(S2E14) Homemaker's Guide | HOW TO LOOK FEMININE | Christian Woman

[@robinpounds6599]

Bindi, is it odd that I am 55 years old and am binge watching your videos? I love all of them. God is dealing with me on modesty. Better late than never I guess. Keep up the good work.

[@becomingsurrendered8141]

Im 52 doing the exact same thing. I agree..Its NEVER to late!!!

[@donnazachry]

53 here. Same. 🙂

[@laurenyackuboskey8199]

45 here :) her words are so inspiring and have truly changed my attitude and behaviors.

[@Fiona-io6ku]

I'm 43 and her videos have inspired me. Only found her this last week

[@naisharobinson6125]

Us younger women look up to you all! It's never too late. We need those good examples in a world that pushes the opposite. I'm thankful for all of your obedience to God 😊❤️

[@cyretaoduniyi2894]

I just came across your page a week ago. As a Christian wife and mother I have been encouraged by your content. I just ordered the book “how to properly feed husbands”. Now I’m looking forward to purchasing “fascinating womanhood”. I’ve been desiring to come across more black women pages who are Christian wife and mothers. And I feel the Holy Spirit led me to you. Thank you so much! ❤️🙏🏽

[@audiannichealing]

Amen Cyreta, on wanting to feed your husband right! lol. Our husbands are blessed men!!!!

[@KJ-dn5ne]

Amen, Cyreta

[@purplebabeb]

I would love to hear your review on the proper care and feeding of husbands. Myself and friend started it last year. She never finished it and I read every once in awhile. I get upset about some parts and stop reading lol

[@sincerelytee3029]

@@purplebabeb what made you upset if you don't mind my asking?

[@hollyawah3442]

I love this channel as well. So organic n unique. If you are looking for black christian women pls check out habits of a homemaker by Angel. She's a gem too. A stay home mom of four under 30.

[@LovingVictory]

This was a great and honest video. You handled those sensitive topics with such elegance. I've been wearing dresses almost exclusively now for the past few months. I do notice that when I am wearing dresses, it makes me more approachable. One day, an elderly woman stopped me in the grocery store just to tell me how beautiful and put together I looked and how it made her day to see this because it's rare. I also noticed that I am approached more by men (I am married so this isn't anything I am looking for, but I wanted to put it out there for those women who are single and want to stand out). Beautiful dresses will definitely set you apart. When I was wearing clothing that accentuated my feminine sexuality, it was very difficult to make friends. Now, so many women want to talk to me and get to know me. Ultimately, I think the most important feminine garment we can wear is to fear the Lord. There is nothing more feminine and no woman more confident and regal than the woman that pleases God.

[@sherriesteele-petty2998]

Amen! Great comment. Thank you!

[@jaimemorgan5323]

I am married and look probably a bit older than my age, which is nearing 40 - and I have worn dresses and skirts exclusively (except for some very muddy gardening chores at home) since I was in my teens. I have often noticed that in the public domain, men and boys are much more polite and chivalrous to me than to other women in the vicinity who are not dressed in a feminine way. Men are called to be heroic. They want to help others, fix problems, save the world...and many are sub-consciously looking for feminine women on whom they might exercise that chivalry. Many modern women spurn and ridicule men for being polite or helpful.

[@audiannichealing]

Amen

[@taygray6424]

I love this! I used to hate dresses and skirts, but now I’m starting to wear them more often and I think I look more beautiful in them. I feel more confident in them as well. It’s great to read other women’s transition into more feminine clothing

[@mk-oz7xt]

Wow

[@indriadrayton1132]

I still struggle with wearing dresses. I used to get into fights and it seemed to always happened when wearing a dress when younger. I feel very vulnerable in a dress and since I gained weight, it's harder to find a nice dress for myself. I bought 2 feminine dresses that I could not resist getting, and cried when I tried them on. I felt so pretty, something I haven't felt in a long time.

[@wildcatb5679]

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[@katherineroe9137]

God bless you. I think it's so hard to accept and love yourself and femininity after trauma. But how free you feel on the journey and destination to feminine pride

[@heyo3846]

When I'm feeling down about myself. I wear my "tent" dress lolol pretty and bright !!! Xo

[@EshhhaBenjamite]

Awww sis… I know you looked beautiful ♥️

[@HaftahChoute]

I love that for you! Embracing your femininity is not always easy for most women but once you do, you truly appreciate why God created you to be a woman 🤍

[@colourblynd17]

As a professional nail technician with over a decade of experience who's main focus has always been the actual physical health of the nails (and hands/feet) moreso than their appearance, my #1 recommendation above all other things is cuticle oil (or coconut oil, or vaseline, etc. Argan is a favorite. Even lip balm will do in a pinch.) If you can do nothing else, do this. As often as you think about it, whenever you think about it. When you get out of the shower, after washing your hands, before you go to bed, I even had one lady who kept it in her car and would do it at stop lights because that's when she remembered. Keeping the cuticle healthy will keep the entire nail plate and surrounding skin healthy. #2 Do your best to only file in one direction when maintaining your nails. Filing back and forth causes extra stress on the nail plate and can lead to excess splitting, cracking, and/or weakness of the free edge. A 240 grit buffer is my go-to for small catches. Also, toenails should be cut/filed as close to straight across as possible to prevent potential ingrowns from occurring. #3 Keep a nail brush by the sink and/or in the shower. Pretty self explanatory. #4 A great way to easily maintain your cuticles is to just gently push them back with a fingernail/towel after getting out of the shower. And last, but certainly not least, #5...the absolute easiest way to maintain smooth skin on your feet is a pumice stone (or pumi bar). Keep in/on/near your tub/shower and use it at least once a week. You don't need any fancy creams or scrubs or contraptions, just a few seconds of good old friction. Wait until you're near the end of your routine so that any dead skin will have had plenty of time to soften up and then simply scrub it away with the pumice. Just be careful to not accidentally scrub the softer skin on the sides/back/top of your feet as it could easily cause injuries. If your feet are extra dry/calloused...aggressive scrubbing is not recommended or necessary. It may take several rounds, but you'll still get the result you were after without the risk of injury. Remember: calluses are the body's natural way of protecting itself. They didn't just come out of thin air, are there for a reason, and should not be removed. Reduced over time? Yes. Removed? Never. Pair this routine with some lotion/oil of your choosing and a good pair of socks for even better results. I hope it goes without saying that if you are experiencing pain or abnormalities of any kind that you should seek medical care, and don't forget to wash between your toes, ladies!

