Answering Controversial Questions on Marital Issues + We have an Announcement | Rica Peralejo

[@BlancheNtrOy]

I absolutely love this vlog! And I can relate because just a few months ago, my husband and I (married 12 years this November) went through one of the hardest trials in our marriage. We went through a lot before but I feel this was the culmination of it and it was also witnessed by our children. The enemy wants to destroy our family forever, but GOD! He broke us both so we can heal properly through the Holy Spirit and His discipline. It was very painful but it needed to happen. And praise the Lord, my relationship with my husband has been way better now that we are on the other side. If we didn’t push through and just gave up, our children would suffer tremendously as well as ourselves. It’s all by Gods grace and power that are we still going strong. And I also have seen a huge difference in my husband. We have studied Ephesians 5 and it truly helped us. We will continue to walk in faith and have God as the master of our marriage.

[@joebonifacio]

Wow, praise God! He is really good. Thanks for sharing this testimony.

[@jammiedmsd8348]

"Differences do not make you wrong. Differences make you strong." Damn that hit hard.

[@melaniecabotaje2745]

In the middle of listening to this, I pressed pause, then went straight to Shopee and bought not just one, not just two, nor three but FOUR books. The insights that you share is just full of wisdom that it feels a crime not to share it with married friends. Thank you. :)

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

WOW SALAMAT sa SUPPORT!!!❤❤❤

[@Geraldjayr23]

This is what absolutely in line with God’s center relationship … keep moving

[@liamsyang2011]

Yung sinabihan ako ni hubby 2 days ago na ..i hope u wont regret marrying me.. dhil God knows nilunok ko lahat para panindigan ang promise ko na tatanggapin at mamahalin ko sya thru good times and bad. Grabe i think wow ganito pala talaga ang marriage...nakita ko namn na ng effort din siya to accept my flaws so dapat give and take talaga..

[@richelleannepadin9273]

The last question. This happened to us when my mum passed away last year. I was so mad at my husband for not being there for me physically when my mom is in her death bed. We fought for months about it. I resent him for it then here we are stronger than ever. We just go through it. Hindi namin tinigilan yung pag-uusap ng issue na yung almost everyday until ok na kami.

[@christinacalcana2817]

This vlog is an eye opener for couples. There is no such thing as perfect in relationship. I hope you do more of this. Full of wisdom. May God Bles you and your family po. ❤️

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

Thank you ❤

[@mjnaynes5734]

Ms. Rica, I saw you last time s FeastCon. My husband and I attended the masterclass that you and your husband are one of the speaker. it's my first time to see u in person and sobra ako nastartruck aside s dami ng take away learnings. And yes, matagal ndin ako subscriber s vlog nyo 🥰. One of my favorite also is when you guest in Toni Talks 🙂. Thank you for all the inspiration 🥰

[@frenchienuguid240]

Thank you the Bonis for this inspirational talk. I am so enlightened by how you presented everything. 🥰 I could relate so much to both of you and what my husband and I have gone through over the course of 12 years. It's amazing to know that we're not alone in this journey. It truly is magical to be hearing this from you guys. I truly feel that this has awakened my spirits that there really is hope in most marriages. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you both. May God protect our marriages. 💞💞💞

[@hueyvien]

before anything else!!! you really look so good on yellow!!!

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

Hahahaha thanks i think yellow is my color nga hahahaha

[@anajeaninacorpuz1298]

I love this vlog. I am still single, and still waiting for my God’s best, but it hit me to the core. I have learned a lot. Thank you ❤

[@meadowdez6302]

This kind of vlog would still be definitely relevant for many years to come. 🙏 Thank you. 🧡 God bless you both in every way for His glory.

[@louelladiezmo1998]

God is true to His character and Promises! Kasama Niya tayo sa hirap at ginhawa. He is not giving up on us kaya we will not let go of Him kahit ang hirap hirap na at ang sakit sakit na dahil sa life dito sa mundo at dahil sa katigasan ng ulo natin. His Grace is Mooore Than Enough. Kapit at tiwala sa Diyos. He is coming through.He is coming soon!

[@AlohasVlog]

I'm still single but I learn a lot from you two. Thank you for sharing this. You're inspiring a lot of people for your wisdom and genuiness. Stay in love and God bless❤

[@sjrelucio782]

I'm not even in a relationship but this is too gold 💛🙂✨🙏

[@joyluciano2488]

I’m such a big fan of you Ms Rica and Pastor Joseph. I’m still single but your content really helps to see through what a Christian living should be like. Napakagaling ng thought process nyong magasawa. Even I as a single, madami akonh natutunan. Praise God for your wisdom and stories! ❤️

[@sha3174]

Love this vlog, thank you, Hope all the couples going through hard times and thinking of ending the replationship will watch this. God bless.

