UPDATE: I'm not okay.

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

As mentioned in the video, I would like to talk about what happened, but I feel like I can't just yet. I DO NEED YOUR HELP. I'm looking for a DUTCH LAWYER specialized in medicine and cares for patients and is willing to make a change here in the Netherlands. For the Dutch: Ik ben opzoek naar een advocaat die gespecialiseerd is in/of een hart heeft voor patiëntenzorg en graag onze medische maatschappij wil helpen en wil luisteren naar mijn verhaal. Please email me at [e-mail] if you can ACTUALLY help. Thank you.

[@abbykuusisto4641]

I’m Here for you!

[@chrisfalkner9695]

Romee...lm hoping you find the lawyer to help you. Your presentation was excellent as always. Youre in my thoughts xxx

[@evelientombrock5480]

Het klinkt alsof je niet een eigen juridische probleem hebt, maar het niet eens bent met de huidige regelgeving en graag je verhaal kwijt wilt. Indien dit het geval is zouden een politieke partij of patiëntenfederatie je misschien kunnen helpen. Sterkte iig!

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

@@evelientombrock5480 helaas klopt dat niet. Maar dankjewel, ga er wel naar kijken. :)

[@hoayaweemaru9162]

😇❤🤟💌😥🤞💙💫🛀🛌💔💋

[@dovespaligrino8312]

Romee, your allowed to break down. As many times as you need. Don't ever apologize for it.. If I was in your shoes, I would too..

[@judi7282]

I pray that you are never in her situation! May God have mercy on you and your crazy post! We love her, go some place else and rant!!!!!!

[@alwaysloaded4585]

@@lindachap8915 so how do you pay the roof over your head if money is so evil?

[@jereneerickson5861]

Rome, when I was diagnosed, people told me Stay Strong, Stay Positive! This actually made me angry. If I don’t Stay Strong, or don’t Stay Positive does that mean I’m a failure. Oh, no. It only means I’m human. We are all allowed to not be strong, to not be positive, to not be ok, just like you said. Mental health is vital, there is help to be had, we all need to find the person we can connect with, right from the start. You are in my thoughts!

[@암치료알벤다졸2400미]

if u do this. u ganna kill all cancer cells within 6 months cancer cells grow with 5 methods 1 Glucose Metabolism 2. Fatty acid metabolism 3. Autophagy 4. Cancer stem cells 5. Division (microtubules) If you don't block these 5 things at the same time, you won't be able to cure cancer. Keytruda can't do all five of them. any chemo and radiation theraphy can not do this at the same time. It means that it is difficult to kill cancer cells in hospitals. taking pain killers cause heart failure as a side effect. If you can't block 5 things at the same time, you can't cure cancer. None of the existing anticancer drugs can do these five things at the same time. This is the reason why cancer treatment is difficult and it only prolongs day by day. You have to block these 5 at the same time.. to block 5 thing at the same time albendazole(or mebendazole. .penbendazole) 1600-2400 mg and olive oil 50 ml for 4 days with 200mg cimetidine, everyday quercetin 1500mg resveratrol1200mg(trans) egcg 400mg metformin 1000 mg omega 3 1000-2000mg curcumin(longvida or meriva)1500mg probiotics daily. you take 15 -20 grams of liposomal vitamin C, 100 mg of doxycycline, and 500 mg of azithromycin for 3 days after dinner .. Taking a hot bath for 1 hour everyday you can cure cancer. 3.5mg naltrexon with 5000iu vitamind every day you can kill cancercells. ....

[@virginiamorales1591]

Yes, right? I feel the same way. It's mind-blowing. 🤯🤯🤯😤

[@rosiegarza1530]

Same happened to me

[@jismy012]

Yes saying stay strong and positive can be really disheartening because serious diseases are lifechanging. To say to fight implies that those who died from disease did not fight hard enough. people with disease are still people. And its the same with healthcare workers. They are not heroes. They just have a passion for helping people and in the sciences maybe. But they still suffer from stress and other things. Words cannot physically hurt you but it can cause significant mental health problems.

[@ladybugs1973]

Being strong, doesn’t NOT have sad, difficult things happen, and to feel bad, sad or other situations, as well as the good moments.

