Romance scam victims speak out

[@crfollower5719]

These brave ladies coming out will save others from the same

[@mohlape]

Not at all for long time these stories are on social media, these ladies also knew about this scams going around.

[@kha6068]

Not all , some dont wanna hear a thing

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

And their money is gone

[@SpigadoMakoloi]

Owamie thanks dear for bringing awareness.

[@Soft_Khanyi]

Literally scrolling down to find this comment because the girl did the most in bringing light to these stories

[@bettykhuboni8758]

AMEN!!

[@vuvufuzzy2594]

As soon as it involves money; RUN! These people are heartless, they don't play.

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

Yessssss "Baleka"😂😅

[@tshililoclaudinahmugovheli5793]

I am so sorry Mama, mourning the deaths of your sons and then having to be scammed its too much. May God comfort you

[@zolamvelase9176]

The look for vulnerable women,its disgusting what this world has turned into

[@fabulous1990]

Women, do not give no man your money, whether South African or not! Learn from this. A man must be a provider, not you!

[@mthobisizondi2410]

Also advice men, not to give anyone money In fact let’s say if you hear something better to ask people around about that thing, verify it Because it not only romance scam that is out there, people scam job seekers, people scam through house selling or property selling, car sales and etc Men and women please open your eyes and be aware of these things

[@emilysimelane6376]

Our South African women do not want to listen. When you talk to them they'll tell you they want a comfortable life.

[@thembikunene4531]

So true and think foreigners men r better tgan South African men. Apart from scamming them millions, they r physically, emotionally and sexually abusing them.

[@mikejoneswho6753]

@emilysimelane6376 low self esteem. The weakest link. If they're not selling citizenship through bogus marriages, they're being scammed of their pensions. That older lady looks close to retirement, but she willingly gave over R1 million to a stranger. Insane!

[@kram9076]

They had the money they just wanted love because society has this habit of making women feel bad for not being married or having g children. Because of the pressure you force yourself into finding someone who turns out to be wrong. Once the shame stops women will stop feeling the need to desperately look for a man when they don't want to.

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

​@@kram9076Amen.

[@km4336]

@@kram9076 💯

[@km4336]

Imagine listening to a voice telling you the relationship is "approved"

[@Queendollar83]

The jubilation in the comment section is a shocker. It's not just foreign nationals. South African men have caught on and are doing the same all in the name of "I want a woman I can build with.' The local ones use the marriage card too quickly, suggests buying of cars while engenayo imali, the list goes on. So before y'all laugh your lungs out, see this as a teachable moment. LADIES PAY ATTENTION!!!

[@fikzod]

💯

[@ndodamakayi5220]

Let's face it. 80+ of these kind of scams are committed by foreign nationals. South African men would bomb ATMs, money heights and robbery. Not saying that there's a better crime but Romance crime is not for SA men.

[@codesagecoder1639]

"A fool and their money are soon departed..."

[@lumkamatsafa1327]

I hate how that saying always applies to me 😂

[@MichaelVumile-jb3lb]

Money cant buy love.

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

It cannot

[@Wallstreetartistry-POD]

Batho ba-Malema showing them flames, South African women are vulnerable to these scammers.

[@teeletsetse445]

Didn't Teko Modise fall for a similar scam? It's not just women.

[@mogomotsi6595]

@@teeletsetse445 No he refused

[@teeletsetse445]

@@mogomotsi6595 I remember him telling that story. Very funny. Good that he refused.😂

[@nomalangamanzini9242]

Black women of Mzansi pls vukani..kanti y singafundi ukuzibhekela.. foreigners r MONEY WISE, most of dem accumulate funds in their pockets by scamming n dey r also here to make money in so many ways .. dont b desparate for love, love yourselves more dun u will love a man .. Most of our South African fellow men dont date foreign ladies n dey often talk AGAINST South African women dating foreign men.. STOPANI BAFAZI dnt sell urself to any man ngemali yokondla izingane

[@sinazom9010]

Losing R1 400 000 to a man is crazy in fact losing R510 000 also is crazy too….

[@leratommutle6139]

There is one who lost R3mil, imagine!

