Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe Featuring Tanerélle #46

[@skepsis6181]

She literally looks like a painting, a beautiful work of art inside and out and still talks about her insecurities and struggles. I’m always amazed by her way of being so calm, humble and relatable even though her voice and visuals appear like a goddess up in space. This is an absolutely Beautiful and relieving interview!

[@mrsyoung8503]

She just exudes feminine energy! You can tell she's really in tune with herself. Her mannerisms and even how she speaks so softly.

[@deedarling354]

Tanerelle's voiceee is soothing and soulful ❤️❤️❤️

[@leahswenson7776]

Omg I know! I wish I could hear it everyday. It's so sexy

[@MrKenantheboss]

eyo right?

[@JamesofTenderloin]

Just like her music!

[@justSymiah]

“If I’m putting you first , there’s no way you’re getting the best version of me” @28:08 hit me soooo harddddd 🤯 I love her essence & her music so much. 🪐🤍

[@TheSacralBliss]

As a Reiki Practitioner, I’ve seen first hand what energy can latch on to you from sex with certain type of men. I don’t , however, believe in soul ties. I do believe certain types of lovers can take your energy and use your sacral power for themselves.

[@ladyofspa]

Agree agree agree, I don't like that soul tie expression. You got the power to take your whole self back. Folk give themselves away allow others to nurse off them then say it's a soul tie. No one can give or take your essence. source energy is yours no one has power over you.

[@shakanuhglorie8444]

No matter who you have sex with y’all energize will exchange because your body is temple , I look at it like house no matter who let in your house they will leave a trace weather it’s a sent , they forgot got a personal item , a foot print , a plate anything sombody from them will be left behind that’s how our bodies work in sex something will be left with .

[@TheSacralBliss]

@@shakanuhglorie8444 not always. You can move, transmit, and block energy. Not everything has to be an exchange.

[@TheModernAlchemix]

Tanerelle is a freaking goddess. This practice came to me organically, it’s life changing. I was able to tap into a part of self worth I wasn’t anticipating. I was able to put up healthy boundaries while laying in my feminine because I no longer have the need to protect against someone disregarding my boundaries ❤

[@dakotadedreu1451]

Me too sis! I think it very instinctual and natural, but it's nice to be able to her someone else vocalize the experience and be able to resonate with them

[@aleeshasimone4460]

I am excited that Shan is finalllyyyyy changing how she views & approaches sex!!!! Awakening spiritually & sexually is so different to all this physical, 3D sex talk. It's deeper, it's more healing, it's magic..! Let's gooo

[@emjitheg]

righttttt!! totally agree 100%

[@emjitheg]

@333life what's disgusting?

[@livinlifewithla7142]

@333life yeah lol what’s disgusting?

[@jazzyboo100]

‼️‼️‼️

[@gnahore5810]

I'll be honest, I only clicked because I saw a beautiful black woman with an afro. Lord have mercy, we must stay focus brothas

[@applejackzo]

😂 she is so gorgeous

[@gnahore5810]

@@applejackzo indeed

[@lotusphoenix8]

This why I live on KZbin! This is the kind of recommendation that fill my soul. Her aesthetic. Her voice. Her mannerisms. Her actual storytelling. This is a very healing video just from hearing what is possible, ugh. I'm definitely open to explore more and deeper. Just wow! What a blessing

[@screenshotofwords7839]

Saw her perform in NY back in August, it was magical. She is just a magical being and this conversation just further confirmed it!

[@amandadasilva675]

I can totally relate to her. She's so beautiful. Her voice is so calm and soothing.

[@danielafurtado5095]

Yes! I got into tantra sex earlier this year and I was in awe! I’ve never been so present with my or someone else’s body and the pleasure I got from it was incomparable. I agree with Shan’s frustration around how unclear the definitions are. When I first heard about it a couple of years ago and asked about it, I’d get the fluffiest answers and always left thinking “I still don’t understand what it is!” After practicing it for a bit, I’d describe it as mindful sex: slow down (A LOT) and bring your attention to the touch and breathe. Be it your touch and breathe, or your partner’s. Or both. I learned to start by synchronizing my breathe with my partner’s while napping or cuddling. Then it got easier to do the same during inter course. Pleasure mapping is fun too. As I slowly caress my partner, I pay close attention to his and my breathe, moans or changes. Love this topic and I’d like to hear more about it. I have a few books but I always have to read them with my “fluffy detector” on. I got the impression that Shan had to do the same in these interviews.