[@GeorgiieeeeL]

Never apologise for being un well, whether that's physically or mentally. Sending lots of love and hugs to you 💝

[@marjoriecash6685]

Just sending you a great big grandma hug that l give to my granddaughters when they’re not feeling the best. Grandma hugs are special. 💕💕💕

[@investigator77]

You are so right about that! I would love to have grandchildren, but was not lucky that way. Grandma hugs ARE special!

[@JenJen_88]

Awww that’s beautiful and made me emotional, I miss my grandma so much, grandma’s are the best. You are very kind.

[@bookclub9332]

Admire your honesty and bravery. It’s ok to not be ok - lean into your support network and your inner strength to get through. You’re remarkable! Sending love and hope.

[@mercibeaucoup2486]

Yes !!!!!

[@cynthiadavid5282]

Romee ur have to have a therapist period u have alot going on its good to have a therapist that specializes in victims with cancer u have a lot of support and love with u but u need a professional that u can talk to instead of going to therapy on zoom u will be fine once u start this God is on ur side always

[@cruelad1075]

Nightbirde?:D

[@darondatoole7439]

Dearest Romee, you are oh so remarkable. Feel your feelings. Do not give up hope. We care. We love you, especially your authentic self. What you have said and how is absolutely perfect. No judgment. There are Oh so much more important things than perfection. Hugs hugs. Angels to you dear one. I want for you a clean bill of health. Miraculous healing. I am praying for that.

[@jbloake1]

I suffer from severe depression recurrent and through medication and a therapist since 2005, I am enjoying life. I remember having breakdowns and reading a quote that said “breaking down is not a weakness…it is a sign that you have been strong too long.” Hugs sweetie. You are amazing. 💕

[@ruthsmith5797]

Glad you got it out there, everyone who knows me thinks iv got it all!! Iv been to the bottom n back it's so hard still now I'm on the rollercoaster!! If we had a broken leg or what ever people see !! Mental health is very lonely

[@atinemassare]

Don't stress yourself out about updates. The most important thing is you feeling well. Lots of good vibes💕

[@iSheree]

I needed this, I am not ok right now and feeling so alone until I clicked on your video. Whatever it is that you are facing, you will get through it either way. We both will. Thinking of you!

[@kat2279]

Romee, please know that it is totally ok to not feel strong, and when that happens do a live stream so that we can be strong for you. We love you!

[@whynotbekind1957]

@@lindachap8915 wow Linda, sounds like you could use the link to talk to someone about your lack of empathy....because it is not ok to be rude and uncaring to someone when they are hurting. People who are depressed or hurting don't always show it to everyone...they choose to keep it inside...if you don't think she is genuine, then just quietly go a way and leave her alone....you only are seeing small glimpses into her everyday life and are making a pretty big judgment call based on little info. I pray that you reconsider the way you speak to others and realize that the things you say can really hurt.

[@kat2279]

@@lindachap8915 Are you ok? Sounds like you need help from her sponsor! And please check your negativity at the door, because I don't like people like you. Go away!

[@shelleybubb]

@@lindachap8915 you need to step back, if you have such a big chip on your shoulder and such a problem with Romee why follow her videos? You pick what you watch so stop watching them and stop your hate, i've seen several of your posts throughout the comment section, its really big to copy and paste your hate in different sections to try cause trouble, some may think you have a hidden agenda!

[@kat2279]

@@lindachap8915 Ooooh, Linda, not all people are deceptive, and Romee is surely not one of them. Romee has managed to keep up a strong front for the past few months, despite her trials. She can speak out about her feelings, it is her right and you need not interfere . She's only 24 with a beautiful heart! Now leave her alone.

[@believingtoday]

@@lindachap8915 People definitely can hide behind the keys on a computer. Sometimes an opinion is better left unsaid.

[@susanmuecke7160]

I watched my mother die of brain cancer when I was 17. I am 62 and can still remember my relationship with her, my older sisters relationship with her and how her dearest friends disappeared when she got really sick. She was never told that she was dying (my sister and grandma's choice). I knew she was near death and gave her as much ice cream as she wanted (my sister and grandma were disgusted with me). It was the worst time in my life and as a teenager I didn't know how to handle it. I wish I was there with you❤️

[@Andrew-jv2qj]

Hi susan

[@TheJoieB]

Your honesty and authenticity is refreshing. Take the time you need to get to where you want to be and may you always know, that even though you may not feel like you’re being strong, the time and steps you’re taking to get better exemplifies that you are. Much love and supportive wishes to you!!