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

​@@leratommutle6139 Yhooooo 😳😳😳😳🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@makonentsoane7545]

Eish even loosing 5k is still a lot😂😂

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

@@makonentsoane7545 Even less than 5k the money is money no matter what 😥 Working hard to be scammed? Yho people must be vigilant 😥😥😥

[@nolwazikhumalo2994]

😢 Guys, in Nigeria being a yahoo boy(scammer) is the equivalent of a Dr or Engineer... It's something everyone aspires to do.

[@yummydishes2279]

Are they Nigerians? I'm still trying to figure out why you had to bring Nigeria into your comment

[@WorkFromHomeAfrica]

Where does Nigeria come in here?

[@Fatima-k6t5l]

@@yummydishes2279why are you catching?

[@yummydishes2279]

@@Fatima-k6t5l the obsession with Nigeria has to stop, it's becoming a disease for South Africans

[@seuna.8438]

If blaming Nigerians for all your life's problems makes you sleep well at night, who are we to deprive you. Continue!

[@fabulous1990]

Introducing to ancestors, what nonsense is this?😮

[@Bellabc-ki3pe]

Hilarious 😂😂😅

[@amb549]

Madness .

[@moe_ramz]

lol stop it 😂😂

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

Nonsense

[@musaamos1678]

The problem with South African women is that they're have unrealistic and expensive demand from us locals while they are willing to give unemployed and poor foreign men love and money, serve them better

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

The majority of South African women are with South African men. Don't forget you guys abuse, rape, cheat and abandon your own children and spouses. 65% of children SA grow up fatherless. You're acting like a hero when South African men are just as terrible.

[@sugabooify]

Give this man a bells

[@mashobane6177]

As a South African woman, I don't feel sorry for these women.

[@nomalungelongcete5875]

The way I am so careful, me too I am not

[@lebonthite]

The voice story kills me 😂.

[@joicegaredondo9385]

😂😂😂😂

[@Bellabc-ki3pe]

The level of desperation is phenomenal 😂😂

[@Rami_A]

The older you get the harder it gets to find a partner, I think it’s sad 😢.

[@Queendollar83]

​@@Rami_AIt's that thinking that gets you scammed. Age has nothing to do with it. You can still be young and not find a partner. There's no formula

[@ayandasigxashe7198]

Absolutely 😢

[@rukam3]

It’s disgusting that you found humor in their pain and loss. Pray the same does not happen to your family. Karma is a bitch. You’re probably one of the scammers!

[@chasep402]

The thirst😂😂😂

[@nonjabulomalaza3796]

Well done Jabu. I’m so proud of you, both of you are very strong for being able to pick up and move forward❤❤❤ Carry on raising awareness.

[@Bellabc-ki3pe]

A herd boy tired of looking after goats, sheep and cattle. Takes your money. 😂😅

[@BensonPeace]

"Kudos to you for your exceptional work in supporting #crackassetsupport! Your courage and determination in standing up against fraudsters are truly inspiring. Your tireless efforts to safeguard the public, especially vulnerable seniors, from these unscrupulous scammers are crucial. Your dedication to our security and well-being is truly deserving of recognition - a Nobel Peace Prize would be a well-deserved honor! Please keep up the fantastic work, and know that your efforts are making a real difference in the lives of many!"

[@mikejoneswho6753]

Are we supposed to feel sorry for them? These are adult women who chose to give foreign strangers money. "Visit his house, he visits you". 😂 My dear no one is feeding them any information, this happens when you flash your life on social media. Also, why is it always black women? Pathetic...

[@AmuMabasa]

Nah this is Nationwide...Everybody will get it...ENCA did an interview with a Cyber investigator and he even said 99% of the time. It's always Nigerians. They then asked about a romance scam where a woman lost R21 Million. Even the investigator was like that case is still pending he can't speak on it, but it was an Old White Woman who fell for it...Cause who is black that has R21 Million like that? Unless you chowing Government Money...

[@MichaelVumile-jb3lb]

They are brave to speak out , it help other people dont judge them.

[@Rami_A]

Romance scammers operate globally , you’ll be shocked to know that they target white women more than black women.

