
@bfiwoqu 8 ай бұрын
It’s even harder when you haven’t even passed elementary school
@renur.k.s.3856
@renur.k.s.3856 3 ай бұрын
More power to you 💖
@Blueeyes1011
@Blueeyes1011 3 ай бұрын
Idk if your kids are old enough to Walk, but I have 2 and we go on walks together everyday. (I know you said alone) but just walking together in general can help boost your mood!!! Within a week or 2 of this, you'll really feel the benefits. We started with about 10 minutes, then 2k steps and now we do 4k. (4k equals about an hour total)
@trillianmcmillian2660
@trillianmcmillian2660 Жыл бұрын
for me the shower is a game changer! if i force myself to do that it even reduces my anxiety.
@lucyk2634
@lucyk2634 Жыл бұрын
I didn't shower for 10 days now and it is even harder because I will need to soap three times to get all that dirt from my body. So I prolonging that shower even more because I know once I got in I'm gonna spend so much time and energy there. And be exhausted afterwards. But at least clean 😊
@indigobunting2431
@indigobunting2431 9 ай бұрын
Opposite here. I have sensory issues with showers.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 8 ай бұрын
Same. Shower does miracles for me.
@artemisolympian6318
@artemisolympian6318 8 ай бұрын
For me it's exercise.
@hueso5071
@hueso5071 8 ай бұрын
Exactly. I don’t know what it is. Showering just significantly reduces anxiety and I start to feel more like myself. I thought I was the only one.
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
It takes me about 45-60 minutes of walking before I feel my depression dissipate and then I feel connection beteeen mind and body. Starting is the hardest thing in the world. If you’re going to suffer in bed might as well suffer while walking. Be numb while walking, it’s ok. Eventually it will feel better, I hope for you. It has taken me months to 18 months to recover. It’s a battle each time but it’s doable and then I feel pretty close to great
@mikkey246
@mikkey246 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@SOUNDofFREEDOM2424
@SOUNDofFREEDOM2424 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, good advice 🙏
@zivi2493
@zivi2493 9 ай бұрын
Im in the deep blue (dark) hole still 2 Years .... every Depression is special Gift... I hope I Finde it ....
@Valid_opinionist
@Valid_opinionist 9 ай бұрын
You cant just.... recover from depression alltogether.... being sad and depressed arent the same...
@rainymornings
@rainymornings 4 күн бұрын
Congratulations, that's a great achievement! And you're so right... I always think "Walking doesn't make me feel better anyway" but it really does, even if it's not right away.
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
If your too depressed to get up, I recommend 1 minute stretches and eventually work up to two minutes
@funkymonkey8777
@funkymonkey8777 Жыл бұрын
Great advice
@ferociousbananas
@ferociousbananas 11 ай бұрын
this is great, actually. i felt like i was chained to my bed a while ago, but i suddenly felt the urge to stretch and suddenly i was moving again.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 8 ай бұрын
​@@ferociousbananasYes sometimes our body (or our survival instinct, brains) help is by giving us an urge to move.
@TREBLEBOOSTER65
@TREBLEBOOSTER65 17 күн бұрын
If sitting up straight is a challenge, that's ok. Overcoming that challenge can be more rewarding than a day of work sometimes
@dalladi
@dalladi Жыл бұрын
My lowest points during covid had me in full Kill Bill "just wiggle your big toe" moments. About a year later I was biking 20 miles a day without breaking a sweat. No friends, no pets, going through a massive breakup, many family members passing, broken from poor boundaries, isolation and trauma and lost or failed dreams didn't stop me and am still learning and growing. We're more capable than we think.
@phyllislindeboom2215
@phyllislindeboom2215 11 ай бұрын
I love this and you are right! Thank you!!
@taccomacco3230
@taccomacco3230 10 ай бұрын
Thank u so much 4 ur words....it really did matter 2 me🫰❤️
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 10 ай бұрын
You are remarkable.
@Ibrahim-zf8qh
@Ibrahim-zf8qh 9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@Ncarlos07
@Ncarlos07 8 ай бұрын
Por favor descreva mais seu processo de cura ou como você vem saindo do estado depressivo!