[@reginahaley3723]

I completely agree with what Joie B-L is saying!! I want you know that you are even more of an inspiration for being so honest, and articulating all that you are saying in this video. You are such a lovely and intelligent young lady with such an amazing story to share. ❤️Much love and prayers for you, and your struggle. ❤️Your English is amazing!

[@emilymeme9]

Thank You for your honesty. I’m 74 years old and have struggled for years on a roller coaster of depression and mostly surviving. I wish I had heard this when I was young. You’re making an impact on the world sweet young woman….. God Bless You…. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@HomesteadingWays]

I'm sorry you're going through this. Life is so incredibly hard sometimes. Your kind, giving spirit shows through your concern for others that may be in the same boat. And you're right. We're all in this together and need to be there for each other. Here's a ((hug)) from the midwest, US.

[@pamelav8819]

Big hugs 🤗 I remember when I was diagnosed w/ my brain tumor last yr. , I have many strange / rare illnesses & when I was diagnosed, I know the people around me mean well, but if I heard " YOU ARE THE STONGEST person I know " one more time I was gunna scream !! I remember crying & saying " I don't wanna be f'kn strong, I wanna lose my sh*t , etc " for a few days after my diagnosis, I was pissed, pissed I can never catch a break, pissed because at 49 the sh*t that comes my way is crazy & I didn't want to be strong anymore .. after the surgery I definitely felt like I had a new lease on life & it completely changed me ... I'm still trying to find myself & try to make the best of each. Day, but it's o.k. not to be strong, it's exhausting being strong all the time !! Many prayers & just take it min. By min. ❤🙏

[@1lindy1]

Oh Romee. I watch KZbin most days and have done for several years. I don’t think I have ever commented on anyone’s video before but your update prompted me to do that now. I just wanted you to know how much you mean to so many of us - even little old me in the UK who has never met you. Your videos (the happy ones and the not so happy ones) always inspire me to get the best out of life. I am struggling with my own health issues and I always look forward to your updates. I can tell how genuine you are and having the courage to say that you are struggling is just another side of that. It is good for people to know that even the most positive people who make the most of what they’ve got can suffer from mental health issues too. I’m not all that good with saying the right thing but I just wanted you to know that your reach goes further than you imagine. You matter to me - and although that probably isn’t much help right now I just wanted you to know. I’m just 46 year old who is stuck in her bedroom most of the time. But your updates make me feel connected to the world. Please don’t feel that you owe us anything and never apologise for not feeling ready to update us on your personal issues. Know that we are interested in your updates but we understand that you need to do the right thing for you. I hope your situation improves soon and just wish I could do something to help. I hope at least you read this.

[@godislove7500]

"All Things Are Possible" is a utube channel that has very good healing prayer. People are being healed while watching these prayer videos, they're writing about it in the comment area of the videos. I hope you try watching one and I hope you're very blessed by them too, God loves you so much and be well in Jesus' name!

[@cindyhorst7021]

Beautiful post

[@abrilardisson9644]

Hello, I am from Mexico. Romee, I understand what are you going through cause I have a lung cancer too, and I know that is hard to fight with this, and I had been sad a little while how everything changed a perfect life to a fighting to live and be ok. I just want to say I understand you and keep fighting and don't lose hope! And keep smiling, you have a beautiful smile! Take care.

[@Kendraobviously]

Mental health is something that isn’t talked about enough or taken seriously enough! Please don’t feel the need to apologize! Making sure that you are happy and healthy right now is the most important thing! We love you!💙

[@debbiemohekey1509]

Agree with you Kendra.No one addresses this part of fighting a life-threatening illness. Most people don't even consider it. I think you are doing exactly what my late husband and others have done.Get out of the damn bathroom! Theres a song 'Lean on me when you're not strong'.You need someone beside you every step of the way. No one should be alone for even the smallest part of this journey.. No medals for bravery will be given anyway..Lean on those friends.If they can't handle it replace them with friends who can. Tuff but necessary.Its all about you right now and thats ok.

