How Gary Oldman’s Addiction Led To Four Divorces | Rumour Juice

[@RumourJuice]

How many marriages would you have before you reached your limit?

[@angelaholmes8888]

Zero I'm never getting married

[@susanfudge1737]

One.

[@sandraknight4751]

2

[@catherinekeller4230]

I think the question is how many lessons do you have to learn...before you grow up?

[@christinelawrence4315]

After being married to a narcissist .. one marriage is more than enough.. took me years to recover from the PTSD...

[@711yada]

I can't judge his choices in his personal life, but, his choices in acting are superb.

[@BigBass-xf5yi]

Yup. The apex of acting

[@alicereneefannell9744]

Amen to that

[@alehnacauh3575]

yes, but is good to know thaemistakes of whom we admire, to not repeat it

[@sbaxter3252]

Have you seen Tip Toes? 😂

[@tinaromano7689]

He is an incredible shapeshifter. The best.

[@msthang5366]

Gary Oldman’s performance as Dracula is by far my favorite.

[@samanthab1923]

Supposedly he creeped Wynonna Ryder out

[@dianeashley687]

Same. It's a great movie. His performance was ridiculously top-notch...as in, believable. It's my favorite Dracula movie .

[@chrissiewindsor]

Oh, mine too! He was the only actor who was pitiable. He broke my heart: imagine living forever, desperate for someone to love & stuck in a world which despised him.

[@Mr.EmeraldTheGreen]

By far mine too. Dracula (1992) is one of my favorite movies. I even showed it to my partner who had never seen it, and said he was on the edge of his seat! Which I was as well, just like every single time I watch it! He was great in the Harry Potter series as well. I’ve read that he is very much a ‘method’ sort of actor, he is just amazing in every single role I’ve ever seen him in. I hope this marriage is for keeps for him

[@stephaniesomer5934]

Me too one of the few movies where he’s actually sexy lol

[@h.l.asolomonov7674]

Some men aren't marriage material, not saying he is a bad man nor good it's just family life is not for everyone

[@angelaholmes8888]

You are so right about that 💯

[@reasonrestored9116]

Agreed, and they usually know it, but women won’t be told

[@sonjatait4089]

And yet, when they turn 60+, they are sorry that they wasted their lives by not getting married and having a family!!

[@Billy-lq4fu]

Some women aren’t either. 90 percent of people shouldn’t have kids! People who get divorced shouldn’t have kids! We don’t need kids. We need families. Stop breeding to breed

[@philsurtees]

HA HA HA! As though there aren't a bajillion totally psychotic women who aren't even relationship material! For tens of thousands of years it's been better to be a woman than a man, yet they're STILL complaining...

[@ajisenramen888]

Oldman’s role in The Professional was exceptional. A prefect foil for Jean Reno.

[@starwarsroo2448]

It’s a personal choice as his volume of work is so extensive, quality work too, for me it’s The Professional or Drexyl, however Leon is a hard movie to watch

[@kiekko673]

@@starwarsroo2448 “Leon is a hard movie to watch”. What do you mean by that exactly?

[@starwarsroo2448]

@@kiekko673 well when I was 15 or whatever in 94' it was my favorite movie of all time possibly, now it's hard to ignore it is a bit paed

[@jjones9822]

You could tell he was just indulging in the role of Leon. He was definitely over acting and the character was ridiculous but it was definitely entertaining.

[@Tzipporah36]

Gary Oldman could be considered of the finest, most interesting and creative actors of our time. The way he embodies the roles he plays is beyond stellar

[@BigBass-xf5yi]

In my opinion, the greatest actor of our generation.

[@daynabee5521]

And Daniel Day Lewis

[@rics1883]

And cate Blanchett

[@YouAwakeYet]

Naaaaa!!!! Daniel Day Lewis

[@starwarsroo2448]

Greatest character actor definitely

[@fubartotale3389]

Christian Bale???Robert Dinero???

