Respond vs. React: A Simple, Powerful Tool to Stop Arguments

Learn a powerful way to stop arguments from starting. In 5 minutes, you will learn a proven communication tool for successful conversations that don't get derailed.
Why having a short pause will help you to respond and not react.
Learn what you will mentally do during the short pause.
Choose a long-term and not a short-term outlook.
Respond thoughtfully and not in an emotionally driven way.
Choose to see the other person's perspective and not just your perspective.
Gracefully take a longer pause if you need one so you can thoughtfully respond and not react.
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[@shelleycharlesworth5177]

GREAT video-MY emotional well-being is more important than anyone else's bad behavior!

[@strategicleadershipconsult7329]

Thank you for your comment. It shows your commitment to responding rather than reacting.

[@Relationships-Communication]

If you can, please take the time to use a notebook to write out what the video suggests as doing so patterns it more deeply than only hearing it. Thanks!

[@englishinthebag]

Simple analysis which allows actionable plans.Great contribution to alleviate human pain.Greetings from Morocco.

[@Relationships-Communication]

Thank you for your kind comment! Glad you found it helpful. I appreciate the greeting from Morocco!

[@jonfrederick6008]

Awesome. Brilliant. And so simple and straightforward. Thanks!

[@Relationships-Communication]

Thank you so very much, Jon!

[@strategicleadershipconsult7329]

So glad you found this to be helpful and straightforward. Thanks for commenting

[@user-kj1nf2ki6p]

This makes so much more sense than some vides I’ve listened to. It’s plain and simple no nonsense language that anyone and everyone can understand. Thank you ❤

[@Relationships-Communication]

Thank you, @user-kj1nf2ki6p , for your kind comment. I appreciate hearing that the ways of responding rather than reacting made good sense to you. I hope you also find a few other videos on my channel that can help you or the people in your life have better relationships and communication.

[@davidmorrison1086]

Never knew the difference. Awesome! Many Thanks 👍

[@strategicleadershipconsult7329]

You are very welcome, David! Glad the difference between reacting and responding 😁was an insight for you!

[@Relationships-Communication]

You are very welcome, David! Glad the difference between reacting and responding 😁was an insight for you!

[@linalindbladh8529]

Amazing. Protecting your future! SO good

[@Relationships-Communication]

Yes. Too often our emotions convince us that this moment when we are emotionally activated is the vital time frame. But in hindsight, that usually is not the case. You are correct in noticing that protection our futures is usually more important than how we feel in the moment. Thanks for commenting!

[@balajib785]

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[@Relationships-Communication]

Thank you for commenting. I'm glad this was helpful for you!

[@JoJo-xo6fh]

Thank you Sweet man🙏❤️

[@Relationships-Communication]

Thank you for watching! I hope it will provide ongoing value for you.

[@shannaypeterkin3567]

Needed this

[@strategicleadershipconsult7329]

Glad it was helpful for you

[@CastleHassall]

but the trouble is that many people we have conflict with are NOT interested in rational points that we make at all and our attempts to rationally discuss issues just leads to them gaslighting or getting abusive if we are rational and considerate

[@reallifelove]

Very helpful, thank you

[@strategicleadershipconsult7329]

I appreciate your kind comment. I'm glad the idea of taking a pause to respond was of help to you.

[@Relationships-Communication]

Glad it was helpful! Taking a few more moments to pause to respond and not react can really pay off. Thanks for commenting!

[@RawKnee1111]

Thank you ~

[@kateowen6035]

Great advice, thanks!

[@Relationships-Communication]

I'm glade, Kate, that you found the information helpful in learning how to respond creatively to situations rather than to react. Thanks for commenting!

[@meenakumari362]

It doesn't matter, it's the same because you're energizing the situation. You may take revenge days or years after which brings bad karma.

[@richardjchandler]

And creating bad karma is a likely consequence of reacting rather than responding. I appreciate your comment. Thanks!

[@meenakumari362]

@@richardjchandler You can respond in a negative way or take time to plan revenge. Whatever thoughts or energy you put out, you get back regardless respond or react.

[@richardjchandler]

@@meenakumari362 Yes. That certainly is true!

[@CastleHassall]

your points make no sense.. if a person is rational in a discussion that does not mean they are putting bad energy into it and also it's wise to fight sometimes, unless you don't value protecting the innocent from abuse etc

[@meenakumari362]

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