[@karenkristianson8351]

I agree with you that we need to show up for each other, well said!! I always tell people that the hardest part of visiting someone who is not well is walking through the door!! Your English is perfect and I love your accent!!💝💖💞

[@arlynesikon8822]

Romee you don't have to apologize for your feelings and how you're doing mentally right now . When I was going through treatment ; there were days I didn't want to go to my oncologist . When I was going through treatment in 2018 the medical group one has doesn't realize they are treating the whole patient,including mentally. I m sorry for your mental issues I pray you'll be able to work through this . I love you GOD bless you !!

[@moniquemenke7387]

I totally agree, and this experience doesn't stop. Sometimes it will flare up, like an old injurie. It is exactly open discussion, like this, that need to be discussed and shared.

[@godsgotthis4866]

Oh sweetie im so very sorry. Im praying for you. My daughter was just diagnosed with schizophrenia and it breaks my heart that I can't make her feel better. I just want to know that there is always better days ahead, always!!! You are such an amazing young lady and the fact that you are sharing your story shows that you are strong and i can see your desire to help others. One day, one hour, one minute, one second at a time sweet heart. God bless you. I truly hope you feel better soon.

[@skarkin]

thank you for being honest, we all struggle sometimes, it’s good to not feel alone about it

[@rosamaldonado813]

We’re all here rooting for you! Do what you can and don’t worry.i wish you all the best

[@xMabelle]

thank you for being so brutally honest and raw. thank you for letting your inner world talk to us. watching those clips of you lying in bed, completely paralyzed, really hit me because only few people can truly understand what it's like to feel numb. i just want to tell you that what you're feeling is valid and real. never, ever, forget that you're always allowed to feel vulnerable. we love you, Romee

[@RomeeDussenbroek]

thanks so much for those kind words !

[@maryquigleytimekeepersanti4541]

Rome, you did a WONDERFUL Job explaining about seeking help for Mental Health. Thank you for sharing.

[@lisafoxworthy3595]

I'm so sorry you are going through this! I've been watching you from the beginning. We were diagnosed about a week apart. There are times when I felt like I was going through the motions and some people just don't understand. Don't be hard on yourself. It is OK to have down days and so happy that you are getting help. You are such a beautiful soul, keep pushing forward. Praying for you and send hugs from Colorado, USA

[@ericksonwall7369]

Hello 👋. How are you doing today...

[@carolehanrahan]

I'm sending you a million hugs and a ton of love. Thank you for making this vlog and being so open. I have struggled with depression for most of my life. I have gone through years of therapy and it did help me and I'm on medication as well. You have to find a therapist you mesh with well and you have to be able to be open with them and tell them everything. Again, thank you so much for just being you. You are allowed to have down times. You are human. Love you tons.

[@bobbilynnsmith5146]

It gets exhausting talking about my cancer all the time. I just completed chemo, waiting for my hair to grow. Congrats on finishing radiation! I hope your skin didn't burn and that your energy level gets better and better now. I wish you better days ahead and thank you so much for the update. You are stronger than you think. One day at a time is all any of us have. Kiss that puppy for me and XOXO from Colorado.

[@bibit3856]

Sending you good energy and wishing you health. ✨✨✨✨

[@hildapatrick6359]

praying for you. That the Lord blesses you, that He strengthens you, comforts you, heals you, and gives you hope for the future. Love from Bc, Canada

[@Andrew-jv2qj]

Hello

[@karendeakin9628]

I know how you feel my daughter has just lost her baby and needs me to be strong but I want to be sad too so I’m trying so hard to be strong for her and her partner sending you love romee xx

[@louisevessey3839]

I'm so so sorry 😞

[@kathyo85]

So sorry for the loss of your grandchild xx

[@karendeakin9628]

@@louisevessey3839 thank you

[@karendeakin9628]

@@kathyo85 thank you

[@paulahillman1100]

I’ve been going through a lot of mental and physical pain/health issues lately and I understand how you’re feeling for the most part… it’s been so tough lately it’s like one thing after another

[@56dragonfly]

i'm so sorry you're going through this, romee. these last few weeks sound like they've been so rough for you. i hope the weight of what you're going through becomes less very soon. sending you lots of love and hugs from england, everything will be okay

[@jtb357]

Ik hoop dat je je snel toch beter gaat voelen. 🍀

[@jillianswart7752]

You said everything correctly I appreciate the update I hope things gets better for you and myself because everyday I am staring off into space for hours too.