[@alisterfolson]

Me: all this relationship drama; who's it affecting? Gary: "EVERYONE!!!!"

[@Tenzin62]

Four divorces, four weddings? Maybe he’s just addicted to wedding cake? You can buy wedding cake Gary, without paying for the ceremony

[@sophia7358]

😁😁😁

[@Ojb_1959]

Good one😆

[@SuzanneDeniseB]

🤣🤣

[@minigrande1939]

Maybe he's addicted to the wedding ceremony ?

[@ZiggyHernandez]

Unless he gets married, it’s just a cake 🤣

[@catherinekeller4230]

So glad he has found true happiness..which has a lot to do with " maturity"...love him as an actor he's truly gifted. Good luck Gary 👍💥💥💥

[@angelaholmes8888]

Gary is so right for some people it's better to look for love later in life 🤔

[@RumourJuice]

Absolutely Angela, some people don't meet the right person until they're a little older and we see nothing wrong with that. As long as they're happy, that's all that matters!

[@george40nelson4]

Gary had a love affair with alcohol and drugs ...what woman or innocent child can compete with that ? Very sad and very sick..

[@musicisgoodforthesoul999]

he's a brilliant actor. absolutely brilliant! I wish him and his family happiness. BTW it says something about a person's character that has the ex-husband as a guest at the new wedding. I love it❤

[@mainmaam]

I have nothing but the highest respect and admiration for this gentleman.

[@p.s.csdeaky8530]

How? I will only do by his acting work now.

[@kangkinkang]

Hope u divorced as many times as he does 🤣

[@twiley3530]

Gary Oldman is the best male actor of our time.

[@YouAwakeYet]

Naa!!! Absolutely not. Daniel Day Lewis is.....but everyone is going to have their bias

[@ronaldowens5025]

Seriously it's Nick Cage.

[@part1801]

Why do people give so much credence and admiration to actors in the first place...They're good at playing make believe but are terrible at living in reality and people are surprised.

[@lottiealexander2021]

Very sweeping statement! Not all actors, surely?!

[@machineguncrally7020]

Not Keanu Reeves or Henry Cavill 💘

[@sevenmilewhite1407]

A truly gifted heavyweight in the acting world, easily in my top favorite handful of actors/actresess....he's tops.

[@Thebuilderofthings1]

I'm not a very ceremonial guy as I have never been married for a single day in my 62 year life. However, I understand where commitment comes from. It comes from a life of cerebral experience and waxing poetically from the heart. As an end result, I'm still in a committed relationship with the same woman for the last 34 years. I don't require pomp, circumstance, pageantry or ceremony to commit to a greater goal.

[@usualsuspects42]

And how does she feel about it?

[@Thebuilderofthings1]

@@usualsuspects42 She knew about this from the very beginning and agrees. I wouldn't be with a girl if she felt ceremony was a guarantee of anything.

[@usualsuspects42]

@@Thebuilderofthings1 Dude, I get your perspective, just curious about hers - considering that legal marriage is indeed a guarantee of some quite important things - and wondering why she would forgo those protections...other than just to get to be with you ; ) Ah! After 34 years especially, perhaps you have 'common law marriage' in your state or you've executed documents to give one another those guarantees in spite of not actually marrying-? Otherwise, unless you are both completely independently well off and have another place to go to, one of you is going to be SOL in the event one of you gets sick, dies, or otherwise abandons the other - candlestick words won't help at all then.

[@Thebuilderofthings1]

@@usualsuspects42 Yes, we do live in a common law state. It's also no challenge to simply sign a document making possessions legally binding between both of us. A John Hancock takes care of that. I will also say this. Ceremony does not guarantee one will be financially capable or responsible, it does not guarantee there will be no substance abuse, spousal abuse or child abuse within the marriage. It also won't guarantee there will be no lying, cheating, stealing, coveting a neighbor's spouse, rape, murder and every other conceivable 'sin' you want to toss in to the pot. That's why we reject these concepts and have survived very well without them, in spite of many others having failed miserably WITH them. Repetition and observation has proven this to us for decades.