[@TaureanDreams]

Thank you!

[@notablepianolessons2322]

Awesome tips, thank you!

[@andreasote9281]

God bless you ABUNDANTLY... AMEN 🙏🏿

[@laurendaley7981]

Thank you so much for this comment! I always struggled with nail health and my nails never seem to grow. Buying some cuticle oil now.

[@MichtheMinimalist]

This is so good! I wasn’t raised to be feminine at all and as a result definitely had struggles early in my marriage. I also learned over the years that odor can be naturally controlled by dietary changes. The more internally moisturized your body is,the better. The more whole based foods you eat, the better. Eating too much processed foods and meat and dairy can cause your odors to smell. I’m so glad you take the time to help us to become aware of these things. I’m loving your platform.

[@audiannichealing]

Amen

[@amandapeterson3659]

Organic grass fed meat won't make you smell and god would want you to enjoy high quality meat as much as you would like. Our bodies need plenty of meat and animal products to be healthy

[@spiritualisrael007]

I eat whatever and I don't have any odors. My husband actually compliments me on my hygiene all the time. God created all things. Matthew 15: 11 "not that which goeth into the mouth defileth a man; but that which cometh out of the mouth, this defileth a man."

[@jennifreesjourney7565]

Thank you so much for your channel. I’m really enjoying the content much love from Jennifree in Edinburgh Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤

[@whatnow8080]

@@spiritualisrael007 I agree 100%

[@naomicampana]

Yes ma’am. I was raised to be feminine, I rebelled, but got back to the teachings my mom imparted in me. Thank God for her. Mom ❤️

[@mrsglitter8373]

I love how you always look so beautiful and feminine without having to wear makeup cuz it just proof that women don't have to wear makeup to look beautiful and feminine, as long as you take care of yourself

[@AMcDub0708]

She doesn’t have to wear makeup bc she has a nice open face. I have deep set eyes that cause hollowing under them by the sides of my nose and dark shadows. When you’re born beautiful, you don’t need to do much. I on the other hand look like a bum living under a bridge if I don’t even out my skin tone with some makeup. We are all different.

[@dominiquechapman3256]

Another suggestion for dead skin on the feet is soaking them in warm water, tsp of coconut oil, and ACV. This does wonders for my feet. This softens the feet and also kills odor and fugus.

[@dorothydiggs]

Hi What ACV? I bother with callous, so painful

[@dominiquechapman3256]

@@dorothydiggs ACV is Apple cider vinegar and it works really good to soften dead skin on the feet. I'm not sure how well it works with callous but, it's worth a try.

[@bellaseetal5206]

It works I use it all the time

[@MichelleSmith-nf7tu]

How much apple cider vinegar?

[@dominiquechapman3256]

@@MichelleSmith-nf7tu I normally just use a tablespoon or so.

[@dorism4697]

I just found your channel! I am 61 years old and I love learning from wise women of all ages! What a joy to see young women spreading such wisdom! From my years of experience regarding dressing/fashion is that being classy, no matter what our age, is always and will always be in style! Having a wardrobe with classy, good quality pieces is not only elegant, beautiful, and feminine but also cheaper since classy and good quality pieces never go out of style and last longer! God bless everyone! A big hug from Texas! 🙏❤️

[@connectcareagency3088]

I'm a feminine woman and have honestly ben on the feminist side prior to my marriage and being with my husband I have learned a lot like : to stop cussing ( my previous boyfriends didn't have an issue with this.) To speak soflty and to honestly love myself being in my feminine energy as my husband is very masculine. My journey has been so wonderful so far because my feminine appearance is very important. Thank you for having this Channel where you are natural and are showing your beautiful black beauty instead of putting the ideal picture or example to be a European standard of beauty.

[@korahthompson8493]

I talk about this a lot! Dressing more feminine and modestly just changes my whole mood. I walk differently, talk differently, am treated differently

[@justhereyeah1112]

This is so true! My husband always calls me sexy when I cover up, every since we started dating over 10 years ago I’ve always been covered(not necessarily head to toe) but appropriate and he appreciates it because he can trust me to represent him well and he knows that only he “knows my secrets” Thank you for this topic!

[@Kikuye]

See, this is what I don't actually get. It feels like if I dress feminine, even if I'm modestly dressed, I'm drawing sexual attraction to myself and feel dirty.

[@justhereyeah1112]

@@Kikuye I understand. Are you married? For the most part I wear the more feminine modest dresses at home since I’m a SAHM, but when we go out in public I will wear other feminine things that are not going to cause attention to myself I even wear jeans and a tshirt or if I want to look nice some flowy pants. Every women is different.. for me, my husband is attracted to the fact that I don’t wear tight clothes in public and he would be okay with the jeans and T-shirts because “he knows what I have” and appreciates that I’m not flaunting it for others to see, the more feminine clothes are for home. The way that people act in the world nowadays it helps a man to feel like a man when their wives present natural feminine energy a simple long dress can do that and it doesn’t have to be tight. Have you considered other ways or dressing I know that there are Christian women who take the modest approach that Jewish or Muslim women take. Sometimes I even cover my hair

[@ruthkandandu4720]

@@Kikuye sexy is not a GODLY term and dont allow people to use it on you as a compliment. being called beautilul and pretty is godly.

[@Kikuye]

@@justhereyeah1112 I am not married. And yes, I stick to wearing just t-shirts (not the form fitting ones and not the boxy guy ones, more in between) and more loose fitting pants. Anything else tends to make me feel uncomfortable. I didn't used to pay much attention to what other people wear - or rather now I try and notice the people I wouldn't normally notice, if that makes sense - and I note that things they're wearing would make me feel like I'd be drawing attention, but on them it doesn't necessarily. On the flip side though, now I'm noticing when other women do wear some stuff I may consider immodest at least for myself and am wondering how they're okay with it. However, I'm only four foot ten and multi-racial, so I already tend to feel like I stick out.