[@cynthialudford42]

You articulated everything beautifully! We look forward to your updates, but understand it's in your own time and pace. Do what is best for you - always. Hugs

[@KaitAC]

To those with a friend or family member who is sick, reminding them that they are strong is one of the worst things you can do when they are in the depths of struggling. What people often don't realize is, that statements comes with the unintended message that they can't be weak which ends up making things worse. Romee, we are all here with you and for you regardless of what's is going on with you. Thank you for sharing this incredibly important message.

[@angellaurenwall6306]

Sending lots of love from Ireland. It’s okay not to be okay.. you’re strong, even when you feel like you aren’t ❤️

[@elizabethstpierre1610]

I think it’s a good thing you see someone for counseling and also think you are doing a good thing for sharing the info for one for other people.

[@drolnad9054]

You are so strong girl and can’t believe you got through this far, I can’t imagine how I would deal what you go through! I think you are such an inspiration and I am praying for your recovery and free from C word for ever! As a nurse I see lots of people go through same health issues as you are on daily, I really admire your strength and hope. Best wished and pray for you every time I see you online even I personally don’t know you, hugs and ❤️ x

[@Candicedickinsonllc]

what you’re feeling is totally understandable. You’re so right. Sometimes reality is not what we wanted it to be. It’s okay to not feel strong as well. We will always support you no matter what. Sometime recommended live streams and we would totally support that

[@sahanaraghuram3275]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you feel better soon, and you're always in my thoughts ❤

[@helenb6920]

You’ve touched my life so much. I don’t know you but I think about you very often. You are strong but you don’t have to feel strong. Sending you so much love ❤️

[@junebelcourt-suhaka1434]

So glad that you shared this; it’s good to let things out and express our feelings can bring things out. May you continue to heal in all ways!

[@gabiduncan18]

There's a line from a John Mayer song that goes "I guess I just feel like giving up today" and I've heard that song a hundred times but this one particular day a few weeks ago I just burst into tears when I heard it. I made an appt for my first therapy session next week. It's okay to not be okay.

[@01Natalcia01]

Never apologize about your emotions. You have rights to feel all kind of emotions - disaspointment, anger, sadness and even happiness. If you want to cry, then allow yourselt It's ok. Of course, we are interested about Q/A about your radiation ;) I'm sending you a lot of warm virtual hugs!!! ♥♥♥

[@sylviarogier1]

I'm sorry you were feeling so low. I hope something comes along and lifts you out. Sending hugs from France.

[@danielbobberson9849]

Romee..thanks for the reality check. I appreciate the fact that oncology patients have special needs and I was referred to a professional that my oncology team recommends. It will be a virtual appointment (these people are very busy) but I would encourage this as a good option whether you are in active treatment or recovered. You are a very smart girl and hoping that things get easier.

[@helenka17]

those down moments are helpful too, I've been dealing with anxiety and depression all my life (for other reason but mental health is a common ground I guess) and suffocating the bad is not going to make any difference. You have to go thru it. Let it all out and if you need to stand still and stare to infinity for hours to end...well you just do that. You're processing a lot. It's a wave of energy and emotions and it's so damn difficult. It will pass, if you let it. Don't deny any pain. And you will one day feel a little better and the next day better still.

[@suzysteel]

❤

[@fionawatts6523]

You've been through so much, you simply can't stay strong all the time. Thank you for talking about mental health so openly, it can never be talked about enough. Sending you much love right now ❤

[@krankykrista]

Thanks!

[@Amerisis1972]

Feel better soon. Be strong when you can be. Take time when you can’t or don’t want to be strong. Lean on the people around you when you need extra strength. Draw from who ever and whatever you need when you need it. We love you.

[@tammerahall6949]

You have been through so much and you are strong! You are also human. Thank you for sharing your videos. You always think about others no matter how hard things are for you. Praying for you for strength and courage and wisdom as you are now faced with finding an attorney. Hugs to you.