[@edfewchas3255]

All you have to do is look at how perfectly suited he was for the role of a dirty and addicted DEA agent in The Professional to see how all of this could have played out as it did. That performance is still a classic.

[@Kazza_8240]

Same type of character as he played in Leon, bent cop.

[@jellybean6778]

Because he is a very talented ACTOR, not because he is that person in real life. Has nothing to do with who the actor is as a human when not on stage. He had things to learn all alng the way. Everyone does. Some people do this in a few relationships, others, many relationships over a lifetime, but only when one does this in a series of marriages do they get called out about all the "failed" relationships. He could just as easily not have married and then they would all just be relationships in the past, just like everyone else's. He has finally found someone and is happy, and that's a good thing.

[@staffh3815]

@@Kazza_8240 it's the same film Leon the professional

[@confidentsuccessfulwomen]

People's addictions ruin their relationships. Until the addiction is dealt with, which in most cases it's a result of unresolved trauma, people will fail in their relationships. Hopefully by now he's had counselling and this relationship will work.

[@laceywaldo4584]

Not true

[@alalbavincerovincero]

That's why AA requires one whole year of singleness once you start their program.

[@justinhunt4767]

It must be impossible for women

[@alalbavincerovincero]

@@justinhunt4767 seems you don't know women at all.

[@justinhunt4767]

@@alalbavincerovincero how old are you this generation of women they're different bro or sis

[@alalbavincerovincero]

@@justinhunt4767 if you think it's a matter of age you don't really know mankind.

[@justinhunt4767]

@@alalbavincerovincero you're obviously old it's different nowadays

[@Venomous_471]

Gary Oldman goes where the wind blows , he is the wind.

[@weirdshibainu]

So he wasn't acting in "The Professional?" They just let the cameras roll? Got it.

[@johnmiller5679]

Obviously Gary is not the marrying type. Funny how people still attempt to have a successful marriage when it’s so clear they are not meant for marriage. Some people should just not get married but society brain washes us to think that’s what you are surpossed to do. Also someone’s ability to attract a spouse is not related to someone’s ability to make a marriage work.

[@S_J_banana]

I never knew he had married so many times

[@samanthab1923]

Me either. Knew about Uma though

[@Maccalemx]

Same here

[@shovington67]

For most men, love is just sex , until several bungling relationships, some soul searching, and an a-ha moment. By then, your pretty old...

[@3Scalpel]

What a crap hot take written by a cynical modern wahman.

[@frinzerevan5655]

But he was born an oldman

[@noneya1238]

You're talking about boys, not men, not true.

[@shovington67]

@@noneya1238 , I'm talking about the male human species dear. But you can keep telling me what im talking about, I love it when people tell me what I think.

[@noneya1238]

@@shovington67 I heard what you're talking about and you're wrong and clearly not qualified to talk about the "male human specie".

[@downhilltwofour0082]

The curse of addictions brings so much suffering to us all.

[@julietcunningham852]

isabella was very smart, and who marries someone you meet through AA????

[@uwsgrrrl9981]

I know of a few long lasting married couples who met in AA.

[@noneya1238]

But so did he, but it's the woman fault, and also the woman's fault for not giving chances. can't win.

[@leatherman88ch]

I met him one time when he came into my store through my checkout line he's a very sweet guy

[@ladyhecate9450]

There is no limit to Gary Oldman's acting ability. He was fabulous in Dracula. Of course, in Darkest Hour, he was simply amazing. Even in True Romance, he took charge of the scene he was in..."Well lookey here!" He was also good in The Professional. He is an amazing actor who he can become anybody. Gary Oldman is one of my favorite actors, and I do not have that many.

[@janetrobinson8925]

I too had problems in marriage, went through 3🤔 thinking about having a t-shirt made "I'm very good at marriage but I'm pretty good at divorce."