@Misanthrope144
@Misanthrope144 Жыл бұрын
Being chronically ill and bedridden this is so hard to do 😢
@Tinyteacher1111
@Tinyteacher1111 Жыл бұрын
That’s me, too!
@mikkey246
@mikkey246 Жыл бұрын
I hope you find ways to cope.
@calliecooper99
@calliecooper99 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you 🙏🏻❤️
@TONI__KROOS
@TONI__KROOS Жыл бұрын
​@@calliecooper99 wow you're cute❤
@linzeed1392
@linzeed1392 Жыл бұрын
I'm there too idk why when I hit my 30s and I'm 34 now it has been so hard
@GodsGirl48
@GodsGirl48 7 ай бұрын
I’ve been bedridden for the last 5yrs in chronic pain with serious illnesses and a spinal disability. I used to be such a positive woman when I could get out and about but being stuck in the same room day in day out. I really wish it was that easy… but my faith keeps me going ‘just’
@derekenlow7607
@derekenlow7607 22 күн бұрын
i hope you are okay and moving around now
@GodsGirl48
@GodsGirl48 14 күн бұрын
@@derekenlow7607 thanks so much for asking.. I was invited today by a nurse to start at a gym and have a trainer who specialises in helping people with disabilities and chronic pain. I’ve happily agreed, as desperate to get stronger 🙏🏼
@darrenmacwhirter1706
@darrenmacwhirter1706 Күн бұрын
I really feel for you. I hope you are doing ok these days .
@marcosjoel374
@marcosjoel374 5 ай бұрын
Laid in bed for 3/4 of the day. Did my laundry. Folded my clothes. Took out my three bags of recycling. Had a shower. Went for a walk. Like a robot, but I feel better now.
@trydowave
@trydowave 3 ай бұрын
I was so depressed yesterday ... did nothing all day... felt like crap. This morning... I got up... procrastinated a bit and finally settled on forcing myself to do a 18 mile round bicycle trip to my neighbouring village. It was pretty dull although the weather was nice. And it was extremely hard work, physically. Wasnt nice at the time... but.... but. Im at home now, chilling... and I dont feel half as depressed as i did yesterday. All in all... result.
@Love-Runs-Blind
@Love-Runs-Blind 11 ай бұрын
Soooooo true Exactly that’s what happens. At times not doing anything becomes a habit and then this boredom from “ what to do” and “why to do” and “how to do” makes things complicated and procrastination is another killer. But then just lying on bed or just not doing things and waiting for some magic to happen…. Increases the depression and that’s the time when we should give ourself a little push to do at least the basic activities irrespective of how bad we feel because when we do that, within 30 minutes changes takes places in our body and mind because at the end of the day we are a chemical soups. Main reason for depression is sedentary lifestyle, waiting for the right moment to start or do something and not getting enough sunlight( staying indoor most of the time) Never loose hope. You have the power to heal yourself and if have recovered earlier and will again recover. Everything is temporary and this weird feelings and sadness will also pass. You are not alone. I wish you a happy and peaceful life❤❤❤
@derekenlow7607
@derekenlow7607 22 күн бұрын
praying things are better for you now :)
@Love-Runs-Blind
@Love-Runs-Blind 21 күн бұрын
@@derekenlow7607 Thank you so much brother for your prayers🙏
@gybx4094
@gybx4094 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's a vicious cycle. Sometimes I even have chills and neurological problems with major depressive disorder. Taking a walk is literally the best first step.
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 10 ай бұрын
I tend to be cold all the time when the most depressed, even in the summer. It gets esp. miserable when the hot flashes are bad, because the worst days are one extreme to the other.
@BB-nb9ls
@BB-nb9ls 7 ай бұрын
@@saintejeannedarc9460same here …I feel like that me be a symptom of PTSD
@saintejeannedarc9460
@saintejeannedarc9460 7 ай бұрын
@@BB-nb9ls I don't feel quite that way. I had to get over some major relationship cheating trauma. I'm getting there. It's been a terrible last 2 years, but finally getting better. I've been catching up on housework and actually want to. I even get to feel good about doing it. Got some Saint John's Wort and it actually helps now that I'm mostly better. When I was in severe depression and trauma, that herb couldn't make a dent, but now it boosts me from a sometimes mild depression w/ some sporadic anxiety, rather than the crushing chronic anxiety I once had. Hope you can get there too.