[@NallahBrown]

I think you did a great job explaining

[@iamchristinajbell]

This was great. I’m definitely intrigued!

[@denisemabusela971]

Oh my soul. I didn't know I needed this conversation. The power of consent and affirmations. So beautiful and such a wonderful episode. Thank you Shan and Tanerelle, so bare and transparent 🧡♥️

[@godsgirl7201]

❤️🙏🏼

[@aneesahendricks2853]

Definitely going to try out pleasure mapping!! I find that I don't enjoy myself during sex if unless I've had some intoxicant and that's not something I'm happy about. Hoping this helps me to get in touch with my body and learn to love her for what she is so I can feel good during sex instead of worrying about how I look

[@absa2says]

I feel like we deserve a conversation between Tanerelle, Dewanda Wise and Shan.

[@aprilrosario6869]

I am even more obsessed with her now 😩 when I first saw her open at the JoJo concert in Philly, I fell to the floor. Her presence is magical and so sensual

[@MsMizz1]

Yes my type of guest and topic. Divine feminine energy.

[@amourewave96]

I hope one day Tanerelle releases a book or a podcast, her insight is beautiful and refreshing.

[@llAKGll]

I’ve followed Tanerelle for such a long time, this conversation was so great. I really enjoyed and resonated with her ❤ Thank you for bringing her on ☺️

[@SunseedStarchild]

I LOVE HER MUSIC this is great can't wait to listen. As a spiritualist myself, I find that abrahamic religions can still have a stronghold within the minds of other spiritualists. Learning the theories and evidence surrounding how history has been altered is a big part of being well rounded in one's spiritual journey. Soul ties are real, but removing them is just a form of aftercare.

[@cutielovemb]

This episode was one of my favourites. I resonated with a lot of previous traumas/how you were raised or even both making you feel obligated to do things or say yes to things that if you really had the time to think about why you’re doing them you probably wouldn’t. i’m slowly but surely moving into a place of loving myself for myself and others around me to present the best version of myself always. I’m consenting to things not because of obligations but cause I truly want to. Everything was so refreshing to hear and i’ve learnt a lot and have a lot more things to try as a result. Thank you for sharing 💕✨!

[@ayanayasmine5934]

I really thought Brendan was a great addition to the conversation to add more context to what sacred sexuality is and to offer more clarity for myself to enhance my own practices ❤️‍🔥

[@julianbroughton]

Tanerelle is one my favorite artist! I already know that I'm about to have this on repeat for while.

[@asiaalexisra]

28 min in and I’m crying Just yes. The episode is so healing for me

[@wrongfullyetherized7754]

From the minute I saw your little teaser for this, I was drawn to Tanerelle. I loved this episode and have been vibing out to her music ever since I watched this. THANK YOU, Shan, for introducing her to me. I feel so inspired 🤗

[@lumajaber2227]

Shan this episode came to me in the exact right time! I NEEDED this episode. I’m on a journey of exploring this topic on my own and this conversation gave me such a new and beautiful perspective! 😍 I appreciate this podcast so much and I don’t believe it’s always a coincidence that episode topics drop right when I need them! I have a special bond with this podcast! 😍

[@superfemmewey6020]

I've followed both of your work for yeas and I am in tears over this episode. I've connected so much to what was said. Tears at the thought of making love to yourself and to not merely performing for our partners or even ourselves. This is a truly transformative episode. 💕😭

[@kieshame888]

I've experienced this sacred exchange and it was a complete out of body experience. Total ecstacy will take you to a different dimension...literally you feel the presence of TMH❣

[@brittneyscott8041]

Shan I love that you are so transparent and vulnerable with us. Thank you for that ending on the sincere episode. This episode was eye opening and gave me a new understanding of sacred sexuality. I actually thought of the videos you played as well 😂

[@sadiquabynum6879]

This whole conversation is exactly what I needed to hear but the "Yes" part I really resonated with because that it so truthful. An "mmhm" or "sure" or "ok" might be packaged nicely as a "yes" but in our bodies does it feel like an absolute yes, or a compromise to what we actually want to say? I personally do not think so. Thank you for this exploration!

[@NinaNeko4]

I looooove Tanerelle. I’ve been bumping “Mama Saturn” since it came out!

[@cutielovemb]

gosh she's gorgeous

[@ericaedghill4632]

I absolutely positively love Tanerelle my goodness her voice, her music, her vibe, her appearance, everything about her is out of this world.