[@Rami_A]

@@MichaelVumile-jb3lbthat’s the problem with black society, always victim blaming.

[@mikejoneswho6753]

@MichaelVumile-jb3lb brave se voet. These are the same women who will call you, your son's and all South African men trash. All in defence of scammers.

[@nkilengmapena8601]

I am proud of you ladies you have save many of us 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@AfrikaVibes]

Lol listened to her interview at @kingdavid podcast. Bayalayeka laba with this foreigners. Then we are forced to believe that Chidima and her parents got citizenship without any criminality

[@duanemnisi3721]

Clearly there is limited thinking capacity involved here

[@africanbrowny]

😂😂😂

[@jackiebohale1101]

😢😢I'm so sorry to you both, keep your heads up ladies

[@MlindoMkhize]

We keep telling them about dating foreigners but they don't listen.

[@festival4101]

Shame poor ladies don't understand the streets how they operate. Also these things of believing in miracles that don't exist will land one introble

[@vanessababbage9409]

No sympathy for these ladies. As soon as a potential partner starts asking for money, for investments RUN. Why should a loan be taken out on behalf of someone else???? Ladies, use your common sense. Self love is so important so you do not fall in love with just anybody to avoid loneliness.

[@Rami_A]

These scammers are not that bright , these women are gullible. They know their targets, they prey on these women.

[@Accuface2000]

They are bright. These women got scammed because they are greedy, it's not just about desperation or gullibility.

[@kellyalexander7347]

​@@Accuface2000its all about desperation and gullible its crazy who meets men on line and hands over money

[@Dizzy12346]

Jabulile , I'm loving your confidence mama.

[@AsandaMlanduli]

Relationship has been approved???? 😅. So sorry ladies, thank you for sharing your stories

[@mamotalemankoe3775]

Comment section full of hate.

[@rmbmajestic]

Please ladies be very careful, scamers are even in the parking lot in shopping centre, stalking, be careful and wise!!!!!!!

[@jameschikuwa8384]

These love scams are worldwide and they do not only happen to black women as some people may think.I used to watch similar stories on 60minutes Australia on their KZbin channel.

[@ThattRoger]

I really feel bad for that older lady. You can see the pain and stress on her face. Yoh her whole pension and loans! 💔 We must realise that these foreigners dont owe us anything. They have allegiance to their homeland, where their roots and families reside. They can't be traced, because they are illegal.

[@boitumelomatlhodi2016]

I nearly got scam by the same method but fortunate enough i heard about those this here in our country they have warn us the police we are educated

[@lesedijonas6195]

Which country are you referring to, if you're not a south african?

[@sabeloshabangu1485]

Foreigners making headlines again this week

[@MelinyanisoMapi]

What language do their Ancestors speak..🤔🤔, and if its foreign, how did you understand hat they said, if its English, why is it English?

[@Allycat_8702]

Woman, u were willing to marry into a family with a voice coming from the dead😂😂😂😂

[@chuxch7293]

😂😂😂😂la phapha😂😂😂😂le rata makwerekwere 😂😂😂😂

[@Stizo2002]

😢

[@pattido777]

Eish bathong....go rata dilo!

[@paulinapatel]

I think people must stay away from people who are not from home.look like they are problematic 🤔

[@lindanimasuku8072]

niyaleyeka.

[@ayandasigxashe7198]

What is a definition of a scam? If you handed your money no gun to your head , bank scammed...you handed the money to whoever🤔😡😡😡

[@mrmanq9517]

They must go fetch that money themselves, we tell them, they dont listen Asizingeni...!😂

[@MandzisiDlamini]

When woman do it, it's called "empowerment", but when men do it the call the calvary.

[@martinshabangu9854]

WTF 😭😭😭😭 why are people so desperate for relationships. Damn but I don’t blame these ladies. So sorry for them

[@sifisodube4686]

Are sisters they love foreign man

[@nomarussia5085]

Waiting for approval of a relationship by an ancestor How desperate are you?

[@Accuface2000]

Shame, they get scammed because they are so gullible, desperate and greedy. Sending money to a guy means you are not attractive or you are a gold digger looking for a rich man.