@annettegustafson1435
@annettegustafson1435 7 ай бұрын
I agree. Breaking up what seems like insurmountable tasks into smaller pieces is a way I've found to cope. Getting ANYTHING accomplished is uplifting
@reignevegie06
@reignevegie06 Жыл бұрын
I tell my best friend about my depression and it calms me a bit and telling my parents. And sometimes even praying that ill be better in the future.
@bushidooffaith4706
@bushidooffaith4706 Жыл бұрын
keeping praying for what say you hear.
@sagauer
@sagauer 3 ай бұрын
I pray for all of the good things
@Wammen134
@Wammen134 9 ай бұрын
DEPRESSION CAN LAST FOR YEARS. It can’t go away that easily.
@__7000rpm
@__7000rpm 7 ай бұрын
Our thoughts shape our realities. If we keep giving so much power to depression, our own prophecies will come true. :)
@小熊妈妈-q4w
@小熊妈妈-q4w 9 ай бұрын
Having a pet helps too. Every time I feel depressed, I will talk and play with him.
@violanovakova4752
@violanovakova4752 Жыл бұрын
I always go for a walk but I feel even more tired afterwards and the depression gets worse… like I feel a bit better during the activity but the intensified Fatique after is just unbearable and I’m angry that I don’t have more energy
@Yellow-oc4sl
@Yellow-oc4sl 2 ай бұрын
Fibermalja is terrible hopefully they find a cure for it
@TCYcharlie7091
@TCYcharlie7091 Жыл бұрын
Ive started working out recently to try and help and i have found myself wanting to do things more than i did before
@onlyconnect88
@onlyconnect88 11 ай бұрын
I think discipline & feeling some measure of control ones life is key factor in managing the condition, it certainly has proven so for myself Waking up 5:30am (or any set time, though ideally early)is super effective, as well as cold showers + regular, moderate exercise
@gilliangirl1
@gilliangirl1 6 ай бұрын
I do this thing called "Five Things". I make a mental contract with myself to get up and do 5 things. If I'm really bad, I might reduce it to 4 or 3 things. I get up, pick up one dish, put it in the sink, throw some stuff in the garbage, shut a cupboard door, water one plant, etc. Then after I do five things, I get to sit down. Often tho', I end up staying active and doing more. This strategy works.
@SelfHelpToons
@SelfHelpToons 6 ай бұрын
That's a great tip! I'd like to use it in a video. Let me know if you'd like me to credit you/your channel.
@firepatriot42
@firepatriot42 12 күн бұрын
👍 I did something similar when going through depression and hopelessness, I'd also force myself to get up and do something like exercising, thought I didn't want to do it but knew it'd help in the long run. I kept doing it until I slowly became better. It's doable, in a better situation in almost all areas of my life now. Another hack I still use is the count of 10, I'll count to or say the number 10 and I have to be up and moving when I say it, this one is non-negotiable.
@jonmyers8046
@jonmyers8046 10 ай бұрын
Yes, I've found that just doing a little thing helps, and that usually leads to doing more. ❤
@muhammadbida2502
@muhammadbida2502 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, God bless you.
@kolaveri73
@kolaveri73 8 ай бұрын
Try to find your calm. It can be drawing, painting, going on walks, listening to music, talking to friends, reading books and just enjoying nature. Everyone is different and not all methods work the same. So, find out what works for you
@egomod
@egomod Жыл бұрын
thanks! a perfect reminder for this beautiful morning! ❤
@shakiral32
@shakiral32 9 ай бұрын
I hear this, but I have severe fatigue and exhaustion. Doing stuff is soo difficult. When i'm not at work I can barely get off my bed to do anything. Even the smallest task or movement drains me.
@Ralph_Malph
@Ralph_Malph Жыл бұрын
This video clip described depression perfectly !
@WhoIsModernDoll
@WhoIsModernDoll Ай бұрын
Immensely hard to do at times but, definitely has helped me.