[@ISaidWhatWhatinThe]

I’m. Obsessed. With. Her. Before ppl really started listening to her music I was listening to her. She’s amaaaaaazing. Amaaaaaaazing. I’m glad ppl are giving her the energy and love she deserves.

[@desireme3019]

Her voice is everything

[@desireme3019]

So sultry and seductive

[@Blue_7777]

This came right on time. Her story really resonates with me. Thank you so much for sharing. I teared up several times.

[@charleneages6437]

First time commenter, long time listener/viewer. Shan, keep on glowing & flowing through these transitional moments. I am always greatful for you keeping it real. Showing up as you are, and sharing with us in your joy & vulnerability. After watching this video I have a better vision for my personal development goal this year. I am choosing do to focus on rebuilding my Sacred Feminine Energy. As someone who experienced some heavy things at a young age, this video could not have been released at a better time in my year. I am so excited to explore a sacred connection with my inner feminine Goddess, in order to share my fullness with the people I love in my life. I heard you for the first time years ago on Jeannie Mai’s podcast & I was hooked. It was one of the first times I heard someone talk about love, sex & relationships is a real honest conversational way. While I haven’t listened to your podcasts (yet), I’m so excited you have added a visual component through KZbin for my Neurodivergent brain! Thank you, Tanerélle & to you Shan for sharing this beautiful conversation. Demonstrating to woman & young girls, it is safe to have uncomfortable conversations with people who respect & hold space for you. Shannon, Continue to be bold and push boundaries of societal standards, there are people who want to hear the tough shit. Others may not be ready to discuss or confront with in themselves. But if no one talks about it our realities can not change.

[@dancinginthepurplereign4126]

I really relate so much with sacred sexuality. For me, it was motivated by wanting to raise my vibration from lack to abundance. Also I dated a lot of narcissistic men and I was really empty and depleted. I needed a sex experience that was nourishing. I practiced celibacy for over 2 years, and I am really holding out to have tantric sex and it feels like having sex fir the first time. This path led me to do OnlyFans. There's no shame in sex for me anymore.

[@SerenityIsMe90]

I really enjoy this convo! I poured a sip of energy n rolled some energy after work to enjoy this frontal lobe release. You help my Anxiety with these topics n calm voices.

[@4tacoLove]

Hearing her talk about not being connected to sex resonated with me in a way I never knew about myself! I am now loving sex again after having 3 babies back to back and the sex that me and my man are having has been phenomenal on a whole other level! Just connecting like we never have before. Me stepping into my sexually has helped my sex life tremendously

[@freespiritkaro3414]

Yeah! Where is Brendan’s channel ? He’s super dope❤

[@virginiaakrofie-bruce3968]

Please do a lot more on sacred sex with more guest who have experienced it. Woman need to get in touch w their true selves through intentional sacred healing. Saying what we really want as woman is freeing our souls. Healing past traumas around sexual experiences we didn't want. Becoming one w one's self. Self first partner 2nd is a great spiritual lesson. Thx i learned a lot from Tenerelle. Her intentions towards herself is beautiful & real. Thank you❣️ 🙏🏿❣️🙏🏿❣️🙏🏿❣️🙏🏿❣️🙏🏿❣️🙏🏿❣️🙏🏿

[@dancinginthepurplereign4126]

I love how Shan is also envigorated by this conversation. I'm sure she enjoys interviewing honest and genuine and practical people who are self awareness. I love when Shan is with Jared where the emotional compatibility and vulnerability is apparent. She doesn't work hard to educate or to give validation. In the other interviews, especially the one with Abby, she had to do a lot of emotional labour and a sort of mothering and giving too much validation to her Abby. Which can be draining. Here she is just open to talking. Talking as in communicating. I love Shan in this interview.

[@NallahBrown]

What a QUEEEEENNN. This is my first time listening to her speaking voice (I know her singing voice). What a dope topic to engage in and listen to her experience.

[@jazzybash1]

That’s why we have to be careful when it comes to sex because it is spiritual. That’s why sometimes we hold on to wrong people because of the sex. We’re tied in. Soul ties are real. Sex isn’t just mechanical, biological. It’s a spiritual special bond. That’s why in many religions, it is often talked about as something reserved for marriage because it’s a sacred bond, a sacred space. A lot of people mistake what soul ties actually are and feel like they need to have sex a certain way or ways to be liberated. True liberation comes from knowledge. And that’s knowledge of the Divine and you. What’s down above has affect on earth and vice versa. I think people need to tie sex, sexuality with spiritual health. I’m a huge believer in metaphysics. It’s all affects everything.