[@Alfia]

IF ONLY we all could be physically with you, dear Romee! Just to give you a hug! We need it so much to feel we are together, we are not alone 💚 💚 💚

[@peggygoodson5445]

You said everything perfectly. Thank you for being so honest about your mental health struggles. We all struggle at one time or another and it helps people to know that they are not alone. Glad you are getting the help you need to be mentally and physically well. 🙏❤️

[@lisashaffer947]

Thank you for speaking up. I'm so happy that you are taking care of yourself both physically and mentally. Praying for better days ahead for you. ❤🙏

Depression hits hard. You've been through the ringer and it's ok to be down and out, live in the moment even if they are not good ones. Everything you are feeling is valid and important. Take it slow and steady. xx

[@renathens_]

i'm keeping you in my heart, you're amazing Romee!! we love you

[@milagirlxx6230]

I wish people would stop using strong as staying positive and not sharing feelings. Being strong is being able to articulate how you feel and being brave enough to say what you need to. This is what you do. You are entitled to feel however you are feeling and you give so much light to us that watch you xx

[@heleenzuidhof8780]

Dear Romee, I myself have 22q11, I found that very difficult to accept, I kept going through things my whole life, until I got 2 x burnout and depression, then I also started looking for help, I talked to a psychologist and I'm on anti-depressants. It's better now. I hope you will feel better too. Big hug. 💜💜

[@GramsJams]

Feeling not okay and recognizing it and dealing with sad emotions is actually healthy. Feeling like you must be strong and brave all the time is unrealistic. We’re here for you.❤️

[@Andrew-jv2qj]

Hello

[@Rae-lh7ex]

I know I can’t fix the problem BUT I promise to be here to listen with open ears and an open heart 💐

[@oceanstaiga5928]

When I had cancer for some time I stopped talking to friends altogether. I was so down and in a bad mood that I didn’t want to see anybody and talk to anybody. Treatment was physically exhausting but missing out on normal life is mentally exhausting. It’s ok to feel those emotions and react in a way that’s best for you in that moment. If it’s not doing anything for days or not talking to anybody or whatever it may be. It’s ok to be down and it’ll pass too, no need to suppress and hide these things. I’m keeping you in my thoughts.

[@maddiecat9833]

You have been through so much . Let yourself feel what you are feeling. Its your mind dealing with all you have dealt with the last couple yrs. No matter how strong you are eventually everyone has there point of needing to release those unpleasant feelings of fear of having a health crisis or issue. You are amazing and thank you for sharing your journey with us. God bless

[@CarmenKatharine]

I absolutely understand, I had a break down after brain surgery. I have another surgery and know going thru getting diagnosed with a horrible disease. I have an amazing therapist and it is important. Hugs sweetheart.

[@rachelwhitehead6977]

I think of you often!!! I totally understand that the videos are small portions of your life....please take the care and time you need....I love you and will keep you in my prayers 🙏 💜🙏💜🙏💜

[@ericksonwall7369]

Hello 👋. How are you doing today..

[@mrssmurf55]

I can't imagine what your going through what your going through is alot for anyone to handle its completely normal not to be OK to be angry, sad, feed up of it all! Sending you huge virtual hugs!

[@foxgeirgesda]

Your bravery in speaking up is just wonderful-and your command of English is better than many, many speakers whose first language in English. It *is* hard to do auto-translate in one’s head! You are so great at it. I wish you all the best, and my prayer for you is for serene times and peaceful, perfect health. Sending love and Light 💕🌺💕 🇨🇦

[@lorikulstad9320]

Dear Romee, you have been through so much just having cancer. Going to school, not feeling well and covid. I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. My depression worsened. I just stayed in bed. I hope that your feeling better. Anxiety and cancer go hand and hand. People don't understand when we say that we are depressed. They say, just snap out of it. Or what do you have to be depressed about. Medication hasn't really helped but something to help you sleep may be of help to you. Thank you for making this video. Depression is nothing to be ashamed of. You are a very strong girl. Look at everything you've been through. I wish you the best Romee 💞

[@kyliecmann]

Rome even sharing this shows how strong you are. I'm going through a life threatening health journey at the moment, and when people always expect you to be positive and strong it can be difficult. I just allow myself those crappy days to cry, which is sometimes everyday for a week. I too have spent the last several months going between the couch and the bed, and can often feel defeated. Some days are totally shit in all aspects, mentally and physically and other days are better. You're allowed to feel how you feel, I wish you nothing but healing vibes and hugs. Love from NZ xx

[@ericafink95]

Mental health is so important and should be talked about. If you have a priest, preacher you could always talk to them ❤ prayers to you!! Hope you feel better!!