[@angelaholmes8888]

Glad that gary has found love again hopefully it will last 🥰😊🙏

[@JamJells]

Marriage is treated like a magazine subscription, and is too often not regarded as a commitment to grow old with another. The weakness of immaturity, and folly is to try and grasp at youth one more time, and use that for control, and manipulation angles. IMO, the goal should be more of a partnership for life with support, and dedication. The church was successful, but they lied too much about other aspects of this so it's a free for all these days, and it's more hit and miss for all the institutional promissory vows.

[@rhondaholland719]

Well said

[@noneya1238]

Not a big deal, it's just a financial contract anyways. It's a joke, just like the church.

[@gdok6088]

The church lie about everything and always have, just to get power over the people.

[@nelsonx5326]

My tongue turned black once. I think that was caused by an antibiotic I took after having a tooth pulled. I scraped dead cells from my tongue with a spoon, and my tongue was fine.

[@doomslayer5812]

A lot of us need to use tongue scrapers on a semi frequent basis, at least every week, to scrub out all of the built up bacteria and germs. Sucks it happened to you though. Hope you healed up. Dental issues are a bitch.

[@yourshadowself]

I am long divorced and single because I did not want to move into the next phase of my life without doing enough work to ensure that my shortcomings didn’t haunt my next relationship. Unfortunately, though now I am confident, secure, open and supportive, after a helluva lot of work, the only way I could get attention is if I dress as if I have none of that… what a wicked comedy modern life is.

[@g.m.5395]

Well Said

[@janebeatty9472]

He’s just very loveable.

[@bluetickfreddy101]

A very good actor

[@ohcanada8084]

Sometimes, it takes awhile for the right one to come along. When that person does, everything is balanced and good.😊🥰

[@Thebuilderofthings1]

It often requires internal change as well.

[@flowerpower7389]

I'm surprised he charmed so many women to marry or date him.

[@Thebuilderofthings1]

Ted Bundy possessed the same magnetism.

[@cynthiablandford6213]

Time to take a breather there buddy!

[@FuzzyStayBuzzin183]

His performance in the professional brilliant

[@jeanettesdaughter]

I’m with him and Elizabeth Taylor. Keep trying, and as Sade sings: keep looking. Why not pursue love; most pursue death.

[@PRINCESS-zz3wq]

I like that. The opposite of cynical.

[@stevenjamessmith3731]

The absolute fact, as far as I am concerned, is that Gary Oldman IS probably the finest actor that Great Britain has produced in the last 20 years I have other favourites, as we all do, but IF, cameleon is your thing, then there really is no one else

[@kayasper6081]

Whatever Gary does, that is the way to go. He is the holy grail!

[@KennedyCopy]

His taste and range of roles is matched with those of his wives and lovers clearly!

[@christopherberryhill3802]

I still remember him in the Guns n' Roses video. It makes alot more sense now.

[@dfinite1111]

He might be a narcissist. Judging by the damage he appears to repeatedly do, in these relationships?

[@lynb.3040]

That I don't think so. I'm very trained to recognize it, and couldn't see it on him. But through what I've heard from his interviews, it seems he had a very bad example from his own father. He sounded very traumatized by having seen his father leave the house when he was very small, and other things. And we're all very likely to copy our parents behavior even when we know it's wrong.

[@DemetriusSorvo]

How time flies! It seems like only yesterday he was Gary Youngman.

[@YouAwakeYet]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣 Fuck I wish I had thought of this hahahahaha

[@LaurenThompsonIsMyRealName]

Paul Newman said you never get over it.

[@allenwatkins4972]

He is super talented and difficult.

[@lizxu322]

He had a kid who he abandoned and also cheated...had gross addictions and also seems to be an abuser. he seems immature and gross, will never look at him the same again

[@plantsoverpills1643]

Yes better to enjoy him on screen than learn of his irresponsible behaviour off.

[@michaelle8384]

Who cares

[@noneya1238]

Apparently know one cares, but will hate a woman for less.