[@justhereyeah1112]

@@Kikuye I get it! I kinda have always dressed more conservative than other people because that’s how my mom bought my clothes and I was definitely picked on but hey it was in preparation for my husband, the way that society is I would have never thought that he enjoys he being covered and I don’t feel self conscious anymore. I do however find it challenging sometimes to look my age and not older lol but you know I think that the Lord has you right where he wants you and is pleased with you for respecting your temple on all levels!

[@Jordè1222]

You bless me so much! I did some clothing shopping today and thought to myself “is this something a royal person would wear?” You have given me so much confidence to be special and set apart ❤️ I am working really hard to embody femininity and my husband has been noticing and we’ve been really in love lately 😉 I’m patiently waiting for your clothing drop!

[@emilyroseh.1858]

Hey Bindi, wonderful content as always! I would like to add to the section regarding a feminine figure that there is flexibility for pregnant and postpartum women and mothers-to-be. As being in my 6 month of pregnancy currently, I am continuously learning how the pregnant body of a woman is true femininity. Our bodies were designed for motherhood, praise God! :) As our bellies grow outwards, let us not be ashamed as society pressures us. Instead, let us rejoice for growing life inside of our wombs!

[@kaylanozawa4798]

Agreed ❤️ I’m pregnant right now too!

[@emilyroseh.1858]

@@kaylanozawa4798 Congratulations on your pregnancy, Kayla.

[@kimalonzo3363]

I am menopausal which means unwanted belly fat that diet and exercise can't fully get rid of. 😞

[@kaylanozawa4798]

@@emilyroseh.1858 congratulations to you too ❤️

[@deedeedenzel6104]

Congratulations! I feel this too as I am 12 weeks postpartum and my body has changed so much, but I try to focus on being healthy and that my body grew my beautiful baby girl for 9 months ❤️

[@vintageways5551]

Graceful would be my term for minimal aesthetic femininity. To enhance the appearance not change the woman. Everything she said is very correct and you will get the results she spoke. These videos speaks volumes please continue and don't be discouraged by anyone. "Let femininity be great again"

[@prudencek7087]

I agree with all you have said. I will definitely advocate with you about a woman's fragrance. I do not like heavy, strong perfumes, but I love a light fresh clean scent. My hubby loves it; and even my son and daughter, who are now young adults, when they come in for a hug, they always linger longer and say... "mom you smell so good" and they find comfort in it.

[@revediadem6055]

I appreciate you sister. I used to cover my hair and wear skirts and dresses but I became lazy, but the lord is asking me again about my clothing thank you for such a great teaching. You are truly teaching women how to be women according the the word of God.

[@takishasallbeautyzone]

This is a great list. I find that many young women these days, haven't been taught how to look and be feminine. Videos like this, can help them tremendously.

[@reborn4450]

Yes, I grew up without a mother so I am learning a lot from this.

[@lionrugissant]

I agree! Ever since starting my feminine journey I started looking at certain styles I use to wear as too masculine and drifted from them. Femininity isn’t just on the surface but when you truly become more feminine it reflects all of you, even the surface. I now feel so much better wearing skirts and dresses.

[@audiannichealing]

Amen

[@jenniferibarra7737]

I’m 21 not married but together with my boyfriend for 4 years . But I love to hear about topics that will help me in the future . Pray for us we constantly argue from the past things 🙏

[@dotdavis4817]

Hey, constant arguing has a root… waste no time getting the help to figure it out…it WILL not just go away when you get married 😢

[@rishablessed4249]

Love hearing her talk so soothing and REAL AUTHENTIC

[@forlife84]

I'm very thin but my waistline is only a tiny bit smaller than my hips...it's how I was made. No matter how much I gain or lose, I don't have an hour glass figure. My mom is like this too...but we are very healthy because we are thin and take good care of ourselves. We just have a boxier figure.

[@wangarimuriithi8748]

Hi. I have a similar built. And I’ve found that when I wear long flowy palazzo pants paired with a fitted top (even T-shirt), I look very feminine. I guess it is because it resembles a long skirt. I’m tall so I prefer the length to be past my ankle. Short plump ladies look superb in culottes (mid calf length). Try out a few in a thrift store or malls and see if it works for your figure. Oh and if you have on heels/wedges you’ll look super elegant. Hope this helps.

[@supermodeljaz6829]

Thank you for sharing, Beautiful. There are fashion channels who have suggestions for each body type, yours would be considered “rectangle”. You’re wonderfully made🌹

[@MissCatherine1100]

When The Body Shop stopped carrying my favorite Moringa Shea Butter cream, I started making my own skin creams! Shea butter + coconut oil + essential oils. It's so easy to melt it all down, whip it up, and scent it. I give it out as gifts now.

[@rebeccahernandez5156]

I think one thing that helps me to feel feminine is not only everything you spoke about but it is having ironed clothes! I notice it everywhere I go, women and men appear more polished when their clothes are ironed. Wrinkle free! It’s a dying art in society, but makes a difference! I feel so much cleaner when my clothes are wrinkle free.

[@Lazymamabear8401]

I’m not gonna lie, I’ve been going through self care rut lately and not even trying as much as I used too. But I’ve started binge watching your videos recently, I’m so motivated to try again. Not necessarily for anyone else but to try and be happy with my self again. How can I hope to care for others, if I can’t even do the same for myself. Thank you and god bless you and your family.

[@alysegarcia1103]

Although I understand the importance of keeping your nails groomed and clean, I have a homestead, I have animals to care for and work a garden daily. Dirt is inevitable. Looking cute is not a priority for me when I’m trying to keep my family fed. My husband doesn’t expect for me to be perfectly polished while cleaning out the chicken coop or turning my compost pile. During the day I’m going to sweat, it’s over a 100 degrees where I live. I would feel ridiculous if I’m putting on moisturizer and fragrance to clean up the kennels and stalls 🤣 Everyone’s lifestyles are different.