[@patriciaf7308]

I hope that you will feel better soon and I wish that you will get healthy again 💜

[@meganbarto4138]

It's so important to show up for people and have compassion. Prayers to you from the 🇺🇸.

[@kimcameron9696]

I think you translated your words just perfectly. from someone that has had mental health issues since middle school and I am almost twice your age (keep that a secret) you said a lot of things I would like to say to my people. also, from a two time cancer survivor ( st 2 breast cancer and st 3b colon cancer) I am praying for you and your continued fight. send (hugs).

[@ericksonwall7369]

Hello 👋. How are you doing today..

[@thomasl486]

All the best from Denmark...My father got diagnosed with throat cancer last week, so having followed you for quite some time have helped me these past days to cope with this. I just want to let you know that whatever you chose to do to find your mental footing (if those words can be used) you just do it Romee. I am grateful for you Romee...thank you.

[@karlamcclelland421]

Romee we love you, we keep you in our prayers. Praying you get the answers you need and the right lawyer and people that care enough to get you the answers you need. God Bless you sweet girl!

[@lisalongacker1356]

You said everything perfectly! You so right when you said " it's ok to be not ok". Emotions are real and we need to learn to validate them. This world more people want to drag you down rather then lift you up. I am so proud of you for recognise you have a problem and taking the time you need to deal with it. Much love and prayers!

[@busybeeme100]

Romee, you are an incredible young woman and you are doing so much for so many by sharing as you do. It’s totally ok to not be ok. I hope you read your comments and see how much you are cared about. I am cheering you on and sending you love and hugs.

[@markpatrick5246]

im so sorry that you are going thru all this and mental health is so important esp when dealing with a physical illness like cancer....you have been thru so much in your young life AND I hope that you are able to stay strong when you feel like it and to rest when you need it....praying for your healing!

[@donnacoldwell-ford2851]

You are not alone, we are all here willing and praying for you to get better, I think of you often, I hope you are soon feeling stronger, sending MUCH love to you beautiful xxx 😘

[@johannahurtado2215]

Thanks

[@vixistixi]

As a mummy of a daughter similar age to you…this pandemic has had a BIG affect on young adults amongst all the population. Keep going! Remember…..‘you’ve made it through 100% of your bad days’!!!! You’re winning even if it doesn’t feel like it! Xxxxxxx

[@beverleydryland1146]

Romee Thankyou for your honest and open discussion Cancer is so bloody draining and mentally taxing May you get peace continually and if you hit a speed bump you know how to help yourself X x x x x x x x x x x x x

[@andimarie1718]

You are simply Amazing! You've taught me so much. Remember you're human, you're entitled to feel anyway you want and i'm glad you're speaking out about mental heath. You can't be superwoman all the time💕

[@Nikatronixx]

I admire you for posting this and not hiding this side of being human. Its okay not to be strong, its okay to be weak, its okay to ask for help. And its okay to love and accept yourself through it all.

[@archangel5395]

Throughout my time looking in on your story, I knew I was only seeing a very small portion. In the words of Miley," Everyone has an uphill battle, sometimes you're gonna have to lose" and that's healthy.

[@annmarie6732]

Beautiful Romee, none of us can be strong all the time. It's perfectly normal to fall apart from time to time x

[@nattcattt]

I’m so sorry you’ve been struggling so much the last few weeks. It is okay to feel the way you feel. You are going through so much. Nobody should have to give you permission to fall apart right now. It is okay to do that. Sending love and support 💕

[@shelleybubb]

@@lindachap8915 shame on you, are you not allowed to have ups and downs? Seeing you have such a strong opinion of how fake you think Romee is, maybe you'd like to have her cancer and everything else that has gone with it. From what i can see you are the one with the problem!