@megdyosa574
@megdyosa574 Жыл бұрын
I agree. The best first step is to take a shower. Have a good cry in the shower. Sing in the shower. You’ll feel 50% better right after.
@kingben7962
@kingben7962 Жыл бұрын
It’s impossible to trick your mind. If it’s broken It’s broken ❤
@mikec6733
@mikec6733 Жыл бұрын
It may be broken, but not like a physical item such as a table or a clock, because it is alive, it can experience rejuvenation... You don't have to trick it, but you can influence it... Best of luck!!!
@mr.kakapopoloch6263
@mr.kakapopoloch6263 10 ай бұрын
No brother not true some day it will change maybe be of a good friend a girl or family but it will change and don’t throw ur life away and don’t go out like me go out even if u alone do some sports don’t be so dumb like me and hide in ur room House pls if u have no friend then just try to be ur best friend I’m gonna sell my pc and go outside every 2 day at least and I’m going to jog again and train in my garden maybe it’s helps
@justbfree6029
@justbfree6029 9 ай бұрын
@kingben7962 the things is to 🛑 STOP sitting around and get up and enjoy life change sceneries get out the house go to the recreation center for FREE exercise weight room sports maybe swimming classes or water aerobics whoever offers it maybe volunteer somewhere we just need to do something to recharge our mind
@Prince0ctopus
@Prince0ctopus Жыл бұрын
my ways to cure my depression... at school when the teachers makes us write something i always try to make my work look nice ! add a little spiral thingy, color it with color pens, basicly just draw anything that comes in yoir mind
@Abyss_Raen
@Abyss_Raen Ай бұрын
"And if we dont have friends or dogs-" was personal for me
@ghostinthenetworks662
@ghostinthenetworks662 Жыл бұрын
Take baby steps. Each step we feel able to do and be more
@sherryannestacion4298
@sherryannestacion4298 Жыл бұрын
Forcing myself to go freediving tomorrow ❤
@BambiBryant
@BambiBryant 8 ай бұрын
The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb has a lot of great ideas on how to notice a downward spiral and start an upward spiral instead. Even small actions like not frowning create positive biofeedback that can help you feel at least a little better. 💕
@Glizzygoblers-ub5jh
@Glizzygoblers-ub5jh 6 ай бұрын
I learned why most teens are depressed. Most moms and dad‘s first punishment is taking away their electronics/video games. This is a way for most kids to connect with each other. Which makes them feel lonely, and most people will either like break or sell their games or their console and that is their social life that you just get rid of as of now 2024. Most teenagers were either 13 or 9 when the coronavirus started and that’s how kids talk to each other with their friends because they couldn’t meet them in person so when you take away video games, just know that you’re taking all your kids social life
@rutha1464
@rutha1464 4 ай бұрын
BRAVO! Exactly what I have been advocating for decades. Nonchemical treatments for depression most often should be the first course of action.
@kapsican
@kapsican 2 ай бұрын
it's a hard truth but it can be so difficult, especially when you don't realise the position you're in. but starting and taking the first step is so necessary, even if that's the only step but you have to start somewhere. sending all the love to everyone or there struggling, you're not alone
@EB-gt1pq
@EB-gt1pq Ай бұрын
Even having plants encourages us to get up and water them!
@wallisphoto
@wallisphoto 2 ай бұрын
I think you are absolutely correct thank you
@aurieamoore5823
@aurieamoore5823 10 ай бұрын
Not too ambitious: (What they said) Take a shower, cook a meal, call a friend, GO ON A WALK (What i expected) attempt to sit up, attempt to stand, give yourself a compliment, try to walk around your house if you've gotten that far, boil an egg if you're really feeling it, eat that egg, give yourself a hug, swish mouthwash if you can, open a window if you can, congratulate yourself even if it took 11 hours, and you maybe didn't even finish the list. Conclusion: cooking a meal is something that i can't do outside of special occasions even outside of an episode. Taking a walk around my house feels like a marathon when I'm depressed, and going outside.. heeell no. Y'all better off asking me to fly b/c that's how likely i am to just 'go outside and walk' when I'm depressed. Lord knows i ain't even got any friends. And taking a shower? That's a job. But you know what i can do maybe? Baby wipes and dry shampoo because thats what a depression shower looks like. Seriously, y'all expectations too damn high. You lucky i even eat today at all. Even when i set crackers on my nightstand in advance lol, iykyk.