[@5674Kc]

I can relate to that. 😅 I have dirt under my fingernails from weeding the garden as I watch this . I am excited to learn more of a balance, and find practical ways to look and feel feminine with in my lifestyle. 😊

[@bygraceonly182]

My tomatoes, peppers, and potatoes are gorgeous. My rabbits are seasoned lovingly with rosemary and oregano. My duck eggs shine like glistening pearls. My garden is bursting with life. My children are tanned and strong.... Thought I would try my hand as some Song of Solomon vibe homestead verses... 😂 😘 right there with you sister. I am a smelly mess until “morning” chores are done. Fingernails caked with dirt and tomato plant sap. Tennessee homestead here. Can you say humidity!? I can clean up pretty but there is precious little time for lounging in long flowing dresses and manicuring my fingernails. PS: I’m pretty sure the shulamite (sp?) was a tanned working girl.

[@alysegarcia1103]

@@bygraceonly182 yes girl! Chores are never done on a homestead not to mention homeschooling teens. The humidity is no joke. We’re burning in Texas with 106 degree heat 🥵 I don’t have time for 3 showers a day to smell good for the chickens 😅

[@alysegarcia1103]

@@5674Kc when you find that balance let me know girl 😆

[@notablepianolessons2322]

Yes you have to adjust to your lifestyle. Maybe your maintenance routine will be lass frequent. I have a hard enough time showering once a day let alone twice. I think the goal is to do the best you can. We all have different lifestyles and schedules.

[@DeeperUnderstandings]

"I am not gifted in the make-up ministry.... That's not one of my spiritual gifts."🤭😂 Same here! That's a great way to communicate not wearing make-up. I choose to express my femininity through my skin (all over, really) by keeping it as smooth, even-toned and hydrated as possible. Maintaining a simple, but consistent, skin-care routine, morning and night, has done wonders, for me. So, I don't feel the need to apply make-up and as a nice bonus, people compliment my skin all the time. p.s. I just discovered your channel a few days ago and subbed. It's great. Please keep the videos coming!💙🙏🏽

[@ChiomaChinedu714]

I don't think there's anything like makeup ministry.

[@peggybaggenstoss3817]

Hi.. I’m a Caucasian woman but love your message. I’ll be listening more. Coconut oil has been my moisturizer for over 20 years. I apply coconut oil on feet and heels before bed. It absorbs fast. I spray cologne on after my evening shower… I live alone but fragrance helps me feel feminine.

[@faithcritchfield1066]

Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given you with us! I am inspired to focus more on my nail grooming and having a light pleasant scent on my person. I love being a feminine woman! 🩷

[@LadyNolaJ]

Your videos are so like my own journey with femininity, modesty and true spirituality in Christ. I’m 72 now, (a great grandmother of 11 littles!) but I love the fresh tips I find and I LOVE your gift of presentation. Well done!!

[@DaughterofSarah-p1h]

You are God sent. May He continue to give you grace, wisdom and knowledge to continue giving us content. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🥹🥰🥰

[@rebekahguilder602]

I'm so glad you addressed the fact that different shapes hold weight differently. I have a slimmer figure and I immediately can weight in the belly it protrudes. People always tell me I would look better if I gained weight, but the truth is I would look doughy.

[@notablepianolessons2322]

Me too! I gain weight on my waist and belly first! Each body shape has its advantages and disadvantages. I will most likely never have cankles.

[@catherinelopez4194]

Same here but some people just don’t understand.

[@kianaorletzkiy5641]

thank you so much for this video! I would also like to add that in my journey of femininity, skin care on your face can make difference in your outward appearance. whether you decide to wear make up or not, well maintained facial skin can make a huge difference in our feminine beauty ❤

[@goodthewizard]

I was just telling my husband about you and he agrees very much with you on a lot of topics. He asked if I felt a way about you being so young and I told him no. I have to give words of wisdom and encouragement to most of my female family including my mom and the women at church. As a former teacher I used to always say that there is something to be learned from children (I’m in by no means saying you’re a child). They are the best teachers! Thank you for what you do!

[@heaven-leeneville3156]

Anyone can see and hear that you are the embodiment of a true Proverbs 31 woman. Thank you for obtaining wisdom nuggets and sharing them with us. Bless✨

[@christinalappin]

Thank you Bindi for telling us the truths that we all intrinsically know but society has told us not to listen to ❤.

[@TheTexasBoys]

Hi there, I'm a Mom of 6 children, wife to my best friend of 23 years and daughter of King Jesus. I can relate so much to choosing to leave a career life and submitting my choices to be a stay at home wife, mother and homeschool mom. I can tell you that it is an honor and my highest calling and there are great rewards that come from sacrificially pouring your life into your children and husband. I just came across your channel and have watched several of your videos. I am encouraged and rejoicing that the Lord has given you so much wisdom. You are a beautiful person inside and out and I love how you have chosen to glorify the Lord with your life. Your heart comes across so honestly and clearly. Sharing the truth in love is a rare thing today, you do it very well. You've got a new subscriber here! Have a wonderful day!

[@cspann33]

This video was great. I’m inspired all the more to be steadfast in these areas. I became lazy and neglectful and now I have begun to redevelop a routine of self care and maintenance. Unfortunately, everyone wasn’t born with a traditional “feminine figure”. Some of us have athletic, inverted triangle and apple shapes. So we don’t look so feminine is dresses and skirts. It’s a lot to dress these shapes. I would add: Facial skincare and oral hygiene.

[@sharpfamily4938]

It's the total package I think. Health is #1 then the cloths will look how they need to. Play with patterns and maybe try high-waisted skirts, and use waist belts on dresses to sinch the waist just enough. Have fun with it!

[@cspann33]

@@sharpfamily4938 thanks

[@athenasalomons5847]

I have an athletic, inverted triangle body. Wearing wrap dresses and mini dresses that have a ruffled/flare skirt highlights my small waist and gives the illusion of more hips! Look into how to dress for your body type

[@cspann33]

@@athenasalomons5847 thanks.