[@mylenemyls74]

Enjoyed watching this . Both very articulate. 😊

[@elvieanndiputado]

We want more, the Bonis! :) This will help us singles to prepare for marriage season.

[@feabambinamarquez]

More vlogs like these please, I really enjoy seeing u both on a single frame! so much wisdom and takeaways for today

[@leamaytcalingo]

You're both SO in the zone here! 👏

[@jennylynsantos1616]

Good thought of dealing with differences daw kapag isa sobrang generous, isa naman praktikal is para ma-weigh nang tama kung may sumusobra na sa inyo haha. Never thought of that. It's a nice point! The pleasure is ours. Your wisdom is gold. Thank you and God bless your beautiful marriage!

[@lendelacosta7168]

bat teary-eyed ako sa vlog na to e hindi naman sya nakakaiyak?😅😆...tusok na tusok kase haha..thank you for this, Bonis 😊.. i may not be able to buy the book now because di talaga keri ng bulsa but there's hope sa ebook..crossing my fingers that i will get that copy someday..🤞 God bless you power couple!♥️

[@l.i.i.s2987]

Make an e-book please!

[@AngelSalumbides]

This is so nice! I've learned a lot. And this is very helpful because I'm about to get married. Thank you!!🥰

[@roselleanerdis9106]

God bless you Boni's! This is a very enlightening and helpful vlog.

[@lizli8339]

Salamat po dito. Sakto ikakasal na ako this December. Dagdag po ito na pang eye opener. Nawa maiapply namin lahat ng natututunan namin sa mga pre-marriage counseling.

[@sigridsoriano911]

super like….. nkakarelate ako as a wife and mum. pls make more videos like this.

[@rosariomerencilla1683]

Excited for the book! Sharing this vlog to our couple friends as well 🎉❤

[@HannahCarlosPH]

i am now both excited and nervous 😬🫣😂

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

😂😂😂😂

[@tasslavs]

My heart and spirit are full from the wisdom that flows out from you, Pastor Joe and Ms. Carla! God bless your hearts and more projects to come! ❤

[@linadiaz1953]

Amazing input very anointed, full of wisdom. Thank you

[@deltasierra3295]

i believe this is a hug for me from God. thank you, Bonis!💖✨️

[@momhoney3792]

yes definitely we would love to have more videos from both of you about marriage and family... praise God for the inspiration you both share to us, your avid viewers. Happy new year and may God bless... 🙏

[@sharingoutlovesol1663]

Wow! Praise God 🙏💖 Thanks to you both Where we can find your book Ms. Rica?

[@sherryannu.thomas8819]

Wow, so awesome topic! Thanks for your topic and God's make away to understand me the marriage life. We're just getting to know each other this time for a month together from 4 years LDR. It's really hard, but thanks God for leading us to be stronger for the sake of our relationship. My hubby was good and supportive, but the problem is me and hard for both of us to adjust our attitude and behavior especially me. Difficult culture, but have advantage also. Thanks God for being our center of our life. God bless and more power to both of you Rica 🙏 Sherry🇺🇸

[@desTINAsyonPH]

Super nice questions. Just to add up, laging sinasabi sakin ng spiritual mentor ko. Hindi ba sa ating mga tahanan tayong mga asawang babae ang taga linis? Ganoon din pagdating sa asawa natin, if ever may naging maling decision sila, tayo ang taga linis, tayo ang taga ayos. ❤ ehehehehe God bless to all of us. Kaya natin yan mga mars 🙂 God is with us, wag hayaang mahulog ang mga prutas 😅 Thank you Ms. Rica and Pastor, medyo pareho kayo pagdating sa giving ng hudband ko 🫣

[@jonnalopez3183]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. This came to my feed on the right time. Its like God talked to me and answered my prayer. I want to read your book. And yes more helpful vlogs like this one. God bless your family 😊

[@ellaandrade1747]

Full of realizations in life bcoz of u guys. Thank you Rica and Joe! I will buy ur book definitely. More vlogs like this please.

[@moo1779]

love this vlog that am very interested to have a copy of your book. ❤

[@jedviervlogs7773]

Hi thank you for the good topic that you tackled . Hope for more of this vlog about life and marriage.god bless your family , ❤

[@janedapdap5416]

Hi Ms. Carla where can i purchase your book?