@Kelseashell
@Kelseashell 7 ай бұрын
I find this difficult when my neighborhood is dirty with high crime and it's even more depressing to look around at all the litter and cigarettes people leave. I hope to go off grid and find peace one day ..
@scpfoundation6628
@scpfoundation6628 7 ай бұрын
I did all of this shit wasted my energy but thanks for the momentary comfort
@christirose6813
@christirose6813 Ай бұрын
You are right movement of any kind helps tremendously. I've started doing stretching and yoga 🧘‍♀️ every morning. Just this one thing helps so much to lighten the heaviness i normally feel. Thank you 😊
@LEKSANDER01
@LEKSANDER01 7 ай бұрын
That’s a key! Starting with one small thing, then another then another then another… you build a foundation of doing and acting. Good clip, I hope everyone that sees this video and can’t get off the phone and their couch… you don’t need to think about every decision, sometimes you just have to get up without thinking..
@ajcoscos1117
@ajcoscos1117 7 ай бұрын
This is true. Being active helps a lot!
@happyme9010
@happyme9010 6 ай бұрын
Thank you, finally someone who gives practical advice on what to do (or try to do) about mental health issues rather than just listing symptoms or descriptions of conditions as if we don’t often know what the problem is-that is useful for some at first I suppose but it seems like it’s so difficult to find guidance and support to help solve these problems. Also thank you for acknowledging that we don’t always have friends, I imagine the lack of friends is more common amongst people needing to use resources like these videos.
@SelfHelpToons
@SelfHelpToons 6 ай бұрын
Thanks, I appreciate that.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 8 ай бұрын
I go outside every day, bike, walk etc. but I'm exhausted and alone. After a heartbreak in autumn I haven't smiled much anymore 😢 It's been 2 months and I still feel sad and unworthy.
@olesyashakhova4685
@olesyashakhova4685 7 ай бұрын
I actually do this - go for a walk, try to studying with friend(UI/UX- design), work in part-time job... I have many activites, but I also feel tired all the time. Even when I sleep well I feel tired in the morning. I feel so upset, because it makes life so complicated. I desided go to the doctor and I find out, that I have anemia. Maybe, it is the reason. I will be grateful for advises in this situation❤ P.S. I apologize for my mistakes. English isn't my mother language ( I'm from Ukraine)
@SelfHelpToons
@SelfHelpToons 7 ай бұрын
Tiredness, fatigue and lack of energy are common symptoms of depression, especially in the winter. It's great you're still staying active, and do your best to be compassionate towards yourself and not get too upset about your situation because that just makes you feel worse. I'm glad you're seeing a doctor who can help you figure out if there's anything besides depression contributing to how you feel, and I hope you start feeling better.
@olesyashakhova4685
@olesyashakhova4685 6 ай бұрын
@@SelfHelpToons Thank you for support!🥰 I wish success to this channel.
@AlexB-re4tn
@AlexB-re4tn Ай бұрын
Привет. Такие же симптомы
@zthetajulietta8184
@zthetajulietta8184 2 ай бұрын
Rest helps depression or focusing on self care. Working too much can also lead to burnout
@gideonvanriet8906
@gideonvanriet8906 9 ай бұрын
Wow! Thanks! Never thought of that. Lol. CBT cracks me up every time.
@SelfHelpToons
@SelfHelpToons 9 ай бұрын
You're right, a lot of CBT is just common sense. That's also one of the things that makes it so effective. CBT involves practical strategies that many people aren't already doing. But because the ideas are relatively simple and easy to understand, they are less difficult to implement then many other approaches.
@danguzy918
@danguzy918 7 ай бұрын
The simplest thing you can do is start by cleaning off a table, than move to another table, maybe the kitchen counter. Wash a dish or two. Wash your hands and face. Clean your glasses. Pick up a couple of items off the floor. Set out some clothes in the bathroom for when you're ready for a shower so they're ready to go. Put on your shoes and walk down down the street and back. Play with your pets. You don't have to do a lot, just a little something here and there. Pick and choose your battle. Start small and try to do a few different little things a few times a day. Pretty soon you'll do a bit more, then more, and eventually you might even be back to normal. The more you lounge, the worse you'll feel, the more you move, the better you'll feel.