[@arttificcer2324]

I recommend looking into the kibbi body types (not sure if i spelled that right) it will help you find out what shapes will look best on you based on the shapes of your body. For example some people have very angular bodies and or features, while others have rounder.. they call it yin and yang or masculine or feminine, not to say that someone with an angular body can't look feminine, but they will look the best if they do so while staying true to their yang attributed. Think collars, fitted and well structured pieces etc

[@scribblybubbles]

I finally found somebody who promotes the same values. I’ve been needing this my whole life! I just practiced these things while others around me thought I was ‘stuck up’ but I have just treated myself like I am a high value woman ❤

[@missclover7781]

I love how you can see that you've been diligent to refine your strong, logical, direct traits into a feminine presentation. What a great example you are for women. You don't have to be masculine to be direct and logical and you do a beautiful job of proving this.

[@tess7510]

Great video. Thank you! I attend events with a local ministry and out of all the women I'm usually the only one in a dress. I think this teaching is needed.. and missing in the church! Like you, I ALWAYS get compliments from other women about my feminine attire. One woman said "I love how you always wear dresses... you look so beautiful and feminine". I've realized that modesty and beauty in my attire is very noticeable (in a good way!) to the people around me. One thing I am still working on is my posture and the way that I walk. Before I was saved, a woman I went to for "healing" pointed out to me that my posture was very masculine. I turned my hips and belly forward so my silhouette was totally off. This caused me to tighten the muscles in my legs and butt so they just had no cushion left. I also turned my shoulders inward and hunched over. I often sat with my legs open or splayed up on the arms of the chair. I feel so much more feminine now that even my posture is being restored in Christ.

[@shellystrang6782]

Thank you for your videos. I have not had a worldview shift since college. Since finding your channel and reading the proper care and feeding of husbands my whole worldview of being a wife and homemaker has shifted for the better. I feel more content and peaceful than ever before. My understanding and acceptance of my husband and our unique roles has helped us both so much. I didn’t know what video to write this on because I’ve watched almost all of your videos. But I just wanted to thank you and tell you I that what you’re saying needs to be heard and I am so thankful that God had prepared my heart to hear and receive some refinement.

[@jessejules2092]

Ive been wearing dresses for years. Since my mid 20's. I'm 45 now. But, I just love how they make me feel.

[@rosaliejoy9936]

Thanks for challenging me to dress more feminine. I also like to maintain my facial hair, specifically my eyebrows as a way of appearing more feminine.

[@caribbean9829]

I am here as agnostic, but very interested in femininity and modesty. Modesty definitely affect how others see you and I like how does it.

[@nonnieanthonys2415]

You are a blessing to every woman, young or old! You explain woman’s femininity to live as God intends. This world and society is crying out for this wisdom! Thank you for providing peace and truth in a world that is filled with chaos and lies.

[@trinitybell945]

Bindi please continue to share your gifts, and word on Femenity. I have fallen off the train within the last 3 months & came back to your channel to respark my feminine gifts 💝

[@hadassah3999]

I was just thinking about you and looked if you had posted. And ~15min later, you posted. So happy. 😊 I always look forward to your videos. Hope you and your family are well. Peace and blessings 🌸🌷🌺

[@Omeda.S.Yapah.S.TheKOS]

Shalom sis. Thawadah for sharing your comment

[@TheSharna23]

Same here! I was thinking the same a couple hours ago

[@shantazianash.3089]

Same 😂 I looked for a new upload literally 5 minutes before she posted. Felt it in my spirit I guess

[@Omeda.S.Yapah.S.TheKOS]

@@shantazianash.3089 that is very cool!!! 😎

[@minimalassembly7893]

Great and much needed video. Regarding makeup, there are tinted sunscreens that we as women of color (black, brown, olive) can wear in lieu of makeup everyday. An added bonus is that it will protect your skin from indoor and outdoor UV light and help with anti-aging. I wear tinted sunscreen from brands like Revision Skincare and Elta MD. I use a little bit of concealer, setting powder and tinted lip balm from other clean/organic makeup brands to elevate the look. I sometimes add bronzer on the tip of my nose to add more warmth. Save the full face of makeup for special occasions!

[@caramelcreme777]

Hey Bindi! I stumbled across your channel just yesterday, and like many other viewers here I've been "binge watching/listening" to them as I go about my day. I grew up in the Church, a traditional family, came to Christ at a young age, and my husband and I are bringing up our daughter in the same environment and in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Your wisdom and insights are a breath of fresh air: as a "church lady" from a young age, the topic of femininity, womanhood, traditional gender roles, motherhood, women in ministry, the ministry of the home etc are all familiar and much explored topics in my circles, but I'm finding I really appreciate the way you are breaking them down for a new generation of women that may not have had access to them previously. 1) I can't help but observe the "background" of your home behind you in your vids. Light, airy, minimalistic, calm and serene - it's obvious the environment you have cultivated in your home is intentional. I am hoping you will consider discussing/going into detail your "homemaking process" as it pertains to cleaning routines and consistently keeping an "easy-to-tidy" space. Lol, every time I watch one of your videos (especially where you are making the beds in the background) I always think "where does this family keep all their stuff? there's like......NOTHING in this room except for the bed!" It's obvious y'all live in a minimalistic atmosphere and I'd like to hear more about it as it pertains to being a professional Homemaker. 2) In regard to this video: I so appreciate your going into detail about the characteristics of an outwardly feminine appearance. In a culture where androgeny is celebrated, it feels......fulfilling to push back with an overtly feminine appearance. I am drawn to a very girly, feminine style aesthetic so I personally really resonate with your style and the tips you've detailed here. That said, I couldn't help thinking: yes we are called to be "feminine" as Christian women - and the Bible details what feminine women ACT like (and some of what they look like) - but some Sister's bodies are better suited to a minimalistic aesthetic, or an outfit with bolder, clean lines as opposed to soft fabrics, ruffles and lace. I think there is room in a feminine, modest physical presentation for clothing, jewelry, accessories, hair, etc that is not overtly "girlie". Your admonition for a Sister to take the time and effort to discover her BEST colors is gold: when she's wearing a color that compliments her, SHE shines. SHE wears and outfit - it doesn't wear her! Even a simple tee + jeans or tee + skirt combo can really make her shine if that tee is in one of her "power" colors. 3) THANK YOU FOR REMINDING US TO MOISTURIZE.