[@noneya1238]

@@michaelle8384 People with morals or some sense of decency.

[@BAztid]

Oldman was not an abuser, but a victim of abuse. This was clearly illustrated in court during his custody battle with Fiorentino.

[@garybrockwell2031]

The best of life finally for the OLD MAN 😂💞🇬🇧💪🗣️

[@marcpadilla1094]

Manville was great in Phantom thread.

[@patriciaguyton5575]

Love him the scarlet letter is my fav

[@Chris-vz7en]

Holy sh*t; I always thought Gary Oldman was American...I feel enlightened.

[@ustheserfs]

bit of a nutter but the greatest performers usually have a predisposition for inner chaos.

[@dspsblyuth]

It’s because they aren’t really acting The person off set is them trying to play a character

[@tinaromano7689]

I am going to break the 333 comments by saying Gary is the fucking best actor around. He bounces from relationships so be it. As a still single lady, i applaud his tenacity for rolling in the deep to find love. Bless you GO.

[@irishfairytarot5674]

Where are they getting all this crazy footage from at the end!?

[@taketheredpill1452]

The more you wake up to the reality of the world, the more you see his problem was not in getting divorced so many times. His problem was getting married so many times...

[@darrenmorgan870]

There's better ways to put down people down who you don't like, this way isn't a good one, and to listen to a woman going through a divorce isn't the best way to get a view of the man, his wife who lost her kids to each of their fathers, trying to say he was an unfit father who drank to much and did to many drugs etc, plus said a whole lot more bad things about him, yet separate judge's had awarded their kids to their fathers, so that tells people who want to hear the truth, you can't take the word totally from two people getting a divorce, their stories will be made to make their other half look bad especially when children are involved, Now this type of video is only going to make people think differently about him,it could lose him some fans, so there's no other reason to make this, he isn't your friend and he's not looking after your kids etc, so there's no reason other than to make him look bad, he's a actor and should be liked for his acting skills alone, unless he beat his ex,s up or something bad like that,

[@tenniekomar6683]

Which demonstrates how talented many addicted people are. If only they can move past the alcohol, etc.

[@laceywaldo4584]

That’s isn’t necessarily true maybe on the 90’s but after 1996 he was sober and has been ever since

[@raygrange7312]

Great actor.

[@user-gf3wn1ne9n]

02:50 "She later said that it takes a special kind of woman to put up with him." Not sure about that. Some tabloids have reported Uma saying it in recent years but the only other source I can find for that quote is a copy of a 1996 Vanity Fair profile on Uma which says a friend told an interviewer that.

[@lilyrose7082]

Idk 🤷‍♀️ why, but Gary Oldman has always creeped me out! I never liked him as an actor in any of his films because he always plays weirdos and I’m not surprised his marriage to Uma failed 😣. I myself would never have even dated him…..movie star ⭐️ or not! Yuck 🤢 Edit: btw Gary, when you get sober in AA as long as you still go to the meetings, you’re not supposed to make any major changes in your life for the first year so another marriage and kids is definitely NOT recommended if you want to stay sober and marriage! 😜

[@SaudiGod]

Gary wouldn’t touch you, you dog

[@tmcd237]

dummy

[@justinhunt4767]

Okay who's your favorite actors he's one of the best I would like to hear your list

[@sew_gal7340]

After 4 divorces, maybe the problem is you

[@royrice6060]

I always picture him as a old woman with a big grey “do” in Dracula! Not quite Bela! 🧛🏼‍♂️

[@thatdude3977]

I wanna be a rich drug addict. Smh such a hard life 😪

[@justinhunt4767]

Just become one of the best actors ever you can do it

[@machineguncrally7020]

Oldman is the greatest actor of all time!

[@cindymiller6843]

I love him. I always have.

[@msthang5366]

How much is his alimony?