[@Abby-04]

Shan your interviews are amazing. Truly grateful for your vision and work. I learn so much from you and your guests.❤

[@kat7203]

loved listening to this conversation. one of my favorite episodes so far 💜

[@lovelykali]

This was such a healing conversation for me to listen to. I learnt so much about myself. Thank you so much for this. ❤

[@BohoBroCHOREO]

This is the video I needed. Truly I’m about to cry bc I felt so alone. Thank you so much both of you 😊😊😊

[@KymBlessed2010]

I absolutely LOVED this episode. So relatable to what I’m currently experiencing. She put words to a feeling I couldn’t describe. I’m filled with gratitude to know I’m not alone and open to discovering new intentional experiences. ❤

[@celrissahorton6436]

She is stunning. Her skin and hair is gorgeous..😍😍😍 Her voice commands your attention.

[@NallahBrown]

There's a lot about her story that I can relate to. Learning about somatic therapy changed my world, I look forward to hiring my own somatic therapist one day, until then I'll continue to learn and implement myself.

[@videovixenn]

omg i LOVE Tanerelle!!! this episode was amazing!! thank you Shan and Tanerelle🙌🏾

[@BobHogvall]

Absolutely loved this episode

[@ock5458]

1st things 1st Woah I have no idea why haven’t been in tune but I’m so glad I’ve found this channel

[@SunnyHeartKay]

I clicked bc Omgaaaahhh😖😖 she is so pretty! That fro is sooooo cute! Wow!

[@KrishanaDavis]

Shan, I appreciate your honesty of referring to your sex life as robotic. I’ve felt similarly at times. I was listening to your episode about how sex changed for you after having your second child. I empathize with that. I just had my second baby in July. I’ve decided to refer to this new life phase as my “sex kitten era.” I purchased new clothes, have been doing my makeup. I’ve been unapologetically branding myself. Basically imma force my way into being a sex hot mama and baddie. ❤

[@tawnytirado143]

Wow she is stunning

[@TSDreamCreative]

Tanarelle is such an incredible musician and a beautiful soul. Ever since I discovered her, I have found her sexual sensuality through her music not only enticing but also freeing. Her music has actually become regular listening for my wife and me when it comes to getting in the mood and being intimate. Between the lyrics, her vocals, and the rhythms, Tanarelle has captured sexual energy in her work like no other.

[@Tina-wk2pr]

You 2 look stunning 😍 and I love Tannerelles calm vibe ✨✨✨

[@kandicesmith2841]

Loved every second Shan! Thank you , Goddess!

[@alexadanielle2992]

Love this episode!!! And love the video format 🫶🫶

[@Hu5h_]

I love her music, she is so amazing!

[@gabrielleellison715]

She’s breath taking!

[@jane8228]

She's so magical her voice plus aura ✨️ 😍

[@downwiththeclique7239]

SHE IS SO FUCKING STUNNING!!! ❤❤❤

[@passivepanda3656]

Maaaaaan her voice !? Jesus Christ !

[@cro3725]

Such a profound talk. Thank you

[@Mamaisthesource]

I loved every second of this video, it filled me up like the meal I did not know that I needed. I remember after my first sexual experience as a young girl, that there had to be more to the whole sexual "act" and I remember being a freshmen in high school and sneaking off to buy a tantric/sacred sexual guidebook. I can't recall the name but I know the orange book cover (which of course symbolized the sacral chakra) and two snakes intertwined together too. I'm saying this all to say that this episode was pure gold. I knew a long time ago what sex looked like for me and what it did not look like, based upon my first time engaging. I for sure had my share of traumatic moments that I'm still healing through, yet to know my likes/dislike, to have found my voice and to reconnect with my body have been a blessing. There's a lot of work that I believe is needed to develop this practice. Having a devoted spiritual practice and strong relationship, with the Most High does help with connecting to yourself outside of yourself, to even see and feel various things. Tanerelle was a freaking pleasure, and you of course Shannon. Thank you ladies

[@mahlakonkopodi7673]

Just the sound of Tanerélle’s voice made me press play on her EP 82 moons🖤💜🖤

[@MsMizz1]

Awww the baby in the ad 😩💗 your mommy mode is sweet

[@user-om8lu4nq4v]

Ethereal being ✨❤️ I thoroughly enjoyed this episode.

[@papadon7973]

Her energy is immaculate

[@andreajames532]

This is the most beautiful human on the planet.... Love her even more after hearing her interviewed.

[@hellajassy]

Shes stunning !