[@joykojima]

Thank you so much❤❤❤I love it❤😘🙏More please❤️🙏God bless you more❤️🙏Huge fan of yours from Nagoya Japan🇯🇵🇵🇭❤️

[@WisdomSeekersofChrist]

Wow, full of wisdom, I praise God for the both of you! Nakakaiyak especially the last part! 😭🙏💝🙌

[@tzagomez5155]

First 2 minutes and I'm already adding to cart sa shopee! I feel enlightened, understood and validated with my big feelings haha! Same with Pstr Joe, I also said the exact same words, 'Why is it so unfair, I feel like I'm on super hard mode in life' haha! I'm excited for the book to arrive! Thanks so much for this content!

[@belyu4452]

I am interested in vlogs like this even though I am not married. Hoping to see more!

[@arethamikayvalencia3847]

My idol since I was young.. Pretty as ever po Ms Rica..

[@zizaworld]

This is 🥇 excited for the book. I dearly loved Better than Jewels. I know I will love your new book. Praise God for your lives. Thank you Bonis. I love you ❤️

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

Wow maraming salamat ❤

[@jedviervlogs7773]

Hi thank you for doing this. You help a lot of couple especially those in a relationship or married couple. I hope you continue this blog advice or Q and A theme. It’s really interesting. Talk a lot of different topic in general mostly on how to deal in life and put god on yourself. Thank you and hope there’s more next Q and A god bless your family 😊

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

Meron pa! Hehe ❤ next year!

[@jedviervlogs7773]

@@RicaPeralejoBonifacio wow okay thank you I’m looking forward for that❤️😊

[@yanes.pebenito7582]

Tnx for your candor, Joseph & Carla! Great questions, audience!

[@honneyjanelaurenia3264]

I'm not yet married but I learned so much in this vlog. Thank you, Ms. Rica!

[@maylineabastas9183]

I love listening to your conversation. A lot of very fruitful lesson to learn. How I wish malakas lng ang mic ni Jo. 😅

[@brandyracs5275]

Where can we get a copy of the book?

[@edenalon5435]

Thank you so much for this very wonderful episode.

[@eleonorvelasco1488]

Nice episode .. great talk and discussion .. helped me somehow to understand things about marriage and realized many things..though just find this a bit too fast of a discussion (how probably you speak lols) but great great discussion and one of the best topics for the vlog, you are a couple who inspires, teach and a lot of sense! all the best..

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

It’s a vlog kasi so the full version which is slower is in pur podcast 😂

[@eleonorvelasco1488]

@@RicaPeralejoBonifacio soo excited for the book I just ordered after watching this... always a fan Rica..

[@mariakarenmenez2563]

Wow I am crying. Good tears. Amazing wisdom. Turok sa puso. Praise God ❤

[@mariakarenmenez2563]

Bought your book too using the Shopee link ❤

[@ForeverBlessedCharm]

Timely to our situation i will recommend this to my husband to our devotion so we can learn together.

[@magelamurielle7686]

I learned so much from this vlog. I love it! More to come pls 😊

[@neriserosales5432]

Looking forward to have your book...prang sit down talk n toh hehehe.

[@Iamarjey]

Wow! More vlogs like this please!

[@anjo3615]

wow...a very smart couple..you're way younger than me but im really learning a lot...hope to have a copy of your book!!!!

[@Jessica-yf3do]

This is a buffett for couples.❤ Thank you!Continue to shine for Jesus!

[@godsprincess5643]

Thank you so much Miss Rica and hubby, Jesus Loves Us!

[@jocelynlabayoga6076]

Very informative. This is such a blessing!

[@ForeverBlessedCharm]

Oh wow, I want that book. Where to get it ? I’m living in Melbourne. And yes please I want more of this, it’s so helpful. Thank you and God bless.

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

You may direct message @wellandwise.co on instagram :) they will entertain international orders

[@ballhawking101]

very insightful. thanks pastors!

[@anniesalamat1476]

Nice vlog!...indeed love is a decision, loving imperfect person seeking their highest good for God's glory....

[@acar957]

I love mr boni! I am enjoying your videos together more than I do with rica and the others 😅 power couple talaga

[@christiandcmarcos]

Excited for this❤

[@yanes.pebenito7582]

Grabe, I can relate to Carla but I can also relate to Joe! Loved this vlog! Can’t wait for my copy of the book!

[@ameinizee9378]

Perfectly chosen questions talaga, very relatable. I'm sharing this with the hubby mamaya, pag kaya pa niyang makinig sa kaka busy nya today. Thanks guys, you rock!☺️

[@bellam6908]

Watched this with my hubby and he decided that we need to buy your book afterwards! Excited kami to answer some questions and to also write our own stories/insight about our marriage. We’re a young couple and we are very blessed to have you both to give us wisdom about marriage 💖💖💖

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

Pls share with us also your insights!!!!