[@SisterJudah144]

Thank you for making Fascinating Womanhood even more relevant for women that look like us 😍💜🙏🏾

[@mk-oz7xt]

Thanks for speaking about the feminine figure as first key point Most people go over that to please others and end up getting them at a disadvantage

[@KimJones-fh1pt]

Love this. God Is moving me into a more modest dress. I don't know where I'll end up, but I am starting to get convicted on my pants being to tight. So I have been wearing o shirt around my waist. I feel more comfortable. I can still where pants but not have to worry about being immodest. I am a country girl at heart, so I definitely love me some jeans.

[@Evy2500]

Thank you, Bindi, for your comprehensive discourse on Godly femininity. Our world seems to dismiss femininity as an archaic, irrelevant concept no longer useful to humanity. Social media platforms provide real-time opportunities for self-promotion, self- absorption, and exhibitionist behaviors. I think finding your channel was divinely inspired. Im so happy to know that there are young women who are indeed embracing their Godly femininity. You are a shining light in this confused society we live in. God bless you 🙏🏻

[@natasiabellah9124]

Thank you for this video. During my last pregnancy I was stopped in Walmart by a little old lady who told me how beautiful I looked in my dress and she was so happy to see a young woman dressed that way. I would like to add that for shorter women like myself a small wedged sandal or little bit of a heel can make a big difference. I'm looking forward to your store 😊

[@HabitsofaHomemaker]

I’m so excited about this video sis! I actually planned to upload a video on a very similar topic this week as well. ❤️ What a treat. 💖

[@eydimyers1654]

Back in the day (1960's) I attended charm school, which I don't believe is prevalent anymore, I learned all of the specifics you mentioned. I truly wish the ladies growing up today, can see this video and begin to look like ladies again. Thank you for the nice talk.

[@hannahhood3640]

Born in 1992 and I have wondered recently if charm school still exists! I’d like to go:)

[@baus7]

@@hannahhood3640 I wish things like this still existed. I would totally attend.

[@jennstovern5455]

Thank you! I love your content ❤️❤️❤️ please continue. Christian women are hungry for the practical instruction you provide!!

[@mk-oz7xt]

Thanks for the effort,you don’t know how much of an effect and life changing it is! Also I love your personality and authenticity

[@staceyjairah3538]

I was really waiting for a video from you Ps: I've binge watched your other videos and to be honest they've change me for the better i.e. being ladylike , focused and overall not procrastinate also embracing womanhood the godly way especially because such examples are not what I've grown up with

[@allana4407]

Me too I feel like my focus have shifted I grew up so rough smh this is a great channel

[@sharlaamysamuel]

I can relate. This channel is so encouraging!

[@marcasino3117]

Loving this hair

[@zeinabkhamis232]

I'm sorry for the inconvenience. I didn't mean to!🙏 🙂

[@nyaralur4834]

a Male friend of mine recommended me to watch this and I cant thank him enough. I have learnt alot. Thank you

[@glumeciupia7217]

@Bindi did you realize how much benevolent power lays in the vocabulary and phrases you use? It enables you to talk so respectfully about delicate topics! Definitely following your role model in that regard- thank you.

[@SayconTalks]

17:40 that little cheese grater thing at the nail salon is terrible. It makes your feet grow back rougher and makes you have to keep coming back. I’m glad you remarked on that.

[@katejohnson5083]

Wonderful content, Bindi. When you said that makeup can reach a point where it starts detracting from beauty, I was shaking my head yes in agreement. Our culture has gone makeup crazy. So many women and men both look like they’re in drag. It’s quite disturbing. I’d also like to add that fake nails, hair, and eyelashes can also detract from a woman’s beauty when it’s clear these things aren’t real. Women should take care in making sure their appearance is as natural as possible. For example, I can always spot fake nails. They tend to look unnaturally wide, thick, and long. I recommend that women stay away from fake nails and, instead, use nail conditioner and light polish to keep their own nails healthy. Fake hair can also be a problem, especially if we refuse to let our husbands see us in our natural state. Wigs and extensions can become an idol. Finally, fake eyelashes have become extreme in our culture. Again, it’s better to condition our real eyelashes and perhaps use a lengthening serum. So many women look “fake” these days and they all look the same. It’s refreshing to see a woman embrace natural beauty.

[@1LORDGODJESUS]

amen amen amen

[@rikim1693]

Yes.

[@taygray6424]

I’ve been thinking about this very thing for a while. I used to love makeup but I only did foundation and eyebrows. It became an idol because I couldn’t even go to the store without it. It came to a point where I knew it was unhealthy and so I got rid of all the makeup stuff that I had. I used to bite my nails so they were always short but my grandmother has beautiful, naturally long nails. I’ve always admired that and I asked her when I was a kid how did her nails get that long. So she taught me how to take care of my nails. She always used red polish but she told me to keep my nails clean, stop biting them, and use a protective clear polish. She said that red polish was too grown for me😂😂 which I respect. My nails have been beautiful and healthy since. I prefer light colors or a white tip. Super beautiful. I still love braids especially when school starts because my natural hair takes a long time to do, but I don’t hate having my natural hair out as much as I used to. I cried when I had to wear my natural hair. Now I love it and I feel more beautiful with it being out and curly. Even 3 years ago, I would hate having it naturally curly. I wanted it to be straight. I think it’s about time that women embrace the beautiful bodies God designed. God designed me perfectly and I’m more confident than ever.

[@renarich4942]

Lengthening serum like what

[@katejohnson5083]

@@renarich4942 I like NeuLash

[@cherylinchrist4826]

Bindi, that was excellent, thank you, you explain so well! I'm 67 and wore dresses always while homeschooling and raising my children but moved to the beach and started wearing pants for 30 years now. My husband would love to see me in more dresses. You are changing my life mostly in the area of being a less controlling more godly wife. I'm feeling more peace and I notice my husband doing things that are definitely a little different. He is already a godly man and and true servant of Christ but he is kissing me more. He ordered our breakfast yesterday and said My wife and I would like to share this salad. 😄I usually order need to stop that. ✋️. I need to get back to being more feminine. Just did all my nails, thank you! On our way to Oregon to see to lovely granddaughters, we will watch this ❤️ together.