[@madylines6364]

Tanerelle should have her own podcast 💗

[@lovewithtaran]

Welcome to the good side Shan, I'm looking forward to finally seeing you in this field in a way that really resonates with me. I love who you are, the work you do, and how you express that, AND I'd love to see spirituality in perspective when it comes to sex. As a deeply spiritual person, and a certified therapist, I feel there's much wisdom that the "woo woo" can show us if we're willing to look past all the weird shit happening in the spiritual world. I lived in Bali and many spiritual communities, even though so much shit is too much out there, underneath it the essence is powerful and truthful. We have to search for it though. Any way love you Shan and can't wait to see more of this in your channels

[@GDL364]

Energy and soul ties are real. You can run from this truth if you want to 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Onceaponavon]

This was beautiful thank you for this conversation

[@dakotadedreu1451]

I resonate with her SOOOOO much

[@LifeisAisha]

Beautiful conversation. Thank you for sharing this💛

[@wombwoke]

wow I love that we're hereeeee. and tanarelle's voice, oh my goddess

[@Uworld17]

Sometimes when you do what u think u need leads to boundage it is undeniable that when we Interact with others there is a large exchange on energy...stating that is not to limit freedom but to increase it just because being cautious about it also lead u to be careful of the unhealthy emotional bounds which keep u in bondage. It is not about the number of partners but more about the quality of their energy.

[@JessicaRainer11]

I could listen to her talk all day. Her voice is so calming and sexy her demeanor is calm and sexy omg I want to be her friend. 😂 I thoroughly enjoyed this topic. I am married with one kid and I am trying to find what sex really means to me and how can I make it more pleasurable this has opened my eyes to take control of what I want sexually and to connect with myself more thank you for this

[@apreecemashae2589]

Wow this episode resonated with me so much. Thank you for your transparency.

[@arabella8439]

Some things can’t become commercialized or branded for good reason, you become the scientist to your own soul and body and start to experiment with that, to taste the untouchable it can’t manifest into forms that are tangible, it can’t become a trend, but a experiment within the deepest part of you

[@honeyxkay8321]

Tanerelle’s voiceeee 😍 omg

[@utubejazzgodess]

I love this woman ❤ jeez what a BEAUTY ❤

[@LikeDuhhUmOk]

Does anyone know who Tanerelle’s therapist is?

[@chudson9892]

Loved this conversation! Thank you!

[@ladyfaye9903]

Beautiful interview

[@tazinflamesable]

Talent in raw form

[@jaz6789]

Wow it’s hard to focus she distractingly beautiful

[@libbymarshae]

This was great! It was really great to see that you were able to get insight from people who are on your level/frequency. I was worried and wondered why you didn’t want sacred sex so much. Now, I see why and it makes so much sense. That turned me off too. That’s for them, not us. 😅 O would have given a review on the podcast a long time ago if I could just figure out how to do it from my iPhone. I don’t know why I can’t figure it out.

[@Rosemary_Lavender]

love this 💙💙 so informative it’s the confirmation for me

[@mirandakogucki]

I loved this episode so much!

[@Mr.CreamCheese69]

I kinda accidentaly discovered it's existence. Intense almost paralyzing butterflies from heat to toe, and an almost psychedelic experience

[@Sunflower7_]

Another phenomenal episode 🙏🏽✨💛🌻

[@amandabelony3055]

This and Sema’s episode ❤❤❤

[@KDH0408]

Good Good by Tanerelle is my GO TO song when I’m finna get freaky 😂❤️

[@FisherPrice82]

Shan I love you, I own two copies of your book and have been a fan for a while now. That being said I want to just give a little feedback of some patterns I've noticed that may help with this podcast and your journey as and interviewer. I feel that you can benefit from paying more attention to your guests body language. Youre a great listener but in this episode specifically you can see that Tanerelles is very closed off and almost to a point where it looks like she's uncomfortable at times. Its your responsibility as an interviewer to read the room and make the person youre intervening feel comfortable in order to have smooth conversation. Also you ask yes or no questions a majority of the time, making it difficult for your guest to share their story. Asking more questions starting with Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How might be helpful. Just one more thing I swear and this is out of love. Making time to state your opinion is important, but you tend to repeat statements that was just said back to your guests, while almost editing and overanalyzing what they had said as a response. Im not sure if this is a tactic in filling in time for the episode, but I think it can possibly rub some people the wrong way. If someone has said something that doesnt make sense to you I would simply reword your question while saying you didn't fully understand. Over narrating just aint it girl. Keep up the good work tho! Proud of you