[@samanthab1923]

Uma must have met him while filming Dangerous Liasons

[@siobhanmcgregor2557]

This dude is the male equivalent of my mother and my exes

[@rebeccaweil1]

Same

[@DavidFrancis24824]

I feel like a nosy, judgemental piece of shit watching videos like this. No more for me. It's not my business. I enjoy his movies and that's all I need to know.

[@taketheredpill1452]

his last wife is clearly submissive and enthusiastic. Let the ladies take note.

[@kdmill7563]

Oh yah, because that will make us happy… 🙄

[@truth-alwayswins]

@@kdmill7563 Look at his moniker. Not the sharpest tool in the shed. Probably an incel to boot.

[@Saturnia2014]

Tell us you're an incel without telling us you're an incel

[@justinhunt4767]

You know nowadays women want to be the man dog submitting LOL not to a man

[@Joes45]

Cant believe Pat Butcher is his sister! 🤣

[@Spud773]

She isn’t!

[@Joes45]

@@Spud773 They are brother and sister. Little Mo, not Pat.

[@thegiftedone]

Jesus! All his women were gorgeous! Live it up Gary! And everyone reading this……do whatever u want……life is short!……with respect towards others of course……🍷

[@nelsonx5326]

He is probably an intense person.

[@AnonymousAccount514]

70 Day Bender? Wow. Thats impressive.

[@paulshamblin6260]

Drexel! True Romance

[@peterstewart8758]

The firm , classic brilliant movie.

[@annetteredner7258]

I love you Gary!

[@kukana1108]

Gary is my favorite actor. I consider him very sexy and talented.

[@samanthab1923]

I liked his early stuff. He gives crap interviews though.

[@catherinekeller4230]

Yes you are right...he is sexy😀.also he seems to have defied his "age" many of his relationships were with women half his age..or younger!

[@splatter639]

Had a lot of respect for this guy. Thanxs

[@mouthymatt]

Gary Oldman is the British Edward Norton.

[@Stuart267]

Wow! Gary & Uma? You lucky man. She is STILL hot today

[@samanthab1923]

That third wife is actress Debra Farrentino’s sister. MIB

[@user-gf3wn1ne9n]

*Linda Fiorentino's sister.

[@MyMelinaaa]

Loved him in fifth element that was a great role for him as well as a villain..

[@justinhunt4767]

He has been in movies I didn't even know was him such a great actor

[@ginac895]

Wow what a catch! Pass on this dude. Too much work, too much drama.

[@marcpadilla1094]

Good luck. 👍

[@show_me_your_kitties]

Fell in love with him in The Book of Eli

[@jaxs2384]

Uma Thurman💚

[@justinhunt4767]

Do you know she just had a baby crazy she's 50 years old

[@user-gf3wn1ne9n]

@@justinhunt4767 She is 52 and was 42 when she had her last child.

[@justinhunt4767]

@@user-gf3wn1ne9n 52 wow I wonder why she chose to have a baby so late a lot of women it gets dangerous after 35 complications can arise

[@rachellaurent4394]

Be well and be kind? After all that gossip and badmouthing him, you should heed your own advice. It's none of our business. I'm shocked at todays context. Mind ya business.

[@tr_g]

Movie "The Scarlet Letter" with Demi Moore ... is worth mentioning.

[@annatomasik6927]

Living with an alcoholic is an often beautiful but tragic relationship

[@sandraevans6930]

Most actors should NOT marry or have children.

[@rhondat7488]

i didnt know he was married to Uma Thurman, interrresting, hes a v talented actor, ive nearly seen all of his movies. its 2022 and i still dont think number 5 is his his last hee hee.

[@alehnacauh3575]

Good to know the mistakes of whom we admire, there for not repeat them

[@honeybunch5765]

What a peach

[@torisefford5671]

Great Actor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@starwarsroo2448]

Nobody’s love life and marriages are perfect

[@leonsighdoria1919]

He has a new baby and then ditches a newborn and struggling wife, what a colossal piece of sh*t, definitely lost alot of respect I had for him.