[@tasharae215]

It’s OK to NOT be OK. I admire you opening up and talking to us about your mental health. That’s a huge step in the right direction! You Got This Romee! Love from Louisiana 💜💜💜

[@marymccaffrey8458]

Rome, I’m so sorry you’re not mentally feeling strong and healthy, but just the fact that you know that is really the first step. It sounds like you’re having a medical malpractice type issue. As a nurse I’ve seen it occur many times. My best advice is to stand up for yourself, don’t allow the medical community to shove your issue under the rug and most of all find someone you trust to advocate for you. Medical issues are very complex, with lots of staff involved doctors, nurses, technicians, heck dietary and housekeeping, find someone who understands the ins and outs of medical practice. If you can find a MD/JD. or medical doctor/lawyer they are probably your best bet. Take care of yourself, and I hope your issue improves. From Cape Cod, MA, USA

[@sarahp775]

Romee, I am praying for you and sending you BIG virtual hugs. Thank you for sharing your honest feelings and for shedding light on a mental health problem that affects so many yet most people don't feel comfortable talking about. You are the most incredible human being!

[@silvialogan9226]

Romee, I understand very well why you feel mentally depressed. Cancer is such an awful disease. You worry about it returning more aggressively, what the next treatments will be, or whether they will work or not? I will feel like that too if I were in the same situation as you. It is always good to talk to somebody about your mental depression.

[@Andrew-jv2qj]

Hi Silvia

[@83Juniormint]

Prayers to you with all that you are going through, and thank you for another resource for people that may need it. Hugs to you from the US! Take all the time you need for things, don't push yourself.

[@bean269]

You've been through, going through alot' be gentle with yourself and take as much time needed until you feel ready to take the next steps on your journey, know many strangers are praying for you and sending positives for your health, your future ❤️

[@shondapiatt5564]

Not being okay is perfectly fine. Happens to most of us at some point. You need to address the exhaustion, depression, whatever is wearing you down, and needing help with that is nothing to feel bad about or to be ashamed of. You are so, so brave to talk about it like this. I hope you get all of the support you need.

[@madamepaulettes5337]

Romee, I am praying for you. You have the most beautiful, soulful eyes and I think you are very special. I know you are so loved by many and I am sure your people will be at your door as soon as they see this video. A virtual hug from California to you, sweet girl.

[@peterkozak9212]

I’m a mom of three and just lost my eldest child last month. The past month has been the hardest time of my life, so I know how tough it can be sometimes! You are an amazing young woman and your vlogs have helped many people! You have an amazingly positive outlook and you encourage others to have that same outlook. All three of my children and my husband suffer from a genetically passed disease and its progression added with an illness, ultimately took the life of my son. It has been an extremely painful experience losing a child, but I also know I still have two other children (all are or were adults), that need my help and so I am doing my best to keep a positive outlook, it is just very hard! I am looking into grief counseling in hopes that I can feel a bit better! I hope your service helps you as well, sometimes you just have to reach out to talk to someone not directly associated with your situation!

[@lucianalovallo4333]

Hi Romee ❤ It's ok to take a break everytime you need and I really hope that you will feel better soon. A very sweet and warm hug from Italy ❤

[@michelleowens671]

I hope you feel better soon…..I think of you often , you’re such a sweet and strong person, take care huni xxx

[@rubac7129]

You came across as a beautiful honest young woman. Prayers.

[@anthonyhutchins2300]

This is so true... I always felt for people going through your situation because of all the pressure to appear strong. Everyone expects you to say the same old cliche... "I will be strong and fight this and I'm not afraid to live my life on my own terms now." It's okay to feel down and scared and people should encourage you to be okay expressing that.

[@katherinewiebe6304]

Sending you so many hugs and all the love from Canada, Romee! ❤️ ❤️

[@lreppy10]

Hang in there friend! You’re going through a difficult situation, and I would be shocked if you didn’t have sad times. I’m so glad that you are reaching out to friends, family and therapist. Please let them help you! Peace, love and healing from across the pond!

[@agds91078]

Sweet girl I know how you feel. Cancer and chemo messes with you mentally and physically!! NO ONE truly understands what someone with cancer deals with. I’ve been right there in your shoes sweet girl and yes it’s okay to not be okay some days. I always had my feel sorry for myself days and wanted to have them. I deserved to cry and get angry and have my weak moments because I felt it wasn’t fair I got such an aggressive type of breast cancer and had to fight hard for my life. But sweet Romee you are such an inspiration to me and so many and I hope once I share my story I will be an inspiration to others as well. 💞

[@connieestrada3419]

I'm sorry your going threw alot at these moment.For all your going threw you look good.Dont look sick.May God help you threw these journey.And here I'm complaining for little pains.Compare to you.Your allowed to feel down & depress your only human.GOOD BLESS YOU MY DEAR.