@christoskallias2115
@christoskallias2115 Жыл бұрын
And, after getting better with CBT, don't forget to start a psychotherapeutic approach like psychodynamic or person-centered therapy, to deal with your Childhood trauma
@1111angeld
@1111angeld Жыл бұрын
Thank you, for me it’s walking at the park, essential ❤
@MalaPalabra-zr6wg
@MalaPalabra-zr6wg 7 ай бұрын
In the time we lived the pandemic, I lost my brother and my grandmother, and my father got ill of lynphoma. And I notice that who I though were my friends, they weren't. So, I ended up being fallen up at the depression and hatred against the world. But then I realized that feeling of hatred is poison, so I started to keep away from the social medias and I began creating a new world inside of my mind. Ad thanks to my imagination I could cover from my depression and I am satrting to feel that I am alive again and I have a future that's unclear but it's good for me!
@Sunmoonmeshed
@Sunmoonmeshed Ай бұрын
A routine (standing up early and cleaning and cooking) alarms >>>
@mamtashukla3838
@mamtashukla3838 7 ай бұрын
Thankyou sir
@BritEssex
@BritEssex 11 ай бұрын
In my deepest depression i force myself to do something. Whether its cleaning something just get moving as much as possible. I force myself to the gym , sometimes that doesn't work but tires me out so it helps me sleep. I hardest thing for me it appears everyone else is happy. The reality is quite different depressed people are good actors.
@literally_a_rock
@literally_a_rock Жыл бұрын
Thank you it cured my depression from everybody bullying me in roblox
@musabelsiddig7959
@musabelsiddig7959 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice 😊
@ajpewding4058
@ajpewding4058 8 ай бұрын
tried walking, ended up crying in public
@NotIre-fr9md
@NotIre-fr9md 4 ай бұрын
I become more active, I fail and than I go to my bed not coming out for a week
@SloopADoopy
@SloopADoopy Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done
@maddiemae73
@maddiemae73 Жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s giving Starving? Just eat. Homeless? Just buy a house. Depressed? Just be happy/stop having the symptoms. Like no, it’s not that simple 😭
@jed6403
@jed6403 Жыл бұрын
Who said its easy? 0% effort gets 0% results.
@meropale
@meropale 8 ай бұрын
I have a garden and plants. Sometimes focusing on another activity, not our thoughts and feelings, can be a relief. Taking a shower and getting dressed can be a good kickstart. Exercise and meditation are wonder drugs with positive side effects.
@yellowcatmonkey
@yellowcatmonkey 11 ай бұрын
i haven't showered in a couple months.. all's grey outside for the next half a year and i have no friends.. i separate trash in multiple bags to have a reason to get out.. i feel bored and nothing at all.. i swear give me summer and sun and i immediately get better..ppl aren't meant 2 live in such climes during winter.. ugh.. writing this is exhausting..
@McGregor837
@McGregor837 11 ай бұрын
I do everything u say but i have insomnia so at night it's hard to tackle depression Even though I read books to tackle it Actually social media is the one who puts me in anxiety depression.
@EmAlvatez
@EmAlvatez 29 күн бұрын
Thats right.
@sarahtorres6502
@sarahtorres6502 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the reminder.
@Yellow-oc4sl
@Yellow-oc4sl 2 ай бұрын
There is so much to this especially fibermahaja cause depression too and women change as well
@LasyaNadimpalli-sj8cq
@LasyaNadimpalli-sj8cq 9 ай бұрын
Watching this itself made me feel better thanks
@ThePsychGuides
@ThePsychGuides 7 ай бұрын
Our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are interconnected. Do a small task to feel better.
@jojodogwater
@jojodogwater Жыл бұрын
The best thing in the world to help with this is to just run, go for a jog, get outside!!! Play football with some friends! Do something!!!!