[@angelikastefoglo2478]

I love love love your content, so glad I’ve found you. I’ve always felt an inward struggle of wanting to step into femininity, but feeling awkward to do so, probably due to the feminist movement (ironically). I’m a SAHW soon to be SAHM, and I’m so inspired to embrace how God designed me to look and act as a woman/wife/mom.

[@lizalice-uf5ct]

I’m always so blessed at 51 with all your encouraging videos . Thank you for posting . Your such a proverbs 31 ❤ . God bless .

[@whitneynoel8818]

I have a wonderful mother who's enjoyed her role as wife and mother. But your videos here have really inspired me, ignited new desires, and have been a true blessing! Thank you Bindi. ❤

[@dezy7465]

Putting Vix vapor rub on ur feet focusing on the dry cracked areas will soften them up . Ladies I walk around my house bare foot and my heels used to get dry not terrible but noticeable crispy . Once I started putting Vix in my feet after my shower before bed I noticed my feet are always soft . No more rough heels . Just thought I’d share that lil beauty secret 🥰

[@taygray6424]

Finding this channel has been such a blessing. God has been getting on me about the way I dress and act for a while. Things like keeping my natural hair healthy and managed, wearing more skirts & dresses that suit my body shape (not to show it off but not every style & pattern looks good on every body shape), keeping my nails done (even just a clear coat), taking care of my body with exercise and proper grooming, and cooking at home since I make really good food. I eventually realized that God was raising me to be more feminine without saying it. It’s been a very difficult journey, but also very beautiful. Having my Father teach me to be a woman has shown me so much of who He is. I used to hate the idea of being a “girly girl”. I was born in ‘97 and most of the movies and shows I grew up watching made the feminine girls or “girly girls” the mean, nasty, and rude ones. I didn’t realize this until I watched a character analysis of Sharpay from High School Musical. It then hit me how I was a victim of brainwashing without knowing it for years. The girl you wanted to be was the main character and she was a tomboy. She was more masculine and it was cool to be her. This is so detrimental to young girls. It does affect them unless they have a woman who can teach them to be more feminine. Bindi has been a blessing to me and I will soon be teaching young girls at my church and I’m hoping to spread this wisdom into them as well. They are around 13 or 14 years old, so it might be hard to change the perspective they have because they are growing up into a more extreme culture.

[@sharpfamily4938]

Bindi, I so enjoy your content. I feel like I am opening a gift everytime you post! 😃 I can certainly attest to feeling very confident in myself when I'm wearing dresses. My husband said I am like a "beautiful flower" and I'm encouraged and loved that i can be that for him. Other people/strangers compliment me and I don't feel like it's because I'm trying to be provocative or seductive (I am covered and saving that for my husband), I feel I'm complimented because it's REFRESHING to see a young woman in her femininity and enjoying it! God knew what he was doing when he made men and women differently!

[@katlimoagi]

Watching this a third time just to eliminate the inappropriate ideas on appearance and solidify the appropriate idea...love your content and I appreciate it. Thank you Joyce ❤

[@MzCrayKray]

I am so glad I found your page. And finding your page has also led me to habits of a Homemaker. Both of you ladies have great content and I have been binge watching all of your videos. I am not married and not really a home maker but the advice really just helps me slow down and focus on being the Godly woman God has called me to be. Helps me be a good steward of the things I have. This past weekend even though I slept in I made sure to get dressed for the day put myself together. I even put on a dress. lol Wasn't the cutest dress but I was giving cute old lady. lol it was a lovely day i felt really good and I was very productive. I also love that you show clips of you doing stuff around the house because even the images help. Cutting up the veggies or onions I plan to cook with and storing them in mason jars for the week was such a helpful tip I saw you do. I wish that someone would have taught me these things as a younger woman. I don't know if I will ever remarry or have more kids but this content is still helpful for all ladies. Hope you all have a beautiful weekend.

[@StumpandDi]

One of your videos popped up in my suggestions tonight and I’ve been binge watching for hours. I’m 54 and wish I had the wisdom God has blessed you with. Reading the comments, it seems He is using you to help rise up His daughters and sanctifying us to His purpose for a time such as this. You are beautiful, graceful, and have the sweetest spirit I’ve seen in a woman. I’ve subscribed and even hate that it’s bed time and I have to turn off the TV tonight. God bless.

[@helengolightly9707]

Excellent tips! Thank you for sharing! I am thrilled to see another woman stepping up to the plate of < femininity > in our present day culture. BRAVO! 😍

[@chaulai]

You speak of biblical femininity with such elegance and grace.

[@NoreenMumo]

I love your content and how you are ministering to women on issues that matter so very much, yet little is said on such issues from a context of godliness & practicality. May you be blessed by our Heavenly Father.

[@APRMinistries]

I wish I had been able to listen to you when I was twenty. I have already told my niece about your channel. God bless you sister! You are doing such a great work for The Lord by releasing these videos. Every single video is such a blessing. ❤

[@phillipsk100]

Such wisdom from such a young lovely woman; I’ve learned sooooo much and am truly inspired. Thank you for sharing🙏🏻

[@lovelivelaugh7712]

Hi Bindi! I found your page last night... The Lord is using many of your videos to enlighten, convict, and motivate me. Thank you and God Bless you and yours! ❤️

[@audiannichealing]

Amen

[@lorraineklimek1677]

You look so lovely, you do not need any enhancement with make-up. I am white skinned with white hair and need to add some colour to my face, but I really strive for products that look as natural as possible. There are new translucent products (ie Jones Road) that are amazing. I am 73 years old, with sadly no husband to dress for, but I still work and make an effort to look my best in an appropriate way every day. I truly hope more women discover your channel because you are a treasure. I would also add that you have a soothing, feminine voice which is so pleasant, but many women today do not appreciate the value of this quality.

[@liszaandrasik5469]

I've always had a dry heel problem. And then I had pre-eclampsia with my first pregnancy, and I became so swollen that my heel actually split. For several years now I've not been able to fix it. It wouldn't heal. It didn't hurt anymore, but the split didn't fuse back until 2 months ago when I started to take collagen. It has fused back together and my heels are no longer cracked and that dry anymore!