[@ProflowTV]

It’s none of our business how can you find love online how stupid is that uwoooohhhh 😂😂😂😂😂

[@doreenmogale5701]

Ladies when you are closer to getting your money mo love 😭😭😭😭 pleass

[@marthaditlopo229]

It is sad

[@sanelen_]

This is a scam I could never understand and I don't feel sorry for people who are scammed.

[@kellyalexander7347]

Same here

[@bongagustavmtshali1104]

There lies a problem, believing in your ancestors introduced by strangers.if they exist,why they don't appear themselves to you not via other people.i believe in God in His Word when He says cursed is the man who trust in other man

[@unathimichaelmxaku8105]

🤣🤣🤣🤣nibatywa amasimba

[@nomarussia5085]

Hehehe😂😂😂 abakwazi nozibamba.

[@MasekaMokgohloa]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mamparas

[@mashobane6177]

😂😂

[@Itssophie277]

Why give a man money.?

[@masandefuzile2261]

My Ugandan players❤

[@WorkFromHomeAfrica]

Prayer room like Abdul-Fatai Balugun AKA TB Joshua.

[@mlabalabazwide5445]

The problem is the pressure that people put on woman telling woman you need to build a man and funny man don't want to be built by word of mouth they want money and the minute you don't give money the man is gone it's just a broken society nje that is why our sisters are scammed. Mina id ruther be unmarried if I have to give away my sweat sorry guys I'm hear to support a man not sponsoring a project

[@enmn6001]

They meet the Ancestors on line. Very interesting ancestors 🤔🤔🤔 scary.. The problem with South Africans is the belief in superstitions and the prayerfull men. I so called man of God . They took advantage of two vulnerable women 😔😔

[@siphombingo6545]

What is wrong with this South African women you don’t trust South African men abayanilaya

[@kellyalexander7347]

Come on ladies please wake up stay off dating apps nothing good comes from it what happened to old fashion meeting men

[@kattybarume427]

Strong and independent woman, need no man , lol😂

[@mrgiggsful]

the is a saying that goes like the a mind of a homeless man is equal to those of 3 women with PHDS AND DEGREES-UNKNOWN WRITER.

[@Queendollar83]

Tjo! If that's how little you think of women, I feel sorry for your wife.

[@nomagcisacawe3297]

​@@Queendollar83rather feel sorry for his mother!

[@nomondemapitiza2629]

This people use muthi and magic 😢

[@nomarussia5085]

Black dark magic at that…They are heartless and have no shame

[@phutimphahlele1897]

💯

[@Shades11353]

Evil hypnosis with rituals

[@theexemplary5618]

Iam sorry to those im about to offend.My view is these are both greedy women who were obsessed with riches and interested in ukhutwala .This is just ukhutwala gone wrong. How can you put money in a drawer and the next time that drawee is full and you don't think maybe its time to stop? Secondly how can you be introduced to ancestors of a man who hasn't harried you and in the absence of your own family. They all went there to seek money ritual and it all went left. These are people who could do nasty things and bad thing just for the almighty dollar. The simple theory could be they dated someone who told them that he could help them meet a powerful sangoma who can make them rich over night. The scammer might have claimed he got riches from this Sangoma. Logically I don't see how a boyfriend can convince you to invest that amount and you just buy the story..Little children will be at risk around these people

[@mapsmaps805]

She said at first it's frightening. So, it gets to a point where it's not frightening 🤣🤣🤣. This is 4th Industrial Revolution witchcraft

[@nomarussia5085]

Hey wena Artificial Intelligence

[@SAapproves]

I want these ladies very humbled! These foreign guys can do better mahn! 😩 I'm cheering them on🤝🏾

[@Itssophie277]

Ancestor speak English 😅😅😅

[@Vv-fl2rm]

Its always the single older sisters😂 desperation and salt 🧂

[@moiponeinnocentiamolaudzi8128]

Ancestors who speak English

[@nhlamuloshaunmashaba7817]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bradleygreeff4375]

Holy holy 😂

[@kagimanye1757]

🇳🇬

[@nomfundomatshika]

@owamie❤❤❤

[@peterrichard9769]

Those guys are fake: krooks- sorry my lovely sisters.