[@rodelcaguicla5080]

Ohh Emm gee..ansarap pakinggan at panooren yung couple na toH, grabeh yung energy napaka strong..lakas makapam budol talaga lalo na dun sa may mga asawa😊,andami ko na naman natutunan,kahit single pa rin ako..paRang gusto ko na bukas mag asawa🤣 Yung last part sa vlog, tagus na tagus sa puso ko..damang dama ko promise😢 tHank you Mr. and Mrs. Bonis❤️

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

best comment hahahahahahhaha

[@rodelcaguicla5080]

a die hard Fan..sana may award akong Eleven Eleven na book..🤣🤣 soo excited to get my copy.. may kasama n po ba yung libreng autograph?thanks po😊

[@queincycarbonera7057]

Thank you for this po! Very insightful even for a single woman like me ♥️

[@angeliquematriano6547]

Hi! Ms rica, it helps a lot for us! We are in 6 years in relationship and planning to get married soon! ❤

[@maribelwilliams3343]

Thank you for sharing this. Much needed to where I’m in right now. Is there a way for me to buy the book here in the USA? Please let me know. ❤

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

You can DM @wellandwise.co on instagram and they will fix it for you!

[@KITTEEKAT]

So meaty. So full of wisdom! Is your book available on kindle? Thank you for doing this!!!

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

No hahaha! Inuubos muna ang physical copies hahaha

[@Hannah-mr9xb]

these are the exact answers for all of my questions and what if's..

[@goodannebana2402]

I am single yet this teaches me a lot as an individual whom someday will fall into a place called Relationship😊😁 Thank you po🥰😍

[@gracenones9961]

Very beautiful vlog!!!God bless po....watching from Riyad...

[@JillMG]

Thank you po. ❤❤❤

[@jonnafemartin6864]

Thank u Guys

[@iamkristina]

Kahit d pa kame kasal open namam kame sa isat isa. We have no problem with money. we have one child. 😊👍

[@gemmahamilton6876]

I love watching your vlog. Authentic and anointing by God.

[@deeyeyleigh2143]

Totally unrelated but that color really looks good on you Rica 😊

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

Awwww hahahah i think so also

[@revenitadulay7642]

This is so nice .iam learning from you guys !

[@sharingoutlovesol1663]

Sold out the Book Ms. Rica huhuhu

[@mariannietes1535]

Wow this is wonderful topic ❤️❤️🙏

[@Kuya.Ey11]

grabe yung laman ng vlog nato salamat po!!! (feeling ko po mic lang ni Pastor Joe nagrecord)

[@bethvictor1190]

Excellent content!

[@michaelferrer2823]

Hello po pastor joe and ms rica can u give me advice i cannot erase my wife's past sexual experiences woth her past boyfriends meaning she was not a virgin when we got married and on d other side i was a virgin and it felt unfair to me. I know its wrong po, but i can help but u compare myself to the guys he slept with andit brings more doubt lack of self confidence to myself pahingi po ng advice please and prayers. Please reply to me po Godbless 😢

[@sarahbalino4403]

More of this please...🥰

[@charleneleiingay-costes4395]

Miss Rica, where can I buy your newest book?

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

In description box - every possible way is there

[@sharingoutlovesol1663]

@@RicaPeralejoBonifacio thanks Ms. Rica that's what I asked too lol

[@bloodymary0606]

I want to watch this but I fear it might strike a chord. My husband has depression, I want to support him but nauubos na ko, pagod na. How can I support someone who doesnt want to accept help? It pains me to see him lifeless.

[@RicaPeralejoBonifacio]

😢

[@joebonifacio]

ACK! I had a long reply to this that got lost. Will retype it again.

[@bloodymary0606]

@@joebonifacio thank you!

[@joebonifacio]

​@@bloodymary0606 1. Get help for yourself, not just for him. You'll need it. Feel free to take a break, reach out to friends, or do something that energizes you. 2. Be prepared for the long haul. This may take a while. 3. Celebrate small wins. A smile, a touch, a positive response. Keep reminding yourself and your spouse that while you aren't rushing them, you are also in faith that God will show up. 4. Study up on how to help someone in that condition.

[@bloodymary0606]

@@joebonifacio thank u Pastor Joe. If you can say a little prayer for me too, I’m still hoping we will get better, if nakaya nyo po ng wife nyo I believe can too. Salamat Salamat po.

[@bienamoranto]

love this thank you

[@ssejarahg3646]

I cried watching this ❤

[@katleenevangelista1549]

Waiting!!!

[@herspace94]

Waitinggg!

[@herspace94]

Im a single woman but I know Im invested to this channel to prepare myself. Hehehe. Thanks Bonis!

[@_rodelle]

Bought the book! So excited to receive it na :)

[@jeralyncabangis8811]

Kahit single ang daming take away ✨