[@mrslerious1297]

I came across your videos like 2-3 days ago and have been binge watching them since. Is it weird i feel like you're my mentor? Lol. Thank you for all you do. It's so nice to have a place to learn and truly grow in Christ. God bless🙏🏿

[@seesugdensgrow6603]

I loved the tips. Some additional things that really make a difference in our feminine appearance are a kept-up face. Shaping the eyebrows (not to take away from their natural form, but to pluck away the “weeds” 😄, so the beauty of the form can be enhanced). Also, the teeth. Keeping teeth clean, flossed, brushed, free of plaque build-up, etc. and the mouth scented well also (since that can be pretty smelly sometimes too). Those two things (brows & Mouth hygiene) helps the face so that when you smile, it is an even more beautiful smile, which aids in a woman’s overall beauty.

[@nahambohilma8598]

❤❤❤💯

[@patc2515]

I really wish you would do a series on sexuality in marriage. mindset around it, cultivating sexual connection with yourself and spouse, the good and bad from doing or not doing these things, making space for it in your life, how you personally feel about this topic, etc. The curch has failed so miserably at teaching couples and especially women to flourish in their sexuality in the context of a christian marriage. I need help and its hard to find truly helpful content on this topic. Please consider it, your input and mindset on things are so much appreciated and I'd love to learn more about how you make room for this area of life.

[@heyo3846]

I'm not Christian or religious. But I love your blue dress!!! Because of you, I'll put on a modest long dress today. I like your vibes and soul.

[@ashleyl2958]

The Lord had been dealing with me on how I dress. Showing me that I should wear modest apparel. I’ve been changing my wardrobe in the process. I love floral, dresses and long skirts. Some don’t understand and tend to say floral is for old folks it’s too old, but I beg to differ. :) thanks Bindi for your video and openness.

[@VeganPrepper]

Beautiful video, as usual! As to scent (this is not a pushback, just another angle) I think it's important for a woman to know what her husband likes. For me, for instance, my husband has allergies and never knows what will set him off. Though through diet changes and getting healthier as we get older much of that has passed, he's spent an entire lifetime being avoidant of scents (often those natural flower smells you describe that God gave to us were the very ones that would set him off). To this day, even though there are certain essential oils that are totally fine and don't cause him to have a reaction, he has just developed this aversion to scents, so I don't wear anything like that. I'm clean and I don't stink, lol!!! But I don't perfume myself. He says the only smells he likes are smells that are similar to baking or cookies, so my one exception is a dry shampoo which I make with carob powder instead of cacao and arrowroot (because he's allergic to chocolate, and I don't want it in our bed if I don't wash it out at night). When I get into a hot car, apparently the carob kind of activates and releases a lovely, subtle scent of cookies. It was an accidental bonus. I didn't realize it would be so fragrant. But I get that at church all the time, too, when people hug me and I have it in my hair. They back up and say, "OOH, you smell like cookies!" So it's a way of being scented, but it's just carob powder in my dry shampoo, lol. Sometimes I'll dust a little in even when I don't need a dry shampoo just because it's a way to smell nice without any issues for anyone.

[@CellasCurations]

Love your creativity☺️

[@kerrymartin7557]

I have asrhma/allergies, and have to be super-careful with scents. I wish more people would be considerate about that.

[@renarich4942]

Can I have instructions for your dry shampoo

[@miriamstunova5509]

I really enjoyed your calm presence. I would love to have someone who would help me develop my femininity... I recently started wearing dresses and actually sewing them for myself. Thank you for this video :)

[@rhibb3416]

I love your page! What a timely ministry! Praise God! I would however say that as an older woman menopause will impact how your midsection changes whether you're overweight or not.

[@clairejoy1053]

May I make a suggestion? The volume of your videos can be low which means I have to turn the speaker right up. When the adverts come on they are shockingly loud. If you could find a way to make your voice louder like having the speaker closer to you, I would really appreciate it. Love your work by the way ❤️

[@extraordinary_woman]

I’m sooo glad that you recognize keeping a good figure as something necessary for women. Its pretty easy for people to excuses for not being healthy

[@lisah.1024]

I recently found your channel and have been blessed by the few videos I have watched. I am a natural since 2011, but after cancer in 2018 my hair is now loc'd. In 2020, the Lord restored me from my backsliding. I've been led of the Lord to clean up my closet. All the topics you've touched on here, I completely agree with. As I can no longer wear commercial perfumes etc, I make my own natural hair and skin products and wear lemon grass, lavender or rose essential oils. I don't personally wear make-up and my opinion is that women shouldn't wear make-up which is a reflection of what Jezebel did in the OT. I think that make-up is a dishonour to and takes away from our natural God given beauty. Please keep up this beautiful ministry that God has given you. Have a blessed day.

[@Kikuye]

I'm a massage therapist that specializes in lymphatic drainage. It helps with a lot of things (you can look up all the things, but immune system, hormones being big ones.) And a lot of women think they have "belly fat" and while they might, a lot tends to be bloating/fluid. Same with under the arms/"bra fat" and inner thighs.

[@mis___read]

This video has helped my understanding of modesty and femininity so much, thank you💗!

[@nebj1014]

Using exfoliating gloves really helps with getting rid of dry skin so you don't get as ashy. Also, Shea butter is better to use than Vaseline because clogs the pores and doesn't let the skin breath. If you mix it with aloe gel (one with no alcohol), it helps the shea butter spread more easily

[@MRS.NKA.2024]

I've been loving your channel. It has helped me greatly, and i have shared it with a few friends. I have even purchased a few modest dresses, as my wardrobe has needed updating and a little razzle dazzle from the Holy Spirit.

[@MP-od3vq]

On a visual ladies make sure you don’t have dark lip hair, super ashy skin or uneven skin tone, neat flowey hair, and we’ll shaped brows make a huge difference!! Use gentle exfoliators on the skin. Remove leg and put hair, exercise, eat well, and you can be your best self without makeup or even with it!

[@LiliC97]

I love love love your channel, so glad I came across your channel. You’re so soft spoken & I like how you still say things that may ruffle feathers because us women do struggle with accountability. Please keep making videos. I didn’t grow up with a lot of this information & It’s very helpful as I’m trying to get closer to God and fulfill my purpose.

[@-living4jesus4ever-]

Amen yes! Such a blessing. Keep it up! Great content.