@rawfoodphilosophy7061
@rawfoodphilosophy7061 3 ай бұрын
if you don't have friends, dogs, girlfriend or family......just go for a lonely walk.......knowing you'll always be by yourself
@sougamerz_621
@sougamerz_621 7 күн бұрын
I almost read that as "relive" depression
@alicecarol.
@alicecarol. 8 ай бұрын
yes!!! of course!!! "just" taking a shower
@michelekurlan2580
@michelekurlan2580 10 күн бұрын
Mornings are tough. I feel better if I stay out and/or active,however, it starts all over every morning.
@DonnieMangaron
@DonnieMangaron 3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@byronyadao5550
@byronyadao5550 7 ай бұрын
Feel needed by helping others in need. Share your time, energy, or money to the poor, sick, or needy. "Give love to receive love."
@bridgetb9899
@bridgetb9899 2 күн бұрын
I discovered that there are 4 minute workouts on KZbin. I tell myself that there are 24 hours in a day, surely I can get through 4 minutes of simple exercise? That 4 minutes has a snowball effect.
@SelfHelpToons
@SelfHelpToons Күн бұрын
That's a great strategy
@catherinewylie6959
@catherinewylie6959 10 ай бұрын
They call this "behavioral activation". I think of this a lot when I am really down and my body feels like lead. Sometimes I tell myself I will take 10 movements towards any activity or do ten small activities and that gets me going. However, I may need a nap at some point, which is fine because I did some things. I don't know why clinical depression is so exhausting.
@robcarley7506
@robcarley7506 3 ай бұрын
I've done all that, typing this afternoon going for a run. I still feel lousy.
@kingmello4804
@kingmello4804 6 ай бұрын
The more I learn how to get out the more I become 😢
@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 9 ай бұрын
The truth is that when you’re in deep depression you don’t even care to get out of it. You’re so worn down and exhausted that you don’t care enough to get up and walk or shower or do anything
@brendalg4
@brendalg4 2 ай бұрын
One thing no video seems to acknowledge is being depressed due to your circumstances. No tips change the circumstances. Going for a walk doesn't make me any more able to pay my bills.
@bakugoubean2924
@bakugoubean2924 11 ай бұрын
I’m proud of myself I got out of my house on one of my days off from work
@mariejackson3212
@mariejackson3212 8 ай бұрын
Good advice!
@vhuLTuReZ
@vhuLTuReZ 7 ай бұрын
That’s the issue I pushed everyone away
@himanshigawra6795
@himanshigawra6795 8 ай бұрын
NOTTTTT WORKINGGGGGGGGGG
@arrowmae3013
@arrowmae3013 2 ай бұрын
he sounds so sad. this made me even more depressed.
@SethOmegaful
@SethOmegaful Жыл бұрын
Doesn't work if the core of your depression is more philosophical or existential
@mmapicker
@mmapicker Ай бұрын
My depression is so bad that no matter what I do I feel depressed.
@Cheng-jq6fc
@Cheng-jq6fc 11 ай бұрын
I knew I needed help..when I had intrusive thoughts of "suicide"😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 but, I can't express my feelings😢 I'm NOT articulate & I struggle to explain my thoughts, etc..............
@TheCouchAteAlex238
@TheCouchAteAlex238 Жыл бұрын
This worked thank you
@Mr.Freeze8754
@Mr.Freeze8754 Жыл бұрын
But ,what if,you have lower back pain can't do much??
@Sleepybear6032
@Sleepybear6032 Жыл бұрын
It's not about having friends, friends just drift apart soo much due to the stream of life, it's often just boring. The world isn't that good anymore, ii tell you.
@freckles4603
@freckles4603 Жыл бұрын
What if being more active just makes me feel worse
@ninatheperson
@ninatheperson 7 ай бұрын
The problem is gaining momentum.
@Lazh-_-
@Lazh-_- Жыл бұрын
Thank you for including the option of not having any friends or dogs. And also I don't think it would help me haha, because it's my extreme work stress, chronic illness, chronic pain and heat intolerance that made me depressed, I have work all the time, and I don't even have a single minute of peace in a day, I can't sleep most of the night and often have suicidal thought.
@Sansjdjsjs
@Sansjdjsjs 2 ай бұрын
Thanks bro:D
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